"No one wants to blame the victim."

  Really?
  Maybe most ordinary folks don't want to blame the victim. But authorities, especially judges, make their living blaming the victim. 
  Seriously, if judges,  lawyers, social workers and psychiatrists had to depend on criminals to make a living they would  soon themselves become victims - victims of unemployment.
  Seems to me in cases of sexual assault in particular, it's the victim, drunk or not drunk, being blamed.
  And anyways, it's not alcohol that rapes a woman, it's a man.