title: "max allowed size 128000 bytes" reached when there are a lot of publisher/subscribers
body: <p>Im using distributed pub/sub in an Akka.net cluster and I've begun seeing this error when pub/sub grows to approx. 1000 subscribers and 3000 publishers.</p>
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  <p>max allowed size 128000 bytes, actual size of encoded  Akka.Cluster.Tools.PublishSubscribe.Internal.Delta was 325691 bytes</p>
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  <p>I don't know, but I'm guessing distributed pub/sub is trying to pass the pub/sub list to other actor systems on the cluster?</p>
  <p>Anyway, I'm a little hesitant about boosting size limits because of <a href="https://petabridge.com/blog/large-messages-and-sockets-in-akkadotnet/" rel="nofollow noreferrer">this post</a>. So what would be a reasonable approach to correcting this?</p>