qqp question1: My boyfriend was acting weird. I invaded his privacy and went through his phone, and I found infidelity. Should I call her, tell him I know, or just say nothing? question2: "My boyfriend is a polyamorous. His friends call me ""manipulative"" and say that I ""don't let"" my boyfriend ""be himself"" because I told him that I preferred to be his only girlfriend. Can I ask him not to engage in relationships with other people or is it selfish?"