I am a man, and content to remain so. However, sometimes I fantasize that "If I Were a Woman..." (imagine a Fiddler on the Roof parody inserted here), life would be...interesting. The spontaneous change of someone from one gender to another is often a plot device in fairy tales, and also in a heartwarmingly silly science fiction B-movie "Zerophilia" from about 10 or 12 years ago, which, curiously, is set in a generic, nameless Oregon town which just happens to have Skinner Butte in its middle and the University a little to the southeast of that.

I think you may need to lean to laugh a little and not take everything so seriously or literally.