Where do you find the evidence of God desiring the ordination of women in the life of Jesus, the Scriptures in general, or the history of the Church?

Where is the evidence of God's desiring this beyond the modern phenomena of women feeling "called" to priesthood and the vague cultural zeitgeist toward a blanket sense of "equality" and "justice"?

Your point seems to undermine your argument. It seems as if the bestowal of extraordinary graces on the aforementioned saints, coupled with the fact they those particular women expressed zero desire for ordination, indicates that God doesn't seem to think ordination is important for women (or married men or children or anyone else incapable of exercising this ministry) for achieving holiness.