While agreeing with a lot of what you have written, I think it is only fair to acknowledge that the spirituality of 'the old order' does appeal to and inspire and help a lot of people, young and old. I sense that Francis is concerned also for those for whom Christianity is utterly irrelevant in any meaningful way, and for whom the finger wagging approach is not regarded as loving but rejecting. There is really no 'one size fits all' - we all come from very different histories, none of which are perfect and God meets us where we are and draws us to 'Him'self in ways in which we can relate.  The idea that Faith is the keeping of a set of rules rather than a deepening relationship with the Living God does not sit well with me, but I recognise that it sits well with many others.