So basically what you are saying in your second sentence is anyone who has the temerity to disagree with you is a "troll."

THAT is what is "SAD."

Now. The Church has had, and has streamlined, a process for divorced and remarried Catholics to discern (pastoral accompaniment and deep understanding) and reintegrate themselves with the Church and the Sacraments... the sacrament of Reconciliation, annulment and convalidation.  

No heresy there.