What concerns me about these gender conflicts  is that advocates for both sides go beyond demanding their personal rights, to demeanong people who do not make the same choices.  

There is a hubris that makes us all believe that we are making the 'right' choice, when in fact there is no need, nor should there be an expectation, that our choice is the only choice.    Gender role disagreement isn't any different.

We have found a lot of 'middle ground' in the last 30 years for women and their life ambitions beyond a domestic role.   Each of those changes will effect men as well. (grudgingly)  Ignoring the affect on one gender roll change on the other gender, is a mistake.

It would be a good for both men and women to take a more liberal view on gender roles. Women and men, should have multiple options for life choices that lead them to happiness.   Men and women of like spirit, will continue to have families and raise children.  Love doesn't disappear.