Don't we all to some greater or lesser extent "celebrate Christian in a divided land"

and I don't mean our country, I mean our heart.

Aren't we often torn and divided  in the hourly choices we face each day?  

- Do we love and sacrifice for our loved ones, or do we draw into our self, seeking our own consolation, assigning more value to our feelings than charity or humility demand?

- Do we struggle to "get outside of ourselves" and serve others, even thought we though "we don't feel like it?"

- Do we forget about ourselves and give to others  generously, ever more quietly?