Your above statement IS YOUR DOGMA. YOU ARE A "DOGMATIC" CHRISTIAN. Your dogma is that Christ is generally unconcerned about specific moral actions, He's big on overall "intentionality in life (try to be a good person)", and He can be counted on to easily let people into heaven unless they have been seriously, crazy, murdering/molesting awful people, repulsive to the core. 

The claim that He is a "loving Savior" is a DOGMATIC CLAIM. I'm assuming you base it on the Scriptures/Christian Tradition. It's what you've been told and what you've encountered (hopefully). You're correct! It is CRYSTAL CLEAR unequivocal dogma that Christ is a loving savior. If that was not absolutely indisputable dogma and there was a chance that Jesus was indeed God but a psychopathic, power mad sadist giddily hoping to deceive us so that He might derive sick pleasure YOU MIGHT WANT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE DIFFERENTLY OR FOLLOW SOMEONE ELSE. But you don't. Because you are dogmatically secure in your belief.