qqp question1: I married a girl but she was my parents choice. Another girl I would have loved to marry, my maternal uncles girl, is married to someone else. Afterwards, I feel I made the wrong decision and that's why I can't love my wife by heart. I am always in a dilemma. How do I get over this? question2: I am an adult and can never let my parents know I'm dating someone. Why do I get that feeling?