Trump's "banter" is not the issue; it's the behavior he bragged about that is at issue.  I believe that most people in the entertainment industry, like most people generally, are decent people; but some of them, enamored of money and power, think there are different rules for "stars."

<<Your comments about a man raping his wife are flat out false, as there is precedent for husbands being convicted of forcibly raping their wives.>>

I said at the time that Trump's first wife accused him of rape, a man could not legally rape his wife: at the time -- the 1970s, that was generally true, and it was the defense offered by Trump's spokesman.  It is not true now.  Here is a report about a Trump spokesman offering that defense as recently as last year:
http://www.cnn.com/2015/07/28/politics/donald-trump-adviser-michael-cohen-rape/