Uh, Bill.  The best way to have no "victims" is to have no perpetrators... If men treated women with respect and decency, there would be no "victims" of sexual abuse and sexual harassment.  Your "defense" of "well, women do it too" is hogwash.... Rarely do we hear of a case of a woman involved in sexual harassment of a male.  When we do, it makes headlines as the story of a female teacher becoming involved with an underage male student.  Instead of dodging the issue of male initiated sexual abuse and sexual harassment, how about some ideas how to end it.....Gary Crum