Did I claim that motherhood, in light of Mary's role, is the ONLY way women are valuable to God?  (btw, nice work denigrating motherhood to the level of "breeding stock"; by the same token I imagine you see fatherhood in an equally flattering fashion)

Did I claim that men, in light of Christ's ultimate self gift, are ONLY valuable to God if they are being publicly executed?

The essential claim is that the dynamic of the Incarnation and Paschal Mystery means that being male and female has a deep theological significance. Try and argue against it using Christian sources and tradition.