qqp question1: My wife lied about domestic violence and had me arrested. I don't think I can ever trust her again. Should I get a divorce? question2: My wife's male coworker emailed her telling her she's beautiful and would do anything for her. Then I discovered they went for dinner when she told me she had been with another friend. My wife says to trust her. She lied because I'd react badly.  Should I email his wife or him and establish boundaries?