text: Here we are back to attempts to justify behaviour by asking the famous question, "what would Jesus do or say?" Invariably the answer is what the questioner would do or say whatever that may be.
  Again because I have never been aware of any of the Three Persons speaking to me personally, I am sceptical about people who claim they speak to them.
  It seems to me that the discernment process you propose is all about reasons to reject the teaching of the Magisterium. An informed conscience is one which informed by the teaching of the Church and not by the opinions of theologians and biblical scholars who have no charism or authority.
  Annulment has been called the "Catholic Divorce" I grant you but it is only a conditional judgement not an absolute one. Only God knows whether a marriage is valid or not. Also, I agree that it has been abused throughout the ages but God will not be mocked.