We need to accept everyone and accompany them on their way towards Christ.  Even if they don't believe as Chaput does, or how the Church in his eyes does, it is not our place to reject them.  Many of our Saints were not suitable under Chaput's guidelines in their early lives...so who is to say what individuals should be a part of the Church today.  Only by action do people really change their lives; the Church has been too long do as I say and not as I do!