text: I was baptized Catholic as a young adult in 1964, and grew in my faith as an adult Catholic who cherished the changes brought by Vatican II.  Married shortly after joining the Church,  raised 5 great children, and became very involved in the Church until a couple of years ago when our VERY Conservative Bishop sent a very young "restorationist"  Priest to our Parish.  Now we attend the  "Church in Exile" that  that is mentioned in this NCR article.  After many years serving in many ministries in the Catholic Church is difficult to see our role as "collaborators"  in our Parish being eliminated and now being told that we are to return to being pre-Vatican II Catholics where "Father" knows best and we know little if anything.