Love is not possessive, nor is it coercive, nor does it serve to manipulate for the sake of self- gratification. No one should underestimate the value of a Loving friendship that serves only for the Good of the Lover and the beloved. 
No one should be condoning the engaging in or affirmation of any act, including  sexual act, of any nature, that demean the inherent Dignity of our beloved sons and daughters, including between a man and woman united in marriage as husband and wife. The desire to engage in a demeaning act, does not change the nature of the act.
Why not tell those men and women who have developed a same-sex sexual attraction the truth? We Love you, and because we Love you, we cannot condone the engaging in or affirmation of any act, including any sexual act, that demeans your inherent Dignity as a beloved son or daughter. We Love you and desire that you will always be treated with and will always treat others with Dignity and respect in private as well as in public.