qqp question1: How can I save my marriage and get back my husband to love after his love affair but he left her for me and the kid? question2: My husband doesn't have a work-life balance. He is very workaholic and he has a goal, to set up a startup. He loves me and my kid a lot, but he spends only a little time with us. How do I motivate my husband to achieve his goal without impacting our personal life?