title: Phpmailer delayed delivery
body: <p>Is it possible to somehow delay the messages sent with phpmailer?</p>
  
  <p>What i want to do is send an e-mail when a user performs a given action (e.g. an order) but don't deliver it yet because this might get the users attention and stop him from ordering.</p>
  
  <p>I know i could queue the e-mail in a database and then send it with a cronjob. But i don't want this because i don't think this is the best solution. In my opinion the best solution would be to send the e-mail to the smtp server (or local mailhandler) and let them handle the delay.</p>