After an abortion you should wait 3-4 weeks until you have sex and you are highly fertile for a couple of months so protect yourself.
In brief, alexithymia is the inability to talk about feelings due to a lack of emotional awareness. Alexithymics are typically unable to identify, understand or describe their own emotions, and the construct of alexithymia refers to some of the chief manifestations of this deficit in emotional functioning. Alexithymia does not constitute a clinical disorder in its own right.
Alexithymia is not classified as a mental disorder in the DSM IV. It is a personality trait that varies in severity from person to person. Alexithymia is is defined by: ( 1 i) difficulty identifying feelings and distinguishing between feelings and the bodily sensations of emotional arousal. ( 2 ii) difficulty describing feelings to other people.