Jim,

That is correct,  God said to Eve, " Your desire shall be for your husband and he shall rule over you"  or in another translation, 

 To the woman he said,

“I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing;
in pain you shall bring forth children.
Your desire shall be contrary to your husband,
but he shall rule over you.”

God pronounced these worrds after the fall.  We are still a 'fallen' race, right Jim?

" And man was not made for woman, but woman was made for man."    We know it was not good for man to be alone.  We know woman was made for man.   Man has a responsibility to take care of the woman; if she needs protecting, he must protect her.  

I was taught, 'never hit a woman'.  It isn't rational, what if she is hitting you?  I had sisters.  But it was an iron law, no exceptions.  I was inculcated into a doctrine of respect, deference, service and obligation due all women, even of the meanest rank. You rise when they enter the room.