I taught my boys that they have to do the work for themselves AND the girl.  That they were responsible for the girl, even if she was throwing herself at them (which, sadly happens and happened too much because the girls were not taught how to be ladies) that they had to be a gentlemen on her behalf.  Because if something happened it would be the boy they came after, not the girl.  She would just get away with her provocative behavior and they would hold him responsible.  He would be on the hook for child support if a child were produced and he would be the one responsible if she later cried rape.  Yes, girls and women need to be taught that if you dress like a $2 whore and rub up against a guy and heaven forbid add alcohol to the mix, you are asking for trouble.  So I want to read an article about how to teach your girls not to put themselves in vulnerable positions where a cad can take advantage of them.  The responsibility is on BOTH parties.