qqp question1: If I take too long to think upon a problem or to answer a question, being afraid of mistakes, does that make me slower or retarded compared to others? question2: I like a guy who is sweet, cute and nice only one problem. I think he may be dating someone else, though I am not sure. I feel like he understands me and that he may like me too. Should I ask him if he is dating and confess to him? Or should I not take the chance?