kelaskan teks [harassment, self-harm, religion insult, sexist, hate, racist, safe for work, psychiatric or mental illness, porn], bagi dalam bentuk JSON {'kelas'}, teks `My name is Ilyani. I am 28 years old, married for almost 5 years. My marriage is still new and there are many challenges that I have yet to face. However, I am eager to share and exchange opinions with experienced individuals. At the beginning of my marriage, my husband and I were in a long-distance relationship. I think many couples have experienced this and only those who have experienced it know how it feels. Negative thoughts and suspicion towards my husband were always on my mind, even though my intention was to become a righteous wife. I reflected on myself, but it didn't last long. Negative thoughts became my food for thought. I even had bad thoughts about my husband, which I regretted later. I prayed for him to fail his final semester exam in a foreign country because he didn't message me for weeks while I was pregnant. I was so cruel. I thought that bad thoughts wouldn't come true, but they did. I also prayed for my husband to experience the back pain that I felt when I was pregnant with his child because he was too busy with work and didn't have time for me. And it happened. I felt so guilty. So, my advice to those who have yet to live under the same roof with their spouse is to be patient and grateful for what they have. Accept your spouse for who they are, as they were before and after marriage. Don't complain about their flaws because Allah sent them to us as our soulmate. Remember their sacrifices in providing for us. Don't dwell on their past. Instead, deepen your knowledge in religion, cooking, parenting, and other skills. Prepare yourself for your spouse by taking care of yourself physically and mentally. Practice Quranic recitation and prayers to improve your relationship with Allah. That's all. I apologize if I made any mistakes. If I did, please forgive and correct me, experienced individuals. Thank you.`
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