Hey anons. I’m 33 here and have a pretty decent job. And I live in a studio apartment by the beach. I’m a life long inquirer and I just like to keep my single, free life going. 



Whether it’s hanging with my buddies and discussing topics in philosophy, having a good meeting with my bosses about my work (my job isn’t super lucrative but it’s interesting to me), joining a summer basketball league, making new friends out in the world, going on dates with women sometimes or mail no plans to go back to grad school part time in my 30’s. Basically, I just kind of dig my life. 



I’m the kind of guy where I’ll always figure out how to get into something new to keep my mind occupied. 



Anyway, I’ve had serious girlfriends before so I know what that’s like. It was great, but there’s just something so sweet about this single bachelor life. When work deadlines slow down after some weeks of grinding, and I’m driving in my car blasting some heavy metal and going to the gym, or getting Into some intellectual discussion with my friends and just seeing the world as a never ending wonder in which I can explore and keep finding new meaning, I feel great. 



I’m also lucky cause I’m pretty good looking, tall and social in general….



But here’s the crux… everyone is getting married and having families. It looks terrible. I just want to keep living my best life and save up a nice nest egg and then be a cool as 55 year old dude hanging out and doing my thing with no miserable family stressors. 



The only obligation I do feel committed to, other than work, and being good to my friends and people in general, is to take care of my parents when they are old. Because I care about them. 



But wife? Kids? No thanks. I see chicks I used to date getting married online and I think “man I’m so happy I still have my life” 



Am I living the spiritual and biz dream? Or deluding myself out of the necessary goal of procreating?

>>54763722 (OP)

why do you ask biz to tell you how to live your life

Have kids to pass your lineage and worth onwards.

2 kids, anymore and they won't get enough.

1 kid can die anytime so 2 is for insurance.

>but marriage

Just give your sperm to some lesbians or stuck up office woman.

Because I want to hear what ya’ll think. I love biz because it’s a place where the intellectual discussion gets stirred up.

What about sperm donation to ensure the goal is completed? And then keep living my great life?

alright dawg. i wont lie im a 24 y/o who's kind of not gotten anywhere in life. but my advice is to find a woman you love and get married to her and then you will want to have children :)

Also works if you don't care that much about it.

>off-topic AI generated garbage

Jannie'd
