The two aren't mutually exclusive.  Any man who rapes a woman is lower than scum and should spend a large portion of his years in prison.  Likewise women who falsely accuse men of rape should face the same prison term their accused would face if he actually raped someone.  And everyone men and women need to stop using alcohol as an excuse.  Too much to drink isn't an excuse for raping someone, nor is it an excuse to accuse rape after a consenting the night before.