text: He also confuses lust with love.
  A story I came across was the account of a couple who separated when the woman fell in love with another man. The reaction of the man who loved her passionately was to be glad that she had found true love in her new relationship despite the fact that it caused him enormous pain; her happiness, however, was his prime desire. 
  That is true love, what one is prepared to endure, totally sacrifice for the sake of the beloved. What Christ endured: His self-Sacrifice for the sake of those He loved.