Today Holy Mother the Church celebrates the life of Saint Anthony of Padua, patron saint of lost articles while my wife and I celebrate 53 years of happy marriage, happy that, somehow, we found one another.  The whole celebration seems out of step with notions of ecofeminism.  We do much better receiving spiritual guidance from one another than from celibate males who do not read.  We find prudence from each other, when considering such things as ecofeminism.  In the final analysis, “Lord, let your face shine on me” (Psalm 119:135a).  “The one who gives us security with you in Christ . . . has also put his seal upon us” (2 Corinthians 1:21-22).  “You are the light of the world.  A city set on a mountain cannot be hidden” (Matthew 5:14).  The role of husbands and wives helping one another as spiritual advisors appears nowhere in the current clatter of spiritual advice.