"I say that God is neither a being nor rational, and that he does not know this or that. Therefor God is free of all things and therefore he is all things" - Meister Eckhart

There is an interesting series of essays that delve into our ideas about "Sex, Celibacy and the Nature of God" by Tony Equale here: https://tonyequale.wordpress.com/2017/04/02/sex-celibacy-and-the-nature-of-god/  . Part 3 is titled "Catholicism and the Solitary Ideal" and is here:  https://tonyequale.wordpress.com/2017/04/18/catholicism-and-the-solitary-ideal/

I don't think what is written in these essays is all right or all there is to say. But, definitely thought provoking on issues of mystical/religious marriage and real marriage, on what a belief in God as spirit has done to our ideas about being flesh and blood human, about women.  

If we come to understand that how God is described in ancient writings and current religious belief- if that is not sufficient and even wrong - a great deal else is questionable