If your a man they fundamental question we should be asking is, "Why should we get married and what is the benefit?" It use to be that you married a woman you agreed to take care of her and in return she took care of you and gave you a family and a home! 

Now I am not so old school that today you can't flip that around and the man can care for the children and a woman! However, that is the benefit of marriage! For men mostly that benefit is gone! So if your a man why marry? To sign up for a life of constant torment? One where you fully have to support your wife's career without the benefit of her either providing for you or your children?