text: Well, I'm here to tell you that you are wrong.  I am a Catholic on my own terms, not yours.  Whatcha gonna do about it?  Our truth comes from thinking and weighing situations; not blanket rules.   Catholics like you have no effect on my thinking.  Rape, health of the mother and fetus are what would influence my decision on whether or not to have an abortion, and every woman has the right to make those determinations without interference from busy bodies like you.  Who are you that we must obey you?  Women do not listen to men anymore because men do not have our best interests in their hearts.