I don't know that you can afford to see the similarities.  Women who have sex can get pregnant and not even remotely get a biological bang out of it.  Not true of men. which is why one of the fruits of war is to rape and pillage.  Impregnating the enemy's women is both a way to prove their superiority and establish their genetic right to subjugate.  This is going on today.

 In other situations it is is precisely the reason I wrote men should be held accountable for the children they abandon from their sexual exploits.  Sex is mostly a free pass when it comes to the children men create.  The only brake on it are religious precepts that demand a wife.  It's plain biology and according to the Church, biology is natural law.  Men should pay the price for the children they abandon no matter how they conceived them.  If the pro life movement is going to insist women pay a criminal or spiritual price for a pregnancy they didn't want, so should men. Period. End of discussion.