qqp question1: My husband bangs on things and breaks them during our fights. He has never hit me, though. He doesn't sort things through discussion. He also hurls abuses at me. Am I just waiting to be hit by him? Would that be his next step? question2: I admitted to a man I liked him, and heard later he liked me. He never told me. Why was he mad at me when he didn't make up his mind and I moved on?