Why?  When people use terms like "manipulation" "control" "inequality" "misogynist" etc, that tends to suggest an unhappiness with the way things are.

When people claim they do not believe what the Catholic Church professes for belief, that tends to suggest unhappiness.  The solution, it seems to me, is easy: if you want abortion, gay marriage, transgender, divorce and remarriage, open communion, contraception, sex outside of marriage, a democratically run church, go to the liberal Protestant churches that believe this and join them. Why stay in a Church that tries to "control" and "manipulate" you?

The Catholic Church will never adopt a liberal, secular, humanistic, atheistic ideology.