First of all, my comment was limited to late-term abortions, when there is no relevant difference between the fetus and a newborn.  So the question is:  If a man were to rape a woman and kill her newborn, which crime is more deplorable?  Second question:  Does it make ant difference whether the killer of the newborn is some man or the mother herself?  Third question:  What is the relevant difference between killing a baby who is late term and killing a newborn?  

You seem concerned about the difference in punishment between rape and murder.  If you want to make the former as harsh as the latter, fine with me.