The idea that refugees are cowards, because they don't stay behind and fight the forces controlling their countries, must be a new "talking point" for the alt-Right and reactionary media theses days. I've heard it a lot lately, but still don't understand how women and children, and middle-aged men are supposed to stand up to the Assad regime, Islamic terrorists, and the Russian air forces. Fact checking indicates that about 21% of Syrian refugees are males and 50% of the refugees are women. Only 2% of refugees accepted by the US are from Syria.  Yes, I've read the alt-Right worries that women and children can be terrorists, but I look at the true risks. Currently you stand a greater chance of being killed by your spouse than being killed by a Syrian terrorist in this country. For your safety, I suggest not going to the Middle East, not making your wife/husband feel that they need to kill you, and stop being so scared of everything.