It all comes down to mommy and daddy. And God.
The more you remove God fro the public culture, the more you tell girls they don't need men, the more men screw chicks and walk off without commitment....the more of all kids of social problem you create. 
Leftism subscribes to those poor tenets I described above.
Hawaii is one of the most Leftist states I the Union.
Ergo Hawaii will have all these social problems.
But this is actually a win-win for Hawaii people and all their Democrat-ness: The same democratic/leftism that subscribes to culture-destroying policies and world-views, also subscribes to Big Gov't solutions, programs, administrators, and the apparatchik that comes with it.
So for Hawaii and its people, these are great problems to have:
They uphold a world view that makes these problems worse, then rally together to create more spending, more programs, more people to run it, more rules and regulations.
More more more. Except morality.
Good for you, Hawaii people. Enjoy.