title: How to edit video player props in React Native Video using ref
body: <p>I am using react-native-video. I am trying to change the props for each video onPress, which are in a FlatList of videos.  So if I use state it will change all the video props in the entire FlatList, whereas I only want to change the one.</p>
  
  <p>I created: <code>const videoPlayer = []</code> and added a ref in each Video player like: <code>ref={r =&gt; videoPlayer[item.id] = r}</code>, and I know I can do <code>videoPlayer[item.id].presentFullscreenPlayer()</code> to play the video in fullscreen because it is a method of the player, but what about controlling other properties like <code>resizeMode</code> and <code>paused</code>?</p>
  
  <p>I have tried <code>videoPlayer[item.id].props.paused = false</code>, but that has no effect. I also imagine I can create some sort of complex object in state, but then the entire list will update every time I change a property and that may cause slow running refreshes in a big list.</p>
  
  <p>So, is there I way I can control props of each video like I explained?</p>