I was not attributing the view to you.
I agree that it is offensive. It is from Joseph Card. Ratzinger (future Pope) as Prefect of the Cong. for the Doctrine of the Faith, with the blessing of Pope John Paul II.  ("Letter to the Bishops of the Catholic Church on the Collaboration of Men and Women in the Church and in the World", 2004).  Grating isn't it, especially if you are a scholar of good mind and as a result of your reason and scholarship are offended by such manipulation and misrepresentation by a respected authority.  When one panders to the piety of the faithful and arms the hierarchy (who will use it and pass it on) with an updated rationalization for the exclusion and diminution of women, it is somewhat understandable that a "feminist theologian" of Catholicism would use strong terms. No?