Cite the gospel passage where Jesus preached he would come soon to kill those who resisted the gospel.  Ah, but you can't, as there is no such passage.  
In the hopes that you can be educated, here are common definitions of apocalyptic:  of, relating to, or resembling an apocalypse apocalyptic events
:  forecasting the ultimate destiny of the world :  prophetic apocalyptic warnings:  foreboding imminent disaster or final doom :  terrible apocalyptic signs of the coming end-times.  Even if you are correct about Jesus being an apocalyptic prophet, you will see your unique and erroneous understanding of Jesus as some kind of war god is incorrect.  Are you sure you are a christian?  Are you really contending that, had Jesus wanted to wage war against the Romans, in his time and place, it would have been futile?  Are you doubting Jesus' claim He could call on the legions of Heaven if He wanted?