Why change the context of the trial and pretend you're presenting a similar case?

If a male much larger than you held you down and tried to force his penis into your anus - would it be improper for the judge to ask why you just couldn't keep your buttocks together?

     _____________

I posted that comment previously and, not surprisingly, it was rapidly deleted for "incivility":

Some might want to consider why it is "civil" to discuss this case in great detail when it is vaginal rape, but suddenly "incivil" when the actually (not spuriously) analogous scenario is presented.