text: The key for Catholics here is to remember that our intellect (which holds the criteria of moral behavior, and which 'generates' the "test" of our conscience) must never be put at odds with our will (which makes decisions for us).
  
  The devil would love for there to be a breakdown in the unity between our intellect and our will (& our body, desires, appetites).
  
  In fact sin does just that! A disunion, needing reconciliation!
  
  So if the government forces us to do something against the good and the true, we are OBLIGATED to find some small ways to "go against" this coercion to prevent a complete rupture between our faculties.  
  
  We can never fully let our will "give in" to immoral behavior.  Ever.  
  
  We must preserve some use of the will and free action against cooperating with evil.
  
  In the case of "cakes" "wedding venues, etc...we should deliberately give poor service, provide slightly unclean bathrooms, slow service.
  
  It doesn't have to be dramatic, but it should be done.  No fissure.