Trad, your weakness is actually the same weakness our leadership and many Orthodox Jews have had throughout the ages.  That is, that you are more interested with what sexist men have contrived, from clearly opposing scripture writings to what they have contrived, than being interested in actually seeking obvious truth from what the scriptures did genuinely state.  

I did not interpret the Exodus' scripture regarding Passover.  The directions do not call for separating women out & many Jewish traditions- old & new -do not do this either.  In fact, Exodus teaches those who do not take part are condemned to remain in slavery.  There have been, throughout the ages, many different Jewish Religions, i.e. Pharisees & Sadducees, like the many different Christian Religions now. 

If you read Exodus rather than ask any man's opinion of Exodus, you will see that I am correct. All members had to take part of the sacrificial lamb in order to be freed and travel with the community out of Israel.