This refers to companies that provide health insurance as part of an employee's compensation. They ARE paying for it through their labor.

The rest of your post highlights the real issue that the right has with contraception and abortion, it's about punishing women for engaging in sexual activity. 

My theory is that right wing "christian" men don't like the idea that sex is mutually pleasurable rather than just pleasurable for men because then they have to question why their wives merely submit rather than enjoy sex with them. 

Oh and the vast majority of married and monogamous women in the workforce use contraception so are you demanding they "keep their pants zipped" within their marriage?