correction: 

"I am not talkineven those " should read "even the moste considered a form of 1)child abuse conservative Mennonites mingle socially..."


And again you miss the point. Let me rephrase it: preventing females in your family/community from interacting socially with anyone who is neither female nor a male relative should be considered 1) a form of child abuse, 2) against human rights. And people who make child abuse and abuse of human rights of half the population the basis of their social organisation, should be treated accordingly.