Since when is giving women date rape drugs so friends can sleep with them not rape?  In some instances these women were waking up in strangers' houses.

Even without date rape drugs, sleeping with someone who is beyond the point of being able to give consent is also considered rape in most cases.

This is what I mean by rape culture - when people are saying things like "they were probably all just drunk and out of control" rather than talking about how men in the situation - particularly the one drugging drinks - if he were in fact drugging drinks,' or taking clearly blacked out girls they had never met before home.

Like seriously.