The New Testament was written by "everyone but Christ", but some parts are the apostles' opinions (such as those sexist parts you eventually found), and other parts are transcriptions of Christ's own words, among which you'll find nothing counselling sexism or violence.

But in your world, there is some equivalence between that and the words and deeds of a polygamist, pedophile warlord.  Then again, you also think that Pakistan and Bangladesh are "open and democratic" societies whose females "aren't so oppressed after all", so there's no reasoning with someone like you.  Perhaps you should ask some female acquaintances about how they'd feel if their employers wanted to transfer them to those countries, even temporarily.