Your interpretation of Paul's word is Calvinism, and wrong, I might add. Paul uses a Greek word for authority, which is not the normal word for it, but describes an abuse of power and domineering attitude with corresponding actions. Hardly suitable for an elder, whether a man or a woman. This is were the knowledge of Greek helps to see the issue Paul discusses, while most English translations miss it totally. Furthermore, there is no ordination of elders in Scripture. Laying on hands is not ordination.