You know, Jesus railed against the Pharisees because they were hypocrites.  They lived by the "letter of the law" doing things like declaring their wealth korban (dedicated to the temple after their death) so that they didn't have to provide for the upkeep of their elderly parents.  He didn't condemn people like the rich young man who came to him saying he lived all the commandments; in fact, the Scriptures say he looked at him with love.  Jesus said he did not come to abolish the law.  The Scriptures tell us the true Christian is the one who loves his brother and keeps the commandments.  How is it loving to "accompany" someone who is living opposite what Our Lord himself preached?  The one who divorces his or her spouse and married another is committing adultery.