Are you kidding me ?  If your words are any clue , I feel sorry for your kids.  What kind of mother would say that kids are wiser than adults ?    Would you let your young kids go to an R or X rated movie because you think they are wise enough to make that decision ? Of course you wouldn't--or maybe you would .  Impressionable kids shouldn't be allowed anywhere near this event.   It hurts and damages them before they are old enough to even understand the roles of males and females . What is wrong with you ?  A big part of our problem today is bad parents .  Without positive role models kids suffer .