It is called taking personal responsibility for your health. Learn how to eat better, exercise, reduce your stress. Women are not shoving poison down their throats, although you wish this was true. Why are men never responsible for theirs actions? It is called the male privilege card which gets activated in utero. They get "chosen" to be born (where do they experience abortive sex selection?) & from there on they can  do wrong..."boys will be boys", "she shouldn't have worn that she was asking for it"...yada yada. The new version is yours: men are discriminated against, boo hoo, after having privilege for centuries, some men can't hack it when they have compete on a somewhat leveled playing field. Darwin