Most rites of passage are religious ceremonies. They not only mark the transition between an individual's life stages but they reinforce the dominant religious views and values of a culture. In other words, they reinforce the world-view. Marriage is an important rite of passage in all cultures.
After the Procedure. How long you stay in the hospital depends on the procedure. The average stay for open abdominal procedures is 5 to 8 days. You will go home sooner if you had laparoscopic surgery. The average stay for perineal surgery is 2 to 3 days.
IMPORTANT: DO NOT SIT ON YOUR BUTT FOR THREE WEEKS AFTER SURGERY Walk as soon as possible, this helps to reduce swelling and lowers the chance of blood clots. You may shower 48 hours after surgery. Do not drive until you are no longer taking narcotic pain medications. You will likely be able to resume most social and employment activities in 2-3 weeks. Do not sit directly on your butt for three weeks after surgery. You may sleep on your stomach or sides. Strenuous exercise and activities such as sports should be avoided for 4 weeks.