"Tell a woman see looks good and get written up for sexual harassment"  unless the woman finds the man making the comment attractive/desirable and then she's all fluttery over the compliment. Women can dress as attractive/provocative as they want and then get to chose what's a compliment and what's harassment.  Conversely, unattractive/obese women can flaunt themselves around and any comment they "feel" is "demeaning" is considered abuse/harassment. 

Advice to young American men:  look for your partner elsewhere, i.e. Eastern Euorpe, Latin America, etc.