I do not fear those men who think they can tell God what to do.  My God is a mighty God.  He knows the truth and the heart.  

As for Mary, I sometimes think of her at night when I pray, and hope she had a full life, that she knew love of family, husband, cousins, neighbors, the Apostles and disciples, the Son and all her children and that the anguish of the Son's death was removed or at least assuaged when He returned.   We know little of that human Mary.