When you say their took our best, who are you talking about, men, I wasn't there, don't include me. I am a great father you does not live with my 7&9yr old kids because their mother make a choice to not have me live with them despite the fact that WE made a decision for me to stay home and take care of MY kids because she made a lot more money than me. Her boyfriend that is twentysix years younger than me now lives with my children and there is nothing I can doing about it because justiceis on the free market and on the side of women. If the roles were reversed and I kicked her out and found another younger women, she would come after me for all she could get. I have not. What I have done is coach my kids softball and baseball teams. I have gone back to school to become a school teacher and had to get a student loan. I am doing this because I want to be with my kids, if I don't, my ex will limited my ability to be with my kids. Family Law has become a hugh business since womens lib.