One should at times simply dismiss "strategy" and consider what is right and just - but on the other hand....
Personally, I don't think that married priests will solve the problem of the shortage of priests; nor will acknowledging women ordination.
There is, I also think, an "order that is sensible": a) Ordained men who have, with permission, left and left and married should be allowed to resume. The very fact of change, the presence life experience, of wives and children will begin to expand thinking and comfort. b) Married deacons, next; similar results. c) Women should be welcomed including women priests as already ordained.
In any case, no man worth his salt, or of pastoral ordination, should enter, return or resume until or unless women's ordination is acknowledged and welcomed. 
The institution of the Roman Catholic Church as presently (and intransigently) understood is not sustainable. If so, one might ask -what really is the sense?