I wholeheartedly disagree Jessica.  Unprocessed trauma does not just evaporate.  "It's been addressed," you claim.  I challenge you to provide evidence of how the systematic effort to extinguish Indigenous cultures has "been addressed."  While the Catholic Church is making an attempt to investigate the allegations of abuses in its institution, the BIA school system has not.  Generational trauma is real, and I believe that it is one of the root causes of much of the drinking, drugging, and other self-destructive behaviors we see in families affected.  It's not about a grudge.  Please be respectful to those who have survived this experience and compassionate in your response.