well--- in all honesty I have attended very few ''non-catholic'' services.  on the whole, I was not impressed or moved.  just as in the RCC,  services can be a pile of contradictions. i.e. I attended an episcopal funeral and was thrilled when the presider( a woman) invited and encouraged EVERYONE present to approach the alter for Communion. !!!  wonderful.....but on the other side, the language used was so incredibly sexist!. one would think that 'women' did not even exist...just men!   my own personal conclusion is that nothing can replace the RCC Vat 2 services.  my own assessment of the ''failure'' of these services is that 'everything happened too quickly.' i.e. one day we are told that it is a sin to talk in church; the next day we are hugging' and loving' during church.  one can only hope that the return to reflective 'variety' will allow us the freedom to find that which is most meaningful.