qqp question1: Is it bad for a woman to initiate a handshake when interviewing with a male employer? Would it make me seem like I lack respect for his superiority? question2: Why didn't my ex apologize to me after I apologized to him for breaking up with him by text? Why did he act like he didn't play a part in our breakup when he showed a lack of respect for me by getting upset that I wouldn't return the favor and send him a nude picture?