<... hold the man responsible too.>
How?  Withhold his healthcare, too?
Why are you holding children (born and unborn) responsible for the arrogant judgments you make about their parents? And for what?
< tell me how giving away free stuff encourages responsible behavior?>
Access to affordable health insurance, healthcare, food and housing -- minimum requirements for survival -- is an obligation we have to each other. Who in God's name do you think you are to determine what's "responsible" behavior and to grant or withhold healthcare and other necessities of life based on your judgments? Trumpcare and the Trump budget will inflict pain not only on the poor but on the middle and working classes. What criteria have you established to judge "responsible"?
Your posts reek of hypocrisy. Your libertarian positions reflect the atheistic materialism of Ayn Rand -- virulently, viciously anti-life and utterly irreconcilable with Catholic teaching. I suppose your moniker is an exercise in irony.