By the time my child was five years old , my child knew you could be born a girl and in the brain be a boy  or the other way around.  Many are born with girl bodies and girl brains etc but sometimes its not always the case.  Respect the person and support the person who feels and thinks different then what their body part may be.   My child also knew you can grow up and marry a man , or a woman.   Love is love and never ever let anyone tell you its not right and never let someone bully another person because they are different. 

Parents do so much damage to children's lives and giving them oppressive religious mantras as their right to shun and hate another is  WRONG.   Conservative thinking, parochial thinking is rooted in religion which seems to seed the notion of one's right to condemn, chastise and hate.  

Parents teach you children about love and accept people to be the gender they know instrinsically they are. 

Inclusion for all Genders, parental hate hands off.