Mahalo [Pronounced: mah hah' loh] If you learn just two words in Hawaiian, learn these. They are two of the most important words in the Hawaiian language, representing paramount Hawaiian values. In Hawaiian thinking, words have mana [pronounced: mah' nah], meaning spiritual or divine power], and aloha and mahalo are among the most sacred and powerful. Say them often as they can be life-transforming and -enhancing. Be careful to use them ONLY if you truly feel mahalo or aloha within.
Start casually and then build up to asking her out properly. Start off by complimenting her. For example; You could say I think you're really hot/ pretty, or get more specific, like, I've never seen eyes that blue!. If she seems to like being complimented, then you can move onto the next stage.. See if she makes physical contact with you. If she hugs you or seems to be touching you a lot, then this means that she is really into you. For example; When you sit next to her she leans into you, or she lightly brushes your arm/ back when speaking to you.
3. If it turns out that you both like each other, ask him out! If you find out that your guy friend likes you from one of his friends or from your guy friend himself and you know that you like him back, you have no reason not to ask him out. If your guy friend likes you but is too shy to ask you out, don't be afraid to completely ignore this outdated tradition! 2  There's no reason that you should wait to be happy until you're asked out in the proper way, especially when the proper way is a relic of an earlier, more formal time.