Very well put, Fr. Reese. Thank you. In divine sensitivity, Jesus Himself passively accepted the violence of others, even to the final violence of death unjustly imposed by civil authority. Violence against anyone is not a rightful human act, especially, not in husband/ wife relationships.
Righteousness and justice cannot abide willful violence, especially, not in the husband/ wife relationship. In common decency, and for justice-sake, a woman should not be forced to abide wrongful, hurtful male willfulness - nor be denied the fullness of woman/ man relationship if she has suffered the misfortune of getting into such a violent relationship. This is a sensitivity God would bless, imho.