Don't tell anyone but during the Creed, I (a man) omit "men" from the phrase "For us men and our salvation" and I say "human" instead of "man" at the end of that sentence. Our church no longer holds hands during the Our Father, but some hold their hands out and some do not.  Some bow before receiving communion (some suddenly down to a right angle or even further so that the priest or other distributer has to watch carefully and keep a good hold on the hosts), a few kneel and receive on the tongue, some stand and receive that way, most receive in their hands, some take wine from a common cup and some don't.  
Should we have Mass cops, like 1950s nuns sternly watching grade school kids every move?