LW1 - can i have that boys email?  I'd like to tell him to RUN.  Babymakers just cant wait to make babies.  Meanwhile, a 20 yr old male is still a boy mostly unable to see the consequences of his choices because unlike the babymaker, he probably has no idea what he is getting himself into.  The great sex is the first thing to go.  Then the long haul working year after year.  Then the midlife reality.  The lying, cheating, mental games.  Oh yes young boy, RUN.