We all appear to be in agreement that humility and obedience should grace our attitude toward God.

How is it that you conclude that because I do not subscribe to your "rule" interpretation of what Jesus said about marriage therefore my approach "is the opposite of humble obedience, the opposite of love of God"?

If you can wade through Parts 1 through 7 I would ask you to reconsider your conclusion, and grant me the same presumption of journey integrity that I grant you.

I would add one point to what I have said in prior posts.  As a matter of scriptural interpretation, I subscribe to the view that the Gospel writers were speaking to particular communities, expressing some forty to sixty years after the events and based upon oral tradition an account that was intended -- by the Gospel writer -- to maintain and strengthen their faith in the Good News preached by the Risen Christ.

It is important to consider the continuing presence of the Spirit. 

Have a happy and blessed Easter.