I wish I had had a an older friend when I was his age!  While it may seem like a double standard there is a big difference between young males and young females having sex with older people.  A male can't be raped by a female technically.  There has to be an aroused state for that to work.  Also almost all teenage boys are much stronger physically than adult women and quite capable of fending them off if that is what they want to do.  Most would not want to do that.  What a waste of police and court resources.