Thanks for both your comments, mountain dweller.

I think we need to respect these differences in how faith is experienced and expressed.  There is a place for the church will pews firmly attached to the floor, with space for adoration of the Eucharist, stained glass windows, the quiet of a few people scattered in a large space.  This is how/where holiness is found for some people.

But I would like a church like Judson Memorial.  I am inspired to explore faith by discovering how others are inspired by different rituals, different ways and experiences of acts of kindness, by dance or by bringing music into worship or experiencing music in worship. 
 Or, saying grace with my family all around me - which is also "church."  Looking off the back deck of my house into a tree filled space that looks as if it curves into a forest - that can bring me peace, too, because I am reminded how close God is. 

We don't all "find the Spirit" in the same way.  Catholicism needs to allow room for that.