Modern feminism doesn't want reality. It wants a utopia without consequences, without personal responsibility, without risk, with never ending deference, and without all the messiness of real humanity. 

It's not prepared for a world where we have a few hundred thousand sociopaths wandering our streets in Canada, where as much as 60%-70% of our men in prison for sexual assault were themselves assaulted, typically as children, and typically by female caregivers. Where prisons are full of people suffering from mental illnesses, drug and alcohol addictions, FAS/FAD, parental physical and sexual abuse, etc.  I stopped going to bars, mid 20s, because it wasn't worth the hassle, the 'hassle' being drunk a-holes terrorizing and assaulting people. Sure, in that utopia I wouldn't have to, but this is reality.

You know who wanders through life expecting all of life's issues to be handled by a small army of servants tasked with making sure nothing untoward EVER happens to them? Princesses.