text: This is a marvelous insight and accurate description of my own experience.  I went through a faith crisis after I began to explore my faith in an adult way, acknowledging the doubts and inconsistencies I didn't want to face...for me the crisis was about how I could be an authentic, feminist woman and still be a Catholic.  Fortunately I was able to come through the crisis with a resolve that I still need to be a part of this faith community, still hold to what is good in Catholicism, while also being a tangible witness to what needs to change.  So I didn't leave, but it has changed how I approach getting involved at the parish.  I have learned not to say yes just because "Father" or some parish committee is trying to sell me on their pet project.  I have to discern what the Spirit is truly calling me to use my gifts for, which are not always the most popular initiatives.  Some gifts are better used outside the official church, or cannot be used inside the official church.