Yes Tridy, in the man you are worried about being a false product I see the Christ inside him.   It seems like you would like to portray me as seeing Christ as knowingly devious, and of course that is very false. 

Yes you are confused Christ did tell us to treat each other better to love each other even our enemies. Our Lord became man to prepare us to Love God and neighbor.  In doing that it requires us to listen to the Spirit in each and every generation. We do not know what eternal salvation is.  For to do that we would need to know the mind of God.  We can however use our talents and behavior to help our fellow men in our generation so that we might do as Christ told us.