As I said, and you confirm,  your sympathy for those who are bullied is nil.

Some time ago, a man wrote a story about his forgiving a man who had bullied him in high school. I posted that I had been bullied in high school, and I would not be able to forgive the ar$ehole who had bullied me. You lit into me for not forgiving him, and showed me zero sympathy. It seemed to me that the only fault you saw was mine; you couldn't bring yourself to say, "He was wrong to bully you." You did not condemn the bully in any way, you only condned me for not for not forgiving him.

Yes. It most certainly does appear that you are blaming the victims of bullying for being a bullied. You have given absolutely no indication of sympathy for the bullied.