What exactly do you mean by "being taught how to be men?" So are you saying you treat your daughters like marshmallows and your sons like rocks...teach them to be tough...teach them to be boss who has to look out for the "little woman?" How about we just teach our children of both genders to be strong, loving, caring, open, faithful, accepting of differences, responsible, willing to be vulnerable, prayerful, concerned for the common good, always able to say "How can I help"...well, I'm only speaking from my own experience of co-parenting with a wonderful husband and our two adult children in their thirties got the message and they are both wonderful adults of whom we are terribly proud. Just sayin'