text: Here we have the fundamental problem with your fideism. You think you can belong to a Catholic Church that has no mystery, that does not know any ambiguity. But that is not Catholicism.
  Protestants are our separated brothers and sisters, they are part of the Church. We cannot simply reject what they have worked out in their relationship with God without denying that their God is our God, without professing there is not one God but two.
  When you can show some of the struggles with loving, eg the pain of losing a companion’s support from the Church, you aren’t going to be respected much. We will see you as in the Church, but only in a bodily way. Your words will ring jangled and harsh and hard to believe.