Kate, what of those women that do consent, then, after they change their mind cause of whatever falling out they may have had with the man. 
Is that still fair? Yes, the men that take advantage of women are pigs and deserve what they get. But, the point of this story are the instances when women wake up after a night of drinking, regret what they had done, and then go out on a mission to destroy a man' life because THEY had made a mistake.