"Most ecumenicals [sic] think that everyone should agree.... with them."

This is just not true, Jack. It's dishonest and it's a very tired old argument. Most of us have moved on. If any Catholic dares to express a willingness to put less emphasis on a dogmatic position or Catholic (so called) truth for the sake of unity, they are immediately pounced upon by people like yourself, told they are not Catholic and they might as well go off and be Protestants. We know all too well who the intransigent ones are and it certainly isn't ecumenists.