Jesus said it would have been better if Judas had not been born. The Son of Man will return to judge the living and the dead.  The groom says: "I do not know you", and king throws the improperly dressed out into the street. 

God loves us all unconditionally. It is up to us to respond humbly and love him totally.

St Thomas Aquinas raised the question: If God is everywhere, is God in hell? His answer is, yes. God is in hell. Then Thomas asks the next question: what is God doing in hell? And he replies that God is in hell loving the damned. The damned may refuse to be loved and they may refuse to love in response, but the damned cannot cause God not to love them.

God loves us enough to let us refuse His love.