qqp question1: My wife looks at other men when I'm around, and it strikes me as disrespectful. Can't bring it up with her because she gets defensive/annoyed. How can I feel more content knowing that my wife is more physically attracted to other men than to me? question2: My girlfriend gets up earlier than me, closes both bedroom doors, and silently types away at her computer. The contents are password-protected. How can I determine if she's texting other men?