A few years ago there was a  reality show about wives who go on strike.  The wives got to spend several days at a resort style spa and the husbands  had to take care of the kids and do all the house keeping.  You know what happened?  The men fed the kids and the house work just fine. The kids actually listened and obeyed the dads better than they did to the moms. Without moms yelling orders all the time, there was generally far less stress at home and  they all cooperated   And that lead to a new problem:  the wives couldn't stand the new paradigm of realizing they were causing so much of the problems they were upset about, and that men weren't lazy or incompetent  after all.