Firstly, your "feelings" are irrelevant to reality. Don't care what you "prefer" or what "resonates" with you.  Won't pander to your preferences or your sanctimonious sense of "victim-hood" predicated on the imagined "slights" reality has inflicted on you.  These are non-issues.  Secondly, what you overlook is that, while languages do evolve, NO language in human history has ignored the reality of human biological and sexual bipolarity (i.e. that humans exists as males and females--that's a FACT.  Write it down).  Thirdly, the pathetic, ideologically-forced examples you give won't be the first.  They will be consigned to the scrap-heap of history as they deserve, because the survival of our SPECIES will require it.  We are faced with far more urgent and daunting challenges than what makes you and your pampered, attention-seeking ilk "uncomfortable."  You can of course continue to whine and complain because we reject your "ideological" fallacies.  And we'll continue to laugh at you.