Let me be blunt, What ever I do in my home, that I own, and who ever visits my home, how we decided to celebrate, is not the concern of others not invited. Outside of my home I understand, like the comment by the University President on the hiring of the new foot coach, "Find us a Great Defensive Coach" he said. It was stated for all to hear and for me that was out of place, showed disrespect, unbecoming a man in his position.  It was stated for all to hear, hence I feel that was more offensive than what was done in someone home.  Who ever took the picture and posted it, be a man or woman and stand up and say who you are and not a coward, you really are no friend.