All women and most THOUGHTFUL men know that a pregnancy is only the start of a lifetime commitment. For that reason, the human life at stake is that of the mother. Most women will do their best to ensure the basics of a family life for the children to whom they will almost certainly wind up providing 90% of the daily care. There are now more children waiting for adoption than willing parents for them. How many unwanted children have you adopted, fed and clothed, provided with an education and bailed out of financial or other difficulties? It's easy for you to have an opinion on how others should live their lives. That's called self-righteousness, and it comes dirt cheap.