"just on here because you hate women"
Well you see there you go being a good example of what the article talks about. You make some statements. A male questions the validity of some of them and makes a perfectly reasonable comment about personal bias and your reaction is to try and paint him as a woman hater. That kind of knee jerk extreme reaction is part of what Wente is talking about.
Oh and when you don't refute the logic or the facts and instead you make an ad hominem argument it is almost always an admission that you have lost the argument but simply cannot make yourself admit to it.