A study was done where they prepared two actors to assume the roles of HRC and DJT. They simply switched the genders.  So, almost word for word, they had the male actor say what HRC said in the debate and a woman to say what DJT said.

Watching it is amazing.  The man is the one that comes off as condescending and aloof.  The woman (again reading the lines that DJT spoke) came off much better.

"Many were shocked to find that they couldn’t seem to find in Jonathan Gordon what they had admired in Hillary Clinton—or that Brenda King’s clever tactics seemed to shine in moments where they’d remembered Donald Trump flailing or lashing out. "