title: erlang node not responding
body: <p>I received such message in erlang condose at first@localhost node</p>
  
  <pre><code>=ERROR REPORT==== 1-Jan-2011::23:19:28 ===
  ** Node 'second@localhost' not responding **
  ** Removing (timedout) connection **
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>My question is - what is timeout in this case? How much time before causes this event?
  Howto prevent this "horror"? I can restore\recover to normal work only by restart node...
  But what is the right way?</p>
  
  <p>Thank you, and Happy New Year!</p>