Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I appreciate and respect all the posters here. But I must disagree that society only tells women what to do but never men.  I went to university in the '90s. My acceptance letter was a thinly-veiled threat to watch oneself with the ladies. It was gender-neutral, but being an awkward teenager excited about post-secondary education but being cautioned about sexual assault and sexual harassment in an acceptance letter was quite an experience. I should have saved it. Even then, there was talk of policies that allow expulsion of students for allegations of any sexual misbehavior. There was never a shortage of newspaper articles suggesting that men are sexual predators. 

"No means no" is a good rule (~1990), but now we are entering the affirmative consent lunacy of Mandi Gray et al. I think it is good to instill "don't do a drunk chick" as a societal norm. Consent education is good, just don't let it get hijacked by the Marvin-Zuker types.