title: Set service dependencies after install
body: <p>I have an application that runs as a Windows service.  It stores various things settings in a database that are looked up when the service starts.  I built the service to support various types of databases (SQL Server, Oracle, MySQL, etc).  Often times end users choose to configure the software to use SQL Server (they can simply modify a config file with the connection string and restart the service).  The problem is that when their machine boots up, often times SQL Server is started after my service so my service errors out on start up because it can't connect to the database.  I know that I can specify dependencies for my service to help guide the Windows service manager to start the appropriate services before mine.  However, I don't know what services to depend upon at install time (when my service is registered) since the user can change databases later on.</p>
  
  <p>So my question is: is there a way for the user to manually indicate the service dependencies based on the database that they are using?  If not, what is the proper design approach that I should be taking?  I've thought about trying to do something like wait 30 seconds after my service starts up before connecting to the database but this seems really flaky for various reasons.  I've also considered trying to "lazily" connect to the database; the problem is that I need a connection immediately upon start up since the database contains various pieces of vital info that my service needs when it first starts.  Any ideas?</p>