See, now I see the real issue.   You are liberal and the priest is conservative.  The priest does not support the liberal, secular, atheistic, humanistic agenda of the parish.  

What you really want is a democratically run Church.  You ask something that the Catholic Church cannot give you--not now, not ever.  The Catholic Church is not a democracy.  The Church never was a democracy and never will be a democracy.

If you want a Church that is governed congregationally, if you want a Church with a board of trustees to boss around the priest, go join a Protestant Church.  We cannot be that church for you.

As for contributing to the Church: the money people offer is a gift.  Gifts are supposed to be given without strings attached.  .