text: Yes, that is my point. The “soft sounding” parts of scripture describe love, which can be filled with great hardships. 
  Marriage is a place where people commit to suffering with Jesus for the sake of another person. It may sound soft, because its purpose is wonderful, an act of love and being loved. But hopefully every Christian knows love has many crosses that accompany the grace.
  But why are you saying this as if you disagree with me? Remarried people can have marriages that reflect love brightly, bearing burdens that unmarried people would not consider. Bearing them happily because the blessings are so much greater than pain of the cross. 
  Assuming the duties of marriage and children is so much better than staying alone, shaken by the pain of the first marriage and afraid to try again. Neiher is an easy path, but loving seems like the better choice.