text: Mr. Baum raises interesting issues.  I'm an agnostic..I don't know if there's a god, let alone what defines a "good Christian."  My guess would be a hundred individuals would provide at least a hundred different definitions.  Moreover, it seems different Christian Churches have very, very different definitions as well.  
  
  Several years ago I attended the first same-sex wedding held in one of Eugene's largest downtown churches.  The Church leaders had spent months deciding to accept same-sex marriage and the ceremony celebrated both the particular wedding and the Church decision.  Across the street were cousins of one of the brides wielding picket signs denouncing same-sex marriage as the "work of Satan"....I'm sure they felt they were "doing God's work" as good Christians.  
  
  May I offer a secular suggestion.  How about leaving people alone; free to live their lives as they please so long as they're not harming others.  I apologize for such a radical proposal..Gary Crum