Thank you for bringing this topic up and I myself have inquired about the truth in a neutral way with male peers. You are entirely correct and frankly it's utterly ridiculous for anyone to assume Trump's comments about women are normal. The lack of response from the male listeners to Trump's comments at the time are a clear indication. I want to believe that the majority of men in this country are higher and more dignified  than his repulsive example of Man, otherwise I think we'd be an entire country of overnight feminists!