text: Thank you for taking the trouble to write all this which I have read several times and explains why it has taken me so long to reply.
  First of all I disagree that Primacy of Conscience permits one to reject what the Church teaches and act accordingly.
  One's conscience must be informed and the only way a Catholic can inform his conscience is by letting it be guided by the dogmas and doctrines of his Church otherwise there is no point in the Church teaching anything. 
  I am also very sceptical about people claiming that God or the Holy Spirit is speaking to them individually, this has never happened to me. The only way God speaks to me is through His Church.
  I will try to answer your posts in order.