I think the dialogue needs to be open though. With abortion and gay marriage solidified in our country(its really not going to be reversed) We need a healthy discussion between people of true faith and non followers. Only positive communication can 1. Allow people to properly understand the true Catholic Church and be respectful of what they believe 2. Join or come back to the Church after it is seen in a positive light 3. Live in a real secular world where Catholics and Nones can actually live peacefully