The Big Irony to me is that those who most bemoan a modern world where "It's all about sex" are the same ones who fight to maintain an old world where "It's all about sex." 

Yet for many of them, life's experiences have never been about sex at all.

Teddy Roosevelt might say, "It's not the celibate critic--who never will know neither victory nor defeat--that counts most. It's the men and women daring greatly in in the arena who count more."