Thank you, that is a perfect example of mushy-headed pseudo-psychological faux-feminist chump talk. Have you noticed that churches run by "heterosexual" men don't consider women so filthy that even being married to one (usually) renders a man unfit to receive holy orders? Have you noticed that churches run by "heterosexual" men don't consider the presence of women anywhere forward of the altar rail to defile the divine liturgy (making a single exception for her wedding day?) Have you noticed how churches run by "heterosexual" men don't have a fetish for dressing little boys up in lace and making them kneel next to the celebrant's, um, waist throughout the divine office? Have you noticed that churches run by "heterosexual" men get by without a hundred holidays dedicated to their meek, docile, nurturing, VIRGIN mommy? Have you noticed that only very few, very tiny churches run by "heterosexuals" forbid birth control absolutely? 

Stop being a chump. These guys are not your friends.