I am including the link to clownfish below

Just what is it you would like to prevent me and other women from doing? What is the supposedly genetically determined role you would like to impose on us?

Should I wear a veil? Not speak in public?

Among some vertebrate species, the males are relegated to the periphery of the society, or must fight to mate. Is that a role you would like for yourself (assuming you are a male)? Do you really want to copy the behavior of other species such as -- musk oxen, chimps, or sharks? You can be a musk ox if you like, but I am not.
I wonder why you are limiting the discussion to vertebrates. You don't care to discuss sea horses or queen bees or praying mantids? We could talk about clownfish. They are vertebrates.
Link to clownfish
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amphiprioninae