Mahalo [Pronounced: mah hah' loh] If you learn just two words in Hawaiian, learn these. They are two of the most important words in the Hawaiian language, representing paramount Hawaiian values. In Hawaiian thinking, words have mana [pronounced: mah' nah], meaning spiritual or divine power], and aloha and mahalo are among the most sacred and powerful. Say them often as they can be life-transforming and -enhancing. Be careful to use them ONLY if you truly feel mahalo or aloha within.
Start casually and then build up to asking her out properly. Start off by complimenting her. For example; You could say I think you're really hot/ pretty, or get more specific, like, I've never seen eyes that blue!. If she seems to like being complimented, then you can move onto the next stage.. See if she makes physical contact with you. If she hugs you or seems to be touching you a lot, then this means that she is really into you. For example; When you sit next to her she leans into you, or she lightly brushes your arm/ back when speaking to you.
2. If you cannot decide, ask for a day or a class period to think about the offer. If the guy cannot respect that, maybe you shouldn't consider dating him at all. However, if he truly loves you and he respects your request, this action is another quality about him that you can consider. You could decline or you could take the chance and go out with him, but remember to make sure you choose an answer that makes you happy and that you won't regret later. 2  Do not go out with the guy just to appear cool or make you feel good about yourself.