I could not agree with you more. 
We as men, have lost our ability to play on a level platform when it comes to this matter. And, you are correct, most men would be laughed at by other men if we were to report these issues and labeled as weak or unable to control your wife and kids.
Too many liberal interference which indirectly is changing our societal views of men and the ever dwindling battle of respect both from the women and the children.