Hollywood is a hard row to hoe , When my sister Graduated college , Dad expected her  to go to law or medical school, When she turned down an on air gig at CNN and opted for California and fame Dad was dejected but he kept quiet , She stayed for 10 years did a few small B movies, Behind the scenes work on several major films, Nell, Last of the Mohicans, FLED, etc,  lots of cameo's on local and national commercials , Friends , Seinfeld, and 7th Heaven  but eventually she married an Oscar winning Sound man and moved back to NC , Today she has two beautiful sons and lives a great life with lots of stories.