ya, no you don't need like when people say lah I feel because of then you probably need you don't just ya you don't say okay you will probably be like


debug the point like if it's true is it true, oh it's true ah !wah! that's so sad but when I argue with you and I tell you certain thing and I because of what you did I feel certain way but you can debug the point by saying


too sad to debug, too Sian, !aiyo! you okay but if it's not true you should just debug okay


people feel sad about certain situation and then that situation, if you think it's untrue you should just tell people eh I don't think you'd picture it correctly that's why shouldn't be sad because of, you get what I mean, to him err


you can be more friendly but he's also a little bit too pushy


I don't know lah like, eh sorry sorry


!haiya!, (mmhmm), but <mandarin>他现在:ta xian zai</mandarin> <mandarin>他在:ta zai</mandarin> FYP meh <mandarin>还在:hai zai</mandarin> FYP ah


oh eh then <mandarin>我们 去:wo men qu</mandarin> support <mandarin>他啦 我们 去 看 他 的:ta la wo men qu kan ta de</mandarin> presentation


oh it's not saturday or sunday meh, oh my god I totally forgot, oh, I mean


supporting support him actually I quite like the presentation, vibe and I feel like I didn't have enough, no lah I don't give a shit lah don't even listen to people's presentation but I like the


high adrenaline rush like you stand in front of people I feel like I never have I don't have enough of that, I be the tree ah the three person like you know like you hold the tree or you hold the


I can ask but you you want to set a date first, like


you can ask him when is his FYP presentation and then we can go support him if it's during our work from home and then we have like meals together but I think he will want to meet his groupmates right


oh ya lor then we cannot lor, oh also can but like that we not really talking to him, oh sounds like someone is


I mean we can we can go with that plan or, we we go before we have <mandarin>麻辣:ma la</mandarin> together, ya lah of course can lah


but I think I think there's two plan, I know I know you I know I mean we can you can, also <mandarin>也是可以就是说我们两个我们:ye shi ke yi jiu shi shuo wo men liang ge wo men</mandarin> meet on his presentation day we eat Mala first without him and then afterwards we hang with him


oh okay okay I won't visit I won't ya okay okay we won't be going down to eat Mala, but I feel very awkward texting ah, ya he won't


but then again he he the thing is that I don't want to text him cause he don't want to he never text me you know


don't want I mean I don't mind asking since you are awkward, ya you say you and I


we can, I feel like I want to go down to the church the temple there also,


ya, can I drop drop by first, ya it will be on a work day


by today lor, ya lah ya lah err, ya but can see can see how things goes lah


you can go down on his presentation day also, but ya lah I feel like that or whatever it is the plan doesn't matter but I just feel like we should meet him more often, like once every three months


you hardly find like a guy that, so damn thick sean sean is another one, ya, special, ya <mandarin>不用:bu yong</mandarin> lah actually <mandarin>不用:bu yong</mandarin> feel special from sean


often, then <mandarin>我们问他们要不要去吃:wo men wen ta men yao bu yao qu chi</mandarin> lah you support meh


ya, ya I don't mind asking


okay I can go and ask I suddenly feel like I so hype eh some more <mandarin>我不是那种:wo bu shi na zhong</mandarin> texter uh okay I can but I think <mandarin>我们可以:wo men ke yi</mandarin> start with one group first don't need so many groups so <mandarin>你会要来哪一个:ni hui yao lai na yi ge</mandarin> group


okay I think we handle the sad dude first, sad dude <mandarin>真的很:zhen de hen</mandarin> sad sia, okay can you lah you always go around


okay sorry you I can I like I can totally imagine how sad he feel when he text you I can totally imagine bro it's like when I text you and then, you give me like you don't give me shit replies but like on days when I don't feel like you prioritize our friendship


I can understand how he feels, and some more mine is like I know you, I know it's you prioritize leh just that like the approach you use like the thing that you think makes meat, the thing that you do makes it feel like you don't prioritize even though you prioritize for him it's obviously like he


you don't prioritize him at all eh you know, ya, okay !aiyo!


oh shit


ya ya, err it's not your fault but you just make him sad but is because he got a sad nature in eh nature ya ya


!aiyo! okay lah I can text him when should we do it


okay, so what am I supposed to say, I feel like suddenly got !huh! I I thought I free flow can anyhow whack


just <mandarin>问:wen</mandarin> eh how are you <mandarin>很久没有吃了要不要一起去吃这样:hen jiu mei you chi le yao bu yao yi qi qu chi zhe yang</mandarin> lah we can meet you at FY NYP, no lah actually we don't meet him at NYP lah or you don't want meet him elsewhere okay


no I thought like we can I know I suddenly feel like eating Mala with you, two person cause cause okay like Mala with him anywhere is fine but mala at NYP is ya is different, like Mala anywhere is fine


or we can have Mala first and then we ask him okay lah that's not a nice thought okay lor okay fine fine, we can still head down first we can still head down and have, ya


and then just say eh we nearby if you are in school you want to meet then if he say no then okay lah then we meet him next time elsewhere or in NYP again, ya that's a good deal, today whole conversation has been surrounding him


actually him and Aikido lah eh but <mandarin>他会:ta hui</mandarin> ons mah <mandarin>现在:xian zai</mandarin> Aikido, but never , he like become more mellow like not mellow like he become more low key eh


I think <mandarin>他以前很:ta yi qian hen</mandarin> high key <mandarin>在:zai</mandarin> HQ, err, got what,


not now and


no no no no then okay depends on the travel time lah Yishun to me it took Yishun from Sengkang to Yishun is quite near ya, direct bus direct bus


like thirty minute twenty thirty can reach already freaking closer definitely, ya, ya lor but, I don't really like R's teaching style also


like he he can connect to B but, I'm not interested in connecting with B like, okay ya I do agree that you like his teaching style but not not me, err I think, fast and sometimes it's not effective


I don't find that his techniques effective like his lock is not pain, then he likes to do like some weird ass throw, but I like to do locks


ya, and <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> that one <mandarin>真的是在学:zhen de shi zai xue</mandarin> basics lah ya ya ya <mandarin>他会就是圆圈那个:ta hui jiu shi yuan quan na ge</mandarin> and then


bending and then, he don't even like do a full technique, oh but he he's the one of the only what's in Sensei Sensei that do like the the squatting down one


err ya forgot <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> ya squat down technique, but <mandarin>其他的:qi ta de</mandarin> Sensei <mandarin>都是:dou shi</mandarin> teach only when, err is close to grading


ya, ya, see how lah see how, okay but I can start texting him I guess


and then anthea also asked to meet up, err I don't really want to meet that guy ya lah we will lah eh but no one told me about class I feel so sad


never but anthea and anthea and I text err in class like during the zoom during the zoom session, she was like err the lecturer was like you will meet people, you will, cause usually the importance of err introduction because you can ask each other for help or like eh we ask each other for help already then then after that she be like err


then then I told then in in between then I told her about my housing case which I I asked her for help what then afterwards she be like oh we can support each other then I'm like you already really support me then I'm like !yay! then she like should we meet then I'm like <mandarin>可以可以:ke yi ke yi</mandarin> ah <mandarin>可是:ke shi</mandarin> then <mandarin>我们没有:wo men mei you</mandarin> follow up but I think <mandarin>我会问:wo hui wen</mandarin> lah


year two onwards year one <mandarin>选不了:xuan bu liao</mandarin> but anyways I think that's all for today, thanks for the catch up


alright (err) I I think okay in three two one


ya you know I saw the brochure then they say like you can choose whatever question you want, yeah yeah that one that one


I feel like very cliche lah but I maybe say happiness lor cause like you know money all that like <mandarin>钱不能买幸福:qian bu neng mai xing fu </mandarin> you know, yeah that's true sia that's true that's true


!aiya! I never think of it like that sia cause I just think like happiness then just happy lor like <mandarin>没有那个烦恼等等:mei you na ge fan nao deng deng </mandarin> ya, err I think maybe like I think like happiness can be like for like anything that kind of thing like as long as you live your everyday life with like


like no regrets then <mandarin>你:ni </mandarin> like <mandarin>没有:mei you </mandarin> like you're not like go crazy that kind


I think like like very hard to say like <mandarin>永远不会伤心:yong yuan bu hui shang xin </mandarin> you know cause like sadness is like a human nature thing mah so it's <mandarin>不能:bu neng </mandarin> cannot like cannot forever lah but then, I think maybe in a sense like like <mandarin>你:ni </mandarin> you are in like a comfortable position


ya, like <mandarin>不是说你很开心:bu shi shuo ni hen kai xin </mandarin> or like <mandarin>很伤心:hen shang xin </mandarin> lah but it's more like you just live your life like having like no regrets like you can live your life that kind of thing, ya ya ya like ya


it's like you can accept your bad days and like your good days that kind lor, oh


ya lah true , ya


wha true, !wah! then normally <mandarin>狗可以:gou ke yi </mandarin> live <mandarin>多久:duo jiu </mandarin> sia


true true true,


, maybe like kitten that kind oh ya true


like you know they like lick their paws and all then that's like bathing then they very clean lah then I prefer that, ya I think cause like <mandarin>狗:gou </mandarin> right <mandarin>你要带他们出去:ni yao dai ta men chu qu </mandarin> then <mandarin>要跑步要玩:yao pao bu yao wan </mandarin> then <mandarin>它们:ta men </mandarin> like require a lot of attention


then for cats it's like <mandarin>它们比较:ta men bi jiao </mandarin> like independent so <mandarin>你:ni </mandarin> can just like they can spend the whole day by themselves, okay wait but for <mandarin>狗你一回家它们会在:gou ni yi hui jia ta men hui zai </mandarin> in your face that kind one sia they will like, keep wagging their tail in front of you then like too much attention needed ah then especially when <mandarin>你做工:ni zuo gong </mandarin> then <mandarin>回家:hui jia </mandarin> !wah!


ah,


, , [orh] ya, true true true,


!wah! I'm not very sure also leh like I thought about it right, but then I feel like it might be very contradictory to my first one, you know how I say <mandarin>钱不能买幸福:qian bu neng mai xing fu </mandarin> that kind of thing, but I would say like I want to be in a stable position in terms of like finance


ah ya ya ya


[orh] ya that's true that's true, true true


ya I think I think maybe that sentence is like doesn't make sense because right happiness, like money can buy you happiness but like <mandarin>是那种短时间的:shi na zhong duan shi jian de </mandarin> because, like you know <mandarin>如果你喜欢一个东西:ru guo ni xi huan yi ge dong xi </mandarin> then <mandarin>你买:ni mai </mandarin> like you feel happy what that one you cannot deny


so actually money <mandarin>是:shi </mandarin> like will buy you happiness, but then it's like more of like long term then you are like uh actually, this don't make me like as happy as like when I first buy it that kind of thing,


, ah


, [orh]


ya that's true , but it's not not in the sense that like <mandarin>很有钱:hen you qian </mandarin> or like <mandarin>很:hen </mandarin> like <mandarin>很有钱:hen you qian </mandarin> lah I don't think I'm looking for that


but I also don't want to be in a position where I'm like like you know <mandarin>每天都烦恼:mei tian dou fan nao </mandarin> okay you know how I say, it's a bit contradictory but now that I think about it more right I think is very complement like complimentary because, !hey! you want to be happy but then to a certain extent like <mandarin>钱你需要钱:qian ni xu yao qian </mandarin> in order to live a life that helps you to attain happiness


ya certain extent, ya ya ya, ya you know ariana grande got this song also


seven rings or something, ah ya, no but I think it's cause I like I never I'm just like very briefly like broad idea that kind, but I think yours better <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> like <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> went into <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> details


yeah , eh that's everyone's wish lah <mandarin>每个人都要:mei ge ren dou yao </mandarin> sia, ya ya


, yeah


ya body image ya, actually I think like actually I think your concern right it's like very common among like <mandarin>我们这样的年轻人:wo men zhe yang de nian qing ren </mandarin> like <mandarin>年轻人:nian qing ren </mandarin> lah because


like <mandarin>因为:yin wei </mandarin> like you mean health is one issue, but then <mandarin>现在:xian zai </mandarin> like media and all it's like body image and it's like so important right now then


oh my god I was going to say that like !wah!


like, oh I don't think so , ya oh my god ya


ya but then there are those people who like like they don't work out don't do anything but their genetic game damn strong then


they just very naturally very like fit even though they, even though <mandarin>他们吃的东西:ta men chi de dong xi </mandarin> is like a bit questionable like you look at them you will be like !huh! <mandarin>你不:ni bu </mandarin> like you not worried meh like


quite sad, ya


ya that's true


but one of the most ironic thing is that right <mandarin>那种很瘦的人他们要:na zhong hen shou de ren ta men yao </mandarin> gain weight <mandarin>那种比较:na zhong bi jiao </mandarin> like, not say <mandarin>胖:pang </mandarin> but maybe average size they keep like trying to lose weight, so it's like very ironic in a sense that it's like maybe it's not like certain body maybe there isn't a perfect body image


but it's just <mandarin>因为你没有一个东西:yin wei ni mei you yi ge dong xi </mandarin> then you think the other thing is better ya like


their figure <mandarin>他们的身材:ta men de shen cai </mandarin> ya, I think in to a certain extent like I think body positivity is like good lah it should be promoted


but I don't like it when like you know that <mandarin>有些人:you xie ren </mandarin> like <mandarin>他们很:ta men hen </mandarin> curvy then they body shame people who are like not so curvy cause I have friends who are maybe, like you know when sometimes you like I think body positivity is very good


but it's not good if you like <mandarin>拉一个人下去:la yi ge ren xia qu </mandarin> just to like you know go up yourself, ya like you know I ever saw an advertisement that says something like why would you want skin and bones when you can have like curves


like like the hourglass figure when you can like why would you, not want an hourglass figure and have like just skin and bone then after that it's like


I think I sorta get it


ya I think body shaming, like cannot be taken too extreme like you should not skinny shame someone or like fat shame someone, then <mandarin>那种:na zhong </mandarin> Kpop diet also like it's always on trend then it's like you know <mandarin>你一看:ni yi kan </mandarin> right you know it's very unhealthy


but then people like a lot of people always what <mandarin>我不喜欢:wo bu xi huan </mandarin> is like, you know <mandarin>不同:bu tong </mandarin> like different body size people always criticize the other body size people without really like understanding why that kind of thing, so those like <mandarin>比较瘦的人:bi jiao shou de ren </mandarin> like they <mandarin>每次会说:mei ci hui shuo </mandarin> like it's because you're not hard work enough like you all don't persevere enough that's why you all give up on diet plan


then it's like they always say like look at all these like Kpop idols like they successfully go down their weight and all, but then it's like what you say it's <mandarin>不健康:bu jian kang </mandarin> like just now you say they should not encourage obesity but no one should encourage like being severely skinny yourself


undernourished, ya


ya, especially in asia country right like like <mandarin>因为我们是华人:yin wei wo men shi hua ren </mandarin> then you know, like chinese new year then <mandarin>你去:ni qu </mandarin> like <mandarin>其他人的家:qi ta ren de jia </mandarin> then <mandarin>你很瘦:ni hen shou </mandarin> then people will be like <mandarin>你有吃饭的:ni you chi fan de </mandarin> mah <mandarin>你有吃饭的:ni you chi fan de </mandarin> mah


ya then but then if <mandarin>如果你:ru guo ni </mandarin> gain <mandarin>一点点:yi dian dian </mandarin> weight <mandarin>而已:er yi </mandarin> then they will be <mandarin>为什么:wei shen me </mandarin> hor <mandarin>你:ni </mandarin> like what happened why <mandarin>你:ni </mandarin> gain <mandarin>这么多:zhe me duo </mandarin> weight then I like


I like very confused as to like where where I'm supposed to be at like where is a good like position for I feel like all these, so called body positivity like advertisement and all like, even though <mandarin>他们有那个好意:ta men you na ge hao yi </mandarin> like good intentions but like the effects of it is always very unclear


like every side is always encouraging another thing so


ya ya, ya ya that's true


yeah, and then there's like sometimes you have you know your throat <mandarin>有那个:you na ge </mandarin> thyroid or something, it's like you know like I learnt <mandarin>在那个:zai na ge </mandarin> bio class <mandarin>的:de </mandarin> lah


but hypo is like <mandarin>比较慢所以:bi jiao man suo yi </mandarin> like <mandarin>你吃很少:ni chi hen shao </mandarin> but <mandarin>你的:ni de </mandarin> body like reject like will not know when to stop then so it


yeah, yeah


ya ya, so it's because of their thyroid lah that means it's like their own biological function but then people always like deem them body shame them as in like, okay body shame them is one thing but putting like like but like how to say flaming their character because of their figure is another thing


like a lot of people associate like <mandarin>比较胖的人:bi jiao pang de ren </mandarin> as <mandarin>很懒惰:hen lan duo </mandarin> like don't know when to stop like no self control that kind of thing


ya ya ya, yeah


oh yeah,


my third wish ah, !wah! I know we talk about all these right I also don't remember what my third wish is anymore , how about you go first ah


ah


if even if you take five eight hundred every month it still doesn't compare to your three K or four K pay you know like


like solution yeah,


ya true, but ya I think ya actually money <mandarin>真的是很重要:zhen de shi hen zhong yao </mandarin> sia I don't think we can live a day like without having to think about it


then <mandarin>如果你没有钱:ru guo ni mei you qian </mandarin> right nobody want to talk to you nobody will entertain you like


it's very unfair lah like but this is our reality, plus you know <mandarin>我看那种:wo kan na zhong </mandarin> economic report singapore is one of the most expensive cities to live in


then we live in singapore so definitely we have to think about finance then we are like a international hub also, so like you say because of the COVID situation our income and all relies a lot on international trade because of this, our airport also close nor say close but the tourists rate drop by so much right and that is like our most


like where we get our most revenue from so quite sad lah like, singapore confirm <mandarin>会很:hui hen </mandarin> badly affected then


yeah


yeah, ya poverty is really a cycle it's not easy to come out of, because once like <mandarin>你看:ni kan </mandarin> ah <mandarin>你有钱:ni you qian </mandarin> right <mandarin>你可以去:ni ke yi qu </mandarin> tuition centre <mandarin>你可以去:ni ke yi qu </mandarin> art class


so and comparing like err <mandarin>比较有钱的人:bi jiao you qian de ren </mandarin> and <mandarin>比较穷的人:bi jiao qiong de ren </mandarin> right for <mandarin>有钱人:you qian ren </mandarin> all they need to do is maintain their wealth but for <mandarin>那个穷人:na ge qiong ren </mandarin> they must gain their wealth first


third wish right I think my third wish, like maybe cause we talked about this so I talk about this then I would say <mandarin>应该是跟你很像:ying gai shi gen ni hen xiang </mandarin> like


maybe not in terms of like finance because you already say lah so I was thinking maybe more of like clean water and like proper food like, you know <mandarin>有些穷的人:you xie qiong de ren </mandarin> right like money is an issue but maybe money cannot help you survive in a sense like


no matter how much money you have right if you don't have like proper water like in those third world country <mandarin>他们的水是那种:ta men de shui shi na zhong </mandarin> Longkang <mandarin>水:shui </mandarin> you know then it's like, even if you have money if you cannot if you don't have supply of freshwater you cannot buy also so I think it's like


I'll say my third wish maybe is will have like the world to like have clean water especially for third world country, ya,


yeah I will say so because I think money money is very important like definitely like no one can deny the importance of wealth lah but


like like <mandarin>我们很幸福:wo men hen xing fu </mandarin> like we are already in a secure position where we can look at money as part of our survival but <mandarin>那种比较穷的:na zhong bi jiao qiong de </mandarin> country right, like what is money to them if they don't even have a single supply of food and it's like got one time <mandarin>我的朋友去:wo de peng you qu </mandarin> Cambodia like


volunteer lah <mandarin>做义工:zuo yi gong </mandarin> then <mandarin>他说:ta shuo </mandarin> like <mandarin>你给他们钱:ni gei ta men qian </mandarin> right <mandarin>他也是不懂花在那里因为他们:ta ye shi bu dong hua zai na li yin wei ta men </mandarin> like city <mandarin>没有:mei you </mandarin> rice like no rice so no matter how nuch money you have you also cannot buy rice


yeah, okay you know we've been talking about drama here and there right I think <mandarin>你喜欢看什么:ni xi huan kan shen me </mandarin> drama ah


reality ya


you will always succeed


you watch,


that's true that's true, like it can be a okay just talking about korean drama lah then I will say like one thing I like about korean drama is that even though


like you know I'll probably only like you know <mandarin>有一个命:you yi ge ming </mandarin> only most likely but then through drama like <mandarin>你可以:ni ke yi </mandarin> experience <mandarin>很多:hen duo </mandarin> lives, like sometimes you watch a show about police man right then you can like <mandarin>我:wo </mandarin> like <mandarin>自己自己的:zi ji zi ji de </mandarin> mind <mandarin>里面:li mian </mandarin> lah then I can imagine like being a police person like imagine this will be my job scope


then it's like so much possibility so <mandarin>以前小时候:yi qian xiao shi hou </mandarin> lah I really like watching like drama because I feel like like <mandarin>让我看:rang wo kan </mandarin> like you know <mandarin>很多:hen duo </mandarin> different path that I can take and like, like how to say I don't know if this is the correct word but like empathise with different like roles in life


ya ya ya you know how sometimes when your parents scold you so to you why they angry


so I think quite nice lah like like you help you to empathise more and put yourself in different person shoe


[orh] ya ya ya oh ya, I heard


yeah


but <mandarin>你看那个戏看那个人的脸而已:ni kan na ge xi kan na ge ren de lian er yi </mandarin>


true true actually I agree sia <mandarin>我一想:wo yi xiang </mandarin> right, korean drama <mandarin>真的是:zhen de shi</mandarin> like follow one plotline one it's really like the main character and then it's very cliche one it's always the


, oh


true true, oh this reminds me of one chinese drama I watched I don't remember the title but I remember one of the unit was like named <mandarin>烟气:yan qi </mandarin> or something like


it's this show right where this girl is actually to be an assassin then like she was originally with her original like first male lead lah


it's like he also like her but he never really express it so, so this it's a historical drama lah so this guy <mandarin>他的:ta de </mandarin> kingdom, kill like his this second guy kingdom the family so he turn bad eh, but then you know the girl like end up leave this guy to go back to the first guy


to like not because she like him but to like restore order in the whole country, so I I watch this show right in my mind I will <mandarin>就在想:jiu zai xiang </mandarin> lah like korean drama confirm will not have this one korean drama ensure like some happy ending one then like


I actually I want like I don't know if I'm <mandarin>太贪心了:tai tan xin le </mandarin> but <mandarin>我要:wo yao </mandarin> like <mandarin>两个:liang ge </mandarin> you know in the sense that


, ya


ya ya, then like what happen I really so desperately for the ending then <mandarin>我以为:wo yi wei </mandarin> like <mandarin>那个最后两个:na ge zui hou liang ge </mandarin> episode <mandarin>会不错:hui bu cuo </mandarin> will explain things for me in details


but then it's like they always just like summarize everything lah or the guy return cancer resolve this one never happen that one never happen then you are like !huh!, then all those times where they say <mandarin>那种:na zhong </mandarin> you know at the start in the middle part the climax right then they will say like !wah! <mandarin>这个问题不能解决:zhe ge wen ti bu neng jie jue </mandarin> like <mandarin>很难:hen nan </mandarin> solve <mandarin>很难:hen nan </mandarin> solve


then last two episode suddenly the problem like <mandarin>不见去:bu jian qu </mandarin> then you are like, eh what what did I just watch , uh actually <mandarin>我:wo </mandarin> prefer like english show eh like


I like to watch <mandarin>那种:na zhong </mandarin> show right that is more like comedy like those family comedy I don't know if you heard of shows lah like friends community how I met your mother


episode <mandarin>都要看如果你不喜欢一个:dou yao kan ru guo ni bu xi huan yi ge </mandarin> episode <mandarin>你:ni </mandarin> skip through right like then you <mandarin>随便看一个:sui bian kan yi ge </mandarin> episode <mandarin>你不会觉得:ni bu hui jue de </mandarin> like <mandarin>你不明白:ni bu ming bai </mandarin> like what's going on, like every episode itself <mandarin>有自己的:you zi ji de </mandarin> comedy efffects as in like drama <mandarin>你要:ni yao </mandarin> watch episode one to watch episode two to watch episode three


I


like I don't know if this is controversial lah but you know for like how I met your mother like the whole season right they spend the whole of season nine like trying to make robin and like barney's wedding so the whole love story was about the two of them, then towards the final episode right you know what happen they got divorced out of nowhere they got divorced out of nowhere you know they spent the whole season nine


on your wedding on like their relationship you know then season ten out of the way they divorced then you know ted right which is the the main guy like the main guy was talking about how he met his mother, he's not talking about robin which robin is not the mother of the kids so it's like you feel like what did I watch this show for


I feel like okay then at first <mandarin>我以为是:wo yi wei shi </mandarin> they want for dramatic effect but then <mandarin>我看那个:wo kan na ge </mandarin> episode right like <mandarin>他们那个两个孩子在听的:ta men na ge liang ge hai zi zai ting de </mandarin> right it's like <mandarin>他们很早以前就已经:ta men hen zao yi qian jiu yi jing </mandarin> plan <mandarin>这个:zhe ge </mandarin> story Liao so <mandarin>他们:ta men </mandarin> from the start <mandarin>已经:yi jing </mandarin> plan like ten seasons of this eh


so like what you say lor I think they already like trying to milk the story out cause a lot of story in this plot line it's really like very questionable then like <mandarin>不用:bu yong </mandarin> like <mandarin>不用在里面:bu yong zai li mian </mandarin> one but you just have to watch it that kind of thing


I think cause like some shows than long series then it's very hard to like keep on bringing in new ideas like create new topic to talk about ya lah so like you say lor like those american show, it is true lah <mandarin>他们真的是:ta men zhen de shi </mandarin> drag <mandarin>很久很久:hen jiu hen jiu </mandarin> but maybe <mandarin>因为:yin wei </mandarin> like cause <mandarin>我不是:wo bu shi </mandarin> like <mandarin>韩国人:han guo ren </mandarin> so <mandarin>有些韩国戏我不明白他们的:you xie han guo xi wo bu ming bai ta men de </mandarin> joke


ya like <mandarin>他们每天工作后会喝那个:ta men mei tian gong zuo hou hui he na ge </mandarin> Soju


especially <mandarin>韩国戏:han guo xi </mandarin> right their


storyline that gets drive like how to say like move forward because of drinking like <mandarin>因为每次很多那种戏:yin wei mei ci hen duo na zhong xi </mandarin> when they drink then they confess to each other, you get what I mean but in singapore <mandarin>很少有这种事在韩国你买那种酒很便宜:hen shao you zhe zhong shi zai han guo ni mai na zhong jiu hen pian yi </mandarin> singapore <mandarin>你买酒你会破产的:ni mai jiu ni hui po chan de </mandarin>


ya, no lah cause all the theatre


on my own I watched through all those old shows like hotel transylvania that kind oh I just realised <mandarin>我很:wo hen </mandarin> kiddy sia,


oh


oh, no because I like really really very scared like so I never go, but then I heard like all your stories like they out of nowhere will suddenly jump on to you


ya I don't get it like I think <mandarin>每天:mei tian </mandarin> right like you <mandarin>已经:yi jing </mandarin> go through life then like you want to just enjoy like you wanna relax right but, maybe <mandarin>有些人:you xie ren </mandarin> horror film is like <mandarin>帮他们:bang ta men </mandarin> relax lah like if they scream then they let go but for me right I get more tense I get more stress then like <mandarin>不要:bu yao </mandarin> lah like


yeah


mentally prepare


I don't think so leh you leh


like spirited away that kind ah, ya actually I agree lah I think animation film is like one of the best film because they always have a lesson learned and it's not like you know how for like


it's not say you cannot watch you know but for like a lot of shows it's like maybe it's a sixteen plus eighteen plus so it's not very like open to everyone but for animation it's really


that's true


oh actually no sia like halfway through but the thing is like <mandarin>我不会:wo bu hui </mandarin> pause I'll let it run then when I come back there are certain parts where I, I miss I like very lazy to go back to watch then I just !aiya! miss <mandarin>就:jiu </mandarin> miss lor I would not want to go back and rewatch certain parts again


the one with emma watson one ah


ya I read the book and I watched the show also [orh]


ya I watched


and I agree with you lah on the way like feminism has progressed because right like you wouldn't you wouldn't like during the their times right we watched then everyone hated amy because they felt like she was very self centered and like she did not like


she did not deserve to steal the guy away from jo lah but now now that you are older right, twentieth twenty first century it's like we all support amy because she's fighting for what she want fighting for what she like her own rights lah, then it's jo like in a sense jo's own fault for letting the guy go even though she likes him


so but one thing about the family's part about the book is that they make it very clear during the ending like where she was like writing a book that she had to give herself a love story because women needed a guy at the time, so I feel like they covered they really showed the progress of like womenhood and like feminism


take your time take your time


she puts aside her love life


but one thing I like about the show is the character of meg also like even though she was like the very typical traditional woman that got married and have a life that kind of thing, but I think one good thing about the that you show recognise is that you know in our modern society right everyone always reject say like women who get married it's like it's like why do that when you have your own career why be someone why be known as someone's woman when you can be your own person


but I think one good thing about it is that the show recognise that it recognizes meg right that it's her own choice to become a someone's wife like just because you like prefer traditional role does not make you, does not make you less of a woman like it does not make you less of a feminist just because you prefer to be like follow traditional role that's what I like about lah like it recognizes all types of women whether like jo independent


meg who prefer traditional role amy who prefers like to fight for her own rights and I forgot what's the last girl's name right at least she pass away doing something she truly like that kind of thing, I think there was a line in the movie that like really had a very strong impact it was like something I think meg said to jo was like just because someone else's dreams isn't the same as yours doesn't mean they should be like less respected yeah I think it's like it's true lah cause


yeah


ya ya it's such a degrading word ya ya


that you should not despise anyone that chose whatever role they want to become whether you become a wife or like a business woman like at the end of the day, you make your own decisions that is the most important thing you are given the choice that you are given the freedom to choose, the opportunity


yeah true yeah


yeah yeah one two, wait ah I don't know why my screen like that


oh really ah what what question you want to do, [orh] <mandarin>那个:na ge </mandarin> the <mandarin>三个愿望:san ge yuan wang </mandarin> one is it, okay okay you say first what's your first wish


[orh], but isn't it like <mandarin>很:hen </mandarin> like <mandarin>很难很难:hen nan hen nan </mandarin> achieve you know, oh what's your definition of happiness


[orh], like money or like family or like friends


ah


ah okay okay so like , so like in a constant state of like satisfaction like <mandarin>对自己很满足:dui zi ji hen man zu </mandarin> like that lah [orh] okay okay I get I get I get it


if you can accept your bad day moon base that kind lor, okay okay I get it I get it then for me, a bit dumb but I wish my dog will never die cause you know


right nowadays I always see cause I use Reddit a lot what then I always see like those pet pet owners right they always post like those very like sad post about their dogs like passing away suddenly then


cause you know like dog is like companion what then, it's like when I home alone then I can play with my dog it's like another friend lor then to think that the his lifespan is so short, compared to ours like !wah! <mandarin>我一想到我真的很想哭我看到那些:wo yi xiang dao wo zhen de hen xiang ku wo kan dao nei xie </mandarin> post hor !wah! <mandarin>我真的有些我看到真的我哭到:wo zhen de you xie wo kan dao zhen de wo ku dao </mandarin> ya


it's like I don't know man it's just very sad thinking about the thought of my dog dying ya, err, to this month next month he's turning one year six months so I think about one year and four months cause we got him when he was like <mandarin>八个星期:ba ge xing qi </mandarin> yeah <mandarin>八个星期大:ba ge xing qi da </mandarin>


so he's like since with us since he was a very small puppy lor then our bonds quite deep lah ya he's like <mandarin>另外一个家人:ling wai yi ge jia ren </mandarin> lor <mandarin>对我们来讲:dui wo men lai jiang </mandarin> ya,


then ya it's just very unpredictable lah then I don't want to think about it but then like it's like just


constantly like the thought of it is constantly there you know then ya it's like a fear I have lor, have you ever thought of like having pet before, I I know you're scared of dog but like other kinds of animals you know, or like like hamster or like rabbit


[orh] but kitten <mandarin>也会长大:ye hui zhang da </mandarin> what so like, but you would you prefer playing with the animals rather than raising is it, [orh]


I agree cause like <mandarin>我自己也顾:wo zi ji ye gu </mandarin> what then, it's like <mandarin>很多:hen duo </mandarin> responsibilities lor it's like, like have to bath then have to pick up the poo have to clean the urine all that, then ya feel like but then the thing is like dogs they're more affectionate I guess


in a sense like cat is like they <mandarin>自己管自己:zi ji guan zi ji </mandarin> then they just do their own things then, actually also depends on the animal itself lah cause like some animals they some dogs also very cold to the owner one what, then luckily luckily my dog <mandarin>不是这样:bu shi zhe yang </mandarin> lah it's like he when I could come home it's like how to say


before that I don't like dogs cause I feel they are very like loud like they bark a lot then, ya cause I <mandarin>我自己也是比较喜欢猫的人:wo zi ji ye shi bi jiao xi huan mao de ren </mandarin> but after getting a dog it's like, it's just nice to know that when you come home at the end of the day then


there's a thing not a thing sorry like there's my dog waiting for me you know, ya it's just a very nice feeling like, okay what's what's your second wish


what is it what is it ah


ah okay okay, actually actually I think like the <mandarin>钱不能买幸福:qian bu neng mai xing fu </mandarin> right is a thing that <mandarin>没有钱的人讲:mei you qian de ren jiang </mandarin> cause right honestly, if you think about it right like ya <mandarin>钱不可以买全部的东西:qian bu ke yi mai quan bu de dong xi </mandarin> like even if you have a lot of money you cannot have even if like you have a lot of money your family can still be broken


like your relationships can still be fail but then, the thing is you don't have to worry about a lot of things you know like you fall sick you don't have to worry about whether you have money to see doctor, then ya it's just it's not <mandarin>不可以买幸福:bu ke yi mai xing fu </mandarin> but <mandarin>可以:ke yi </mandarin> like <mandarin>买:mai </mandarin> security lah


like a sense of security you know ya, , correct


correct correct, ya it's more I think it's not really happiness it's more like something beyond that


then you think about it like you drive you want you can go anywhere you want you don't have to worry about whether the train breakdown the bus breakdown


or like okay traffic jam everybody also got share a bit lah but the thing is that I feel like ya money buys time lor, ya, so so your second wish is like to have financial stability lah


ya I agree I agree ya, I feel like the saying is not very valid the what <mandarin>钱不可以买幸福可以买开:qian bu ke yi mai xing fu ke yi mai kai </mandarin> like yeah yeah yeah that like that that saying it's just


ya ya ya ya seven rings right ya ya ya ya, oh my god my wishes sound damn superficial compared to yours leh, , ya I


very specific you know what is my second wish or not I wish that I can eat food without getting fat leh , , it's like !wah! I cannot eh every time I eat food like it's like a very like personal internal thing lah


it's like !wah! everytime I eat I drink bubble tea !wah! this one so much sugar then everybody warning about the effect of sugar then it's like, !wah! then how many calories this one have I mean it's not like I <mandarin>我我会去算有多少:wo wo hui qu suan you duo shao </mandarin> calories but


!wah! <mandarin>我一看到:wo yi kan dao </mandarin> like <mandarin>那些人吃一直吃吃吃吃吃着有病出来我看到很怕:nei xie ren chi yi zhi chi chi chi chi chi zhe you bing chu lai wo kan dao hen pa </mandarin> then ya, it's like ya I don't I don't want to like reach to the state where I eat until I get like become like a lot of health conditions ah


okay I think it's not really I don't want to gain weight it's more like I don't want to have negative, health effects you know ya and, ya it's just !wah! very scary lah to think that food can cause so many problems if you don't eat properly you know,


correct and the thing is that nowadays a lot of food is so processed like it's very hard to find like organic food or like, cause nowadays everything is fast fast fast what so you want to eat


so you want to eat but you only have a certain amount of time to eat and then you can only eat fast food or like ya you can only eat like junk food then I feel like it's very bad lah then, then I feel like it's very bad lah then and some more healthy food is very expensive, ya


it's so so I don't know if I can curse in this recording but have, !wah! really one, salad can be like fifteen dollars eh then it's so annoying I want to eat healthy also it's like so


ya that's why that's why <mandarin>我:wo </mandarin> so unfair it's not easy to eat clean you know


ya I think metabolism is a very very very very big factor cause like, I know a lot people like even though they limit their diet right then they like they trying to lose weight but then, !wah! they they <mandarin>他们吃很少我每次看我朋友:ta men chi hen shao wo mei ci kan wo peng you </mandarin> lah <mandarin>他们吃很少:ta men chi hen shao </mandarin> but then, in the end <mandarin>也不是减很多肥:ye bu shi jian hen duo fei </mandarin> what I think it's like really up to your genetics like what you say lor and


like during circuit breaker <mandarin>很多人去运动:hen duo ren qu yun dong </mandarin> yeah I think it's really because of time you know time and our lifestyle it's like


then no nobody got time to exercise that's why like all the obesity obesity rates going up all that yeah


oh the grass is greener on the other side right ya ya ya I agree I agree, but like what what are your thoughts on like how to say body image positivity like you know those very like


obese people they trying to promote body image positivity then like they post themselves in like, like they trying to embrace their their weight their figure ya


, ya ya ya so it's like they they ownself they're very obese but then they try to shame other people for like losing weight or like having a healthy diet is it


[orh], they shame the person lah then ya lor then they just shame skinny people I guess


so it's like just now we were talking about the dieting and exercising like at the end of day <mandarin>也是要看你自己的:ye shi yao kan ni zi ji de </mandarin> genetic and metabolism what, so it's <mandarin>不一样:bu yi yang </mandarin> lah like cannot compare <mandarin>有些人:you xie ren </mandarin> they really work so hard to get into certain shape but then


it's like they completely like disregard people's efforts and just be like oh but like why would you want to be skinny when you can have like, all these figures all these curves so I think ya I think so lah and I think one a bit sad thing is like


a lot of people look at like skinny people and then they are like they envy that kind of body, but then for some people some of the skinny people it's like quite sad for them in a sense that maybe it's like it becomes that their identity, like they are just known as that skinny person or like that skinny person ya that skinny person lah like I can't even think of another word to describe them eh oh my god


so it's like it's like how <mandarin>惨:can </mandarin> their life is sia okay it's not say <mandarin>惨:can </mandarin> lah but you get what I mean ya


especially in our generation not not maybe not in our country but you see overseas like <mandarin>在美国:zai mei guo </mandarin> you know like obesity is number one cause of death, in the country then like I think like this kind of body image positivity influencers like what they are trying to promote is like


borderline how to say like that it's like health crisis you know and then you are promoting a health health crisis, it's like not saying that skinny people cannot have health issues but it's already like so much proof that when you are, fat when you're over a certain body weight it significantly it significantly like increase the chances of you getting


diseases ah like say stroke or like I don't know, like your blood pressure will be higher like you know <mandarin>我自己也有看过:wo zi ji ye you kan guo </mandarin> lah like <mandarin>我的亲戚:wo de qin qi </mandarin> you know some of them, because of body because of their weight then they got a lot of body like health problems ya so I think it's not very ethical of them to


try to promote body positivity in the sense that oh it's okay you can be fat, you don't have to like watch your diet you don't have to exercise even though you are already like considered obese you know like, ya I think !wah! <mandarin>真的不可以:zhen de bu ke yi </mandarin> like every time I see that I get very angry


I mean personally I'm not I'm not obese but it's just that I feel like they are promoting something very unhealthy you know, but of course like it works it works both ways like it's not right to promote starvation, you know like there used to be a trend where people like I don't know try to have diets like you know like <mandarin>一天吃一个苹果:yi tian chi yi ge ping guo </mandarin> like <mandarin>喝一杯:he yi bei </mandarin> that kind of thing


it's too extreme like I just think both sides really got problems ya


, ya correct it's like very scary lah and like the the thing is that ya there's a stigma against fat people also


but there's also a stigma against like skinny people like you see everybody see those supermodel then they will be like, oh <mandarin>这样瘦:zhe yang shou </mandarin> confirm it's like !aiya! under or malnourished or like, !aiya! <mandarin>他们吃很少了:ta men chi hen shao le </mandarin> then I like they want to copy them but they don't know like behind the scenes the amount of exercise that they do or like yeah it's just like


!aiya! it's good to be like body positive but you need to know the limits lah like <mandarin>要知道分寸:yao zhi dao fen cun </mandarin> you know,


ya I agree lah it's just I think asian culture is still the norm that skinny is, skinny is like the good thing you know but it's like


how to say in the western side it's like another thing already like they are more, they embrace their curves all that but I think in asia it's still skinny you need to be skinny ya, which is I don't know I think maybe if as our generation like grows up and all that hopefully this kind of stigma will be less


!wah! <mandarin>你现在这样肥:ni xian zai zhe yang fei </mandarin> liao <mandarin>你看起来像猪:ni kan qi lai xiang zhu </mandarin> eh you know I hear my relative said that before then, !wah! it's not not to me lah but it's I feel very bad for the person on the receiving end you know !wah! <mandarin>我听到我真的很我会我会很生气:wo ting dao wo zhen de hen wo hui wo hui hen sheng qi </mandarin> eh


and cause like fat it's not just because of diet like can be because of stress you know yeah so, what's that


oh I think I saw that in a K drama before leh like it's it's a show ya ya ya the girl like she suddenly gained a lot of weight, like cannot not say she cannot abstain but like she got a condition then


ya I I forgot the name already but I know I know got such thing and then I saw in the drama it's quite it's quite sad but, ya


correct correct correct like like they say <mandarin>不要仪表:bu yao yi biao </mandarin> eh what's that chinese saying like don't judge a book by its cover lah then ya it's, but then at the same time I guess if you meet someone on the first look like you will just like assume things based on the person's outer appearance


not saying it's a bad thing I mean it's not a good thing but it's like subconscious one you know we should go beyond judging a person based on their, like <mandarin>他们的外表:ta men de wai biao </mandarin> like they can be they can be trying their best to do things behind the scene you know ya so ya I agree


so what what what about your third wish what do you what do you wish for,


like ya especially now you know got COVID COVID nineteen then !wah! it's like the economy now is so bad, then like everybody losing their jobs then ya it's very scary lah like <mandarin>真的很可怕:zhen de hen ke pa </mandarin> lor like to see a lot of people being so worried about their jobs about their livelihood you know then


I mean especially like if you are looking for job now then it's very hard ya, really really


and like the government can only help so much what it's like <mandarin>不是很长期的不是不可以不可以解决长期的问题:bu shi hen chang qi de bu shi bu ke yi bu ke yi jie jue chang qi de wen ti </mandarin> lor <mandarin>就是:jiu shi </mandarin> like ya can only give you a few lump sum payments then after that, cannot already what cause we also don't know how long this situation will last


but !wah! the third wish ah I wanted to say like win lottery or something but , come to think of it if I have that big like <mandarin>这么多钱我做什么我真的想不到:zhe me duo qian wo zuo shen me wo zhen de xiang bu dao </mandarin> it's like okay lor I can buy whatever I want


maybe like save a bit invest a bit but like !wah! really don't know eh it's too too much already I cannot think, ya


correct correct


okay okay and like after I learned about econs I also realise like the like income inequality in singapore is very very bad like, wo <mandarin>以前没有想过:yi qian mei you xiang guo </mandarin> but <mandarin>我一学到我就觉得:wo yi xue dao wo jiu jue de </mandarin> like I I think I'm quite fortunate to be somewhere in the middle like <mandarin>不是很穷:bu shi hen qiong </mandarin> but <mandarin>也不是很有钱:ye bu shi hen you qian </mandarin> but then like


if I think about it like all those very less fortunate less privileged people right like how are they coping in these times then like I think about the also feel very like I don't know man, like I don't know how to describe it but yeah it's just very sad lor then


but okay maybe my third wish third wish will be like to alleviate world property but , cause I really think that like when you're poor it it has a lot of repercussions not only on your


it's not only like money issues like a lot of repercussions on your psychological health, and like ya it's like <mandarin>你看那种:ni kan na zhong </mandarin> drama <mandarin>很多:hen duo </mandarin> like <mandarin>他们讲:ta men jiang </mandarin> oh <mandarin>那个穷人穷的:na ge qiong ren qiong de </mandarin> but, in the end based on <mandarin>他自己的毅力:ta zi ji de yi li </mandarin> then <mandarin>他从那个:ta cong na ge </mandarin> like he come out of his poverty his poverty that kind of thing lah but like


you kind of think about about it how many people really can do that cause it's really very difficult to get out of poverty once you are in it especially in a country like singapore you know, ya ya ya


ya it's very I's a very idealised version of poverty lah I feel so yeah, I mean I don't know how much I can help but yeah if if there's a wish I can I will help I will wish to alleviate world poverty cause


I really think poverty is the worst thing something that someone can experience you know yeah how about you have you thought about your third wish ah,


ah


also like they have like how to say like access to resources like like <mandarin>他们有有资源可以:ta men you you zi yuan ke yi </mandarin> like


[orh] okay okay, [orh]


, true true okay okay I get it I get it agree agree


so !wah! talking about this topic hor <mandarin>我真的:wo zhen de </mandarin> !wah! I don't know how to describe these feelings sia it's just like so !wah! very dark very deep very deep, okay let's let's move on to something more light hearted oh my god


as you grow up you know it's not never going to happen ah ya then but it's nice ah through K drama some of them teach me like, how to cope with like some life problems it's like not saying that if you persevere you will


always succeed yeah but it's like but if you persevere at least there's opportunities for you to succeed you know, it's like if you give up at that time then it's that's it lor there's like no doors anymore like you just shut the doors already but if you continue like it's like how to say


be positive in the face of issues lor I feel like that's that's a lot of like a common theme that like K drama have and it's like, like how to say like more morality and like death and all that cause like I used to watch, oh my god there's this drama called hotel del luna lah then yeah they talk about like ghosts and all that then I was thinking like actually last time I didn't use to think that when you die you go you go somewhere you know but like


just the idea like <mandarin>你想到:ni xiang dao </mandarin> oh <mandarin>可能我们我们的亲人还是朋友去世:ke neng wo men wo men de qin ren hai shi peng you qu shi </mandarin> at least they have somewhere to go to you know, like just the thought of that it's it might not be true but <mandarin>你想到就觉得比较安慰:ni xiang dao jiu jue de bi jiao an wei </mandarin> lah ya ya like okay lah it's it's like maybe they really do have somewhere that they can go to to rest you know yeah so it's


it's just I feel like drama is very like escapism you know like you got problems then you just watch them then you feel good but then after that, when you finish your drama then you also feel empty again so I feel like it's a cycle you know that's why like nowadays I don't really like to watch drama cause I feel like I don't want to really escape from my problems


[orh] okay okay okay


but like you can like put yourself in their shoes is it [orh] okay okay, [orh]


okay okay I get it I get it and like recently I started like not not very recently but I I think somewhere around the start of this year I started watching like those


ya ya ya ya it's like because like I think the first time I watched was what sia the three miles of peach blossoms have you heard of that before, ya ya ya ya that was the like the first time I watched then oh my god the costumes damn nice it's I damn impressed by their the details that they put into the into the like you know the <mandarin>古装:gu zhuang </mandarin> all the


the clothes right ya then !wah! and then the scenery is damn nice eh like all the <mandarin>桃零:tao ling </mandarin> all that like the peach blossoms in a scenery so !wah! their CGI is like, !wah! #tok kong# eh and then like the plot also very interesting it's not like the typical


K drama kind know like the like oh my god got this poor girl then she meet <mandarin>一个:yi ge </mandarin> like <mandarin>白马王子:bai ma wang zi </mandarin> then, !wah! then like <mandarin>他们相亲相爱:ta men xiang qin xiang ai </mandarin> then in the end <mandarin>那个:na ge </mandarin> mother <mandarin>去:qu </mandarin> like


then they weave into a big story yeah I think it's very interesting cause they always show I realize chinese dramas like to show the, side character story like even though there's a main like couple or like a main character they will still like take time out to talk about the like the calefare you know no not really calefare more like


et's say it's the main character's brother kind of thing then I think it's quite interesting also cause you <mandarin>可以去看不只是:ke yi qu kan bu zhi shi </mandarin> like <mandarin>那个主角的人生:na ge zhu jue de ren sheng </mandarin> what like you can explore the other characters then it's, sort of like makes a plot more complete lor ya then I started watching the what's that


I don't have know if you heard before or not but have you heard of the untamed ya ya it was quite popular then like it's like these two actors lah


like it's <mandarin>不只是那个:bu zhi shi na ge </mandarin> plot <mandarin>好:hao </mandarin> you know but it's like !wah! <mandarin>你看帅哥你也是养眼:ni kan shuai ge ni ye shi yang yan </mandarin> you know like ya you feel good about it ya then, ya it's just ya ya ya like it's so addictive eh even though it's usually this kind of drama it's like fifty plus episode but it feels very fast lah like


very easy very easy to binge you know


right right right yeah yeah yeah, ya it's it's like okay lah I mean they they do promote like on the poster they will put the two main character how to say the, their faces and all that then you will know who is the main characters lah but then like you know like cause got one I watch it's another one it's what what's it called ah


forgot the name already what yeah it's the one with the who's that I don't like you know or not her name is what !wah! I can't remember the name, and like it was so interesting that like the way they wrote the love triangle is !wah! I watched already right


I don't wanna know who to vote for you know cause I feel like chinese drama there's a lot of a lot of chinese drama they don't really draw a line between bad and good, like they like to explore like [orh] <mandarin>不是这个人是坏的所以他是完全坏:bu shi zhe ge ren shi huai de suo yi ta shi wan quan huai </mandarin> you know like <mandarin>他们会:ta men hui </mandarin> like


explain <mandarin>他的目的:ta de mu di </mandarin> like <mandarin>为什么他会变坏:wei shen me ta hui bian huai </mandarin> that kind of thing you know yeah then it's like even though he's


[orh]


but for you do you prefer happy ending or like more like uh ambiguous but realistic ending


oh yeah same same <mandarin>我也是不喜欢那种我看到很生气:wo ye shi bu xi huan na zhong wo kan dao hen sheng qi </mandarin> like at first <mandarin>那个戏:na ge xi </mandarin> !wah! <mandarin>很好:hen hao </mandarin> !wah! <mandarin>那个:na ge </mandarin> plot <mandarin>很很好:hen hen hao </mandarin> then


then <mandarin>突然间回来:tu ran jian hui lai </mandarin> then <mandarin>我在看:wo zai kan </mandarin> I was like !huh! <mandarin>有这种事情的:you zhe zhong shi qing de </mandarin> meh, like ya then it's like so confusing lah <mandarin>我最讨厌那种戏:wo zui tao yan na zhong xi </mandarin> like <mandarin>我觉得我浪费时间:wo jue de wo lang fei shi jian </mandarin> you know


yeah yeah that kind it's like the most <mandarin>气死人:qi si ren </mandarin> one yeah, did you watch like uh how to say other than dramas like what other shows do you watch


[orh] is it something like brooklyn nine nine <mandarin>这样的:zhe yang de </mandarin> [orh] [orh] okay okay okay


so it's like <mandarin>很多:hen duo </mandarin> mini story then <mandarin>变成一个:bian cheng yi ge</mandarin> series lah but <mandarin>我觉得有些这样:wo jue de you xie zhe yang </mandarin> lor <mandarin>他们一直一直拖拖拖拖拖:ta men yi zhi yi zhi tuo tuo tuo tuo tuo </mandarin> like they keep dragging the series you know, hen like in the end become I feel like they're milking it already do you have that kind of show like that you feel happen like that before


(uh huh) (uh huh),


, ya ya ya ya ya


ya I know like you know like game of thrones ya then a lot of my friends I don't watch it but <mandarin>我很多朋友看:wo hen duo peng you kan </mandarin> lah then <mandarin>他们看那个最后一集:ta men kan na ge zui hou yi ji </mandarin> right


then doesn't make sense at all so yeah I think I think there's a lot of that's a common problem among american shows like english show in general yeah


[orh] like the culture behind the [orh] okay okay okay like, suju ah ah yeah yeah yeah


, [orh] okay okay


ah okay okay for me right it's <mandarin>我看了这些:wo kan le zhe xie </mandarin> like <mandarin>我不懂得:wo bu dong de </mandarin> right <mandarin>我会去研究:wo hui qu yan jiu </mandarin> lor <mandarin>我去找多一点东西:wo qu zhaoa duo yi dian dong xi </mandarin> so I realise right in korea right they have a very strong like <mandarin>他们很喜欢喝酒:ta men hen xi huan he jiu </mandarin> like they always will gather with their colleagues then then they go one place and they drink after work


then they get very drunk I think it's quite quite a bad problem in korea like it's not healthy you know yeah they they have very very strong like <mandarin>就是:jiu shi </mandarin> like <mandarin>酒鬼:jiu gui </mandarin> lor <mandarin>很多人变成酒鬼:hen duo ren bian cheng jiu gui </mandarin> yeah then they feel pressured to drink because of their colleagues


yeah there's like a very strong society pressure to start drinking yeah but yeah I get what you mean lah it's because it doesn't happen in singapore so <mandarin>你也不可以去:ni ye bu ke yi qu </mandarin> like


[orh] okay okay okay okay


agree agree singapore !wah! you know in korea <mandarin>那个:na ge </mandarin> Soju is like <mandarin>一瓶:yi ping </mandarin> I think <mandarin>新加坡钱三四块:xin jia po qian san si kuai </mandarin> then in singapore twenty dollar eh Siao one, !wah! like really [orh] have you watch any movies recently on your own leh


[orh]


I feel very conscious in a cinema you know I want to scream also cannot scream properly ya so I don't really like to go to the cinema to watch horror movies yeah, yeah yeah yeah exactly you know that time <mandarin>我也是:wo ye shi </mandarin> like <mandarin>去:qu</mandarin> halloween horror night


then I go in <mandarin>我进去有一个有一个:wo jin qu you yi ge you yi ge </mandarin> haunted house like really very scary lah then I think at the end there was a very big jump scare, then !wah! I broke down on the spot you know then I spent the next like thirty minutes crying eh after that <mandarin>我有一个:wo you yi ge </mandarin> like


[orh], ya ya ya it's very scary like I think the the haunted was like err


like what a shopping mall theme ya then it was like oh my god so ironic cause it was in a cinema like the the room was the cinema room then I hink from, the seats got one ghost jump out lah then I think I don't know why I so pussy you know usually I not like


I like like watching with my friends though it's like sometimes we we just like netflix party then we watch horror movies together, yeah it's like more fun cause you can talk about it then on like while watching then it'll make the thing funny also


you can you can like one person say this one confirm jumpscare then at least you know you mentally prepare already if not in the cinema you really got no clue I really hate jump scares man, !wah! I cannot cannot take it oh yeah we talked about that what is your like what what genre of movie do you like


do you have that specific genre that you like, I like like animation movies cause like I feel that animation can achieve like, a lot of things that live action cannot you know it's like the the things that they draw cannot be replicated in real life one what cause like I always watch like those


you know like ghibli films that kind ya it's like so, so fantasy then so magical like you cannot I mean like ya now you can make people fly already but it's just so like the way they execute the effects it's like so nice then I think it's like very calming also


ya ya ya ya something like that


like !wah! <mandarin>他的衣服很美:ta de yi fu hen mei </mandarin> that kind of thing but then like when you grow up when you watch rewatch the movie right you can like find a lot hidden meanings


behind the characters or like in a plot then, then I like to do this kind of thing you know like rewatch old films then you are like oh actually last time I didn't see this I didn't like think that something happened because of this, it's like a lot of hidden meanings that we couldn't appreciate when you were younger ya ya ya ya so


I really I really like animation movies a lot I think it's like always like if I got nothing to watch right I will just go and find a random Ghibli movie then I just put it on yeah, but for me right I this is very bad habit like my my attention span is damn short so like <mandarin>我一看电影:wo yi kan dian ying </mandarin> right <mandarin>我一看:wo yi kan </mandarin> like <mandarin>十五分钟二十分钟我的手很痒:shi wu fen zhong er shi fen zhong wo de shou hen yang </mandarin> then <mandarin>我去做别的东西:wo qu zuo bie de dong xi </mandarin> I'll pause <mandarin>去拿食物还是什么:qu na shi wu hai shi shen me </mandarin> then after I come back then I sit there again then


!aiyo! then I watch like another twenty minutes then I just take up my phone and start using it I really I spent a lot of time just to watch a movie like one two hour movie I can spend like six hours watching one, I don't know whether you have the same problem or not like can you can you sit through the entire movie if you're watching on your own


[orh],


[orh] okay okay I get that it's like yesterday I was watching a movie with my friends I think if I watch movie with my friends that I won't be so distracted lah, it's like cause I have friends overseas what then we will just meet up to watch online to watch movies together it's a thing that we have then, like yesterday we watched have you watched little women you know the one that timothy chalamet is inside ya ya ya ya ya ya I wanted to watch for very long already then


ya there was this character I really really like she's like called did you read the book you read the book right ya ya ya you know amy I feel like her way of thinking and mine is like quite similar


and there were some of the things that she said like make a lot of sense have you watch the film yet the part where she was talking about how like marriage is a economic thing yeah I think that like really how to say like, make me think about how much feminism has progressed since then you know cause like nowadays there's like as girls you can have the privilege to not say privilege but like


we achieve a place where we can think about what we want in our own life rather than thinking about like, oh we marry because of others only ya


, it's like


compared to then so now it's like really quite quite how to say like a lot of change has been achieved lah and like how to say, wait I wanted to say something but I forgot oh yeah you know the way like jo is like the main character and all that then like it's usually you're supposed to like


empathize and like how to say like usually you will feel that the main character is like right and all that right but I feel like jo in the movie both in the book and the movie lah she's a bit too realistic, like how to say she like to focus on her own ambitions already so much so that she like she puts and or everything else then like I can sort of relate to her like in a sense that


yeah like nowadays cause you know the friends around me like started dating all that already then like !wah! <mandarin>我看到也是很羡慕:wo kan dao ye shi hen xian mu </mandarin> lah it's like !wah! it must be nice to have like someone you can depend on you know but at the end of the day it's like I I'll start thinking at least now we have a choice you know like it's like


whether we want to get married or not even though there's like [orh] <mandarin>那个我们的父母还是会讲你几时会结婚几时会有孩子:na ge wo men de fu mu hai shi hui jiang ni ji shi hui jie hun ji shi hui you hai zi </mandarin> like every chinese new year they will like everybody will talk about that lah but like it's nice that, today we have a choice whether we want to find a husband or not but last time it was really really like you need to find husband to survive you know that kind of thing cause women cannot


survive on their own ya ya ya


beth the one she passed away right, yeah


nowadays like feminism iit's like feminism it's very focused on saying oh you can you need to be your own personal like <mandarin>你要做自己的主张不可以:ni yao zuo zi ji de zhu zhang bu ke yi </mandarin> like <mandarin>做别人的老婆只可以只可以做别人的老婆:zuo bie ren de lao po zhi ke yi zhi ke yi zuo bie ren de lao po </mandarin> if you are if you are if you are you feel like to stay in the kitchen if you like to cook if you like to do housework means


you are domesticated you know yeah wha the term domesticated it's like !wah! <mandarin>我听了:wo ting le </mandarin> like a bit like <mandarin>什么:shen me </mandarin> what's that then like yeah but like some people just prefer doing that you know


correct correct I think I think what's like the main like how to say like the aim of feminism is to have is to allow girls to have the choice you know it's not like you have to force them to the cause last time used to force them to be a wife


then now I think is that it's progressing towards you have to force them to be independent like you have to be your own person you know so it's like I think like what you said it's ultimately, it's to give females a choice and like they can like choose who they want to be lor ya I think that's the most important ya


so I think we covered everything already right shall we pause, one two three go


okay let me clap, okay, so what you want talk about today, you always got a lot of idea one what


eh by the way hor we cannot overlap each other so when I speak you cannot speak


go away lah, so, so bad


they got give us some prompts lah, like some guiding questions that we can say lor, I I choose a question okay, err


okay, if you had three wishes what would you wish for


eh sister you wait ah the, the fridge very loud I wanna shift place, uh why no lah just shift plays like that lah should be okay ah okay I think I shift here


yes, for one hour only mah can one lah, no I want to say about your three first your number one wish all you have to do is just worked out and eat less only what


why leh


control, I think very easy you lose weight okay lah actually it's not very easy to lose weight I think it's quite difficult if it's easy to lose weight I'll be so skinny now lor


shaking rap, ya what why why cannot


like uh cool song, but their the <mandarin>甜言蜜语:tian yan mi yu</mandarin> ship


oh ya ya ya ya ya I think very cute leh, ya, can you imagine, cause cause the thing is the two of them they very manly they very tom boy, then after that suddenly got like two


and they they're the same <mandarin>形象:xing xiang</mandarin> kind of people what, ya so like naturally they look like each other into it like I mean in fact people thought that like uh <mandarin>陆柯燃:lu ke ran</mandarin> is in the nine because she is the tomboy vibe so it balances out <mandarin>刘雨欣:liu yu xin</mandarin> image mah ya


ya, or else it's just like, eight girls and one, ya lor


!huh!, cannot be lah I see so as one meh, !huh! I tell you all the fans were riot sia they all go onto <mandarin>微博:wei bo</mandarin> and then like complain to ICE how can they be so unfair


okay that's true but still they trying to milk money from the ninth sia if like that, ya lor I also very Sian and I cancelled my VIP already cause my free trial ended


ya very expensive you know, uh I think it's around, five eight dollars per month, eh there's a lot hor you know five eight dollars I can buy what or not


lor, my #wanton mee# also can buy, Roti Prata, can LiHO two dollar only, uh or like you know


ya lor why everything so expensive now ah, oh my <mandarin>记得是:ji de shi</mandarin> today is the best, next time hor I want to try the durian sago


apparently I think they use milk ice so is a a milk ice plus the durian plus some jelly lah, the ball ball lah, ya no I hate the ball ball I love the durian


the durian very nice, my three wishes ah, , okay I want to have someone


I want to meet my soul mate, , the love of my life I want to have someone that will love me and I'll love back ya for the rest of my life, so that's my first wish ya, ya !aiya! don't judge lah ya I feel like I fell like this kind of thing worthy to wish about leh cause it's some ya it's something I cannot control


like lose weight this kind of thing as long as I work hard enough I can lose mah but to find love this kind of thing like like you cannot work hard to find love what


uh I think it's very hard to to to social at a good based where is a good place country club ah orchard road


community centre <mandarin>的人:de ren</mandarin> confirm <mandarin>怪怪的:guai guai de</mandarin> one lor I don't know lah I mean no I no I I think that they're all very nice but I don't think is the kind where I will look to find my future partner someone that I want to have a family with someone that want to introduce my family with


Tinder, ya swipe left swipe right, eh but really eh got some people they really find their true love on Tinder one eh and is their quite steady one


err ya like gina I got few friends also they also found their partner from Tinder, but I can never do Tinder lah it's too, unnatural already so cringing eh don't you think so, I'll be so Paiseh eh


then they go on to Tinder lor then try to find people to date all those


then my second wish is to, earn a lot of money I want to earn, at least twenty K a month


eh you must make sure that your things still recording I not not like last time ah halfway cut the recording okay that's good ya so I want to have a fulfilling job and earn at least twenty K a month ya so next time I can


buy a good house I can go on vacation I can ya and then you know I can treat people to food I feel like when you have money you can do a lot of things that make you happy and make other people happy also


cannot buy you happiness, ya if you say money cannot give you happiness then you give me ah I will be very happy at least make me happy


ya, ya so, ya I want to be rich and have a good job, ya, my last wish, is, I will save my last wish for next time okay okay okay okay okay uh okay I will think of the wish now


err, okay


that is so vague eh what makes you think the genie can can can give you this kind of wish, is too vague already you need to make it more specific, this one you just go community centre can already or you go and join volunteer groups can already you don't need a genie


I thought of my last wish already, end global warming, ya ya change the climate back to when it was a hundred years ago okay lah ya hundred years ago


you must think of something that, you need a genie to do lah if whatever that you, ya I think it's okay ah


I think it's okay ah why why do you want to fly though why don't you just say teleport I think teleport more fun leh, later you read until something that you don't want read


(hmm), no what then you will be too curious you want to read everyone's mind already, err I don't know, I guess when you can read people's minds right you will


you will just want to read everyone's minds no meh you will be curious what, oh actually I quite Kaypoh one


don't want sia so waste [sial], no no no no


ya, ya it's good you will be rich, you don't even need to use your you don't you can take away your second wish already what, ya exactly


think of how to earn money for yourself by using your skills


no leh I feel like you break you will break so many people's relationship leh, no lah but sometimes you will just like <mandarin>你在你在脑里想到:ni zai ni zai nao li xiang dao</mandarin> but <mandarin>你就不:ni jiu bu</mandarin> but you won't act on it what


!hanna! <mandarin>就是就是:jiu shi jiu shi</mandarin> cheater lah, you will break so many relationships but okay I agree you should do that, that is what I say my reading very dangerous cause sometimes you will read ah you read things that you don't want to hear to read


right is that one right,


ya so that's the three wishes, shall we look at what other questions they have


!huh! the second question is if you drop everything to follow your dreams what would you risk, ya, it's like err


that means, that means in your life now what is very important ah that you suddenly leave then you will make an impact on someone


for me I got nothing leh at most is my FYP lor my FYP don't have me anymore ah


!huh! why why you risking family we will still be fine what, I think you will risk your life instead you no you're going to get COVID


now in the future my dream is to start a business on my own maybe my own cafe on my own like hawker stall my own florists


don't want, why collab with your friend, but she got break anything for you meh, not [orh] so don't need the rose lychee cake already ah no it's not precise noise see oh okay


oh okay, one, that's your dream, !aiya! this question not good lah let me choose another one, err


I think it's good leh that you like have the <mandarin>上進心:shang jin xin</mandarin> and the and the <mandarin>心:xin</mandarin> to go and help, to help children you know cause uh <mandarin>每月:mei yue</mandarin> sister she teaching mah so she told me that actually a lot of the teachers there at NIE they don't really have the passion for teaching they just teaching cause it's it's <mandarin>铁饭碗:tie fan wan</mandarin> or and it's a place where


people don't know what they want to do with their life right they will go ya they go do teaching


go and be a tuition teacher lah tuition teacher earn a lot more money


ya I also <mandarin>放弃:fang qi</mandarin> already, !huh!


but actually is very normal in western countries not in asian countries ah, actually got a lot of kid


relate, no lah I think the black lives matter issue right is because we are a multiracial society so actually it kind of


it's relevant to us because ya we have a lot of like people of different colour lah so I think the black lives matter part is okay I think it's more of like singaporeans they just like the western culture better and they value like western values more than the asian values


ya, okay lah think depends on what kind of friends you have lah cause my circle of friends or the or the circle of people that I know that they quite woke one lah so like they generally like to pioneer for all these like err


awareness I think for you I think for your circle lah all the kiddie people ah you you cannot forget that my circle of people are all uni people or like highly educated already they don't really care about what, like about looking cool or anything if they care about uh uh an issue right then they will just go and talk about it lor


so what you trying to say


you insulting me ah ya anyway I don't really like, like like to discuss about this kind of thing also lah but I agree that it is a good a good step lah cause the thing is like you know you need to talk about it more so people become more aware and then it will change


ya, no but it's true that err in singapore got chinese privilege what you never see all your all your or your all your elite schools all chinese one ya


so it is true that, ya we have chinese privilege in singapore so like uh, mainly the people in singapore who are trying to pioneer the black lives matter thing right they want to bring more awareness to the racist issue in singapore racism issue and the discrimination in singapore lah not for the black lives matter thing


but it's just spreading more awareness lor like so how would you rather it be done, use a new hashtag


[orh], !aiya! cancel culture is really just boycotting lah actually I don't really understand why is this cancel culture but I just think it's damn lame


I just think is this walk of <mandarin>小妹妹:xiao mei mei</mandarin> like and very butt ya and very butt hurt people trying to like bring people down


ya I also think they too much already lah they trying to be cool, it's a joke leh


this is why I don't really like to use social media my social media now is only all my makeup my err fashion then my my hair colour food food food ya I want to go and eat good food


ya the japanese food lor, are we speaking enough chinese ah <mandarin>我觉得我们讲不够:wo jue de wo men jiang bu gou</mandarin> ya but <mandarin>不可以一个一个:bu ke yi yi ge yi ge</mandarin> like one chunk <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> you must speak and then like !huh!


no lah no no no no no no no no no it's like it's like it's like when you when you saying a sentence right then you just Chap in some chinese words inside ah cause I feel like we speak too Manich <mandarin>我我们讲太多华语为这项占太多英文了:wo wo men jiang tai duo hua yu wei zhe xiang zhan tai duo ying wen le</mandarin> but must be natural lor


ya, yes, eh what's our question again ah


then, [orh] !huh! this one very funny if you found a time capsule from yourself ten years ago what would be inside, ya so is <mandarin>十年前的你:shi nian qian de ni</mandarin> ah uh


when you were eight years old I was


twelve, six, I was having my friendship fight, when you were two you're still a dumb kid


who I think at that time <mandarin>你不会打字:ni bu hui da zi</mandarin> and so you I think when you have phone do you have phone


ya I remember last time hor on WhatsApp right, you you you you you you always stand emoji, cause you cannot type then <mandarin>爸爸:ba ba</mandarin> always very irritated with you


then you also <mandarin>不是不认识字:bu shi bu ren shi zi</mandarin> you know then but you just don't know how to text then you text very slowly you also


then after that after that are you, ya so you just type emoji anything emoji


and he's friend like I feel like


yup, ya I also like to put emoji but I feel like sometimes hor I put too much imagery you already, same same same I feel like sometimes the stickers can I can express myself more than I can express myself


ya stickers are a mood, the ten years ago me is twelve ya lor I was doing PSLE having my friendship fight, err I was playing PSP a lot also ya my since four you all last time <mandarin>爸爸:ba ba</mandarin> got buy me the pink colour PSP ya it was like my favourite toy then I everyday play I play audition also


you, then got the sonic the sonic running game, I think even if can I also don't know where is it anymore


do you know where is my PSP now isn't even still at home but you remember seeing ah, !huh! <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> !huh! so weird that wasn't then


if we find it it then maybe the SD card is inside lor ya if it's inside then you can try see where you can play on the vita <mandarin>十年前的:shi nian qian de</mandarin> gadget you can see whether it still works now


that's so funny sia last time cause I I like I keep begging <mandarin>爸爸:ba ba</mandarin> to help me buy


then I very sad, then I really really damn sad leh like even game boy I also don't mind you know I never wanted PSP, cause at that time <mandarin>姑婆的女儿:gu po de nv er</mandarin> you remember, she got the game boy ya


ya so she got the game boy then she can pay the barbie game, then that time when I was learning ballet then stacy she had the two the DS mah then she can play cooking mama then she can play on the cute cute games, then nobody in my circle has a PSP so I don't know how to play the PSP then all the PSP games or like not cute not fun like


so I so I never fulfilled my wish of having a a two DS until I had chicken pox


ya and then I got uh I got a three DS no eh no actually no ah no mine is not three DS mine is two D ya the Pikachu one


black hole


for me in my circle only, phyllis plays a lot of games then recently brian ah she's quite addicted to animal crossing


so but I mean I don't have both so, but I really want to get a Nintendo switch everyone has now thing is when like everyone has something then I also I want to have it, I FOMO


then I want to have a Nintendo switch also but very expensive and I know I won't play one so a bit Bo Hua to invest in it, but still I want it


!huh!, boy ah


!wow! maybe you will find your love


[orh] I know that kind of guy okay what why cannot then if like that if he's your boyfriend right then he can hang out with your girlfriends also what, then


ya actually same thing I so don't like my boyfriend to have too many girl like female friends one cause I will <mandarin>自卑:zi bei</mandarin> I will feel like, he will like other girls he won't like me anymore


there's no operating proof, and so much better also, ya I don't see why why people will not choose them, instead of me


so actually honestly I also feel a bit <mandarin>自卑:zi bei</mandarin> if next time I intro my boyfriend to like my circle of friends with phyllis #mei yun# they all cause I feel like he was like them more than me like think so pretty and they so like talented and like


got charisma I think that they are like, so much better than me I don't see why my boyfriend will will not like them, I don't believe, I not very difficult I feel like


the optimism, I err like like I hold these strong belief that guys are all <mandarin>花心:hua xin</mandarin> one


ya I agree so I think it's very hard to find true love in this day and age, cause in the past people they stick together cause they need each other what and it's a norm but nowadays people they all can self sustain already so they date to find the feeling and for practical reasons lah maybe you to start a family or whatever I don't think they like if you were to just


this is why I want to fund


but, but what if he keep thinking that the two of you are bros but you slowly slowly like him already leh


what if what if you like him but he doesn't like you for who, for you will you go and chase


ya so he marry you already and you like him but, he keep thinking that you guys are bros how are you going to handle this


one day you you ask him uh do you want to, drink then you <mandarin>骗:pian</mandarin> him into drinking


I know I also think it's damn gross, but I also think it's very hard to find that kind of guy to be okay with it leh cause, honestly I also don't feel I can marry someone that I don't love also


but I feel like getting married got significance to it one leh


that's true, ya but !aiya! there's still the meaning behind date one lah, (hmm)


ya I see how it goes lah as what you always say god will send you someone to love


what was the most memorable meal you ever had and when they you have it, I feel like I have a lot of memorable meals eh


but the most recent one that I can think of is my <mandarin>记得吃:ji de chi</mandarin> dessert, ya cause I found my favourite dessert place I really


but that is off the top of my head lah it's not the most memorable, but memorable enough for me to talk about it today, confirm have one it's just that you don't remember


ya I I know that my my okay, another memorable meal that I remember having was when I was in hong kong disneyland when I was in sec two, ya then like the closed off the whole Disney park and then we had a buffet in one of the Disney restaurants and it was so good


and can you imagine it's a fourteen year old me like like I think I think I was, one of the rare few times I've ever eaten a buffet I think I only ate less than, five buffets in my entire life lah and then like it was like disneyland and then they were like there was like Disney music and and then like


they had like chefs cutting the meat for you it was very fascinating ah to a fourteen year old so, <mandarin>我很开心我吃得很开心:wo hen kai xin wo chi de hen kai xin</mandarin> so it was very very memorable for me


and it ya and it was a very magical moment also I enjoyed every single day


no lah maybe you can find a <mandarin>冷水鱼:leng shui yu</mandarin> at the chinatown restaurant leh cause it's a china dish mah then chinatown confirm got this kind of dish one


if I were to go back to china again I feel like there's a lot more things I want to do cause at that time when I went to china I feel like I still didn't appreciate the china culture


don't say that kind of thing ya ya I feel like I feel like, didn't appreciate china but now after watching <mandarin>青春有你:qing chun you ni</mandarin> and then like after downloading <mandarin>微博抖音:wei bo dou yin</mandarin> then I see a lot of all those


china staff lah then I and then and then and then I learnt more about the chinese culture I learn more about chinese food


ya a lot ya I I was one of their but now I really feel like I'm very interested in the china culture now so it's a lot of places down to see a lot of food that I want to try, ya and china very high tech


ya the the the the the the <mandarin>微信:wei xin</mandarin> or Alipay lor


ya I would've changed so many things lah if I were to go to the china's trip again if ya I feel like I feel like if time could rewind right, that is a moment where I one time to rewind to ya you know I want to know more about china appreciate china more before I go then maybe things you have turned out differently and then I would have enjoyed it a bit more


oh my god, I want to go thailand I I actually I want go china go thailand I want go korea I want to go to japan, go to, actually a lot of places lah I also I go back to UK


it was really so fun it was it was really like a once in a lifetime experience, and I want to go back to korea cause I realised that korea !wah! the makeup in korea is super cheap, you know in singapore I yesterday I went to Etude House korea's website right


korea they sell the Etude House palette for twenty one dollars converted to US to to SGD already but in singapore they sell for thirty five dollars leh, ya and then the thing is that's Etude House the the official store in it you house in korea lah


so if you were to buy in some those those like third party you can find a lot cheaper one this is why the the Etude House products in on Shopee is a lot cheaper than you just buy it from the Shopee mall


ya so I want to go to korea and then I want to eat korean food also, ya the cheese Dakuki is super nice


and I want to explore more because I went with the tour mah so I feel like I didn't and enjoy korea to the fullest also, no money ah and got COVID how to go


(hmm)


no what but it's not community case mah <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> meh, I thought the committee cases still below ten every day, so the ones, that have the COVID are still the dormitory workers mah no meh and err a lot of imported cases also so means


you until now you still go overseas also, I think will take awhile lah ya I !wah! I think, no no no no no I think <mandarin>下半年才可以出国:xia ban nian cai ke yi chu guo</mandarin> I don't think this will tide over this fast ya


for what


but I go and research deeper on it right they say is it's false leh not true


cause I don't think it will repair that fast lah to be honest it's only been less than half a year but we have been destroying the ozone layer for like a good fifty years, so I don't think you take that fast to heal


, so lame I don't believe in all these


I think we still have to speak a bit more chinese


uh no ah <mandarin>他们怎要:ta men zen yao</mandarin> code switch so if you want to code switch then, okay then uh


if humans no longer, needed to work what would we do


no no no all robot, all robots do for you so you don't need to work, robot to to you just don't have to work to earn money you can survive


(hmm), ya !hannor! <mandarin>不用做工的生活:bu yong zuo gong de sheng huo</mandarin> it's like retirement life lor, just travel the world hang out with friends


but the thing is what would we do what's our purpose in life


no lah, the suit that was there or, you must think of it as externally ya like like, like other than the whole you go to work but it's more of like what kind of relationships do you bond


ya do you do you do form what kind of impact you made in your life and then life, like how many people you help how do you feel you know all the emotional aspects lah, ya you cannot compare the


you cannot think of it so theoretically, but !wah! if I don't need to work so Shiok sia, ya and then I can just do whatever I want lah, , ya it'll be a very different world


you say what actors ah no eh different leh now, now right with the technology that we have right err uh there's this software lah


you can you you you know you know now there's this software where you can like make, the human faces that look very real, that has never been created before, so like a like a human that looks like a human but doesn't look like anyone else ya and then they use the facial expressions from existing actors like the scientists are they study the facial expressions of


of actors and then they integrated into a AI technology so that now right they can create actors, that can act and look like human to act in a show so actually right ten


years down the road fifteen years down the road right it's possible to see uh, a movie ya with just AI


no but technically now your your say for example your league of legends all your graphics all damn good already eh


!alah! <mandarin>就是很:jiu shi hen</mandarin> boring <mandarin>的生活:de sheng huo</mandarin> but it works mah I mean cause the thing as long as you create the recipe out right then <mandarin>是好吃的:shi hao chi de</mandarin> then <mandarin>你就不用做工了:ni jiu bu yong zuo gong le</mandarin> what you just let the robot do it for you and then it'll be okay already but you just you still need the <mandarin>发明师:fa ming shi</mandarin> ah


ya even music also now AI also can produce your own music art also AI also can produce art for you


but I wonder if you can tell if a drawing is created by human or by a robot


even music nowadays also robot can create music already, ya you don't need singers anymore, ya


still have the <mandarin>发明士:fa ming shi</mandarin> lah then got people who mix the things lah, but, just nobody singing it lor but obviously got people


so I think it's quite possible leh to like eh next time even driving also got self driving cars, ya I think self driving cars was quite good


but I think maybe we might not live to see it lah, maybe when we're sixty years old ah


ya don't like like not so <mandarin>准准:zhun zhun</mandarin> close it lah cause we still got in the in at the start we got some parts where we haven't start yet mah


okay <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what, ya lor, next time your maid is like a robot, ya but then but think about it the companies that's collecting all the data


so scary leh, then maybe the robot will peep when you showering, then the people in the office all looking at your porn, !ee!, even now maybe my Google home listening to me now you also don't know or my phone the bixby also listening to me you also don't know


ya it's true <mandarin>我一个朋友他讲他一直讲:wo yi ge peng you ta jiang ta yi zhi jiang</mandarin> baby <mandarin>的东西:de dong xi</mandarin> hor then <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> uh advertisement they keep suggesting to her all the baby stuff lah


ya, ya the phone thinks that she pregnant ah, and recommend her hospital all, okay lah shall we end this K bye bye


okay ya


uh, oh I see okay


alright alright, no I want to stay right here, I'm very nice, I'm the nicest


okay


oh okay okay, err, I wish that I am able to slim down I wish that I have a lot of money and I wish that, err, my family will be healthy


alright, can like that pause one ah


you so you just gonna stand there you look so creepy, what about you what would your three wishes


oh, it's so difficult, I've been trying to work out but then can't maintain then err eat less I try to eat less but then like I'm hungry right I don't know what I just cannot like


like like like like what do you call it like ya control myself, very easy to lose


ya, no cause like just now <mandarin>微博:wei bo</mandarin> right they they posed like a clip of, she uh shaking err doing err rap mah so shaking rap while you sing beat box


ya shaking rap


so weird beat box and sing, no I think like uh esther Yu and <mandarin>雨欣:yu xin</mandarin> also have their ship but I forgot is some <mandarin>星星:xing xing</mandarin> something one


like the friend try say something, ya then err <mandarin>陆可燃:lu ke ran</mandarin> right and <mandarin>刘雨欣:liu yu xin</mandarin> is like, uh <mandarin>化妆什么什么:hua zhuang shen me shen me</mandarin> because that time during the eve performance they keep putting on makeup


right, oh ya


right right, ya a lot of people ship them, that's true that's true they're both the cool one


oh, that's true that's true


!wah! <mandarin>雨欣:yu xin</mandarin> I so excited, I don't know I I want their I want them to debut eh no they debut already I want them to have faster have new song more performances and you know like their new performance like from ICE right


I think hor, err only VIP can watch, ya only VIP can, really really ya you need to pay


no ah, err I mean if pay you get your good stuff is like concert lah, that's right ya that's true that's true


oh, how much


five eight dollars per month, two chicken rice two pack chicken rice, bubble tea, no five day five dollar now cannot buy bubble tea


uh or like those like cool interesting flavour kind I'll buy, I have no idea, oh ya <mandarin>记得吃:ji de chi</mandarin> very nice I want I want to eat the <mandarin>抹茶:mo cha</mandarin> one


oh


I love the ball ball no actually, why the ball ball is nice, ya, what about you what is your three wishes, my three wishes lah,


alright, okay okay, I'm not judging it's a good wish, so difficult to find boyfriend


you must social at a good place you cannot social at a bad place


no lah join all those community centre, that's true that's true that's true how does one find a boyfriend ah


Tinder, like gina like gina


!wow!, ya right I agree I agree, same it's like why yo~you meet your love of your life on Tinder


they prey, right I also want


twenty K, what you going to do with the amount of money, [orh]


that's true okay, ya it's still recording it's still recording, it's still recording


!wow!, that's true


you know that's why I everytime say right they say like <mandarin>惊奇什么:jing qi shen me</mandarin> ah what ah money, ya but man the reason why money cannot buy happiness because money is happiness


right, right, money is happiness, okay, your last wish


what the hell I tell you the genie is not going to wait for you, wait I think I'm gonna change my first switch


K so my my other two wishes was be rich and err next one is for my family okay lah my love one my love one to be healthy and live a long life okay I'm going to change my first the first one I'm going change it to


be to become a person that will bring good impact into other people's life, err


like I am able to help help someone, what, end global warming


!huh!, I see !huh! okay interesting


I'm still thinking wait , (hmm)


I want to be able to fly, okay lor teleport lor oh no I want to be able to read someone's mind


well I okay I can read someone mind but I can choose when to read it, ah you know, no not necessary do I want to read like our neighbour's mind


no, eh no I think I only want to read those that are close to me I'm not I'm not a very Kaypoh person


ya it's more of like maybe like we are having fight then maybe I think I see what you're thinking of first, then after that right I know I gotta say that we bite whatever you want to say then had no more point to fight me


oh my god I can be a good lawyer, ya ya ya ya ya okay okay then if that's the case right ah if I can have !wah! if I will have three magic power as my wish I'll be okay read minds teleport and


and be a healer [bah] like I heal all diseases ya that maybe I can just use by power to <mandarin>赚钱:zhuan qian</mandarin> you know now got COVID right I just I since I'm a healer right so you just come to me you pay me like ten thousand dollars I'll heal your COVID, I'll be rich I'll be rich


ya I don't even need to to, ya, right then uh maybe like couples that like thinking that their partner cheating on them then they ask can you help me read that guys or that girls mind then I was like no problem then I say everything up to the girl then they realise that's a cheater right there then she break up or he or she break up see I save people relationship


actually breaks, what I mean you can't ask the innocent person to date a cheater, I mean like sometimes like maybe like on the street see them maybe oh that guy quite handsome so I think that one still okay lah but then if a cheater is really !wow! like maybe I I am I am the girl than


I want to see whether my boyfriend cheating then what so I go read my boyfriend mind mah later my boyfriend staying like !wow! I wonder where I'm gonna take emily to dinner tonight, so this is I'm I'm helping the innocent girl that is being cheated on okay


oh ya like imagine like like a you meet your friend for the first then first impression that you want to oh what impression did I give this person then you read !aiya! !walao! eh this person so so so noisy