Sorry, no, "men" are not trash. Just as it is wrong and racist to generalise about the bad behaviour of a racial grouping, it is wrong and sexist to generalise about the bad behaviour of a sex. SOME men are trash. Some men are MONSTERS. Many men are decent, loving, caring, provident, intelligent, funny, and utterly adorable and we wouldn't want to live our lives without them.

You say that "the absence of rage from other men and community members at the experience of such abuse serves only to affirm that this type of behaviour is indeed correct". I find that very disturbing. My community DOES rage against the monsters - if yours doesn't, that is for you and your community to sort out.