PPS - extramarital sex being not a good idea is not exclusive to bible thumping people. For most of our life here on Earth most religions, philosophies + life coaches etc see it as a bad practice. Is it ok for you to go out skirt chasing and leave a wife/kids at home, if yes what is the difference between you and an ally cat? Clinton/Dems  were very clever in making his abusing of women an extramarital sex issue and useful idiots like you still believe it, shame on you. It was not, it is was a power/abusing issue of a powerful man (see Weinstein for a similar example) getting what he wanted with women and let off the hook. See above post, with terrible consequences for US social standards as a whole. Bet if Clinton was a Republican Monica would now be a Dem folk heroine and address all their congresses.