And the fiddle-back chasuble .  
What I have seen is men who were ordained at the age of 40 ish.  Interestingly enough they have no people skills whatsoever , are actually frightened by having to stand in front of  the assembly  .  Or the fear manifests as almost belligerence  .
It seems they are given a position at the chancery involving priestly vocations or the liturgy .  How did the Seminary fail to notice these men were truly suffering ?  
It is truly sad  .