text: Cruelty. In the name of God.Yes, let's give our ordained sexual predators a decent and honorable burial, but not THOSE people. And let's publicly humiliate the surviving spouse or partner while we're at it. Pre-meditated cruelty. It's likely that the authors of such a cruel policy are themselves self-loathing, dysfunctional gay men. This is why I no longer belong to a Catholic congregation.