Gotta say, Kinda weird the mentioned connection. I guess this place is really that small ( Im from Chicago) But gotta say what I was already thinking before I searched for the 40 year old girlfriend ( i am 40) of Santiago( 26  and looking sort of scary in the ADN photo)  and saw her ex husbands homes burnt down.   Sounds like her family has been thru the ringer I feel horribly for her children as other readers have said and would like to help find resources to help them if that was their residence.  But I also feel like Santiagos girlfriend wasn't perhaps the victim she made herself out to be. I am kind of glad that my mother didn't date a glazed eyed man 15 years her junior. This is merely my opinion and like I said, I think the family should be assisted given all the horrible things they have been through.