I think you should mind your own business.  I'm sick of men telling women how they should behave in your eyes.  I think of the movie INDEPENDENCE DAY w/Will Smith.  The First Lady is lady injured and is being cared for from Will's love.  The FL asks "what do you do for a living'?  "I'm a dancer".  FL:  Oh?  A Ballerina?  No, A stripper.  FL is a little ashamed and the young woman says "Why?  I earn honest money and I take good care of my son".  

My first wish would be that there were still a lot of manufacturing jobs here that paid well and you could send your kids to college but there aren't.  I think you're stuck on a nasty mindset  and, well, bottom line; it just isn't any of your business.  Don't go to them if they're offensive to you.  L2g

ps?  You advocating taking photos of patrons is disgusting, mean and just plain cruel.  You remind me of a Stephen King crazy person.  So there.