In the book of genesis God said he created man and women and it was good.  His first commandment is to be fruitful and multiply.  Anything contrary to this original plan of creation is a product of the sinful nature of our body's which have not yet been resurrected and perfected in Christ and are prone to illness disease and many abnormalities.  We are questioning Gods plan and telling him you made a mistake when we let our feelings overcome our biobiology. Embracing the sinner is the right thing to do embracing the sin is not if we are seeking our promise of eternal life with Christ and perfection of the soul to overcome this world which is in overcoming the yearnings of our sinful bodies.  God is the creator not men we worship God not man and accept Gods teachings no matter how difficult or uncomfortable for the sake of our souls and eternity.  Few will make it to the finish line because the new religion is worshiping the creature rather than the creator who knows better than us.