Allan Ross, I'm glad you're here to speak truth to power and call those people out on their micro-aggressions. 

Sadly, we live in a culture in which we encourage "male" children to identify with spider super-heroes, and we encourage "female" teenagers to identify with vampire bat lovers, yet we are failing to empower and validate the children who choose/are hard-wired to identify with hermaphroditic worms. 

We are failing these children, aren't we?