I'm sorry you're more fluent with Freud than with Aquinas, who very nicely laid out why we have freedoms.   

That "loving God USING our freedoms to attain closer unity with Him" is now considered "reactionary" and "elitist" by some tells me what a poor level of formation exists among adult Catholics. 

I'm certainly not asking to converse with people who have read and are conversant with "Summa", but the CCC is a bare minimum.  adiós para siempre.