The problem is that you allowed yourselves to be used -- "objectified," you might say.

Don't you see how stupid that looks?  Would you put underpants on your head and go out in public?  
Have you heard of Dr. E Michael Jones, who has spent the last 30 years defending Catholic teaching from attempts to marginalize it by the likes of George Soros and the organizations he uses his billions to fund?
One of Jones's most important books is "Libido Dominandi," which details how people like Soros who seek to subvert the Catholic Church, start out by degrading the sexual mores, targeting, first, young women.  Once young women are persuaded to think of themselves as sexual objects, and to think it is fine to do so, it is a simple matter to take over the rest of the culture.  Reducing women to degraded sexualized objects is an instrument of control and domination, in which the dominated participate in their own domination.  
Google Michael Jones.