"According to you: women receive all of the DV services but the murder by partner remains at an outrageously high (disproportionate) rate."

I gave you the benefit of the doubt, but you truly are that ragingly dishonest and I see now that I should never have even bothered.  The one with the agenda here is you, and you're bending and twisting stats around like a gymnast.

In Alberta last year, because of the recession, there was 19 000 people that tried to use our shelter services.  NINETEEN THOUSAND.  So, you think that because 67 out of 83 people killed last year by their spouse were women that we should make sweeping, broad bans on men in our shelter systems, in all 455 shelters in the country, dealing with thousands and thousands of people a year?  45 000 men said in the GSS they'd been beaten by their spouse in the last 5 years.  45 000.

How the hell do you sleep at night? When you work this hard to justify purposefully denying people services, there's something wrong with you.