qqp question1: Would you prefer to be a man like Steve Jobs or a man who lived in Alaska with no responsibility or pride? question2: What life advice would you give to a wife who lives with a man who does not talk to her or anyone else in the family, lost his job 5 years ago, and doesn't talk to his children? She manages the household on her own. Is it okay for her to just be happy managing things and enjoying the kids?