Hi Jay, for me it is humility;  (St Bernard-Humility a virtue by which a man knowing himself as he truly is, abases himself).

Taken from my post in the link below

Martin, an extension to the inclusivity of the open table can be seen in (Matt 22:11) where All are called to the Wedding Feast but one condition is imposed a wedding garment has to be worn, those who original heard this parable would have known instantly that the custom of the day was that the wedding garment was provided free of charge, by the Bridegroom and had to be worn no matter how well one’s own apparel may be, dignitaries etc would conform to this custom as did those with poor apparel, not to do so would be an affront the groom. This garment also created equality (Mutual respect) amongst the guest. I believe that name of this garment is humility; we can deduce this ...
 Continue the in Third Comment.  My Post @ 13/01/2017 at 10:57 am
http://acireland.ie/sexuality-nature-and-justice/

kevin your brother
In Christ