That's how I freed myself from Christianity, but too many people have been told from birth that God is real and has a plan for all of us. When I hear adults says that, I ask them about starving children in third-world countries. Why does God plan for some some women to be raped and some men turned into rapists? The standard reply is "God moves in mysterious ways" and "God allows all of us free will," but if God has a plan doesn't that negate the free will part?