It take 2 to make the kids. You just assume the woman does not want the child. Also familes cannot afford 10 kids anymore. Or are married couples not allowed to have sex unless they are willing to have children they cannot afford. Or maybe Catholic's should be not responsible and have tons of kids and let everyone else pay for them. The problem with the Church is that it is out of touch, it has covered up scandals and you don't need the hypocritical  Church to have a relationship with God.