Except Jay, christian bakers aren't asking if you're divorced. Jesus said a bit about that. There were only two reasons to get a divorce. Incompatibility wasn't one of them. These people are in the business to sell cakes. No one made them become bakers. If they don't want to serve a segment of our society, then they should find a new job. An employer has no right to tell me if I can or can't use birth control. It's not their business. Where in the bible does it say a woman can't use birth control? I've never found that passage.