Sympathies, Jay J. Smith.  I hear you...and so do millions of men.  Most of us escape unscathed from seemingly innocuous (and consensual) incidents such as the one you describe.  But ya never know...

Hands up: how many guys, looking back on their younger lives, think, "there, but for the grace of God, go I..."?  Wow.  Too many to count. In the many facets of love, we're all potential victims--of much, much more than the ubiquitous broken hearts and the wistful feelings of "shoulda been/coulda been."

Make no mistake.  Judging from the female backlash of the Ghomeshi charges and trial ("#Ibelieve", etc.), it doesn't matter (1) how well-educated the women are (2) how financially successful the women are (3) how sane and moderate the women are, in all other aspects of life, even (4) how happy they are,  when it comes to this stuff, many exhibit an otherwise-unthinkable degree of irrationality.  It boggles the mind.