LW2 - As a too-busy divorced woman in my 40s, a mom, and a Women's Health Nurse Practitioner of 16 years (i.e. I talk to women daily in their healthcare), I can assure you, there are legions of woman who would be thrilled to meet a man that wanted neither a commitment nor sex, but who would enjoy an occasional dinner out, a hike or a weekend getaway (seperate rooms, anyone?). I am not clear if you want NO company at all or you just don't want to be in a relationship or sexually active. If it's the former, cheers to solitude! If it's the latter, you would be considered a perfect, casual companion to many and, I'm certain, you could easily enjoy the life you've built for yourself with the occasional, uncluttered companionship of like-minded women if and only when you prefer. Direct answers and honesty addresses all these issue. And people who assume everybody needs and wants a relationship are, meh, just annoying.