Perhaps because of that, both the husbands and wives were so friendly from the time Hideyoshi was an ashigaru (common foot soldier), that in 1574 Toshiie and his wife handed over their fourth daughter Gohime to Hideyoshi and his wife who had had no children yet.
その事もあってか、秀吉が足軽時代から夫婦共に親しく、天正二年（1574年）には子供のなかった秀吉夫婦に四女の豪姫を授ける程の関係であった。