title: How to get back the focus to my application automatically
body: <p>I am setting up a simple 'boot menu' for my app, where the (experienced) user can check or uncheck various run options. The boot menu is a simple borderless form shown modally and with</p>
  
  <ul>
  <li><strong>Quit</strong> button</li>
  <li><strong>Continue</strong> button, as well as</li>
  <li><em>boot options</em> checkboxes</li>
  </ul>
  
  <p>I display this boot option dialog as I am starting my app if the user is holding the F8 key - I've discovered that Windows does not use F8, so you can actually hold down F8 while clicking on a shortcut to my exe and my boot dialog opens. Herein lies the probem. </p>
  
  <p>My form does not become the active application - rather the Explorer window hosting the shortcut that I clicked on does. If I click on my form (boot dialog) it gets the focus. How can I make my boot dialog form 'pull' Windows into focusing it?</p>