You are not doing your job.  You are not spreading the Gospel Truth. Your views are contrary to the Apostles.  Your pastoral approach results in lukewarm, low information, confused catechism.  I'd be surprised if any of the kids stick with the Church past confirmation based on your description.  I wouldn't want my kids in such a parish.  How's your track record of producing vocations?  The pastoral approach you describe is not new, but it has resulted in 80% of my extended family falling away from God and His Church.  We all descended from one devout set of church-going grandparents.  Today, failed liberal pastoral practices has led to abandonment and apostasy.