title: Jabber-net integration
body: <p>I'd like to ask your help regarding having a Google Talk Bot that will communicate with my code on my server.</p>
  
  <p>I have downloaded Jabber-Net from code.google.com, but the examples there are not enough... I am new to these technologies, and have no clue about:</p>
  
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  <li>How will client arrive to my server? where should I change [if any] DNS to my server?</li>
  <li>Which server side library should I use?</li>
  <li>From the examples I understood that I need to have a Desktop-app running in the background constantly, which doesn't make sense to me.</li>
  </ol>
  
  <p>Does anyone has an example of some better references to understand this better?
  [Sorry for my ignorance...]</p>