There are Muslim women who defend FGM.  There are women in rogue Mormon congregations who defend polygamy and underage marriage.  In Pitcairn Island where child rape is endemic, there are women who were raped as children themselves who defend their attackers, claiming they made them feel like grown up women.  UN studies have shown that huge percentages of African women are fine with wife beating because they believe this means the husbands care enough about their families to impose necessary discipline.  I doubt anyone would here would describe these women as feminists who have made enlightened choices.

There are also people who to their family's distress have embraced beliefs and creeds more extreme and restrictive than the ones they grew up with.  This also doesn't make these people's choices particularly enlightened or liberating.