"Every man"?  You haven't met EVERY man.  

It appears that, in your social life, you only keep company with immature and undereducated men.  

Perhaps your upbringing conditioned you to believe and behave like a rude high school brat.

There are men outside of your bubble who are decent, kind, honest and mature.  They despise guys like you and your boys.  Hopefully a male mentor will appear in your like and teach you how to be a good man.