Maybe one thing that drives young people away is the animosity that Pre-Vatican II and Post-Vatican II Catholics have for each other...NCR being just one place where we can bite at each others' heels.

WHEN, O WHEN, are we going to allow both different yet one-with Rites/Churches to exist in their different Roman and Vatican II variations?  Roman Catholic Church, Vatican II Catholic Church, and 22 other mostly Eastern Catholic Rite/Churches in union with Rome...each with its own understanding and practice of Catholic theology, governance and liturgy.  https://RiteBeyondRome.com