qqp question1: I'm a 34 years old married to a woman. I had an affair for 12 years with my male friend who is also married to a woman and is gay/bi. He says he always felt guilty and now claims I made him gay. He wants nothing to do with me. I am really hurt as I am in love with him. What should I do - conversion therapy or take another male lover? question2: I'm in love with my best friend. I'm gay; he's straight. What should I do?