text: 1. Catholics who are excluded from Communion because they are divorced and remarried are not excommunicated. They are in the same state as you and I would be after having committed a mortal sin and not repented and confessed it. 
  If they are going to continue in an adulterous relationship then they are obviously unrepentant.
  How does one deal pastorally with sinners who are unrepentant? Our Lord's parting words to the woman taken in adultery were, ".... sin no more." That was Our Lord's pastoral advice to that poor woman.
  Pastorality does not mean condoning sinfulness, it means in this situation leading someone out of habitual sinfulness until such time as they are able to avoid not only the sin but the occasions of that sin. In the case of remarried divorcés it means at least living as brother and sister. Anyone who genuinely desired to embrace the Catholic Faith would surely accept this.
  2. Easily done.
  3. Do you have a problem with my nickname?