Calling people cowards and not holy enough, is not going to encourage people to return. If the intent to make the church in to a right wing club, out of touch, ignorant to the world, where women know their place and Priests are aloof and detached from their congregation. And that will exclude those that are in pain or suffering. Will be unapproachable.  The Catholics that I know go out twice a week to feed the homeless a through the year, they do not only serve those that are "Holy..". Jesus did not only spend time with people that where Holy and sinless either. None of The Aposetles were without sin and you can't be missionary is you judge people and make them unwelcome. Chaput needs to visit Catholics outside of the US. And he doesn't understand "Accompanying people" either, I do because Jesuits taught me.