Since when does deprivation cause a person to be holy.  The idea that even priests should not marry or remarry if their wives die is a cause of the very poor theology coming out of The RC church about marriage and sex.  JPII encyclical is a case in point.  He certainly did not have either the scientific  or psychological knowledge to write about this subject.  Too bad the members of the episcopacy believe they are some how omniscient and omnipotent when it comes to even rules.  They aren't  either.  The Apostolic requirements of the church is fulfilled by baptism not holy orders.  So it only take 2 present for ANY baptized person to preform Any sacrament.  The episcopacy only pretends to be little Caesars.  They are really monarchs without clothes.  Much of the laity has recognized just how disrespectful these men that run the church are.