We do have converts who are married men & are priests because they, in theory, were not able to discern their vocation properly outside our church.   

I disagree with this argument because if God wanted these men to be Catholic Priests, God is more than capable of making certain they don't find Mrs. Right before coming to Catholicism.  

However, as long as women are being ordained equally to men in our church FIRST, I have no problem with our church doing away with celibacy, later on or simultaneously.  

The difference is a human justice issue compared to a mere custom issue.  Denying someone a sacrament based on how they are born is discrimination against someone's flesh without cause in Christ to do so, which diminishes that person's value from birth.  So keeping blacks, women, Spanish, etc. from priesthood is sin.  The married men in our church chose to marry & not become celibate priests.  They were not discriminated against from birth.  There is no injustice done to these men.