Wow...  this system of 'moderation' -- or whatever it is -- is looking more and more like a bad joke.  There was nothing 'uncivil' about Farmgrrl's comment, but given that one of her main points was that men's concerns are ignored and any defense of men derided, I'm sure the irony of having just such a comment censored here is not lost on those who up-voted it.  At this point the Globe is just embarrassing itself.