text: Actually, thanks for the feedback.  I am more worried about making things easy for my family than I am about following some new rules or a clarification of old rules laid down by the Vatican, but I would not want my arrangements to be a shock to some Catholic friends.  I am the last Catholic among my siblings - my siblings and their children have become Methodists, Baptists, Lutherans and nones.  Sooner or later I think the world will go to cremation and no burial - mostly because there is only so much land and we don't need to take up much of it with lands set aside in perpetuity for the long dead.  We need to let go of burying bodies and even ashes - but, I admit, I can't go that far.