The policy seems to have been part of the divorce agreement, he's been paying the premiums all these years, give him the money. You'll get it back one day. As for you,Dave , thinking your sister doesn't deserve as much as you in your mother's will...think again!  Just because your Sis married a man who inherited
some money from his mother doesn't mean YOUR mother should take that into account. Circumstances change, as we all know. I'm sure your Mother wishes to be fair and treat her children in an equal manner.