I enjoy talking with you Bill?   LOL, couldn't resist.

 I don't think you're either, biased yes but hardly sexist or racist in the sense that you would seek to harm either women or black persons only because of their gender/ skin color.  

And since I'm being fair to you, I feel the same way about Charles.  I have no point of reference to fully feel what being a black man in American feels like.   We're lucky to have a look at one man's life from that perspective.   Not that Charles represents every black man in American, but on this site, we're lucky to have on honest opinion from even one black male and a chance to ask questions!