Another attempt to 'translate' what people didn't say. I never said she was a second class citizen nor did she ever think of herself as a second class citizen. You are the one doing the labelling her as second class. I had had the utmost respect and love for my mother, for both my parents, and not once in the time she was alive did I ever consider her to be my or any man's inferior.
My mother, in fact, 'wore the trousers' in my family, I'd love to see her reaction to you calling her second class.