Entirely agree, the reliance on the justice system seems to be a crutch for many whereas we as people need to work on figuring out their own selves and relationships. Relationships are built upon experiences both good and bad, nothing is perfect and it takes a lot of work and self reflection to create and share a decent life with another human being. There are no short cuts on that journey! I also believe that it's well known males suffer from DV too, on one level or another, although not as likely to be killed, stalked, maimed or raped. Men are not women and women are not men, sorry folks but that's the truth. Deal with it or don't. They made same sex legal and from what I hear, if you can't deal with it, they are coming out with robots for the rest of you. 
Reap what you sow.. it's as simple as that. Excluding true victims.