Hi Leslie I hope that you  are well.
I agree, I would add one more. (3) Care for victims past and current. 
I have forgiven the sick priest who repeatedly raped and molested me (countless times).
I cannot forgive the coverup
It will never even be a possibility to forgive the intentional ruthless response of the Milwaukee archdiocese fraud bankruptcy, intentionally prolonging the torture, leaving victims with nothing but pain and betrayal.Those acts were meant to inflict deep pain. That ruthless treatment was more painful than the very significant sexually assaults (too many to count) inflicted on my little body by my offender.

The church fights victims at every turn. They oppose change in SOL. They treat us horribly. They are fraudulently using Federal Bankruptcy to cheat victims and to sidestep accountability for raping children and committing fraud. 
 
Most Catholics say they want victims treated fairly, just not the ones in their diocese.

Treating victims horribly must end now.