Westerners have no business getting involved in other countries to tell them how to run their societies, anymore than we would appreciate the Saudis telling us we should run our societies the Saudi way.

All we can do is support those reformers inside those countries if they request assistance. 

The bigger problem is, not enough women in those countries have enough of an urge to rebel, they buy into the religious dictates, just as some Muslim women even here do.