text: Not quite.
  
  The goal always has to be "out of love for God".
  
  An other oriented focus; a tightening of the Communion of Love.  Our partaking a bit more in the divine life of the Trinity.
  
  We are never the prime intention.
  
  The idea you try to give us "He doesn't need us" is a bad deception.  Quietly corrosive.
  
  Papered over and paper thin secularism is what you're suggesting.  Always comes up short.