There is positively no such thing as gender expectations.  Children naturally behave in the manner that their biology tells them to.  Something like 99.7% of children are biologically either male or female.  Those who are not, the 0.3% of the population, enjoy incredible rights and freedoms in this tolerant society we call the Commonwealth of Justin's Lady Trousers, otherwise known as Cana-duh.

Leah McLaren was once:
*witty
*clever
*amusing
*attractive

Leah McLaren is no longer:
*witty
*clever 
*amusing
*attractive