This perspective has been around forever, and although it's fine, it's also flawed. We're flawed as a society. How about we do something about the way our boys are raised? Why not teach them to have respect for others and themselves by teaching them not to rape, and to clearly define consent (if she's drunk, it's not consent; if she's passed out, there's no consent; if she's naked or dressed in whatever clothes she feels the hell like wearing, that's not consent; if she says "yes", but then changes her mind, that's not consent; etc.) How about teaching young women and men that both men and women are sexual beings, so stop shaming one for being an actively sexual being? Why must women always defend themselves? Why can't boys be taught to be respectful young adults and men? (And my apologies to all decent young male adults and men who were raised this way: I'm not talking about you, and thank you for being who you are.)