the thing I didn't like about the Wieseltier piece was that it suggested identity was some kind of post-war '60s phenom, when in actuality identity asserts itself any time and place where one group controls the "curriculum"--like the guy said to the aspiring female engineer in Hidden Figures . . . "the curriculum wasn't written with a woman in mind." Males have foisted female identity on women since time memorial. How 'bout motherhood? How's that for no-win identity? Just say in public that you get bored talking to two-year-olds and watch the fur fly.