I didn't mean to say that his coming out was a betrayal to others; I meant that it was an ill-considered rejection of those peoples' opinions.  Those opinions and perspectives were not formed lightly and are the result of countless years of human experiment in civilizations.

With thousands of years of developing our perspective on human sexual conduct - an almost universal understanding - developed with the guidance of God and his Son, it seems rather selfish for one to suddenly reject all that we've come to understand and say, "No, I don't want to accept that.  I want to do what feels good to me and would seem to lead to my happiness."  That sort of thought is what leads to, e.g., divorce (because a spouse is not happy) or even murder (because a person is unhappy).  

What God intended us to be is not always obvious from our feelings and certainly not from our sexual lust.  When we "move on" from the sins of others, we have abandoned them.