If you are referring to this Kathleen Parker article: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/apparently-my-thoughts-are-dangerous-who-knew/2016/10/07/3fdf393c-8cdd-11e6-bf8a-3d26847eeed4_story.html

Then you will see that she is trying to promote a fair view of rape that is considerate of men. 

She IS NOT insisting that actual sexual assault, like that detailed by the vulgarian running for president and then normalized by the term "locker room talk" is okay. Bringing up that article in the context of this thread is a red hearing you are throwing out for distraction from my points.