```xml
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?>
<ns3:query_definition xmlns:ns2="http://www.i2b2.org/xsd/cell/crc/psm/1.1/" xmlns:ns4="http://www.i2b2.org/xsd/cell/crc/psm/analysisdefinition/1.1/" xmlns:ns3="http://www.i2b2.org/xsd/cell/crc/psm/querydefinition/1.1/">
    <query_name>Female-Male@20:08:06</query_name>
    <query_timing>ANY</query_timing>
    <specificity_scale>0</specificity_scale>
    <panel>
        <panel_number>1</panel_number>
        <panel_timing>ANY</panel_timing>
        <panel_accuracy_scale>100</panel_accuracy_scale>
        <invert>0</invert>
        <total_item_occurrences>1</total_item_occurrences>
        <item>
            <hlevel>3</hlevel>
            <item_name>Female</item_name>
            <item_key>\\i2b2_DEMO\i2b2\Demographics\Gender\Female\</item_key>
            <item_icon>LA</item_icon>
            <tooltip>Demographic \ Gender \ Female</tooltip>
            <class>ENC</class>
            <item_is_synonym>false</item_is_synonym>
        </item>
        <item>
            <hlevel>3</hlevel>
            <item_name>Married</item_name>
            <item_key>\\i2b2_DEMO\i2b2\Demographics\Marital Status\Married\</item_key>
            <item_icon>MA</item_icon>
            <tooltip>Demographic \ Marital Status \ Married</tooltip>
            <class>ENC</class>
            <item_is_synonym>false</item_is_synonym>
        </item>
        <item>
            <hlevel>2</hlevel>
            <item_name>Mental Disorders</item_name>
            <item_key>\\i2b2_DIAG\i2b2\Diagnoses\Mental Disorders (290-319)\</item_key>
            <item_icon>FA</item_icon>
            <tooltip>Diagnoses \ Mental Disorders</tooltip>
            <class>ENC</class>
            <item_is_synonym>false</item_is_synonym>
        </item>
    </panel>
    <panel>
        <panel_number>2</panel_number>
        <panel_timing>ANY</panel_timing>
        <panel_accuracy_scale>100</panel_accuracy_scale>
        <invert>0</invert>
        <total_item_occurrences>1</total_item_occurrences>
        <item>
            <hlevel>3</hlevel>
            <item_name>Male</item_name>
            <item_key>\\i2b2_DEMO\i2b2\Demographics\Gender\Male\</item_key>
            <item_icon>LA</item_icon>
            <tooltip>Demographic \ Gender \ Male</tooltip>
            <class>ENC</class>
            <item_is_synonym>false</item_is_synonym>
        </item>
        <item>
            <hlevel>3</hlevel>
            <item_name>Married</item_name>
            <item_key>\\i2b2_DEMO\i2b2\Demographics\Marital Status\Married\</item_key>
            <item_icon>MA</item_icon>
            <tooltip>Demographic \ Marital Status \ Married</tooltip>
            <class>ENC</class>
            <item_is_synonym>false</item_is_synonym>
        </item>
        <item>
            <hlevel>2</hlevel>
            <item_name>Mental Disorders</item_name>
            <item_key>\\i2b2_DIAG\i2b2\Diagnoses\Mental Disorders (290-319)\</item_key>
            <item_icon>FA</item_icon>
            <tooltip>Diagnoses \ Mental Disorders</tooltip>
            <class>ENC</class>
            <item_is_synonym>false</item_is_synonym>
        </item>
    </panel>
</ns3:query_definition>

```

I want to find all female patients who have been diagnosed with mental disorders and are married, as well as all male patients who have been diagnosed with mental disorders and are married.