I'm sorry not to see my parish listed. But not surprised, I guess. Our pastor is extremely liberal in his outlook, carefully inclusive in all his remarks, and would, I am confident, be completely welcoming to all.  I think one reason there is not a particularly visible LGBTQ presence in our church is that Black LGBTQ people have a lot of difficulties in the general community, and there is much less broad support for mainstreaming than one finds in more privileged communities. 

There's a Black protestant church not far away, that is, I am told, THE church to belong to, as an LGBTQ person of color. I attended a sad and difficult funeral there, and was moved and impressed by the way the pastor spoke to the conflicted responses of those attending. A woman pastor, with great gifts. If I was queer and Black,  and looking for a community of worship, I imagine I would be drawn there, rather than undertaking missionary work in a Catholic church.