text: Alas, you do not understand that the Kingdom of God is a state of absolute perfection. You talk of 'love' yet you cannot define what love actually is or consists of. To you it is merely a sentiment, a good feeling. 
  The essence of love is sacrifice, what one is prepared to give up (sacrifice) for the sake of the beloved. "For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."
  "Christ humbled Himself for us even unto death upon the Cross, " for our sakes He offered Himself as both Priest and Victim to the Father with the intent that mankind would repent of its sins and be restored to be in harmony with the will of the Father had for them for all eternity.  He gave us free will so that we could acquiesce in His will for us or reject His will for us. 
  God does not damn us to hell,  we damn ourselves.