text: The church also teaches that missing Mass on Sunday is a grave sin.  I agree with Pope Francis that many of us have become obsessed with abortion, obsessed with other people's sins, when we should focus on our own sins.  Speaking as a man, how many of us is absolutely certain we were never responsible for an unwanted pregnancy? Even if we are certain, we should be very slow to speak and condemn, as we will never know what a woman with an unwanted pregnancy goes through.  Also, those who openly speak and condemn most probably know some women who have had abortions, perhaps someone close to them who never could tell them.