"Plus, how is it racist to question a religion that tells women they are not equal."

We live in a nation where it is illegal to discriminate against homosexuals and they have all the same rights and freedoms everyone else has.  How does one reconcile that with the HEAVY anti-gay sentiment in western Muslims in polls? Can I safely call out that bigotry, just like I call out the anti-gay bigotry of many Evangelical Christians, without fear of being smeared as a Islamophobe?

I sure hope so, but not many people can separate critique of the acts or the beliefs from critique of the actor or the believer.