Oh, I know.  The other day, a woman informed me that God loves me, and is giving me a chance to repent (ie listen to her).  If I don't, I will be suffer he eternal fire......
But I think that all of those people are using the Bible as an excuse.  There is much in the Bible about loving others -- even the prophets talk about the care for others -- it's not just a New Testament concept.  And if I, someone who knows very little theology, knows this, then others must also.  They just choose to disregard those parts.
And many hugs and much love right back to you!