Neither my wife or I hold each others hands during the Our Father because that's how we were brought up. When I'm near others I'll just close my eyes and nobody bothers me.

However it doesn't matter to me if others do. I'm just happy they take the time to come to Mass. So many Catholics don't.

Sign of peace can be equally clunky. Some want to wave and others shake and some ignore you!

My pet annoyance is those who receive the body of Christ then walk past the blood of Christ seemingly obliviously! We should at least bow.