Well I'm proud to say that last May 28th, I went to Greenhill cattery and secured an adoption of a male feline: Ollie.  He's adorable.  I have to say the women they had working that day were incredible kitten protectors.  There were two people before me.  One was a young college girl w/her Father.  The young girl went to the restroom and the cattery mom came up to the dad and said "I'm not going to approve your daughter for a kitten.  The young woman came back and I heard the mom state: "You're in a new place, doing new things and you're feeling scared, overwhelmed and you want to adopt this kitten, right?  The think is, when you start getting more solical?  Make friends ?  You're going to get more active and will be home less and less.."  Mom then touched the young woman's arm and said "then your new kitty will be all alone".  Would you consider coming back in 3 months and if you still want to adopt,  you can? "  Tje young woman took it well & I hope dad got her an ice cream.