Whatever, Lee, you have just evaded my question, not answered it. Let's change the scenario, somewhat. A man in a car makes lewd remarks to a woman pumping gas. She frowns at him and shakes her head and continues pumping her gas. He gets out of his car and comes toward her, saying "What's the matter, beech, you don't like me?" Is she allowed to defend herself or not, Lee? Just answer the freaking question, without all the preaching.