Hello, Bill T.
You haven't given up try to figure out what irks you personally in what Catholics do?
Be a MAN, try to get over these trivial things that do not make much differences on your spiritual journey to eliminate your big EGO, pls!
Unless you had to do this to make a living. Pay attention to your inner life instead spend your precious little time you have left to squander on Catholics calling priest 'father'! What difference that will make one way or another, for your inner transformation, tell us pls!