Figure out what is really causing the stress. Think of as many possible causes as you can, and write them down. Now brainstorm for solutions that will reduce the stress, and commit them to paper. A trusted friend, family member or school counselor may be able to offer some good ideas as well.
No. The most common reason for denying a grant is a donor's desire to use that grant for table sponsorship or event tickets. When you make your initial contribution to a donor-advised fund, your contribution is 100% tax deductible.
The donor may claim only a 300 USD deduction, because the amount contributed (375 USD) is reduced by the amount of the benefit that he received (75 USD, the fair market value of the ticket). This holds true even if the donor does not actually attend the dance. The taxable income of the donor is reduced by 300 USD.