text: I wonder often, as I age, what a wonderful life  it would be if we could live what Pope Francis just spoke about in Columbia:  'values .....not cold attachment to norms' is what the Christian life is about.   But, it appears to me that, after reading the bio's of many prominent current controversial figures in the news, their value systems appear formed by adherence to rigidity, righteous and riches than to charity, service above self, and sense of community. So, What has to change?