Interesting that the Catholic Church is more obsessed with the remarriage than the divorce.  It doesn't care if a woman/ man gets divorced to find him/herself as long as that person doesn't remarry.  

And sometimes a divorce is better for the children than living in an unhappy and acrimonious marriage.  In the case of abuse, leaving the relationship is better for the children than staying.  A man/ woman who chooses to stay with an abuser and who subjects his/her kids to that is actually harming the children.