Just reading the many articles about how men are treated colleges, (granted the most egregious stories come from ivy league or California colleges), I have begun to think that a college degree for a man can be like an abusive marriage for a woman. Depending on where you go, and how many gender courses they have, you are told you are not learning as fast, you are potentially evil, your very gender renders you a useless human being, etc. I know women who have been told things like that by their husbands, and have been at the same time convinced that they can't make it in life without that relationship. Sounds very much to me like what men are told by colleges that are literally raping them, or their parents, of tens of thousands of dollars. If I had to make that choice, I think I would be a plumber: the income is great, the job security is great, and the stench is less permanent.