Very astute observation and one that clearly demonstrates your command of the english language and reading comprehension.  The poster clearly intended to accuse you of being a jerk by saying the priest was a being a jerk.  Most people would not make that connection, but your discernment often approaches the rarefied level one would expect of a priest, or, dare I say it, a bishop.  More importantly, your posting demonstrates to a fine degree the proper conduct and approach a True Catholic should take when dealing with disagreement.  We cannot afford to be soft.  As Jesus taught "do unto others." and "the best defense is a good offence."  As always, I admire your exhibition of the Catholic Ideal.