to continue: the tragedy of schism and and division and strife and in our day polarization comes about from clergy and their authority either within the church or among churches being a source of contention. If you can imagine a Catholic King having Protestants doubting the Real Presence roasted over a fire and raised again and lowered to produce the greatest agony possible while enjoying dinner inside a church where he recently escorted the Blessed Sacrament in procession you have an example of the extremes to which this can go. 
     If this were arbitrary and the Holy Spirit within us is the true priest in the absence of Jesus on earth who is our High Priest in Heaven (Hebrews) then for charities sake, obey your pastors and love the Lord-but know that you have the same Lord dwelling within you and no-one in authority over you has any more special sacramental power than that given for the sake of convenience to allow a congregation to have integrity it its spiritual life.