Spare me the Cracker Jack box of psycho-babble.  A healthy man has a healthy male ego. God made men to be that way.  A wuz denies the male nature, and regards a male ego as something carried around in a tote sack.  A wuz thinks that way because some feminists --- the extreme kind who don't like men, or even Santa -- have taught wuzzes to think like they do.  To think like you do.  An excess of male ego makes a man a laughable caricature.  Like Mike Dukakis in the tank.  A deficit of male ego makes a man a laughable wuz.  You can't carry your male nature -- which includes your male ego --- around in a sack.  It's part of you, the one who does the carrying.  Your analogy fails.  Your male ego is essential to you, for better or for worse.  "God made them male and female."  Jesus could have mentioned a dozen other attributes, but he mentioned these.  Make it for the better. Don;t be a wuz.