qqp question1: My boyfriend says he has a bond with his ex, should I worry? question2: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 33 (almost 34). He has a bad relationship with his mother and has had a hard life, but he's sweet to me. However, he stonewalls and says he doesn't want to talk about 'emotional issues' after arguments. This hurts me. Doesn't he care? What should I do?