I believe this is why honest dialogue is needed on these subjects.  I can understand how men and women may be attracted to the same sex even though I am heterosexual but I have difficulty understanding gender re-alignment for anyone.  This is because most of the people who seek gender physical change seem to be seeking a stereotype, when asked why they feel they are in the wrong body.  I have not found any masculine or feminine stereotypes to be accurate at all, and many become mental prisons as 50% of each gender does not fit the macho man or soft nurturing woman cage that the church has defined to them as normal.

Discussion can help us understand what the other has been going thru and all can share what in their sexual experience has led them to believe the things they do.  Having a bunch of celibate men decide what is natural law for everyone has been an extremely self-destructive choice.  We need a church where all have a voice as Christ directed in the Gospels.