qqp question1: Iam very frustrated with my husband habbits(smoking drinking and enjoying with friends)and attitude. what I must do to change him? question2: I had been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. For the last 2 months, we have been fighting a lot and I got very frustrated and irritated with him. During this time I got close to one of my friends and we started liking each other. What should I do?