You do bring up an interesting point. According to you: women receive all of the DV services but the murder by partner remains at an outrageously high (disproportionate) rate. We need more services for women to protect them from these murderers and get those rates down to their male counterparts.  And if you  believe male DV is a problem organize your own shelter, like women did. But then what would you have to complain about? You obviously have an axe grind & spend your life playing victim.