So shoving our wives and daughters out into a bunch of bashers and molesters as pastors is the answer?  Because some failed to teach the children?

We work with the male and female survivors.  There are many more males than females abused, they are just more reluctant to seek help.  We see it in society and as pastors.    

Maybe we should worry about the children, who are almost 40% of the time were abused by the mother?  Maybe we should worry for those that die or allowed by the mother almost 40% of the time?  Or maybe since 60% of those that die are male, they do not deserve our worry?  Maybe in teaching our children (male and female), we would not need the almost 30,000 new jail cells for the female prison population; while the male population is going down.

Just bringing the issue to neutral.  Evil is everywhere.  We Love our wives and daughters and would sacrifice all for them.  This still does not justify getting lost in the cause by blinding focus.