Mr. Larson, I'm afraid you missed or are unaware of a few very important aspects of sexual harassment. First, the woman was at work, not a singles bar. This is her job, and it's made all the more difficult when she has to deal with brutish men who think they're being clever. Second, the very nature of harassment, of any kind, is about power and control. In this case, a society that heretofore rewards men for such brazen assertiveness has led some men to feel entitled. What he did was neither a joke nor a compliment; it was an expression of power that demeaned (or attempted to) its target. That the flight attendant reclaimed both her dignity and power is to cheered. I hope you can see this situation through her eyes and learn something from the experience.