title: SQL Server - find all rows where MyCol does not have 3x '(' e.g. MyCol = '(1(2(3' is fine but find '(1(23'
body: <p>I need to find all rows where MyCol does not have 3 instances of '(' in.
  e.g. do not return the row where MyCol is '(101(2255(3355'
  but do return the row where MyCol is '(101(2255' or '(101(2255|3355' because it does not have 3 ( in MyCol</p>