I feel like this is more of a voice of popular culture rather than an individual voice.

I feel if people make up their own minds about culture, then culture will be different.

I'm a man, running a startup.  I'm supported by my spouse, which makes my journey in entrepreneurship possible.  We've both agreed that my work is too important for me to not take on.

For a bit I was concerned, even emasculated as you say.  Then after talking about it I realized that the way I felt was just a cultural history from the 1950's oppressing itself upon me.  I chose to say "Making a fat paycheck doesn't make me a man".

What a freeing moment that was.  To me a man is a stand-up guy.  A person who defends those who cannot defend themselves.  A man is someone aspiring to values like Honor, Courage, and Commitment as I did when I served in the Navy.

To me women's values are collaboration, community, cultivation, nurture.  I like the idea of working in a world where community is a centerpiece.