qqp question1: I don't like girlfriend spending money on me. How do I stop her from wasting money on me? question2: Whenever things go wrong with my girlfriend I get depressed. Watching her spend time on Facebook while telling me she needs to study hurts. Is it too much on my part to expect her to just drop in a message once in a while when she's online? How do I stop myself from being depressed because of this?