But that's the point, isn't it? There is no issue with same sex friendship. It is WHEN it becomes sexual that it becomes a problem. I don't think anyone is assuming that they are ONLY attracted because of sex. If it's possible for 2 same-sex attracted men to live together without any sort of sexual contact (though it might be too big a temptation) and they have a deep friendship and love as 2 friends of the same sex can have, then what is the problem? None that I can see.