text: Jesus helps us deal well with pain and joys, both natural realities.
  
  He wants to be with us in all our moments. 
  
  Good points in the article on attentiveness.
  
  The various forms and uses of technology seem particularly effective in making our attention shallow and labile.
  
  This not only makes our "friendships" more shallow, they make our decision making about work matters, home, etc more shallow, less well thought out....choices to make in business, schools to send our children to, places to vacation, things to form opinions about.
  
  Some helpful videos by a Catholic MD at Harvard.
  
  Short points: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UBd5a5ztKw
  
  Longer more practical, useful video
  
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=691Bd1OelHw