text: No, I am saying the Church does not understand them.  Vatican radio is publicity, not dogma.  You did not follow my obvious argument, that it is the teen gay suicides who do not understand what they are doing by suiciding.  They very much understand the Church's inference (or rather, Ratzinger's) that they are not wonderfully made.  The irony comes from denial of funeral rights.  If they don't get the gays as teens, they try to get them when they become emotionally mature enough to marry, regardless of the Church's obvious error.