I believe that all of us- at one time or another in our adult lives- prefer to be 'told what to do and what to think' rather than wander about in the wilderness and find our own answers--which can require a lot of work, prayer and experience.  This preference in the context of the ' clerical parent child relationship' always allows us the luxury of blaming someone else when things do not work out as we wish.' (more trumpian than christian. )  Francis is a superb leader / parent /pope. he gives us the guidelines..the rationales… but as always from the beginning of time, we as individuals are responsible for our own choices.  I will miss  Francis when he is no longer the papal teacher, parent and his wonderful example..