It IS exhausting, but when those egregiously-wrong issues remain present in the institutional Church, it's worth remaining at least tangentially connected in order to speak up and fight their existence.  "We" often wonder why more of "you" do NOT speak up and work for correction of institutionalized misogyny, relying on 12th century theology and all theology developed only by men, the anti-Gospel exclusion of baptized LGBT Catholics and failure to hold accountable hierarchs known to have aided and abetted child rapists.