qqp question1: I tend to joke around a lot. How can I be sure that I'm not doing it because I'm mostly trying to please others? question2: I have a huge crush on my classmate who is smart, funny and beautiful. We talk to each other frequently but recently, I found out that she likes drinking alcohol. I am not a drinker and normally that should bother me, considering I come from a religious family, but why do I still want to ask her out?