text: The Church only cares about keeping the remarried people in the pews and tithing.  Money buys access and special privilege in the Catholic Church.  I witnessed this first hand when I was in Catholic school.  The best way to never be punished was to have the same last name as someone who had endowed a new wing for the school.  So the only way to wake neo-conservative types up is to say that you will be withholding donations as this is all they care about.