I think it's important to recognize both sides of the "hate" handshake -- those websites and organizations who target anyone that lives outside of their own ubër-conservative world, and those who respond to their ridiculous demands by complying with twisted accusations that bear little resemblance to the actual truth.  Living in their own small-minded world is one thing, but being able to influence institutions is quite another.  There is certainly nothing either catholic or Catholic by these unholy campaigns.