Starting to? My divorce experience in the early 1990's was so horrifying I promised to never do it again!  Clearly I must have committed a major criminal act by agreeing to marriage, even though I was not the one responsible for the failed marriage.  
It used to be men received some benefit from marriage, such as at least the veneer of belief the children they were raising might actually be their children.  This is still the assumption in many legal jurisdictions, even as paternity testing technology has erased this belief in favor of reality.  My decision to not marry again allowed me to retire at 51 years old.  Had I experienced a second divorce I NEVER would have been financially able to retire.