Today_I_AM_Back, you are being a deaf and maybe wilfully ignorant on purpose, I fear. The rape culture claim does not say the entire society and every aspect of it tolerates rape. The claim is that sexual assault and abuse is too often normalized, explained away, or forgiven. There is TONS of very clear evidence that this is the case, and you need to wake up to it. What, you've never heard about complainants being told they asked for it? Judges being kicked off the bench? People saying boys will be boys? Do you even read the news? And look at the sheer number of informal assault stories that are coming out. The term 'rape culture' was designed in the 1970s as a strident formulation to get people to wake up to things as they are. You're mad about the term so that means you're awake. Now, think hard on the problem. Women need men's help on this matter, not knee-jerk critiques of their arguments.