text: Elizabeth, you are right about the 130,  that was the descent of the Holy Spirit.  It is the teaching of the Church Fathers though that we are crucifying Christ when we receive unworthily.  It is not meant in the literal but spiritual sense.  We are scouring, nailing, spitting on Christ when we mock His sacrifice by receiving unworthily.  Christ gave himself so completely that He humbled Himself to wash the feet of His creature.  That part we do NOT join to the celebration of the Eucharist but DO recognize as a command in how we live our life.  If you understand that, it should be EASIER to see how one has been willful and selfish in divorcing and remarrying.  God submitted to the loss of His LIFE but we won't submit to staying single or working on dying to ourselves in our marriages?  We will put sex and companionship and financial security before God?