Baptism---there is a Baptism of Desire.  It is not only for those who are dying and would have wanted to be baptized.  But it is also for parents, who would have wanted their child to be baptized---but it died.  By desiring it for their child----the child IS baptized.
 God doesn't play the petty games that you seem to enjoy playing, Marty!


Secondly----at no place in any Gospel is Jesus 'ordaining' any of the Twelve.  You have no evidence that ONLY the Twelve were present at the Last Supper----many were---including Mathias, who took Judas' place as a member of the Twelve.  This was a Passover meal, not a Greco-Roman drinking party for men only.


Among the Chaldean Catholics of Syria, there is often no priest to offer Divine Liturgy for them.  But gathering together and saying the prayers of the Divine Liturgy---they are able to consecrate the bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Christ.  "Wherever two or three are gathered in my name, I am in their midst."