How about this list of moderate Muslim reformers  to start: 
Ayaan Hirsi Ali; Muslim Canadian Raheel Raza; Imam Tawhidi; Farid Esack; Mahmoud Mohammed Taha; Nasar Hamed Abu Zeid; Fatema Mernissi; Khalida Messaoudi; Shirin Ebadi; Dr. Majid Rafizadeh; Asma Jahangir & Hina Jilan.    Also go to these organizations to get even more "Woman living under Muslim Laws" http://www.wluml.org/  or The Henry Jackson Society http://henryjacksonsociety.org/about-the-society/; The Clarion Project would have many speakers to discuss the peaceful reformation of Islam.