Trinidad - Thank you for commenting here. Firstly I would like say you sound very wise for a 16 year old, and an environment with challenges can be good for a persons character. I watched my mother and father get drunk, take drugs and beat each other up on a weekly basis and tried to shield my younger siblings from this. It sounds like in some ways you are growing up in a better environment than I did. Your environment may be positive and loving, but many in this particular demographic of homosexuality and transgenderism are not, and when society begins to celebrate situations like this, it becomes very concerning to many people (myself included). Mutilating ones body in order to meet a a perceived inner desire is a VERY dangerous road to start out on and confuses younger children in many ways, and most importantly it is not God's will for families. I believe I can speak for all the Christians here on when I say we wish God's best for you and your family. Have a Merry Christmas,