Not everyone believes in your god. Not everyone believes in Barbara's god. Using religious ideology as a guise to deny equal rights to human beings who don't hold those same religious beliefs isn't a new concept - wars will continue to be fought for that exact reason for many more years I am sure. Pushing that "Christian" lifestyle choice on children that are not your own, and denying them a safe place to be able to feel comfortable and explore who they are and where they fit in the world with the support of their peers, is what is harmful and destructive. Punishing children for not thinking the same as you by denying them a safe place is despicable.