Well you misunderstand.

If your main consern is your wife's health...guess what...your concern is where it needs to be: with your wife, that is, your family.   So I was right. 

Your old enough that youre likely covered under medicare anyway...

http://obamacarefacts.com/obamacare-medicare/

Obamacare has already been collapsing for 12 months, with the premiums galloping away. 

All of Obama's promises on this have proven to be outright lies. "Like your health care plan? then you can keep it"...etc.  

Yah.

If your middle son is most concerned about the world his children will live in...guess what?  He's concerned with the family.

He should renew his obigation as a Catholic (because I'm certain that you've lived the faith so well that he's also a happily struggling Catholic)....and he has set to the task to form his children in all the good virtues.

These virtues will ensure that no matter what world they enter...they can thrive with God.