Perhaps women and also men who use the term "rape culture" are trying to put the genie back in the bottle.  Knowingly or unknowingly they harken back to a time like the 1940's and to which the song refers to so well about the innocence and conflicting values and mores of the time. In a culture of "hookups" and "Ashley Madison" would it not bring some relief and a lot less pressure for women and men to conform to todays cultural norms and behaviours.