Lady, I am single with two college aged sons living with me, 19 and 23 years old with hormones and neither of them are out murdering 10 year old young girls. I refuse to move a man, boyfriend or whatever into my home until both of my sons are raised and independent just for this reason alone. I am actually doing what a normal mother does , that's teaching my sons to be kind honest men with integrity and to teach them to respect women. Gee, what a thought ~