'Risk avoidance, self protection', or the more practical advice like 'be careful and look both ways when you cross the road, be observant of your surrounding, don't go to dark alley or bad part of town', etc. etc.  That's what we teach our children when they are growing up.  So what's wrong with advising women (and men too!) not to drink yourself to unconsciousness?  It is not about 'blaming the victim', it is about self protection and self preservation.  We don't point finger at parents who tell children to look before crossing the road that they 'blame the child who got run over', why are these people angry at a sensible suggestion which is really just common sense?