A truly brainwashed person, brainwashed to believe that she is responsible for the actions of others. True, Walmart has a lot of power to control shoplifting: they can put all their stuff behind glass and bars, but they aren't responsible for the shoplifting just because they don't. Likewise women who don't wear "don't hit me" signs aren't responsible for being hit. But if I was trying to get out of  my actions, I might try to get someone else to take the blame: say, my victim. A lot of girls who try to get approval from men do what she did.