Problem is, the whole "shoulder massage" thing can be taken out of context, particularly if the lady in question went out with the unknown masseur a few times for coffee, which she took as purely social, but he interpreted as something more - and which she wasn't in a rush to dispel.

 I'd say that in vast majority of relationship at some point people do "sexual assault" to each other - and enjoy it; thing is, a lot of men, particularly - younger men, overestimate the state of the relationship, and the ladies in question can be genuinely upset by the premature advances.