Context, context, context!!

As has been pointed out on here so many times, Betty. Go and study those texts with what we know now about the historical cultural attitude towards women and the Deuteronomic punishments meted out to women, coupled with the easy way the Pharisees awarded themselves divorces - signing a parchment of dismissal - and you'll find that a literal application of those texts is, at the very least, questionable.

Jesus attacked the Pharisees for doing exactly what you seem to be advocating on here - mercilessly applying the law. Had the law been applied to Jesus' mother, she would have been stoned to death at the front door of her father's house.