"Here in the U.S., a thirteen-year old is never prosecuted for aborting a fetus --- at whatever stage. The boy or man will always be prosecuted and spend time."   Abortion is legal in the US. It is not in El Salvador.   It might be, depending on whether the girl reports the rape and the parents push it,  that the male is prosecuted for rape or sexual abuse.  

Your second paragraph gets to the heart of the matter.  A woman cannot determine when she gets pregnant like a male can determine when he has an orgasm.  You expect women to be held hostage to their biology in terms of having a child, but not men.  It might be that the pro life movement would be way more effective if they were proselytizing for men to go to prison for having an orgasm that resulted in a child they didn't want.  Then we might see abortion stats really plummet.