text: So you imply I don't follow the same beliefs regarding my actions?  Is it possible that some may be concerned with the salvation of others as well?  Is it possible to offer up a simple sacrifice for the conversion of sinners? What about praying for a family member who has lost his faith? Keep your pompous condescending  "It seems such a selfishly motivated way to behave"  for those pharisees you keep comparing to Traditional minded Catholics. 
  If you don't believe Jesus died for our sins, then why was it necessary for such a cruel death? How does that show anyone how to live a good life?  Jesus was Divine and was resurrected and ascended into heaven.  Why do I think you also don't believe that fact as well?