-Nora:  look even wider.  While it is hard to get out, it is very, very, very easy to stay out.  Many of us can attest to that.  

 "Authority that commands, kills. Obedience that becomes a copy of what the other person says, infantilizes."  Cardinal João Braz de Aviz, head of the Vatican’s Congregation for Religious.

Jesus told his followers to turn the other cheek, not to bend over!--