The reason the "theology" of "male headship" as you call it, hasn't been discussed is because the Seventh-day Adventist church always understood 'a priori' all the relevant texts and scriptures were straightforward and meant more or less what they said.   The administrative decision some forty years to permit under certain circumstances the ordination of women as local elders was controversial and never discussed by the GC in session because it was controversial.

I have observed you argue 'ad nauseum' that the straightforward reading of the commandment, "thou shalt not kill" doesn't mean you ought nought pack heat for the express purpose of killing other men.  When it comes to that argument Brother Noel, "you da man."

You don't intend to hurt others with mere words, you are prepared to gun them down in the streets.  

Telling an Adventist not to argue about the bible is just wind. If its the Holy Spirit blowing, I would expect a better example from you.