Little Bear,
When you say that "Catholics aren't used to supporting a married clergy", please remember that you're talking about the Latin rite only.  Eastern Catholics have long had a married clergy.  US RC (ie Latin rite) bishops did their best to prevent that in the US, but they lost that battle.
Regarding women's ordination:  I think that it's important to push for that.  If we choose to wait for the mythical "right time", we will certainly ensure that there will never be equality for women in the Church.  Only if we consistently speak up for the need of ordaining women will there be any hope for change.