qqp question1: She wants me to be the dominant one in the relationship, which is new for me. How do I do that without being controlling? question2: A girl loves me but she is one of my close friends. She proposed to me. But she really is a nice friend whom I don't want to lose because she has been supportive to me as a good friend. I don't like her as my girlfriend. How do I reject her proposal nicely without losing her friendship?