Sorry but I so disagree with you . I'm 61 years old, and it's not *simply part of urban life*.  Nobody has the right to touch your body without your permission. Whether it's an unwanted massage or a grope of the breasts, it is NOT SIMPLY URBAN LIFE LIKE HAVING YOUR BIKE STOLEN.. you see my dear, your attitude is just another mindset to allow men to do as they wish. In my day, we didn't speak about being groped, harassed, manhandled, raped, abused etc. Why???? because heaven forbid the neighbours might find out and think you were a slut. In my day, YOU ASKED FOR IT  was the norm and accepting any kind of touching, harassment or anything physically unwanted as * simply urban life* is to belittle a woman's feelings. I have lived through that era and I sure as hell don't want my daughter or granddaughter to live through that mindset. So no, you are wrong on all counts.let the #metoo continue it's viral publicity. Let's continue to speak out and against all forms of  harassment. !!!!