title: How to store many-to-many relationships in MongoDB
body: <p>I think its fair to say I'm pretty new to MongoDB having just installed the database this afternoon.</p>
  
  <p>I'm managing to get to grips with storing and retrieving objects but am struggling to find the best way of storing objects that have a many-to-many relationship.</p>
  
  <p>I've already come accross the DBRef object and have got that working but this seems to only support a lazy loaded approach.</p>
  
  <p>Is there a way to encourage MongoDB to eagerly load DBRefs?<br />
  Is there a better/different way to store the many-to-many relationship?</p>
  
  <p>Many thanks</p>
  
  <p>Rob</p>