qqp question1: Is it morally okay to be in a relationship with somebody who puts 10 times more effort than me? I feel like betraying him for not loving me as much. question2: I've known this guy for almost 2 years. He's like a father figure to me. I had no sexual contact or emotional connection with him. He said his feelings developed over time. How do I deal with a person who says he/she loves me and I don't like him?