A point to ponder. The greatest commission ever undertaken on behalf of God was his son's commission to save humanity.
His son transferred hus commission to his disciples; abd his disciples to us.... where "us" includes men and women.

Do you think marrying two individuals is greater than the gospel commission; or is baptizing an individual greater than  the conversion of said individual. 

If "marrying" and "baptizing" is greater in scope than the "reconciliation" ministry that Jesus requires of his true followers, then ordaining women is wrong. If reconciliation is what men and women both do; then ordaining women is a lesser act; and has no impact on the gospel of salvation.