Fr. Martin has Christ's love at heart if he ministers properly to gays.  God bless him.  In that case, his purpose is to help them deal with --- that is, to correct --- their sin, and repent for it.  However, to lead them to think they're just fine as they are, without repentence, is the opposite of love.  What Scripture says about leading children to sin and having millstones around the neck seems equally applicable to leading adults to sin.