Sir, I know what Saint Thomas Aquinas says on the subject.  There is no person alive since Aquinas to rival his brilliance.  However, even he didn't get everything right. I am sure you are aware that some of the Church Fathers defended a male only presbyterate in similar ways.  

Sara Butler takes up this question in her book.  I am paraphrasing, but as I understand her, people who argue as you do conflate and confuse Dogmatic facts (revealed Truth) with the explanation of the revealed truth.  

Women were never ordained in the history of the Church.  Some heretical sects ordained women however.  The fathers and Aquinas were explaining why that is.  While their explanation is wrong, it does not follow the teaching is wrong. You want to throw the baby out with the bathwater.  We don't need a change in teaching, we need a better explanation of the teaching.