Wanda, you were to nice, Wayne, really? Advice for him to tell her? I have some advice, for her, dump this self absorbed ass hat. Love and respect have nothing to do with "your suffering". Your in your 40's? I have some advice for you, grow up, you sound like some teen boy worried about getting his jollies.  This is a woman, not a mouth.  You are the one being selfish asking her to get surgery. Imagine some day she is suffering because, Mr Happy is now Mr giggly...