Bill nothing in the life of finite beings is perfect. That includes both you and I. It is the cracks in belief that will allow the light from the Spirit to lead us.   But so many feel that their belief is some how perfect or infallible.  Nothing could be further from reality.     So maybe this is the first belated step.  The problem is the dogma of the Catholic Faith about sex, marriage and reproduction is not at all realistic.  It is based on a "natural law" not recognizable by scientists of nature and most good theologians and philosopher.  So let the Spirit bring us light.  Bishops and dogmatists must now stop and listen or our church will not be seen as a realistic institution leading people to spirituality and salvation.   Perhaps the Bishops should start by listening to those who know more than they.  That would include theologians, scientists, social workers and everyday married and divorced people...