Hi! EFC1127A

Yes EFC1127A spot on “humility and obedience lead to the joy of having our own will completely identified with God's, so that what he wants, we want” but obviously it is a difficult path to follow to reach (Maintain that state of being) in trust and follow all aspects of His Will. 

Many on the site act in good conscience; we are both in accord on the indissolubility of marriage, many find this hard to accept in that this teaching is for the benefit and protection the family unit especially the children. Sadly many Christians have divorced and now live with a civil partner and in doing so have separated themselves from the Church and it has been forecast that this trend will continue into the future especially in the West. 
With no way back many live without Hope of reconciliation with the Church