The point is we should have more articles encouraging Catholics to not focus on themselves so much, or perhaps articles that don't simply cause the nursing of resentments and complaints and finger pointing.  Most people know what I mean. 

Real men and women don't focus on themselves very much, but are instead intently focused on serving others, and especially so when it causes them to go against the easier grain of focusing on themselves.   I can't point to any here so if the reader wants I can look around and provide some links to such better reading. 

Take this exchange.  I am really not focused on responding to Kurgan, but instead offering other readers some substantial points about a more heroic way of Christian living, worthy of real men and real women.  And in so doing I am providing them a starker contrast to the contribution preceding it written by Kurgan, whose intent is more superficial at best and more likely just sarcastic.