The High Plains. The states of Kansas, Minnesota, Nebraska, North Dakota and South Dakota form Area Two, the high plains region of the country. Winters in these areas tend to be extremely cold (well below the freezing mark) and dry, particularly in the more northern areas of the region.
Good manners is about considering the feelings of other people, and being the kind of person that others will like and respect. In the 'olden days' children were taught about the Golden Rule - Always do to others as you would wish them to do to you if you were in their place..
If you want to be feminine, then you must have good manners at table and in all other aspects of your life. Manners mean not eating with your elbows on the table, greeting a person kindly even if you're having a bad day, not slouching or sneezing into your hands instead of a tissue and generally acting in a way that can serve as a model for others.