Although the author is unaware, #MeToo includes men, lots and lots of men.  For me, a male, it began when I was 4 and ended when I moved away from home at 19. I have a sibling I no longer talk to. This is why. It took me nearly 2 decades to realize I was molested. When I hear someone say, “but it was so long ago, why did it take so long to come forward”, it just does. Get over it. There should be no statute of limitation on child molestation.

As an adult, when going for a resturant job, the owner started touching me and making it clear this was part of the job.

As an adult, in nursing school a doctor pulled me aside and started touching me in a stairwell.

As an adult, when homeless and trying to rent a room, the fellow renting the rooms told me if I tucked him in at night – wink, wink – I could get a discount.