qqp question1: What is it like to be in your 30s or 40s as an American spending about half of the year in a colder climate such as NYC or Midwest & half of the year in a warmer climate such as Florida while raising children? question2: What is it like to be in your 30s or 40s as an American spending about half of the year in a colder climate such as NYC or Midwest and half of the year in a warmer climate such as Texas or Florida?