and then of course the ladies at the church would love to be our caterers for the banquet and we’ll get the youth group to serve us. i was thinking that your friend’s band could be our entertainment for the night. though they might have to tone it down a bit. or we could hire a dj. your sister’s husband could get us a discount with that company that does the decor at weddings. what’s their name again? i was thinking that we could have an island paradise-themed wedding and our theme color would be a soothing blue like aquamarine. and there will be a huge seashell on the wall behind the podium where we’ll make our toasts! what do you think of small packages of drink mixes for our wedding favors? who else am i missing? oh, your uncle could be our florist and his wife could make our wedding cake!