"...but IMO if more women held higher standards for how men should behave in public and how men should treat women, than a lot of these issues would disappear..."   This statement strongly implies that you believe the main reason men grope women is because they get the sense that women really don't mind it.  WRONG. We can always go back 2 the man's childhood to learn what made him a perv, but ultimately, a man selects a particular target because he knows she's too chicken to slug him back or create a big scene right then & there. What's Swift's explanation 4 the position of HER hand? If she allowed him 2 keep groping, like the story says, are we 2 believe her arm & hand are positioned as such because she was trying 2 remove his hand? She claims the groping was prolonged. How hard is it to swipe away the hand and STEP away from the guy? She is NOT an inspiration. An inspiration would have been 2 slug him or create a scene: "HEY EVERYONE THIS PERV JUST GRABBED MY BUTT" and then smack hm