qnli question: Which psychiatrist said that when a parent dies when the child is young, it leaves a lasting impact? sentence: Conversely, author Lucy O'Brien feels the impact of the rape she suffered is, in fact, the motivating factor behind everything Madonna has done, more important even than the death of her mother: "It's not so much grief at her mother's death that drives her, as the sense of abandonment that left her unprotected.