you you express it in a way in a defensive like like it makes him do it more you see so this is the part that that that she has to work on herself to make it sell it to me in a way that I understand ah okay I know my limits I have to stop, you know uh this is the time for me to to to take a step back lah don't keep going lah you know cause I I understand


where where compared to to Junita is different you know she know when to tone down she knows when to calm down and talk to me in a way that I will just cool down instantly you see because this person is supposed to be in love with I'm not supposed to be, always rage and fighting no no no this person is not is like equivalent to mum


oh he's similar is he similar you mean peter is similar like me is it


how long the trip sia, india


he should be given an award you know this is kind of men ah must given an award nobel prize award, I deserve the award okay


why the family no support, oh, ya what woman I don't understand why women is like that, no not only your sister women is like that no it's like okay they are facing a problem okay


instead of of opening it up and trying to work on it they let it fester fester fester and then every time you do something uh to hurt me it keeps accumulate until ah they make a decision ah you know like ah I I'm gonna leave this guy that's it but this period of thing that you're facing you didn't open up I didn't know


you keep it inside I cannot read your mind I cannot, keep a distance no, straightaway couple therapy yes


eh but at the start how was how was their their relationship


so arrogant ah money ah


so so okay, now I'm going to put it the whole thing of his life and his income to another another uh direction okay his his line he's making money he's got a happy family he got kids house job everything


he when he feels he's happy, he won't he should try to make himself more happy he should start flirting he should go and womanise he should go and enjoy because you see, by being good family oriented man what happen eventually the woman will get bored


who vietnam or what, oh ya lah okay normally ah normally ah okay after a marriage ah, okay there's a period before you a man starts to do that


that most of the time is something is not happy something is not satisfied in his relationship or or something is sexual intimacy or whatever that make him that he has to go and he gets it from outside somebody else okay


ya some men is different some men from that start are like them like like like returning Raj like that so when they have start the marriage the first few years of the marriage is supposed to be the most uh uh uh honeymoon period he they he's really doing that


by some men who were focused on on the on the marriage thing and then sometime something along the way happen and then they go is the there's also that type of men, ya


meet what what is gonna happen next eventually you know there's there's an attraction ah she finds me attractive I find her attractive then it happens, you see but after that there's a possibility of you know like, you going to get be with them you know uh a short term is a short term thing <tamil>முடிஞ்சிட்டு:mudinjitu</tamil> or is is it gonna be a long term example she wanted like example to to to to get married


then I said that no no no I can't do it at the moment cause I'm still married and I'm not just gonna divorce just for you now to for this marriage it is it is too a big decision you know and and if if you really wants to be with me <tamil>என் கூட இருக்க போரான:en kooda irukka poarana</tamil> you wait


you know my thing is always to them is to wait, she was supposed to get married with another guy she was facing problems you know maybe the family didn't like her uh and and she was she was like like like trapped


because she's staying another house the family don't like you feel like in prison you know and then she was chased out of the house and then happened to be I was working and then we just meet and then, we're just talking only lah normal talking knocking friends you know after that suddenly one day she just say I'm free you want to meet then I okay then I say want to meet okay lah let's go


and because it is a <tamil>தமிலச்சி:thamilachi</tamil> and I feel she will always feel competition when it's an indian girl


ya but ya but


oh !wow!, eh you see you see this is an example of what I need I many times like that I say I won't eat if the people don't prepare the food because it's not that I cannot take and do myself, it's just sometimes you just need the love when you come back home you know that family is there that you know you know the the feeling of when you come back home and your mum ask you have you eaten because she's got something cooked wonderful yummy food


you know but you don't get that from our wives, the wives would do that for you only she wants something I want a gold chain I want to go party I want to go holiday I want this that what is happening to our culture right or not look at the wife cannot be like the mother what what more you need


!huh! then I don't have to come back uh after work ah I go see my mistress then I come back after that because my mistress is going to take good care of me compared to my own wife what logic right or not


how can women compare and you say equal with the men just because you know our jobs ah we are willing to you are you can do our job but think about it are you really doing your job to your best account ya you've got your your need you know your your your your strengths okay women naturally


they have very good eyesight you know you go back to to to to ancient time of of our our of our cavemen time men will go and hunt men will protect okay women is go and and eyes they're very good at searching and communication ah they will communicate with another community they will have this bonding thing why because of emergency in case you know no food or or someone need to take care they are good in doing this ya man is no is hunt


hunting you know they will go out they will hunt they will bring everything they do all the dirty job, ya so so basically what I'm trying to say is these things is already inculcated in our genetic in our brains in our cells that that now at this age ah actually you see what women can take care of children why men cannot


because it's already passed down from the generation to generation to generation and we are the generation right now


ah confident no someone <tamil>அந்தமாரி:anthamaari</tamil> pattern lifestyle uh and and using people you know she will bring uh the <tamil>அம்மா கொன்டு வருவா அப்பா கொன்டு வருவா:ammaa kondu varuvaa appa kondu waruwa</tamil> uh <tamil>தம்பி கொன்டு வருவா அவளோட வேல:thambi kondu waruwa avaloda vela</tamil> her duties and then, ya lah she would take care of of the clothing lah ah dressing clothing can very good


but birthday parties yes I understand for the children can but there's a limit every year must do every time you know how many thousand dollar I spend every year this birthday that birthday how stressful this period when it comes to this period this month of birthdays, ah I tell you for the past years this is the most stressful moment in my life because you will need money ah then from where to get the money and we always fight because you know oh


ask her if we can eat in a in a in a simple coffeeshop no no must eat restaurant, we can take a train no no no must take taxi so


ya she will buy a bag and then she'll say I also want she'll buy this then like please lah <tamil>காசு வந்து:kaasu wanthu</tamil> can use to do so many other thing, birthday party gifts holiday then you say then then she'll like to use this word uh happy marriage and happy wife you know you gonna marry happy happy but the wife expect happiness is !wow!


luxurious lifestyle no this cannot if I'm that kind of uh living that kind of affording that kind then can but I'm not so I was struggling, you know I I I've seen her friend ah one example ah <tamil>கத சொல்றேன்:kadha solren</tamil> okay, last time I got rant out to this couple ah


that guy is a very nice guy works in burger king, always will bring back supper <tamil>சாப்பாடு:saappaadu</tamil> burger every night then will give he say give you all nice guy patient guy quiet one day he was he was caught for theft not theft armed robbery


from his own company he know the timing of the closing ah when they are counting the money he go there he did it with a mask or what they didn't know first time but they suspected cause it happened one two time he got away with the one at raffles exchange one one time


the second one his pattern is what he will go at a timing he will put a padlock outside he will chain up so nobody can come in, ya done it a two time three time and there there happen to be this tenant guy when he was doing that I already uh kick them out because there was one incident where I I rent out the whole house


one tenant say that laptop is lost and uh stage like uh like someone stole the window open lah the the grill open is the second floor house is possible someone take a ladder climb uh this things is that even the police come and say this is staged so internal people so


they just they suspect they know who it is but they just forget about it because they all same culture people so they they're maybe like that but they want to move out I said uh after that I said all of your clear out move out only one guy I keep that that last week, so this guy was already out then after that I see the newspaper article and I heard about this then only I find out eh why this guy do this ah you know many times ah he's been desperate for money and the pressure of the woman you know this girlfriend lah she want that kind of lifestyle lah you know what is this money that money send this that fella work like dog also not he had to resort to this kind of level just to give her money so a good guy you know very good guy turn out to be so desperation sad story right


Kena long after that deported six years or what I think, he he came with a weapon and he lock it up, he didn't use it ah he just lock it up it's just a threat he took the money and he left then it became a a a habit one time he do it he didn't get caught


ah same one and then he got caught eventually lah because somehow someone who repairs the button or call the police or what somehow they already on a lookout and and they trace this fella got caught lah cause I think the last time he didn't do it he got away with it and I think I I don't know ah DNA or face description police managed to find out the guy and caught him lah and and


and and and when I look at it like fuck sad story lah you know this this thing can happen to a couple like that that that gave me a a a a a, eh be careful lah you know don't have to go to that extreme to to to to find money my case my one I'm also desperate I was need in money and temptation came in and then I I became a habit you know and and and their partner didn't like like like like


like strict or no like like like like get away say eh you better stop this this is not good ah, that kind of thing lah so we still haven't ya ya we got ourselves green tea


almost forty minutes I think it's like left another sixty sixty ah eh twenty minutes left right okay what very fast ah, after this we talk about it lah you want to go somewhere but I want to travel already


I no no going out I don't want to think because now at the moment ah <tamil>இதான் வாழ்கயா:ithan vaalkaya</tamil> and then the <tamil>இது:ithu</tamil> just keep going forward just keep doing things


now <tamil>நான் வந்து வெள செய்ய போரன்:naan wanthu weala seiya poaren</tamil> okay <tamil>கத்துக்க போரன்:kathuka poarean</tamil> so in the two things focus lah there are no distraction not I'm not ready to to start dating or you know get into that mode of dating where you want to you have the patience you have the time to you know ask that kind of cheesy question you know to to to no no no I'm I'm direct straight you like me I like you that's it


let's date meet go out you have a good time if we have chemistry it starts from there and then we still want to have a relationship it it works from there and then from there we build, you know I'm not going to go and chase you you know women don't say ah they like to say oh the guy never approach me and and and and give his number or


but there is cases where they guy approach the girl and give and the girl the girl is the guy is rejected and it affects him, it makes him think like fuck I'm I'm I'm know useless you know I'm worthless how come I can't even get a number in local community always happen foreign community is different easily can easily can make friend #ang moh# lady you just have to smile and talk just


get along then you say you want to hang out cool you know why not they trust easily they get along really easily they their culture is totally different from our our local community, here we see people also our own neighbour also we stare you know we don't even want to eh good morning good hello how's your day then I saw my daughter that day !wow! !wow! very nice piano we don't want to have that Kampung spirit we don't have that that that link you know


ya we don't have that trust lah you know we we have built that that that thing the defensive thing so strong singaporeans that that that we are our singaporean lah ah you can say that lah Kiasu lah like to long queue lah like to like to complain lah it is it is the nature because , they we complain because we unable to really complain the real problem we are unhappy with this government this that we cannot do that we cannot do nothing we cannot protest we cannot slide you cannot say our unhappiness we just have to accept it you know and then we can only complain to our each other people it became like that


ya that one is a bit too much but no basically it's it's it's like that one ah, it's monkey see monkey do it's it's it's it's it's it's a clique thing lah it's it's they call this the the the the the the the wolf pack pack it's a pack


oh, so totally cannot use that


oh, but then it's the space, the station but it's that space that enclosed space no as in the total space is more


oh


exactly


oh you wear your mask, oh oh ya lah because it's big place a lot of people lah


yes yes


ya lah, so you see the woman ah


I really err Misoginia ah you know this term I'm really like this ah I say woman, this woman lah okay
if you want to be respected like a woman behave like a woman
 okay know your roles okay, what is your role mother nurture children yes sometimes you do a lot you need help yes that one is okay okay but primary role is this inspire inspiration the husband


come on lah people have a nice conversation be be just be open lah nice what why cannot you know decent people just just having a conversation you are a girl you're you're you're you're attracted you're attractive don't you make yourself look attractive of course people will talk to you then it's good if you if if if if you're confident you shouldn't be able to to scared you see ya no problem have a nice day I'm going to meet my husband or something lah but don't lie lah


they plan to also do this most of them said oh I'm meeting my boyfriend oh I already have a boyfriend but how many time when they say that it's really true and how would we know, I say you said you marry your husband okay lor show me the ring lor this will be the first thing second thing you got boyfriend okay lor show me the photo lor you're together then I mean to you you feel like !wah! this guy don't trust me but it it is it is it is the only way to know you're telling the truth see I cannot be outsmarting you in the way you talk every time you know you are going this channel I must also go this channel to counter cannot I cannot be playing this countering game for the rest of my life you have to tone down drop your defenses you know they have to drop their defenses


naturally they go into the defense mode yes men also go defense mode but the man go in the defense mode when they are hurt then pain you know women go into defense mode same thing when they're hurt and and they're pain, so basically when two person are going in defense mode treating each other like it's a enemy it's a fight or flight thing you know this is the the the the subconscious take over and and you are just just reacting is like is there's block your emotions already and and you just like that okay


ya example you take the train you're tired you are hurt you are in pain you you are sitting in that in that in that chair and suddenly pregnant lady or a child come yes naturally they would look to the men why the woman cannot stand up and straightaway give why must look to the man and see the man do or not not do okay then they you know then they'll give you the look like as though you are doing a sin like that


I've seen so many time eh I naturally ah ninety nine percent of time will give my space lah okay many many time but sometimes I'm tired sometimes I'm in pain that's the time I really need to sit you know like example that day train was crowded I was with my daughter I just went to the guy who's goes sitting in that in that in that reserved chair eh can can my daughter sit she she she's she's uh want to sit on the chair you know she needs to sit lah you know eh the fella city straightaway automatically give


you can approach them but the tone you use most of the time it can be any seat we just ask them they will give to you most of the time they will because the thing is they think they may thinking that uh oh I already sit from the start of the journey you know the way and I and I'm enjoying the ride that that I don't know that people needs the seat


you know I'm I'm bored I maybe I don't mind standing somebody asked me I'll do it you know the culture has to change ya the culture has to change, yes old people need to sit ya true but the timing of the travelling in the early and coming back from work time many people are tired they need to sit too


right they need to rest because work is already stress and then travelling is stress and then home is stress then everything is stress then people will just jump down, okay, soon soon seven more minutes


ya I already messaged her she said okay


cannot be if I go there late then the rest will start eating then they you know it's like the bonding the timing of doing things together and, no friend only normal friend no earlier he's got it's like open house thing lah eh seven o'clock want party another eight o'clock party


because he has to no normal party just follow the safe distance thing lor, no lah something like christmas is coming and he feel like you know you want to spend time with friends cause yesterday is friday we never go out, so he's we didn't go out because he's planning to do saturday


ah and because of that I can go for my driving yesterday right and I can go today afternoon so so it's like it fits my my my schedule also why not, okay lah my dad my oh <tamil>அம்மா அப்பா:ammaa appaa</tamil> they are in the christmas mode


kids there also company so like at least kids they don't be uh uh affected uh you know they are not lonely you know attention you know they're they're they're happy somebody's there family strict ya but they also enjoy this is the way it's supposed to be, not like abundant you know and and and I'm I'm like a train like that work work work think about myself I have to work on myself right now I need to to be normal because I'm responsible to children I cannot don't look work on myself and then take care of them miserably work on myself and then care of them where they will feel that eh ya daddy is men is a good leader men is good to to take care of children that's why girls especially girls kids look up to the father all the time why is there such a thing called daddy issues


cause they need the attention the daddy the the the dad gives the attention they want that attention from their dad and the same thing the woman when they grow older they want the attention of the husband, ya but they want the attention they want their needs met ah but in return if they do that yes then it's a good thing then it's a happy marriage but if they if they want want want but they don't give give give or they give with condition then that's why the problem starts


and men most of the time they're just oriented focus family oriented work oriented life oriented they don't they don't think about relationship they don't think that that that eh there is a change in this oh pause I have to pause everything I have to pause the marriage I've to you know


put this thing very clearly now this thing that you did I'm not happy and I feel if we don't attend to it now I will go and meet meet my mistress something like that in the back of my mind is I meet my mistress because eventually today you don't today you say no to me okay fine tomorrow you say no then the next day you say no


then the whole week no of course I feel frustrated on your part what you supposed to do you should have said ya ya I think I've been saying I think he deserves something I'm going to do something special you know I'm going to surprise him I'm going to off all the lights when he come he open the door I'm going to be like then the fella will like !wow! this is my wife this is why you know I keep doing the things for you because you really care about me


you know when I need it and you really surprise me you know that night is going to be so wonderful that they they they you know they're going to be strawberries and ice cream and chocolate you know and they're going to have, having a sushi no this is this is should be the norm ya the guy is frustrated but if the guy has been asking asking knocking the door everyday and the woman doesn't care about the thing women ah is is is is the word I would describe to them ah is super superwoman okay or not


even ah at their worst condition ah they can still ah care for the man and love and do anything that is the strength of the women they can give birth, with so much of pain and difficulties and then after that they look at the child they can smile and they can be happy


means what they're capable of doing everything but every time most of the time they're lazy you know they will to the man ah honey tomorrow okay lah tomorrow this sick sick ah ah that fella also okay lah of course you must give in ah sometimes but they are capable they will know the limit when the time the guy is already upset you're going to okay I'm going going to take my car and she knows


he's gonna go and meet his friend then there's a possibility his girlfriend or some friend is available she will don't want that then of course she will have to meet the needs so, it's it keeps happening and happening and happening and it's chaotic lah you know I I I feel ah if I'm going to have another relationship or or marriage


I'm not going to trust because it's not that I haven't overcome and work on myself, ya ya ya of course granted I understand even if but marriage is basically a relationship which is the person is scared they are having a relationship


indian food, I want to eat indian food which indian food, which house the indian food call me, !wah! smells so good lah I cannot Tahan ah I think you also follow me go eat ah your house what food


I mean it is something very different and, ya but but still it's good thing because you make it a point one hour for you to to to sit down and talk and release yourself tell all the thing you want to say, ya of course you prefer to say it to your partner and spouse but sometimes some things uh it's just good to talk one on one with a person you clear and the right person you talk to they give you the advice you know both ways lah don't just have to be both ways we we'll have a good time ah


I think I think this is once a week thing and especially has to be on a weekend where it's toned down it's chill out it's relax there's no work we stop we record


okay I think it's recording, well I had, Meen curry at home


ya I know I I know I'm not supposed to take sugar diabetes, that one also I didn't take I only took, I was here earlier actually I came I came with my brother to see his house then


we went to see his new place and then after that we drove down you know near your place here there's actually a twenty four hour #sheng siong#, no that is the one near logan's block that is not twenty four hours that one is still closed that #sheng siong# closed at eleven o'clock it's twenty four hours one is near the anchorvale you know where the hockey pitch is directly opposite so it's the only twenty four hours in this area so I wanted to go there and


anchorvale station, you know anchorvale station they have the swimming pool then they have the the hockey beach the gym ya, it is the west side that means after after after no maybe it's not anchorvale farmway ah ah okay so there's a coffeeshop there they have and but they have a short queue lah they actually a stall with malay and indonesian food


coffeeshop, malay food one that one is a malay like restaurant that has all malay food they got #yong tau foo# it's all halal this one is opposite there and it's uh the #sheng siong# the twenty four hours #sheng siong# is there with the err with the coffeeshop so bought he bought uh he took the mixed rice they had actually malay food they have the what the #ayam penyet# then they have the the one where you pick and choose like the economical so I always choose rice


beef Rendang one chunk, and <tamil>முட்ட:mutta</tamil> seven dollars, four items four items and uh rice seven dollars


okay


ya lah #char siew mee#


circuit you got your S course your crank course then the vertical parking the horizontal parking up the slope, down slope, ya that's about it lah circuit is actually


car one circuit is good actually you should you should pray on that day right they have there's a jam in the area cause when I took I also took at Ubi so on that day I took the I took the morning test where you at eight plus, the place jam I half the most of the time I just spend the circuit he went outside couldn't even ask me do a U turn ask me to come back because it was jam everywhere so you do everything inside the circuit and your time you burn time out side road only higher chance of failing you inside circuit there's very low chance of failing it's outside road cause you don't know what's going to happen


there'll be a pedestrian suddenly rush across so that one's all problematic you do everything inside the road inside the circuit so most of time I spent inside there only it's better that way also, but ya for me the problem was parallel parking, that one up to now also when I park


that one you park sideways that means here you you it's not you reverse parking it's you reverse sideways and park oh you haven't tried parallel parking yet lah, that means the car is here and then you turn in this way then you go in like that vertical parking the car goes in this way so this is easy err last time they had cool I mean they had the poles now I now I don't think there's poles anymore right last time they have poles so you use the pole as a guideline where you where it is then you actually reverse back


that coupon can you can use show me booklet, eh I need to go to and apply for this for this coupon thing as well man


it's problematic lah the gym I tell you get the CC gym I got to book four days in advance how to plan that you going to the gym four days in advance man, damn unrealistic ah


okay, !wah! you specifically !wah! they knew they gonna give to people like us so they say cannot use for alcohol and cigarettes, morons nine ah


ya ya I only heard of that the NTUC voucher you good NTUC voucher you can use for anything lah you can even use for alcohol eh did you


I will <tamil>இப்ப தான் எனக்கு: ippa thaan enakku</tamil> credits <tamil>குடுக்கிறாங்க:kudukkuraanaga</tamil> the no <tamil>இப்போ கேழு:ippo kealu</tamil> from two thousand sixteen onwards when <tamil>உனக்கு கல்யானம் ஆச்சுனா உனக்குப புள்ள பொறந்திச்சினா: unakku kalyaanam aachu na unakku pilla poranthichi na</tamil> so <tamil>நீ போய் கேழு:nee poi kealu</tamil> that means


it's due to you what you never get doesn't mean you that just because you no longer you supposed to get it during service you supposed to get for marriage you supposed to get for your kids


ya no it's as long as are NS man you are supposed to get it it is part of the deal as long as you are NS man ya not not eh NSF means it's different that one you auto get already but I'm talking about NS men a lot of NS men don't know my brothers none of them knew hundred dollars for hundred dollars for err


hundred dollars for , hundred dollars for marriage hundred dollars for for your first child hundred dollars for your second child so for marriage for you you have for your child and for


vouchers but the vouchers the NTUC voucher you can use anything you can buy cigarettes you can buy alcohol you can buy everything Sathvik got uh hundred dollars for exemplary soldier so they gave him hundred dollar but it's his they gave him was a online NTUC voucher so whatever he buy online then they deliver to the house


and they deliver that day itself he I ask him to order for me the australian milo ya, you so you don't go there directly you order everything online and then they will just deliver it to you


he got it ya ya he told me I still say I want australian australian milo


!wah!, how come suddenly who who's this cousin, just you only ah


oh, , you can you can call sarah or Junita, who is amanda


oh the chinese girl supposed to go swimming with you, who is the one in your whatsapp photograph the the guy in the picture oh that's your cousin


no lah if it's someone someone who knows you okay lah like okay I and you know then they see you like some girl who knows you see the photo okay some unknown girl first time you pass your number see this thing thinks you some freak or what


pose beside the swimming pool pose inside the swimming pool take photograph


, she saw you giving the thumbs up from here, how the hell can they see from this side, oh you were I thought from here you show thumbs up then Makki <tamil>ட:da</tamil> she walking here


eh talking about fifty years olds halle berry just posted a photograph it came on yahoo news and yahoo india news yahoo US news


she is in a bikini she's fifty three and she post a photo saying uh you know I want other women to be confident I say this kind of bloody fucking body body every woman will be confident lah what is that for you not to


ya lah stay at home, you were dancing here, no you taking the doing the boxing in your balcony is fine with the boxing bag you dancing down here some fella gonna take you photo I gonna see you on facebook and stomp only I saw that day a video you show of you dancing you look with a freak show


ya ya ya you show me the video


that's that's one of the, that's one of the Saavithri you met on uh on uh tinder right


that one is quite often you hear the scammer case lah,


who peter tell you don't fall for this scam that bloody moron got married to the #tanjung balai# girl he's he's giving advice


anyway when it comes to foreign brides you shouldn't be taking advice from peter


she actually said that, do you have a picture


you show me, no lah nowadays single ladies they have, they have higher expectations it's it's it's something you can expect how everything is going lah money pay rise going ya career expectation


eh no you are talking no no no you are talking about those ready to mate vietnamese bride the singapore girls are not like that lah, they they want someone who challenges them they want someone who is of their caliber you if you go looking for women singapore woman that kind you know that they want that kind of challenge it's even in my even in the


eh like this hor then I already told you you go fishing in philippine pond the vietnam pond on your indonesian pond you cannot be fishing in the singapore waters and be expecting like that ah our girls down here got you you have two daughters don't you think you want your daughters to have some kind of fucking standard


even if got long way but that's how singapore girls are, <tamil>அதான் நான் சொல்றன் பேசாம:athaan naan solran peasaama</tamil> philippines <tamil>இருக்கு:irukku</tamil> indonesian <tamil>இருக்கு:irukku</tamil> okay philippines ah <tamil>இருக்கு ஏன்னா நீ ஏற்கனவே:irukku ennah nee eatkanawea</tamil> she she screwed you so take away philippines out of the picture you got vietnamese you got the indonesian and you got malaysian


ya lah just ten years keep her when she decides to she gets sick of you you get sick of her then if you if you really looking for love and all that


eh you I it's it's hard like the only one I know who got a foreign bride and he's still really happy is, uh uncle Bala but even him also Bala you so you see even he was divorced and then found his second wife


eh you


ultimately it boils down to how you started the marriage lah if you are looking for love and she is looking to to find a way out of a third world country then there's that is not called love already it's not a two way street already, I can't put it put it in anymore simpler and in more tactful way and make it sound nicer it's not nice I'm telling you if both parties are fall in love and that's a different story you if you have one party who is searching for love the other partner searching for stability that is not the same already


she stayed because she was in a no hope eh she she was already she already had a kid she really was in a no hope case and then she had, ya and when you came into the picture you got to remember she didn't even look like this you spend on plastic surgery you made her whatever she wanted you gave it to her


so she looks now like your, they're no longer conscious of how their appearance is


eh she made herself look like as though she's another singapore girl next door she's from philippines but she made herself look that and she's maintained herself in fact not she's maintained she wasn't she was below average and you made her look now what she's and she's meeting marrying in such a way that if she decides to get a another guy she'll like it's not difficult for her


okay anyway as far as april case is concerned she's gone you have left her she's left you now let's just move on to the next chapter there's no point going back and reading the same chapter you just going to end up with the same bloody problem, you look at peter when he was supposed to divorce my sister


he he had this problem this this marital problems so long ago and then already he was talking to me but I never tell him divorce ya I told him, ya in very similar to your case <tamil>அவளக்கும் நான் சொன்னென்:awalukkum naan sonnen</tamil> eh <tamil>ஒத்து வரல்ல னா:otthu waralla na</tamil> your decide sit down and decide what you all want and then during that time they went <tamil>ரென்டு பேரும்:rendu pearum</tamil> europe trip <tamil>கு போய் இருந்தாங்க:ku poi irunthaanga</tamil> they went for their family trip to europe


next thing you know she came back she was pregnant and she had a second daughter they went there going like a one month trip they went they went to euro they went spain Barcelona all they went, so when they came when no india all india that time the fella used to fly he used to fly very regularly to regularly to india and uh australia australia because he was that time a PR


uh, india <tamil>என்னனா பொன்டாட்டி:enna pondaati</tamil> when he and his wife my, my sister, he came back <tamil>அவ கர்பமா இருந்தா:awa awa garpama iruntha</tamil> next thing you know the second child was born the daughter so what was initially supposed to be where he divorced earlier he prolong the whole thing for another four years and he also is like your case trying <tamil>உன்ன மாதிரி தான்:unna maathiri thaan</tamil> he was trying to see whether can make the marriage work because of the kids


ya this guy ya he was a good guy he was trying to make the marriage work, ya ya ya <tamil>அப்பறம் என்ன கொற எண்டு தெரியல்ல:apparam enna kora endu theriyalla</tamil> don't know what went through her head so she decided no she wanted to divorce


and the whole thing prolonged for one year it was not a very simple affair they both didn't fight about the assets you know they both end up fighting because he was trying to protect the marriage he left the house and went to stay


he went down there and he was the parents would kept putting pressure everyday the father the father stop talking to him the mother also kept blaming him that for the the for them that the separation that time separation haven't yet divorce, the mother keep blaming him the father was unhappy didn't stop talking to him no they wanted him to go back but the thing is they didn't realize that he was trying to go back but she has already made up mind sister made up her mind already that she want I don't know what the fuck is wrong with my sister lah but only she no lah can't general like that but ya generalise can't generalise


you see that's the problem when you want to you want to resolve no you want to resolve conflicts right this one all should if you have the problems within the first four five years, then you can resolve you wait ten years later then you want to do this ah this is their marriage was ten year eleven ten eleven year


by then she already made up her mind and she didn't want and the only delay they had in the process is because the second kid the daughter if it wasn't bothered for that this thing would have happened earlier, and now he's divorced but ya that's how you see they their relationship was cause both are rich lah both was all flying around they were both as in they had money money <tamil>பணம் பணம்:kaasu kaasu</tamil> money makes people happy <tamil>காசு தான் பேசும்:kaasu thaan peasum</tamil> ya peter was a citibank working in the banking line uh and he was rolling big money


probably around there there about maybe more he was earning a lot lah he was really earning a lot and my cousin sister she's from a multi million dollars firm


eh no no no but you're getting the wrong picture this peter although he was he was he was a good guy he's a nice guy but when it comes to a women he was still sleeping around only what it's not exactly he was the one man one woman no he was still sleeping around just my cousin's sister didn't know lah


no lah indonesia vietnam uh I assume he was good I mean he was sleeping with the girl from orchard towers you know the vietnamese girl she she bought for him ever heard of a prostitute to buy for him birthday gifts


I think it's something to do with the the company ah which, he was with very tight with the cash cash you know he's happily married what


that is your case lah you are faithful and everything and some more rather the marriage went down but that's a problem in your case the only difference is it wasn't a two way love story


this is you're talking about Junita or you talking about the malaysian <tamil>தமிலச்சி:thamilachi</tamil> oh ya that one I saw that she was jealous that she she will always believe that she'd be in control the moment your wife found out that somebody else was in that picture and there was competition and she was losing the competition of course she's going to go all out lah


it's my alarm lah, this is the time my dad comes back so I need to put food for my father so I got this alarm everyday seven thirty, ya if not my mother will call me and start fucking me


eh the one you're talking parents love that one is


okay times have evolved lah you cannot expect everything to be the same


eh people are changing look even in your case you have changed you are the one now asking custody for your kids you have changed also what you cannot expect things to be the same


no I I I I I believe when it comes to the money part because some women are looking at it in the long run some don't believe that the marriage or the relationship is going to last so they want to take advantage as much as they can those who are in for the long run they they have a bigger picture in mind they have the foresight to see and the hindsight to actually prepare themselves but those who are just in you know eh let's burn his money as much as I can and then move on because I know this thing won't last that was the way


when you were


armed robbery


at a burger king restaurant


how many years he Kena then, !wah! he's a filipino lah


so he keep using the same modus operandi


I really I really think we should have got ourselves some alcohol


ya lah, no but really alcohol will help, , where you going out after that


fucking ridiculous ah


no for example, it's either you follow the pack or you stay away and become a lone wolf I'm telling you even that day I was in the gym here, so the gym now they only allow five people inside maximum at one time but to be very honest because they have blocked the stations in between


a lot stations


one metre <tamil>இல்ல:illa</tamil> ya so it's it's large enough and comfortable enough to take in at least seven people without breaching the one metre gap and with the the machines blocked so that you don't have everyone using it


so because they block one machine in between right so that there is still the minimum one metre gap so easily can take in seven to eight but the gym capacity they put as five


courtesy nothing <tamil>மூஞ்சில அடிச்ச மாதிரி நீ வெளிய போ அஞ்சு பேரு இருக்கோம் நீ வெள்ளில போ:moonji la adicha madhiri nee wellila poa anju pearu irukkam nee wellila poa</tamil> you know you have to leave please go


ya no I would have straight you know what I would have said I know the five person limit then I'll tell the lady eh how long have you been inside and she's been there for awhile because you are running down there really show sixty minutes so I'll say how long you been here that means you hogging the place what then how are other people going to come you start running here for two three hours means then what I wait outside for two three hours to get a chance ah


you should have a limit everybody should have a limit they never put and I come in here I'm stretching even if I run I'm still keeping the social distance I'm not I'm not err going against it just that the the condo rules put five people and I've just now inside as the six but I'm not really affecting it anyway you can be courteous and tell me you know you you can't come in and you can tell me nicely for fuck reason you have to go and be so rude about it


I tell you I was so damn pissed off ah I feel like telling off then the next thing I was thinking I end up in another photograph in your group chat again, I so worried that inside the gym I don't even bother taking out my mask, no because in the gym technically unless you're exercising then only you can take out the mask if you're not exercising that means you're resting or you're cooling in between sets you have to wear your mask


no because I Kena but I got the habit cause I started going to the public gym right the public gym is like that so the moment you finish your set you're resting you wear your mask, so ya I got the habit so down here I say okay lah fuck it lah just use the mask all the way I don't want to take out so then another one of this bitch come and tell me eh you cannot be you have to wear a mask I Kena like this I I might lose my temper so I say okay screw it


some more now when you carry weights and all these ah your fucking adrenaline pumping I tell you you get hot even more faster I was like okay lah don't want just wear the damn mask when the fella Kena she tell him rudely I wanted to go and tell tell tell her off on his behalf I want to say you can tell even if you want to follow the rules and regulation and you are one of those fucking moral police down here for fuck's sake he's a old guy you can at least show some respect what you you you want to tell him to go also can tell him properly what


you talk like as though you you own a fifty percent share in this bloody fucking property and you are now being the moral I really wanted to fuck her up eh lucky she was a lady and I didn't I really didn't want to say something like that


you careful you don't go and speak like this outside they'll stone you


eh how long the recording already, no but we have to submit by eight right so oh she said okay


why ah what's with this whole party


ya I know but why is there some kind of special occasion today or what, oh, oh I see


you are referring to the honeymoon period


I don't think you should rush into a relationship I


ya I've been thinking also which house they cooking


, no I had a peach curry yesterday <tamil>நேத்து வெச்ச மீன்:neathu wecha meen</tamil> curry, oh good finish already it should be we both clicked at the same time what


it's actually what we do regularly it's just that we didn't have alcohol this time


I agree agree, so shall we what do we press the pause button so what you put the press the


K so let's talk about horror movies


okay for me right like I personally <tamil>எனக்கு:enaku</tamil> horror movies <tamil>னா ரொம்ப புடிக்கும்:na romba pudikum</tamil> like the only genre that like


the sixth sense K this was like a very old movie I think it came out in nineteen ninety or something so like <tamil>அந்த கால கட்டத்துல இந்த மாதிரி ஒரு படம் இருக்குறதுக்கு:antha kaala katathula intha mathiri oru padam irukurathuku</tamil> it's really like something else so like basically what happens in the movie is right this psychiatrist he how the movie starts out is this guy breaks into the psychiatrist house and shoots him K so the next scene like subsequent scenes this psychiatrist is meets this little boy who is sent to him because this little boy thinks he can see ghosts right he believes he can communicate with them and all of that so throughout the movie right bit by bit this psychiatrist realises that his wife is getting very distant from him like he's like he'll be talking to her like <tamil>அவ வந்து திரும்பி எதுமே சொல்ல மாட்டா:ava vanthu thirumbi edhum solla maata</tamil> so like then he will keep going around and he'll notice that things are getting weirder and weirder and then on top of that he starts to like <tamil>கொஞ்சம் கொஞ்சமா:konjam konjama</tamil> like <tamil>அந்த சின்ன பையன நம்ப ஆரம்பிச்சிருவா:antha chinna paiyana namba arambichiruva</tamil> he starts to see things happen for himself and then he realises that there actually might be some truth to it what the little boy is saying


then towards the end right he realises that he had actually been shot dead and the little boy was right he is the ghost that the little boy can see, ya so like for that time frame right this movie came out like eighteen ninety I think so like <tamil>அந்த கால கட்டத்துல இந்த மாதிரி:antha kaala katathula intha mathiri</tamil> like <tamil>எடுக்குறது ரொம்ப கஷ்டம்:edukurathu romba kastam</tamil> so there's that and another one of M night Shayamalin movies right I think it was called the visit


so okay in my opinion I don't think it was as good as the sixth sense but definitely like again you won't see the plot twist coming so that one was like it's came out not too long ago actually I think twenty sixteen twenty seventeen so <tamil>அங்க என்ன நடக்கும்னா:anga enna nadakumna</tamil> like this single mum okay she had has been like estranged from her parents for a very long time so finally like the the her parents keep telling her that like eh like bring your children over I want to see them but then like she don't want to go and see her parents so she would send her children to go see the their grandparents basically so what happens is right so these two kids will travel alone they'll take a long train ride to go and visit their grandparents so they'll like they initially they're okay but then the grandparents like <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> rule <tamil>வச்சிருப்பாங்க சோ ராத்திரி பத்து மணிக்கு அப்புறம் யாரும் ரூம் ல இருந்து வெளிய வர கூடாது:vachirupaanga so rathiri pathu maniku apuram yaarum room irunthu veliya vara koodathu</tamil> is a strict rule okay they set for the kids then the kids also initially like like not sure why they get so strict about it so they like curious <tamil>ல வந்து:la vanthu</tamil> they K one girl and one boy the kids K the boy will come out of the room and he will see his <tamil>பாட்டி அந்த பாட்டி வந்து கதவை சொறிஞ்சிடு இருப்பாங்க:paati antha paati vanthu kathavai sorinjitu irupaanga</tamil> like doing scratching the door like doing all sorts of weird things lah


so bit by bit they start to see all these weird things happening, and then , at one point


then we realise when she tells when the daughter tells the mother on the phone that the name of the grandparents right the mother will say those are not your grandparents I don't know who they are get out of the house quickly so just nice <tamil>பின்னாடி வந்து அந்த:pinnadi vanthu antha</tamil> grandparents <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> phone <tamil>அ எடுத்துட்டு:a eduthutu</tamil> try to like attack them


then somehow they they fight back against the old people then quickly call the police and then the police comes and gets them so like this kind of like movies <tamil>எப்படி சொல்றது அந்த:eppadi solrathu antha</tamil> twist and turn <tamil>இருக்குல்ல:irukulla</tamil> like I feel like this is like out of all the horror movies right I think only M night Shaymalin has really like nailed the whole suspense thing because like K the thing about it right there was the conjuring series there was what was that


eh annabelle those sort of things right like okay use <tamil>பார்க்கும் போது ரொம்ப:parkum pothu romba</tamil> repetitive <tamil>அ இருக்கு:a iruku</tamil> cause <tamil>அதே:adhe</tamil> haunted house <tamil>இல்லனா அதே வந்து பேய் புடிச்சிட்டு:illana adhe vanthu pei pudichitu</tamil> need to perform an exorcism and all of that so I think like when it comes to really trying new things and like trying to be innovative right like I have to hand it to M night Shayamalin like he's the only one I think that's made an effort consistently


ya that's very true and like especially when it comes to tamil movies right like we tamil movies right it's so theatrical they got the like <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> like the dance in like all the songs each song <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> like specific music video <tamil>இருக்கும் எல்லாத்துக்கும் ஒரு:irukum ellathukum oru</tamil> choreography <tamil>இருக்கும்:irukum</tamil> but like <tamil>இதுலாம் சேர்ந்தது:idhulam sernthathu</tamil> I just like feel why not put in more effort into horror movies as a genre because like <tamil>யோசிச்சு பார்த்தா:yosichu partha</tamil> like tamil language <tamil>ல வந்து அதிகமா:la vanthu adhigama</tamil> horror movies like <tamil>நல்ல:nalla</tamil> horror movies <tamil>எதுமே இல்ல: edhume illa</tamil> like the <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> like franchise also I felt was very how to say interesting concept but again not very well carried out and also again like too much reliance on this whole haunted house they getting possessed and all that so I wished they would step out of the box a little bit you know I will say that's for tamil movies right there is only one horror movie that I I wouldn't even say appreciated lah I would say just something that didn't


seem so boring at that time was <tamil>பிள்ளை நிலா:pillai nila</tamil> is a very very old movie and I watched it because I have nothing better to do, but I was impressed because like at that time at that time nobody was doing horror movies <tamil>யாருமே அந்த நேரத்துல வந்த:yarume antha nerathula vantha</tamil> horror movies <tamil>பண்ணல:pannala</tamil> and it wasn't the usual haunted house thing you know <tamil>இது கொஞ்சம்:idhu konjam</tamil> like it was like getting possessed that sort of the thing but interesting <tamil>அ இருந்துச்சு:a irunthuchu</tamil> like


it was a very, how to say


either overacting or like just not doing enough, and I also think like for Shaalini like what I was so impressed by is the fact that she like, her native state in india is like she's from <tamil>கேரளா:kerala</tamil> lah but like and so her mother tongue is <tamil>மலையாளம்:malaiyalam</tamil> but for a three four year old to speak tamil that fluently she spoke her own dialogues so like I thought that was very impressive


and ya other than that I really cannot think of a single tamil horror movie that genuinely impressed me


ya I agree cause like like what you said right like other other <tamil>ஒரு விஷயத்தை பண்ண போறானா அத அத மட்டும் போகஸ் பண்ணனும்:oru vishayathai panna poraba adha adha mattum focus pannanum</tamil> you know like with <tamil>அரண்மனை:aranmanai</tamil> especially K even with <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> right why like I can still appreciate it to a certain extent is because like okay I'm the okay <tamil>ஓரளவுக்கு:oralavuku</tamil> horror <tamil>இருந்துச்சு:irunthuchu</tamil> and there's also some sort of social message so like every movie right there is something


that leaves you thinking after the movie right so whereas with <tamil>அரண்மனை:aranmanai</tamil> there was really like there's no substance to the movie that's what I felt like it was just like trying too hard to be funny then like the whole like the romance scenes and the fights and what not I felt like <tamil>அது எல்லாமே:adhu ellame</tamil> like <tamil>பண்ணல படத்துக்கு:pannala padathuku</tamil> so I felt like honestly not necessary and when you take those so called comedy scenes and the fight scenes and everything out right like make sure <tamil>மிச்சம் இருக்குறது ஒண்ணுமே இல்ல:mitcham irukurathu onnume illa</tamil> actually you realize how like


mundane the plot is you know, so I felt that ya <tamil>அரண்மனை:aranmanai</tamil> really was a waste of time <tamil>அரண்மனை:aranmanai</tamil> three <tamil>வெளிய வருது:veliya varuthu</tamil> is it <tamil>ஆரியா:ariya</tamil> is acting in it, so I really don't know what's the point lah I don't know what the first and second one were about so I'm not sure what's the point of coming up with the third one lah


but I'm surprised though like I noticed that like quite a number of actors that like have started travelling like for like to film movies and stuff like that, so I guess like bit by bit some countries are slowly lifting their restrictions


I think definitely I would like go to australia like I remember like <tamil>இது வந்து நான்:idhu vanthu naan</tamil> secondary school <tamil>ல இருந்த போது:la iruntha pothu</tamil> I think, sec two to sec four every single school holiday yesterday <tamil>ஆஸ்திரேலியாக்கு:australiyaku</tamil> flight book <tamil>பண்ணிடுவாங்க என்:panniduvanga en</tamil> parents because my cousin actually migrated there so they have a house there so what we will do is that every june holiday every december holiday straightaway <tamil>அங்க:anga</tamil> flight book <tamil>பண்ணிட்டு அங்க கூட தங்குறது ரெண்டு மூணு வாரத்துக்கு:pannitu anga kooda thangurathu rendu moonu varathuku</tamil> so they was first staying in melbourne then they moved to brisbane so most of the time was spent in brisbane it's really a beautiful country lah because like


especially like what you mentioned like the nature and the wildlife I've been to few of those wildlife reserves and the zoos and all like really really worth the experience and the thing is it's so starkly different from what you see here


ya like you can pay somebody to like drive you around inside the park but I think <tamil>அது வந்து எங்க:adhu vanthu enga</tamil> <tamil>தெரியுமா:theriuma</tamil> like african countries like my friend went to tanzania like two years back <tamil>அவ சொல்லிட்டு இருந்தா:ava sollitu iruntha</tamil> like <tamil>அவ வந்து:ava vanthu</tamil> like safari <tamil>குள்ள போறாங்க:kulla poraanga</tamil> so like literally in the middle of like the like forest that kind of thing the lions and tigers will be working towards the jeep it's so scary yet like so thrilling


and like all sorts of animals I think she saw like a or like something like that it was really interesting and err <tamil>அப்போலாம்:apolam</tamil> like tanzania <tamil>கு போயிருந்தேன்:ku poirunthen</tamil> but then where else I can't remember my father has been to south africa also and he said like the one thing he really really liked there was the safari experience


K if I had to migrate somewhere right probably australia because like the way of life there is really really so much simpler and a lot more peaceful but okay into like <tamil>எனக்கு ரொம்ப புடிச்ச:enaku romba pudicha</tamil> experience <tamil>னு சொல்ல போனா:nu solla pona</tamil> probably <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> dubai <tamil>னு சொல்வேன்:nu solven</tamil> twenty sixteen <tamil>ல துபாய் போனேன்:la dubai ponen</tamil> my all time favourite experience was we got to we actually drove to a desert and they allow you to rent out these ATVs


but of course before you rent it out you have to sign a form and you know make that you are like fit to ride and all of that and then what they will do is that they'll just teach you like this is the pedal <tamil>இது வந்து:idhu vanthu</tamil> hand brake <tamil>அது இதுனு சொல்லிட்டு:adhu idhunu sollitu</tamil> they will leave you to it <tamil>என்ன:enna</tamil> challenging <tamil>ஆன விஷயம் என்னனா:aana vishayam ennana</tamil> you're not riding on flat ground you know you're riding on sand and the sand is not flat either there's bumps only one you know quite uneven surface so <tamil>அங்க வந்து:anga vanthu</tamil> it took me a little while to get the hang of it but once I did right like it was so exhilarating right I I really like the adrenaline rush from it so <tamil>என்னனா:ennana</tamil> you can easily lose control of your vehicle especially when you are like when you're going up the slope and you're suddenly going back down right you can really lose control of your vehicle and it the thing moves very very fast and on top of that err <tamil>இன்னும் ரிஸ்க்கி ஆனா விஷயம் என்னனா:innum risky aana vishayam ennana</tamil> you can actually get your your wheel can get stuck in the sand


and then it's very difficult that one you cannot get the vehicle out by yourself you've call for help already, so luckily that didn't happen to me but I really really enjoyed it like I even took like , like a photo of it and posted it on instagram I'm not sure if you saw but ya I think that was my favourite experience in dubai and I also really liked okay they have this like you can sign up for this little campfire kind of thing so what they do is that like you sit around like in tents and all and they will be like performances like traditional performances and stuff so I thought that was really interesting and ya I think like dubai truly was like an experience for me because it the way of life there is very different and I really appreciated like learning more about like


arabs and how they live their lives they're very interesting


oh really


that's really interesting I really didn't know that at all I'm like quite interesting but also having said that right <tamil>அது வந்து கொஞ்சம்:adhu vanthu konjam</tamil> dangerous you know because when you think about it right recently also in singapore there was an imported case as he boarded the flight from his home country he tested negative but when he landed in singapore he tested positive so that's pretty scary and sometimes like I that's just personal opinion uh maybe the COVID test might not be one hundred percent accurate because maybe at that moment you're not showing symptoms just yet because if I'm not wrong it takes like a few days for the symptoms to develop right


ya and some more I heard that like now they're like different ways to test for COVID like I mean previously it was just the swab test I think now like they use like <tamil>அதுக்கு பேரு என்ன:adhuku peru enna</tamil> and the breathalyzer like so they test through your breath and I remember like it's I think it's already available in the US I think yet to be like used in singapore and I remember there was a lot of controversy surrounding err kim kardashian's fortieth birthday party cause she rented out some private island and flew like a good thirty forty people out to that island


so I think to it she responded saying that oh I I make sure that everybody tested and like quarantined for a few days before coming that kind of thing and then of course like her fans will defend her lah but like people were saying the test that she took was the I think they can test in a minute or something it was the very fast one what is that the breathalyzer one is it


ya the rapid test but then the rapid test only has fifty percent accuracy rate which I mean for all you know it might not be accurate you see so and the thing is it wasn't like five ten people there were like thirty forty people


so that was quite scary and on top of that her younger sister khloe kardashian actually had COVID, ya exactly <tamil>தேவை இல்லாத விஷயம்:thevai illatha vishayam</tamil> on top of that her husband kanye west also had COVID apparently so I mean all the more you would be vigilant but I I don't know lah I guess


I mean considering how rich she is she probably could have afforded to I don't know pay for everybody's COVID treatment also but ya like sometimes, like when people see these celebrities doing these kind of things they're very easy to get influenced also lah I think that some people don't quite realise the severity of the issue because like okay they say that COVID has a ninety nine percent recovery rate but then the damage that it does to your immune system I think people seem to forgetting that like the singer SPV right he tested positive for coronavirus and eventually tested negative but he died out of the like insane amount of damage to his immune system so I think people really need to be more vigilant


karen oh


ya that's very true like that's the thing nobody is saying that influencers have to be like all prim and proper like one hundred percent of the time but these are like basic things that you should be aware of you know there's like social responsibility this is not up for debate you get what I mean


like for instance right like kendall jenner's birthday party, like this one I felt was very irresponsible lah and like I don't have another word for it <tamil>என்ன பண்ணானா:enna pannana</tamil> she <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> birthday party host <tamil>பண்ணிட்டு வர எல்லா:pannitu vara ella</tamil> guest <tamil>கும்:kum</tamil> instructions <tamil>சொல்லி வச்சிருந்தா:solli vachiruntha</tamil> please don't upload any photos on instagram don't like tweet about it nothing okay and then because she didn't want the public to know that she was hosting such a big birthday party and it's irresponsible what so <tamil>என்ன நடந்துச்சுனா:enna nadanthuchuna</tamil> of all people who ended up leaking it was her younger sister kylie jenner she went and took some instastory went and uploaded it and then tagged kendall and all so people came to know lah that there was this big birthday party and there were like other celebrities there like jaden smith there was I'm not sure if the bella Hadid was there weekend was there so like a lot of other celebrities were there lah and she like came under fire for that and truthfully speaking I think she deserved to be criticized like cause that was very very irresponsible and all the more right when like khloe kardashian had like COVID kanye had COVID so these are members of a family you know all the more you should be careful right


exactly and like , how to say ah like there are so many people <tamil>அத்தனை பேர்:athanai per</tamil> like family <tamil>அ பார்க்க முடியாம:a parka mudiyama</tamil> like even in singapore here a lot of malaysian people who are working here they have not seen their family in ages K <tamil>பிள்ளைங்களை பார்க்க முடியாம அம்மா அப்பாவை பார்க்க முடியாம எத்தனை பேரு தவிச்சிட்டு இருக்காங்க:pillaingalaparka mudiyama amma appavai paarka mudiyama ennatha peru thavichitu irukaanga</tamil> and then there's people like this like you know living such flamboyant lives that's the thing


live how you want to live but do bear in mind that it's not just about you you're putting other people at risk also I think that's what they don't seem to understand it's the fact that like beyond you right there are other people who you are putting at risk


okay I would have to say this okay lockdown <tamil>வந்து யாருக்குமே</tamil> like <tamil>ஒரு நல்ல:oru nalla</tamil> experience <tamil>இல்ல:illa</tamil> okay like <tamil>எல்லாரும் சபர் பண்ணாங்க:ellarum suffer pannanga</tamil> that's very true and especially so for people who live in abusive households or you know like low income families who can't go out to work that kind of thing <tamil>அவங்க தான் அதிகமா பாதிக்க பட்டுருப்பாங்க:avanga thaan adhigama paathika paturupaanga</tamil> so when people like ellen degeneres right like millionaire you live in this huge house but then again I feel that


initially like I wasn't too appreciative of the lockdown either but as time passed right I started to change the way that I was thinking about it because like daily <tamil>அத்தனை:athanai</tamil> cases like <tamil>பண்ணிகிட்டே இருந்துச்சு:pannikite irunthuchu</tamil> the the number you know and it started to get very scary <tamil>நானும் யோசிச்சு பார்த்தேன்:naanum yosichu parthen</tamil> like actually <tamil>பார்க்க போனா:parka pona</tamil> like better than I'm at home I'm safe at home at least you know that that's the thing that people need to realise it's not about wanting to prevent you from going out and enjoying yourself it's about your safety the only way to prevent yourself from catching the virus <tamil>வீட்டுல இருந்தே ஆகணும்:veetula irunthe aganum</tamil> no choice you know and then of course there were some people flouting the rules not taking it seriously and all that but that's the thing lockdown really taught me a lot that you actually don't need to be going out every single day going out every single week to be happy and then you can spend time with your family also okay lah <tamil>அப்போ அப்போ கொஞ்சம்:apo apo konjam</tamil> boring <tamil>அ தான் இருந்துச்சு:a thaan irunthuchu</tamil> but okay lah <tamil>என்ன பொறுத்த வரைக்கும்:enna porutha varaikum</tamil> I had I was doing school at that time


just nice my semester started when the lockdown was announced so like I was focusing on school and all of that so I mean I'm glad that we have moved past that stage we're slowly you know easing ourself into what is the new normal but okay lah like some people really shouldn't be complaining ah they have it a lot easier than others


ya that's very true and like the point that you brought up about being like comparing lockdown to prison right and the fact that you know the actual prisoners out there like there are prisoners who have been incarcerated for <tamil>அவங்க செய்யாத தப்புக்கு ஜெயில் ல இருக்காங்க:avanga seiyatha thappuku jail la irukanga</tamil> you know so like and not say like <tamil>ரெண்டு மூணு வருஷம்:rendu moonu varusham</tamil> you know like <tamil>ஒரு:oru</tamil> eighteen twenty years <tamil>அந்த மாதிரி:antha mathiri</tamil> so <tamil>அந்த மாதிரி:antha mathiri</tamil> people <tamil>இருக்கும் போது இந்த மாதிரி:irukum pothu intha mathiri</tamil> comments like <tamil>சொல்றது வந்து:solrathu vanthu</tamil> insensitive and on top of that that US there's that you know racial tension a lot of


like black people particularly you know they've been they've been killed for things that they didn't do so they've been incarcerated for things that they didn't do and even for like very very minor offences there was this


lady her name was alice johnson <tamil>அவங்க என்ன பண்ணாங்கண்ணா:avanga enna pannanganna</tamil> like I think <tamil>ஒரு முப்பது நாப்பது வருஷத்துக்கு முன்னாடி:oru muppathu nappathu varushathuku munnadi</tamil> what happened was I think she smoked weed or something <tamil>அதுக்கு:adhuku</tamil> she got caught lifetime imprisonment, for that you know and she had a family


black woman yes that's the thing and so what happened was that kim kardashian actually stepped in she spoke to donald trump and asked for him to grant her clemency and now alice johnson is free so that's the thing


ya that's true, but ya so like and then there are like cases where , there was this recent hanging of brandon bernard I'm not sure if you read about that when he was eighteen seventeen eighteen his group of friends they robbed this couple okay and he okay he assisted in the robbery but at no point did he intend to kill them his friends killed the couple but he was put in prison and he was hung like he was arrested at the age of eighteen I believe he is forty something now and he recently was hanged


so ya like it's very you know heartbreaking to see like, skin colour <tamil>னால இவ்ளோ வந்து பாதிக்க படுறாங்க:nala ivlo vanthu paathika paduraanga</tamil> suffer <tamil>பன்றாங்க:panranga</tamil> this day and age you know like slavery was abolished like not too long ago actually but still you know <tamil>இந்த மாதிரி விஷயம் லாம் நடக்குது:intha mathiri vishayam lam nadakuthu</tamil> and then there's people you know making insensitive comments comparing lockdown to prison like I don't yes it's difficult to not go out and lead your normal life but at the end of the day it's about safety


ya you're right I mean like definitely like no child should be denied access to like basic needs like food so I feel it's like I really admire him for that and <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> like michelle obama when she was dealing err when she was still the first lady <tamil>அவங்கஎன்னபன்னாங்கன்னா:avanga pannanganna</tamil> okay the US is known for like their very high rates of obesity because they eat a lot of like unhealthy foods there all of that so what she did was she implemented this healthy eating programmes in school so they like stop giving like fried foods that kind of thing like cut down on like sweets and all the sorts of things <tamil>அவங்க என்னபன்னாங்கன்னா:avanga enna pannanganna</tamil> like she err all over schools in america she implemented this healthy eating programme so I thought that you know it really was a very big step that she took


and some more not USA only <tamil>சின்ன:chinna</tamil> country <tamil>கெடயாது பெரிய:kedayathu periya</tamil> countries country <tamil>பூரா:poora</tamil> err country <tamil>இந்தமாதிரி:intha mathiri</tamil> implement <tamil>பண்றது வந்து:panrathu vanthu</tamil> like easy <tamil>கெடயாது:kedayathu</tamil> and of course there was some people who like felt that oh you're depriving the kids and all that but at the end of the day like obesity is a very very big issue especially in the US okay and they're ranking globally number one for obesity rates on top of that obesity scale like


ya I mean once in a while is okay lah like like every now and then <tamil>பிரச்னையில்லை</tamil> you know you should be able to treat yourself as and when but like daily <tamil>இந்த மாதிரி விஷம்லாம் சாப்பிடும் போது:intha mathiri visham lam sapidum pothu</tamil> like really not good lah and some more like, like especially for me right the risk is greater because my grandmother's on like both sides to the family both of them <tamil>வந்துஅவங்களுக்கு:vanthu avangaluku</tamil> diabetes and shit so and like thankfully imbalance <tamil>இல்ல:illa</tamil> but you know the thing is that risk is always going to be there especially when these kind of things are hereditary also


but also I think nowadays people are also very judgemental like quick to call somebody fat without like realizing what could have possibly lead to the weight gain like their like my cousin, she recently like was diagnosed with this thing call PCO as polycystic ovarian syndrome <tamil>அதுஎன்னனா:adhu ennana</tamil> like it's actually a hormonal imbalance basically <tamil>ஆனாஅதுனால:aana adhunala</tamil> like like <tamil>நெறய:niraya</tamil> side effects <tamil>அந்தமாதிரிஇருக்கு:antha mathiri iruku</tamil> like err excessive weight gain facial hair growth excessive hair growth menstrual pain like <tamil>பலவிஷயம்இருக்கு:pala visham iruku</tamil> some people <tamil>வந்துபிள்ளைபெக்கமுடியாம:vanthu pillai pekka mudiyama</tamil> like <tamil>கஷ்டப்படறாங்கஇதனால</tamil> like like let's say conceive <tamil>பண்ணாகூட:panna kooda</tamil> like <tamil>அந்த:antha</tamil> pregnancy <tamil>வந்துரொம்பகஷ்டமாஇருக்கும்:vanthu romba kastama irukum</tamil> but that's what my cousin is going through now actually


<tamil>அவங்கவந்து:avanga vanthu</tamil> like first trimester <tamil>மூணுமாசத்துலஎன்னநடந்துச்சுனா:moonu maasathula enna nadanthuchuna</tamil> she actually lost ten KG, during her first three months of the pregnancy <tamil>எனா:yena</tamil> she was throwing up every single day and even to conceive right she struggled for very long time she's been married for about three years


and she got pregnant only earlier this year and she actually like instagram lah <tamil>போட்ருந்தாங்கள:poturunthangala</tamil> like she wrote about it like very candidly actually she said that , like you know every missed cycle like it would give her falsehood because the test will come back negative so to go through that the pain of starting a family and on top of that you know relatives can be very nosy you know <tamil>எப்போபாரு</tamil> oh like <tamil>எப்போபிள்ளைபெக்கபோறேன்:epo pillai pekka poren</tamil> like <tamil>நீஎன்ன:nee enna</tamil> like <tamil>நீஏன்இன்னும்:nee yen innum</tamil> like family start <tamil>பண்ணல அந்த மாதிரி கேள்விலாம்கேட்க ஆரம்பிச்சிடுவாங்க:pannala antha mathiri kelvilam kedka arambichiruvanga</tamil> it's very hurtful also and the thing is like our my cousin used to be very defensive about it like <tamil>இந்தமாதிரிகேள்விகேட்டாலேமூஞ்சதூக்கிவச்சிப்ப:intha mathiri ketale mooncha thooki vachipa</tamil> thinking why so when finally she like when after she announced her pregnancy and all that right shortly after she wrote that she you know had and all that so like it's important to like not just judge people based on how look how she looks because she actually gained a lot of weight before the pregnancy itself


like it was very rapid but like of course like, err people started talking about it lah how come she suddenly gaining so much weight so when she finally spoke out about it right it made a lot of sense so I think ya it's good to like just not judgemental lah


ya and like especially like


so <tamil>அந்தநேரத்துலதான்:antha nerathula thaan</tamil> like I really realise how important it is to look after yourself into to like look after your health because, like really if you are not healthy right then you cannot carry out your simple day to day tasks also and on top of that when you have such a busy schedule when you've got school you've got like you know sometimes when you work and all of that right you can only carry out these things like if you are in a good state yourself


so that's why I realise that like it's really very important lah to look after yourself eat well, and that's the thing like, I know some people have that whole live fast die young mentality right why I don't agree with it is because like what's the point in doing all of these things when you don't at the end of the day it's just going to make you feel worse you know there's really no point damn it so like <tamil>அப்பப்போ:appappo</tamil> like fried foods <tamil>சாப்பிடலாம்அப்பப்போ:sapidalam appappo</tamil> but like you know the balance is really important lah like what you said like I also try to make a conscious effort to eat as clean as I possibly can of course sometimes difficult I do buy food from outside and all of that but ya like just keeping a balanced diet try to like cut down on sweet drinks like


err sweet drinks and things like that like in like, nutrition terms they're called empty calories


okay, okay actually right my favourite horror movie right or you can say it's a thriller movie because nowadays they err combine thriller and horror together my favourite horror movie of all time is called don't breathe so roughly the plot of don't breathe is that right err three young adults <tamil>மூணு:moonu</tamil> err err teenager <tamil>அவங்க வந்து ஒரு:avanga vanthu oru</tamil> they try to rob a blind man <tamil>ஒரு குருடன்:oru kurudan</tamil> rob <tamil>பண்ண பார்க்குறாங்க:panna parkuraanga</tamil> so this <tamil>குருடன்:kurudan</tamil> has a lot of money in his basement and he hides it so but then when they go to the err to rob the bank right this err <tamil>குருடன்:kurudan</tamil> actually old retired err army officer


and then he is able to defend himself against the three teenagers eventually taking down one of them and the suspense that leads to the end right about whether or not they get get where the money is is <tamil>கடைசி வரைக்கும் அது காட்டல படத்துல:kadaisi varaikum adhu katala padathula</tamil> and also on the top of that right there is a disgusting part in the movie where where they discover a girl who will be hidden up in the guy's err lock err in the guy's err


basement so basically how the guy get the money right is that err his daughter will die in a car crash, and then his daughter dies in a car crash right so the person who causes the car crash right gets away with it cause she's rich and then she just pays him a ton shit of money and then what he does right is that he kidnaps her and then puts her in the basement right only for the reason of giving her another daughter so what he does right is he doesn't do it the like old fashion way he what he did is he puts some cannister and then he inject it like in that way and then she was pregnant and she was going to give birth but eventually what err these people do right is that they free free the girl as well as well as taking the money and running away but the the thriller and the suspense till the very end right it was it was top notch and I <tamil>நான் நினைக்கிறன் அதை பார்க்கும் போது நானே கொஞ்சம் பயந்துட்டேன்:naan ninaikiren adhai paarkum pothu naane konjam payanthuden</tamil> so it was really really good what about you what was your favourite horror movie of all time


oh that's interesting


, so like mention right we were talking about err conjuring the series I think it has become a very popular series err among the horror franchise it's actually like I think the most grossing err, I mean earns the most money in the horror film industry nowadays there's the conjuring there's the nun and then there's the annabelle and then they just sort of link all of these movies together even though you know it's repetitive because they they use the story overlap to show a sense of continuation in the movie but even then the the plots are similar I agree with what you say like normally it's it's the it's the nun it's the it's err you know the satan the the one worse conjuring movies I've seen is the the last key


so what happens is that err roughly this is what I remember so cause it was so bad err <tamil>நான் மறந்துட்டேன் அது எப்படி இருந்துச்சுனு:naan maranthuden adhu eppadi irunthuchunu</tamil> so the last key is that the the mother of the children pass away like unexpectedly and then


slowly err they will they will start you know getting real in to the like devil sex the the children so the the key is with the mother so when they when they have a bell so they they they ever see danger right so they ring this bell so they the bell the mum hears right the mum comes with the key and then lets them escape and then go into real world cause conjuring always got this like belief in astral projection and then going to different worlds and also you know visiting the beyond and all that so I mean it's a good movie to watch with your friends err I would say you wanna appreciate the plot maybe not so much but it if you want to see some continuation cause nowadays movies are a stand-off like one type one <tamil>ஒண்ணே ஒண்ணு தான் எப்படின்னா வந்து:onne onnu thaan eppadinna vanthu</tamil> err <tamil>நம்ம ஒரு படம் பார்க்குறோம்னா அதோட நல்லா பண்ண கூடாது:namma oru padam paarkuromna adhoda nalla panna koodathu</tamil> sequel is not gonna be better prequel is not gonna be better so having said that right like if there is a continuation to this type of movies people tend to go and watch and to find out why some things happen in the first movie and like you know brings about a


a good good chain of marketing even in this movie management, and the thing is that about conjuring movies right I would say that that the if you wanna put scary meter from one to ten right it would normally be a five or six for every people if people don't get scared a lot right they maybe will feel it's a two or three <tamil>ரெண்டு இல்ல மூணு:rendu illa moonu</tamil> so but I have had friends who had flinched at in the nun movies and I think err that is err you know special special moment <tamil>அவன் ரொம்ப:avamn romba</tamil> <tamil>இருப்பான் ரொம்ப தைரியசாலி:irupaan romba thairiyasali</tamil> actually but this kind of movies scary ah I think you know


like quite a complex story line you know but again of course there were some downfalls for the movie lah I I didn't appreciate the acting by most of them I think the only person who acted well was Shaalini and she was like three or four in the movie like age three or four I think she's the only one whose acting I appreciated <tamil>மத்தவங்க எல்லாருமே:mathavanga ellarume</tamil> like very how to say ah like


a child who is <tamil>ஒண்ணு இல்ல நாலு வயசு:onnu illa naalu vayasu</tamil> outshining the rest of the class right that just shows the child's talent and even the you know whatever she's gonna achieve in life in the future


I mean surely her career got cut short after marry <tamil>அஜித்:ajith</tamil> but still I think she was still a talented actress <tamil>அவ வந்து உண்மையிலேயே நடிக்கும் போது தான் நிறைய பேரு ரசிச்சு பார்துருக்காங்க அழகா:ava vanthu unmaiyilaye nadikum pothu thaan niraiya peru rasichu paarthurukaanga azhaga</tamil> baby Shaalini <tamil>ங்கிற:ngira</tamil> baby <tamil>ல இருந்து நடிக்கிறாங்களே அதுனால ஒரு:la irunthu nadikiraangale adhunala oru</tamil> cute <tamil>பேரே வச்சிட்டாங்க அவங்களுக்கு:pere vachitaanga avangaluku</tamil> I mean err sometimes <tamil>அந்த என்ன தான் நடந்திருக்கும்:antha enna thaan nadanthirukum</tamil> if Shaalini continued in the movie industry then coming back to the point of movies right nah


like another franchise that you know is very famous <tamil>அது காஞ்சனா:adhu kanjana</tamil> is a <tamil>அரண்மனை:aranmanai</tamil> franchise I think even <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> right like I okay actually <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> right is actually a movie franchise <tamil>முனி:muni</tamil> was the first part <tamil>அப்புறம் ரெண்டாவது தான் காஞ்சனா அப்புறம் மூணாவது காஞ்சனா டூ அப்புறம் நாலாவது காஞ்சனா த்ரீ:apuram rendavathu thaan kanjana apuram moonavathu kanjana two apuram naalavathu kanjana three</tamil> you know they say there's gonna be <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> four and <tamil>அதாவது ஜோக் பன்றாங்க ஏனா வந்து இவங்க இதுவே போதும் இதுக்கு மேல:athavathu joke panraanga yena vanthu ivanga idhuve pothum idhuku mela</tamil> but even then right err <tamil>காஞ்சனா</tamil> has to be spoken well of because err


the the acting of <tamil>ராகவா லாரன்ஸ்:ragava lawrence</tamil> was top notch I think I mean after that maybe <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> two and <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> three was repetitive and not good but <tamil>காஞ்சனா:kanjana</tamil> it was really very good again coming back to bad bad tamil movies right <tamil>அரண்மனை:aranmanai</tamil> is just bad I I won't I won't even say trash and compare with trash <tamil>பண்ணேன்:pannen</tamil> but it's just bad because there is so many talented actress like there is err


err <tamil>எம் ஜி எம்:mgm</tamil> there is err <tamil>ஹன்ஷிகா:hanshika</tamil> there is <tamil>திரிஷா:trisha</tamil> even in one movie and two so and like I mean these aren't best actresses but


I think I would really like to travel far far away from singapore far from asia then we can go to either the the west or east I mean australia is appreciable for how they tackled australia and new zealand how they tackled COVID so I think <tamil>அங்கேயே போலாம் இல்ல:angeye polam illa</tamil> europe <tamil>போலாம்:polam</tamil> europe can go to paris can to you know err england


err it's called great britain nowadays and like err you can go to france eh sorry we just said paris paris right ya we can go to like err germany so err US <tamil>தவிர்த்து எல்லா இடமும் போலாம்னு ஒரு முடிவோட இருக்கேன் சோ பார்ப்போம்:thavirthu ella idamum polamnu oru mudivoda iruken so parpom</tamil> err and like I just wanna you know experience the the life that you know westerners live because in singapore right it's so comparative <tamil>எல்லாமே ஒரு போட்டி எங்க போனாலும் வந்து:ellame oru poti enga ponalum vanthu</tamil> you know they are rushing you to do this at work at school even at home also competition <tamil>னா இருக்கு:na iruku</tamil> so comparative world <tamil>ல வாழுறதுக்கு:la vazhurathuku</tamil> maybe you can take a step back and maybe go to somewhere more chill and err <tamil>அது வந்து:adhu vanthu</tamil> western part of the world maybe will provide that that chillness that some people are looking out for and you know it's always good to go and take a look at wildlife and I think australia provides a lot of wildlife and you know australia has more chickens than men


is australia a park where you can drive in a jeep and then you can go around the wildlife reserve or like you along was being transported around the


ah that's interesting okay so while we're talking about who's been where right so where I've been right eh actually not a lot of countries actually my father <tamil>எங்க அப்பா சொல்வாரு நான் சின்ன வயசுல அவர் கூட நிறைய:enga appa solvaru naan chinna vayasula avar kooda niraiya</tamil> country <tamil>போயிருக்கேன்னு:poirukenu</tamil> hong kong err europe <tamil>னு சுத்தி பார்த்துருக்கேன்னு சொல்வாரு ஆனா அது நான் வந்து:nu suthi parthurukenu solvaru aana adhu naan vanthu</tamil> one two years <tamil>தான் இருந்தேன் அப்போ:thaan irunthen</tamil> so I don't have much recollection of that


the thing is that err I used to travel solo with my father err it was for his work purposes so like I would tag along with him and and know err enjoy the life live enjoy the travelling with him but <tamil>என்னனா வந்து நான் எனக்கு நினைவு இருந்து போன:ennana vanthu naan enaku ninaivu irunthu pona</tamil> countries <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> vietnam err


so it's more of err asian countries that I've tried so my experience right I think the best was in vietnam actually like surprise surprise because vietnam <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> K there there's three types of travel actually <tamil>ஒண்ணு வந்து:onnu vanthu</tamil> solo travel to go with yourself go by yourself maybe that's to discover yourself and to explore everything at slower pace like <tamil>நீங்க வச்சது தான் சட்டம்:neenga vachathu thaan sattam</tamil> so whatever you feel like doing just do it and the second one right is err to travel with family and err the third one is to travel with friends and like vietnam is the one that I went with my friends and like I made a lot of good friends there and


err to to get out of tunnel and like <tamil>என்னாச்சுன்னா வந்து:ennachuna vanthu</tamil> he was behind me so <tamil>நான் வந்து அப்போ கொஞ்சம் நான் வந்து கொஞ்சம் மெல்லிசா இருந்தேன் நான் வந்து உழுந்து வந்துட்டேன்:naan vanthu apo konjam naan vanthu konjam melisa irunthen naan vanthu uzhunthu vanthuden</tamil> so my friend was behind and what happened was his bottom got stuck at the hole and like he was there at he was like asking me to give him a hand but like the thing is that <tamil>நான் கை கொடுத்தாலும் ஒண்ணும் பண்ண முடியாது:naan kai koduthalum onnum panna mudiyathu</tamil> it's his it's his err thighs that needs to go through but actually the thing is that <tamil>அதுல பியூட்டி என்னனா அது</tamil> if you turn a certain way right there's like soften part I think then you can go through and like in the in the end my friend was able to go through and he was actually like err big size and like to see that he was able to come through the #ho chi min# tunnel was really quite funny experience for me because my friend was thinking that I <tamil>ஐயையோ இப்போ நான் என்ன பண்ண போறேன்:iyaiyoo ipo naan enna panna poren</tamil> it was so interesting experience for me and like it really made me feel for the vietnamese people vietnam <tamil>ஏனா வந்து அங்க:yena vanthu anga</tamil> I think it's call asian outrage I think


I think that's what called <tamil>அப்போ வந்து என்னாச்சுன்னா வந்து:apo vanthu ennachunna vanthu</tamil> they they drop a lot of chemical bombs at that point of time and like there was pictures of the people who affected and <tamil>அது வந்து என்ன ரொம்ப பாதிச்சிருச்சு:adhu vanthu enna romba paathichiruchu</tamil> actually and like it really err like gave me a lesson not to take life for granted and to to you know be happy that we have peace now and


to really thank the life we are living now but again <tamil>அந்த:antha</tamil> life <tamil>போய் வாழுறது:poi vazhurathu</tamil> actually vietnam <tamil>ல வாழுறது:la vazhurathu</tamil> actually is quite laidback life so if if we ever have a chance right I would I wouldn't mind living in vietnam because they really have good food they have pho and they have like they even have like err the the wide variety of food and you can always bargain there like compared to singapore what about you


okay talking about like err like the the the cultural performance right eh actually <tamil>வந்து நம்ம ஒரு வேறொரு:vanthu namma oru veroru</tamil> country in <tamil>கு போறோம்னா அவங்களோட:ku poromna avangaloda</tamil> you know culture <tamil>அவங்களோட:avangaloda</tamil> the race <tamil>அவங்களோட:avangalaoda</tamil> beliefs <tamil>அதுலாம் பார்க்கும் போது:adhulam parkum pothu</tamil> like we learn something immediately actually so like err you mentioned right you you went to dubai and was err was entertained by their cultural performances I think the thing is that <tamil>நம்ம வெளியூர் போறதே ஒரு:namma velliyyoor porathe oru</tamil> experience <tamil>காக தான்:kaga thaan</tamil> so if we get gain this type of experiences right it makes our like my trip more fulfilling actually and like makes it more fun and like makes us want to go again <tamil>திரும்பி போய் பார்க்கணும்னு தோணும்:thirumbi poi parkanumnu thonum</tamil> err <tamil>திரும்பவும்:thirumbavum</tamil> <tamil>அந்த இடத்தலாம் போய் பார்க்கணும் இல்ல வேற எதுலாம் பார்கலையோ அங்கலாம் போய் பார்க்கணும்னு தோணும்:antha idathalam poi parakanum illa vera edhulam parkalaiyo angalam poi parakanumnu thonum</tamil> makes you want to come back and like you know like now maybe tourism is not so booming right now <tamil>ஆனா எப்போ தொடங்குச்சுன்னா:aana epo thodanguchunna</tamil> I think <tamil>நிறைய பேரு:niraya peru</tamil> is err waiting to jump on it and and you know


go and you know enjoy their life and you know experience new things and err you know, you know just basically forget about what they're doing now you know now <tamil>நாம ரொம்ப கஷ்ட படுறோம்:romba kasta padurom</tamil> actually <tamil>நம்ம வந்து சில பேரு வந்து வேலைக்காக:namma vanthu sila peru vanthu velaikaga</tamil> travel <tamil>பண்ணுவாங்க:pannuvanga</tamil> there those people can't do that and like celebrate lah tour rides you know they work very hand in hand in the tour tourism industry and like some people are like work in the airports and and airplanes <tamil>வேலைலாம் பார்த்துட்டு:velailam parthutu</tamil> so you know once tourism is start moving not only will we get to you know be happy and the people who you know are part of this industry also will be happy


interesting fact actually one thing actually the first country that opened up the country right during lockdown right is actually dubai, so what you know right is they don't fill up the the aeroplane up to fifty percent I think and then at the airport itself you are you are you should take a the COVID test and then <tamil>என்ன செய்வாங்கன்னா:enna seivanganna</tamil> they ask you to stay in hotel and then you will receive the reply by I think SMS and then once you get the reply if it's positive then you must stay in the quarantine and then if it's negative you are allowed to travel dubai because you know you have proof that you know you are not infectious


and you are able to experience dubai but the thing is that <tamil>இப்போ போறவங்க மே பி வந்து:ipo poravanga maybe vanthu</tamil> tourism is not so good because everybody is err not on the on the low key <tamil>ஆனா இருந்தாலும் வந்து ஒரு ஒரு:aana irunthalum vanthu oru oru</tamil> country like dubai <tamil>போகும் போது:pogum pothu</tamil> the the standards always gonna be there and like you can always you know do fun activities and


eat their food and you know enjoy life that's basically but the fun fact is that dubai is the first country in the world that open up the the borders to other people


okay how the COVID works right is that for fourteen days err ya it can live up to fourteen days in the system so they are not testing the symptoms actually they're just testing for the the the presence of the the virus I think but then the then again right err like some people can be asymptomatic like you mentioned but they still are the carrier and yes they can spread so the the the the what's that the


the the the err


and export import level leh is is part of this travelling in required so some countries call it mitigated risk <tamil>அவங்க:avanga</tamil> control <tamil>பண்ணி ரிஸ்க் எடுக்குறாங்க:panni risk edukuraanga</tamil> so having said that like the test is definitely not accurate but maybe it's not accurate but is at the same time it's not hundred percent like bad so maybe like I would say a good ninety percent over time it it err it works and like it it's effective


I I don't know what is it actually but is I've heard of rapid test I think


I think the kim kardashian will fall under this category I don't know whether it's a slur word or not, but you know it's called karen, ya so like err you know these people think that they they they know everything and like the when the pandemic first started karen <tamil>லாம் என்ன சொன்னாங்கன்னா அது:lam enna sonnanganna adhu</tamil> oh it's just a flu I'm not gonna wear the mask and then that's why there's a rapid increase in err in in in err USA but then like <tamil>என்ன ஆனா வந்து:enna aana vanthu</tamil>


kim kardashian like you mention has the money like she is able to afford it but then again right it's not about the money that is the the the thing is about the influence like what these influencers have on people like <tamil>இவங்க செஞ்சாங்கன்னா:ivanga senjanganna</tamil> other people also thing it's a right and then like they will do and like this will just cause a ripple effect and like it's a it's a very negative connotation that they're portraying <tamil>அவங்க என்ன செய்யணும்னா:avanga enna seiyanumna</tamil> actually <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> they should be role models for others actually <tamil>அவங்களே வந்துஇந்த ரூல்ஸ் லாம் பிரேக் பண்ணாங்கண்ணா மத்தவங்கலாம்:avangale vvanthu intha rulesley lam breakum pannanganna mathavangalam</tamil> I mean I it's not saying that like influencers should be only in right but there's the it's saying the you know you could do the right thing


and like you know you have so much power and influence over so many people so you could do the right thing you know make other people err follow the right steps, and like flying to a private island all you know that's next level like I think she well thought of this <tamil>நல்லா யோசிச்சு எல்லாரையும் கூப்டு:namma yosichu ellaraium kooptu</tamil> but birthday party <tamil>காக இந்த வருஷம் நிறைய பேரு:kaga intha varusham niraiya peru</tamil> birthday party cancel <tamil>ஆகிருச்சு:agiruchu</tamil> like you know a lot of people have to had to sacrifice their birthday parties their weddings so like <tamil>சிங்கப்பூர் ல கூட வந்து ஒரு:singapore la kooda vanthu oru</tamil> wedding <tamil>வந்து:vanthu</tamil> at the start right can only have like at they at first only they say that


only the husband and wife can be there and then they thought that was so unfair you know the families can't experience the moment then they said maximum of ten people, so maybe they will start to decide that you know these ten people include the husband and wife so like four family members here four family members there and like so slowly they started opening up you know ten fifty hundred two hundred fifty now so the thing is that <tamil>இங்க இவ்ளோ பேரு வந்து:inga ivlo peru vanthu</tamil> like for the beautiful thing like marriage <tamil>யே கஷ்ட படுறாங்க:ye kasta paduranga</tamil> you know not saying that like birthdays aren't important but it is a wedding it's an for life <tamil>இவங்களே இவ்ளோ:ivangale ivlo</tamil> sacrifice <tamil>பன்றாங்க:panranga</tamil> so you should also you know be a good role model and like


uh , the thing is that influencers <tamil>எப்போதும் நான் நினைக்கிறது வந்து:epothum naan ninaikirathu vanthu</tamil> err like should always


have a good influence on people like, because of the power that they hold what do you


it just goes to show right like these influencers aren't free from COVID either you know, the more like you mention they should stay away from COVID when the family members already have been struck by COVID they should be more aware and more responsible when mentioning it's a social responsibility as well I feel it's a moral responsibility as well not to you know err you know call for such a birthday party during a middle of a pandemic


talking about like COVID and all right <tamil>நம்ம கொஞ்சம்:namma konjam</tamil> lockdown <tamil>பத்தி பேசுவோம்:pathi pesuvom</tamil> so lockdown was really not a easy you know life for anyone but what do you think of this this person you know ellen said that you know lockdown is to be compared to be a like like a prison what do you think about that


like you mention right ellen is a millionaire so she lives in a like millionaire house I think our <tamil>அவ வீடு:ava veedu</tamil> what she considers a house right people consider a street I think that's how big it is and she has her own TV show for herself so like you know don't need to be so err


overly err dramatic lah just say dramatic about right I mean this being a prison because like people who actually went to prison like took this the wrong way and like err you know they actually suffered for crime that they did but like lockdown right its not someone not a crime that we all did because err you know pandemic and we just trying to save ourselves have save and you know by saving ourselves we're saving others also you know one person you know they always say that one person can't make a difference but in this case one person can make a difference like <tamil>ஒருத்தர் மட்டும்:oruthar mattum</tamil> if we infected and goes out and spreads to everyone right it causes a ripple effect domino of like one person attract two person <tamil>ரெண்டு பேரு நாலு பேர:rendu peru naalu pera</tamil> infect <tamil>பண்ணுவாங்க நாலு பேரு எட்டு பேர:pannuvanga naalu peru ettu pera</tamil> easy <tamil>அ பண்ணுவாங்க:a pannuvanga</tamil> just multiplies because the people we meet right err will you know pass it on to other people and like the thing is the best way to stay safe right right is to stay at home and to you know err


even if for the minimalistic err things you need to go out right grocery <tamil>வாங்குறதோ சாப்பாடு வாங்குறதோ:vangurathoo sapadu vanguratho</tamil> you know go in groups of one and you know maintain the social distancing wear the mask <tamil>பண்ணிருந்தா:panniruntha</tamil> you know err , they could have been saved like those who you know still chose to flout the rules that's what I think


is she a black woman