Women in the Church were validly deacons, presbyters and even bishops. Your understanding of the history of the church [of 2000 years] with differing situations and needs---is lacking.

Women are created in the Image of Christ, just as men are.  If they are not, then, Jesus did not redeem women.  There is NO ontological difference between men and women.  Christ, "truly became one of us, [all of us] like us in everything except sin.'

God is three in one, unity in difference.  Human beings in being created mirror this divine procession of love in being more than just one---male or female.  All human beings are the divine image, and the sexual difference has something to tell us about God, ---the variety of God's attributes shown in each and every human being.  At baptism, females are anointed with Chrism as are males.  And females are anointed with Chrism as 'Priest, Prophet and King'---the words are not changed for women.  There is no ontological difference in our common priesthood.