Meanwhile, back in reality ...

We're still in a Canada where feminist legal and parenting organizations openly oppose shared parenting legislation and have for nearly 20 years, refusing to even sit at the same table as men's groups for the discussion. We're still in a Canada where provincial DV support systems overwhelmingly only support women, and the feminist organizations that run them are actively fighting to keep it that way. We're still in a Canada where women's health concerns are routinely funded more heavily than equally impactful male health concerns. We're still in a Canada where being female is the single biggest advantage you can have in our criminal justice system.

You can't spend 50 years arguing that half the human race are oppressors and the other half are the oppressed, largely successfully, and then backpedal at the 11th hour and claim that you're unifiers. Jessica Valenti, Polly Toynbee, Clementine Ford? 

That's modern feminism, and it's ugly as sin.