You obviously are oblivious to Hottubjoe's last sentence.
God is not solely a "he", neither is God solely a "she". God has no need of reproduction, therefore God is genderless. But, God can imagine male and female forms, because Genesis 1:27 emphatically says so: "So God created humanity in God's own image; in the image of God, God created humanity; male and female God created them" (my paraphrase). So, God is male and female, AND God is neither male nor female.
English has no useful pronoun to call a genderless being.
I'd say what Joe calls God is between God and Joe.
And you are limiting God.
God is not created in humanity's image. God is not corporeal. S/He is what S/He is.