What is this idiotic idea that everything must be divided up according to gender, that the female must be an accessory (complementary) to the male? The term complementary reminds me of complementary angles in geometry. The angles must sum to 90 degrees and each angle completes what the other ‘lacks” to make 90 degrees. Each angle also LIMITS the other.  Is this the way human relationships are? Limiting? Or are we supposed to love, support, empower, and to offer mutuality to each other. Not limiting the other. Recognizing wholeness (holiness), not finding lack. Each made in God’s image. My gender does not limit me. Rather it empowers me. It informs who I am becoming. I don’t have a need to try to limit other people. Yes, there is the key in lock. Doesn’t mean you should extrapolate from that biology to place arbitrary cultural restrictions on all human interactions everywhere according to gender. Yes, only women can breast feed. Doesn’t mean they can’t be astronauts. . . .  or priests.