Ok, for your sake I will concede some latent passive-aggressive tendencies in my prose but, again, that is secondary.  
I am not speaking of mistakes people make in large organizations but systemic problems in one claiming to be divinely-inspired and founded by a saint and therefore unchangeable.
It's telling that you see civil discussion about verifiable issues as wacky or conspiratorial.
I did not recommend ODAN, a static site but not imbalanced.  If you have any questions about which pages of that site are most useful, let me know.  I happen to know their backstory.  If you are interested in the Spanish universe and can tolerate Google translate, the site Opuslibros.org has volumes of quite varied correspondence of the types I alluded to.  The letters are updated every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.  Further, and for some reason better translated by Google, the French-language www.lenversdudecor.org addresses Opus Dei and several other Catholic groups with similar issues.  Pax