This is what happens when your the re-bound woman or man, sorry, but it's true. Never fall for someone that isn't even divorced or just finished with the divorce. It takes a minimum of 3 years to dump the baggage of the marriage and be open enough for a real relationship.You may think "no way that long" but it is does take that long to just be themselves and happy with themselves, not looking for someone else to MAKE them happy.