title: Recommended gem versions and configurations for site5? I'm getting memory errors
body: <p>As far as I can tell, I've got my gems set up appropriately to run on Ruby 1.8.7 p370.  I've followed the site's instructions to get the site running on phusion passenger. That's the required version on site5.  I've tried downgrading rails but activerecord-mysql-adaptor needs rails 3.2+ so I'm reluctant to drop past that. I'm not sure this is the problem so I'm hoping someone has encountered it.  Thanks.</p>
  
  <p>I'm getting the following error:</p>
  
  <pre><code>Cannot allocate memory -- /home/visualha/public_html/vendor/bundle/ruby/1.8/gems/activerecord-3.2.9/lib/active_record/integration.rb
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>Here's my gemlist:</p>
  
  <pre><code>abstract (1.0.0)
  actionmailer (3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3, 2.3.8)
  actionpack (3.2.13, 3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3, 2.3.8)
  activemodel (3.2.13, 3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3)
  activerecord (3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3, 2.3.8)
  activerecord-mysql-adapter (0.0.1)
  activeresource (3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3, 2.3.8)
  activesupport (3.2.13, 3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3, 2.3.8)
  acts-as-taggable-on (2.3.3)
  adauth (1.2.1)
  arel (3.0.2, 2.0.6)
  bcrypt-ruby (3.0.0)
  bootstrap-sass (2.3.1.0, 2.3.0.1)
  builder (3.0.4, 3.0.0, 2.1.2)
  bundler (1.2.1, 1.1.0, 1.0.7)
  capistrano (2.11.2, 2.5.19)
  capybara (2.0.2)
  carrierwave (0.8.0)
  cgi_multipart_eof_fix (2.5.0)
  childprocess (0.3.8)
  chronic (0.6.7, 0.6.6)
  coffee-rails (3.2.2)
  coffee-script (2.2.0)
  coffee-script-source (1.6.2, 1.4.0)
  commonjs (0.2.6)
  cucumber (1.2.1)
  cucumber-rails (1.3.0)
  daemon_controller (1.0.0, 0.2.6)
  daemons (1.1.8, 1.1.0)
  diff-lcs (1.2.3, 1.1.3)
  erubis (2.7.0, 2.6.6)
  execjs (1.4.0)
  faraday (0.8.4)
  faraday_middleware (0.8.8)
  fastthread (1.0.7)
  fcgi (0.8.8)
  ferret (0.11.8.4, 0.11.6)
  ffi (1.4.0)
  flvtool2 (1.0.6)
  formtastic (2.2.1)
  formtastic-bootstrap (2.0.0)
  gem_plugin (0.2.3)
  gherkin (2.11.6)
  highline (1.6.11, 1.6.1)
  hike (1.2.2, 1.2.1)
  hoe (3.5.3, 3.5.0)
  hoe-bundler (1.2.0)
  hoe-debugging (1.1.1)
  hoe-gemspec (1.0.0)
  hoe-git (1.5.0)
  i18n (0.6.4, 0.6.0, 0.5.0)
  id3lib-ruby (0.6.0)
  journey (1.0.4, 1.0.3)
  jquery-rails (2.2.1)
  json (1.7.7, 1.7.5, 1.6.6, 1.6.5)
  kaminari (0.14.1)
  less (2.3.1, 2.2.2)
  less-rails (2.3.2, 2.2.6)
  libv8 (3.11.8.17 x86_64-linux, 3.11.8.13 x86_64-linux)
  lumberg (1.0.1, 1.0.0)
  mail (2.4.4, 2.4.3, 2.2.14)
  mime-types (1.22, 1.21, 1.17.2, 1.16)
  mini_portile (0.5.0)
  minitest (4.7.1, 4.6.1)
  mongrel (1.1.5)
  multi_json (1.7.2, 1.6.1, 1.1.0)
  multipart-post (1.1.5)
  mysql (2.9.1, 2.8.1)
  mysql2 (0.3.11)
  net-ldap (0.3.1)
  net-scp (1.0.4)
  net-sftp (2.0.5)
  net-ssh (2.3.0, 2.0.23)
  net-ssh-gateway (1.1.0, 1.0.1)
  nokogiri (1.5.9, 1.5.6, 1.5.2)
  passenger (3.0.11, 3.0.9, 2.2.15)
  polyglot (0.3.3, 0.3.1)
  puma (1.4.0)
  racc (1.4.9)
  rack (1.4.5, 1.4.1, 1.2.1, 1.1.0)
  rack-cache (1.2)
  rack-mount (0.8.3, 0.6.13)
  rack-ssl (1.3.3, 1.3.2)
  rack-test (0.6.2, 0.6.1, 0.5.7)
  rails (3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3, 2.3.8)
  railties (3.2.12, 3.2.11, 3.2.9, 3.2.2, 3.0.3)
  rake (10.0.4, 10.0.3, 0.9.2.2, 0.8.7)
  rake-compiler (0.8.3)
  rdoc (3.12.2, 3.12.1, 3.12)
  ref (1.0.4, 1.0.2)
  rexical (1.0.5)
  rmagick (2.13.2)
  rspec-core (2.13.1, 2.12.2)
  rspec-expectations (2.13.0, 2.12.1)
  rspec-mocks (2.13.1, 2.12.2)
  rspec-rails (2.13.0, 2.12.2)
  rubygems-update (2.0.3, 1.8.18, 1.6.2, 1.4.1)
  rubyzip (0.9.9)
  sass (3.2.7, 3.2.6)
  sass-rails (3.2.6)
  selenium-webdriver (2.30.0)
  sprockets (2.2.2, 2.1.2)
  sqlite3-ruby (1.3.2, 1.2.5)
  therubyracer (0.11.4, 0.8.2)
  thor (0.18.1, 0.17.0, 0.14.6)
  tilt (1.3.7, 1.3.3)
  tissue (1.0.3, 1.0.2, 1.0.1, 1.0.0)
  treetop (1.4.12, 1.4.10, 1.4.9)
  trollop (2.0, 1.16.2)
  twitter-bootstrap-rails (2.2.6, 2.2.5)
  tzinfo (0.3.37, 0.3.35, 0.3.32, 0.3.23)
  uglifier (2.0.1, 1.3.0)
  validates_existence (0.8.0)
  webrat (0.7.3)
  websocket (1.0.7)
  xpath (2.0.0, 1.0.0)
  yaml_db (0.2.3)
  </code></pre>