Your attitude welcoming the abuse is part of the problem.  It encourages the women to do the same things.   It makes it seem like ALL men want to be targeted.   Try career fields like acting, athletes, CEO's, music stars, similar positions.  Sometimes its fans, sometimes employees.  One of the reasons people from these positions can also sometimes be sexual abusers is they get the wrong idea that every woman wants them after a number of women have tried to seduce them or people like the assaulter.   I am not saying the assaulter is right, just as the women are not right to throw themselves at the people.