Men and women are not the same. Most women can not do the high stress jobs that men can. Often women will realize they are happier making less money in a less stressful job and spend more time with the family.
This Marxist narrative of gender equality is dangerous. It is pushing women to be something they are not and the evidence you can see all the time when women can fall.  Men too are pushed to be more feminine it can have disastrous consequences.