And is starting aggressive chemotherapy (every day for 6 weeks) in two weeks. What are the odds that he will die from it?



I'm in Mexico and he's in Austria. I was wondering if I should fly back there before the treatment starts, in case he gets very ill and/or dies. If he did die, I would regret not going to see him before. He is going out of the country for treatment.



On the other hand, my girlfriend's cousin has a wedding on the 14th (one day before my father leaves) and she has been looking forward to going to it with me for at least a year. And I promised her I would go there with her.



Yeah I know I sound like a cuck. I'm not. But what should I do? I should go see my father, right?



He's vaxxed and boosted, btw.

>>17572637 (OP)

My apologies. Many such cases!

>>17572637 (OP)

Does he normally live in Mexico? I would spend time with him before he goes, then fly and visit him after the wedding. It is unlikely he'll die early in the chemotherapy.

No he lives in Europe. I'm European, I just stay in Mexico most of the year.



If Im going to see him before he flies out to Portugal for his treatment, I will have to go to Austria soon and not be able to make the wedding. I guess that is the dilemma. But if I dont go, Im probably not gonna see him at all during his treatment either. And perhaps he gets very ill from the treatment.

>>17572637 (OP)

my mom survived breast cancer. i hope your dad will survive too.

I would go, cancer can quickly kill you off if it's aggrrsive or in a bad area. My uncle died after 3 weeks of knowing he had it. Although it was in a bad spot

>>17572637 (OP)

Cancer is serious, have you told your girlfriend yet?

thanks anon



it has already spread to the lymph nodes, skeleton etc. But he was diagnosed like 6 months ago. He still feels pretty good I think.



Yes. But only mentioned it a while back. She doesnt know he is about to get chemo etc

>He's vaxxed and boosted

damn, so he's only got two weeks left
