A men cant always be to blame. we were happy togother until i got pregant, he was happy but i wasnt, i was scard and now i know i had meltal problem that i did wrost thing and regetful thing of my life. i told the man i love that we should be friends until baby is born because i was confues scard and didnt know if i  want to keep the baby i just need time to think..but thing worst i got crazy unhappy angry that i got pregant and runining his life what was not good unegough to be a mum. month pass and i kept pushing away to the point when baby was born he wasnt there and i get it he dosent think the baby is his as he wasnt there but what hurt was when i found out that he found some one els and she was pregant my heart broke but i was ok because i push him away but i felt he is good men he still be there for his son but wasnt meant to be i try to get him to be part of his son life but i had to let go because i knew my son couldnt conpite agaist this new baby and his happy family.