qqp question1: Whenever I try to explain my feelings to my boyfriend he turns things around like he's the victim and won't listen to me? question2: Whenever he feels depressed, my boyfriend says he needs to be alone. Since we live miles away from each other, he stops talking to me on Facebook and stuff, and feeling him distant really makes me anxious. I start calling him and asking him what's wrong. How can I deal with that?