text: Polarity on display.  Essentially what you are saying is:  I am not being divisive but you are because you don't agree with me.  How about recognizing the possibility that people of good will can disagree on particular points while both seeking to know and love God as Catholics?  The definition of a Catholic is not as one dimensional as you seem to think.  There are tens of millions of Catholics who go to mass each Sunday, participate in the sacraments, and believe that artificial birth control is the right choice for themselves and/or their spouses, the civil gay marriage is an important civil right, etc.
  
  Understanding unfolded bit by bit, over centuries.  And as we learn more about ourselves, our history, and about the universe, are we to not question and update what we can now understand?  When did we come to know it all and be perfect in that understanding?  Are we God Himself to claim such - or are we all fallible human beings?