Amy said:

"...Because you are so specific with your desires, trigger happy with first impressions, and shallow in your own judgments,..."

In case you haven't caught on, a man's attraction to a woman is highly aesthetic.  The make-up/clothing/cosmetic surgery industry for women is proof of that.  Maybe the guy thinks too much of himself, but dating at later ages in life for a man is an extremely challenging task.  Yes, many women here let themselves go, as I imagine many men do (check out our obesity and overweight rates as a country).  At later ages for a man, it's difficult for some of us who are very self-capable to find value in a long term relationship.  Guys my age are, for the most part, not looking for a new family again.  

This is a warning to the young men out there: if you find a woman who truly takes care of your needs, hang on to her!

That jab on his height was uncalled for.  Try to take the higher ground, next time.  You aren't above criticism, as none of us are.