title: Laravel eloquent with Trashed on relationship
body: <p>I need to be able to get a Models Relationship including its soft deleted elements, but only for this 1 instance. I do not want to change the model so that every time I use the relationship it returns all the soft deleted records too.</p>
  
  <p>How can I achieve this?</p>
  
  <p><strong>User Model</strong></p>
  
  <pre><code>class User extends Authenticatable
  {
    public function contacts(){
      return $this-&gt;hasMany('App\Contacts','user_id','id');
    }
  }
  </code></pre>
  
  <p><strong>Controller</strong></p>
  
  <pre><code>$user = User::findOrFail($id);
  //Need to be able to get the trashed contacts too, but only for this instance and in this function
  $user-&gt;contacts-&gt;withTrashed(); //Something like this
  return $user;
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>How can I get the trashed rows only this 1 time inside my controller?</p>
  
  <p>Thanks</p>