No one argues that gays should not be loved.  Not Jesus --- who taught that men are created men, and women created women, for a reason; not the Church; not Christians who believe on the Church; not St. Paul, not Pope Francis, who despite letting you know that gays are loved, still teaches the sinfulness of gay sex.  Your accusations against those who believe Church teaching are as tiresome as they are false.  If you cared for your brother as much as you claim, you'd stop encouraging defiance of the Church's ancient moral teachings on homosexuality.