UGH he says he wants MC to help us get out of the rut we are in. He wants to help me move on so I'm not hurting everyday
. I'm going to just schedule a MC session and throw caution to the wind. Either way the only way forward will be to put this A to rest and I'm sure MC will want to discuss the A(s) as we have both had them and he is going to have to suck it up.
I don't mind discussing mine. I took it when WH called me names and I always listened and did what he asked for. I have written him a letter for my apology and gave him over 25 reasons, besides the kids or I love you, for why I want to be married to him.
He has never done those things for me. He has answered some, but not all and it makes him really uncomfortable to talk about it.
I just don't understand how I can be so willing to be open about the RA I had, but with him it's like pulling teeth.