Women have control over their own bodies. It's called birth control or abstinence. Men can use control too. If a woman doesn't want to have sex because a man doesn't want to use birth control, it is rape. I'm not sure about abortions. The bible doesn't give us any exact instructions except not to kill. It's not my place to judge you that's between you and God but I know a lot of women that feel guilty after having an abortion. Guilt is usually not a good thing. But like I said that is on your head not mine. I have, even today, seen a back room abortion working in vascular radiology and it is a mess. You really don't want to see it. After I did my work I never saw her again so I don't know if she died but I'm sure she wishes she had. Unless the baby or mom has problems I don't think you should be allowed to abort in the third trimester. If you couldn't make up your mind by then you should carry the baby. At that point the baby can live outside mom.