C'mon...did you stand in solidarity with married couples when a "fearless leader" promulgated Humanae Vitae? Did you stand in solidarity with gays when "fearless leaders" called their loving "intrinsically disordered"? Did you stand in solidarity with women when a "fearless leader" declared forever closed the possibility of their priesthood? Maybe situational ethics and the Catholic Cafeteria are valid and wonderful concepts to prompt--not silence--intra-Church dialogue.