Well, if you embrace your masculinity you're called toxic on today's campuses.  If you're a male you're seen as a rapist just waiting for the opportunity on today's campuses and all it takes is for one girl with regret for sleeping with you to claim rape, and without due process and with no evidence the man is expelled.  Regardless of sex, if you don't wholly embrace radical leftwing views you are less than human with a real danger of having your grades weaponized against you by militant leftwing professors.  Then there is the staggering levels of debt most graduates leave college with.  There are good reasons why men are saying no to college.