text: There are deeper issues here.    Many religious people were born into a specific doctrine and had no choices.    There seems to be a need for more freedoms and choices.    For example, it wasn't long ago that Catholics were `indoctrinated' to have large families.   Fortunately, that seems to have waned.   But many Muslim families are 5, 7, 9 children.     Also some religions have passages inciting hatred and even death for non-believers.   All in all, there seems to be a need for an on-going push on all religions for more emphasis on just the Golden Rule and dropping of other religious doctrines.    Many years ago when I was a child, my father said that no one deserves a larger headstone than any one else.  I think this also suggests that when we die, we drop our silly `dressings' and lie side by side as dust to dust and ashes to ashes.