teks: Secondly, I am speaking from the perspective of the partner. When we know that someone is no longer pure, we need to look at why they lost their virginity. The impact is different if someone is not pure due to adultery, rape (do men get raped?), or losing their virginity through a previous marriage (in a halal way). If it is due to committing adultery, then of course, the way we see that person will be different. They are no longer as perfect as we once imagined (even though no one is perfect). The impact is also different if someone has committed adultery once, twice, or multiple times. Whether they committed adultery with an ex-partner, a sibling, or anyone they saw on the street. Whether they committed adultery with one partner or switched partners. People say 'if you do it once, it is a mistake; if you do it again, it is your own choice.' The impact may be different depending on how long ago they committed that sin. If my partner committed that sin 10 years ago and has repented, the impact is different from a partner who committed that sin just a few months ago. People say, once you do it, it is very difficult to control your desires afterwards, whether you are a man or a woman. If that happened to my partner, I would leave them because I believe they need to prioritize fixing their relationship with Allah first, not with me. If we are meant to be together, there is nothing to worry about. Allah will reunite us in whatever way He sees fit. Allah has already determined what is best for each of His servants, the wisdom of which is beyond our understanding.
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