qqp question1: I love my girlfriend a lot, but for the last 3 years her weight has become stagnant. I want her weight to become normal. Her parents are forcing her to get married, but I want our marriage to start on a healthy note. Shall I ask her to get married to some other guy and come out of this relationship? question2: Five years ago my wife cheated on me, after 30 years married, and moved out to be with him. Divorced for 3.5 years. Why do I still love/want her, and how can I get over her?