I would suggest that you are wrong that MOST parishes and dioceses have special programs for those who are NOT Married, who do not have families---who are SINGLE [by choice].  I stated nothing about youth, seniors, or parents of LGBT.

Most unmarried would NOT attend any program geared for THE married.

My point is that THESE individuals deserve to have programs geared specifically for them.  The single state has been officially listed for decades and decades as a legitimate state for Catholics.  But very little has been/is done to address those [young or older] who embrace this state in life.