Saying Jesus had a wife is not ridicule. Nor is the possibility of children, who would not be divine because Jesus was not a demigod.  When Jesus mentioned blasphemy against the Spirit, by the way, he said that blasphemy against the Father would be.  Read the whole paragraph.  By the way, saying that the Spirit, who Jesus knew as Shekihah, is female is not ridicule anyway (Shekinah was a female manifestation of God.  Still is).  Your upset says more about your views on sex and women than about God.