text: Yes, this has already been discussed, yet you continue to misunderstand my position.  I don't recall any reference to "chronic sarcasm" which sounds like pseudo-scientific speech.  I applaud your perusal of the referenced journals, but be careful you do not substitute an attempt at self-education for proper counselling.  After all, you would not recommend someone try to learn about Jesus by reading the bible, unaided by the catechism, traditions and clergy of the church.  In the same way, you should not try to address issues without seeking a qualified practitioner.  I wish you the best in dealing with your problems and hope that, once you have addressed them, you will be more willing to discourse without the anger and false-victim issues.