Then I hope to god the likes of you are never around when a woman is under threat from a man as you will be more worried about how ladylike her behaviour is than the fact that she, and/or her bevy of little kids are being intimidated, assaulted and bullied. 

If I had been there and seen that I would have stepped in. I dont stand around and disect how people under threat behave, I act to help them and protect them from the threat. Again, this woman is a hero. 

This is why black women and children are murdered so often in this country...