" The freedom of a woman to say, "Naw, I don't want to go..."
And the freedom of a boy to say "Yes I want to go to university..." and actually have an equal chance to get there.

But you are right feminists spend a lot of time telling women what they should do. A lot of the time they succeed, sometimes there are epics fails though. Like the attempt to tell women they shouldn't want to look sexually appealing to men. Went over like a lead balloon. Sometimes it is received poorly yet still manages to affect things like the derision heaped on women who chose to be "only a housewife" or "only a stay at home mother".