While I respect your skepticism of women's victimhood in "abuse" cases, that Lewinsky affair is the classic winning sexual harassment case in which the ultra-powerful man uses his power to denigrate a female.  He, apparently, didn't even have the decency to have sex with her, just letting her service his member.  And she, young lass working for the most powerful man in the free world, couldn't help herself, so enamored was she by his power.