"Meanwhile, he pointed out the other blindness we have when it comes to domestic duties. When people make a huge deal about how great it is he does all the cooking for his family, he understands the praise as a double standard. “I have some friends whose wives do this work and they don’t receive the same accolades,” he says. “And I would never say to my buddy, ‘You’re so lucky to have your wife doing all that.’”

Yep. It surely is a double standard, one that is hopefully on its way out.
I know a few couples where the man does more of the cooking; all of them started cooking when they were kids, and they all have a healthy, practical attitude about it.
It's probably one of the most important parenting choices you can make - requiring your kid to make dinner once a week by the time they are 12. They learn skills that will save them a lot of money and make them healthier later on.