text: we all should be constant strugglers in the interior life, learning much from each other, even it it's learning from someone who sadly and pitifully holds a grudge for 50 years, seeking sympathy from others for such an old (emotional) wound.
  
  We're too therapeutic and tender footed. 
  
  To do God's work we need the spirit of the early Christians, not the spirit of woe-is-me-60s.