Having actually dealt with this man in the past I can definitely say if he was lonely it's because everyone avoided him for their own safety. He was a known stalker, he became extremely aggressive towards me when I turned him down for a request for sexual activities. He sent me many genital pictures no matter how much I asked him not to. And then when he finally got the picture he became aggressive and began calling me every name under the sun. His tone quickly changed from I want to do sexual stuff with you to you're fat and ugly anyway. A day before this I had received a few messages from some friends of mine that were being stalked by him and warned me to just block him. Needless to say I did indeed block him and still have him blocked. This guy has a huge amount of mental issues, diasociation, psychotic tendencies, and a lack of being able to distinguish the difference from what real life is and the fantasy world he created for himself. Perhaps prison is the best thing for him.