Victimization doesn't have a gender. The UCR has shown for years that men and women experience violent crime in proportions almost exactly in line with their proportion of the population, so we're ALL potential victims, and the need to separate us out into gender pools isn't there, for the most part.  

I stopped going to the bars by my early 20s, because being a smaller man meant I was a target for larger a-holes who drank themselves into a stupor and went around looking for someone to beat on. They improve their odds with a smaller man, so short guys are their favourite target. Sure, I could whine that this isn't fair, that I shouldn't have to moderate my behaviour to avoid their thuggery, or I could stamp my feet and complain that I'm the victim and the world should revolve around me. In a utopia, I wouldn't have to!

But we don't live in a utopia. We live in Canada, and so I was assaulted a couple times, then I learned to avoid bars and the violence stopped.