l2g: "you’ve assumed and you’re 100% wrong in your assumptions."  sir or madam, you're incorrect. ***   l2g: "Gossip. Kills." kill? little dramatic. *** l2g "Get real. I’ve lived thru both issues that I’m addressing and you best just move on if you can’t take my word for it as a woman."  I am real, not going and  you've been raped too?? *** l2g "take  my word for it as a woman."  so you're a woman?  REALLY?   never not once, not ever, ever, ever did I think l2g was a woman.  I wonder if Jade, Gladys and "Cat"(atonic) - assuming they are women...ever got the hit you were a female.  if you are, my apologies for doubting you...if you're not, you might as well change your new screen name to Kaitlyn...you'll never live down trying to impersonate a woman...I don't know...maybe I am assuming right there and you'll feel completely natural. ***  ok - here's the biggie...  how the beans do YOU know what is the truth and what is gossip? AND sincerely, I think you are male, if not - big mea culpa