And you have just described what a women hating man thinks and believes.  There is nothing in science or scripture where different roles are mandated for different genders - no list of jobs for females verses males.  No one wants their freedom to do whatever vocation they feel called to do in their heart, whether in the world or in church, hindered based on their flesh which is the only thing gender effects and only then for procreation and nothing else.  All races, ethnicities etc have real distinction in their differences - using these differences to oppress and rob people of the right to do what God has made them physically capable of doing is evil and an attack against that group's human dignity.   

You play polite but polite hate is still evil and sin and I don't think you are innocent of the wrong because you claim to not understand the wrong.  It is not complicated - Jesus commands you and I and our Bishops TREAT all the same as we wish to be treated or we sin.