In 1872, after her father Ryokei's passing, she was estranged with the adopted son Noritada WAKAE (4th son of Jimon HIRAMATSU) she was finally dismissed from the family.
更に明治5年（1872年）に父・量長が死去、養子縁組に迎えられた若江範忠（平松時門四男）との不仲のため、遂に家を追われる。