What about the men that have not posted that have been victimized also.  Sometimes by other men but also by women.  It is not only men that touch inappropriately.  It is sometimes women who insist on hugging and touching.   Also, despite current portrayals and stereotypes, women can and do send inappropriate messages.   To portray this as a problem that only women have is to do a disservice to both men and women.  Why do we keep squelching when women are the instigators of these problems?