I never dreamed of giving you "twaddle about disapproving rape, or something similar."  Strange that would have occurred to YOU.  But occur to YOU it did.  Oh, well.  

What you don't get is that we live in a country where the States have been designated by the Constitution to regulate marriage, which they may do unless their regulation violates the Constitution.  Your position --- that the States violated the Constitution by defining marriage to include only one man, one woman --- is absurd.  That was the understanding of marriage both at the inception of the Constitution and at the time the 14th Amendment was enacted.  Neither the text nor the intent of the 14th Amendment say that the States MUST re-define marriage so as to include man-man marriage.  To say it does is absurd.  The argument would have been laughed out of Court 50 years ago, over a hundred years after the enactment of the 14th.  Such logic doesn't matter to the left one whit.  What counts is that you get what you want.