Janelle, Your view contradicts the plain testimony of Scripture. I prefer to not resolve areas of misunderstanding with dogmatic assertions that contradict the Bible. 

Scripture also forbids a man from laying with another man as with a woman; nevertheless, that passage is also greeted with hostility by some. If I agree with the Bible, I'm denounced as a"homophobe."

Abortion is mandated in cases of adultery [trial by ordeal for suspected adultery] but many people consider abortion wrong. If I agree with Scripture, I'm denounced as a "baby killer."

Capital punishment was also required by Scripture for certain crimes, including rape. If I favor capital punishment, I'm considered a sponsor of "state sanctioned murder."

Agreeing with Scripture that women should not passively accept victimization earns me the title of "misogynist" and so on and on and on.