Enrico, I will not touch on the question of gender roles with you for there are not enough characters provided here to do so.
The concept of power however is something that is utilized both in religion and the civil world, and your concept of it I see as skewed. It would be well worth your while to read again the Gospel encounters and reactions related of Jesus and the proper use of power. His model is a servant/ master. Both women and men in positions of authority get to use power. One does so in the world of business, the military and even as a parent. When used properly humans move forward, grow and progress under the care of the one in charge. Power can accomplish good when used with respect, never lording it over the person being directed.
Using Jesus' concept of power engenders in the one being lead, loyalty, respect and appreciation for the good direction given. Both women and men can follow this model and achieve good results. It worked for me over four decades as a teacher.