Janell Hafner - as a woman, I'm going to beg to differ with you. A college-aged girl dresses in a skirt so short it almost reveals her panties, then gets sloppy drunk with guys and then chooses to walk out with one of them who is equally drunk. Why is it that we've decided the man has a responsibility to somehow control his biological urges in this situation without any help from the woman?

The whole concept of "date rape" presupposes that a woman can advertise that she is open to sex, ply a man with liquor and then cry foul in the morning when she feels she didn't offer consent. How would she know? She was drunk and so was he. But his only life is ruined. And typically, the only evidence that "rape" occurred is his semen inside of her and her claim that she didn't give consent.

So, yeah, I think (as a woman) that women ought to take responsibility for the way they dress and the outcome of their social interactions. It is not just the man who is stepping over boundaries.