I think Phyllis would disagree with you.  

But I, personally, agree with you about Lewinsky; not that she was in love with Clinton (giving bjs in not an expression of love), but that she was giving him fellatio as a way to move up in the ranks.  That's why I think this article instead of being even-handed with male/female "victims," should be even-handed with powerful men seeking sex balanced against women providing favors for advancement.