" I was told that I was talking about disadvantaging men. I thought... well maybe, but we are already here, so it's not going to hurt us.."

Wow! You are sitting pretty, so who cares about the young men eager to join you? Pretty selfish imo.

I'm a woman, and am all for equality and encouraging women to be all they can be, but believe penalizing today's men to make up for past wrongs is both unjust and  couterproductive. It is producing justifiable resentment.