you know evaporated that's we will feel one babe, which I doubt to to be honest I don't think that will happen lah I mean, ya [kan], they even even


ya, ya


at that point of time I was I I understood I understood why sarah, got pissed off about what happened you know what happened right sort of, ish, ya


Tini, no to Tini to Tini so, no so it's not that


meeting Tini was just like a coincidence thing cause she dia dia kerja dekat the hostel kat mana ni clarke quay then I was working kat lima [pe], on that day, so I I know that Tini has been like a bit emoish on her facebook and what not so I'm like eh babe come ah lepak ah like


ah apa ni aku habis kerja pukul lima like we can just like hang out eh no that time habis kerja siang two or three so we just smoke like by the side of like Haji lane and then she just goes on and on about what had happened in Bali when me and Azmi left so when me and Azmi was there and we asked her face to face even


jas was there with us tak ada apa-apa lah no lah nothing dia tidur bawah aku tidur atas that kind of thing so we went back to singapore cause like sarah was heads head over heels like macam [orh] this jas guy is nice memang he he he is a very lepak guy to hang out and all that and then we told her babe


I think he's just being a gentleman I think he really got nothing with Tini cause we asked Tini face to face so all these while when Tini like when we when me and her hung out ah like she like oh dekat Bali this happened and then he give me all these


and I was like fuck like, this is not, at the same time yes, correct so so so


this fucking dia dia lupa [pe] [sial] kita like in a group ya correct then like she just keeps on talking and talking and talking like all the way until back to my house I was just I I I I swear to god I just diam I just cause she she


ah she was just basically macam member lah eh jas gini gini gini I don't know I have ah macam you know commitment issues Tini like of course lah [kan] dia dengan dia punya commitment issue blah blah blah and then you know ah this happen and then she's like oh jas told me dia pergi lepak dengan kawan dia after the tipsy cow and I knew that was not was happening cause I knew that jas went back with sarah !hey! cause dia lupa sia correct then I


at at some point Tini said this sentence jas cakap dengan aku macam uh I never felt like this for a girl before dia cakap gitu that that didn't happen just last weekend like at tipsy cow right


like he said a different thing so I couldn't and I just babe okay I can't take it anymore I told Tini, this is what's happening with him and sarah and then Tini just went full on bitch mode and that was what happened that night he wanted to follow she wanted to talk to sarah hari tu juga dia nak berbual dengan sarah babe


pizza, so sarah


no she and I and I told Tini Tini, I don't think it's okay for you to come not like this we don't talk to sarah now cause it's just not gonna happen like we are gonna go out tak apa tak apa tak apa boleh berbual lah dia cakap gitu then at at some point I told sarah sarah


this Tini and then sarah went ballistic already ah cause you know she she on her side she knew what happened already also somehow I can't remember, no no she don't know no, cause what me and Azmi told her was that actually jas and tini tak ada apa-apa but when we were there memang they really like


ya jas dengan tini and then when we left back when me and Azmi left first then they stay in Bali apparently something happened and jas is just telling bullshit to her lah


ah so dia masih dia dia fikir dia casanova this guy sana like that so , err dia salahkan jas but she wanted to like talk to sarah and like what the fuck is going on like that ya so ah ya then then that night happened and


no Tini didn't want to talk what, it was very awkward, that's the thing I don't know I think when we came down I don't know maybe cause oh maybe cause in the taxi I told her babe actually right no one wants you there I say like it's it's really not a good time cause we want to hang out five of us


ya then I'm like kau nak pergi berbual dengan sarah buat apa kau pergilah berbual dengan jas I say like that dia yang buat problem [pe] like I was so angry, ya and then that was another awkwardness so sarah got pissed at me cause she thought I was badmouthing about her to Tini which was not the case at all so when I had a one on one talk with err sarah I think like one or two weeks later it was just me and her at and dekat rumah dia dekat yang Percil tu ah we we lepak we hung out


and I told her like I feel like this is something that we should talk about so sarah made it clear that she felt like it wasn't in my place to ah she she said that, ah I am what was the word she used macam berbual belakang dia ah like talking about her like that then I said no that was not the case this was what happened and my intention was not to stir up shit or talk about you behind her back and she felt like that cause before that there was the whole


err bash thing, about what happened with them yes so these two things she thought like aku rattle mouth but the first one also then I said I understand what you're feeling about like the bash but really my intention at that point of time


you can you you can ask Azmi you can ask Nisa or whoever was there at your birthday lah that was your birthday right my intention was really eh sarah this this happened to sarah okay sekarang like how like what we gonna do about this like how can we help her


ah macam #lan jiao wei# pasal dia babe I I told and I look at her in the eyes, I I I don't think I have a single bone in me to do that to a friend and I'm not like that I am not rattle rattle no it's just at that point of time this was but I understand where you're coming from it could have been in better circumstances maybe you could ah tell it to us first before you know but at that point of time


I just wanted to help you and she said she didn't she didn't need help I'm like okay so from the conversation ah what I macam ah what I ah take from it is that ah sarah and sarah is dia always takut err she put put this image of herself that's not nice I feel lah this is just my personal


macam how to say eh macam , no no no like macam dia jaga conduct, like like her way her her image is dia nak kena jaga conduct she don't like people talking about her cause I don't know maybe she has her own demons or anxiety and all that right so she correct no one ah ah I totally understand like I'm her friend babe I fucking love her you know like I will not do that and I


so I I I I I went back home and not nangis to Azmi but macam I felt so I felt guilty of course that she felt like that right how can I not babe you know but then at the same time I told Azmi that I I I I know this is my niat but sometimes kadang-kadang niat baik but you know it it just people will not understand or to to that someone it's how they see it


I cannot force them to mould them and change how they think about me right correct correct so from like, from then onwards I I macam I ah back off sort a little bit to really


talk about the the our depths of you know what we feel with with


that she both are being played so jas is just a fucking asshole just it, yes and even sarah ya ya correct


ya ya correct cause correct Tini told me ya sorry Tini Tini told me that macam I've I don't open up to guys one like I've had this issues for years correct and when she she that's why she senyap this is the reason why she's being very quiet so this this all adds on to it and


like I I get where she's coming from as well but then like that day she didn't turn up for the the birthday thing the the the Laksa thing we were having I was pissed off lah I feel like macam you put it out there like people are get you trying to get to you macam nak buat [sial] kat kau you know but


ya you you actually have a group of people who genuinely cares for you who will tell you as it is who will not, fuck you up who would not do shit behind your back who still eh jom ah lepak even though for months you been MIA eh come ah we pick for you freaking put her name on a cake babe no no thank you no sorry no what sort like


Nisa did Nisa did, eh Nisa did and then I I put also eh Tini we miss you ah we miss you then cut the cake for you I said that what, ya so that that was the whole thing and I I I don't babe I don't


I I will never do things like that, ah no I will never I I I will not it it is never my my macam my intentions to ah


hurt, ya


ya right ya, so ya lah, then that that was what happened so hope that ya that that exactly we don't I don't come to you and like only only now one year later then we like you know, but ya so that that thing with sarah I felt that there was a little bit of a shift


I cannot just force someone to like trust or ya ya no she trusts me she trusts me is just in terms of


ah hati dia like she wants to jaga her feelings blah blah blah so I which I I, ya which I I which I respect really I I cannot force her to, eh bilang aku bilang aku you know


ya, ya actually normal, ya that's true


ya, of course, ya, ya, you know you talk about all these cliche romantic things like till till death do us part in sickness and in health and all this bullshit it's not bullshit really like it's not it just doesn't apply to a marriage or a boyfriend girlfriend and like


friends if you don't fight then something is not right that means you're just saying things to the other person you know you need to gaduh ya and any relationship will have that macam you know macam ah ah apa err what what's that word ah friction exactly right and then it's how you talk about how it is after that how that person react


you know like how you you you take it you know whether you you make it big or things like that but I feel like is is is it's it's inevitable to gaduh in any relationship


ya it's not like there's no point of time where apa aku cakap too much then you don't tell me there are times like that vice versa you know it's like, even even with Nisa sometimes you know like ah I'm not comfortable ah talking about it like good then I'm like great Nisa thank you like no I respect that


ya, it's an asian thing also ah


ya wait I, ya I think we need to learn more to just be unapologetically have boundaries, you know like no lah ya, like you lah kita nak main game tak nak main ah jangan banyak cakap


can you just put the cards at you, three seconds


not having it ah no I think, I would have loved to be in that room


, oh no


ya he knows he knows he's he he he supposed to come by I don't know where he is I told him to put adrian to sleep at eight thirty then leave him and come here but I think I don't know maybe he he fell asleep, ya ya ya


oh that's Azmi oh there he is,


no I think he's macam [sial], okay let's do it ya


ya, ya babe ginger babe, why why kenapa like why are you so macam anti natural things, ah macam ginger ke balms


do you have ginger


ah right ya, ya, oh ya


err your mum masak or [orh], ah ah lah national day #nasi briyani#


right, I'm celebrating national day


ya with the times and all that ya, ya


got air con, ah dia orang nak pergi perang nak kena ada aircon juga sia kita singaporeans [siol] ah count on me singapore , ya ya ya


, hi,


ya cause ah they did it at Padang then Whampoa is near Padang, so I heard, ah then my mum like eh pergi buka TV tunjuk kat adrian fireworks then I tried to switch on my TV it wasn't there, cause I was using the set-up box it was loading like so long


cause it's a live video right so I go to youtube try to find it pun tak ada so I played the two thousand nineteen one adrian firework, ya, it's uneventful my my my err national day was uneventful also think I just laid in bed then malam like Azmi Azmi go off to work


not much, ya national day , oh ya eh we you were supposed we were supposed to tackle the questions suddenly you talk about national day


okay let's let's do the question, (ppc)


I know one ah what is your most eventful makan experience ah, I can't think of one too I'm trying to


right ya ya ya


right like for me right like right off my head I met Nafiz, right and then we went to saffron at tampines they are very famous for their Prata it's actually their sambal lah


, right, and it was the best


like you know like !wow!


and then I added two more Prata which was err plaster cheese, and you put the sambal onto the runny yellow and I was like concentrating don't break don't break don't you dare break and I put it in my mouth


and then I'm like, this is the best meal I've ever had in my life, saffron ah and then the fact that it's at night like with the ambience and and the


but that was one of the, best meal I ever had, it's just a eight ninety meal but the Prata the Prata expensive sia lagi-lagi saffron


ya, no no no Tampines, tampines, maybe one day we just go there so that you can try the Prata


ya lah, is it is it is it eighty eight or eight, oh ya ya ya


oh they they ya ya ya ya ya I think right now they are doing some revamp of the bus routes and some bus seven hundred I think they took out seven hundred, right the transit the transit one ya


no no no it's been around for like I think a few years already but it's a new err ya new provider


correct ya, ya, ya like forty minutes I think but still ya, that that one is ya ya ya actually #toa payoh# there's a lot of buses that go


Tampines north east side Bedok ya


actually you could have taken a train alighted at alight at #ang mo kio#, oh you talking about bird park right sorry sorry ya ya ya I'm thinking zoo


#ang mo kio# and then take that that bus, yes


ya, ya ya ya, I'm I I, ya,


did they give you a direct email, ah


right, ,


, ya


ya, , like null, ya, correct, ya


correct, ya


it's not something new lah actually


ya, it should be a new tagline not having it, like shut up


I I I hate it, yup, it's painful like crazy,


ya, no ya we went to the zoo bird park bus number eleven to Tampines okay, ya, err next question what was it


or if we don't have talking about work, so the question, err if you don't have to work like what ya, this one your favourite topic you're good at topic like this, go


actually it's very funny I was cause last weekend we were talking about kalau kita dah tua like duduk mana like you know and we just lepak somewhere where you know there's the sea or something you know I was I was it's just funny I was just thinking about this if really like money is


thyme tanam apa err daun bawang lah apa lah you know shit like that and then I will learn it on youtube cause like hello everything is on youtube so it's everywhere exactly ya there's facebook groups you can just join and like eh apa pasal aku punya aku punya daun ni macam senget tepi or something like that you know like


I I I think I I probably do that, and then I will just I would probably I I picture myself like okay if let's say kat indonesia ke malaysia right


even teach basic how to use social media, ya ya right you can you can use social media actually to sell your things you know there's instagram shopping there's facebook shopping, I would like the you know the younger generations why old people if they want to I I see myself


sapu then like err eh jom ah so time to go teach english or you know


, something that we've always wanted to do ya, ya but also it's difficult to jaga ant


you remember his his name he's, he's so beautiful


I, not okay, I can just picture is is this okay to it's okay lah let them like, , I can I can just imagine on bed on bed right


he will just macam the kind of macam romeo, right his face is so fuck want that guy


and the way he looks at you, when he talks so passionately about about these little ants no he looks at you in the eye into your soul like, I'm telling you about this ants right


fuck man that ryan, ya they were all good lah


oh right, I don't remember any other person except ryan, and he knows that everyone is just like smitten by him you can just see it, I think he knows leh


we think he knows, !haiya! my god that beautiful thing eh the thing is the the ant museum thing [dah] like


I found zack the guy that owns he's I feel is hot too, cause last time he #ah beng# then like have a dark past and then he found an ant and then like the way again detox


ya be like those kind of guys like last time last time ah what Matrep #ah beng# kind and then turn their lives around ah those kind of guys, juggle a woman yup


fuck man that zack okay lah not that


okay fair, I what did I use to steal, err, actually no you know what babe my secondary school life it was just the fuckery of sex ah


Pangkeng Pangkeng balik rumah uncle Pangkeng, save lima dollar lima dollar weekend Pangkeng ah, I don't know it's this


no no no Pangkeng is, ah Pangkeng is go to hotel cheap hotel and fuck, or you naik rumah uncle ah


ah rumah uncle balik rumah uncle rumah uncle, and I used that, Pangkeng ah


, is it singlish no I don't think so it's a malay slang ah, or like another Matrep err slang ah aku kicap kau eh gua kicap sama lu


, ya, , I know I use to find it so hilarious


and like this I remember this guy I don't know how I I found him where I found him, but err we we wrote letters to each other right cause dulu tak ada tak ada social media


this was like secondary school and he gave me his phone numbers and then we talk on the phone so we've been talking on the phone, and then suddenly some girl, err, apparently that he was dating was not happy that I was talking to him


and he oh my god we so Minahrep babe and she talk to me on the phone one time she answered the phone call and talk to me and she was like, err like, you know asal kau berbual dengan dia ni ah


this stupid girl that I was like I'm like


and then ah she like kita budak Marsiling ah cause last time I stay with my with my auntie ah in in woodlands vista point area then budak kita budak Marsiling ah, then in my head in this secondary one two tak nak ah Marsiling tapi kita tinggal woodland jauh [seh] dengan Marsiling


but Marsiling got port there what Marsiling is, they even until now is notorious man when I was working with real life stories right, cause the borders is just right beside that that rental flat, there is this yes so you can actually see the the sea


the border, that that ya that that there's a causeway so apparently all these people taking drugs or trying to get in to singapore in and out illegally, it's there so if you if you like that time when I went to see one of my clients there lah err


I jalan and everyone that is that that like under the block and all that [kan] dia macam you can see from their face macam ni budak ni bukan dari sini so they will like try to see how you dress, got one guy go down tangga saw me, and then dia macam stop in the middle of tangga then I'm like uh turun [jer] lah [kan]


then she like he like look at me but I think he he suss me out okay okay this one like okay right then he like walk he walk also he like, trying to see what I'm doing there but then so that was the first time so the second time I I make sure to like I have some files in my hand and


so to make it look like a social work here like like a social worker I was there to do to do work to see all my clients right, so I'm like ya but like it's notorious then like my my boss like Salimah lah I was saying that, every one or two days there'll be raids there will be ya it's not even like macam old airport road like the raids once a month kind of thing here it's like every few days there are raids cause it's the border thing ah ya so like that


Marsiling gua kicap sama lu budak #toa payoh#, that one cina cina one ah I think, do you want to find your your gang


you're the main girl gang like, , but it was scared like not scary but you can just see that everyone there was like on their toes so when I went out of the lift to go to, my client's house like you can just see people sitting at the staircase ya and then I like when I go out they look at me macam cause


their their eyes is like apa kau buat kat sini so I always make sure the next time to like bring files and bring, books, ya but you know who I put the group of volunteers to read to the boy there


boys from RI, yup I love it so it's actually four or five RI boys reading to one kid there so my boss was like good idea


cause these boys are like but they are so on babe they are so Siao on let us, let us know what we can help how we can help so we go there we like ya this is how rented house in singapore looks like and they look to be honest, this group of boys tak ada judgment I I am surprised I think cause they are like


I I feel like my generation in the late twenties early thirties there are there's a judgemental state


oh this is so interesting, ya


but after that if they want to go down they want to lepak so they bring this boy to the playground main catching babe, !wah! these boys RI boys babe eh sorry sorry not RI my apologies #hwa chong# institution


I I and they are so Siao on and then they did a whole fundraiser thing in their school and, they even suss out not influencers but artist sort of from other schools macam not famous but like one one thousand two thousand followers


and they do hip hop ke beatboxing they gather all these people come to #hwa chong# and they did a fundraiser all the money that we pay is like five dollars ten dollars goes to real life stories, ya I love it I I and they are young babe they are like


fifteen, [orh], right, ya


, ya


right


ya, ya, Sundilah, play sports in the HDB house to go to normal, Sundilah


privilege ah


it's like you would have like I don't know macam kau ada PR [kan]


ya tak ada ke like just a


wait and the constituency that he's at voted for him he's my constituency, ya, ah people's voice, but he was not the


yes correct correct ya and err like the the guy I think the secretary, ah of of people's voice actually marwah punya ex ex secretary also so like the moment I heard that I told Azmi like alright


this is who I'm voting


oh !wow! congratulations it's like, ya, !wow! Sham


!wow! I'm so proud of you, !wow!, alright okay


okay, okay so I she's going away we're going to get her a present ah and ya I think you're right the frames are too heavy we're not going to give those but how I don't want it to be like macam buku yang just print out like that biarkan gitu then it's just gonna sit in a cupboard forever I feel like it will be cool if it was something that she


can see everyday you know especially in that country maybe lots of pictures of us in the sunshine macam while she freezing her butt off there, (ppc)


ya okay okay got it, yes yes yes yes ya ya ya so it's not just err err apa tu what we going to make


err phone phone case it can be anything it can be a mug it can be a t-shirt boleh apa-apa [kan], yup, but it's also the whole heavy thing lah once again to have to drag in her luggage or or I don't know couldn't tweet


(hmm) send it to her, but no you want a gift that can on that day itself be looked at right okay okay fine ya ya then I think ya we can find some small light items nak buat dia punya print ah so we're gotta select a bunch of pictures of what we like right and then


figure out what are the things I'm sure they have online presence mesti ada kalau kau pergi dia punya website dia cakap that these are the things you can bring on or something ah or if not actually there are a lot of websites that do that so macam vista print, you name it lah they will print it on something and it's digital printing which means you don't need a like must order minimum hundred or what can even give her of our faces to wear on which day today I feel like a Sham day


today ya ya correct correct, ya ya ya ya ya and when she lonely she can talk to the picture, ah guys I need some advice


ya ya okay, so ya I think I think vista print all this website got ah and I think this that would be the same website that also makes a photo book, cause they are that kind of digital printers so they do everything so okay so let's pick out a bunch of pictures kita pilih mana yang kita suka then that becomes the photo book and then we pick out a few others ya okay can ah I guess that is the plan


you know what I do after awhile I throw it out I don't like clutter, eh I've had to throw all sorts of things in my life in order to like fit it into this house and also when I went overseas to work


again I lost a lot of things so my whole life has been a series of losing shit lah moving and macam just all over the place so when it meant that when I moved into this house I just didn't have, much I don't have pictures of people from secondary school all bird fly high hard to catch friends like you hard to forget I don't I I never bothered to keep those things I feel like if you want me you know where to find me ah then we can hang out


ah I don't I don't know ya so anyway photo book wasn't the best thing lah but I thought some pictures or or the other thing is we give her a bunch of pictures that are nicely printed and then we order the thing online say buy from amazon but it to be delivered to where she is ah


ah, why can't it not be us apa [jer] okay so how about we make a poster ah of us, like super glam shit and then we like then can pin the poster have like cool headline or what then write some funny copyrighting for venue and


date you know that kind of thing like date that when


ya ya I know I know I know ya ya ya ya ya and I think actually that's what she prefers too but I suspect when she she said that time that cause she wasn't even sure whether this is happening like whether they're gonna be able to secure the mortgage get the place there and be able to you know actually move lah


but then I suspect once it's confirmed there got Iskandar is settled there is a flight date ticket, confirm she want to meet everybody and his brother so I suspect there will be a bigger thing, I don't know how big is big err when where how we're going to do it in groups of five as per the government guidelines


but, but for us I think I don't know is it just come over here and do our usual or is it want to have like a a lovely dinner outside somewhere


okay ya I'd like that, fuck so all these by the end of the month okay


what is the deal dia secretive gila ah sia aku tak tahu dia sekarang at which point you know are their tickets booked is that is what is happening over there you know, ya I'm ya ya ya and she has this fear of


sharing about it like that time I I thought her her attitude was interesting like she was dia cakap that


eh Nisa why you never leave eh kau apa sia I'm like can't imagine who the who the hell would actually do that to her, to do with the two of them yes yes


ya lah it's their partners lah we should respect that ah but I just thought there was some fear there you know of people mocking her and I'm like you a bit too old to have this fear tapi dia kadang-kadang got got that kind of little streaks of like, what are people thinking of me


yes she has


ya ya she's definitely discovered, how to be her own person ah like she will stand up to people and she will I liked it when I see her at parties and she very mother hen with all the younger ones I think it allows her to make a lot of friends cause she goes in like a kakak kakak you know she goes in like


ah kau dah okay tak and then aku boleh cakap dengan kau gini gini gitu gitu like like she's just how are you macam mana sekarang sekolah gitu gini you know and ya, they flocked to her ah all the little malay girls on the floor the little mod girls, they love her


ya, ya ya ya ya ya ya


ah ah ah, cause that was the day that you found out I see okay got it


ah ah ah ah ah, ya ya ya ya, fuck lah she's such an integral part of the group I'm gonna miss her like hell man


I've had it with you all yup ya ya ya ya ya ya, ya I I don't understand what it could take macam ah ya unless somebody changes drastically and that could happened sometimes somebody becomes bitter or alcoholic you get what I mean ah then you become a bit wonky ah


ah my understanding is that the the guy was playing the both of them and then sarah beef, with you was that you were talking about it to both sides, ya both both both to Tini okay got it okay so she felt like somehow you macam take Tini


okay, ah ah ah ah ah


ya ya ya ya


so all this was happening like at the same time while he's flirting with sarah he also like cuddling up with Tini what the hell man


ya ya ya ya ya, together apa kau orang semua sama-sama tu ah, yup


!alamak!


(uh huh), wait this was the day we went to eat pizza


fish I didn't know the pizza had such undertones so when you brought up pizza thing I thought you had something to do with she coming but not feeling like eating but then is it she no need to contribute to the bill you know I thought it was that sort of like bill and who pays what drama fuck okay okay okay


yes, yup, yup, ya


so did sarah know that jas was doing this with Tini, she didn't know either okay got it


ah


ya ya ya ya ya ya, so what was Tini first reaction then when you said she went bitch mode, okay, ah, ya ya ya ya ya okay


then she come down for what


ah ah ah ah


right, ah ah ah


okay


that's right, ya okay got it


yup, ya ya ya


ya ya ya ya ya


ya ya ya yup


that is not nice explain, like a party girl no


ya that's the you cannot correct correct you can't mould other people's perceptions lah ya ya ya


ah that jas is playing that jas correct correct cause Tini was like totally completely oblivious to it right she didn't know ya she didn't know sarah didn't know as well but Tini felt like the person who was


losing her heart over him ah it sounds like it like like Tini really was quite set on it being rather serious, ya, ya ya ya ya ya so it's a it's a big deal for and she must have been really hurt


when there are friendly things you don't reciprocate ya


, did did we post that picture in the group chat with dengan dia punya cake nama dia tu ah K K


ya ya ya ya I remember that, ya, okay


just even indulge in gossip you get what I mean ya ya I know you don't do that either


ya ya ya ya ya, ya, okay


yes, ya ya ya ya you you have no control over this lah ya, yup, so probably just a bit more careful lah when how she speaks lah


yup yup yup yup yup yup, ya tu lah tu lah, I mean one wishes it never happen in the first place but friendships will go up and down lah it's like that lah sometimes there are just little areas you don't go to finish ya ya I think it's it's it


it's the sort of thing that you think about when you are thinking about how valuable is this person to me what sort of a friend it is it's not just the happy moments that you will think about but it's also about the bad moments that you guys were able to patch up together and that I think really adds to the value of the friendship you know the amount of work you put into it


ya, yup


correct obviously there's a lot of censorship going on yes ya, friction, yup


yup, yup yup yup yup it's how you then deal with it together that matters, ya


ya ya ya, yes Nisa likes to set boundaries you know I like I like I've learnt a lot about setting boundaries from how Nisa does it I'm afraid I'm not comfortable with this so I'm not going to do it ya and and it's


it it comes as a surprise to people that I use it on I don't know if it's cause maybe when I say it I don't see it as nicely or sweetly as Nisa but I've noticed a lot of people like eyebrows raised when I draw this kind of boundaries, then I also wonder oh is it because we just don't say these things kita mana nak belajar pasal boundary and learn how to do it


I I really think that's missing ah in schools ah how to politely draw line you know


ya it's the bahasa berbunga and the gentleness of the language overall lah ya ya ya makes it hard, ah ah correct and it can be done very politely no one's trying to hurt your feelings here you know


ah ah ah ah, there was definitely silence after I said that like it hung in the room for awhile, three seconds then err then continue lah but I was


truly unapologetic cause it was too late at night and my brain was just ya not having it like I don't even have the capacity to have it even if I wanted to you know I don't have the capacity sorry it's too late


confirm tau kau punya sense of humour kadang-kadang like no janganlah


, err, oh okay okay okay


oh okay so there is a possibility he might come is it oh okay cool, ah eh I can't talk now I'm sorry I'm doing the recording ah, oh oh ya dude we were just talking about you


or maybe he has left okay


okay so I don't know do you want like tackle the questions that we had okay we are halfway through so it's not too bad but ya, it's taking a bit longer than expected cause I think it's cause the antibiotics are making my mouth like damn dry so next time I do this sia I need water need what what


god I hate this medication so much, !huh! natural things, no cause it's it it's means it put in effort if somebody just walks up to me and give it to me now I will gladly drink it I will so gladly drink it I just can't be asked even get up go to the toilet cause it hurts so I'm not gonna go and no I don't think so


I don't think so


ah tu ah tu pun ada I didn't even know we had this tradition tapi tak pasal-pasal ah hari ni national day kita ada Briyani abeh aku is not not having it so that day I was out at brunch then after brunch went over to to Aman friends place right so I was


did not reply to message until next day five o'clock like hello ya hi no not today I'm not coming today I got I got migraine, ya do you know there was my national day was so non eventful on my way to brunch which I had with a friend dekat at kat upper thomson aku pass by dekat road aku nampak banyak-banyak orang semua diri dekat luar road


then aku thought they were going somewhere but no cause it's this mobile columns that's moving right so that's why I did not know about this mobile columns at all so I was like why are they just standing there kalau kau nak pergi somewhere jalan ah asal diri sana panas terik tu hari tu aku dengar forty one degrees


!huh! I don't know why the soldiers didn't cook in the tank sia, like steamboat ah oh inside the tank got aircon, singapore, as long as I got my aircon


okay ya so I saw all that but then I think later on in the day I saw one facebook video of like tank it was quite surreal the tank go past but the the guy whose job it is to kill people with this tank is just waving very happily I'm like !wow! this isn't what I'm paying my soldiers for you know who ask you to wave


ah okay but can't see it ah, ya ya ya ya ya


(ppc), oh that's cool


I was working that night , err


ya I don't know why cause ya it was interesting it was just so uneventful, err if you could


oh god I completely forgot all the questions I don't know what they want, (ppc), memorable meal, you know I can't even think of one, okay maybe got one where my boss brings us to this like restaurant in Bali it's called mosaic and it was super fucking posh and not just that but it was it took indonesian


folklore and petua-petua kesihatan you get what I mean for like different ah different food items whether it's different types of herbs different types of leaves different types of yams whatever from indonesia


and then wove it all into a menu that was that told a story ah from start to end and then at each point for each dish


look like banana flower kind of vibe ah or top ginger you know that kind where you sort of peel it open [kan] ah lepas tu the way yang dia orang serve and like plate the thing and then telling the explanation of what it's for and how do people use it are there any stories associated with it I thought that was a really memorable meal cause everything that you taste suddenly had a lot of significance and I'm sure we all had meals like that and I think whenever somebody plans meal [kan]


that's such a great way to make it like another dimension you know to add on that's cool, off the top of your head, okay


oh


ah, ah ah ah oh my god then you just take the whole thing ah ah ah, ah


don't break don't break, yup, and !wah!, yes it's the moments ah saffron ah saffron


ah ah ah, ya ya ya,


I can imagine, ya ya ya actually I don't even know about I feel like I've got aku pernah dengar nama dia saffron tapi aku tak tahu kat mana dia kat Bugis


where is it Tampines ah okay okay okay ya lah maybe that's why aku tak travel out lah, I have a direct bus to Tampines here not even at the interchange you know


one two seven


could be yup, and I've been seeing a lot more of this large bright green buses SMRT punya bus baru punya ah ah dia orang macam tak tahu ni bus baru ke service baru but


ah new buses lah right that they bought ya ya ya ya so from tadi yang aku faham bus ni kalau kalau kalau kau ambil bus ni dia terus pergi highway, do not pass do not collect two hundred dollars dia terus pergi highway lepas tu kau end up in Tampines in berapa minute okay lah not minute lah but iya lah you get the idea ya ya very short ah


ya ya ya, Tampines ya got, but they take awhile they all take awhile they will go and explore kat mana kita pergi tengok-tengok err Geylang mari lah kita boleh tengok Katong


Katong ya there's a lot of ah detours ah tak faham [seh], ah ask bird park pun bird park aku sakit hati aku ambil bus pergi sana one and half hour sia


so that's the end station in mind, ah bird park kau kau cakap apa zoo eh, ya zoo is #ang mo kio# lah ya ya ya, ya that used to be my commute !wah! and another way that I used to commute was how ah oh no this one is when I go home time I take from the zoo but then I stop somewhere along thomson road upper thomson there then I take a bus down I walk there I come down to braddell braddell view then I walk home ah


it was a nice walk home


today is


to get a response so I guess it hasn't been three weeks but I'm also a bit sad, then the meantime there are other things like my I have a friend who call me and it's basically what this is is a startup habis startup ni dia macam kumpul together all the plumbers electricians sort of thing okay then you would it works like a uber where you would find a service and book it and then abeh kau kau boleh tengok dia punya err err route to you ah macam macam macam grab delivery ah boleh nampak dia punya driver on the way to you how long more it will take blah blah blah


and then ah they need somebody to help coordinate this things in the back end and also err check out on the services that is provided tanya lah dengan orang tu okay okay tak dia orang buat ada apa-apa rosak ada apa-apa okay complain ke apa benda


so that's that the job seems rather interesting tapi I'm I'm a little concerned about it on a couple of levels ah firstly dia startup abeh baru start apa apa cerita dia sebenarnya you know like what is the process and is it kau orang ada macam any SOP or template in place or actually kau orang tengah cari orang untuk start the whole thing up you know from scratch properly cause if that's the case ya okay I I also don't have problem with that but I would need to make sure that I'm paid


accordingly lah cause I will be putting in a lot more work then the other concern is also when I went online when I tried to look for like you know services like this [kan], there are already a lot of websites where you can even like directories and you can kau boleh filter down tau kau tinggal kat mana orang ni kat mana ah that kind of thing it's not something new ah this


pulling together of different house jobs you know plumbing ah carpentry little bit that sort of thing it really exists a lot jadi aku macam err apa [seh]


I want to lie in bed and watch TV, it's not a way of avoiding the world it's just aku don't feel like dealing with you all right now it's too much crap I don't feel like it I'm not having it, so I guess not having it is something we've been saying recently ah not having it


I I haven't heard it you started using it, not having it, no mood ah, then it doesn't help that my stupid boils keep happening, and I'm so incapacitated


, okay so that was memorable meal


that took awhile, okay cool, , ya also I provided an update about my current job hunt tight situation, oh


I I don't remember one, oh if people didn't have to work what would they do right, okay so this is, ah actually it is I like this things


leave ah I learn this new word vibing I'm just vibing man so kira macam tangkap [jer] ah vibing so I vibe ah


like I I if I really had money right then I didn't have to worry about food then I would I don't know then maybe I might be asked to cook cause I know I can buy whatever ingredient I want for example you know


an issue ya, ah ah ah ah ah, correct correct correct exactly, ya correct the info is all there and we know it it's


correct, correct correct


ah ah ah ah ah, ya


yup yup yup yup, doing this sort of things


ah correct correct maybe finally have a ant farm, don't know leh I mean if if I feel like maybe not sure or what I got questions then maybe I can call ryan


hi ryan ya his name is ryan so beautiful, I could see all the other mums over there were all like hyperventilating man, coach her ah


, his name is ryan and he works at the ant museum at Katong for little while he was the favourite of all the mothers, ya ya ya the whole thing is a very romance novel vibe yes ya with the hair and the jawline it's very like the guys that you find on the cover of romance novel gitu ah


, so confidently


ya he had a very good err speaking persona unlike unlike his other there's one other colleague girl I think was quite good, but there was know there was one guy that I was like like making serious enquiries lah about how much actually is it gonna cost me to come up with my own anterrium and all these and he was


a bit like don't really answer the question and will roam the point a bit before getting into it be like oh okay, of course, but of course


you think he knows, okay, ya I think it's no more it was extended for awhile but I'm very sure COVID would have closed it lah it's too small and too


ah ah ah ah, oh okay okay okay then get into it like damn obsessively and do terrariums that are like artistic


that's also a romance novel apa macam the rope who you tame taming the rope


I think those books ruin a lot of young women you know, I don't know they were fun !haiya! I definitely went through a period of them I even use to shoplift them these romance novels ya man but then you know what I do or not will take out and then put the ones I took the last time


I don't know why I went through a phase in secondary school ah it's a bit punk I supposed property is theft


yup, Pangkeng means apa eh, party eh


got sex one ah, oh specifically ya okay okay okay, okay okay okay, okay okay okay ya I've heard it I've heard it for sure I just wasn't completely sure


, oh tu tu yang kau orang panggil hotel ah rumah uncle, code words ah ah ah ah this is like codeswitching within codeswitching,


Matrep ah ah,


ah, ah ah ah ah, ah ah


right,


ah ah ah ah


yup yup, , !alah! geramnya it's like asking your parents kita sebenarnya asal dari kampung mana [seh] , oh


budak Marsiling, ah ah ah ah ah


ya ya ya, ya ya ya, oh, okay kau boleh nampak malaysia tapi sana tak ada causeway tak ada apa [kan] there's no bridge


oh, ah, ah, ah


oh camouflage ah, ya ya ya ya ya, ya ya ya ya ya yup yup, to make it more obvious right


right, yup, right, I never knew Marsiling was okay okay okay


#toa payoh# aku rasa mungkin ada port, oh, ya ya ya


right okay okay


there's a lot of looking ah, ah


ah, oh my goodness what an experience for them


yup, yup that's very nice, true true true true


correct correct, correct they grow up in a very different world ya, yup I think they are more open to new things they don't have prejudgements as much as us ya ya


that's so cute ah ah ah, ya, right okay


yup, yup


yup, these kids ah, ya how beautiful what a gorgeous story, ya ya ya ya, I I went to this activist event ah some time ago two years ago I think it's called apa itu activist so it was mainly organized by AWARE and a lot of other like MARUAH all this ah different activists and NGO groups here in singapore then one of it had breakup session so then you can pick


which room you want to go to participate in which session ah so I went to this one particular room where dia orang macam mana tau macam lebih kurang tiga puluh orang tiga puluh orang sit in a circle berdiri in a circle, and then berdiri in a circle lepas tu the person yang moderator diri dekat tengah dia cakap okay if you have these things that I'm about to say you step back


if you don't if you never had these things then you step forward so they started asking ah kau ada maid tak kau pernah ada maid rumah kau abeh kalau kau ada kau step back, so abeh ask more questions ah macam kau pernah ada rumah family kau ada kereta tak kau orang pernah pergi holiday kau pernah rasa macam snow basically questions about privilege ah then at the end of the thirty forty questions that he asked


so a lot of brown people step forward lah as supposed to chinese people little things like that you know


and it didn't occur to me even that I had that I didn't have this privileges, I was a bit confused about being in the middle cause I thought I ada pretty good life you know ya we got no maid no car all these tapi there's always food on the table I had uniforms I've heard so many other stories of people who had it so much worse right that was interesting but then


that wasn't my point my point was one guy towards the back of the room who obviously grow up with a lot of privileges crying ah sobbing like a baby cause that exercise got to him to the point where he just felt like


couldn't he just kept crying and crying the group macam went around him abeh sayang sayang dia and


like be far removed from the from the situation in order to sympathize with it sometimes when you are too close in the situation dia macam apa tak kisah ah buat [jer] ah


had it right but no lah the the it's just the way he cried it it really reminded me of what you were saying about the younger people in RI who see the world a bit differently but then they don't understand why everything cannot be equal you know whereas for us, I don't know I don't know what it is ah about us like you said maybe it's that change over from technology that's change and suddenly from a position of being macam a bit Suaku about the world suddenly we see a lot more we see a lot more riches we also see a lot more pain and poverty


so then maybe that was a shock to our system compared to them who was already born with a world where you cannot expect anything will happen at any time ya maybe for them it's a different way of looking at things I don't know, Sundilah


ah, that was really weird and and tone deaf I thought this this election got a lot of things that were tone deaf ah from the PAP side


ah kau tak ada script ke ni sikit-sikit ah


ya ya ya ya ya ya and who's writing this maybe the people writing it are tone deaf in the first place you understand like aku can imagine them choosing some like rich fuck PR, PR firm that may not have I don't know many people that are representatives I don't know man


oh this is the Whampoa ya but cause kau orang punya the other side siapa #lim tian#, people's voice [kan], #lim tian# sama dengan randolf ah


ah ah, I see I see I see, ya ya ya ya, your vote now


ya I don't think it matters, it's for people who are scared lah it does need they need to be told that cause even this election banyak kali sia macam naomi had colleagues my mother had friends who all said your vote is not secret in singapore


ah kau try ah nanti aku tak kasih kau covered walkways kau nak covered walkways, but now I see my apa I was specially recognised as a top fan, for singapore supporting the government cause of covered walkways


it's a facebook group ya ya ya I was so proud of myself aku macam I took a screenshot and send to naomi and say my accomplishment for today everybody we must achieve something, Sundilah it's one hour


okay then one two three


clap ashtray, okay now we can start to record, there's no such thing as first topic lah


google lor <mandarin>现在有电话现在:xian zai you dian hua xian zai</mandarin> ipad, okay okay okay


for <mandarin>不懂:bu dong</mandarin> how many years ah <mandarin>九十多个:jiu shi duo ge</mandarin> in thirty days, but yesterday there was, they actually let PSG, from the what twenty seven minute until ninetieth minute leh one year eh, ocean final ah champions league


I think <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> first league <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> they it's a compress format uh I think <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> that's it Liao <mandarin>没有没有:mei you mei you</mandarin> so <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> imagine actually atlanta is supposed to go into semi leh until guardian made it


ah late then extra <mandarin>他都没有:ta dou mei you</mandarin> leh, err <mandarin>在那个:zai na ge</mandarin> portugal lah, ya ya neutral ground that's why they can play one league what


so they one league one <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> neutral ground chop chop <mandarin>就就一直来好像那个对对对对:jiu jiu yi zhi lai hao xiang na ge dui dui dui dui</mandarin> yes err then the europa league is in


is it germany <mandarin>也是不可以看:ye shi bu ke yi kan</mandarin> it's not for fans what


Leipzig versus Atletico no no no it's everyday one match, I but I don't know why they don't


it's like


unless <mandarin>他可以他:ta ke yi ta</mandarin> actually <mandarin>应该放:ying gai fang</mandarin> like, stagger <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> timing lah, they can just put, one PM <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> it's not like you need to play with table <mandarin>所以:suo yi</mandarin> I don't understand <mandarin>因为这样那个:yin wei zhe yang na ge</mandarin> fourth match [orh] barcelona <mandarin>对还是第四个他们不可以踢:dui hai shi di si ge ta men bu ke yi ti</mandarin> until another three days what then <mandarin>就要月常:jiu yao yue chang</mandarin> what I don't know lah <mandarin>这个不是我们的:zhe ge bu shi wo men de</mandarin> Daiji lah but


eh


uh few weeks ago <mandarin>他对:ta dui</mandarin> Milan but, which is a very good result already because ya then don't


no I think in the end they were third leh, so ya ya ya in in the end I think last few matches in uh atlanta


but <mandarin>你看他的:ni kan ta de</mandarin> goal score <mandarin>没有你看他的:mei you ni kan ta de</mandarin> goal score, for a team like them is like <NEN> <mandarin>都没有做到:dou mei you zuo dao</mandarin> leh even never scored this number of goals eh


, no star player lah but atlanta has been


playing, very well for the past few season <mandarin>不是说:bu shi shuo</mandarin> like <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> season <mandarin>他这么厉害:ta zhe me li hai</mandarin> last season <mandarin>他们已经:ta men yi jing</mandarin> like no top six top seven Liao oh that's why <mandarin>他进:ta jin</mandarin> champions league what <mandarin>不然不然:bu ran bu ran</mandarin> this year <mandarin>为什么:wei shen me</mandarin> champions league this year that's means <mandarin>他是第四吗:ta shi di si ma</mandarin> last year correct so they must be doing last already last year right you know how they got into this


almost my every match will <mandarin>看:kan</mandarin> at least one half ah, !aiya! <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> Pirlo hor


then, Pirlo


ya so <mandarin>你看:ni kan</mandarin> Ibrah yes yes but Ibrah <mandarin>现在回来有:xian zai hui lai you</mandarin> Milan although <mandarin>他又在:ta you zai</mandarin> Uva, so <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> heart is still with


Galani Galani <mandarin>去卖:qu mai</mandarin> ya so Galani <mandarin>跟他们讲说:gen ta men jiang shuo</mandarin> is a is a mistake that uh they actually they actually he actually sold him away


it's the harbour


bro you know that he has zero coaching experience


not <mandarin>你懂:ni dong</mandarin> normally <mandarin>这些:zhe xie</mandarin> coach hor <mandarin>他们:ta men</mandarin> start sierra C <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> start from uh youth


quite high level leh normally <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> start with <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> uh


number one team, the coach, only I think him ah I don't know


so <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> imagine <mandarin>如果是一个:ru guo shi yi ge</mandarin> if it's a lousy team oh but Pirlo <mandarin>在:zai</mandarin> <mandarin>在:zai</mandarin> Uva <mandarin>很久吗:hen jiu ma</mandarin> so maybe he'll know he in and out


<mandarin>一起:yi qi</mandarin> world cup what <mandarin>他们一起:ta men yi qi</mandarin> world cup


I mean <mandarin>你跟我讲:ni gen wo jiang</mandarin> just, small team


you're already directing you when you're playing


but I think I think the problem <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> problem <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> don't actually respect him eh, I don't think so <mandarin>你有听有这个:ni you ting you zhe ge</mandarin> problem in a way, it's just that, Buay Sai lor


but he he win so much I mean, about personality in the end the ago <mandarin>大:da</mandarin> ah !ee! <mandarin>斯都不够大:si dou bu gou da</mandarin>


they know exactly what's happening, but <mandarin>很多那些:hen duo nei xie</mandarin> top player top coach <mandarin>都不是:dou bu shi</mandarin> top player duo


but you don't need you don't need to be a top player lah you just know need to know what's going on


<mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> lor


I think he don't want to be a coach I think no but actually now no now no now now he's a he has a important role now, okay I I only recently I realise ah


uh italian league the, the <mandarin>那些:nei xie</mandarin> teams hor <mandarin>跟:gen</mandarin> lesser premier league teams leh <mandarin>他们的:ta men de</mandarin> the way they function is different


he not just coach he deals with the signing the, the buying of players sign of players so two in one but in italy right it's separate do this yes which is the signing and the buying and coaching he totally don't do it's a totally separate job so that time when this Rangnick said that


he wants to do same job with both at once !wah! he <mandarin>骂他:ma ta</mandarin> leh, you disrespect,


is is a different type of power all together ya it's a different type of uh power but what the Rangnick want is the same power as as his, germany which is


no but even the buying and signing he he he, he start to want to make a affirmed decision, the basically he has lesser power also indicate he can indicate his wish he can indicate his preference


but, the decision side, comparing the power, confirm the coach, does <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> say in buying of player is much lesser in in england than in err but I mean is is not is less is the same thing italy of course the coach can say I want A B C D E Liao right ah so he ah the power I mean I cannot say hundred percent or zero percent probably the power is lesser ah spain <mandarin>我不懂我:wo bu dong wo</mandarin> only <mandarin>懂:dong</mandarin> this when when <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> Rangnick


like <mandarin>我们几十年要这样做你突间来你就要换那个:wo men ji shi nian yao zhe yang zuo ni tu jian lai ni jiu yao huan na ge</mandarin> the way of doing things and then <mandarin>因为这样的话:yin wei zhe yang de hua</mandarin> Maldini <mandarin>就要:jiu yao</mandarin> bye bye Liao <mandarin>因为变成:yin wei bian cheng</mandarin> diesel <mandarin>的工作:de gong zuo</mandarin> leh


so <mandarin>现在:xian zai</mandarin> he's flying around to try to sign players and sell players lor,


zero two like


Putroni lor <mandarin>不懂为什么卖掉:bu dong wei shen me mai diao</mandarin> then daniel Maldini lor


ah, so far, it's like


oh ya that's what I'm saying if he's good enough if he's damn good enough at that age you should be able to play already ya uh he's still developing ah because <mandarin>你十七十八如果你很厉害你就:ni shi qi shi ba ru guo ni hen li hai ni jiu</mandarin> join first team Liao dora Rumah <mandarin>十六岁已经:shi liu sui yi jing</mandarin> first choice Liao


Buay Sai Wushi Jialat ah 不行就是完:bu xing jiu shi wan ah,


oh roll into goal eh <mandarin>他会去他会经那个:ta hui qu ta hui jing na ge</mandarin> go into the this err


end of the month <mandarin>就:jiu</mandarin> start Liao <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> mah <mandarin>你整天靠那个:ni zheng tian kao na ge</mandarin> vernon bruno to <mandarin>进进:jin jin</mandarin> penalty <mandarin>整天靠下去:zheng tian kao xia qu</mandarin> penalty <mandarin>你有看那个:ni you kan na ge</mandarin> game


Popedighe


, oh <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> penalty, the last game ah


actually <mandarin>踢这些:ti zhe xie</mandarin> europa league champions league, okay lah although <mandarin>你你:ni ni</mandarin> progress <mandarin>你有钱拿:ni you qian na</mandarin> but <mandarin>如果你不赢:ru guo ni bu ying</mandarin> [orh], it's very bad for next season


ya you're damn shag already know then <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> after that <mandarin>都几天就要开始:dou ji tian jiu yao kai shi</mandarin> Liao leh, ya lah <mandarin>他们已经有这个:ta men yi jing you zhe ge</mandarin> break in


more stamina


what you want buy, oh <mandarin>没有他不是:mei you ta bu shi</mandarin> dorman <mandarin>不是不要卖:bu shi bu yao mai</mandarin> lor


two hundred two hundred million ah, I think dorman is the club big enough to buy it's just that the amount that


other clubs offer is really too big, to reviews ya barcelona is is is those, don't need to earn money one, but dorman in the end still want to uh uh almost is big yes is big but is I think yes ya ya ya ya ya lah over the years <mandarin>他们卖很多:ta men mai hen duo</mandarin> !huh! Kagawa <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> dorman ah


ya so over the years actually dorman <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> always positive in their transfer


ya it's a bit a bit like dorman <mandarin>他们很好的他们就可以卖:ta men hen hao de ta men jiu ke yi mai</mandarin> one two but they they


people <mandarin>还是有买贵的:hai shi you mai gui de</mandarin> player eh


ya,


their youth ya the no lah is the youth and the developing <mandarin>的那些:de nei xie</mandarin> crew


eh <mandarin>他在哪里:ta zai na li</mandarin> ah #diego costa#, <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> after chelsea <mandarin>他会去:ta hui qu</mandarin> after that <mandarin>没有听到:mei you ting dao</mandarin> Liao leh


eh <mandarin>你现在没有:ni xian zai mei you</mandarin> subscribe right totally


so that <mandarin>你可以:ni ke yi</mandarin> err cast uh, I mean, if actually I feel like if it's stable enough you'll always use it at the at the transition of one time payment is not expensive I don't know lah, it's actually I can can support, then you can you can cost


!wah! but you have use how many times already for example you watch twenty matches even you give me ten dollar nevermind <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> I'm I'm saying of course ah <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> lah <mandarin>不可能几十块一个月的:bu ke neng ji shi kuai yi ge yue de</mandarin> lah, I I I I think <mandarin>他应该是:ta ying gai shi</mandarin> go for subscription rather at one time


but one time is better for us right, but <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> device <mandarin>好吗:hao ma</mandarin> subscription <mandarin>才一天:cai yi tian</mandarin> of cause one month <mandarin>两块一块因为你看:liang kuai yi kuai yin wei ni kan</mandarin> let's say <mandarin>你看一个月看三个:ni kan yi ge yue kan san ge</mandarin> match <mandarin>四个:si ge</mandarin> match uh then <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> ah let's say <mandarin>你真的要看:ni zhen de yao kan</mandarin> right


then <mandarin>你如果可以:ni ru guo ke yi</mandarin> cast ah, it's like from singtel and starhub already what's the difference


K now they throw it other other other way, and then another have already you ya but it you know what I mean like why of time is like so totally if I want to watch all the football I have to pay hundred dollars a month ya whereas across the causeway astro


no it's the same thing


duck <mandarin>可能我的是:ke neng wo de shi</mandarin> not paid <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> lah if <mandarin>不什么也是还:bu shen me ye shi hai</mandarin> work


lighting


and it's still worth it because I think, this one is quite, I I mean <mandarin>这么多年:zhe me duo nian</mandarin> Liao <mandarin>除了那个:chu le na ge</mandarin> part <mandarin>一年多:yi nian duo</mandarin> where <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> cock up but during the whole world cup <mandarin>就是看:jiu shi kan</mandarin> free <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh


I only lost thirty minutes of sleep what rather than I lost two hours of sleep, ya three AM, as I said if you can wake up you set alarm at four and watch the second half or four fifteen


why do you want to go earlier <mandarin>都已经跟你讲:dou yi jing gen ni jiang</mandarin> Gou Tia Pua Liao mah uh <mandarin>你跟我讲:ni gen wo jiang</mandarin> nine forty five sorry I can order in leh


oh, so <mandarin>现在没事:xian zai mei shi</mandarin> Liao right, as in <mandarin>你不是讲他:ni bu shi jiang ta</mandarin> cannot drive lor


but he's eating the thinning thing ah, okay lor


eh <mandarin>我问你:wo wen ni</mandarin> ah, I want to know the timing, so <mandarin>你的有有:ni de you you</mandarin> there is what AM session what the session you can choose from what are the timing, there is AM or PM or both right


okay so Nia Pua I I want to know okay so it's like from what time to what time normally


so basically they will open early for you but of course you need to go there early lah <mandarin>因为可能有些:yin wei ke neng you xie</mandarin> parents <mandarin>七点就要做工你就开始开:qi dian jiu yao zuo gong ni jiu kai shi kai</mandarin> Liao ah to cut off like that the AM session, what time you want to what ah what K you pay how much and what time


no so for example <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> leh


K to the AM session is to what time let's say you pay the for AM session one twelve <mandarin>那种比较:na zhong bi jiao</mandarin> ah afternoon <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh but it's twelve to seven, then, the full day <mandarin>的就是:de jiu shi</mandarin> anytime lah during this period


the device is not a lot right, !huh!


uh, full day why you so stupid one


!huh!


because you add all the miscellaneous stuff lah


<mandarin>不要讲:bu yao jiang</mandarin> PAP <mandarin>你这个不是:ni zhe ge bu shi</mandarin> PAP <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what <mandarin>对不对这个:dui bu dui zhe ge</mandarin> subsidies <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> depends on mother <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> doesn't matter of what the pay is right


you get this amount


ya that's good minimum, for <mandarin>她她们的:ta ta men de</mandarin> age I think <mandarin>要睡:yao shui</mandarin> ten to twelve to thirteen is is for the development ya


no lah <mandarin>你一定会:ni yi ding hui</mandarin> disturb <mandarin>的一定会被:de yi ding hui bei</mandarin> disturb <mandarin>因为人家讲话他朝她起来哭你就:yin wei ren jia jiang hua ta chao ta qi lai ku ni jiu</mandarin> that's it Liao so the the the naps for


and you're suppose they all bring your own blanket being your own, whatever <mandarin>臭臭:chou chou</mandarin> whatever, oh ya <mandarin>对她没有买她自己的:dui ta mei you mai ta zi ji de</mandarin> lah ya


chop as in your own ah personalise ah so it's personalise ah


oh <mandarin>教你啊:jiao ni a</mandarin>


as in two two way ya, differently [orh]


, totally ya


oh


throughout the years <mandarin>二十年她都在教:er shi nian ta dou zai jiao</mandarin> piano


I mean


oh <mandarin>你拿:ni na</mandarin> ah, , oh


[orh] got use ah okay okay okay, so <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> tune Liao <mandarin>你就做好:ni jiu zuo hao</mandarin> Liao ah <mandarin>给她玩:gei ta wan</mandarin> lor


eh Sai Buay , , study tuning


uh


uh but uh, the ukulele


I think I I know I know ya, this is also is a toy but is actually can play one but that also can play uh <mandarin>这个真的可以玩的可以可以可以有哪个:zhe ge zhen de ke yi wan de ke yi ke yi ke yi you nei ge</mandarin> recorder


I think, both individual and team sport have their own pros and cons lah


both it depends I think ultimately <mandarin>这样你:zhe yang ni</mandarin> mold <mandarin>出来我不知道:chu lai wo bu zhi dao</mandarin> but both have their pros and cons


I understand what you mean by, actually so lah maybe true is when you're much younger is better to be team sports first then as you grow older once, you have these already then you can go for the individual


exposed him to the other side


ya you make sure that strength is fully fully optimist ah


ah


eh <mandarin>上次:shang ci</mandarin> that day <mandarin>我昨天的:wo zuo tian de</mandarin> friend <mandarin>从那个:cong na ge</mandarin> Dian so <mandarin>他他们已经:ta ta men yi jing</mandarin> confirm with jonna right, confirm <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> right, as in all settled already ah, you told me that the <mandarin>那个谁:na ge shei</mandarin> is making very tough ya all the things but


that is during the divorce or after, , , okay, if it's mandatory yes you can do it but it's just that the court order him to go [orh] ultimately he has to go but he still play punk lah uh


oh so he still in singapore ah


is legit Chio one is it you told me before uh ya


ya ya ya you told me ya you're suppose to send me the photo right show me the facebook


so ya so he's beings he is in a legal tussle with <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> into other father you know who is a black almost a billion air already


<mandarin>那种很夸张很:na zhong hen kua zhang hen</mandarin> okay lah <mandarin>这个夸张的是:zhe ge kua zhang de shi</mandarin> definitely depends lor


I'm talking about divorce case lah I think, reasonably good <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> lawyer <mandarin>不要讲:bu yao jiang</mandarin> those super top <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> I think even <mandarin>几年一百千也是:ji nian yi bai qian ye shi</mandarin>, [orh] okay I see I see there is a stage one and stage two lah


no you have to see so for stage one you can contest already on the reasons for divorce, that's separate already


okay lah then <mandarin>这些就:zhe xie jiu</mandarin> under civil suit Liao


not their shit


all these bloody, divorce lawyers right, think like, they lie, a lot a lot they just they they but they teach him how to like of cause ultimately is the client's are the ones yes but what I mean is they teach them how to lie lah


five more minutes


then <mandarin>你要吃什么又是吃:ni yao chi shen me you shi chi</mandarin> Prata ah


actually <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> lah <mandarin>今天:jin tian</mandarin> since <mandarin>你在这边我们住住靠近的:ni zai zhe bian wo men zhu zhu kao jin de</mandarin> <mandarin>该吃面我们才去在这边的:gai chi mian wo men cai qu zai zhe bian de</mandarin> what


then <mandarin>吃这边:chi zhe bian</mandarin> lah <mandarin>比较快:bi jiao kuai</mandarin> what, I mean whatever lah near by mah


as in <mandarin>那个是:na ge shi</mandarin>


well Prata Prata can ah <mandarin>我可以都:wo ke yi dou</mandarin> eat <mandarin>我很久没有吃:wo hen jiu mei you chi</mandarin> Liao but


okay lor, parking meh


ya it's a good start what <mandarin>不要跌倒就好:bu yao die dao jiu hao</mandarin> Liao mah


no but no <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> just <mandarin>不喜欢带东西走:bu xi huan dai dong xi zou</mandarin> has something like


okay, let's do this, okay, uh, eh <mandarin>你没有:ni mei you</mandarin> create <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> list meh


<mandarin>去:qu</mandarin> google, google <mandarin>讲什么:jiang shen me</mandarin> uh


like, do you know any ramped up players


uh, yesterday what were they they were in, oh <mandarin>是昨天:shi zuo tian</mandarin> meh


!aiyo! that means <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> miss <mandarin>掉:diao</mandarin> ah, uh actually that's true, oh, [orh] okay okay but <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> oh first league <mandarin>而已:er yi</mandarin> lah quarter final


oh <mandarin>还是没没有:hai shi mei mei you</mandarin> first league <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> I think <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> that's it Liao hor [orh] <mandarin>因为就是:yin wei jiu shi</mandarin> compress format <mandarin>对对对对对:dui dui dui dui dui</mandarin> !wah! <mandarin>这样这样这样就:zhe yang zhe yang zhe yang jiu</mandarin> one game one game win all ah then where's the


Sibeh Bo Hua, neutral ground ah


so so all the <mandarin>现在全部:xian zai quan bu</mandarin> champions league <mandarin>他们都:ta men dou</mandarin> play neutral ground ah, oh <mandarin>就像:jiu xiang</mandarin> NBA <mandarin>这样一个:zhe yang yi ge</mandarin> bubble oh so they're all in portugal now meh


!wah! <mandarin>这样的话我们现在去去:zhe yang de hua wo men xian zai qu qu</mandarin> portugal <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> Sibeh <mandarin>爽:shuang</mandarin> ya lah but <mandarin>你可以看那谁那谁那谁:ni ke yi kan na shei na shei na shei</mandarin> soccer player <mandarin>走走来走去的:zou zou lai zou qu de</mandarin> oh actually <mandarin>也是不会:ye shi bu hui</mandarin> lah <mandarin>他们也是:ta men ye shi</mandarin> lockdown, !walao! <mandarin>你你是看都:ni ni shi kan dou</mandarin> cristiano ronaldo <mandarin>你不会去跟他抱一下:ni bu hui qu gen ta bao yi xia</mandarin> meh


oh I thought <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> weekend, oh <mandarin>因为那:yin wei na</mandarin> plus


, that's true, anyway it's knockout stage <mandarin>你每一个都要赢的吗没有说没有没有说:ni mei yi ge dou yao ying de ma mei you shuo mei you mei you shuo</mandarin> ah <mandarin>没有说:mei you shuo</mandarin>


!wah! but <mandarin>我看:wo kan</mandarin> atlanta <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> italian league <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> tables <mandarin>我想:wo xiang</mandarin> !huh!


Hamsap uh of cause <mandarin>我看:wo kan</mandarin> basically okay lah <mandarin>讲:jiang</mandarin> ah they are the run away


err runner up, of of, of saving ah lor, !huh!


but <mandarin>我记得我看他们的:wo ji de wo kan ta men de</mandarin> goal difference [orh] <mandarin>我是差别:wo shi cha bie</mandarin> uh


<mandarin>九十八粒是:jiu shi ba li shi</mandarin> totally anti italian <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> lor, uh but <mandarin>我我去看他们的:wo wo qu kan ta men de</mandarin> list of player hor, I don't know, a single one uh <mandarin>我都不认识:wo dou bu ren shi</mandarin> I think maybe <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> name <mandarin>还是两个:hai shi liang ge</mandarin> name <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> I recognise


okay lah but actually <mandarin>我没有什么:wo mei you shen me</mandarin> follows serie R <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> lah


what do you think of Barolo <mandarin>节在:jie zai</mandarin> UEFA


as in <mandarin>做:zuo</mandarin> coach ah


but italian league <mandarin>是这样的吗他们是:shi zhe yang de ma ta men shi</mandarin> uh <mandarin>跑来跑去的吗好像:pao lai pao qu de ma hao xiang</mandarin> Beju <mandarin>他也我记得他:ta ye wo ji de ta</mandarin> play for <mandarin>两个:liang ge</mandarin> milan and Uva


ah <mandarin>你也是:ni ye shi</mandarin> ah <mandarin>我记得:wo ji de</mandarin> Pirlo <mandarin>他是:ta shi</mandarin> get his start at inter <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh


ya <mandarin>因为你觉得他老:yin wei ni jue de ta lao</mandarin> Liao <mandarin>吗:ma</mandarin> but actually <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> position is <mandarin>不用不用:bu yong bu yong</mandarin> Pia <mandarin>的吗他只是这边抓那个:de ma ta zhi shi zhe bian zhua na ge</mandarin> pivot <mandarin>而已:er yi</mandarin> then spray <mandarin>那个那个:na ge na ge</mandarin> ball control <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> mid field


uh uh, paul scholes <mandarin>还会:hai hui</mandarin> try and score you know where as Pirlo <mandarin>他好像:ta hao xiang</mandarin> <mandarin>没有什么:mei you shen me</mandarin> try to score <mandarin>这样的对对对:zhe yang de dui dui dui</mandarin> ya


but, ya lor


I don't know


professional level leh ah ya, ah <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> sixteen seventeen ah ah ah <mandarin>对对对马上:dui dui dui ma shang</mandarin> fast track


only in only in football lah, but <mandarin>也他没有那么:ye ta mei you na me</mandarin> Zai <mandarin>吗你看也:ma ni kan ye</mandarin> Zidane <mandarin>都要从从那个:dou yao cong cong na ge</mandarin> b team <mandarin>开始:kai shi</mandarin> lor Guardiola <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> Guardiola <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> B team <mandarin>开始:kai shi</mandarin> then <mandarin>他才:ta cai</mandarin> okay <mandarin>给你一个:gei ni yi ge</mandarin> big promo but <mandarin>因为因为:yin wei yin wei</mandarin> it make sense <mandarin>因为你:yin wei ni</mandarin> B team <mandarin>你认识很多那些:ni ren shi hen duo nei xie</mandarin> youth setup Liao you know <mandarin>很多:hen duo</mandarin> youth player


(mmhmm), but coach <mandarin>不一样好想好想:bu yi yang hao xiang hao xiang</mandarin> ah Buffon Buffon <mandarin>也是讲:ye shi jiang</mandarin> !huh!


I got to call you mister Buffon <mandarin>比他大一岁鞋我跟你踢的我还:bi ta da yi sui xie wo gen ni ti de wo hai</mandarin> Buffon made his debut Buffon made his debut before Pirlo what <mandarin>我记得:wo ji de</mandarin> Buffon <mandarin>他十六岁就:ta shi liu sui jiu</mandarin> Parma Liao uh <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> Parma then <mandarin>他讲:ta jiang</mandarin> !huh! now I got do you call you mister


ya <mandarin>比她大一岁:bi ta da yi sui</mandarin> Buffon <mandarin>七八年:qi ba nian</mandarin> Pirlo <mandarin>七九跟我们一样:qi jiu gen wo men yi yang</mandarin> ya ya Pirlo is seventy nine, ya, ya same age know !walao!, yup


, but okay lah I I guess I guess <mandarin>如果你:ru guo ni</mandarin> <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> you were to do the <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> player coach lah


you know NBA <mandarin>有的吗那种:you de ma na zhong</mandarin> basketball <mandarin>有那种:you na zhong</mandarin> player coach mah <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> as <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> player [orh] you are already the coach especially <mandarin>你做:ni zuo</mandarin> point guard <mandarin>这种这种的:zhe zhong zhe zhong de</mandarin> you know all the ah you already know all the plays and everything mah


ya, but ah <mandarin>我觉得:wo jue de</mandarin> first thing is <mandarin>你要那个:ni yao na ge</mandarin> player's respect you lah especially <mandarin>如果你有:ru guo ni you</mandarin> like ronaldo, you know <mandarin>你有一个:ni you yi ge</mandarin> superstar <mandarin>你才:ni cai</mandarin> eh please <mandarin>我都赢比你多:wo dou ying bi ni duo</mandarin> Liao <mandarin>我这么你你哪里可以:wo zhe me ni ni na li ke yi</mandarin> coach <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> you know uh that's why Sarri cannot mah


because, , is it


the Satian also, I also don't know but no but last time all the coaches have, some links to err barcelona I think the one before ah milan nova also was ya but this satian I think is like no history not much history with barcelona one ya


, actually I think as a coach you must convince the player listen to you lah maybe <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> idea <mandarin>很好:hen hao</mandarin> but, you know Ibrah don't respect him one what so whatever Guardiola tell him he also


eff you you know I'm gonna do it my way yes yes personality also lah they like, ya <mandarin>你看:ni kan</mandarin> Mourinho Mourinho also as a player he was nothing wenger never played professional football right so but they can still convinced


the players trust me you know you ah we'll do it this way we can win, , actually but actually I think like players, players actually make quite good managers because I've been there mah, I I know what's it's like ah even you don't have to ba a player <mandarin>好像:hao xiang</mandarin> clock was never a very good professional


but <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> understand <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> setting <mandarin>他懂:ta dong</mandarin> like what what is what is like et cetera, ya, actually ferguson was a was a ya lor ya lor ferguson was actually quite a a good player he was a scottish national know


as a player his <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> play striker <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> ferguson


ya, how how how uh how do you think you can make your team win then <mandarin>他讲:ta jiang</mandarin> well, err the number what a a jockey has never been a horse before but he can still win the race right <mandarin>他这样将他:ta zhe yang jiang ta</mandarin> steady <mandarin>你这样讲就是你最厉害:ni zhe yang jiang jiu shi ni zui li hai</mandarin> Liao lor !hannor!


ya, but the ya, actually <mandarin>我跟你讲过:wo gen ni jiang guo</mandarin> ah I'm very puzzled <mandarin>为什么:wei shen me</mandarin> Maldini is not given a bigger role at err


but <mandarin>他不:ta bu</mandarin> prominent you know I would have thought <mandarin>他们:ta men</mandarin> groom <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> to be, politics ah


uh, (mmhmm)


ya lah ya lah, the technical director is has a lot of power one lah


director, oh so so in in italy the the technical director is as path who as the coach one lah


it's like a different type of power altogether coach of you be ya ya it's a different type of a power but what the primary one is it's a steam power as as his, ya, england is different england the the manager make all the calls mah, like although now I think they also have technical directors but


but in in england ya


yes yes, I thought england is more in england is more in I mean italy is less lah <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> in england it's like eh I want this player technical director you figure out how to buy him ah ah ah like that technical director <mandarin>才看:cai kan</mandarin> nah I can't do this like that like that rather than yes okay okay I go and try and buy them I think I think spain <mandarin>好像也是这样的:hao xiang ye shi zhe yang de</mandarin> eh spain <mandarin>好像也是:hao xiang ye shi</mandarin> can bill


oh, okay okay


ya but like past few years just, ,


uh, then <mandarin>你们的:ni men de</mandarin> youth setup leh


I remember you, Maldini <mandarin>儿子:er zi</mandarin> ah, is he good


oh maybe is it because is too young or, actually <mandarin>他老爸二十岁就已经已经做已经要做:ta lao ba er shi sui jiu yi jing yi jing zuo yi jing yao zuo</mandarin> captain Liao lor ya so he's not super Zai lah he's okay <mandarin>而已:er yi</mandarin> lah ya lor <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> lor <mandarin>我记得:wo ji de</mandarin> Maldini <mandarin>二十二十一岁:er shi er shi yi sui</mandarin> [orh] <mandarin>就已经是:jiu yi jing shi</mandarin> first choice


but usually but that that's the thing ah <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> goalkeeper <mandarin>两三个吗:liang san ge ma</mandarin> ya lah, ya, actually a lot of good goalkeeper they they build very young one what Casillas uh then <mandarin>刚才我讲:gang cai wo jiang</mandarin> Buffon <mandarin>讲:jiang</mandarin> Buffon <mandarin>很年轻而已:hen nian qing er yi</mandarin> eh Casillas <mandarin>他赢第一个:ta ying di yi ge</mandarin> champions league <mandarin>的时候:de shi hou</mandarin> [orh] <mandarin>我记得:wo ji de</mandarin> competitor <mandarin>讲:jiang</mandarin> he can't even drive to the stadium he has to cycle to the stadium for his training and <mandarin>他已经赢了一个他是个:ta yi jing ying le yi ge ta shi ge</mandarin> european champion Liao he can't even drive to the stadium and he has to cycle every morning to the stadium


ya ya just now just now I was I was just double checking lah ah is okay as long as uh you see the wave then is okay no lah no lah ya nevermind just talking


!aiya! !wah! next year I next year I really hope man U <mandarin>可以:ke yi</mandarin> buck up you know ya very fast I think within within one two months <mandarin>可以:ke yi</mandarin> bruno Fernandes steady mah <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> earn <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> penalty but actually against <mandarin>我看那个:wo kan na ge</mandarin> europa league [orh] actually we should have put them away long ago ah <mandarin>我们很多很多:wo men hen duo hen duo</mandarin> chance [orh] keeper safe <mandarin>我看:wo kan</mandarin> highlights


like keeper save <mandarin>都:dou</mandarin> lah <mandarin>还是那种:hai shi na zhong</mandarin> last ditch tackle ah but <mandarin>他们也是有几个:ta men ye shi you ji ge</mandarin> clear chances so it's like almost like end to end lah but <mandarin>我们有:wo men you</mandarin> two chances to their chances <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> lah, then but really lor we should have just blown them away like could have easily been <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> five two five three <mandarin>的那种:de na zhong</mandarin> score line


then in the end <mandarin>要靠那个:yao kao na ge</mandarin> penalty which I saw already I say , marshall <mandarin>他很快:ta hen kuai</mandarin> so <mandarin>他每次:ta mei ci</mandarin> get in front of <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> last man [orh]


he got ah he got enough time to shoot one know <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> purposely slow down


to see what the keeper do, and then Kena chop down from behind lah but, he got in front of the last man that's that's why <mandarin>他他:ta ta</mandarin> Zai <mandarin>就是这样他的:jiu shi zhe yang ta de</mandarin> timing and <mandarin>他很:ta hen</mandarin> quick mah, that's why <mandarin>他每次有那种:ta mei ci you na zhong</mandarin> , uh opportunity where you know his in <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> one on one position


tired lah your players , , actually normally normal football ends in may mah because june always got world cup or got european cup ah so you have a three months break I think is fine lah but more for like surgeries or these things lah okay


but, this year a bit different, so the young players will recover faster what <mandarin>你老:ni lao</mandarin> Liao eh


!walao! <mandarin>明年我要那个:ming nian wo yao na ge</mandarin> starting level <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> marshall centre forward, rashford on the left missing !huh!, jadon Sancho, but <mandarin>我在想:wo zai xiang</mandarin> , dorman <mandarin>几年前也是讲:ji nian qian ye shi jiang</mandarin> we will never sell the mayway then <mandarin>两个礼拜后:liang ge li bai hou</mandarin> bye bye barcelona eh hello is ya just <mandarin>讲:jiang</mandarin> !aiya! <mandarin>这种:zhe zhong</mandarin> just just posturing


you know some clubs will always be <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> sand club, uh how's you know right <mandarin>有一些:you yi xie</mandarin> club forever <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> selling club I think department is the cut big enough to buy it's just that the amount that, it's not the way they are run lah I feel like dorman ah


uh barcelona real madrid <mandarin>他不用管的:ta bu yong guan de</mandarin> uh PSG <mandarin>不用管的:bu yong guan de</mandarin> but octman <mandarin>是那种:shi na zhong</mandarin> eh <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> sensible <mandarin>一点:yi dian</mandarin> okay two hundred million we got him for we got him for like what five <mandarin>小小小小那个:xiao xiao xiao xiao na ge</mandarin> two hundred million <mandarin>我们可以买多几个:wo men ke yi mai duo ji ge</mandarin> develop thomas develop <mandarin>很多:hen duo</mandarin> players eh like Pertossi was one a dorman you know <mandarin>只:zhi</mandarin> clock range <mandarin>他前:ta qian</mandarin> uh got #mario gotze# Gotze <mandarin>他也是:ta ye shi</mandarin> became famous in <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> dorman team with Kagawa <mandarin>这些:zhe xie</mandarin> yes


uh <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> then dorman then <mandarin>去到:qu dao</mandarin> man U one season then Cui mah then <mandarin>他又回去:ta you hui qu</mandarin> dorman ya ya <mandarin>有人卖:you ren mai</mandarin> dorman then <mandarin>还有:hai you</mandarin> damn bailey <mandarin>我记得他也是:wo ji de ta ye shi</mandarin> dorman <mandarin>他也是很:ta ye shi hen</mandarin> Zai when I saw him I was like !walao! step <mandarin>对他们:dui ta men</mandarin> produce a lot of talent


like Oblak <mandarin>你看:ni kan</mandarin> ah before Oblak who was their who was their eh Argiro was err <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> Oblak err sorry another team <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> Atletico madrid <mandarin>也是一直:ye shi yi zhi</mandarin> produce <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> ah eh he <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> just find <mandarin>那些:nei xie</mandarin> talent then <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> groom <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> until superstar


but <mandarin>那个也不是很好:na ge ye bu shi hen hao</mandarin> mah


#diego costa#, Griezmann, eh <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> Griezmann <mandarin>在那个:zai na ge</mandarin> israel ah Griezmann Griezmann Griezmann <mandarin>在那边:zai na bian</mandarin>, err <mandarin>他买谁:ta mai shei</mandarin> yes yes but <mandarin>我我记得:wo wo ji de</mandarin> err


the last ten years hor <mandarin>你要看:ni yao kan</mandarin> eh Atletico madrid produced ah, err Oblak, #de gea# so <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> produce three top three keepers in the world in a roll leh and they were nobody before they <mandarin>他们去:ta men qu</mandarin> Atletico madrid lor so after #de gea# ah <mandarin>你卖掉:ni mai diao</mandarin> #de gea# oh okay okay <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> young players <mandarin>叫:jiao</mandarin> Courtois then Courtois become


like almost number one oh <mandarin>卖掉:mai diao</mandarin> Courtois lor oh then Oblak then Oblak is like almost <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> number one, it's like where do you keep finding there's like <mandarin>我要去:wo yao qu</mandarin> poach <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> goal keeping coach ya then <mandarin>不要忘记:bu yao wang ji</mandarin> eh Aguero was from Atletico


but, dorman uh <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> Atletico <mandarin>过很多好像:guo hen duo hao xiang</mandarin> Griezmann <mandarin>也是他在:ye shi ta zai</mandarin> Griezmann <mandarin>我记得他在:wo ji de ta zai</mandarin> Sevilla was not bad then <mandarin>去到:qu dao</mandarin> Atletico <mandarin>就:jiu</mandarin> superstar


premier league players [loh] eh <mandarin>你看:ni kan</mandarin> premier league players [orh] <mandarin>有事我看他们的:you shi wo kan ta men de</mandarin> first touch <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> like eh come on man, especially <mandarin>那些:nei xie</mandarin> defender it you know what I mean


but you <mandarin>你看:ni kan</mandarin> spanish league [orh] <mandarin>那些:nei xie</mandarin> defender <mandarin>都会:dou hui</mandarin> Tiki Taka <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh, ya so I but <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> focus on different thing lah like


like out out run out gun people mah, like <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> Pia lor, whereas, err italian league <mandarin>就比较慢慢一点:jiu bi jiao man man yi dian</mandarin> you know


ya ya


ah ah, [orh]


ya lor, how many man U matches I have not watch [orh] mainly because of this they charged me what sixty dollars a month just to watch


EPL matches and, and and ya then I want to watch champions league I got to subscribe starhub, then then another yo ya you know what I mean right ya so totally if I want all the football I have to pay hundred dollars a month whereas across the course way astro


twenty Ringgit or something shit like that you know then <mandarin>他们就看到完:ta men jiu kan dao wan</mandarin> Liao what for <mandarin>我那天我去:wo na tian wo qu</mandarin> try to google <mandarin>看我可以:kan wo ke yi</mandarin> subscribe to astro from home


ya , ya, that day <mandarin>我看他广告:wo kan ta guang gao</mandarin> lah lifetime


eh ah actually <mandarin>我你有没有:wo ni you mei you</mandarin> try <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> wire


[orh]


but but but hor <mandarin>他会:ta hui</mandarin> display [orh] oh is connected to <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> accessory then <mandarin>我不可以用:wo bu ke yi yong</mandarin> so actually the the developer app developer are ah so the app developer are not stupid <mandarin>他懂:ta dong</mandarin> oh I know what you are trying to do <mandarin>他不让我们他不让我们的:ta bu rang wo men ta bu rang wo men de</mandarin> ah


ya, it's good lah


but most of the time <mandarin>我是在我是自己看吗:wo shi zai wo shi zi ji kan ma</mandarin> so <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> ipad <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> open and <mandarin>拿回:na hui</mandarin> ipad lor <mandarin>在家里慢慢看:zai jia li man man kan</mandarin> ah ipad <mandarin>看:kan</mandarin> lor so <mandarin>我也没有在:wo ye mei you zai</mandarin> living room <mandarin>看看:kan kan</mandarin> soccer Liao <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> <mandarin>我自己一个看:wo zi ji yi ge kan</mandarin> sia ah no need ah so


start at three AM <mandarin>我都不用去想:wo dou bu yong qu xiang</mandarin> Liao lor ya I'm already sleeping already lah I won't wake up already


eh so now the champions league all three AM right, !wah! shit lah no way to watch la


ah unless I go and sleep with my kid at like nine ten o'clock then like, if I fall asleep before at ten o'clock right, I put her to sleep right, I will wake up around, if I'm not too shag


so <mandarin>我要快点做完这个东西:wo yao kuai dian zuo wan zhe ge dong xi</mandarin> so instead usually [orh] I'm ready by eight forty five one, okay <mandarin>我我:wo wo</mandarin> actually I can be earlier one I take my time one <mandarin>我是:wo shi</mandarin> eight forty five


then <mandarin>我要等到:wo yao deng dao</mandarin> nine o'clock, nine nine, nine O five nine ten for emily <mandarin>因为他要:yin wei ta yao</mandarin> makeup everything


, bring her to school <mandarin>在车里跟她讲话:zai che li gen ta jiang hua</mandarin> then <mandarin>我就等她:wo jiu deng ta</mandarin> lor, then <mandarin>我每次等她:wo mei ci deng ta</mandarin> twenty minute <mandarin>我在那边看我的:wo zai na bian kan wo de</mandarin> news ah <mandarin>还是什么屁:hai shi shen me pi</mandarin> lah ah, so today <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> eh I got to go earlier lah then <mandarin>就:jiu</mandarin> okay lor I just bring her then <mandarin>她也是:ta ye shi</mandarin> eh !wah! <mandarin>做这边做这个吗:zuo zhe bian zuo zhe ge ma</mandarin> Gou Tia <mandarin>我要早点来吗早点:wo yao zao dian lai ma zao dian</mandarin> ya <mandarin>我早一点来:wo zao yi dian lai</mandarin> settle this so that <mandarin>我们可以去吃:wo men ke yi qu chi</mandarin> Prata and I don't have to rush back to go and fetch her later mah ya <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> one hour up <mandarin>我们去吃:wo men qu chi</mandarin> Prata Liao


ah


, you you know the older they get ah the the lesser you know, uh <mandarin>有时候我觉得我:you shi hou wo jue de wo</mandarin> father <mandarin>他已经活:ta yi jing huo</mandarin> ya ya ya the blood thinner


maybe less then <mandarin>五次:wu ci</mandarin> in my whole life


<mandarin>只不是他不:zhi bu shi ta bu</mandarin> affectionate <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> lah <mandarin>不像我们这个年代每次跟孩子讲话:bu xiang wo men zhe ge nian dai mei ci gen hai zi jiang hua</mandarin> right uh,


but <mandarin>我们年代不一样我们的:wo men nian dai bu yi yang wo men de</mandarin> eh you want to do this !hey! buddy you know eh eh you know we will try to be their friend but <mandarin>那个年代是:na ge nian dai shi</mandarin> just be father ah


err, yes, err usually people will when you say half day is the morning lah


err can be quite early one because they know parents have so is like yes yes yes ya so so they will start from seven or even some ah before that so actually no the the the whole place operates full day


but is just you pay ah you pay how much what you want lah ah so uh actually the working mother subsidy ah can comes up to bout few hundred dollars so like for <mandarin>我这个:wo zhe ge</mandarin> right, uh


uh ya lor you you need to check with whatever you want to go first see you, , I think as early as seven or seven like that, err, twelve lor I think twelve or one o'clock lor ah then after that is uh <mandarin>都:dou</mandarin> seven I think service seven is ah


ya, yes I think so, ya, yes so we would we pay for full day


because, the uh is the same amount actually because uh <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> work I told you <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> working mother subsidy right, err it, they actually give you more subsidy if you do if you take the full day so actually the different workout out to be identical so oh


no it's it's just like that lor it's because, but it's like I think if working mother if you choose half day they give you three hundred dollar subsidy if you choose full day they give you six hundred dollar subsidy


err let me see, I can give you the exact number actually, seven forty eight


per month <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> with GST ah, ya ya ya, so the school fees for full day ya so seven fifty for full day lah err, ya so you go to those


err my first school PCF got even cheaper lah because <mandarin>这个是:zhe ge shi</mandarin> with subsidy [orh] with six hundred dollars subsidies <mandarin>是不是不是:shi bu shi bu shi</mandarin> so this one is private so I think our subsidy about five six hundred dollars so it's actually <mandarin>千二这样:qian er zhe yang</mandarin> working mother ah <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> is a working mother


, I think <mandarin>是一一缕的:shi yi yi lv de</mandarin> ah <mandarin>一缕的一缕的:yi lv de yi lv de</mandarin> as long as you are a full time employee


something like that, so apply lor anyway it's free money what, if you're considering for your son, I think it's good lah send him to school because actually


they, the academic part don't don't care lah that one you know, you know, it it it'll catch up eventually or you will teach them one is more about the social aspect, you know what I mean and about <mandarin>他们:ta men</mandarin> the self, err emotional management


so I think that is important that's why, send them early, get them exposed


, we wanted to take afternoon nap <mandarin>因为她的:yin wei ta de</mandarin> afternoon nap <mandarin>她习惯睡三个小时:ta xi guan shui san ge xiao shi</mandarin> then <mandarin>在学校他们只给一个半小时的:zai xue xiao ta men zhi gei yi ge ban xiao shi de</mandarin> nap then plus, ya afternoon


so <mandarin>她可以:ta ke yi</mandarin> sleep from one thirty to four o'clock, but <mandarin>最近她不懂为什么:zui jin ta bu dong wei shen me</mandarin> Sibeh excited maybe go to school <mandarin>她很:ta hen</mandarin> happy or whatever shit lah <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> start to sleep at ten but <mandarin>她还是:ta hai shi</mandarin> wake up at seven


so she sleep ten to seven at night that's nine hours plus <mandarin>她的:ta de</mandarin> two three hours naps so it's eleven to twelve hours ah, yes yes that will be a good range ah so <mandarin>她是:ta shi</mandarin> within brain development development ya


ya, so for <mandarin>她的:ta de</mandarin> age <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> okay ah, so they like <mandarin>我们看看在一个半小时:wo men kan kan zai yi ge ban xiao shi</mandarin> for naps in the afternoon plus <mandarin>又是:you shi</mandarin> classroom setting right <mandarin>你的同学在那边你会睡:ni de tong xue zai na bian ni hui shui</mandarin> meh then plus <mandarin>又睡又睡地:you shui you shui de</mandarin> lah ah correct correct correct then <mandarin>每一个人睡不一样的时间不想睡:mei yi ge ren shui bu yi yang de shi jian bu xiang shui</mandarin> or <mandarin>每个人都睡的吗一定是这个:mei ge ren dou shui de ma yi ding shi zhe ge</mandarin> take some time <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> you know


so, either you you provide your own bedsheet or something ah


so I think <mandarin>他们是给那种:ta men shi gei na zhong</mandarin> Tilam then you just <mandarin>用你的:yong ni de</mandarin> bedsheet <mandarin>去报:qu bao</mandarin> lor or they give you, uh you have your own lah


, take wrong mask and all this kind of thing, ya, but I feel is really good for the child's development lah <mandarin>因为她:yin wei ta</mandarin> behave quite differently in class versus at home


then for for most kids is that it is very normal that they behave like A and B at home ah a a a <mandarin>在家里:zai jia li</mandarin> I'm the king mah you know like [orh] <mandarin>爸爸妈妈可以欺负的什么什么什么啊也有:ba ba ma ma ke yi qi fu de shen me shen me shen me a ye you</mandarin> maid <mandarin>又是有:you shi you</mandarin> maid ya


cannot like <mandarin>真的是有:zhen de shi you</mandarin> , so when your kid goes to school might be different also, uh, , ya


I'm sure <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> wife <mandarin>也是会:ye shi hui</mandarin> , uh understand the values of it lah, ya


they only open the application in september or don't know what, ya ya <mandarin>两个都要:liang ge dou yao</mandarin> my wife also


also musician also want ah she,


I'm surprised you don't have a piano at home, [orh] <mandarin>她那边有:ta na bian you</mandarin> lah, oh, that day <mandarin>我的一个:wo de yi ge</mandarin> friend on on whatsapp


uh group chat lah <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> group chat, over the poker group chat ah say oh why say oh, because <mandarin>他们:ta men</mandarin> singaporean but they moved to hong-kong for work mah, uh <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> wife actually the parents <mandarin>在:zai</mandarin> hong-kong so actually but the wife keep <mandarin>很:hen</mandarin> err like primary school <mandarin>就在这边:jiu zai zhe bian</mandarin> Liao, but they moved back to hong-kong for work


err both of their lawyers, so then eh, why you suddenly then oh, err because initially when we moved back few years ago we left our piano at friend's house but the friends move house and no no place to play piano so


eh Sai Buay


and he's not even the he's not even the he's not even the main guys <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> main guy <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> a Laojiao sia oh I know this kid <mandarin>以前我教过他对不对我:yi qian wo jiao guo ta dui bu dui wo</mandarin> send him to you, ya


but <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> suspect <mandarin>我的女儿:wo de nv er</mandarin> <mandarin>我的女儿可能没有那个:wo de nv er ke neng mei you na ge</mandarin> talent <mandarin>她没有那个:ta mei you na ge</mandarin> patience, , yes yes, so <mandarin>我真在想:wo zhen zai xiang</mandarin> should I force her to learn a piano


emily will know lah she bought this uh xylophone his toy it is uh like uh like to teach her so but when <mandarin>你打:ni da</mandarin> [orh] eh the sound is pitch perfect so is


a toy but it's


K lah my idea is hor let her learn one musical instrument one art lah either painting or uh something that put effort into it like learn like the go for lesson all these things okay, and, I want her to do one team sports that's enough for me, why sports cause good mah sports you learn discipline you know values all this thing and team sport because I want her to learn leadership how to know being team player all these things


you know and make friends uh, yes yes yes yes


because err


social skill uh this leadership skill, but <mandarin>你要看那个性格也是:ni yao kan na ge xing ge ye shi</mandarin> if if <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> child <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> innately <mandarin>是个:shi ge</mandarin> introverted <mandarin>的人:de ren</mandarin> lor then okay <mandarin>没有反正他只问你是很:mei you fan zheng ta zhi wen ni shi hen</mandarin> introverted <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> then <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> just <mandarin>做:zuo</mandarin> individual sports lor <mandarin>我觉得不要:wo jue de bu yao</mandarin> yes yes but I I feel like when he's young yes lah but as <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> teens Liao [orh] I want to focus on individual because you know


then okay lor <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> as <mandarin>你你懂:ni ni dong</mandarin> lah, when we all young we always say oh you work on your weakness that's when you're young, when you already know who you are right you your strength you paid for your strength, right you you you you you excel in life


by being effing good at one particular thing because people pay you for that, you can suck at everything else but if you are the best in in the field at this particular thing ah you're paid but if you're just, an average guy throughout everything ah


you always you just you're just average <mandarin>你懂了吗:ni dong le ma</mandarin> right, michael jordan is paid because he's damn good at winning, that's all, right but he may be a lousy teammate he may be a lousy you know whatever but nobody cares


alright so as long as my idea is just don't suck okay just don't suck at it at at other things okay a good person, right uh


the last I I I spoke to Dian maybe six months <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> john lah making tough difficult for her lor


no these past three years these past two years like simple things hor like showing up for <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> mandatory counseling course, don't show up so <mandarin>一直:yi zhi</mandarin> postpone postpone postpone


yes but <mandarin>他对对对:ta dui dui dui</mandarin> so <mandarin>他他图:ta ta tu</mandarin> lah <mandarin>他一直图:ta yi zhi tu</mandarin> lah then <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> documentation <mandarin>一直:yi zhi</mandarin> delay delay <mandarin>要:yao</mandarin> declares <mandarin>什么然后:shen me ran hou</mandarin> you can <mandarin>图:tu</mandarin> one what, you you know legal when it comes to legal right there's so many things you can you you can use the legal system to your advantage mah <mandarin>你可以图吗:ni ke yi tu ma</mandarin>


but <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> family <mandarin>全部在:quan bu zai</mandarin> malaysia <mandarin>我我也:wo wo ye</mandarin> I don't


so to me it's like eh come on, this is still your wife and your children right


err, okay, err, so I I met the has the the this I know this guy