I doubt that many members of the Curia have invited God to express any opinions in its dealing of/with women.  And the Curia [comprised completely by human beings] DOES make policy that effects women as well as men.

You are expressing the IDEAL in your comments about participative membership.  The REALITY of church policy is FAR, FAR from the ideal.  That is just part of the corruption of what goes on in the Vatican.  

President Trump stated that he wanted to drain the swamp in Washington.  It is a lot harder to exorcise some demons who wear scarlet and walk the halls of the Vatican.