When you have your toddler son threatened with rape and being "torn apart" by a mentally ill homeless woman who is one foot taller than you and outweighs you by 75 pounds, I might have more sympathy. There is no double standard when the "catcalling" is violent, threatening, and done by someone who could easily overpower you and threatens your child. Unless you are a very small man, you have no inkling of how terrifying that actually can be.