qqp question1: How could I be a gentle boy because I harmed my girl friend badly not badly with some rubbish word that I did I break her but I am her first love? question2: There's a girl I like and I told her but she said she's not interested in all this. I want to talk to her, but I hesitate because I'm afraid I will fall in love with her, so I don't talk to her at all. Am I doing the right thing and how can I get over her?