if not ah I tell you, the person in the room studying will be like go out take water go out go toilet go out then after that see what everybody else is doing, no mood to study already what


yeah


yeah lah that's why !aiyo! so, is like, no you lock her in the room ah, started drawing on the paper don't know draw what also


assign already the work is to study and revise for test lor


then they complain say so much so much things how to finish


yeah,


yeah they like to use their imagination nowadays what so she will use they will write down they will draw and then say oh I'm doing mind mapping, cause the school teach them how to do mind mapping but, but she is spending more time drawing that she is spending more time


memorizing, the


yeah lah


but but it's for their science how to, there's no no problem to think of what there's no there there is no solutions needed they just need to remember <mandarin>要记得什么要这个:yao ji de shen me yao zhe ge</mandarin> science term <mandarin>是什么东西:shi shen me dong xi</mandarin> how the life cycle goes what is energy


then can already what, it's a good skill


, but, in the past we don't even have that kind of, we don't even have that kind of exposure lah where got people teach you mind mapping until you are, out in the society working


yeah but, then that time also we actually bought a size keep for them to do themselves lor


!aiya! but nowadays kids also lah like I say, they anything, a little bit a little bit cry you see


, my generation is about although knows your generation to curb on the region well I think they started their generation are shall suffer a lot on how to how to survive like that, a little bit cannot strawberry generation you touch a bit bruised cannot <mandarin>我很痛不可以这样我会:wo hen tong bu ke yi zhe yang wo hui</mandarin> upset I cannot


then, what this one also cannot that one also cannot ask them you think next time boss can scold them ah


yeah, now is in the era of love what everything also have to be loving


oh yeah


true lah that's why you see, that #jing xiang# is crawling all over everybody, because, the mother come only then they all say, eat also cannot


sleep also cannot, play also cannot, everything has to be according to what he wants


, , yeah now you you do well in exam one toy birthday one toy christmas one toy then don't know what one toy


, no lah but also because of that they are very self-centered very selfish leh nowadays kids they just think of themselves only


until somebody else come and take that toy out lor somebody else take somebody pick up the toy ah then they will be like eh but that's mine then he will start playing for five more minutes


then also end up crying !aiya!, kids nowadays, !hais! I also don't know lah but, it seems like, it's also how, I don't know maybe nowadays also, parents has a part to play grandparents also have a part to play in the past grandparents you think they will care so much meh they're are also busy working but now most of the grandparents retired and then got time help out with the kids


, !aiya!, I also don't know what to do I I'm already worrying, like, in the past where got so much insurance right nowadays apart from life insurance hospital insurance you have to buy education insurance then


education is super important mah, yeah lah


!haiya! that's why I think now !aiya! children in singapore are super fortunate lah they everything also everything also taken care of from your, all the infrastructure all your medical and everything taken care of already what that's why children in singapore ah I think need to bring them to a farmland and stay and experience how life is like to and grow and pluck your own vegetables to eat


otherwise this way I don't eat this I don't want to eat that this one I don't like this one I cannot


yeah lah


!haiya!


!haiya! they are a group of sport generation ah


I did I brought them for volunteering we went to distribute food what


yeah yeah lah no lah it's more of not to get some suffering lah it's for them to see and experience how other people actually live lah, otherwise they only think eh !wah! my life is super good and there are people's life who are even better than me but they never think of people who cannot afford birthday parties


then, uh, no lah I don't think I don't think I need ah I need it I will just go down and buy


err just anything will do lah but I think no need to be to be so troublesome lah I try to buy from downstairs the coffeeshop here, oh that day ah that day before I I go out to my friend to #boon lay# #boon lay# there that's why happened to pass by I see the durian look like nice and cheap that's why I tried to buy some lor


oh that day I think the the signboard they show, one kilo thirteen dollars


the seller said can reduce the price to ten dollars per kilo lah that's why we just go ahead and buy lah I I with my friend they all, yes uh but I think usually the durian people they sell durian uh I think the price uh not very sweet lah they just anyhow Kotok or anyhow let go like that


but now err COVID nineteen come to come to a second stage I think, quite quite a number of things open already, that's why I think now nowadays you can see a lot of people start moving out the market here


the moving up from their homes all these kinds of things go everywhere already


every now and then, I don't know you you should go and ask her, and you your mummy every time like to walk here walk there !hais! how how do I know


anything ah !aiya! you try to see whether fits


fit for the fit for the kid then you try to buy for them ah, then what then what else you want I mean usually we <mandarin>吃米饭:chi mi fan</mandarin> ah all these kind of thing you see


you see, without <mandarin>米饭:mi fan</mandarin> usually you won't you won't feel feel full you see your stomach won't feel full you see


of course lah you know <mandarin>米饭:mi fan</mandarin> now talk about <mandarin>碳水化合物:tan shui hua he wu</mandarin> all these kind of thing only, you see it's not not so not really got <mandarin>营养:ying yang</mandarin> all these kind of thing


correct lah, say is like that lah I mean, we we, we can start follow but, I don't think we can change quite, quite far you see, not so drastic like that


so I mean we can slowly slowly adopt it lah, eh you got so many present at home already you still keep on buying buying buying


ah I think you can forget about the present you try to, you try to give some her #ang pow# then for for them to keep, then for can save for the education all this kind of thing you see


no lah you try to save for them not not they not they really save you try to take their money and put inside the bank or what, as in you you want them to save they not even know the cent of the money


!huh! what what is the value of the money they just know oh I got a lot money I got a lot of money, but they're a lot of money is what, !huh!, to them they can't, can't tell I mean the value of the goods is how much all these kind of thing they just know [orh] maybe one dollar two dollar


is come to the large amount of value they totally I don't think they know the the actual value


but do you ask them the the bank coin the money is enough to buy this buy that or not eh, got some got some more, at <mandarin>婆婆:po po</mandarin> of course lah because last time the the the <mandarin>婆婆:po po</mandarin> try to save for


save for, him you see, ah I don't know okay this thing I don't know you try to see lor


all the usually all the grandparents quite, love the children love the grandson all these kind of thing ah, seem like is is a tradition not so not so much choice


!aiya! I know mindset is mindset you see but


all the time, the grandparent is, like to, so so


I don't think, you you can change this kind of this kind of attitude so fast you see so have to have have to get some time for them to adjust for them to slowly slowly to adjust to change you see


(uh huh)


then you should ask your mother go and attend ah, !hais!


so every time I ask you to get them to go to bed early, if they don't sleep early it's not so good for them, I I mean they sleep early they wake up early, then they'll be because at night usually they need to sleep


before ten o'clock, or nine nine now especially now the children go to school maybe nine nine nine o'clock nine something you should get them to go to go and sleep already


correct but I try to say you should practice I mean you yourself have to, let's say you even if you got some job to do you have to go, get them go and sleep already then after after they sleep already then you come out and do your own job lah


you fall asleep first, have to get them to use to this kind of condition let them sleep early then next next day then can they can wake up early otherwise


ah every time go to school, eh how today today may be late ah all these kind of thing


this kind of thing said easier than done okay I also know how to talk okay, !huh! get structural, I mean your your children will follow or not, your child will follow or not, no yeah, so so I mean as a parent you have to


have to stand up, !huh! to supervise them, to give instruction to them, the guide them, to at the core root of them okay not for you to just talk, then no action taken


okay, you see sometimes I think the cane still play a part okay I I personally feel that the cane still play a part okay


because the pain when the moment you beat then they feel they pay, okay, you not just talk talk talk then ask them to eh go to the naughty corner all these kind of thing no use after naughty corner they come out they forget already pain at least I mean they can feel the pain there


once you raise up the pain, raise up the pain, !huh! they'll see the, they'll see the cane they will, !aiyo! later, later built later they beat !aiyo! I may feel very pain you see


!huh!, no use naughty corner now nowadays they used to it already so they feel they don't feel anything you want me to go okay lah I go lah !aiya! I go the most I go there


ah go there awhile, or maybe go there, twenty minute thirty minute like that then after that I come out, then I can forget everything again, so they don't they


don't really learn the thing you see, but the pain, but the cane you beat them, they feel the pain at the moment once you take out the, can they will feel scared, they'll feel frightened


you see, so, so that's why I trying to say every time you have to warn them, you don't listen properly all these kind of thing, later part I going to take the cane out, then you will know okay so when they see the cane or you warn them that time they will


they will try to be try to, see how to behave all these kind of thing already, don't wait until the thing happen already you ask them to eh you go to the naughty corner, no use right


fragile is one thing I know suicide, that's why I trying to say you cannot press them too hard, okay, you cannot press them too hard everything you want them to be !wah! top lah all these kind of thing good lah


so sometimes you should, let them relax, don't force them on certain thing, I mean the discipline this kind of thing they still have to follow not, not say !aiya! I don't follow the don't follow the instruction


it's okay everything is okay okay, to them, to them they don't know you know they don't know anything, ah they just starting pick up they try to think of they try to learn they try to observe all this kind of thing you see


correct lah beecause now they exposed to a lot of thing they exposed to TV ah TV also very TV there


I mean on the TV they can they can learn some from TV then they go to school ah they, sometime they mix with their classmate they try to be think with them they try to learn the thing from them or they try to learn learn the thing from each other


so of of course, now is I try to highlight now is, more open, they learn more things, but they learn more things sometimes it's good and bad, they also not so, they also learn that the freedom ah all this kind of thing everything I free


ah you use the cane to beat me I go go complain to go go go complain to, teacher or what, I don't know, I feel that nowadays the children is, you have to try to


slowly teach them try to, give love to them try to take care of them try to care them try to ask and then see whether they face any problem or not, not every time not every time shouted at them


no use, ah you shout shout with them no use, they don't really, really care now you shout I just listen here in here out


you see, who ask you all try to buy so many ipad or computer for them, I mean you want to buy this kind of thing for them no doubt they can they can learn something from that


you should restrict, the timing, !huh! to restrict the timing, maybe from what time [orh] you can one day you can you can read one read for


can watch the TV for about, maybe let's say half an hour or one hour, after that you should stop them for watching the TV already, I mean the


ah say every time, watch ipad and ask him go and take dinner he say wait awhile, another one, wait


#ah gong# wait, you see, so you're supposed to restrict them cannot just let them keep on watching okay time's up or maybe eh last one ah this is the last one, after that you go and take your dinner okay


like that day !wah! I ask him to take dinner he say no no not now he say why not now, he just say he want to watch ipad, I say cannot you're supposed to quickly go and take your dinner finish your dinner it's the time for dinner not for you to watch ipad right


then after that, she is a bit angry with me you know so I, I said, you don't go and, eat, I will


take your ipad away and throw it away, don't let you have it, so after that he think that he hear that I want to throw away the ipad, he seem like no choice, okay he


he say okay, this is last round I watch already I go I will go and take my dinner, you see, and then don't don't let them have a longer time to watch, no that's what I'm trying to say it's it's it's a timing it's a discipline okay during this somewhere around around certain time you're supposed to do this do that watch okay like dinner time may be before seven o'clock


around six thirty to seven o'clock that that kind of timing you're supposed to ask them to go take dinner already, you see let them get the habit, otherwise they say eh, I still I still not hungry I don't want to eat I want to watch, how


you just tell me how lah, !huh!, then they no need to take dinner, even seven something eight o'clock you say eh they say eh I not hungry they can tell you like that you know they may is abit hungry already they just want to continue watching continue follow the


follow the show they don't want to eat, right


adult is used adult you called adult you see they quite used to this kind of life already, but now since like young ah you have to try to


you see not not like children now they they just go to schooling so you from you from young you have to you have to try to practice them


try to, guide them try to, ask them eh, follow the time follow some of the timing I mean eating time or dinner time lunch time, or sleep time


you cannot just let them everything up to their wish


right, you know I mean it, otherwise they they watching ipad while they while they're eating


!huh!, they are drag the timing they are take longer time to finish the dinner


okay, ah <mandarin>没有电视机没有:mei you dian shi ji mei you</mandarin> ipad


correct lah have to take time lah not say so easy straight away you can do this do that


give him that's why a lot of thing, a lot of thing the child must be learn


!huh!


!aiya! my parents is, like me so much


no you see comparing, I mean this kind of thing is without, comparing is you can't avoid one, okay but I try to say comparing you up to certain limit


sometimes they want to compare is, will try to usually they try to take the bad thing to compare they don't I I mean they don't take the very good thing to compare why then why don't they compare say I try to, I try to be score higher than you all these sort of thing you know what I'm trying to say or not they compare they take like that eh the father give them the handphone you know handphone you know then say why I don't have handphone


!wah!


yeah


okay you see ah last time, last time where got parent bring them give them so many this kind of tuition that type of tuition last time the I mean the parent is can't afford, you know why now the living standard is, is going out


parent is earn more that's what they can afford to give them this give them that, I mean whether it, is is a need to give them so many tuition, you you you don't you see I mean for those parent they I mean they're they're they're living already quite difficult already how can they afford


this and that, that's why I try to highlight nowadays the living standard raise already, so parents as I, the parent is got more money then they think that eh I send my children is everybody is Kiasu you know


!huh! Kiasu that's what I I must be get my children to go front go top all this sort of thing, it's everybody like that then I try to highlight lah is nobody will will will be go I mean when at this this group of them they're they're move out they can get a better job then those low class job


!huh! who who going to do, I mean tuition you can afford, I mean you think there is a need, then you really want to send your children go, just go to me tuition ah I just to me I send the children go for tuition because sometimes I cannot teach them I no time to guide them all these kind of thing


so at least I know that, during the timing ah, why you seven to eight o'clock or seven to eight thirty if somebody guiding them to do some, schoolwork, or homework, you see


I, send them for tuition sometimes is, I, I know that during the kind, if somebody looking at them somebody guiding them, I not say eh, once they go to tuition they must be !wah! very clever ah very smart lah !wah! everything must be


everyday must know, I mean tuition to me sometime I feel that during that time, because I cannot guide them properly so during the the timing I mean the, the teacher will guide them teacher would supervise them you see


at least I know that during the time the the boy is learning, the boy is studying not playing, you see, playing today is no limit you know, you can they can play whole day they without studying without do this do that without study they can play whole day


they don't bother the the the work all this sort of thing, so I mean you have to, set some timing set some time for them to go, go for this kind of thing you see set some timing eh during this time [orh] you need to do some work already you see


my purpose for them to go to tution sometimes is like, at least I know that during this timing, !huh!, is somebody guiding them


correct lah that's why I try to say times is change I know times is change okay, nowadays got, nowadays got new their method, I know you you ask them keep on keep on stare at computer you think their eyesight don't spoil


they're spoil their eyesight very very fast ah yeah you see yes yes, that's what I try to say every everything got good and bad everything got limit, see how you want to set the limit how to control the limit you see


but, the purpose behind, is don't let the don't let the the, child overdo it, you see they want to play computer then they whole day sit at computer there you think their eye eye sight don't don't spoil so so easily


they'll anytime they will spoil their eyes I mean the the vision all this sort of thing, then by the time they put on specs, is that a bit too late


that's why I just say learning is is they they can, they can continue learning I'm not not stop stopping all these, I try to highlight, is you don't control them the timing you don't restrict them


they will take the, whole day just to play computer, all five six hours seven seven seven eight hour like that just to sit on the computer there then just to play computer but, usually they they see computer they not they not


they not do this kind of I mean programming all these sort of thing ah coding all these kind of thing they try to play the games you see, it's a game they don't stop, that's why I try to say you have to restrict them on certain timing


you see, is the game it's the once they start playing game they can forget about this forget about that already, !huh! they can hold night don't no need to eat whole day no need to eat, so they can forget everything they just concentrate on playing game here and there you see


yeah yeah, I mean this is a trend this is a game I agree lah but I mean sometime you also have to restrict them the timing here and there you see, you cannot just let them, let them fly like that eh


whichever they like they just go ahead to play, you have to restrict the their timing I mean on certain time you have to do this on certain time you have to do that you see, you cannot just let them #suka suka# every now and then play the game you see


yeah yeah yeah weekend lor usually let them do on weekend lor


you see, !huh! if they don't do on weekend where got time I mean they go for school then they come back they have to school do school homework all these sort of thing school work, where got time to, where got other time, so I mean


like those game you you want you can let them play on weekend ah saturday sunday lah


you should try to see whether got any I mean any better games something like let them those IQ game try to try to see whether I mean outside market selling some I IQ IQ I IQ, games you let them throw this kind of IQ game for them they will ask you fix the thing you see


I mean they you can learn IQ, they you can learn learn the thing already then they can, simulate their mind better, the answer is up to you to see I mean market got what sort of thing


yeah lah like that is okay like that is okay okay


but they also complain bored everything also, that's why that's why I try to say timing is important you you try to plan for them certain timing, now can do this now after that you can do what, ah after you finish finish one one or two assessment


work already okay I I allow you to play you can play some toy or what


no see, I mean you finish fast is one thing whether they anyhow do is one thing you know what I'm trying to say or not, !huh! they whether they do properly or not they anyhow do !huh! they just, I mean they just go through anyhow do


I mean they really understand the topic or not they really understand, topic, then they really know how to do or not if they don't know that's why every time ask them do have to read especially mathematic you have to read to understand ah


question first without understand the question you cannot do the work


yeah that's why this kind of thing is is is is from the training, !huh!, you have to have to slowly slowly teach them you have to slowly slowly, tell them say must use the correct term, you see term the terms is not say straight away you know everything uh you supposed I mean you have to read through all these sort of thing have to remember have to try to apply all this sort of thing


you can not say eh I want I just get it and straight away throw out, not like that I mean if they have to have to understand main thing main thing they have to understand the thing first, if they don't understand they don't know


they don't know, of course they don't know how to do, okay


course lah <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> you try to you try to, lock them in in one of the room ah, tell them say now from what time to what time you have to stay in this room to do some study okay


of course they try to take excuse to go out here and there because I mean like what you say now the kids is very smart of course they try to try try to play some trick with you they say eh now I want to take water oh no I want to go urine, !huh!


I mean like this kind of thing is everybody I mean the kid you you adult adult know the kid also, know you see


okay no you you lock you put them inside the room I I mean maybe, twenty minutes or ten minutes have to go inside to check them you cannot just leave them alone or maybe you have to assign some work for them first


then you you no then you have to go inside the room to see whether they really do do the thing or not, [orh] they not really do a thing then you have to ask them eh, how come I ask you to do this how come you never do this you go and do other thing, and when are you going to finish


I mean you should question them here and there you should I mean go inside the room to do do do the spot check on them see if they really do or not they not really do then, have to tell them


what so much I I, what so much, !huh! when they play they never say eh I play !wah! so good, ah the timing so long is nobody come and disturb me, of course you have to tell them play one thing I mean study one thing


okay, I mean you cannot all the time play or all the time I don't expect you all the time study okay, that's why I try to say you try to set some timing for them, I mean during what time you supposed to play during what time you supposed to study during what time I mean


you supposed to eat dinner eat something or what, I mean you try to restrict their I mean try to, knock out some timing for them, to follow the timing, otherwise


otherwise no ending you know I mean the the kid, I mean you don't control them you don't guide them they are something like a bird fly away you know, like, you see ah #xiao yee# #xiao yee# every time also fly fly fly fly away


hor, okay


mind mapping is okay, I tell you ask ask ask them to, you when they draw when they draw they have to write something, I mean they have to write something then they have to question the thing


you see, ah they have to question the thing see whether it's correct or not, you see, mind mapping in fact is good is for them to think for them to question, for them to talk


I mean, when they they they got some they they hit some problem, they they they try to come up with something to solve the problem here and there


!aiya! mind mapping in fact is quite, is quite a good tool ah quite a good tool, so they they try to, they try to, when they encounter some problem they try to think of, they try to try to list down


then they have to think of how to how how to overcome the problem all this kind of thing in in fact it's quite a good tool for them to, when they, encounter problem they try to come up with some thinking some problem thinking you see, uh try try to solve the problem


hor you see right now that's why I try to say right now everything is improved


I mean the society everything is improved, uh so now even the I mean the living standard everything is good, you see


eh who cry, eh who cry, okay okay okay don't cry don't cry, don't cry, don't cry hello boy boy


yeah lah little bit little cry I don't know, that's what I try to say I mean you have to, you your child you're supposed to know how to take care of them okay, my generation is, my generation is is is about over already okay I mean now is your generation to take care about the next generation


now nowaday I mean the new generation, nowadays seem like very fragile, I mean their, they want this want that and then they I mean the parent also try to give in to them so much


no no lah nowadays I think is parent don't give birth so much I mean they just ah all the parent just give give birth to one uh or two lah then they love their children so much


they try to think think that their children I mean, don't love their children then how


no lah nowadays the parent I don't know lah I find I find try to find them nowadays because they they don't have so much kid, they just one or two kid not like the old generation they got, five six kid or seven eight kid like that, where got time to take care of the kid at the same time


you see, of of course the I mean the now the trend is changing okay, the trend is changing, uh nowadays they they don't have the time they try to go for their, go for their living they try to earn the money for living then they where got time to take care of so many kid at the same time so I mean sometimes they just let the kid to


run around do their own thing, you see, they also bring out bring out the generation like that, but I mean the the generation they bring up may not compare to now nowadays the kid may not be as good as nowadays the kid lah I mean you give them the


you give them the better like comfort life or this kind of thing you see, nowadays why you start give them the comfort life better life, I mean they they they getting more demand and demand not like last time one I mean they got the one toy they are quite satisfied already you see not like nowadays you see the whole house full of the toy


okay I mean, the whole house full of toy, so many toys for them already they don't know how to <mandarin>爱护:ai hu</mandarin> the toys okay how to cherish


cherish the toy okay, ah they, they got too many toy already they don't know which one to play, ah then the toy to them is, get the toy so easily, not like last time last time I mean is the parents is because they're


they, can't afford to buy so many toys for their kids, it may be one person one toy or maybe they share the toy among themselves, nowadays the whole house full of toys the children also don't know how to play the toys


ah I mean, they play this this side already they just anyhow throw play that side already they just anyhow throw


they think of themselves, !huh!, because they they try try to think that eh this one belong to me, eh you cannot play, eh this that one belong to me I don't let you play you see, so I mean


so then self-centred is is I mean is is the environment also bring out lah I trying to highlight is is environment is a growing environment, they're growing is they they they growing on that type of environment, they try to learn from last time old time


because not everybody got toy, so they have to try to share, then they're try to grow happily you see nowadays, the children may think that eh my this is my, parents buy for me okay, I why should I share with you


okay why should I share with you this one belongs to me, !huh! is my thing you know my own thing you know not not your own thing, I don't they don't, cherish the thing so much, they play awhile they just just just throw aside they don't care


they don't want to play anymore, yeah yeah yes correct correct correct I try to highlight I mean, I mean the way they behave they try to


they they they they don't care to try so much, okay once somebody try to fight try to get the toy then they will feel that eh, eh how come you take my toy, that's why now they, then they start, start quarreling I mean you try to snatch back all these thing


yeah that's why lor, if now the grandparents don't help out with the kid the father mother is working then who take care about the grandchildren after that you see


!huh!, I mean now, that's what I trying to say every generation got every generation lifespan differently you see, nowaday the lifespan is maybe, prone to this prone toward this this this type of trend you see


well I mean, no choice if everybody try to suit in try to, try try to try to suit the suit the lifespan lor what to do


now because this kind of thing is got requirement that's why they will come out what, I mean those seller you think they're stupid they try to think of what sort of what what what what sort of what sort of good I mean those customers want to buy, I mean this kind of thing you got demand that's why they try to come up with this sort of thing


you see, of course, insurance insurance is is they try to push one group of people to to share the I mean to share the load you see, like that, then if got the demand, that's why you got the thing will come out


if without demand you think the thing will I mean the thing will die off very soon, you got another day on this argument, the, of course lah I mean because, we all right now even


those very poor country they also try to try to do their education without education because when you give them the education they they they, grow up they can think, ah they can observe they can think they can


see how to go about it all this kind of thing, I mean this, education of course is very important to this, those kids without education you think they what they are #gong gong# you know they don't know what to do you know I mean they


they will don't know what to do this and that, then a lot of thing a lot of knowledge they don't have they cannot gain gain the knowledge, of course when you give them the education they they know how to learn they know how to write


!huh! they know how to speak, then they can can read newspaper they can they can read a lot of news from the news they try to pick up this and that here and there you see, so from there, from there they they they can try to


that's why I trying to say nowadays the life life lifespan is improved a lot a lot, you see, of course


yes of course, yeah


no you should, because this kind of thing is they got a choice, let them don't have any choice, see whether they eat or not, like last time I mean last, old generation, ah you don't eat you hungry, come to the end is you have to eat organic life lah I think Hong-Kong in Hong-Kong while the richmond


they bring, usually during the school holidays they bring their, I think I think likely is in Hong-Kong I cannot remember which country, they tried to bring their kid go to the area, China the


go to mainland the China the rural area then just throw the kid there, for them to live, live together with the, rural rural area people then the kid will, try to learn, okay just leave them


I mean nowadays parent, !aiya! this thing also eh very very dirty lah unhygiene lah all this kind of thing I mean you you see those rich rich people they also just try to bring their, their children to throw inside the rural area let them live there I mean for for for


few weeks like that, I mean of course during the school holidays lah, at least let them learn how, how to how how to get the thing out I mean how to get the how to plant this or how to plant that or maybe how to play with a kid you see you see the kid at the working I mean the in the living condition how


I mean, they from there they will learn how to treasure the uh how to treasure the life you see, I mean they got they living in the good life you now you see those rural area people, ah children


that I mean they really, stay stay in the very poor poor type of situation you know they're they're I mean their condition is not so good you see, I mean that's why they they're they're they're the rich fellow is, try to bring their children go there to let them experience this kind of thing you see then from there they try to try to learn try to see eh how life is it


you see, it's good for the kid lah I mean of course I mean don't everything the kid want this want that then you just try try to buy this buy that I didn't eat this eat that then okay lah don't eat also can lah, of course they they


of course they try to, think that later part they will try to think that eh, parents say can what don't eat this don't eat that can what, once you start give them these are green light, later part you want to control them back is not so simple already


but you see people still bring them go to rural area so let them go and learn some, let them, try to, throw them in some I mean charity thing let them go and experience those those those those those hard work let them go and pick up some


some I mean, yes yes should let them let them let them, do some suffering then they will learn learn something eh not so simple you see the thing get you want to get the thing not so simple then you can at the same time they can see those


those those poor people how their how their life how they're living you see


yeah that's why let them know that how to compare, uh how to compare compare is no ending you know, you see, where got ending one, !huh! <mandarin>所以我们所所讲的比上不足比下有余:suo yi wo men suo suo jiang de bi shang bu zu bi xia you yu</mandarin> lor <mandarin>就是这样:jiu shi zhe yang</mandarin> lor


okay, ya ya


okay okay


ya ya, , okay


#mui fan# <mandarin>再加:zai jia</mandarin> egg


for dinner ah, lunch ah, oh, webinar, oh got <mandarin>新的:xin de</mandarin> ah


oh okay okay, oh, shag shag long day ah especially especially now this time work from home ah, very shag ah


ya mentally draining anyway, I had, I had a early dinner ah, I went KFC I buy, mashed potato chicken mashed potato, with fried chicken and


cheese fries and the set comes with, what, honey <mandarin>叫什么:jiao shen me</mandarin> dew mountain dew ah, Shiok ah


and my and my day just just like that lor, normal day lor, but <mandarin>早上的时候早上的时候做工:zao shang de shi hou zao shang de shi hou zuo gong</mandarin> lah <mandarin>早上做:zao shang zuo</mandarin> maybe


and, half, like just two hour morning nine AM to, eleven then the rest of the day, err study lor


this time, is term break, two week term break, so, ya lor, kinda lah kinda lah do learn whatever I can lor


now no project, no project now have project but I initiate initiate my own project ah personal project, can say that lor ya lor ah


, my whole


twelve AM, I mean, then chill good part about, err what I'm studying is concept art


so the good part is when I chill I can play games, ah play game, free and easy lor, ya lor ya lor


err I for, ten months I'll be doing like that for ten months, ah until I find my <mandarin>下一个工:xia yi ge gong</mandarin> lor


praying hard lah, so you have, thanks thanks thanks


, , ah


, HTHT ah err consider lah consider lah hor


err okay, your your your your girlfriend just send you a message to tell you to start first you start first


question one two three, if you could live in the next twenty four hours and then erase it and start over, just once, what would you do


if you could live the next twenty four hours, ah, so you experience the coming twenty four hours right then <mandarin>你你可以:ni ni ke yi</mandarin> restart ah, but <mandarin>你知道你这个:ni zhi dao ni zhe ge</mandarin> twenty four hour <mandarin>你发生什么事:ni fa sheng shen me shi</mandarin> then <mandarin>你可以如果你:ni ke yi ru guo ni</mandarin> restart what what would you do


oh


pitch, oh oh oh


(uh huh), the marvel movie


[orh], ah ah ah ah, ah okay, ah


[orh], [orh]


ah (uh huh), ah ah ah ah, so so <mandarin>回去我我可以讲:hui qu wo wo ke yi jiang</mandarin> oh <mandarin>我知道你会讲:wo zhi dao ni hui jiang</mandarin> no so then I can use another tactic


ah, ah, err I might need some time to think think about this question but I mean at this point of time I think err if I can do this right I would err


a few things lah I think I think A, a sales pitch is is something that I want to do, a B I think I want to try on some, (uh huh)


ah that's smart, smart, , !wah! then you twenty four hour become millionaire


better be easy


who makes you feel good about myself ah , ah, ya, ah <mandarin>如果你跟他讲的话:ru guo ni gen ta jiang de hua</mandarin> I don't know why you might say


so so, the listener, and you want to know edwin he, he is my


poly friend, ah for very poly since a friend since poly and we know each other very very well so much that we we know, the way how how we talk and like even relationship wise <mandarin>我们都会:wo men dou hui</mandarin> share lah you know <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> barrier err <mandarin>他几时他为什么会:ta ji shi ta wei shen me hui</mandarin> feel up <mandarin>为什么会:wei shen me hui</mandarin> feel down


ah, so even I know <mandarin>他的他他的:ta de ta ta de</mandarin> experiences with the past ex, and, basically he share almost everything with me lah but, but back to the question right what makes me feel good about myself


like <mandarin>有时候:you shi hou</mandarin> when


crowded so much that, he would he he don't know what to do next he don't know what to do next, so then he will ask me eh


!aiyo! ah <mandarin>你你你你怎么做:ni ni ni ni zen me zuo</mandarin> cause <mandarin>你有你懂我吗而且你也是:ni you ni dong wo ma er qie ni ye shi</mandarin> seems like you know what you want to do


every morning <mandarin>就会做:jiu hui zuo</mandarin> meditation, thank for the things that I have


ah, meditation then <mandarin>第二就是:di er jiu shi</mandarin> be aware of, ah so that <mandarin>我不会很像走路走路:wo bu hui hen xiang zou lu zou lu</mandarin> then <mandarin>突然间我过马路我在想东西我这种很危险:tu ran jian wo guo ma lu wo zai xiang dong xi wo zhe zhong hen wei xian</mandarin> mah right ya so is having that practice of self awareness at every moment right


you will less likely to get your mind crowded, ah, this is what I felt whenever I say all these things ah <mandarin>跟他讲:gen ta jiang</mandarin> right is a is a is a is an information that helped me and I help him lah so that way it also feels good for me


ah, feels good for me, , ya ya


ya ya, learning process lor <mandarin>你讲得对:ni jiang de dui</mandarin> lor learning process I learn, learn, I think I learn <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> more about how I, hear, his


more like listening [bah] listen listen to how, ah, ah ya, ah


just <mandarin>他讲:ta jiang</mandarin> problem [orh] <mandarin>就是这样:jiu shi zhe yang</mandarin> lor <mandarin>我有这十张卡你其中一个就是你的:wo you zhe shi zhang ka ni qi zhong yi ge jiu shi ni de</mandarin> problem <mandarin>我丢给你:wo diu gei ni</mandarin> lor <mandarin>我都没有:wo dou mei you</mandarin> tell I didn't even listen to the person ah then the person after that will think right <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> do you even know what I'm talking about anot ah so it's a learning lah so edwin edwin is the guy


yes, so <mandarin>他有:ta you</mandarin> err <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> left <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> job but going to another job


ninety nine dot ah, ah industry lor ah


okay, [orh] #jun wei#, , how many hours


oh wrong, , when it's all said and done will you have said more than you have done


I felt like it's more of a done <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> take action mah, ah


(uh huh)


!whoa!


where was the


ah, err


then how do you deal with them


ah


ah ah ah


, that's true ah don't need to tell them cause it's within the your group


people that is supposed to be in, but


err, now we know a little bit of #jun wei# way of getting recognition, okay


!wah! <mandarin>这个这个:zhe ge zhe ge</mandarin> question <mandarin>不错:bu cuo</mandarin> eh


err, another half hour [le] freedom ah


okay I think freedom <mandarin>你可以:ni ke yi</mandarin> breakdown right <mandarin>有:you</mandarin> financial freedom ah, then after that, I got, I got so much that I do not have to worry about


then, ah


freedom, to, can I say travel ah, ah <mandarin>很像:hen xiang</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我到处出国:wo dao chu chu guo</mandarin> hor then, I don't need


I don't need to, don't know eh I feel like I I can just take any, change bus then <mandarin>我不用还要换车:wo bu yong hai yao huan che</mandarin> if I have like a special like a personal car then I can just drive straight ah then someone could drive for for my family


and for me, so, freedom to travel, with ease [bah], ah ah with ease, ah less restrictions ah


ya ya, ah ah ah, ah <mandarin>也对也对:ye dui ye dui</mandarin> ah <mandarin>对对对对对对:dui dui dui dui dui dui</mandarin> this one this one important this one important ya


ah, this is one is like


time freedom, ya ya, yup like financially <mandarin>我觉得:wo jue de</mandarin> like <mandarin>在新加坡:zai xin jia po</mandarin> financial freedom err can be tough can be tough to achieve


but I also felt like I also think there's, [orh] I see positive lah in the future that Singapore <mandarin>可以:ke yi</mandarin> thrive ah during this even at this time lah but <mandarin>我是觉得以后可以因为:wo shi jue de yi hou ke yi yin wei</mandarin> technology it advances it


helps us mah you know it helps us err, with ease [orh] do things with ease [orh] like <mandarin>我现在做:wo xian zai zuo</mandarin> design right <mandarin>我不用跑去公司找:wo bu yong pao qu gong si zhao</mandarin> meet client I can work from home then <mandarin>我又可以:wo you ke yi</mandarin> meet <mandarin>一些:yi xie</mandarin> client from other country <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> ah then <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> after that they pay good also


so, I think, hopefully will achieve lah financial freedom


financial freedom, two million nah


including cash,


two two million


oh, oh


then, ah, you know


time <mandarin>还有:hai you</mandarin> financial lor, [orh] more more choices ah, choices lah


and achieve more, and achieve more <mandarin>因为只要有多钱有多时间:yin wei zhi yao you duo qian you duo shi jian</mandarin> then, master in one particular


ya ya don't have to feel forced to you know, err do something that I don't want so suddenly <mandarin>叫我:jiao wo</mandarin> manage <mandarin>人这些:ren zhe xie</mandarin> then , start


(uh huh), I, what do you see when you look into the future


, corona


!wah!, , [orh]


this one is this one is err, it's like environment


, crown <mandarin>来的:lai de</mandarin> leh <mandarin>它:ta</mandarin> shape of a crown


ya [orh], ya ya


opportunity,


what, ,


wealth, ,


(uh huh), youth youth and health


uh, oh mindset


like still still have err some creativity in them, like like willing to take risk also


, okay lah, happy <mandarin>那个孙子全部会来跟你玩:na ge sun zi quan bu hui lai gen ni wan</mandarin> lor, !wah! I never know got this kind of thing


add one switch ah one switch , see you in a VR world leh , [orh]


cause as in C A U S E cause ah


, , , while you do while while you're doing your cause you will of course <mandarin>会自然开心的:hui zi ran kai xin de</mandarin>


optimistic


, , for for the for the future and your future also


oh, ya lor, interesting interesting, !wah! <mandarin>差多一个号码就买马票:cha duo yi ge hao ma jiu mai ma piao</mandarin> eh


what's something you, that you are still really good at


uh <mandarin>我我在想是:wo wo zai xiang shi</mandarin> graphic design [bah], graphic design, ah I I I trying to think of something else that is not, skill base


what is something, [orh] [orh] <mandarin>那边那边写:na bian na bian xie</mandarin> Liao hor <mandarin>那边都写:na bian dou xie</mandarin> Liao graphic designer many ah then <mandarin>它就:ta jiu</mandarin> okay lor


then, ah !huh!, example like, you mean situation that made me feel like design is a horror


banner email <mandarin>这些:zhe xie</mandarin> right <mandarin>这些东西啊:zhe xie dong xi a</mandarin> starting step into the design world <mandarin>的时候:de shi hou</mandarin> right


keep doing the same thing


keep doing the same thing then, as I know more thing about it right, I felt like it's a very boring, thing to do is is it gets more boring when, when


people that come to me ah <mandarin>跟我讲:gen wo jiang</mandarin> about this design work [orh] they are not coming to me like they know about design, they come to me like eh


ah


ah what's more important is, ah because <mandarin>他的上上的:ta de shang shang de</mandarin> boss, also want it like that ya, one thing I that can also made me realise lah <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> maybe design I can't say that my design is good ya I also cannot say that my boss designs is bad


but and, but because of knowing that their design sense kind of suck to me I feel like it's, quite boring lah <mandarin>因为他们都不要:yin wei ta men dou bu yao</mandarin> accept <mandarin>我的:wo de</mandarin> design Liao mah, ah ah, so


I'm really good at it I quite confident I'm every good at it but then, err no lor <mandarin>不要做一辈子:bu yao zuo yi bei zi</mandarin> lor, rather do ah


trader, ah <mandarin>做做一点做一点:zuo zuo yi dian zuo yi dian</mandarin> trading ah, ah , option option lor <mandarin>或者是:huo zhe shi</mandarin> day trading <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> lor, ah stock stock trading lah


ya but <mandarin>我都是在:wo dou shi zai</mandarin> online, try to


I'm still finding I'm still finding, oh


ah, , , offer offer community, oh okay okay leh


oh, oh, oh oh oh, [orh]


ya I mean I mean trading <mandarin>就是钱生钱:jiu shi qian sheng qian</mandarin> mah, I I I what I believe is uh


something that I that I don't like, now now I want to find something that I like and I can be good at it so I thought trading I thought that money is what I like right now so <mandarin>我做:wo zuo</mandarin> either <mandarin>做:zuo</mandarin> business <mandarin>或者是做:huo zhe shi zuo</mandarin> trading ah I think entrepreneur <mandarin>或者是:huo zhe shi</mandarin> trader


they actually it's not really really that complicated if


I know the fundamentals and the eh no the technicals and the fundamentals ah <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> research <mandarin>还有那个:hai you na ge</mandarin> knowing how the graph works ah


something like that lah


one is what I, want, that I like that make me feel like you know like I like this thing I need to have it mah, so like <mandarin>刚才讲的那个:gang cai jiang de na ge</mandarin> five million [orh] ah five million, !wah! then the two million hor ah two million <mandarin>我还:wo hai</mandarin> I don't even have it so I cannot say that like it


I want it lah, I <mandarin>我觉得:wo jue de</mandarin> hor <mandarin>越老了:yue lao le</mandarin> hor


!wah!, ah, responsibility,


, ya lor ya lor, okay


(ppc), , twenty seven lah


ya yours, break the law to save your loved ones, loved ones <mandarin>不一定是你的:bu yi ding shi ni de</mandarin> girlfriend, can be it can even be like your close friend ya


(uh huh)


what what sort of law would stop, you you stop someone from beating err, potentially kill someone ah


(uh huh), , ah


ya, get the love


, but <mandarin>那个那个是:na ge na ge shi</mandarin> like <mandarin>你你懂:ni ni dong</mandarin> if <mandarin>你帮他:ni bang ta</mandarin> you do it right you get my hostage then the police also understand that you did it because you wanted to save


or or even okay maybe not the the front line police part, you have lawyer to back you up


, trying to think of a, sort of law, what sort of


what sort of law that will stop you but still in positive side, I can't think of any leh, can't think of any, , not now ah but


then <mandarin>你身上没有钱呢这个乐翻你这样的话你要吃这个要:ni shen shang mei you qian ne zhe ge le fan ni zhe yang de hua ni yao chi zhe ge yao</mandarin> in within one minute


break the law by just stealing it, and then not paying and just walk off, no you you don't have, ah, then <mandarin>你要知道你有:ni yao zhi dao ni you</mandarin> security guard <mandarin>在前面啦:zai qian mian la</mandarin> so <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> potentially <mandarin>会跟他:hui gen ta</mandarin> fight lah ah


security guard, sympathy ah


one minute one minute, (uh huh)


[orh] okay okay okay


okay I think I think you have answered that


that question


think of home what specifically do I think of, err, chair


so basically every day, I don't think, the more more superficial <mandarin>的话啦如果是说:de hua la ru guo shi shuo</mandarin> home like


err safety, ah <mandarin>因为在外面:yin wei zai wai mian</mandarin> I think, even if I stay at someone's house I I still don't feel the security , even if I stay at my ex <mandarin>的家也是有时不会觉得安心:de jia ye shi you shi bu hui jue de an xin</mandarin> ah


ya Cek-Ark ah <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> Cek-Ark lah, what do you think of when home ya <mandarin>就是这样子:jiu shi zhe yang zi</mandarin> lor


what do you think


, yes, yes


yes national day national day <mandarin>过:guo</mandarin> Liao <mandarin>我我问错时间:wo wo wen cuo shi jian</mandarin> , so you feel like Singapore is your home


you can be yourself


(uh huh) (uh huh) socially acceptable lah, (uh huh), are you talk to people you show face do presentations sometimes is like is, neck


, , so it's a walkable home err portable home


, , so different people has a, size of the home right varies also


youth ah, youth lah youth freedom, , I think five more minutes


, !wah! what question, do you often ask yourself, err


I would say what progress has I made have I made today


so I felt like it's a it's a fail


but at the end of the day then <mandarin>我会:wo hui</mandarin> question other than focusing on what this is this failure this this failure right what are the other things that I progress, like <mandarin>我的:wo de</mandarin> colour for the clothing right in particular <mandarin>就是我:jiu shi wo</mandarin> follow reference mah reference <mandarin>来画因为我那个裤子就是因为我:lai hua yin wei wo na ge ku zi jiu shi yin wei wo</mandarin> improved on <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> lighting ah ah I know where it shines and I choose the right colour


how I slide, how I pick color <mandarin>之类的:zhi lei de</mandarin> that one I have improved


err follow <mandarin>他:ta</mandarin> then after that I gain I gained some some money ya <mandarin>那个是:na ge shi</mandarin> credit <mandarin>它的:ta de</mandarin> credit then <mandarin>我就会问有哪一个:wo jiu hui wen you na yi ge</mandarin> point that I pick up that I can use it for the next day, ah, so this is this this answer me this answer will be is for me to and and and I'll feel like it's a progression [bah]


, ya so, okay, ya lor


[orh]


yes yes


no lah I think is like <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> trying to align with the person's err, err <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> thought lah


(uh huh), family


, growth


the self, self development <mandarin>的那种:de na zhong</mandarin> questions ah constantly have to ask ourselves all these things ah so that, so that you know


you know <mandarin>比较:bi jiao</mandarin> meaningful lah


ah,


is so the the why gap err strong, stronger, ya


<mandarin>我我我有一些朋友我问他我有问他这种:wo wo wo you yi xie peng you wo wen ta wo you wen ta zhe zhong</mandarin> deep question <mandarin>他们都会:ta men dou hui</mandarin> brush off, ah <mandarin>要不然就会讲我没有想过这样这样远:yao bu ran jiu hui jiang wo mei you xiang guo zhe yang zhe yang yuan</mandarin> but then when <mandarin>他们在想:ta men zai xiang</mandarin> that level that question right


, just <mandarin>就是就是去:jiu shi jiu shi qu</mandarin> lor ah <mandarin>去到那边如果很多人的话换地方啦:qu dao na bian ru guo hen duo ren de hua huan di fang la</mandarin> ya


not not not judging them lah but it's is basically what you say lor <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> different level focuses what we focus, uh what kind of question do we tell ourself and usually that level of question, it talks about us also


review of ourselves, ah,


yes, is the best ask question, yup, one hour Liao


err


anything lah !aiyo!, you know, Chope, Makan, Kenan


Kana , Kiasu blur


[orh] <mandarin>放飞机:fang fei ji</mandarin> ah [orh], !wah! I never knew so, oh, do like this can a not


can a not, can, can lah


just just use our video (err) I mean our recording (mm)


okay, ah ya ya okay start, like err where ah, Neh, clap loudly once for the sound wave to be recorded by both phones then start start talking for the next one hour


okay, one two, there you must have the red red one, K try again one two three


!hais!, okay, so what, err I eat !wah!, err I eat what ah


err, oh my mother cook, #mui fan# <mandarin>又在加加:you zai jia jia</mandarin> egg <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> lor <mandarin>她:ta</mandarin> Chapalang lah Chapalang


ah #mui fan#, what not no lunch lunch, ya I had a quick lunch then err because I got got webinar just now so, err have to do I eat like what ten minutes only, [orh], ya lor


ya conducting conducting webinar, [orh], , shag ah, ya, ya lor


ya lor ya lor,


honeydew , oh


[orh], then what what what you do today you working meh, oh oh oh, half day <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> lah


, ah, self study lah


oh so have to brush up lah, is there, then got project ah now


oh so you just draw lah, oh, so you just just draw on your free time lah, oh something like that lah, interesting, interesting interesting


okay, so doing that the whole day lah, !huh!,


okay, !wah!, that's your, , ya, (mmhmm)


(uh huh), oh okay okay so free and easy lah, okay okay


can ah doing that for the whole for the whole month, !wah! shag man


okay, , oh so <mandarin>你现在是在做你的:ni xian zai shi zai zuo ni de</mandarin> portfolio lah, [orh] okay okay, and again can lah


all the best, okay so, so we have a list of questions okay that we will ask each other, right and then we need to answer them


very honestly, !huh!, ya lor so but we must talk in singlish lah


ah okay okay so so let's ah, ya <mandarin>这些是:zhe xie shi</mandarin> ah, Sibei deep deep deep question ah the HTHT, ah HTHT is not singlish mah don't know eh


consider right, okay so let's see, ya random number generator okay, maximum three six five okay so who want start first


, ah, okay lor I start first lor okay three two one, okay number one two three okay so what's number one two three


question one two three okay so question one two three is


#simi lai# eh, and then erase it, can start [orh] okay, restart lah


oh okay, !wah! that's a interesting question leh, I mean I I wouldn't do something, something illegal lah but I think I will try I'll try out something super risky


[orh], I'll try out something super risky and, err it must be a fifty fifty percent kind of thing lah so that I know is either either choice one or choice two, right is a is very simple mah like something like maybe like you do a


you say say you, err example example maybe maybe I might I might just go err go Ang go and make a pitch to someone right, and then ya like a maybe a sales pitch to someone right then the person might might say yes might say yes or might say no so


it's like you know err what's that movie ah, err, doctor strange, ah doctor strange, ah Marvel movie so so when the doctor strange err fighting the Dormammu right, then you use the time stone and ah then Dormammu I came to bargain


ah so I only get that once ya so do something like that, ya do something like that so I can go go do a sales pitch to someone then I know I I I know like this person say yes or no right then the next day I try again, ya but of course not do one lah of course you need to do a lot ah do a lot of sales pitch then then you know their pattern you know why they say yes why they say no or you don't even bother bother with them at all then you know already mah right ya but it's not it's not only just for like sales pitch it it can be err


maybe maybe for for relationships as well err like let's say let's say if I don't know I'm err, like


#ai stead mai# then is yes or no <mandarin>而已吗:er yi ma</mandarin> right then then you can relive ah you no need to suffer like live with the embarrassment ah, ah live with the embarrassment eh !walao! <mandarin>这个人:zhe ge ren</mandarin> reject <mandarin>我因为:wo yin wei</mandarin> reset already mah


ah, ah ya it can be that, or it it can I mean you can just try or don't try right so so it's like is is up to you up to you lah but I mean if it's for me


err I might need some time to think think about this question but I mean at this point of time I think err if items do this right I would err, a few things lah I think I think a, a sales pitch is is something that I want to do a bit I think I will or try on some


err some investments that is probably like fifty fifty kind of thing, right err I think option trading remember last time you do option trading right right, is either up or down mah so you record down every single transaction right the one that you win you keep the one that you lose


!wah! !alamak! !walao! eh <mandarin>这赚大钱:zhe zhuan da qian</mandarin> eh right steady so that's my answer


who makes you feel good about yourself [orh] this one easy lah


<mandarin>你不要跟我讲你没有人:ni bu yao gen wo jiang ni mei you ren</mandarin> hor,


, (uh huh), [orh] okay, ,


a four very positive since fit a friend since poly and we know each other very well so much that we we know


, who who who, oh


ah, , okay


ask you for advice lah,


, [orh] okay but, okay so essentially like err like, I would say the feeling of like, giving value and also learning learning what we share with others lah


that's that what how edwin make you feel good about yourself lah, ah okay, ,


listen to his <mandarin>他的他的:ta de ta de</mandarin> trouble lah


okay, , , ya


ya, edwin is the guy man, that recently you still in contact with him lah,


ya <mandarin>我看到他的那个:wo kan dao ta de na ge</mandarin> profile <mandarin>新他刚换:xin ta gang huan</mandarin> profile picture ah, , oh, working in a property


company lah, okay okay, interesting, next question, okay one two three, twenty nine


wait wait wait wait wait wait


!walao! eh Chim eh <mandarin>要要要读多一次:yao yao yao du duo yi ci</mandarin> when it's all said and done will you have said more than you've done, so when it's all said and done so meaning to say I


I finish something, alright, will you have said, more than you've done, [orh] okay


[orh] okay okay will you have said more than you've done lah, interesting interesting question eh, err when it's all said and done will you have said more than you've done I think, err


ya is this this kind of question I think it's really for, very very like


I, I think that's probably the, the question lah, right but for me, I think err when it's all said and done, err I I would rather I don't know I


I am a person who who likes to, express myself with action rather than rather than like saying my achievements, ya cause you know like , ya lah talk talk is what ah talk is cheap mah ya talk is cheap so everything you must you must do lah do and show the person lah like I can't say I'm a I'm a very good communicator lah but if you ask me to do something I think


I think I can do it better than than saying it lah, ya, ya lor so,


so, ah, have you accounted


people like that, have have like in my work lor like err in my in my job right cause you know I, other than doing like recruitment currently I am err I I Kena I Kena transfer to become marketing lah


so so all all my colleagues right I like err <mandarin>从以前到现在:cong yi qian dao xian zai</mandarin> is all err all recruiters right all recruiter all recruiters so they do recruitment work then suddenly I Kena Kena transferred to become marketing right so they you know like recruiters they know what they're doing every single day like a very it's a very routine work right everything do do #sama sama# one lah so


so once I've been transfer right then most of the time right they like my all my colleagues all my friends they don't know what I'm doing cause I've I've been doing like like a lot of advertisements a lot of blogs a lot of webinars err a lot of err, public relations all this kind of thing right so so most of the time err


like when I already done all these things right I I won't I won't like like, like say oh I I won't I won't tell them oh I do this I do this I do this unless they ask ask me, unless they ask me lah so err I think err a good way to show that I I I'm


how to say ah <mandarin>我用:wo yong</mandarin> I I I use this example ah I use this example is like a recognition lah, like err like recently we have a annual general meeting so err so like my my colleagues actually like just nominated me as like a


they say like extra commitment award like open close quote lah, ya that I've I've done done a lot of things lah, ya but most of the time I think when when I'm doing like even when we are I'm doing a company webinar I I usually don't tell my colleagues ah I only tell my customers and my clients ya that's it lor and and the person in charge of the webinar lah ya so


ya I mean, exactly like they don't have to know that I'm doing this I'm doing that but, ya it's not easy work lah but, ya lor I I'm just doing my work [orh] ya that's that's that's how I operate ah


that's how I operate, yes, #jun wei# the way of #jun wei#, okay <mandarin>下一个到你了:xia yi ge dao ni le</mandarin> one two three


ninety seven, seven okay so how would you describe freedom in your own words, !wah! this one


, !hanna! <mandarin>讲半个小时:jiang ban ge xiao shi</mandarin> ah <mandarin>讲完就完:jiang wan jiu wan</mandarin> Liao ,


, so look at look at things like you want to buy something you don't need to look at price tag ah


okay, can


you just like go travel , ,


ah, ya


, , oh okay so so


money and time, okay, okay, ,


okay okay, I mean err like how how would you define financial freedom lah, like <mandarin>有没有一个一个:you mei you yi ge yi ge</mandarin> number


two two million asset, two million asset


including cash ah two million ah, right so so <mandarin>你有六十六十年:ni you liu shi liu shi nian</mandarin> let's say <mandarin>你现在现在你有:ni xian zai xian zai ni you</mandarin> two million right like


this point of time you got two million right, you divide out by every single month right how much is probably how much would that be, ya lor like like every month <mandarin>你要花多少才算是:ni yao hua duo shao cai suan shi</mandarin> financial freedom


two million eh, at least five million at least five million


so, ya but I I mean <mandarin>最好是最好是不用愁钱:zui hao shi zui hao shi bu yong chou qian</mandarin> nah,


, okay so, so freedom <mandarin>就是这这两样啦还:jiu shi zhe zhe liang yang la hai</mandarin> anything else you want to add in, time time and finance so that your life would be


err, you have more choices in life lah, more choices lah okay,


, you have the freedom to choose what you want to master on lah, do something that you don't want to do, okay okay


understand, okay my turn, one eight three, one, eight three how many time left okay, thirty minute okay so


wait ah, okay one eight three is, what, what do I see when I look into my future okay so for me I think err it comes with two two perspective lah of course I have to see


err, I would say the society the environment the world that's one thing that that I would see the second thing is of course also my life, and err the life of err life of others lah, alright so so I think first of all


err what do I see when I look into the future I think this is a very, a very broad broad question to ask lah because, like especially like now like you know like <mandarin>有:you</mandarin> coronavirus ah


err then, then at the same time we are moving into a new great great greater depression ya worser worser than great depression so err if you if you ask me like say


err, will become like, ya external lah external external so I think the world it will not be a easy time lah


right, easy time because err economy not doing well err, and ya lor like all these like because of just one <mandarin>一个一个:yi ge yi ge</mandarin> Sibei, Sibei like <mandarin>那种那种叫怎样讲那个小:na zhong na zhong jiao zen yang jiang na ge xiao</mandarin> !hannah! Sibei Sibei <mandarin>小:xiao</mandarin> virus hor then can


can like impact so big like all around the world ah is is really really very scary and the scariest thing right is that the scary thing is not here yet, right because err we see that more job are are getting lost right and even the PM PM the ministers we're we're all talking about


!wah!, Jialat lor, Jialat lor we have to brace brace for the the impact eh so that means the worst is yet to come eh but of course, of course like like having saying all that right I, I still feel that


err the best is still yet to come lah, right because err we all we all say like like chinese we say <mandarin>危机危机:wei ji wei ji</mandarin> right, is is comprised with two words mah <mandarin>危:wei</mandarin> is danger mah, right <mandarin>机:ji</mandarin> is opportunity mah, so <mandarin>危机:wei ji</mandarin> right that means when there is a danger right there's always a opportunity


right and err opportunity is for people to grab is for people to grab lah is not for is not to wait wait for it to come lah right so so there is still a lot of opportunities out there err I would say in the next next what five five to ten years so err we we will I don't know maybe maybe we'll work like we'll work from home a lot more m- a lot of a lot of jobs will be will be disrupted disrupted office disrupted err the way the way we live right ah like


in a very different way from what we imagine or like, like let's say <mandarin>你你:ni ni</mandarin> asked for the


Kisiao Kisiao because, is it will be so different right that it will


like


cautious but but hopeful lah, right and uh but I see like if you ask me about like more deep into myself right into my future of course I I will see err, like what what william mentioned I think freedom


that's that's what I see, err, and also contribution, err, and one one more I would say is err, joy ah joy I think this is these are what I I'm looking forward to


in my future so, so to define every single one of these so number one freedom leh, err, freedom would be more towards err for me is very simple lah five, five definition of freedom lah number one


err freedom of err, wealth right number two freedom of, err health number three freedom of time, number four err freedom of youth, and last of all is err having the freedom to be


uh, piece of piece of mind be in the peace of mind, youth right okay youth and health ah health is health is like <mandarin>你健健康康:ni jian jian kang kang</mandarin> lah #bo dai ji# ya but err youth right youth is like I can I can be sixty years sixty years old right


but I still act like twenty year old, mindset bro mindset, ah I don't want to be a sixty year old <mandarin>老:lao</mandarin> uncle, I wanna be a twenty year twenty year old <mandarin>老:lao</mandarin> uncle


ah <mandarin>要要:yao yao</mandarin> you know like, ah willing to take risk then like like <mandarin>就是很:jiu shi hen</mandarin> youthful lor, I like they say <mandarin>老顽童:lao wan tong</mandarin> lah <mandarin>啊老顽童这样:a lao wan tong zhe yang</mandarin> lah okay lah ah ya !yay! happy happy


ya lah <mandarin>孙子来喂:sun zi lai wei</mandarin> bro, eh grandpa bro !wah!, Sibei steady ah <mandarin>那时候不知道是:na shi hou bu zhi dao shi</mandarin> switch five <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> switch ten Liao lor


ya lor VR switch Liao !wah!, !wah! <mandarin>改次就什么啊那个:gai ci jiu shen me a na ge</mandarin> hologram Liao ah !wah!, hologram then err that's freedom lah


uh giving back giving back to err okay giving back to my loved ones first, my loved ones my family err my friends err having a family of myself err and also creating a, a family with err values that can also give back to others lah I think that's that's very important and also giving back to


my friends err and also to the society lah so contributions also mean say like I gave him my time my resources so that I can work on causes that I care I care deeply about lah ya I care deeply about and err


ya so so a cause that I'm looking at I think is to, ah C A U S E lah cause so, so, like what what we are what we are doing right now like <mandarin>很像:hen xiang</mandarin> err


talking about deep deep questions [orh] right like creating, deeper connections with each with people lah with people all all all around each other so that we can understand, each other better I think that's one of the causes that I'm


excited to be in, err then of course joy joy <mandarin>不用讲啦:bu yong jiang la</mandarin> joy very simple lah <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> just, happy happy lor ya happy happy <mandarin>做这个做那个:zuo zhe ge zuo na ge</mandarin> lor, ya lor


ya, ya just feel feel joy lah but of course, err time I mean there there would be times that that we will feel down there will be times that we will feel like shit, but


optimistic lah, optimistic because we we have a faith that things will get better lah or we will ya lor we will hold on hold to something that so that things will get better work on something so that things will get better lor ya lor so that's that's my vision for the future lah


for the future and my future, ya lor, okay, interesting okay next, one two three two six seven


, okay so what's something you don't like to do, that you are still really good at, [orh] interesting


okay


, ya lor, example is the same lor


, okay ah, ah example example


or rather say like <mandarin>怎样的:zen yang de</mandarin> graphic design,


ah, very repetitive lah,


<mandarin>他他决定啦:ta ta jue ding la</mandarin> so like <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> , #bo pian# <mandarin>要给他那个:yao gei ta na ge</mandarin> colour but <mandarin>你自己就不高兴:ni zi ji jiu bu gao xing</mandarin> nah


, [orh] ah, (uh huh), ah


wants it like that, ah okay okay,


, , so so what would you rather do


trader


, but <mandarin>你有:ni you</mandarin> coach mah,


if I'm not wrong <mandarin>他现在住在:ta xian zai zhu zai</mandarin> Johor, #zuo bo# [orh] <mandarin>就是做完他的:jiu shi zuo wan ta de</mandarin> trading <mandarin>他就:ta jiu</mandarin> #zuo bo# <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> I think ah


!hanna! <mandarin>钱生钱:qian sheng qian</mandarin> lor so


ya, , I think


hosting fees <mandarin>这些:zhe xie</mandarin> lah, ya,


, ya lor


, ya ya, okay okay, so, follow up question so you feel that


err money is what you like or what you want right now, ,


okay, ya ya, ah, , you want lah you want


ah, I mean <mandarin>你就:ni jiu</mandarin> <mandarin>那个那个那个日本锁匙而已嘛:na ge na ge na ge ri ben suo chi er yi ma</mandarin> right so


so start to become Kanchiong already lor, #bo bian bo pian# I must I must get money in already lor so, I think at our phase is like it the urgency lah, urgency is coming is like is get shit is getting real ah shit is getting real lor


like this, okay so I think, twenty seven let's, fifteen ah okay lah we can answer like what three four questions


would you break a law to save a loved one, err, depends depends, right like, ya it can be, family


ya family or friends lah, err, I'd say case by case basis lah you cannot ask me to rob a rob a bank because of a friend lah I won't do that lah but of course if say like, err


on that spot on the spot right, if let's say, okay example ah example if if I see someone someone raping raping someone right in and I I see right, I'll I'll I mean I'll beat the shit out of the person first lah


beat the shit out of the person I mean if it if it breaks the law I don't care ah, I mean, you beating, I don't know like if let's say if the person


ya maybe I'll potentially I might potentially kill someone lah if I see someone like, like I'm not not you know just raping maybe hurting someone lah causing I'll say like causing grievous hurt lah ya to to someone then then I will do that lah cause it's my loved one mah


ya it's my loved one, but other than that, uh , break the law, break the law if you ask me to go into like like don't know like, money laundering money laundering or drug trafficking because of a loved one


then, no lah of course not lah of course not then even even if like let's say <mandarin>如果说:ru guo shuo</mandarin> hostage situation like say <mandarin>那个人那个人跟你讲:na ge ren na ge ren gen ni jiang</mandarin> like oh <mandarin>如果如果你不你不:ru guo ru guo ni bu ni bu</mandarin> deliver <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> drug from from here to there hor <mandarin>就杀了他:jiu sha le ta</mandarin> right call police lah


ya lor, I don't think the police would, like


ya ya ya I mean lawyer can, ya lawyer maybe can fight lah but sometimes is very hard to say you're carrying the thing you do you've done the deed, and then the the other person will say oh no I never ask him he do it


himself willingly, ya then how, ah, ya lor


not now ah not now you can violate some some, err, ya if it's not that my heart wouldn't want to, it's just that I get nervous jaywalking


don't know


credit card, , then then I will, ah, okay so, so okay <mandarin>这个这个你可以很:zhe ge zhe ge ni ke yi hen</mandarin> logically <mandarin>的的:de de</mandarin> analyse <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> situation so let's say let's say <mandarin>你讲这个:ni jiang zhe ge</mandarin> situation hor


even if <mandarin>我偷了那个东西:wo tou le na ge dong xi</mandarin> hor there is what like fifty sixty percent chance that that I will get in contact with the the security guard, right, so then why why why risk why risk that why not just err


what I would do lah I will bring I'll bring the sick person into the pharmacy say give this first give first give first I park her there, you err I park her there I go find the money


one ya get her in first like I go look for money, ya lor


right then, save save then then okay I put I give you my IC I go find the money


, ah, ah


ya lah <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> ya lah exactly <mandarin>就是:jiu shi</mandarin> then might as well just, ya lor but I mean ya lor


ya lor, okay, now your turn, one three three, one three three when you think when you think of home what


specifically do you think of, interesting, [orh]


okay, okay, okay


that's what home stands for you lah,


, , of course,


very Kek ah, ah, okay, okay, I mean <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> err


home, for me home is not a place, okay err , how to put it ah in words, home home is not a physical place, err ya because if you put it in a broadest if I put it in the broadest definition right home right


the earth earth is my home, right singapore singapore is my home Woodlands is my home ya ya so, so you ask me home right, ya this is home truly ah where I know I possibly


ya sia !aiya!, ya because <mandarin>那是:na shi</mandarin> broad sense of talking about home lah so, err not only singapore I think the the world is my home lah but if you ask ask me about


err, feelings or or rather say like things I'm looking up for for as a like what do I qualify as a home right because antartica cannot be my home lah right cause, I would say of course security is definitely number one right a shelter over my head err


err ya err food food on the table I think that's that's the the most basic things lah like the most basic thing but of course number two is err, companionship lah, right cause <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> I mean


I'm okay I'm okay but , what's life without like being able to communicate with your, loved ones ah loved ones, and of course err a home, err, so the person that person that you you are with also like gives you a sense of like


comfort comfort and cosiness lah so that, I would say like peace ya be myself have a peace of mind, then you don't have to like you know sometimes sometimes you go out you go out ah then you talk to people sometimes you have to like have a


what you call like a brave face ah, right <mandarin>你要你要:ni yao ni yao</mandarin> like go out there go out there <mandarin>很像:hen xiang</mandarin> show face show face <mandarin>这样啦:zhe yang la</mandarin> you go out there and you show face you do err you talk to people you show face you do presentations sometimes is like is


<mandarin>有点:you dian</mandarin> Kek <mandarin>有点:you dian</mandarin> Kek <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> like not not really you <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> but when you go home right like you know that like like the feeling of home is like when you can be yourself when you can get so not only just home but anywhere where you can be yourself right and when you can have laughter joy shelter


, security right I think that is, the feeling of home, ya so like like let's say like <mandarin>我我跟跟你跟:wo wo gen gen ni gen</mandarin> #zheng hua# hang out hang out <mandarin>一下就算就算没有讲很多话:yi xia jiu suan jiu suan mei you jiang hen duo hua</mandarin> right, like I still feel like I'm at home like we do


ya portable home lah !hanna! so this kind of feeling that's how I define home ah, yes


ya of course, , , ya so, right like you can free


free do whatever you want you want wave your hand, youth err also maybe lah, ya freedom <mandarin>这些东西:zhe xie dong xi</mandarin> lor, okay


five more minutes, three two six, three two six, !walao! eh, what questions do I often ask myself,


what, okay, ,


, okay,


okay, ,


, , improve yourself okay


, , okay, I think, for me, what question I'll ask myself, I think I have a few, a few


set or question that I ask myself everyday err firstly most importantly because I'm currently, more focus on social media ah, social media or I rather say sharing content right so so whenever I on my computer and look at facebook err


or social media, I will ask myself what do I want to share today what, what okay not say err what do I want to share on what today but I'll say what can I contribute today, ya so that that is when I open open my my handphone my computer


right and when I'm interacting with people then I will always ask myself like how can I listen better, like like for example like let's say like err we have conversation I have a conversation with someone, then then the person will just just err just tell me about err something lah and how can I


err I'm not I'm not thinking about how to how to answer answer the person but rather, err am I am I getting his point, ah am I getting his point am I do I know when, am I in his shoes


and do I do I see where he is coming from <mandarin>很很:hen hen</mandarin> cliche ah <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> word, ya ya ya, ya <mandarin>他的:ta de</mandarin> thought lor then, err then another thing that I will always ask myself is that err am I


am I being loving enough, like, this one more towards my loved ones lah like like to my to to my fiancee ya to my family am I being loving am I spending enough time with them, err am I


am I showing love enough, to them lor, ya so, ya lor so, growth lah, more more of growth lor


ya, ya ya ya


ya, , , ya lor


ya but of of course, actually is <mandarin>真正的是:zhen zheng de shi</mandarin> personal development like how you respond to different kind of question right it shows you where you are right now at this point of time, like let's say if like for example <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> question lah if you answer answer you like very


err very normal thing like <mandarin>吃吃什么啦喝什么啦穿什么这些东西:chi chi shen me la he shen me la chuan shen me zhe xie dong xi</mandarin> right, it it shows like you are, you are like level don't know level what lah, then, at different stage of life right you will ask yourself different different set of questions


different set of questions but if if you are on the on the pathway to say, err, we are we are growing we are learning learning something then the question to ask ourselves is very different, ya lor


ya stronger I mean your vision your purpose your mission is, when is there then then your then the focus <mandarin>就换了:jiu huan le</mandarin> lor <mandarin>你的那个:ni de na ge</mandarin> compass like <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> compass <mandarin>的不懂什么:de bu dong shen me</mandarin> direction <mandarin>就换:jiu huan</mandarin> Liao lor


, , !wah!


ya, oh, just <mandarin>讲而已啦:jiang er yi la</mandarin> , !hanna! just <mandarin>讲而已:jiang er yi</mandarin> ah, ya lor


ya, , ya ya and is I think, most of the time I think people don't have, don't really think about what they ask themself lah but is very important to know that like if you know what


what you want to, like, like if you are aware of what you ask like what kind of question ask yourself right I tell you ah, you give you give yourself you give yourself one month right you are aware of what you ask yourself right I tell you in one month right, okay no need one month just two weeks right you confirm become a better person


#bao jia# one, #bao jia# because this ah is what we call a review, ya we are, err taking like we're auditing ourselves every single day ya rather than auditing ourselves every week every month you audit yourself every single day ah


ya lor, so important, okay very good ending, okay close <mandarin>时间:shi jian</mandarin> Liao eh <mandarin>要讲多一点:yao jiang duo yi dian</mandarin> singlish mah


uh


err, singlish word leh lah lor leh lah lor <mandarin>我们够:wo men gou</mandarin> Liao lah


ah #makan chope#, Kena ah Kena, , #teh tarik# chilli crab


Sabo, [orh], #ang moh#


can, [orh], ya lor just <mandarin>讲很多:jiang hen duo</mandarin> can <mandarin>不是好:bu shi hao</mandarin> Liao lor, can, can, ya lor


ya just use just use ya just use it please


, oh you got always help your mother cook one ah


, , ah <mandarin>你知道我现在也是有帮我妈妈煮饭:ni zhi dao wo xian zai ye shi you bang wo ma ma zhu fan</mandarin> leh like <mandarin>讲真的:jiang zhen de</mandarin>


cause my mother and I say we don't want eat any starch right so like no rice and no noodle so then we will cook a lot of meat and vegetables so cause I don't know how to cook mah <mandarin>对我不会煮饭:dui wo bu hui zhu fan</mandarin> so <mandarin>我妈妈就叫我煮:wo ma ma jiu jiao wo zhu</mandarin> like <mandarin>莲藕汤:lian ou tang</mandarin> lor <mandarin>然后去炒一点麻油鸡这些的:ran hou qu chao yi dian ma you ji zhe xie de</mandarin> so quite easy like that


!aiya! we very lazy one lah so we we just boil water then we put the you know the <mandarin>鸡精进去:ji jing jin qu</mandarin> , (ppc)


, that one inside got a lot of MSG one ah, ah okay okay <mandarin>我得下去:wo de xia qu</mandarin> try


(ppc), , ya


, , okay lah at first <mandarin>不可以因为我是:bu ke yi yin wei wo shi</mandarin> like <mandarin>饭桶:fan tong</mandarin> like that what so I always need to eat rice one but then I just try to slowly cut out lor but then I feel like like I eat like that right then <mandarin>我就是吃那个肉吃菜更多:wo jiu shi chi na ge rou chi cai geng duo</mandarin> eh then <mandarin>我不知道会不会好像还是肥下去:wo bu zhi dao hui bu hui hao xiang hai shi fei xia qu</mandarin>


, then what does it help to do,


then <mandarin>我不是:wo bu shi</mandarin> fail <mandarin>了:le</mandarin> lor <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我我上次以前是随煮而已:wo wo shang ci yi qian shi sui zhu er yi</mandarin> so we just boil all the veggies and chicken and the egg and then I cannot take it it's too bland already <mandarin>太清淡了所以我妈妈就教就炒麻油鸡然后:tai qing dan le suo yi wo ma ma jiu jiao jiu chao ma you ji ran hou</mandarin> ah <mandarin>就这样:jiu zhe yang</mandarin> lor


I think should be lah,


, that's true but at least you get to eat rice like I can't even eat rice now, ok lah I'll try to extend lor <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我我做这个:wo wo zuo zhe ge</mandarin> diet right <mandarin>我这两个星期我瘦了:wo zhe liang ge xing qi wo shou le</mandarin> two KG eh


ya so, no lah I think I I won't cut starch altogether but like maybe like once or twice a week I'll still eat rice but not so much then but most of my meals if I eat at home will still be like no rice lor just meat and vegetables


ya but I trying to exercise also lah <mandarin>你有听过那个:ni you ting guo na ge</mandarin> chloe Ting workout mah


, ya but <mandarin>她一天有两到三个:ta yi tian you liang dao san ge</mandarin> video <mandarin>而已:er yi</mandarin> so it's about half an hour to forty five minutes, (ppc)


but then is <mandarin>过了一下子一两天就变得比较容易:guo le yi xia zi yi liang tian jiu bian de bi jiao rong yi</mandarin> lor


ya, ,


, , same lah same lah, but then today raining <mandarin>你可你还可以走:ni ke ni hai ke yi zou</mandarin> meh


then <mandarin>你在家里有:ni zai jia li you</mandarin> exercise mah, , (ppc),


(mmhmm),


ya lor <mandarin>这个是唯一一个:zhe ge shi wei yi yi ge</mandarin> module <mandarin>有这样多东西要做的:you zhe yang duo dong xi yao zuo de</mandarin> meh <mandarin>其它的都:qi ta de dou</mandarin> quite manageable lor, (ppc) , really ah


, , shag bro


<mandarin>我还有多一天的时间:wo hai you duo yi tian de shi jian</mandarin> okay, , , okay my timetable is damn shag so right I I tried to put all my tutorials on wednesday and friday right then for the most part I actually got what I wanted lah except for this particular module the GR one right


I got like the friday, two to four one, so then at first I was like okay ah maybe it's you know god's will you must trust it, you know, then then like I realised that the GR module they gave me even week eh but then the rest of my modules are all odd weeks then <mandarin>我上次也是跟你讲了:wo shang ci ye shi gen ni jiang le</mandarin> right <mandarin>我要只是:wo yao zhi shi</mandarin> even week <mandarin>的时候去做工对吗:de shi hou qu zuo gong dui ma</mandarin> so <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> trying to


err like appeal for another tutorial time slot lor


ya <mandarin>可是:ke shi</mandarin> right <mandarin>我去看:wo qu kan</mandarin> hor <mandarin>它的:ta de</mandarin> vacancy <mandarin>还有十七多个:hai you shi qi duo ge</mandarin> leh <mandarin>我不懂它为什么没有给我:wo bu dong ta wei shen me mei you gei wo</mandarin> sia


but <mandarin>如果还是不可以的话我还是会那个:ru guo hai shi bu ke yi de hua wo hai shi hui na ge</mandarin> add drop period <mandarin>的时候我会去:de shi hou wo hui qu</mandarin> appeal lor ya,


no leh or the rest are all got what I wanted so that one or is good, but I lowkey feel like I might die for wednesday cause I got four classes <mandarin>我有那个:wo you na ge</mandarin> lecture right <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> eight to ten <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> !wah! shag


, then <mandarin>我有:wo you</mandarin> afterwards <mandarin>有三个:you san ge</mandarin> tutorial <mandarin>我有:wo you</mandarin> side


wednesday damn shag lor, ya, ya


ya who puts a lecture at eight AM in the morning,


, !aiya! at least is online lor can you imagine if it's like <mandarin>早上:zao shang</mandarin> like face to face class , , , ,


, (mmhmm)


(ppc),


so you never say anything at all inside the group ah,


, oh


yeah, side <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> right


so basically they put us in like groups of four to five students, then okay actually it's got a lot of JC students inside I was the only poly student there,


(mmhmm), ya so so it was a bit Shaggering lah, then a lot of them I mean there was this one particular JC student who was a bit like bimbotic


like <mandarin>有一点:you yi dian</mandarin> you know like <mandarin>小妹妹类型:xiao mei mei lei xing</mandarin> that kind then <mandarin>我我不是很喜欢:wo wo bu shi hen xi huan</mandarin> !woo!, (ppc) <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我进去的时候没有人就敢说话吗:wo jin qu de shi hou mei you ren jiu gan shuo hua ma</mandarin> so <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> like try to err


create some ice breaker lor <mandarin>好像我说:hao xiang wo shuo</mandarin> okay let's introduce our name our age which school we were from and like an interest so then hor <mandarin>到她的时候:dao ta de shi hou</mandarin> hor <mandarin>她就首先:ta jiu shou xian</mandarin> hor <mandarin>她说她的名字是:ta shuo ta de ming zi shi</mandarin> buffy eh <mandarin>她的名字:ta de ming zi</mandarin> her name on the on the Zoom right is actually elizabeth


but it's okay, so then I was like oh is it cause you like buffy the vampire slayer the the TV show right then she was like I never heard of it


so <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> like <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> buffy <mandarin>从哪里来的:cong na li lai de</mandarin> sia


!wah! she was like TikTok baby <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> eh then <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> like, like <mandarin>我是谁我在哪里我叫什么:wo shi shei wo zai na li wo jiao shen me</mandarin> , <mandarin>有一点:you yi dian</mandarin> loss <mandarin>的我跟你讲真的:de wo gen ni jiang zhen de</mandarin>


ya, uh she one year younger than us


(mmhmm), (ppc), (mmhmm), (ppc)


, that one is good, (ppc)


, , !wah! <mandarin>因为他只是看到上半身而已:yin wei ta zhi shi kan dao shang ban shen er yi</mandarin> right <mandarin>我都没有动它:wo dou mei you dong ta</mandarin> what so, I


I just wear a jacket over it, cause my cause my study is, err air conditioned, so I I've been just wearing this pink colour, hoodie that I bought from china, during our attachment, ya so I just wear this I hope no one finds out <mandarin>我觉得:wo jue de</mandarin> hor <mandarin>这些:zhe xie</mandarin> zoom err zoom classes right <mandarin>我最在意的是:wo zui zai yi de shi</mandarin> like <mandarin>我的脸啊还是我头发因为:wo de lian a hai shi wo tou fa yin wei</mandarin> hor <mandarin>那个是:na ge shi</mandarin> like what they see look like your first you know not really like your clothes


, I don't bother putting out on a lot of makeup also like you know <mandarin>就是在那个:jiu shi zai na ge</mandarin> Zoom <mandarin>也是看不到你放多少:ye shi kan bu dao ni fang duo shao</mandarin> makeup right


like maybe like I will tie braids or like tie a bun when I super lazy


err, oh


ya, then your hair leh you got do anything, ,


, , I scared cause right I during my lecture right when I bored right <mandarin>我会去:wo hui qu</mandarin> like you know swap <mandarin>那个那个:na ge na ge</mandarin> participant list <mandarin>然后看我的班上有什么人:ran hou kan wo de ban shang you shen me ren</mandarin> lah


so right <mandarin>因为我我会这样做:yin wei wo wo hui zhe yang zuo</mandarin> right so I also think that other people will do the same thing so then I will scared like oh <mandarin>得下他们:de xia ta men</mandarin> swap <mandarin>到我的:dao wo de</mandarin> then <mandarin>看到我是这样的:kan dao wo shi zhe yang de</mandarin> like some potato , so you know must like make sure you look decent lah


(ppc), , , (mmhmm)


, , ya, (mmhmm),


true I think it like if you keep tie your hair like ponytail right then like you can that your hair got this dent, , then that then now you got you still got use the the hair oil or your hair mist that you bought


(hmm),


but


, true,


, that's true I I wanna I wanna know when's the the roadshow at nex though then we can go and buy while it's on promotion


but then is it like the is it like the as big as the AMK hub one cause <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> nex <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> right <mandarin>我上次不是有做过:wo shang ci bu shi you zuo guo</mandarin> lor <mandarin>它那个:ta na ge</mandarin> Moist Diane right <mandarin>超小:chao xiao</mandarin> eh


, , (ppc)


, , but then hor <mandarin>我觉得说我不适合做这种:wo jue de shuo wo bu shi he zuo zhe zhong</mandarin> sales <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh


cause I think right everytime I do retail right, like I always somehow end up buying the products that I'm supposed to promote , ya


then <mandarin>我之前:wo zhi qian</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我做:wo zuo</mandarin> Unity right I also bought a lot of stuff from there leh then like hand sanitiser ah wet wipes ah water bottle all those stuff that I don't need I still bought it so I just think that I'm not


I'm not, I'm not I'm not meant to be


(mmhmm), ,


, , , so if they ask you to to do the NEX roadshow you will go and work also lah


, , same lah , but I'm only going to read the six primary ones the rest I just put TOT already


, ya, ya lor


then still have I also want to prepare for my other modules also, we just stressing ourselves out now I feel like do you think we're like the only ones who are so like


(ugh) you know about school,


, !wah!


ya <mandarin>你是:ni shi</mandarin> geog <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what,


, , , oh wait wait so for your timetable you already got everything like settled already ah


, , okay lah so that means you you can already like plan your weekly, ya


, (mmhmm), , but <mandarin>它的:ta de</mandarin> I like lowkey a bit confused leh cause I was just doing my timetable right I was like putting all my classes into one whole Google calendar lah then hor <mandarin>我发现:wo fa xian</mandarin> hor <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> most of our tutorials <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> odd week <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> right but <mandarin>因为那个:yin wei na ge</mandarin> week seven <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> recess week so then after week seven all of our tutorials become like even week


<mandarin>你也是:ni ye shi</mandarin> Losted right, in it's inside the the thing, like come I show you, okay, so right


ya ya ya, all all all, !wah! Siao Liao <mandarin>你先继续讲先我现在找我这个东西:ni xian ji xu jiang xian wo xian zai zhao wo zhe ge dong xi</mandarin>


(ppc), (ppc),


(ppc)


but then hor the next tutorial afterwards is like second october eh which is, quite the intense lah so I did like my little calendar thingy


ya, just to check whether it's it's actually alternate week lor, and then, and then where is it ah


ya <mandarin>就是它的:jiu shi ta de</mandarin> dates right <mandarin>弄到我很:nong dao wo hen</mandarin> confuse eh, but <mandarin>你看这个九号的:ni kan zhe ge jiu hao de</mandarin> right eh <mandarin>这个十一号的:zhe ge shi yi hao de</mandarin> right is friday lah


which is on even week, ya week seven <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> recess week


ya so basically eventually after week seven all our classes will become even week lah right, okay lah you check lah


right, , so confused then it's like, it's like I don't know I feel like I I very confused right cause like some weeks got tutorial some weeks don't have tutorial, and then it's like you must go and see okay, err which week is this then whether that week you have any assignments due then it's just a bit like confusing


(mmhmm), ya,


!wah! shag, , , then when you plan right do you use like a like a physical planner calendar or like <mandarin>你用你的:ni yong ni de</mandarin> laptop


(mmhmm), ya, I use Google calendar for like my events and stuff so like assignment deadlines or like, err exam and my timetable


or like, err days that I plan to work everything I'll just put inside my Google calendar, but then like every sunday right or like every friday when I'm planning for the next week right, then I'll refer to my Google calendar then I'll like copy paste all the information onto my planner


ya, but then now is like a bit of a mess lah cause I don't know like when got what quiz deadline stuff, so I need to check again later, (ppc)


okay thank you let me know again lah,


ya, , , stress, ya


need to include like other like considerations or not like you know budget and everything,


I wanted to go to like verona or like venice which is like all the italy place cause I feel like their architecture there is like very, old school, it's like very, ya and then I really like it but I guess if more realistically right I want to go malaysia to dye my hair


!wow!, ya I want go malaysia dye my hair and like cut my hair also, I wanna do like a ashy colour like a ash, red pink slash purple


no wait it's basically light pink like ya, , , more


but then <mandarin>我不要染真头:wo bu yao ran zhen tou</mandarin> you know I want to do the you know what do you call that ah, they got this thing where they just like dye then it's like the bottom half only yeah something like that


something like that lah so <mandarin>如果我不喜欢我可以直接:ru guo wo bu xi huan wo ke yi zhi jie</mandarin> like chop <mandarin>掉它:diao ta</mandarin> you know, then <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> leh, ,


is it,


, !aiya! I don't know lah <mandarin>看这个疫情过了才讲:kan zhe ge yi qing guo le cai jiang</mandarin> <mandarin>我现在:wo xian zai</mandarin> but then <mandarin>我现在:wo xian zai</mandarin> is like <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> right the last time I dyed my hair was


I think oh my god this time last year I remember before intern started, yeah, ya, its august already right ya ya ya it's august, then until now so it's been a year then like I never dye my hair at all so like you can see that like the first half of like my head right is just black then suddenly it's like boom got brown


so ya lah but I feel like it's not a very like choppy kind of look you know, ya, ya, it faded quite a while already lah


, chop my hair, ,


ya lah but then like I don't know I kind of like my long hair now, ya if I take more care of it, then I'll like it even more, ya but this I feel like this is the longest my hair has ever been


yeah, , I mean I think I got trim here and there a bit lah but I never really like, like you know major haircut


(ppc) , , ,


(mmhmm) , , I get you I get you <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> when I was twelve right I also cut like shoulder length hair I don't know why but I cut shoulder length hair


it was the worst decision ever, but right <mandarin>我我的那个头发卷:wo wo de na ge tou fa juan</mandarin> right is like, ,


, , did you tell them like I want it untill my collarbone


, well you know right you got have you heard of the, you know that that customisable shampoo brand, , ya


what's that called ah, Function of Beauty, ya ya, sarah, then <mandarin>她就选那个其中一个是:ta jiu xuan na ge qi zhong yi ge shi</mandarin> uh curl definition so <mandarin>她用了那个:ta yong le na ge</mandarin> right <mandarin>她头发真的有:ta tou fa zhen de you</mandarin> curl eh


I also think we need eh , ,