You are correct, Ms Bolcon.  You do not accuse.  You simply slap on labels; in essence you are engaging in name-calling.  You are the one who insists that getting rid of the requirement of celibacy is necessarily going to delay/prevent the Catholic Church from ordaining women.   You may be right, but you may also be wrong. You refuse to accept the possibility that those who see the two as separate issues may also be right.  
It appears that you are so certain that your point of view (and that is all it is) is completely correct that you refuse to consider that, just perhaps, you might not have all of the answers.  I don't think that most of the men in the hierarchy want women ordained, but I believe that it is important to push for this, because it is just.  However, I don't believe that other issues ought to be set aside because of the sexism and misogyny of the hierarchy and many of those who support them.