I agree but it is clear that they either don't understand the Church's teaching on this matter, or they are willfully rejecting it because it doesn't fit their secularized view of life. The post Vatican II Church has failed to catechize the flock properly and the result is many pseudo catholics running around picking and choosing what they want to believe. Their errors, it seems, have been bolstered by a protestantised clergy. It is a sad time for the Church and I weep for Her.