I too have voted with my feet, as have my family and almost everyone I know, and for the same reasons you noted.  Unfortunately, I don't think any bishop has noticed our absence, except when they look at total numbers in the US  over time.  This is especially true in Catholic growth states such as mine, where we are continually adding parishes, not consolidating and shuttering them.  I haven't thought of the logistics of a strike as I frankly doubt many (not all) women who still remain would be interested, and they are also likely still held by the tradition of "fear of mortal sin" for missing mass.  I guess I just wish for a universal and overwhelming sense of solidarity and righteousness, outrage at continuing misogyny, determination to effect change, and guts to stand up to power used so wrongly.  It won't happen in my lifetime, but I'd love to believe and hope it will in the next 100 years.