Hi Dan, thanks for a great article. I agree with your overall reasoning but I think you may have partially missed the point of said feminist complaints. Part of the objection that feminists have with men expressing outrage "as a father" is that it implies that their appreciation for women is new, and has only begun once they experienced fatherhood. A more acceptable version might be to express outrage "as a son, husband, father and friend of women". Feminists in question are worried that this kind of language enables people to ignore "women's problems" unless they have daughters. It's a subtle point, but one worth engaging with I think.