title: change menu bar background color
body: <p>I tried SetMenuInfo with MIM_BACKGROUND, but it doesn't work. I found it is because the Visual Style is enabled. But I don't want to disable the Visual Style by SetWindowTheme(hwndMain, L"", L"") becauuse it will change the appearance of the title bar and border...etc.</p>
  
  <p>Is there any way to change, and only change the background color of the menu bar, without disalbe Visual Style of the main window. By "only change", I also mean that I don't have to draw the menu items myself, like I can use custom draw for change only the background color of toolbar, tab...etc. (But I can find custom draw for menu bar!).</p>