Correct me if I am wrong, but:

1) I do not recall Hilary distancing herself from those comments.  How do you think she would have reacted if one of her staffers said something disparaging about the Muslim community they worship in?  

2) That the comment is limited in scope to the person's own parish does not make the comment appropriate.  See above. 

As an aside, I have never understood why people who call themselves Catholic get so offended when a priest actually teaches Catholic doctrine in his parish.  Newsflash:  we believe marriage is for one man and one women until death, we do not believe that women are called to Holy Orders, we do not agree with modern, liberal sexual ethics and we do not support abortion.  If that person does not like it, or anyone else for that matter, there are thousands of Protestant sects they can join--churches that will teach the secular Gospel they have embraced.