"I assure you such "boorish behavior" occurs before the target has any chance to ponder "consent." "

Yes, but you've also demonstrated a willingness to assume the most negative, hateful intentions of others actions, simply because you don't agree with the outcomes. Your assurances of yet another interpretations isn't of any significance to me. You're free to actually argue the point, but simply asserting it means nothing.

"And "she lets you" describes an environment in which men hold the power, and there are high costs to striking back."

In other words, you think women are weak and helpless. that they are perpetual victims. perhaps you think women should always have a chaperone escorting them when they leave the house? Since men hold the power, perhaps it should be a male relative?

I'm curious, do you not realise the self defeating nature of your assertions? Feminists like you always define society as entirely controlled by men, denying women's own power (and reality).