Cathy, you are on a hiding to nothing here. 
Most posters here are determined to syncretise the teaching of Christ with the ephemeral mores of secular society and moreover the secular norms which prevail in the affluent First World.
Welcoming into the Church and accompanying for most commentators here means accepting the sinful lifestyles of anyone who comes along and encouraging them to continue living as they do.
If you fall foul of what the Church teaches and demands of you, take no notice, the Church is wrong and going to be proved wrong at some future date. Stick with us and you will find that the Church will eventually abandon all of its claims and become just another sect, vying in the religious market-place with the Mormons the Muslims, the Jews or the myriad of Protestant denominations.
Heaven on Earth is the final goal and all religions are heading there, so take your pick.