text: So am I, a hispanic, to believe that if I take Jesus at his word, and believe that to re-marry after divorce is to commit adultery, then my belief is the result of "infantilization" by colononialists?  That's mighty condescending toward hispanics.  I think it's time most of the people at NCR grow up.  Look, no one forces you to be a Christian.  So live with your choice.  Have the courage of your convictions.  If your convictions tell you you just can't accept Christ, then fine; leave and be done with it.  But this half-in, half out is for adolescents.