Thank you Rdp46!
"I think we are discussing something quite different in what we mean about Ego."  I thought so too. I respect the studies of psychology field.  I have a few Jung's books.  Thanks for your introduction on the good books on Ego. 
A few times I had to give up buying books on psychology because I did not know which one.
I hope you did not think that I was trying to win our discussion.  
Many posters seem interested in discussing an alternative ways to worship God as a Catholic lay community.   I would be interested in contemplative community, not an intellectual one.  
Thanks again.
In Christ