When I was young, I too read some of Kate Millet's writing, and while I get she was a feminist and all about women's rights, at the same time I found her rather appalling in her  hatred of men (I remember reading a passage where she encouraged women from swearing off from relations with men at all).  I'm impressed by the work so many women before me have done to allow us the life we now have, but I'm afraid this was one woman whose drum I had no desire to follow.  

We are all people and are born into the sex we're born into, who have to struggle through life.  Just as men oppressing one half of the female population is appalling so is the idea of women hating the other half.