title: getting a error message from my php
body: <p>I have created a page on my site with the surfix .php {after taking a crash course in php}
  and I am getting this error message:</p>
  
  <blockquote>
    <p>Warning: include(): http:// wrapper is disabled in the server
    configuration by allow_url_include=0 in
    /home/u259153114/public_html/php_site/about.php on line 12 Warning:
    include(<a href="http://musiccafefriends.neq3.com/php_site/header.php" rel="nofollow">http://musiccafefriends.neq3.com/php_site/header.php</a>): failed
    to open stream: no suitable wrapper could be found in
    /home/u259153114/public_html/php_site/about.php on line 12 Warning:
    include(): Failed opening
    '<a href="http://musiccafefriends.neq3.com/php_site/header.php" rel="nofollow">http://musiccafefriends.neq3.com/php_site/header.php</a>' for inclusion
    (include_path='.:/usr/lib/php') in
    /home/u259153114/public_html/php_site/about.php on line 12 Warning:
    include(/php_site/includes/nav.php): failed to open stream: No such
    file or directory in /home/u259153114/public_html/php_site/about.php
    on line 13 Warning: include(): Failed opening
    '/php_site/includes/nav.php' for inclusion
    (include_path='.:/usr/lib/php') in
    /home/u259153114/public_html/php_site/about.php on line 13</p>
  </blockquote>
  
  <p>so now what I done wrong I love web design and learning new things but this is stressing me out now lol yes I can see it is saying there that these files or directories do not exist but trust me they do all directories and files are in there it seems to me that for some reason the neq3 server is blocking my coding any ideas</p>