At last this is being brought to the light and is being discussed.

Monica is right - this is not just a celibacy/marriage issue. The whole church needs to be real - in terms of human biology and relationships, of theology (instead of sanctifying the traditional notion of property rights), of praxis, of education and governance; and it needs to put an end to the charade that a few 'celibates' know it all and everyone else has to obey their dictate. The theology, the praise, the education and the governance is abusive of men, women and children. Human sexuality, human relationships, human intimacy needs to be acknowledged and also seen as gifts of God and dealt with maturely instead of being regarded as intrinsically sinful unless propagation (within marriage) is the primary motive. 

We are reaping the harvest of centuries of hypocrisy, ignorance and abusive power and control by a group of males who made (and make) a practice of victim blaming and shaming. We have no excuses now.