" Why are the problems that affect men and their families ignored by politicians and so called feminists."
Why? Because nobody organizes on behalf of men. That's the reason. If men and the women who loved them were to organize as diligently as feminists have then they would get much more say in how government operates and where money is spent. In my opinion this is exactly why any sort of pro-male talker or group/club/organization is so viciously resisted on campuses. It is called "de-platforming" and that is exactly what it sounds like - preventing them from having a place to speak, to organize, to be effective in representing their views - to silence them and keep them silenced. Address that problem first and the rest will follow.