But just when do you think that will in fact happen?  A withdrawal from the third debate will allow her the chance to address this "toe-to-toe" mentality directly, that Trump has prevented her from doing since the start, by presenting the decision as being Trump's fault.  Attacks are not debate.  As we saw from the maneuvers of the Trumpettes in this town hall (which it was not) arrangement, Trump stacks the auditorium with "plants" who disregard the rules, who whooped and clapped at Trump's statement of jailing Hillary,  who are intended to throw HRC off with a parade of women from Bill's past, and who disrupt moderators and audience alike.  I fully agree with you last sentence of "As a woman, she has an extra responsibility here to not allow this guy to bully her."  But I fully disagree with your method of her doing so.