Yes, she is loyal in her misfortune and disgust.
However, what she wants -- from her singular perspective -- cannot prevail in the church without the diminution of what we have now. Most Catholics I know are generally not unhappy with what we have now, and are certainly not as miserable as Dennism. Catholics might have a solution apiece, but not a universal one to impose on all. 
Dennism has a long road ahead of her learning the grounds of her own strong opinions against the nuanced opinions of most Catholics. If she is happy being so tortured, more power to her. But most Catholics just don't share her "torture." (Of course, many people have a torture apiece, as it were, have their own victimization dramas to deal with [different from Dennism's] , often outside a faith community or church.)