Fighting patriarchy is no longer sensible.  In fact, it may be counterproductive because it reinforces a defensive reaction to perpetuate this ancient cultural aberration.  I think it would be more effective to show that patriarchy is becoming obsolete, and that religious patriarchy is actually becoming harmful to the mission of the Church.  There is a linear progression from original sin (cf. Genesis 3:16) to Aristotle, to Aquinas, to Canon 1024.  Going forward, the key is to demonstrate, to hierarchy and faithful alike, the sacramental equivalence of male and female human bodies; and the best resource I have found is St John Paul II's "Theology of the Body."  May I share this note, recently posted to my website:

http://pelicanweb.org/CCC.TOB.html#CHRONOLOGY

I also recommend Bruce Feiler's "The First Love Story: Adam, Eve, and Us," Penguin Press, 2017.  The book is an insightful reflection on the creation of humanity in the image of God;  easy to read, wonderful sense of humor!