I'm tired of the charge that a focus on ordaining women deacons is "clericalism".  It implies that being ordained is nothing more than getting some man-given official standing/power which women shouldn't want. It's a denial that Holy Orders is a real and effective SACRAMENT.

"Indeed it is appropriate and useful that men who carry out a truly diaconal ministry in the Church, whether in its liturgical and pastoral life or whether in its social and charitable works, should 'be strengthened by the imposition of hands which has come down from the apostles. They would be more closely bound to the altar and their ministry would be made more fruitful through the sacramental grace of the diaconate.'" CCC 1571. 

There are already women "carrying out a truly diaconal ministry in the Church". They are faithfully responding to the call of the Spirit despite going unacknowledged. It's right that they be strengthened for their service and made more fruitful through this sacramental grace.