When women or men are sexually abused it splits their personality allowing them to disconnect or disassociate. If it makes the feels empowered it may be that they are the ones nw in charge of the situation.
And coming on the heels of the president elect's comments on women and their personal parts, I was hoping there would be a discussion on FB and elsewhere from women who have been groped and abused showing how wide spread and to varying degrees sexual abuse of all levels affects a large portion of women and girls.