No.  You are talking/joking apples and oranges.  

Men who seek ordination knowing women are being rejected due to sexism to obtain the same opportunity are supporting the hatred of women.  

People who are allergic to peanuts should reject the peanuts for their own health.  Fact is the bodies that have the allergies are rejecting the peanut consumption - not the other way around.  

No one is saying people should not watch the NFL because women are not capable of playing football at that level without getting killed trying.  However, if there were positions in the NFL that women were physically capable of competing with men in and they were not being allowed to compete for those positions then it would be proper to boycott Football until the sexist rules are changed.  

It isn't sexism to not offer opportunities that a gender can't perform.  Men won't be hired for wet nursing for this reason.  There is nothing priests or deacons do however that women can't perform so this is sexism.