SD:   The Beeb in my eyes does look feminine.   My eyes tell me all I need to know.  I come from a time when if you were a boy, you looked and dressed like a boy.  If you were a girl you were feminine and dressed in soft colors and were polite,  humble etc.  In the last 35 years the boys want to look like girls and girls want to look like boys.   For this REASON, if I am not sure if its a boy or girl, I call it an IT.........., and sometimes a he/she or she/he, or then there is the TRANS. mutilated stuff.  In my time, the males  drove the car with the female riding passenger.  Now,  for  the last three generations its mainly females driving a $500.00 car with a $1.500.00 LOUD Muffler on it  and the males riding  passenger  slumped down in their seats thinking they are cool.  I say, MEN drive their cars, BOYS ride passenger.   Yes, I have a problem with Males nowadays being feminime and females acting Manly.   I  am not abandoning anything, either identify as  a boy or a girl.