Nora, you missed my point.  I didn't mention Ordination.  I just thought that thinking/talking about/to Jesus might be a good  idea instead of cleaving to human reasoning and thought always.  Praying, and very humbly trying to discern the Holy Spirit's Will  in daily Meditation could be fruitful.  Attending Eucharist, if possible daily, and participating in Eucharistic Adoration is asking Jesus, very humbly, what He would do, say, and and how He would deal with this subject.   That is what I meant, not teasing out the vexatious questions about it.  Thank you for explaining your thoughts to me, but I fear that being sure about what Jesus wants us to do is problematic.