text: AND...one last thought and it is a personal one.....we lost a baby a week after birth....and it was the last child I was able to have....if you haven't lost a child that you very much wanted I doubt if you can understand what we went through...
  
  I very strongly personally support every possible measure to support pregnancies to provide adoptive services, to help single moms after birth in a vast number of ways....I worked in social services for Catholic charities with single poor parents...
  
  But I have also done a considerable amount of work in Human Development at the grad level....I know very well that folks must have personal freedom as they go through those developmental stages or you don't get mature folks...it's a risk God takes regularly!