Huff post is not above using false stats to get their agenda across.   It also depends on how you define rape.   Do you also include "force to penetrate" in those stats or not?   In other words do you include those times when men are drunk or asleep or similarly incapacitated to find that they are in the middle of having sex?   If not, that explains the false stats.  I know you claimed my previous links were from 'fake news' sites, but they did include some truths.   
Some of those same TV shows and movies that you mention also show that it is okay for women to attack men.   Even Wonder Woman says that is okay.  Some of that same culture says that exhibitionism is okay.   How about Miley Cyrus after she left Disney and Madonna?  I especially liked the example that Madonna  told women to use sex to their advantage.   Do not tell me that women have not been doing that forever?