Yeah, but the only thing that seems to really matter to those with particular different bits of male flesh is those different bits of male flesh.  

Is there something in Redemption that is different because Jesus was male?  Or, let me put it this way:  Would Redemption have been different if the same Spirit which is Jesus came in the body of a woman?  Are males more redeemed than women because we call God "Father" and Jesus His "Son?"  

Wonder how folks would react to this question:  Could a female Jesus have redeemed males?  Would that be acceptable?  What reaction do people have to the idea of a Redemptress rather than a Redeemer.  Would we think differently about Mother Mary and her role in our faith if her holy child had been a female?