I don't believe anyone said that all sex is 'forced or unpleasant', that would be silly.  This author tries to make a point and fails.  Why should a woman have to quit her job to avoid a lecher? And saying 'no' is often not enough.  Why should a woman need be 'fine' with being propositioned by a co-worker?  Turn it around: how would a man handle an unwelcome, overly-attentive female? Would he quit, or have her fired?  How can you not see the fallacy?