You misunderstand my comments. 
My intent was to 'throw a little cold water' on you to wake you up!
I never called you or any other woman naive for standing up to violence.  I called you naive because you seem to have a completely inaccurate picture of most men. As a man, I should know.

How on earth did you 'distill' that my comment of "that guy you think is nice, could be plotting your seduction", as "sexual assault and (the) creepy stalking"? Wow...that's a 'stretch'. 

You stated: "If all men are pigs that are going to physically harm me at any second"...  OMG! Where did that come from? Do you equate 'seduction' with violence? 

You sound as if you have been thoroughly indoctrinated into the "Men are bad" club.
Please read: Kathleen Parker's article :"Discussing rape on campus can be "dangerous".