text: Until our church leaders-lay leaders & otherwise, own the truth that complimentary beliefs about men & women are a lie, told to us by our hierarchy to try, and justify breaking the great commandment of Christ, to only treat all others the same and with love, to try & justify the hate filled discrimination based ordination policies of our church, we will never get the young back into our churches.
  
  Secular, according to our church's labeling, means anyone who believes discriminating and treating women differently & less sacred than men and treating LGBT as the enemy of God is wrong.
  
  The problem with that label is that it also means all those secular people are actual real Christians because they are doing the Gospels we are treating like a joke to be laughed at and ignored.  There is no such thing as women's roles or black people's roles, etc. Such defining is an attack against the human being who should be supported in all roles they are capable of performing, such as women priests.