I would feel worse about it,  but this is a story of a privileged male just now realizing that there is still gender discrimination!  I'm sorry you lost your dream job.  Join the club.  I gave up the career i loved after 13 years of being told i couldn't be promoted because I  don't have a penis nor "know my place as a woman." Every woman you know has lost a dream job.  To a man.  So because one man lost his,  and FINALLY realized things aren't equal,  we should what?  Parade?  Protest?  Weep?