When did women get so whiny? He groped me, he didn't treat me right, he cheated on me, he abused me...etc., etc. I hate to tell you this, ladies, but there are some women who just DON'T put up with this nonsense. It's not like we're in the Middle East where women are sometimes stoned to death for "leading men astray" when they've been raped. This is the U.S.A., you have all the legal protection and assistance you need if you want it. "A woman used badly by a man she loved too much." Let me tell you something, Elise, that doesn't happen to women with good self esteem. They walk away and leave the man groveling and begging for her to come back. But she doesn't go back.