"My sympathy goes to his family, who must be heartbroken."    Sympathy, condolence - not very far apart.    

I've been comforted in mouring by the prayers(in person) of friends I knew and many I didn't.  I lived in a community that was very supportive of the family, from the funeral service to many months/years later.  Their Christian ethics are reflected through their sense of community.  I was so appreciative of the help offered to me and my daughters.

I've read quite a bit of Eric's writing, most of it very good, and this is the first time I knew he had a religious faith.  
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There are non judgmental Christians - and then there are those who will  say i'm not a 'good' Christian for saying that!     LOL