Dear LW: you did not explain if there was perhaps any underlying issue with her health. When I went on Blood Thinners, I gained 15 pounds- hubby still loves me. Certain drugs like statins, hormones (birth control), and beta-blockers are also known to cause weight gain. I think she would be better off without you, personally, as she deserves a man who loves her for who she is - NOT her dress size. Get over yourself, please, as I'm sure if you actually asked her about who you were when you both met, she would not have said "judgmental **** like he is now".