text: Juju:  77% of Americans claim to be "born-again" Christians, yet they collectively seem to keep overlooking a salient religious factor.  When any two people are "joined together" sexually, consenting or not, they become one person in God's eyes.  The only way they can then become separated from this union, is by death of one of the partners.  Jesus told one woman that she had many partners.  He wasn't referring lightly that she had sex with many partners, but rather that she was "joined" to many partners.  This "conclusion" is mirrored by psychology, reaching roughly the same basic vectors, just worded differently.  Victims of any form of rape, who were old enough to remember clearly, find it difficult to "forget" their assailant. Children face a "hidden" memory, which can make it difficult to work their way through it later.  It doesn't help to push them into embracing "victim-hood", which stifles efforts at "overcoming" the harm.  Feeling like "damaged-goods" is counter-productive.