Mr. Eddie it's time you said goodbye to this part of your career  and leave it for someone with more life experience than the one chick in New York City.  I'm honestly tired of hearing about her.  And she must be tired of having the relationship milked like this year in, year out.  You are not funny any longer and you are not relevant.  And please do not compare your work to that of a serious therapist's.  There is much space for good counselling in this hard to navigate world.
As for the meddling ex.  Give it up.  It's really none of your business.  If you don't like to
hear about it tell the man so.  Give the friendship a rest.  As for the other women, they
are presumably adults and can take care of themselves.  Don't be this man's mother.