Perhaps you should really study the teachings of Jesus. It requires an understanding of the Love of God and God's Love for us. The Main message of Jesus was the Kingdom or Reign of God. It is not a set of beliefs or doctrines that the church teaches will lead to salvation. The Kingdom is a Way of Life. Pope Francis is challenging the Church to move towards Jesus. He is a Jesuit after all! To follow Jesus requires living a life of love to God, family. friends, neighbors, strangers, and even enemies. Love is a verb. Jesus showed us that it means to care, share, help, heal, forgive, and transform ourselves to be God in the lives of others. 
You can follow Jesus or your will. Your free choice!