No; I said 'they'  (clerics) make this presumption : they speak of it in terms of ontological transformation.  It is the delusion of supra-humanity, acquired on the day of ordination. Clerics may not become pastors on this day, but they, in their opinion, become community leaders by inclination awaiting pastoral appointments. 

I do have a problem with patriarchy and matriarchy, both conceptually and practically; these are ruling ideologies (and open to all sorts of abuse), not the homely expressions of fatherhood and motherhood. 

How can someone be like a father or mother if they lack the requisite skills? These go well beyond the biologically reproductive. This is part of that delusion: that a person, whether male or female, can act with the authority and skill of fatherhood or motherhood, not by pastoral appointment,  but by ordination to the priesthood. Besides, Jesus called these people to be servants. A servant has no authority, except by leave of his household  (or community).