LW1 seems to not be able to live without a man in her life.  She needs to fix her picker first, and learn to live independent of anyone else. And Amy is spot-on about bringing another man into her son's life.  Sounds like it'll end up being a revolving door of "daddies" or "uncles" in this young boy's life. Not good. She needs to parent this boy instead of focusing on her sex life. Keep the two areas separate for now!