my friend, you have lost all credibility on this issue.  the posts are singularly pointing out the same thing.  does that not tell you that maybe it's you and not the other posters?  perhaps some self education or  a men's group discussing the issue...an anthropology class and how the awareness of what is inappropriate and the after effects of being victimized, including male victims?  I would not want to believe that you are the stereotypical woman hater.  resentful, empathic and ignorant, again in defined sense of the word - no name calling.  please , just spend some time looking into the current information known about this transgression and violation of another.