ms, hart also has kids and especially for their sake i hope mommy is ok.  we women need to make smarter, more informed choices.... have a better opinion of ourselves, and make choices where  we don't "settle" out of insecurity.... where we make  a step up if possible.  the women at the festivals, letting themselves be alone in high risk situations - bad choices.  shouldn't matter..a women - anyone - should feel and be safe where ever, but happenstance has showed us that's not the case. 
  You said it a few days ago  - to kinda paraphrase (?!?) " ladies - get a grip on yourselves and quit - just quit trusting so much and putting yourselves into situations with the odds stacked AGAINST you.   you're not looking to set yourself up - you don't see yourself thru the eyes of a predator - but they can pick you out of a crowd  - and cut you out of a crowd. don't go to bars alone - don't leave your drink out of YOUR POSSESSION - EVER , don't get yourself alone with an unknown man.  EVER!