I was sexually assaulted IN MY OWN HOUSE by a visitor (of my roommate's) while I was IN MY BED sleeping. I started drinking IN MY OWN HOUSE prior to his arrival. I continued to drink while he was there, then went to my bedroom to go to sleep. I was not drunk. 
Should I be responsible for his actions? No! 
Should I have stopped drinking when he showed up because he may think that I wanted sex from him? No!

I am not spiteful. I do think that women need to take responsibility and be aware of their surroundings and actions. However, men need to do the same. What I am unaccepting of is men hiding behind the argument of using women's actions as a reason to sexually assault someone else. 

The argument of "men being men" is so outdated. Allowing this kind of thinking to go on, removes responsibility from the equation. Men and women are able to make choices, they should know right and wrong.