The problem with such titles is, intrinsically, neither patriarchal nor matriarchal, but theocratically oligarchal. (Phew! Took me a while to concoct this rhyming confection.) What do I mean? The presumtion, by these people, that they, by virtue of ordination, are now community leaders. Poppycock! Since when did servants become leaders of their households? Jesus bade his disciples to be servants, not masters. Until this lesson has been learned (and it has been 'unlearned' for a very long time), we shall always have problems with clergy, male or female.