Pandora, I assume you'll disagree with this but I'll put it out there anyway.  Catholic means universal.  More simply, God loves all Her people, all His creation.  When we advocate in a "Catholic way" the shunning of people, the portioning and sectioning of the holy from the unwashed, we are not being Catholic (despite what any of the popes say). That's why I agree with you when you point out that we can't disown those with conservative values either.  That's why I disagree with you here.