Huh, that is sad to read (Had you said that to my wife, as someone who she just met, it would depend on her mood. If in a good mood, she would probably just walk away from you . If in a bad mood, you would get an earful about being a jerk.)

Our daughter, who is a very slender excellent physical condition  "All American Wholesome" girl, loves that her hard work and playing ice hockey (really really well on men's teams) is respected and noticed. Her appearance as a 'Female Object' does not matter to her at all so she remains "Non-thin skinned" when someone takes notice.

My friend loves when people notice and comment on her care and respect for her own body. Hard work. Eating right. Running marathons. She is also very pretty but she does not care about that.

Guess my two personal examples are far more secure in who they are as a person and in themselves. Their appearance as a Female Object matters naught, but their care and respect for their own human bodies matters Greatly.