but for myself to trust her I have to ask her to do things and see whether she does it or not, but not in just err do things ah also the thing she says and also how she talk about her friends, how how ya ya how many friends she have those people ah who actually has a lot of friends ah cannot be trusted one what because sometimes they will forget what they say or they they're not even actually that close to you


then, I want to pause this thing


(mmhmm)


then then what is trust there's no there's no trust already what, not really somebody who you can trust is you must trust wholeheartedly as in like , must expect her to not say expect lah but like you know


if you ask her to do thing then she will do something for you ah imagine like you're in trouble you ask her to to help you then she never help you because she never do the thing then how like that


that's her character already ah, ya lor so you must know that maybe this friend you cannot fully hundred percent trust ah no choice one what, not exactly


depends on what you mean by treat herself right ah, it's it's not about right or wrong treating one I feel for her right is more like responsibility she got no responsibility if she don't even have responsibility for herself


then how is can she have responsibility for friends, ya lor, ya friends we we might have a lot mah like those hi bye friends or those friends that we can you know sometimes like just hang out with or whatever but true friendship like best friend in a sense lah


I thought you only got three eh, err venus her and me


[orh], Ling seems hi bye like that eh cause you not very close to her, (mmhmm), actually venus also quite hi bye friend


but you see the things she do over the years how can you trust her, no but the thing is can you forgive her for that


(mmhmm), but you complain then she apologized eh means she don't even know eh


(mmhmm), but for me right if you ask me last time right I will unfriend her lah but for me now maybe I will just like just put her aside [orh] like as just like a okay we can hang out kind of friend but she won't be ever in my circle anymore


you and me different mah


it's like I won't forgive her but the thing is I, I won't be friends with her not say won't be friends ah maybe not that close [orh]


(mmhmm), then


then why you don't want to try to closer to her, #min hui# also got two kids what, venus also got a lot of friends what


ah then it's just the same what so you are just giving Ling an excuse only what that she has a lot of responsibility all her friends all your friends also got like a lot of friends or got two kids


but to me I won't appreciate that ah, (mmhmm) that that that is how we build trust and and everything what if let's say you are not even part of my life you say that you say that your friends are part of your life but they don't even know what you are going through and everything then what is it that is that they are part of your life


then they are not part of your life what


you will see like for for erin now she's in US already you know last time right before she went to US every week she will come to my house one ya here no no no at the err Hougang green there she every week will come to my house one


#yio chu kang# ah ya but she will come to my house every week, but after she went to US then she don't come my house every week so, to me she's although I trust her yes but we are now like losing connection like that lor because I don't know about her life and she don't know about my life only when we catch up then I will know about her life and she will know about my life so it's like it's very shallow already [orh]


, but of course when something happen I still able to trust her ah because the connection is already there but it's just that is getting very shallow, it feels to me like any time ah if we ever quarrel ah it's gonna be that's it


but the thing is we don't even have anything to quarrel about, cause we got no connection already


quarrelling sometimes is good for the friendship also because you will understand the person more but now that we don't even quarrel we like got totally no connection eh


maybe both of us but I feel that on my part I did try to talk to her lah it's just that she's very busy I mean she will still reply me ah like when when I ask her like how how is she and everything but she was still reply me ah but it's very shallow already [orh] it's not like last time or every week she will come over have dinner and then you know we'll talk about our week and stuff it's like now we have to talk about !wah! eh this whole year what we all do ah


no lah because when we meet face to face then we can sit down have a proper conversation if you were to just text right, it's very shallow one I can feel it mah you can just like [orh] oh no lah I just at home [orh] just at home this whole period lor then err just keep cooking [orh] err I I don't go out lah cause very dangerous and stuff very shallow but if I were to meet her maybe she'll talk about !wah! eh you know ah that neighbour like that lah !wah! eh my the the other neighbour like this ah is more in depth thing mah


so it's like I only meet her once a year or so only once a year I get to know like more in depth thing, and I'm sure ah because of our distance ah we start to, degrade our trust ya


maybe not hundred percent anymore, because it's same as me what I also don't trust her one hundred percent anymore that she will help me do something when I'm in need what


no, we silently one we just [orh] we know each other will be there, ya lah that's the thing ah


you see our friendship we don't really text one eh mostly also text a good night or meme memes only eh we don't like have a proper sit down conversation like everyday we talk you know, like in depth talk eh, [orh] ya lah so what do you mean by friendship now it's it's not eh it's more like a hi bye friend anybody else can do that to you one what


any friend don't need to trust them they can do that to you one what can send meme can [orh] okay good night eh good morning very normal what, no


no, some we do talk about the same thing but we have different like , our <mandarin>想法:xiang fa</mandarin> is always different ya


why you feel tired talking to a same person meh


but I'm sure you also don't like what because I know you too well then I don't even need to ask you what do you think I just tell you what do you think about but sometimes people just cannot face the truth of themselves what


eh that's true


(mmhmm)


but why you want people to understand you so much eh they are just your friends what, ya but the thing is only close friends mah those normal hi bye friends or not so not so close friend why you want them understand you so much you shouldn't let them understand you so much even that's scary


no, then like that you don't have your sense of privacy then like everybody know you from inside out like nonsense leh


I find it weird lah like so many people know me inside out !wah! that is a bit ridiculous lah


because you cannot focus on so many people I told you before there, I don't remember but I know that is is same like the the bible can read lah it's like you cannot, uh focus on god and at the same time focus on money so it's same things as your friend mah you cannot focus on both and give both the same kind of treatment you know then somebody is bound to feel unfair what if they know


it's just like it's just like your your three chart the triangle relationship with the and yourself right is a triangle right, you will somehow or another somebody is gonna feel like ya, so you cannot focus on so many people at once one it's not possible


no no no no no because it is not fair one even if let's say I, you know I have two cat right I say I can give the same amount of love [orh] it is not true maybe I will give that one ninety this one hundred because the one closer to me or this one always on my lap or something then the other one then he always don't ignore me one leh I I don't like leh somebody is bound to do differently one so you cannot


love both ah equally you know and even for example the closest closest is your father and mother already mah you can love them both equally meh definitely you will side somebody more close, ah then is different already what


you are not loving them equally already what equally means that both of them you must do the same thing, definitely they will side somebody one it is very obvious one, ya it's very obvious one they will love someone more than the other one nobody can love two things at once


some we ah definitely have a priority one, confirm


but you will bring who out more, how you know all three same


no leh you always make lost eh


I tell you cannot love them equally one if it is it is confirm you cannot love all of them equally one it is also I don't want to be so religious over the recording ah but it's written in the bible you cannot serve two masters one, you cannot serve two masters what somebody is definitely going to be a priority


definitely it's a human it's a human it's a human thing, we are made this way that, we definitely give priority to something one to something definitely something one only don't have ten don't have three don't don't even have two


maybe maybe like for example okay let's say I'm christian right okay I definitely give god the most priority utmost priority don't say my husband husband is second one definitely always second one because god is always first


no I mean you cannot you cannot like that compare also because it is priority, it is priority it is a human ah who would put who as priority if your both drop in the sea right I tell you Menuka will sure if your both don't know how to swim right he will definitely


no no no the son I confirm say is the son one you are definitely second one, !huh! no choice ah because his priority is the son mah, but he will he will think that he will try to love you equal but it's not


but he will still love you as long as he still love you then it is fine you cannot compare [orh] how much I love you more unless you are talking about god lah


, you cannot like that compare one because ultimately he still love you, no no no no it is true ultimately he still love you, you cannot like just because he treat his son as priority then you say you he don't love you ah


ya, you see ah, you will say you okay I I give another god example we treat god of the utmost importance right because it's our priority right god say cannot serve money right we are not serving money you know we need it so so it's not that we


we cannot like I I don't how to explain to you lah but it's like it's just not a priority [orh] but, you need you need it you need it to survive


but you cannot compare his son and you unless you are talking about a wife ah that is different story but his son is his son you is you mah, he will love you both but not equally ah definitely he will give his son more priority than you


but you cannot get jealous because, he still loves you unless you're talking about [orh] okay err he gives priority more to the wife and loves the wife more then he don't love me that one you can say lah but it is different right you all have a different <mandarin>座位:zuo wei</mandarin> mah


you know like like great grandmother grandmother like that then it comes down mah, so it's like that one what, (mmhmm), so the son right is blood related is definitely a <mandarin>座位:zuo wei</mandarin> utmost high already ya but the thing is he still love you mah if you if he don't love you then okay lah you got something to say lah but he still love you then you got nothing to complain what what what do you want to complain about


[orh] because he love his some more no, I'm sure if you have a son or a daughter you will definitely love and put more attention on her because you know that he's gonna grow up and get married already you don't have that much time but at least once his son grow up already he got more time for you so he pay his son first then later come back to you like that


(uh huh)


why you want to compare


treating both the same already what


ah you see, that's why you cannot love both the same you give me more attention, then you trust him less how how how sure are you that you are loving him the equally when there's not enough trust ah how how you can build love


then you'll have to see how what how he treat you and and everything that you guys have been through lah


no I think you will read his message first


(mmhmm), but why


(mmhmm), but this trust issue ah !wah! it's is very is a really tough conversation cause is like, the world makes it like oh there is a hundred percent trust and there is a twenty percent trust then there's also eighty percent there's the fifty fifty so it's very confusing one like then so you


like for example I I tell you ah I trust you eighty percent only not hundred eighty then you will start to wonder no no no no so like that is she trust or don't trust but I already tell you eighty percent eh is almost there already mah so you trust or don't trust sia I don't know eh


, no lah I'm not saying our relationship I'm just giving an example


can build back but it is not easy [orh]


normally when you trust someone right and that person never break your trust right you will truly trust them one, ya you won't eighty percent one actually it's because people break your trust before that's why you will feel that [orh] I think only eighty percent twenty percent must build back cause if somebody ah who you already trust ah and never break her trust before definitely you will trust her hundred percent wholeheartedly mah why you would give the benefit of the doubt leh


how, he he already he already break your trust before already what that is the reason why you question what if not you won't question one, when you trust the person already you won't question unless the somebody break your trust


ya, the things that you go through ah and the conversation that


ya because, cannot be trusted what you he already break the trust what something that he do that cause me to not trust him or her what, no but the thing is how he break your trust is like maybe for example that time you saw eh family eh the you know the conversation the the whatsapp group comes out family then he don't show you mah that is something that already like


breaks your trust already what maybe it's not like hundred percent breaks your trust but ten percent confirm gone one what, then slowly slowly he tell you this and that and then like oh the the the the son this lah the mother that lah then you will start to bring down your trust already because he never built back up that ten percent again he bring down more stuff


that's how you start to not, trust the person ya because when he break your trust already ah you have to build back the trust mah you never build back the trust then people will start to !wah! roll back roll back it goes backwards like you know like like like a hot water then then cooling then you start to cool down like that


(ppc) is his what the ya the behaviour most important is the behaviour what he tell you and what kind of attention he give you whatever is is the overall lah


everything must like, through experience or or takes a little bit of time is not like suddenly eh I wake up [orh] today I hundred percent trust him it's it's a over time thing


but he haven't he haven't like you know gain back your trust he already like !wah! do more weird things to to break the trust which brings down the trust already then it is very difficult to keep you know you have to keep climbing but he's not helping like that ah


in a way, (mmhmm), but I'm sure now he is trying to build back the trust lah, I mean it seems to me from the from what you tell me is like he he's trying to you know find back himself and whatever ah


why, they are trusting you that is why they are telling you their problem what, maybe they don't want you to maybe they they want to ask for advice


then try to put themselves ah try to put yourself in their shoe, and see like if okay for example I'm married what will I do I mean maybe he's not asking for advice he just want you to listen


#min hui# maybe ask for advice women ah normally tell people things ah is want to ask for advice one men ah normally tell people thing ah is they want just want a listening ear it's two different thing one ya


but you just have to you just have to go with it ah I mean some people just don't listen to


it's not about trust also is about I will feel that !wah! this person got no responsibility, but she can't, worry also no use what


then don't expect, just go as per normal don't expect, but we shouldn't have expectations what


no, your character you always set people expectation too high you shouldn't expect it's like I always tell you thing !aiya! I know you confirm cannot do one ah I I won't expect one ah, so so I won't I won't feel very angry mah when you don't do it


because you expect her to do it when you tell her it's like I always tell you things, you also don't go and do one what you maybe just listen then two years later you tell me eh ya that time you tell me this eh because I don't expect you to do it mah so I'm not angry mah I'm just telling you [orh] okay you I advise


eh this is my advice you don't do ah up to you ah I don't care, although ya lah I I give you advice already mah not say I don't do it never give, I give you every three years ago already eh


so you can you can apply it to the same


(mmhmm), ya but the advice is still the same, I feel ah like three years ago I say the thing this year I also say the same thing is like the advice is the same it's not that I'm seeing like [orh] if different people but asking you to do the same thing but it's like a general advice to yourself


not towards them, no, I also forget already but I know you don't do what I tell you one you I mean not say don't do you don't take my advice but always something happen already you come back and tell me say eh you know that time you tell me this hor Arbo is you use other people tell you one when I already tell you before already


you say eh the the who [orh] tell me like this like this ya I tell you already ah what's so special, I don't seem surprised, but you say but you say you trust me mah so why you still need a second opinion eh


you ask for advice ah it's just want to hear what other people think but you won't go and do it one, I feel lah your character is like that you just want to hear, you are like want to hear something ah that, you think that is right then you will listen you pick up the words


you just want to hear like what you think that, ya ya I think I think like that leh eh same same, yesterday daniel just scold you about like judging already what


ya you cannot judge just based on like [orh] I I listen to like that you need the to know the whole conversation from the day he walk in the door until he walk out how can you judge based on just the thirty minute conversation like that leh


cannot what so so is same as our life what we cannot judge people like just [orh] [orh] like that confirm like that one you need to know like the inside out then you can judge, you see like #min hui# you always tell me about #min hui#> I only can tell you ah maybe she irresponsible I cannot judge much because I don't know her


who talks behind your back, (mmhmm)


(mmhmm), (mmhmm)


(mmhmm)


(mmhmm), but sometimes they may talk about good things mah but too bad most of the time is always bad things lah


that's why we always say like , you see lah how how your friends talk about their other friends then will know their pattern already how they talk behind you


(mmhmm), ya but sometimes you'll always still think about the ya, what


(mmhmm), (mmhmm), but friends will definitely won't do the exact same thing as you what your won't think like you also


like <mandarin>我们朋友多多年有很多东西我们没有:wo men peng you duo duo nian you hen duo dong xi wo men mei you</mandarin> <mandarin>问:wen</mandarin> because


for example, [orh] okay <mandarin>我会:wo hui</mandarin> self declare that <mandarin>我是你的:wo shi ni de</mandarin> best friend so I got question like <mandarin>你有没有别的:ni you mei you bie de</mandarin> best friend


okay so <mandarin>我要问你:wo yao wen ni</mandarin> question


but best is the first eight minute <mandarin>讲华语:jiang hua yu</mandarin> ah ya, so it's the first time we look face to face and talk usually <mandarin>我们是讲电话:wo men shi jiang dian hua</mandarin> what but <mandarin>现在我们是:xian zai wo men shi</mandarin> like face to face so like we get a clearer picture of each other the appearance ya it feel like like interview <mandarin>这样哦:zhe yang o</mandarin>


oh, skill skill skill, okay, eh <mandarin>我们要怎样看那个:wo men yao zen yang kan na ge</mandarin> eight minute ah [orh] <mandarin>你你的有哦我的没有哦我的没有在:ni ni de you o wo de mei you o wo de mei you zai</mandarin> record ah


like


ya job


<mandarin>想:xiang</mandarin> ah, , okay <mandarin>我我想先如果是我我会问:wo wo xiang xian ru guo shi wo wo hui wen</mandarin> like, err [orh] <mandarin>我觉得我会问那个人:wo jue de wo hui wen na ge ren</mandarin> based on <mandarin>那个人我要知道那个人的:na ge ren wo yao zhi dao na ge ren de</mandarin> character


ya it's <mandarin>我觉得一个:wo jue de yi ge</mandarin> character <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> based on <mandarin>那个人怎样对他家人跟他家人多:na ge ren zen yang dui ta jia ren gen ta jia ren duo</mandarin> close


uh body language


like, ya


like like <mandarin>他讲话他:ta jiang hua ta</mandarin> comfortable


no lah <mandarin>他进来偷偷是:ta jin lai tou tou shi</mandarin> scared scared <mandarin>这样啦:zhe yang la</mandarin> look around environment <mandarin>他在那边:ta zai na bian</mandarin> scan <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> environment then


so <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> intercom <mandarin>叫你出来你才出来你才看得到那个人:jiao ni chu lai ni cai chu lai ni cai kan de dao na ge ren</mandarin> but as when <mandarin>你带他进:ni dai ta jin</mandarin> together <mandarin>进去那个小房间的时候你就会看到:jin qu na ge xiao fang jian de shi hou ni jiu hui kan dao</mandarin> like <mandarin>你讲的那个:ni jiang de na ge</mandarin> seven eight second [orh]


like normal [orh] hello I'm here for interview <mandarin>这样啊他给你看:zhe yang a ta gei ni kan</mandarin> as in err


how long will you be silent


(uh huh) <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> but the thing is, okay confidence is one thing but how do you gauge whether you can trust this person during first time meet okay <mandarin>你看啊我们不是:ni kan a wo men bu shi</mandarin>


meet <mandarin>很多:hen duo</mandarin> err people in our life right so we how do we judge whether this person can be trusted to be even our friend, like how


ya I know trust have to be gained so you see


okay not full trust for example interview you supposed to see whether this person can be err as in trusted by his words that you know like whatever he say is it accounted for ah whatever he written in the resume


and for example


(uh huh),


okay so in a way actually every interview is fake one lah


(uh huh) means it's not as your character is just something that err, [orh] like that


read through


(uh huh)


but depends eh for me I go and work right I cannot remember the past job that I work and okay I remember the job environment I remember the people but I I can remember like customer service I face customer all, but when I come to do the paperwork all these right if you ask me okay which website I go to err what did I write inside the the like whatever document I need what I collected I cannot remember anything eh


(mmhmm), how do you


will be, no leh every time I go interview I'll also say I forget what I do I forget what happened at that point of time like I, I do the job but after few months I forgot about it already


like if you now ask me my resume last time I do what that kind of thing I don't know, I don't think is


job, okay if let's say the person write something in the resume and then you ask whether is it true or not, okay for example maybe a job scope very simple one err customer service for example collect document for example like collect this


example the document ah that got a name to it for example ACRA okay ACRA then you ask about the ACRA what did the person Agak-Agak remember mah what you see on the paper what you supposed to have like IC number all these mah Agak


if you caught the person lying about this thing, for example okay some accounting job need ACRA if is actually the person is not doing accounting in the company the person is just admin but then the person want to treat it as a admin account so tell you that actually they got go through all this what ACRA and some cheque


so if you realise that this person is actually lying, for this small little document ACRA thing never collect will you still hire this person give the person a chance know a little bit lie cannot cannot ah, !huh! but you see ah okay lah now is different now it's like


very little job , now it's very little job [orh] okay okay if if let's say now very little job then like let's say got err hundred plus people trying to get that one job right it's okay if you don't trust this person you say you don't want this person it's fine


but the thing is if let's say like last time the economy is better then maybe your one job ah maybe got maybe ten applicants only then if you just because of this one small mistake you don't give this person a chance, then how


try to lie, ya lah because


true


okay then that is interview because that one is one straight cut you just meet the person you only have that maybe one hour or two to understand the person and you have to based on body language to trust the person okay what about making friends


like okay for example you go to school remember like during our school days, any when you start sitting beside somebody you wanna make friend with, okay then how do you slowly build that trust why


no lah I mean okay even until now for your age now like throughout your whole entire life you make some friends so how do you actually, you are a fucker okay so you don't make friends, then so people come to you then how do know whether you can trust this friend


at all, okay you don't trust the friend to what kind of extent, okay lah but


okay first thing first when you exchange phone number is a trust thing what you must trust this person that the person give you, surface ah okay give you the correct phone number the contact right or not okay then after that slowly slowly for example you


okay, then you go home, okay then you you you make friends okay in school you got friends so you go home you just play game or you do homework


what kind of schedule, oh you study two hour you two hour is use phone play game or something right draw draw draw do your drawing


so you your two hours study is do what drawing, then you don't make friends to like you know copy homework your friends copy your homework or you copy their homework never never copy each other homework before


then how do you build trust with friends okay you got one friend erin right right but she's not your classmate what so okay for erin how do you err build that trust


so based on character you trust the person, I was actually curious because like you know I got a lot of friends but all not as close as you mah like I tell you all my secrets and stuff but the thing is like for example


Ling or like other of my friends right so I was thinking like how can I trust them as much as I trust you, you see if you talk about character you and erin you say you based on her character you trust her like if you in need or any trouble you can call her right but the thing is for my friends is like I don't know there's a I don't know there there's doubt there


that's why I I asking [orh] how you trust a friend [orh]


okay you go lockup with her but you never go lockup with me before, so how do you trust me as much as you trust her, like what we never go lockup okay


ya I got trust that you'll do it


okay okay, accountability


!huh! but I I got a lot of friends but I don't really trust all of them, okay like for example why do I say that I don't trust all of them okay for Ling don't say Ling is we don't actually go through much together she was my colleague what then we become friends so we actually just meet up like for dinner and stuff talk about life a little bit but we don't have that kind of


trusting, !huh!, pause, [orh], K resume err we're talking about how to trust err okay for example one of my friend you know who ah but I don't want mention name okay she is


to trust her I don't know lah for my point of view if I got any trouble or what okay so I know she will lend money that one confirm but err trust her as in


I think can ah certain trust [orh] with my secrets definitely lah but err if I ask her do thing depends ah I cannot trust her about doing thing because she don't even do her thing properly, like you know but that his her own individual thing mah


!huh!


not say never help me but her own thing you see she sad for two three years, how that one I don't know how eh for her, ya lah then that is to herself she can do like that already and then what about me


so how about is she a person that she don't know how to love herself but she love other people, which means it is true if the person cannot treat yourself right means she cannot treat me right also


for example she got this, (uh huh)


I don't think so, but she's a fun friend lah like she will ask us go out and then


I don't think she can considered a best friend lah but she's one of the closest friend lor like I got four mah you know four of them what as in including you ah four, so she is one of the close friend she cannot be the kind, where got three


in ah Ling four, ya, kind of like quite hi bye ah, , but when I really in need she's there leh a bit lah


there's only two things that I'm upset with one that is that we don't like the same person but she went to be friend with that person that one really


she apologised the previous time we met you know like after we go home right I talked to her face to face mah I say !wah! you so because she was complaining about her best friend, uh towards other people like err she don't like that person but the best friend with that person actually have a relationship with that person because her best friend the guy mah right so I was like saying you also what


you also go and be friend with that girl what that one then you know I complain about lah because it's like the girl the girl, she know I say many times like the first two time already she think that I like you know, just saying about it right but it's not it really did affected me that's why even after years already I still talk about it then she like she go home she really write a message to me ah say like sorry for for like doing that and she hope that I forgive her so okay lor I I just say it's okay lah but I mean don't do it again ah


but you know that I like, she's she's in my circle but


, ya we are the closest but the thing is in like my circle still have this friends you know so it's like not say I can get her out of the the circle but


not that close [orh] #hui min# not that close mah, not that close but the thing is you know I cannot just drop her and then if one if she find me for anything I cannot don't reply or anything mah, ya


so ya lah I cannot trust these three no Ling okay but we say like we not that close, she stay very far also and then got kid got a lot of responsibility cannot really be there for me ah


she any point of time can find people talk one ah you know, she got a lot of friends


but what I think is, but the thing is like in our life a lot of err people are like part of us is not of us you know, like for you and me we talk everyday is different like even I go grocery shopping all you also there with me mah but they don't go through my daily life with me so we are all like part of each other only part only you know so they go and do their own thing I do my own thing then suddenly eh very long never meet already eh come out and meet up catch up [orh] then we okay lor


so we just come out and and talk, you don't like small talks you you rather have like deeper connection that kind before that I'll prefer that also


they might either when it's a big thing that err really affect me then I call them or it's like after the thing already over already then we catch up and talk about it like eh previously this thing happen, like in my circle lor still you get what I mean we still connect with each other no matter how long we still we still meet up and talk about it


every week here


but she stay (uh huh) then


become shallow but if you have a deep connection with somebody


I don't think so is like like very <mandarin>很多年的:hen duo nian de</mandarin> friendship Liao eh, how how can it be like if anything happened quarrel then you will end the friendship I don't think so, !hanna!, so how will even quarrel until this friendship I don't think is possible eh is really


so who never put in effort to talk to each other


whole year not whole month whole year very <mandarin>夸张:kua zhang</mandarin> already eh


okay, you feel that, do you think she trust you


did she ever tell you about as in talk to you about trust between your friendship like she got any she got any as in tell me before like how much she trust you


then how, how to be there now living in different country, but you say if texting err will become shallow but the thing is right you text each other everyday also spam one what why she cannot spam you message about what happened


me and my friends also eh we only send memes [orh]


do you feel tired with one person like have a very very close friend as in you got a very close friend then you talk to the same friend for ten years like for example me I'll talk everyday do you like feel tired talking to me like every time sometimes we talk about the same thing


ah personality change, [orh], I don't know not not no actually I like to have the same person to talk to because it's like the person know me very well like <mandarin>知心:zhi xin</mandarin> kind you know like


for example when I say something you will know [orh] my character I will think like this my perspective will be what kind of perspective that kind of thing if I were to talk to the other three of my friends they will be like err they will ask me question right oh so what do you think because they don't know how I think I have to explain myself [orh] for this situation how will I think and what I will do


as well as for them ah, ya ya , that's true lah but the thing is you you did me back up again lah like [orh] it's not say based on my past you think that I didn't change and I'm still the same then you know like you put me down what it's not that


but I think it's like you you know for example if I were to for example relationship I keep like maybe change boyfriend or what okay you know that oh this situation you gonna like do something like for example break up like no err previously yes but now no but the thing is I might surprise you with the like other ways ah you get what I mean like people don't stay the same but there's like a basic character down there


ya, depends lah if it's like not a truth that is bad for example it is not something that I feel that is, bad for me not a bad decision I will fix it and I think I take it as a compliment but if it's a a bad thing then I will like no I'll become defensive like no ah no ah I'm not like that I'll I'll change I I'm different from last time but it's like also because you know me that well that that's why you can have that


the understanding like with my other friends they cannot, they don't understand, I thought friends supposed to understand each other


actually, why why I thought the more people understand you the better why is it scary


really meh, I don't know leh I keep thinking of how to make close friends best friends also that kind of same connection but I just cannot leh for so many years right no matter how hard I try hor just cannot


did I I don't know


!huh! why cannot


eh you know ah I until now ah I still don't believe ah that cannot treat people in the group leh I still cannot cannot one


no love them equally but maybe the things I do for them is different for example my father


if you like that say [orh] is it parents cannot love their kids equally


!huh!, really meh


!huh! I don't believe okay okay I got two handkerchief okay I got actually a few lah okay I got pink purple uh white, I love them equally I treat them all like <mandarin>宝贝:bao bei</mandarin> like that I bring go out eh then I will take care of them then bring home and wash all I treat them all equally


all three same, but I never count the days ah like which day I bring what which day I bring purple which day I bring pink but the thing is I know, they are have equal treatment I hold them in my hand like my baby like that [orh] I go out eat ah make sure I put on table right I make sure I remember to take


I know, last time lah last time make lost cause I starting take handkerchief I don't remember holding a handkerchief mah but now I take care of all of them like because I keep losing them that's why, okay <mandarin>失去才懂珍惜:shi qu cai dong zhen xi</mandarin> it is it is true but the thing is


but end of the day I still learn to take care of them what and love them equally


you giving me a <mandarin>心理创伤:xin li chuang shang</mandarin> right now you know


okay we don't compare god lah okay god of course everybody will choose god mah okay see you're making me thinking there ah Menuka will choose his his son over me eh


ya eh then I second how


then how, cannot compare god I say already so he still love me but then it's like the priority is him ah


, you trying to make me feel better leh after you tell me all these thing


I cannot believe your words you just told me that you cannot serve two masters ya so means, he chose his son


(mmhmm), !huh! then is what


so means like he he's putting his son first but he kinda like need me or something in his life also he want both


he and his wife never talk already lah different, that's why I cannot have his blood


but his son is somebody he <mandarin>栽培:zai pei</mandarin> since young mah, for me is he's not say he <mandarin>栽培:zai pei</mandarin> me but the thing is he helped me through school and stuff mah like so called like like my my mentor like that lah, what I was thinking like


I don't know I still wanna compare leh no not compare him and the son ah son and me I want to compare like, okay for you is my girlfriend he is my boyfriend but I still try to keep treat both the same as in don't talk about affection of course is different lah for affection the the physical thing but the thing is when it comes to love but affection is different mah we not lesbian what but the thing is me and him we got this


physical thing so okay but I treat I love both the same I give both the same attention actually to say I talk to you more I trust you more no but the thing is because <mandarin>我们十年朋友:wo men shi nian peng you</mandarin> what is different


I love both the same, because I trust you more okay if let's say


okay I trust that you won't leave my life okay for him is different we never know he is of different different nationality he come here just to work maybe he will go back to his own country so we never know one mah, you get what I mean so how do I trust that he will never leave me I cannot and some more he's a boyfriend eh he's not a friend ten years friend how you compare correct or not


it's only one and a half year I cannot compare with a ten year friendship it's not fair so that's why even though yes he's my boyfriend, I have to treat him like a so called like a best friend I have to treat him equally as how I treat you so I give the equal attention but the thing is if let's say both of you text me at the same time I will definitely read your one first you get what I mean


depends if me and him were like quarrel or something then I'll read his one first, but if it's just a normal day he text me I'll I will see your text first, like I don't want to get too close because I don't have the trust that he won't leave you get what I mean ya so if both of you were to text me at same time I'll see your text first and we'll talk about whatever first also as as well as showing him that he's not my priority


so that he can fight for his place lor you I already say already what compared a one and a half year and a ten years you'll have to fight for a place and earn that trust because I don't trust him he have to earn that trust himself so I will do that I will purposely okay two of you text me I'll read your one because I give you more attention as well as I want him to know eh I also got other stuff


not I'm not focusing fully on you like that


(mmhmm), the twenty go where the twenty at where


!huh! so the twenty can build one ah, because you say there's there's twenty mah eighty what


the, ya I saying example lah if let's say you trust somebody eighty percent can that person build that twenty percent trust to, not build back as in never even break your trust before as in can build that twenty percent more to get to hundred or not


fully, !huh!


I will like no because same thing what, I will don't know whether he will


does it work that way ya, that's why I ask you the first starting of the conversation is like how do you trust somebody you just met you get what I mean, we build it up you say that person never break your trust you got to have have the hundred percent


then why suddenly become got break trust and become minus twenty percent one eh


but it's very weird he actually told me the truth, he just told me to wait


but I'm not as a forgiving person so how to do people build back trust, the the behavior


(hmm)


ya, actually try to climb back myself what that time as in I feel like so one sided


that's the thing [orh] is like himself his problem the thing is all this thing that he tell me is the truth of his own problem the things of his you know like like for #min hui# same thing it's her own problem but because of their individual problem it makes me feel like I cannot trust them hundred percent


I don't know, I feel like for example like they keep, but they they have something that bothering them but they don't know how to settle the problem so how can I trust that you know if


what kind of advice can I give like both of them are married I'm not married I don't have the


, [orh] really so #min hui# want to ask me for advice for it's like I keep advising her but then it's like nothing done make me very angry eh


like you ask me for advice I say you like for example you tell me thing I supposed to go and do it then I don't want to do then you also angry what eh I tell you so many times already you still don't want listen right you feel that frustration right that that anger that I have


but would you feel that the same as me for example if that something is bothering me and I cannot settle my own problem I cannot handle my own issue what would you actually think about me would you still trust me ya lor I also think like that leh same eh like #min hui# cannot settle her problem I cannot trust her also


like very Jialat right but the thing is I can handle my issue mah, that's why I very worried [orh] like like I will have I have a expectation of myself for example for my friends also eh okay if


but she's my friend, close friend which we talking about close friend that's why our, or is it because I love her that's why I will have expectation for her, then is what why I got this kind of expectation for for close friend


but she really #pek cek# eh okay


okay wait wait wait wait she is different I give advice, from last last year we are talking about last last year two O one eight, but different person


cannot because we go through a different thing, the other one is a break up of five years this one is together one and a half year and we still together so we cannot apply the same thing to the same person you different person you get what I mean, that's why I give you advice I listen your advice but the thing is I need to go and think through how to actually do it


because two different person we go through different things


the three years ago did I do it, !huh! what advice did you give, are you serious


ya then, but I did do what


second opinion mah, supposed to like that mah mah, no it's not about trust it's like when we listen to advice from different people right it's like I'm a stubborn cow mah I will need to go and analyse first and think in my position how can I do this thing with my stubborn character and I have to you know when I do something already I don't want to regret it so I need to think things through first before


ya, it's just like it's just like when you tell me about the priority thing I will think like eh means he priority the son ah like I never go and think like what you say you say you love me I will still


, but actually I don't like it when people talk about me behind my back, if any of my friend were to talk about me behind my back and if I get to know


then I won't like it lah, it depends it it to me is is err wrong thing to do already eh like the trust thing you talk about right if the person break my trust this is the thing that can break my trust which is talk behind my back, ya so for example that one to me is talking behind back already


that's what I think ah that's why it angry angers me because, it's talking behind somebody's back, which happened before that's why err the fiona you remember, the #ying ching# thing she come and tell me like eh eh eh #ying ching# got tell me about you eh then I'm like !huh!


you don't know me I never see you before but you hear my friend talking about me, so what did my friend talk about you get what I mean the trust lower down also what, because if you were to have anything to talk about me you let me know you tell me eh you got this friend uh you know and where and where why you will talk about me tell me why you will talk about me first then I know that you talk to this person about me


then I understand why mah but thing is I hear from other people eh telling me that my friend talk about me eh then what does that mean, right gossiping already what that's what I think ah


I think so I I honestly think so is something that is bad, that's what I thought so also


but it's like, it depends if it's something that I ownself cannot think through it right then I won't share with you [orh] like if my friend do this do that for example the sim right that one I really cannot, I don't know how to handle that issue, so end up we think this through already what it's really cannot you cannot do anything


have to let go [orh] , so not say I want to talk bad about her but there's this something that bother me about her behaviour mah, so I know it's wrong I know it's wrong to be done on me but the thing is I cannot, because she do this thing


I just #kee siao# you know then tell her eh <mandarin>我不要跟你做朋友:wo bu yao gen ni zuo peng you</mandarin> I cannot mah, you get what I mean so I have to find second opinion which I talk to you [orh] like as a friend will you do that to me as a friend if you do that to me what you are actually thinking why you will do those kind of thing to me then you explain to me eh this person the character like not right then I'll like eh


I see throughout the three years it is true what, it is not a friend that I want to keep, the past [orh] we were happy before also mah, is like a person <mandarin>你相处:ni xiang chu</mandarin> before with


like you been through some stuff is like happy before you also won't, you know just let go of the the ship you know, be it whatever ship lah like you won't just easily let go of it like, you still think that [orh] like the optimistic side of it like [orh] maybe this person will be better or maybe it's just now that she's affected with something else that's why she become like that


people change you don't know, so you keep giving chances ah like thinking maybe hoping the friend will be like us, think like us and do things like us


but as friends but as friends we influence each other [what] some stuff, okay don't talk about patience [lah] I don't have your patience but the thing is like you supposed to to influence each other something


okay then <mandarin>等一下:deng yi xia</mandarin> bake <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> pandan cake, then <mandarin>不用要看了:bu yong kan liao</mandarin> !walao! okay then


okay <mandarin>等一下我找到那个:deng yi xia wo zhao dao na ge</mandarin> recipe <mandarin>了:liao</mandarin> (mmhmm)


then <mandarin>你还要煮:ni hai yao zhu</mandarin> dinner, one and a half maybe including the cooking, (mmhmm)


steam <mandarin>豆腐:dou fu</mandarin> or #hei zho#


then <mandarin>三样: san yang</mandarin> egg ah but what egg can also


six so I five plus need to go three then <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin>ya ya then no time for the cake what


or I can I can (mmhmm) (mmhmm) [orh] buy


then like that <mandarin>什么:shen me</mandarin> uh flour cake flour <mandarin>买:mai</mandarin> then


just <mandarin>油:you</mandarin> lor then <mandarin>他们讲可以:ta men jiang ke yi</mandarin> coconut milk or normal milk eh, I think coconut milk just <mandarin>那个味道比较重小包是:na ge wei dao bi jiao zhong </mandarin> coconut cream what


it's like <mandarin>你如果你要吃:ni ru guo ni yao chi</mandarin> coconut then <mandarin>我给你:wo gei ni</mandarin> pandan then different what, okay then cream of tartar ya <mandarin>我有看过啊:wo you kan guo a</mandarin> ah


stability of <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> whipped meringue is like <mandarin>那个鸡蛋:na ge ji dan</mandarin> plus sugar <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> whip <mandarin>的时候:de shi hou</mandarin> that


no that one is whipping cream that time that one is whipping cream different then baking powder , then <mandarin>他们要:ta men yao</mandarin> seven inch <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> pan for <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> if not we have to adjust the height accordingly but that one very small four inch


okay lor !huh! okay then spatula <mandarin>哇你很吵:wa ni hen chao</mandarin> leh


spatula <mandarin>有</mandarin> mixer <mandarin>有</mandarin> err, okay but <mandarin>那个鸡蛋要:na ge ji dan yao</mandarin> like room temperature <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> ya thirty minute


hundred ya hundred


but they say can also use water just that <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> milk <mandarin>刚才是:gang cai shi</mandarin> for <mandarin>什么:shen me</mandarin> no no no is, is it ya then you want can also use water


eh <mandarin>你讲话可以大声一点:ni jiang hua ke yi da sheng yi dian</mandarin> okay <mandarin>我帮你弄:wo bang ni nong</mandarin> uh


how how well <mandarin>也需要:ye xu yao</mandarin> coconut milk how well do you know your daughter no <mandarin>你做那个:ni zuo na ge</mandarin> quiz okay


new new year <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> #kuih bahulu# okay okay what's my favourite gemstone


I think I like ruby eh shit shit shit <mandarin>我按我按错了:wo an wo an cuo le</mandarin> okay <mandarin>等一下啊:deng yi xia a</mandarin> <mandarin>你讲:ni jiang</mandarin> crystal hor, uh eh then how they know <mandarin>如果:ru guo</mandarin> okay never mind <mandarin>你你你你:ni ni ni ni</mandarin> keep <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> score


so you have no score yet is out of twenty okay what's my favourite bird species flamingo, mockingjay <mandarin>我也不懂啦:wo ye bu dong la</mandarin> sparrow robin


uh you know I I think so lah something like that I thought that one hummingbird , crow <mandarin>乌鸦:wu ya</mandarin> flamingo mockingjay sparrow robin


crow <mandarin>第二个:di er ge</mandarin> mockingjay ah flamingo sparrow, robin I not sure ya ah okay one point ah


what's my favourite ice cream flavour no wait I must give you <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> options okay cookie dough you know what is that, !huh! <mandarin>没有那个是:mei you na ge shi</mandarin> chocolate chip cookie dough <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> you know <mandarin>你弄:ni nong</mandarin> cookie <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> dough right


ah then <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> like <mandarin>你加去:ni jia qu</mandarin> vanilla ice-cream okay <mandarin>那个就是:na ge jiu shi</mandarin> vanilla ice-cream with <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> cookie <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> dough la okay , mint chocolate chip vanilla strawberry chocolate fudge uh


I think I like cookie dough leh but I'm okay with chocolate fudge also okay I give you lor give you lor, okay then next what's my favourite colour ah okay blue pink silver yellow purple


blue <mandarin>蓝色:lan se</mandarin> pink <mandarin>粉红色:fen hong se</mandarin> silver <mandarin>银:yin</mandarin> yellow <mandarin>黄:huang</mandarin> purple <mandarin>紫zi</mandarin> how you know I don't like purple, and how you know I don't like yellow no cause he want <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin>striking purple what


okay then blue pink silver no wrong, wrong already this one no mark but you can continue guessing


no no among this I like pink that's not true, that's that's <mandarin>因为她喜欢:yin wei ta xi huan</mandarin> blue then the opposite of blue is pink


so if ya cause must choose opposite what cannot choose the same colour ya but <mandarin>不好:bu hao</mandarin> <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> like not so nice <mandarin>要:yao</mandarin> opposite even nicer you know okay no mark but I think if okay if out of <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> list leh like that means if


you guess (ppc) <mandarin>猜不到:cai bu dao</mandarin> I like army green <mandarin>不要假假假假的:bu yao jia jia jia jia de</mandarin> okay <mandarin>还有:hai you</mandarin> eh <mandarin>还要多一个:hai yao duo yi ge</mandarin> like I <mandarin>觉得:jue de</mandarin> not bad


no I don't really like mustard I think this one you will know cause I buy things I also sometimes <mandarin>会买那个颜色:hui mai na ge yan se</mandarin> I don't buy orange things what I hardly have any orange <mandarin>的东西什么:de dong xi shen me</mandarin> red


so pastel pink counts also okay what's my favourite drink <mandarin>等一下我给你:deng yi xia wo gei ni</mandarin> five options or you want to ownself come up with your own milk water apple juice orange juice hot chocolate


no ya but is still wrong cause your first guess wrong still three three out of twenty fail okay wait haven't finish yet <mandarin>这个第七个而已:zhe di qi ge er yi</mandarin> what's my favourite pudding


err okay <mandarin>换去:huan qu</mandarin> what's my favourite dessert [bah] cause <mandarin>他们是:ta men shi</mandarin> like <mandarin>给:gei</mandarin> pudding flavour okay sundae <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> mcdonald <mandarin>的那种:de na zhong</mandarin> sundae lah pancake err ice-cream okay let's just say <mandarin>那</mandarin> ice-cream is like <mandarin>那种</mandarin> vanilla ice-cream okay uh strawberries and cream fudge brownie okay kind of like sundae too but unless is chocolate flavour


what's my favourite day of the week <mandarin>它有五个:ta you wu ge</mandarin> option but I think you can just choose ya or you want I tell you the options <mandarin>它:ta</mandarin> just <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> tuesday wednesday ah <mandarin>其他的都有:qi ta de dou you</mandarin> no no


I like saturday <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> hor friday no <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> friday right <mandarin>需要:xu yao</mandarin> still need to go school what even though is the start of the weekend soon but on friday <mandarin>你还需要去学校:ni hai xu yao qu xue xiao</mandarin> (uh huh) but friday still need to go school then err


can la like that but is only <mandarin>晚上:wan shang</mandarin> what then only a few hour then not sunday because not sunday because okay what's my favourite hobby err <mandarin>有五个:you wu ge</mandarin> option but each option <mandarin>有:you</mandarin> like <mandarin>三个:san ge</mandarin> ya something like that


okay never mind then <mandarin>我就:wo jiu</mandarin> no <mandarin>我给你五个:wo gei ni wu ge</mandarin> option right but each of the option I will just say one of the thing okay ice skating err singing acting


<mandarin>我没有:wo mei you</mandarin> you know why because no because <mandarin>我不可以:wo bu ke yi</mandarin> like <mandarin>听我:ting wo</mandarin> like tone deaf then <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> listening component <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> confirm fail <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what you know how stressed it is


okay <mandarin>第一个:di yi ge</mandarin> ice skating and tennis <mandarin>第二个:di er ge</mandarin> netball and ice skating <mandarin>第三个:di san ge</mandarin> tennis and dancing <mandarin>第四个:di si ge</mandarin> roller skating and football <mandarin>第五个:di wu ge</mandarin> running and dancing you can't remember right netball and ice skating


strawberries kiwi pineapple mango melon <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> err <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> wrong wrong already but strawberry kiwi pineapple mango melon


pineapple melon ya I don't like mango cause daddy buy what then <mandarin>没有</mandarin> choice <mandarin>需要</mandarin> clear <mandarin>不然等一下他就</mandarin> eh <mandarin> 黑掉了黑掉了</mandarin> okay what's my what's my favourite subject


english mother tongue lunch <mandarin>它讲:ta jiang</mandarin> lunch eh art drama wrong of course is lunch lah it's like recess


okay what's my favourite eye colour green hazel hazel is like brown <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> okay but I think err slighty lighter brown or it may be dark brown I don't know but is brown black blue purple


I like blue but not those like super light the blue lah okay so what's my favourite series <mandarin>这个可以:zhe ge ke yi</mandarin> skip cause <mandarin>我都没有看:wo dou mei you kan</mandarin> okay <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> just <mandarin>放:fang</mandarin> vampire diary no cause <mandarin>它给的三个我全部没有看的这个没有:ta gei de san ge wo quan bu mei you kan de zhe ge</mandarin> so out of nineteen <mandarin>你你猜对几个:ni ni cai dui ji ge</mandarin> what's my favourite shade of colour


hot pink magenta err it's like purple pink <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> you know err okay <mandarin>就:jiu</mandarin> ya <mandarin>有一点很像:you yi dian hen xiang</mandarin> hot pink but towards the purple side hot purple <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> turquoise violet cream okay six okay next


what's my favourite season summer spring autumn winter summer err winter ah (hmm)


can lor I deciding between winter and autumn <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> but <mandarin>那时:na shi</mandarin> japan <mandarin>我们看过那个叶子:wo men kan guo na ge ye zi</mandarin> is like towards winter but <mandarin>还有那些叶子:hai you na xie ye zi</mandarin> <mandarin>你只喜欢那个叶子:ni zhi xi huan na ge ye zi</mandarin> ya


!huh! <mandarin>你讲什么:ni jiang shen me</mandarin> morning afternoon midday evening midnight (hmm) <mandarin>哪一个:na yi ge</mandarin> no ya actually evening no


I like to go out for walks at night you know ya like <mandarin>不用:bu yong</mandarin> midnight lah like <mandarin>十点多十一点多也是:shi dian duo shi yi dian duo ye shi</mandarin> but it must be windy okay <mandarin>等一下啊这个也没得:deng yi xia a zhe ge ye mei de</mandarin> answer <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> so <mandarin>没有了啊你几分啊:mei you le a ni ji fen a</mandarin> fail


okay <mandarin>现在有一个是:xian zai you yi ge shi</mandarin> how well do you know your mother ah or or <mandarin>你要你要看啊等一下:ni yao ni yao a deng yi xia </mandarin> or <mandarin>你要看:ni yao kan</mandarin> if <mandarin>我比较像:wo bi jiao xiang</mandarin> mom or dad


no <mandarin>你这个:ni zhe ge</mandarin> right like <mandarin>那些我啊我对的你就放:na xie wo a wo dui de ni jiu fang</mandarin> tick <mandarin>错的:cuo de</mandarin> then <mandarin>你就不要放:ni jiu bu yao fang</mandarin> lor okay six one what is maiden lee I think <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> before <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> marry <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> surname


before you marry your surname I think I I think should be lee what you mean she has one [orh] <mandarin>你没有:ni mei you</mandarin> middle name <mandarin>你没有:ni mei you</mandarin> middle name middle name usually <mandarin>是</mandarin> Angmo eh <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> err <mandarin>你那个是:ni na ge shi</mandarin> first name slash given ah <mandarin>对没有:dui mei you</mandarin> middle ah


pastel pastel colours pink pastel pink it depends on !aiya! <mandarin>是你决定可不可以的:shi ni jue ding ke bu ke yi de</mandarin> what singapore


vegetable is a food what is is just a type of food food or fruit meat [orh] uh libra eh


eh wait astrological sign <mandarin>和:he</mandarin> horoscope [orh] [orh] <mandarin>对对对:dui dui dui</mandarin> correct libra uh office <mandarin>的:de</mandarin>


is the one that your boss buy the does part time job count [orh] <mandarin>我懂那个:wo dong na ge</mandarin> like accounting <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> is it is ah then so what is it


then how I count it or not you but you like that one right err which country's


uh uh okay pinnochio pinnochio then <mandarin>台湾:tai wan</mandarin> like <mandarin>那个真爱趁现在:na ge zhen ai chen xian zai</mandarin> [orh] <mandarin>流星花园</mandarin>


[orh] you don't really drink alchohol ah so you don't have water <mandarin>豆奶:dou nai</mandarin> green tea


water confidential I think so no I think cause <mandarin>这个是:zhe ge shi</mandarin> like from like US <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what so that time was like donald trump <mandarin>那种:na zhong</mandarin> so this one is confidential cannot say


song <mandarin>那个啊那个韩国喊的:na ge a na ge han guo han de</mandarin> bad mood ah !aiya! don't know just leave her alone first <mandarin>她太恐怖了对吗对吗:ta tai kong bu le dui ma dui ma</mandarin> hobby netflix


bakery story fashion story you like art and craft meh <mandarin>我都没有看你做:wo dou mei you kan ni zuo</mandarin> ya but that was so long ago then you should buy and <mandarin>弄:nong</mandarin> what then <mandarin>你可以一边弄一:ni ke yi yi bian nong yi</mandarin> jurong point


[orh] but you can just <mandarin>买在家自己做:mai zai jia zi ji zuo</mandarin> then <mandarin>如果:ru guo</mandarin> auntie ivy eh aunty soo


youtube netflix ah five


daddy lor daddy


err <mandarin>什么是算可以你第一个跟谁:shen me shi suan ke yi ni di yi ge gen shui</mandarin> no like okay <mandarin>你你的第一个:ni ni de di yi ge</mandarin> boyfriend <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin> !huh! <mandarin>你是:zhe yang</mandarin> like player


so <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> right you don't eat candy is like a brown black super dark brown


like now or many years ago ya like now ya but cause <mandarin>你以前的:ni yi qian de</mandarin> natural colour <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> like, wait ah let me think brown brown right ya then then <mandarin>你现在的:ni xian zai de</mandarin> natural <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> white no but that one counts what [orh]


you you like the hill view that one also right <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> but that time you are the one who say want to eat there <mandarin>屁:pi</mandarin> leh ah but western <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what you like mad about garlic okay


pek geok ah eh <mandarin>没有没有:mei you mei you</mandarin> no <mandarin> 有我我懂有一个:you wo wo dong you yi ge</mandarin> alice then do I know that person I see before how come


like <mandarin>为什么没有联络:wei shen me mei you lian luo</mandarin> because <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> number <mandarin>啊有:a you</mandarin> number <mandarin>很:hen</mandarin> easy <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> what just send <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> text okay but what's the name alice then


err christian name start with what kelly <mandarin>几个:ji ge</mandarin> letter boy girl <mandarin>那个六个:na ge liu ge</mandarin> letter girl ah <mandarin>六六个:liu liu ge</mandarin> k is it common


karen no maybe it's like special got double a or like double r err start with k six letter end with what


oh <mandarin>对哦:dui o</mandarin> err k blank blank blank blank y one more clue <mandarin>我要:wo yao</mandarin> the letter after k then you want give me what letter


okay [orh] <mandarin>这个年代还有人叫这个:zhe ge nian dai hai you ren jiao zhe ge</mandarin> something t err okay let me think ah something K I K E <mandarin>不可能:bu ke neng</mandarin> K A [bah] K O K L


K R kristy !aiyo! ah <mandarin>没有看过她我也没有听过:mei you kan guo ta wo ye mei you ting guo</mandarin> is it the twin or something yes


err ya you want to go europe also although that is more of dad okay okay I know Hokkaido you want to go Hokkaido where else like


but those you go before already like new one [orh] okay, okay next she don't use perfume err !wah! you a lot eh there is a lot of shop that you can spend damn long


then nothing much already what [orh] okay but that one like usually is pushcart right okay of course no


err kiss err


do you have someone you hate !huh! from <mandarin>哪一个年代的我懂你不喜欢你那个:nei yi ge nian dai de wo dong ni bu xi huan ni na ge</mandarin> like accounting <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> boss [orh] like <mandarin>一个叫:yi ge jiao</mandarin> err jenny ah <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> jennifer


like nickname <mandarin>因为他很娘:yin wei ta hen niang</mandarin> robert nah [orh] so richard [orh] what about her [orh] why ah [orh]<mandarin>姑姑:gu gu</mandarin> eh !huh!


[orh] but <mandarin>她在:ta zai</mandarin> US <mandarin>死:si</mandarin> what [orh] but the others got go meh oh okay


err <mandarin>等一下啊:deng yi xia a</mandarin> like but I think that !huh! <mandarin>多十一分钟:duo shi yi fen zhong</mandarin> like but I think is in <mandarin>不懂是:bu dong shi</mandarin> in terms of <mandarin>等一下啊:deng yi xia a</mandarin> [orh] I think <mandarin>这可以一起做啦:zhe ke yi yi qi zuo la</mandarin> ya <mandarin>它讲有二十九题:ta jiang you er shi jiu ti</mandarin> so <mandarin>第一个它就问:di yi ge ta jiu wen</mandarin> what childhood pets do you have so don't have


eh <mandarin>问我:wen wo</mandarin> eh then <mandarin>这个就不好做了你要:zhe ge jiu bu hao zuo le ni yao</mandarin> how how good is your mother daughter relationship <mandarin>等一下做完:deng yi xia zuo wan</mandarin> then like <mandarin>变:bian</mandarin> no good okay <mandarin>等一下啊:deng yi xia a</mandarin> err okay my <mandarin>第一题:di yi ti</mandarin> I'm not sure eh <mandarin>它没有讲:ta mei you jiang</mandarin> but I don't think is a lot okay my mother has <mandarin>这个是问我啦:zhe ge shi wen wo la</mandarin> my mother has the ability to quickly and frequently make me feel guilty


you ah <mandarin>问我:wen wo</mandarin> but <mandarin>你也可以:ni ye ke yi</mandarin> answer <mandarin>你觉得会还不会:ni jue de hui hai shi bu hui</mandarin> my mother has the ability to quickly and frequently make me feel guilty


like <mandarin>你觉得:ni jue de</mandarin> ya <mandarin>你觉得你会你有没有这个:ni jue de ni hui ni you mei you zhe ge</mandarin> ability <mandarin>这样你明白那:zhe yang ni ming bai na</mandarin> question <mandarin>吗:ma</mandarin> ah no you you have to say your answer first cause I know my answer already then this question is like for <mandarin>我的:wo de</mandarin> so if <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> question is for <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> then <mandarin>我会:wo hui</mandarin> answer <mandarin>先:xian</mandarin> then <mandarin>你讲对不对:ni jiang dui bu dui</mandarin>


my mother has the ability to quickly and frequently make me feel guilty yes or no !huh! why like why you think so


!aiyo! okay <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> question <mandarin>不要:bu yao</mandarin> <mandarin>因为:yin wei</mandarin> sensitive I frequently feel that what I say or do may not be perceived as good enough by my mother


okay I find myself acting I find myself acting like an adult except when I'm around my mother <mandarin>明白吗啊问我:ming bai ma a wen wo</mandarin> I <mandarin>我不懂为什么全部问我:wo bu dong wei shen me quan bu wen wo</mandarin> but ya what's your answer


I find <mandarin>我自己:wo zi ji</mandarin> acting as <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> adult ~less ah unless <mandarin>我我:wo wo</mandarin> like unless you are with me <mandarin>这样啦:zhe yang la</mandarin> yes or no <mandarin>可以算:ke yi suan</mandarin> yes <mandarin>啦:la</mandarin> <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> but <mandarin>只是一个错啊:zhi shi yi ge cuo a</mandarin> currently but it's only cause


!huh! ya lor okay wait this question skip nothing much !aiya! <mandarin>那个很难讲:na ge hen nan jiang</mandarin> okay next I okay I live with the hope that <mandarin>有一天:you yi tian</mandarin> my


daughter means <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> question <mandarin>啊啊你的:a a ni de</mandarin> like <mandarin>你你希望有一天:ni ni xi wang you yi tian</mandarin> your daughter will change err suddenly appreciate you and be receptive to what you have to say


can understand okay ah for you so you wish that one day <mandarin>我会改变:wo hui gai bian</mandarin> err suddenly appreciate <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> and be receptive to what


okay so is no ah okay wait ah let's see you you you <mandarin>它讲:ta jiang</mandarin> err no is like together <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> !aiya! but I press a bit wrong leh like <mandarin>有些我按错:you xie wo an cuo</mandarin> answer but they say that I'm a very compliant daughter


ah ah then they say err ya <mandarin>有有一个:you you yi ge</mandarin> like <mandarin>一个解释这样:yi ge jie shi zhe yang</mandarin> then <mandarin>它讲:ta jiang</mandarin> it it may be that your mom is driving you crazy


so like that lor end of maybe not [orh] confirm not <mandarin>没有差很多:mei you cha hen duo</mandarin> what <mandarin>你要不要做:ni yao bu yao zuo</mandarin> personality test like <mandarin>看你是什么什么什么什么:kan ni shi shen me shen me shen me shen me</mandarin> like that okay


first question you enjoy <mandarin>有:you</mandarin> like agree netural strongly err strongly agrees agree ya something like that okay you enjoy vibrant social events with lots of people just one answer


ah you enjoy vibrant social events with lots of people neutral you spend a lot you often spend time exploring unrealistic but intriguing idea so it's like <mandarin>不切实际:bu qie shi ji</mandarin> but then <mandarin>又很:you hen</mandarin> interesting <mandarin>这样:zhe yang</mandarin>


neutral <mandarin>不可以太多:bu ke yi tai duo</mandarin> neutral leh okay your travel plan is more likely to be a rough list of ideas than detailed itinerary I think strongly disagree right <mandarin>你的:ni de</mandarin> travel plan like is more likely to look like <mandarin>一个:yi ge</mandarin> rough list of idea rather than <mandarin>很:hen</mandarin> detailed <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> itinerary


!huh! <mandarin>你可以讲话吗:ni ke yi jiang hua ma<mandarin> ya ya Neh [ah] okay


take how long pandan cake


then maybe steam <mandarin>豆腐还是我弄那个:dou fu hai shi wo nong na ge </mandarin> #hei zhou#


then maybe <mandarin>我拿那个五香弄个五香那个:wo na na ge wu xiang nong ge wu xuang na ge</mandarin> lor <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> #hei zho#, then maybe <mandarin>那个豆腐:na ge dou fu</mandarin> with <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> fish paste <mandarin>拿去:na qu</mandarin> steam <mandarin>如果不要弄那个可以弄可以煮什么啊鸡蛋又是鸡蛋呃昨天煮: ru guo bu yao nong na ge ke yi nong ke yi zhu shen me a ji dan you shi ji dan e zuo tian zhu</mandarin> #lap cheong# <mandarin>蛋今天煮什么:dan jin tian zhu shen me</mandarin> sunshine eggs ah


ah then <mandarin>我有煮那个枸杞菜嘛枸杞菜里面有菜了嘛:wo you zhu na ge gou qi cai ma gou qi cai li mian you cai liao ma</mandarin> I mean if <mandarin>你要啦:ni yao la</mandarin> (ppc) <mandarin>可以:ke yi</mandarin> lor


then <mandarin>早:zao </mandarin> <mandarin>明天:ming tian</mandarin> daddy <mandarin>就没有回来吃因为他很迟了:jiu mei you hui lai chi yin wei ta hen chi liao</mandarin> so <mandarin>他会:ta hui</mandarin> so <mandarin>明天我们三个而已嘛:ming tian wo men san ge er yi ma</mandarin> then <mandarin>那个楼下那个我不用这样早去我五点到七点那个去也是一下子而已嘛我可以六点才下去:na ge lou xia na ge wo bu yong zhe yang zao qu wo wu dian dao qi dian na ge qu ye shi yi xia zi er yi ma wo ke yi liu dian cai xia qu</mandarin> so by the time <mandarin>都:dou</mandarin> bake <mandarin>好了嘛:hao liao ma</mandarin> then maybe dinner <mandarin>我我们看怎样啦因为明天三个人吃而已:wo wo men kan zen yang la yin wei ming tian san ge ren chi er yi</mandarin> maybe <mandarin>打包还是什么:da bao hai shi shen me</mandarin> lor


then <mandarin>你你:ni ni</mandarin> pandan cake <mandarin>需要什么:xu yao shen me</mandarin> cake flour <mandarin>我买了:wo mai liao</mandarin> cake flour <mandarin>买了:mai liao</mandarin> then


oil <mandarin>是什么:shi shen me</mandarin> cooking oil ah coconut milk


but <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> half size <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> recipe <mandarin>是吗这个是:shi ma zhe ge shi</mandarin> full size ah <mandarin>我们:wo men</mandarin> half size <mandarin>就不用这样高是吗我们是哦那个:jiu bu yong zhe yang gao shi ma wo men shi o na ge</mandarin> base <mandarin>啊:a</mandarin>four inch <mandarin>我有一个差不多是这个:wo you yi ge cha bu duo shi zhe ge</mandarin> size <mandarin>另外一个:ling wai yi ge</mandarin> six inch


but <mandarin>你那个:ni na ge</mandarin> coconut milk <mandarin>需要多少:xu yao duo shao</mandarin> !huh!


hundred <mandarin>我看那个小包的是:wo kan na ge xiao bao de shi</mandarin> two hundred and fifty


pandan <mandarin>做那个:zuo na ge</mandarin> pandan <mandarin>的不用:de bu yong</mandarin> milk <mandarin>的那昨天我不是有:de na zuo tian wo bu shi you</mandarin> send <mandarin>你三个:ni san ge</mandarin> lor


eh <mandarin>这个这个需要:zhe ge zhe ge xu yao</mandarin> fresh milk oh shit how well very well [orh]


butter cake <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> normal <mandarin>的哦那个干干的这个是:de o na ge gan gan de zhe ge shi</mandarin> butter cake


crystal


okay [orh] !huh! uh flamingo


uh again flamingo mockingjay <mandarin>我不懂什么:wo bu dong shen me</mandarin> sparrow


sparrow <mandarin>是那种:shi na zhong</mandarin> </mandarin>外面另外一个是什么:wai mian ling wai yi ge shi shen me</mandarin> robin <mandarin>是什么:shi shen me</mandarin> flamingo okay so one point okay


chocolate [orh] cookie dough


(uh huh) (uh huh) (uh huh) chocolate fudge


so mark only (ppc) so got mark or no mark okay, your favourite colour ah (mmhmm) pink silver yellow


again blue ah you don't like purple you don't like yellow


err blue silver err silver err wait ah, ah err blue


purple yellow !huh! <mandarin>你从小就很喜欢:ni chong xiao jiu hen xi huan</mandarin> pink <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> leh, that's why <mandarin>你看你小时候啊你每次我买东西啊你是:ni kan ni xiao shi hou a ni mei ci wo mai dong xi a ni shi</mandarin> pink <mandarin>哥哥啊:ge ge a</mandarin> #ze ze#<mandarin>就就:jiu jiu</mandarin> blue


either black or white lor grey brown


err eh <mandarin>我刚才想讲:wo gang cai xiang jiang</mandarin> green leh but <mandarin>没有讲什么:mei you jiang shen me</mandarin> green <mandarin>啦真的真的:la zhen de zhen de</mandarin> ya lah I nearly say it err


not bad mustard colour ah <mandarin>买那个颜色:mai na ge yan se</mandarin> orange <mandarin>啊你买的东西:a ni mai de dong xi</mandarin> red <mandarin>啊:a</mandarin> err !aiya! what what is that called ah


can lah your favourite drink ah ah <mandarin>水太多了:shui tai duo liao</mandarin> (mmhmm)


[orh] okay <mandarin>三个了:san ge liao</mandarin> yes yes yes yes [orh] uh


birthday christmas so oh three marks <mandarin>现在几个:xian zai ji de</mandarin> question <mandarin>了:liao</mandarin> oh (ugh)


okay ah okay ah okay (uh huh) (uh huh) okay (uh huh) fudge brownie four mark


saturday <mandarin>为什么有钱赚:wei shen me you qian zhuan</mandarin> but friday next day and next day holiday oh then you like friday night lah


then <mandarin>你干脆给我三个:ni gan cui gei wo san ge</mandarin> option lah then <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> screen down lah oh okay lor okay lor okay okay that is out lah ah okay


I think that is out also I think that is out also err ice skating !huh! oh ya <mandarin>我少了一个:wo shao le yi ge</mandarin> acting


piano <mandarin>我们就:wo men jiu</mandarin> send <mandarin>你去:ni qu</mandarin> piano <mandarin>不是那个:bu shi na ge</mandarin> organ lor <mandarin>要:yao</mandarin> try <mandarin>先嘛:xian ma</mandarin> then if you interested then upgrade lah not interested then <mandarin>一半都不半半天吊这样有:yi ban dou bu ban ban tian diao zhe yang you</mandarin> meh


but <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> halfway <mandarin>你:ni</mandarin> give up <mandarin>你又不要:ni you bu yao</mandarin> take exam <mandarin>不要什么:bu yao shen me</mandarin> because you take all these you must take exam then <mandarin>你又不要:ni you bu yao</mandarin> take exam oh then how to how to take when you don't want <mandarin>如果你要你可以那种:ru guo ni yao ni ke yi na zhong</mandarin> practice <mandarin>的:de</mandarin> lor


netball ice skating the other one <mandarin>有一个:you yi ge</mandarin> acting <mandarin>的是吗:de shi ma</mandarin> dancing and what tennis <mandarin>你应该不喜欢你好像不喜欢玩球的:ni yin gai bu xi huan ni hao xiang bu xi huan wan qiu de</mandarin> leh ah netball lor five <mandarin>了:liao</mandarin> hor five <mandarin>刚才:gang cai</mandarin> four leh so plus one five lor


!huh! lunch lunch <mandarin>也是:ye shi</mandarin> subject ah okay okay drama lunch lunch is not a subject what


ah hazel hazel <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> brown ah okay okay


hazel <mandarin>不要跟我讲你要:bu yao gen wo jiang ni yao</mandarin> blue <mandarin>啊:a</mandarin> but <mandarin>怪怪:guai guai</mandarin> leh <mandarin>好像:hao xiang</mandarin> Angmo leh


!huh! vampire diary (ppc) so five mark lah <mandarin>这个有没有算:zhe ge you mei you suan</mandarin> mark <mandarin>这个不要算啦哦五个了:zhe ge bu yao suan la o wu ge liao</mandarin> fail <mandarin>了:liao</mandarin> lah


what's magenta don't know <mandarin>大概大概啦:da gai da gai la</mandarin> purple <mandarin>掺:chan</mandarin> pink lah purple <mandarin>掺:chan</mandarin> pink lah okay okay turquoise six


winter


<mandarin>你有去过:ni you qu guo</mandarin> autumn <mandarin>吗:ma</mandarin> but <mandarin>如果是:ru guo shi</mandarin> four season <mandarin>我喜欢:wo xi huan</mandarin> autumn <mandarin>超美它的叶子因为整个又凉嘛天气又凉:chao mei ta de ye zi yin wei zheng ge you liang ma tian qi you liang</mandarin> then <mandarin>它的:ta de</mandarin> leave hor !wah! so colourful


eh <mandarin>刚才是:gang cai shi</mandarin> six hor <mandarin> 啊刚才是:a gang cai shi</mandarin> five <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> six eh six <mandarin>了是吗刚才:liao shi ma gang cai</mandarin> so seven lah <mandarin>还是:hai shi</mandarin> fail lah snowy eight


(ppc) !huh! oh <mandarin>你啊我问你啊:ni a wo wen ni a</mandarin> so <mandarin>我问你你:wo wen ni ni</mandarin> answer lah`


her favourite colour <mandarin>我不用讲什么:wo bu yong jiang shen me</mandarin> colour <mandarin>啊可以啦:a ke yi la</mandarin> her favourite colour pastel colour <mandarin>应该可以啦:ying gai ke yi la</mandarin> okay lah where she was born her


your favourite colour <mandarin>我觉得我:wo jue de wo</mandarin> <mandarin>我很好我没有骂粗话:wo hen hao wo mei you ma cu hua</mandarin> so <mandarin>算对还是不对:suan dui hai shi bu dui</mandarin> !aiya! <mandarin>可以算你对啦因为我我:ke yi suan ni dui la yin wei wo wo</mandarin> okay her her biggest pet peeve ah <mandarin>什么是动物啊喜欢的动物:shen me shi dong wu a xi huan de dong wu</mandarin> [orh]


her eh food food <mandarin>可以算:ke yi suan</mandarin> vegetable meh her least favourite food food food food food her least favourite food okay her astrological sign <mandarin>什么来的:shen me lai de</mandarin> okay


individual <mandarin>的因为你要:de yin wei ni yao</mandarin> record <mandarin>的啊没有:de a mei you</mandarin> they will count <mandarin>因为他们有一个:yin wei ta men you yi ge</mandarin> machine to weigh one you know not #suka suka# one okay her favourite movie <mandarin>它讲:ta jiang</mandarin> movie <mandarin>啊:a</mandarin> actually <mandarin>我没有什么:wo mei you shen me</mandarin> <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> actually


water uh <mandarin>可以我喝白开水啦</mandarin> who she vote for if she vote !huh! who she vote for if she vote <mandarin>它是在在讲楼下的啊</mandarin> so delete this one if she snore


her favourite song err <mandarin>也是可以啦:ye shi ke yi la</mandarin> how to comfort her if she's in bad mood okay her hobby her hobby !huh!


hobby <mandarin>那个是看戏:na ge shi kan xi</mandarin> hobby I thought <mandarin>是啊我喜欢啊我喜欢做的事:shi a wo xi huan a wo xi huan zuo de shi</mandarin> for hobby ah


art and craft or what knitting lah cushion <mandarin>我喜欢这些:wo xi huan zhe xie</mandarin> but <mandarin>我需要去:wo xu yao qu</mandarin> attend <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> so that <mandarin>有时我:you shi wo</mandarin> got stuck got someone to tell me actually <mandarin>我有找到一个那个不是:wo you zhao dao yi ge na ge bu shi</mandarin> jurong point <mandarin>没有:mei you</mandarin> err <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> keat hong CC but <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> leh <mandarin>你还要给学费不用紧:ni hai yao gei xue fei bu yong jin</mandarin> then <mandarin>你是在一边自己做你不会你才问他:ni shi zai yi bian zi ji zuo ni bu hui ni cai wen ta</mandarin> so I feel why should I pay for the


course when I just sit one corner and do my thing when <mandarin>我可以去那种</mandarin> shop like <mandarin>金龙你跟他买线反正线也是要跟他买你买线你跟他买线</mandarin> then <mandarin>他会教你</mandarin> free <mandarin>的以前我有学过在</mandarin> tanjong pagar but stuck <mandarin>我就</mandarin> Jialat <mandarin>了</mandarin> lor


oh <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> plus <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> six lor the name of the person she first date the name of the first person she date ah err first date ah


!huh! okay <mandarin>对:dui</mandarin> <mandarin>我的头发从来没有黑的:wo de tou fa cong lai mei you hei de</mandarin> (uh huh) <mandarin>没有啦还没有:mei you la hai mei you</mandarin> really white ah okay her favourite restaurant


so-so <mandarin>而已:er yi</mandarin> <mandarin>因为你们很久没有去那边吃:yin wei ni men hen jiu mei you qu na bian chi</mandarin> <mandarin>是为了你们我才去那边吃:shi wei le ni men wo cai qu na bian chi</mandarin> okay lah but I <mandarin>那个是:na ge shi</mandarin> western food mah <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> prefer local chinese food okay lah


oh okay <mandarin>你要猜:ni yao cai</mandarin> christian name <mandarin>也可以啦:ye ke yi la</mandarin> christian name k <mandarin>六:liu</mandarin> best friend ah best friend <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> girl ah girl girl


actually <mandarin>是:shi</mandarin> common lah but <mandarin>她的:ta de</mandarin> spelling <mandarin>就不:jiu bu</mandarin> common lah karen <mandarin>才五个字而已:cai wu ge zi er yi</mandarin> leh


okay <mandarin>我给你第五个字:wo gei ni di wu ge zi</mandarin> t <mandarin>有:you</mandarin> y something t y no no no no no


yes so <mandarin>这个:zhe ge</mandarin> wrong <mandarin>啊:a</mandarin> siu kiong !huh! <mandarin>你不认识啊:ni bu ren shi a</mandarin> no <mandarin>不是:bu shi</mandarin> okay her home err her home her phone number by heart


what perfume she use her favourite store to shop at her favourite store to shop at favourite store ah okay ah <mandarin>我看哪一个:wo kan nei yi ge</mandarin> shop <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> spend <mandarin>最:zui</mandarin> long


<mandarin>也是可以啦:ye shi ke yi la</mandarin> favourite store to shop at <mandarin>我很多地方都可以:wo hen duo di fang dou ke yi</mandarin> shop <mandarin>很久的:hen jiu de</mandarin>


<mandarin>看这些:kan zhe xie</mandarin> <mandarin>我要讲:wo yao jiang</mandarin> shop [orh] shop ah <mandarin>可以啦可以啦:ke yi la ke yi la</mandarin> so <mandarin>算对了:suan dui la</mandarin> if she had any pet growing up okay


her favourite emoji <mandarin>哦也是可以啦:o ye shi ke yi la</mandarin> who she hates


recent so far <mandarin>没有我:mei you wo</mandarin> last one <mandarin>我恨的以前做工的:wo hen de yi qian zuo dong de</mandarin> lor boss <mandarin>是不喜欢而已有一个:shi bu xi huan er yi you yi ge</mandarin> guy <mandarin>我最讨厌:wo zui tao yan</mandarin> richard <mandarin>他是我:ta shi wo</mandarin> colleague <mandarin>我很讨厌很讨厌他很很很他很:wo hen tao yan hen tao yan ta hen hen hen ta hen</mandarin>
娘腔
 <mandarin>什么:shen me</mandarin> richard nah


[orh] <mandarin>没有没有那个是那个是:mei you mei you na ge shi na ge shi</mandarin> robert but <mandarin>那个还:na ge hai</mandarin> okay lah <mandarin>那个啊如果要讲:na ge a ru guo yao jiang</mandarin> relative leh <mandarin>就我:jiu wo</mandarin> auntie lah <mandarin>那个:na ge</mandarin> US US <mandarin>的我讨超她很瞧不起我们我从小就很讨厌她姑姑:de wo tao chao ta hen qiao bu qi wo men wo cong xiao jiu hen tao yan ta gu gu</mandarin> okay <mandarin>啦姑姑姑姑:la gu gu gu gu</mandarin> okay


so what am I supposed to answer yes or no ah what is your answer okay again again


err why I think so ah <mandarin>只是我不要做而已啦:zhi shi wo bu yao zuo er yi la</mandarin> I can make you feel that you feel guilty <mandarin>我只是我不要做而已:wo zhi shi wo bu yao zuo er yi</mandarin> what is your answer no ah <mandarin>因为我没有做:yin wei wo mei you zuo</mandarin> ah okay then next question


!huh! <mandarin>为什么:wei shen me</mandarin> what is the what is the question <mandarin>我要听嘛:wo yao ting ma</mandarin> ah ah


<mandarin>这个是问你啊:zhe ge shi wen ni a</mandarin>


again again adult unless <mandarin>跟在我一起:gen zai wo yi qi</mandarin> ah okay ah yes <mandarin>对吗:dui ma</mandarin> [orh] okay eh <mandarin>没有算分数啊:mei you suan fen shu a</mandarin>


oh okay again again I don't stop you ah <mandarin>还是你自己哦:hai shi ni zi ji o</mandarin> okay lah ah yes ah <mandarin>是吗哦给只是给你意见啦对吗:shi ma o gei zhi shi gei ni yi jian la dui ma</mandarin> (hmm)


you got whole life leh is whole life leh !huh! why then what is the question nothing much but I want to know what is the question lah <mandarin>很难讲都没有讲:hen nan jiang dou mei you jiang</mandarin>


(mmhmm) <mandarin>哦这个是我的啊:o zhe ge shi wo de a</mandarin> I I live what


again again again <mandarin>这个是:zhe ge shi</mandarin> for <mandarin>我:wo</mandarin> ah


<mandarin>服从听从里面有它:fu cong ting cong li mian you ta</mandarin> answer <mandarin>出来的:chu lai de</mandarin> meh so


I'm driving you crazy ah !huh! maybe not maybe yes [orh] <mandarin>很:hen</mandarin> maybe not <mandarin>跟:gen</mandarin> confirm not <mandarin>很差很多:hen cha hen duo</mandarin> <mandarin>怎怎样的:zen zen yang</mandarin> test okay


[orh] <mandarin>它有:ta you</mandarin> strongly agree netural all these ah okay what's the question again err neutral


netural lah ya lah again again


I what <mandarin>听:ting</mandarin> hear [orh] think agree agree ah


support them emotionally err <mandarin>这个是要:zhe ge shi yao</mandarin> answer <mandarin>什么:shen me</mandarin> agree ah err normal lor uh no I mean agree agree lah rarely <mandarin>是什么很少啊:shi shen me hen shao a</mandarin> err very difficult ah [orh]


okay so what should we talk about oh valorant right just now we were talking about right ya so well yesterday I played a game and then


we okay actually I played more than one game about I think three games, in total we won two, err lost one so basically, the last one was very very close, it's like thirteen twelve


ya so we almost almost won, but didn't lor, very very lame cause the guy at the very last second he come, flank us, and then shoot us from behind and then we all die


which is damn stupid lah, I feel, ya so err the first two games was actually very well the second game especially right is like a, how do I put this like the best lah cause I think the opponent only won two rounds or something so we went thirteen two


really cool so the first round is damn funny you know why or not cause right, err when the round starts right because err we are defending, so we have, slightly more area to walk to so the opponent has slightly less area because they're attacking into our base


so right, generally because they have less area they will appear very fast, you get what I mean, ya so what happened was, the first game that we played !wah! it's like round start already right and we have to wait thirty seconds right before they even we even see any signs of them and then the round itself is only like three minutes so ya they very scaredy cat they just


walk very slowly like they just, uh you know because if you, run, we can hear where they're running from, err could be could be means the they novice they noob lah


noob lor ya so, they are probably not familiar with the map or they maybe don't know what they doing lah or they just walk you know because if you walk, it takes a longer time you are very slow so they walked into, us and then


we have to like guess lah because, err like CSO it's not one particular place that you have to defend there's like maybe two to three different spots, you have to defend lor so, probably when they do that we will second guess ourselves eh are you sure they are at B are you sure they not at A


really you never hear anything you know that kind of thing, ya so so it's very hard for us to know because, if, eventually we need to well, ya we need to find out where they are so that we, can


you know properly defend so it takes us very long so like that because of the second guessing everything so the first few rounds we actually lost, we actually were like I think one eight at one point but we came back super hard then you know attacking phase is like right the round start instantly Chiong ah


then go in and then #pew pew pew pew pew# the whole map, just like like basically machine gun lah like , like that and then, err just fire at everything we see, so right they just couldn't react in time lah then oh then die


not necessary leh cause some of them are really good leh, (uh huh)


ya cause, in valorant you really have to check corners because, you can hide in corner and trick people, and also valorant you can shoot, into walls, shoot past walls, no specific guns


and actually in most of the guns can shoot through walls it's just how effective like for example, shot gun can definitely shoot through corner you know those corner, Pew shoot through ya, so if they're at the corner you know they're running at the corner you just shoot through the corner you'll hit them


kill them easily, I personally love the valorant shot gun because as long as, that dot right is on the person's body generally I will try to aim for the err head lah mostly head shot but err if let's say no choice or the angle is not correct I just aim their body lah that big circle if it's on them it'll definitely hit them cause the


middle dot is in the middle of the big circle, so you just aim the whole thing at the person Pew die, confirm die one so so it's quite alright I guess it's quite nice


there's a couple of characters that I find, is not as good as others for example, err I feel that, what's her name the person that the viper


ya the poison girl her her skill is very err got got pros and cons lah because yes it does block the vision but it also block your own vision so you have to ya, exactly so


yes, no I don't know how long I never really timed it but, it's just err very like if you know how to use it you can use it very well but if you don't it's basically a hindrance rather than help lah like that time right I give you an example


my I got a teammate that really loves to play viper every single time will play viper confirm one, so what happened is, he go and throw the viper wall and then I couldn't see opposite of it I'm like, eh how like he just throw directly so I was like should I pick or not I don't even dare to pick up because


I don't know what it's blocking it's it's not even like slanted it's just straight down, and it was already a straight path and he threw it straight down so I don't know what he's trying to block, because, if someone is hiding on the left side I pick up


on the left side I die if I someone is on the right side I picked up on my right side I also I get head shot so I don't understand what he's trying to do, if he threw it at an angle, then maybe I can do something, you get what I mean, ya so it's a very bad situation lah at that point of time I don't dare so I have to move to another spot


second game right I tell you for the rare lah it's the best thing because right what happen was, the second game right was there was this guy that keep trying to kill me, so he's actually not bad he's very smart so he played Sova the guy with


the the archer guy, so you know Sova has this skill where he'll throw out a shot it's a bit like overwatch that what's his name Hasaki, err ah forgot his name you know you know what I mean, ya ya ya it'll pings that area


and then, ya ya ya correct so that's the thing he keeps he hit at that


area you throw that thing it will spot out and then he would rush out and then try to shoot the person because it's around the area so I keep getting hit by him, and then he I think he's good he knows, how to use that bounce thing, so he kind of like how do I put it he can predict


like oh, like for example what this the first round I was closer to the wall he threw behind me so he can see me then the second round I went like right, I didn't even moved very far but he threw further than the wall that means if I was at the wall he wouldn't have saw me with that thing but he threw it even further because I think he predicted that I wouldn't go so far


something like that ya so his mind game is very very strong, that that time uh so ya lor it's, err so I keep getting head shot but by him lah so it was very very annoying but


his ploy failed because, yes you might be able to kill me a lot but his teammates are absolute, err really noobs they really cannot so they will they will die to my teammates and then my teammates my and then my teammates will


go around him and then shoot him to death, ya, err flank him ah in a way, ya so so he cannot carry at all so what happened was , that was us err attacking ah, when it comes to us defending it's even easier


because they also had a err err that girl that okay whatever lah her skill I forgot her name but her skill is that she can throw a eye, and everybody or rather enemy that sees that eye will be blinded like they can only see that eye


they their attention will be attracted to it, instantly ya, that's the only thing they see in their vision like the eye like that, so err it's sort of like a blind lah !huh! so she will throw that also the Sova will also throw the arrow which will be seen on the map


ya so whenever I see those two appear on the map every time I know okay, that's where they are let's go Chiong ah, ya so, so that's what happened lor so so what I do is I don't even need to move like I spawn I just stand there and wait for them to throw okay then


like go go to the thing we don't even need to guess, like oh maybe they're attacking this side or maybe they're attacking that side err maybe this lor that no don't need, because it was so simple, ya so


anyways that's about it lah for the two games that we won the third game was very very very really very close so close right, like almost ah, like if if one that that that last round was actually, was actually err


a fluke lah I would say, because we were thinking of, doing a, split push that means two three and then, like that, but then ya not good like that


yup so Anyways, do you, , so, do you have anything else to add


there is a limit lah I feel, err it's not just that like like for example it's a bit like you know echos ulti


ya so Anyways, ya so err for, any recent games that you want to share


what okay


okay so right, I personally believe this is what I have, experienced as a Teemo top, what you do is you take grasp of Hundie


under the green you take grasps and then you take anything along that that can, err increase your health you don't need healing, just increase your health increase whatever and then on the other side generally I will take either one it's either the red one


and then it get that the healing, or the blue one and then I get survivability which is the shield when everything


ya but I don't like the that spell because generally as Teemo I don't build life steal


it's not really a heal eh, ya but it's not really a heal leh is increase health only, it doesn't heal you it increases your maximum health


so it will basically like for example you originally at one thousand health, and then now it increases your health to one, thousand two hundred, so the two hundred extra health how is it gonna give you obviously it's going to give you the whole thing what you cannot just say oh I give it expand your capacity only now you have two hundred less health


cannot be what they will just give you directly the two hundred health so you add on so to your perspective you are increasing in health yes because you actually pass, two hundred health but that's because your capacity has increased, ya so it's not technically a heal it's just an increase in health do you get what I mean


ya so basically generally as a Teemo top I generally will always go for that's for runes lah then I will go for TP obviously and then, flash obviously and then, I will go for frozen mallet first item


yes frozen mallet always first item after that I will decide what I want generally depending on the situation, err ya I could go for the blade of the ruined or, or I could always go for something like err what's that thing called the Liandry'S torment


because if, ya because even though you're going for tanked Teemo, and you will probably build AD stuff, but he, it's all his things especially his mushroom still does magic damage so AP will definitely help


generally I will always go for frozen mallet first why because and ya every time you auto attack it will poison them


and slow them and then, stay stay scheme the voices, yes plus you press your W run after them


they turn around to fight you you throw down a mushroom at your feet, come ah fight me ah I dare you


actually right as Teemo top right you have, two objectives, yes so basically right your first objective is about maybe from level one until maybe about level six seven eight nine around there


your objective is to annoy the shit out of the top thing lah, just annoy him keep making sure that he cannot find remember I told you you poke them until they low health they want to farm you stand in front of me then come ah, farm ah I dare you know that kind of thing you come and someone the best thing is


you see then you walk towards the middle want to AA right you kill them ya blind them uh AA lor AA lor ya ya, yes but Tryndam ya you have been very careful because ulti number one number two


he has, no he doesn't have a silence but he has a slope, so if you're facing him, if you are facing and he throw that skill on you it will reduce your err err auto attack damage, but if you're facing away and missed it


ah it will chicken you and then you (ugh) I am slow ya that kind of thing, ya so generally I will always build frozen mallet because I feel that it is the best item for top Teemo but, it's very expensive, so you need to make sure that if you really do buy it


you need to get you need to get really good CS and you need to defend, where when I mean fact right I don't mean oh I have a lot of heals no it means that you have an advantage over your top lignite meaning that in terms of your CS, you have more CS than the person


ya so generally ya that's about it lor so that generally right basically right you do not start off with Q you don't what, ya that's number one you max E you do not max Q max E


and also when you are going to fight the opponent you do not kill them first, E as in as in auto attack Q auto attack then you continue like that


you can no the ulti doesn't, matter about, no no no no no he's ulti he can on at anytime his rage bar what it does


it is affects his cube, so if he, has higher rage bar, be it full or more than zero, he pressed his skill he can heal himself a certain amount which will increase, by the rage bar


ya so the more rage bar the more he heals, and also, Tryndamere what his ult does is it will make sure that he doesn't die meaning that you can auto you can hit him all you want until he he will have one history, he will not die


and then after that just before the ulti ends he will he will just, no he would generally what Tryndameres will do is when they ulti, they will not use that, heal because, it will prematurely cancel that ulti that's number one


number two there's no need for them to heal themselves because the ulti, prevents them from dying in the first place so no no, Tryndamere will press Q and go and do stupid things, so they will always save that kill they just spin and then, auto attack keep auto attacking