I have to say that I am always amazed at the amount of vitriol that always emerges in articles like this one. I always considered myself a feminist- and I am very old. I grew up in the fifties- and was shocked at some of  the social mores around at the time. 
What we wanted was equal rights- to our own jobs, (without having to resign if married and/or pregnant), equal pay for equal work, the right to have credit in your own name, the right to maternity leave, the right to contraception and abortion, the right to adopt children, and so forth.
Many of those goals have been achieved- although  I do remember a man in my graduate class saying, "Remember, we won't give up power- you might have to just take it".
Perhaps I am just mellowing with age, I am still angered by  injustice .
However, I certainly don't understand the vicious criticism hurled at Sophie Gregoire when she points out the need to include men and boys in our journey towards understanding.
Why can't we support one another?.