Gotta feel for the average guy these days - they're being told they should be more like women, and if they're not, they are either villains or pathetic losers. 
While I think it's unfair, sometimes I think it's also a kind of karmic justice, a backlash against the historical nastiness between the sexes (some of which is still rampant in other parts of the world).  
At the same time, I personally regret the modern trend of trying to make men more like women (or women for that matter more like men).  As a woman, I like the balance of the male and female energies (and yes, that means we do react to things differently, are better at performing different tasks, and solve problems differently), and am not quite reconciled to the completely housebroken sensitive male myself.