It is improper and illegal to ask whether an applicant is a member of a union. Questions concerning whether an applicant has friends or relatives working for the employer may be improper, if the employer gives a preference to such applicants.
October 09, 2012 12:00 AM. Tweet. A: My husband doesnât seem to be very interested in my pregnancy, he doesnât read the magazines or books that I ask him to, heâs reluctant to go to a childbirth class and I am worried that he might not bond with our baby.e sure to take time during pregnancy to enjoy your relationship and strengthen the bond that you have as a couple. Try not to worry about his lack of interest in the color of the nursery walls and rest assured that he is preparing to be a father in his own unique way.
Don't try to talk one another into spending time with couples either of you doesn't think you'd enjoy. You both need to be excited about the couple for this to work. Don't be discouraged if the first couple you ask can't make it. My husband and I have come up with a list of about 10 couples we really like. It's important to have more than one because it gives you variety when others' schedules are busy and they can't meet with you.