It's a popularity contest.  And, I'm just stating fact.  Just calling a horse a horse.  So, it isn't like I have an "agenda".  Humans are strange, especially when it comes to sex.  The 3 in this story have some strange preferences.  But, to each their own.  I don't care what they do as long as it's consensual.  But, I'm not going to call a man a woman when he's not carrying all of the proper equipment.  At that point, I have no problem calling the person a woman, even if they didn't begin life that way.