It's all anecdotal. There have been seminaries with larger than average percentages of homosexuals - Milwaukee under Weakland for particular example - but these have been offset by diocese like Lincoln with zero tolerance. The high estimates come from the homosexual community, reasonable estimates seem to approximate the overall Catholic percentage, which is not "so many".

The teaching on the ordination of women and the immorality of sexual relations outside of marriage are irreformable no matter how you characterize them. The Church leads people to reform their lives, not the other way around. Your opinion of that is of no consequence.

Generally theological high church Anglicans have exited the communion. Yes, there are some liturgical high church - bells and smells - communities who accept the notion of women priests, but they are a minority quickly fading away, just as they did among the continental Old Catholics.