text: Sigh, theologians say one can disagree with the Infallible Church, no they can't, A lay person can disregard the teachings of the Unchanging and Inerrant Church, no they can't, I said this, I didn't say this, jumping from one position to another, backtracking, dissembling, misquote and cites to questionable websites,  but in the end, what it boils down to is a person claiming  to be a Catholic but wanting to pick and choose what Doctrines and Dogmas of the One True Church one wants to follow, and that's really not kosher.  I think you should spend some time with the Catechism, and speak to a Priest about your doubts and disagreements with 2000 year of Church Teaching.