The comments about the prevalence of rape culture are well taken, but I'm not sure the author is being fair to her husband. Often when a child hits or bites their sibling there is a trigger (taking a toy, excluding etc). The husband's choice of words are poor, whatever it was wouldn't have "made" the boy bite his sister, the poorly formed self control of a toddler did. That's quite different than blaming a victim of sexual assault. Again, none of this justifies the prevalence in our society of suggesting that a women asked for it when sexually assaulted, or that she put herself in the position, or that it's her fault, all of which displays deeply seeded sexism and stereotypes. I too worry for my 7 year old daughter.