So, William, does how one understands biblical inequality determine if one will be eternally with Jesus?  It seems not, as you believe the bible 'is a story about God choosing whom He will choose.'

If not, then demanding that the church sort out such details will lead to what Garrison Keillor illustrates in his book, Lake Wobegon Days. 

He describes his family's Sanctified Brethren heritage,  "Once having tasted the pleasure of being Correct and defending True Doctrine, they kept right on and broke up at every opportunity, until, by the time I came along, there were dozens of tiny Brethren groups, none of which were speaking to any of the others.

Out Lake Wobegon bunch was part of a Sanctified Brethren branch knows as the Cox Brethren, which was one of a number of 'exclusive' Brethren branches--that is, to non-Coxians, we were know as 'Cox Brethren'; to ourselves, we were simply The Brethren, the last remnant of the true Church."

How do we avoid this, William?