last comment for this.. funny you say golden rule. as the apostles hammered on jesus about this rule and that rule - righteous jewish men  - on how to become 'good' people..there were no christians yet ..right?  they hammered on him up to the night he asked them, begged them,  to stay up with him  - he knew where he was headed and was anxious - wanted company and they fell asleep. but after being asked again - he finally said just love thy brother! i can hear it almost in an exasperated way. i don't think labeling oneself one thing or another means a hill of beans. good people is good people