Mahalo [Pronounced: mah hah' loh] If you learn just two words in Hawaiian, learn these. They are two of the most important words in the Hawaiian language, representing paramount Hawaiian values. In Hawaiian thinking, words have mana [pronounced: mah' nah], meaning spiritual or divine power], and aloha and mahalo are among the most sacred and powerful. Say them often as they can be life-transforming and -enhancing. Be careful to use them ONLY if you truly feel mahalo or aloha within.
Start casually and then build up to asking her out properly. Start off by complimenting her. For example; You could say I think you're really hot/ pretty, or get more specific, like, I've never seen eyes that blue!. If she seems to like being complimented, then you can move onto the next stage.. See if she makes physical contact with you. If she hugs you or seems to be touching you a lot, then this means that she is really into you. For example; When you sit next to her she leans into you, or she lightly brushes your arm/ back when speaking to you.
you eluded to a good point which i m going to make which is that rejection shouldn t result in the worst of thoughts as to why the guy was rejected most times it s not his fault he didn t do a thing wrong but the problem or issue lies with the girl or the one who rejects opposed to the rejecteeen do face more rejection up front with approach with asking out because they often make the first move but once they get that girl to talk to them give them their email address or phone number go out with them sleep with them or fall for them they can reject these women at any time