I in 4 marriages between hetrosexual couples end in divorce in this nation so no doubt for many reasons in this nation the ideals of what it is to be married in 2017 need to be re-written because the old ideals are worn out. In my opinion people are often getting married way to young and struggling to work and support kids. Just over a century ago the average lifespan in America was the age of 42.  Today the average lifespan is 74 years of age for men and 76 years of age for women so what is the rush anymore. A commitment you make at a young age to be with someone the rest o your natural life is hard to make. As a society we should encourage people to get married later in life, but that will never happen. So we will continue to fill up the divorce courts with faithful to each other hetorsexual couples ( many religious) while we debate the morality of same sex marriages and open marriages. I am all for same sex marriages, they can now share in un-coupling and splitting the sheets.