I do not understand what you mean by "very unattractive men", or "men with very high sex drives". I don't agree, as you suggest, and maybe just don't understand your attestation that "they do not get to rape, assault or verbally abuse women". You seem to perpetuate the notion that women are to blame by "provocative" dress, that men are no more than a skinnerian triggered "dog", and women exercising choice are no more than a pork chop.