I suppose if one can blow off Matthew 19: 3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”, there is no limit to what “most faithful Catholics would find it ludicrous.”

The teaching that divorced and remarried couples in every case are committing adultery by engaging in loving sexual relations has been accepted by the folks going to Confession and availing themselves of the marriage tribunals. If that does not include you, that’s between and your Creator. I would not expect the Church to give you an endorsement to suit your particular whims.