Following are common contract defenses: 1  Illegality: The agreement itself is illegal or violates public policy. 2  Unconscionability: The agreement is so one-sided that it shocks the conscience of the court. 3  Mental incapacity or incompetence: One of the parties had a mental illness or incapacity at the time of contract formation.
Page Contents: Introduction / The Rage from Feeling Abandoned / The Rage Continues / The Imaginary, the Real, and the Symbolic / To Heal the Rage / When Someone You Know Is BPD. 1  SYCHOANALYTIC writers tend to focus on identityâor, to be more precise, the lack of a stable identityâas the core of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). But in my experience, given what I know about identity (itâs all a fraudâa social illusion), the real core of BPD, and other personality problems with Borderline elements, is rage. Rage is a raw and primitive form of anger as a response to intellectual, physical, or emotional abandonment.
Where there is anger, there is pain underneath. Where there is anger, there is pain underneath. Everyone feels angry at different times and to varying degrees. Reactions can range from a mild irritation, to frustration, to rage.Feeling angry is normal. Anger is not the problem. Whatâs problematic is what we do with our anger that makes it a concern.