I was clearly addressing men (like the ones on this board, like Today_I_AM_Back) who dismiss in myriad ways, sometimes unconsciously, the complaints of molested women. Discussion is not an antic. Maybe in upper middle to upper class North America, in some over determined discourse circles it might be, but the problem is global (er, Saudi Arabia, anyone?) and men need to be part of the human rights debate.  Get over one-liners like that. They aren't adequate to the issue.