"It sees bar staff, male and female, all over the world, voluntarily intervening when they see creeps hovering around women who are staggeringly drunk."
Really? Maybe those bar staff should instead be refusing to serve "staggeringly drunk" people before they get to that state rather then being made responsible for being chaperones after the fact.
Nobody is saying that getting drunk entitles someone to rape you. Paglia and the rest are saying that given actual reality perhaps it isn't such a good idea to make yourself especially vulnerable just like we expect people not to walk through dark empty parks with $100 bills hanging out of their pockets. Paglia is right.