So there has to be a victim before there's a crime? Since when....  How does driving over the speed limit on an empty highway hurt anyone? With statutory rape, who's the victim?  If the child is the victim, then why have men pay a higher price than women? The crime is the same.  Just admit you're into using what ever makes you feel good and so what if the law says it's illegal. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone what does it matter.