Why are these seperate incidents a problem for you?  Those aren't anywhere close to your life.   We have 10s of millions of fine relationship happen every moment of every day.   It's good to be concerned about assault and any rise in domestic violence should be taken very seriously.      Media always seems to sell us on the negative.

There isn't one perfect relationship design between men and women.    Millions of couple are happily married and the divorce rate is actually dropping last time I looked.   I do not like man hating conversation.   I do not like woman hating conversation.     

We gotta figure out what succesful relationships look like.  Looking at sick relationship every day doesn't giver us any direction except toward hate and that damages both the guilty and the innocent.  

Guess I'm tired of the fighting