qqp question1: A father with 8 children takes 3 at a time to zoo as often as he can wothout taking? question2: My boyfriend recently began working for himself. We've dated for 3.5 years (I'm 26, him 28). He will be gone for half the summer as he visits friends & family & works from the beach. I have a very successful career and can't take much time off. At what point is it not fair for me to wait on him?