I guess I'm very confused about sexual harassment. I thought that it's only harassment if a person at work continues to make sexual advances after the first request. Are you saying that a man cannot ask a woman at work if she would be interested in him at all? We work all the time, where else is there to meet these days? I could see it as harassment if the guy kept it up like this maroon is doing, but what if it's just the one time and he is just testing to see if the gal he likes might reciprocate? Also, shouldn't both parties be brought in to discuss the matter? Wouldn't this give both the opportunity to clarify their actions or to clear the air regarding the situation?