It is not widely known that Naomasa was such a submissive husband to his lawful wife Tobaiin that he could not fight with her, even though he hated defeat more than anyone.
あまり知られていないことだが、直政は正室である唐梅院に対してはかなりの恐妻家で、誰よりも負けず嫌いであった直政もこの唐梅院だけには頭があがらなかったという。