Women who are that afraid of being attacked by men everyday on the regular basis are paranoid; it doesn't reflect reality, especially considering that a man is much more likely to be attacked by random people on the street than a woman is. Secondly, the idea of a wage gap based on discrimination against females has already been debunked. Thirdly, it's meaningless to say men don't know what it's like to be women; women also don't know what it's like men and face the pressures and discrimination and negative stereotypes that they have to deal with. 

"This defense...is in fact shallow and lacking in compassion" Men are as responsible for the acts of male abusers as women are responsible for the acts of women who beat or kill their children or abuse their husbands and boyfriends or sexually abuse under-aged students or their children's friends.
"It is a lie to claim to love them and would never abuse them but abuse another woman." Still, most men never abuse any woman in their lives.