I notice nobody has disagreed with John's "confession." Could it be when there are actual human situations and names known, the rational response of trusting a loving, Catholic, anti-abortion couple prevails?

Is there any man on this site who, if told another pregnancy would kill his wife, the mother of his children, would discern anything other than what John did?  Are we to assume total silence is assent? 

If I am wrong, and I have been before,  I would like to know the alternatives one would suggest...or, better yet, I would like to know from anyone here what they did differently when they actually experienced such a situation. Thanks.