You mean, of course, that you will try to respond for the first time, since your previous response consisted solely of an irrelevant Bible verse (which you did not actually quote) and a personal attack.
 
However, this post is simply more of your "suffering is good" blather, which again has nothing to do with your statement,  "If one has a lively interior life with God, death actually INCREASES the intimacy we have with those who have died (if they died loving, not rejecting, God)." Address that, RD. Don't remind us that your knowledge of actual suffering is at the same dismal level as your knowledge of logic.