I'm not really sure what the big to-do about the buttons is all about - i was able to slip the blouse on over my head without undoing any of them with no problems. yes the buttons are difficult, but unless you're breastfeeding, they shouldn't be a deal breaker! the blouse is exactly what i was expecting. so pretty, feminine and flattering. also, though it is a tiny bit sheer, i plan to wear it with a nude bra and no cami.