You're free to turn away from feminism for whatever reason but I don't get why you call the use of the words "rape culture" nonsense. There is a culture among especially men, as statistics demonstrate they are overwhelmingly the people who commit rape, of obtaining sex without first obtaining consent. There is also a culture of permissiveness when it comes to ignoring rape, failing to test in a timely manner rape kits provided by rape victims and downplaying the effects of rape in the lives of women. Marital rape was legal until 1975, proof that when it comes to the rape of women especially, a culture of rape in fact exists.
It occurs to me that your designation of the idea of rape culture as "nonsense" is part of the culture which the commenter is condemning.