qqp question1: Is anal sex harmful for health of both the partners? (male & female) question2: I'm getting to the end of my tether, my partner no longer wants sex and we've tried counselling without improvement. I feel desparate and can't see a way of making things better. I've contemplated medication to kill my need for sensual contact and looked at hypnotherapy. I'm male 42 and my partner is female 43, sex stopped (pretty much) about 2 and a half years ago once we'd been together for less than 6 months