text: If we have coffee, I'd like one caveat:  You don't preach Christianity to me and I won't "preach" agnosticism to you.  I know you're very comfortable being a 'believer" and I have no desire to change that.  On the flip-side, I'm not interested in having others attempt to "save my soul."  I'm not at all sure if there's a God, god, gods, or whatever or not.  If there is, I like to think he, she, it, they or whatever, will judge me by my actions and their impact on others and the world, not on whether I was a "believer" or not.  Without that caveat, coffee together would not be pleasant for either of us.
  
  regards, Gary