title: Delphi TDBGrid How to change selected color when style is gdsGradient
body: <p>I'm just trying to use delphi XE, before that I've been a big fan of Delphi7.<br>
  I see the new dbgrid allows to use themed and gradient styles.  </p>
  
  <p>I'm using gradient and set rowselect, it has a property for gradient-start and -end for the column header.<br>
  But where is the property to set the <code>selected color</code> ?<br>
  It's strange because the color doesn't match, <code>selected color</code> is always a blue gradient.  </p>
  
  <p>I can do it with <code>customdraw</code>, I just want to know if there is anyway to change it without custom drawing.</p>