text: A swing, and a miss.
  
  Love your neighbor, unless your neighbor suffers from concupiscence of some kind?  But that last category includes all of us.  There is no "unless".  Simply love your neighbor.
  
  My tendency toward various sins sin, my particular temptations, should not be ignored, perversely to the point of pretending it is ordered toward my good, for the sake of not hurting my feelings.  That is not love.  It is the same for homosexuals.  
  
  And it is a slander of Christianity and of Christ himself to equate the recognition of sin in ourselves or others with loathing or to contrast it with love.  When Christ taught, He was not lacking love for those who are sometimes like (e.g.) the servant who buried his talent in the ground in the Parable of the Talents.  Yet when the Church teaches, as Paul taught and as Christ taught, you would have it be incompatible with love.  You can't have it both ways.  Did Christ love or did He loathe?