qqp question1: What's the best and polite way to make people understand that I'm not looking for boyfriend/husband/any kind of romantic relationship with a man? question2: "My husband and I have been waiting for one year to adopt in the U.S. We are ""hipster"" types of people because we are tattooed and we know that we would appeal to a certain type of expectant mother but not all. I'm a teacher and my husband is a musician. What creative ways can we meet a creative expectant mom?"