It is very important to distinguish between revealed truths, dogmatically defined as such, and provisional doctrines that may be amenable to further development as the deposit of faith is better understood.  Everybody taking something for granted, and then acting accordingly for 2000 years, is no proof that revealed truth has been exhausted.

This is not about ancient/modern academic theologies.  Aquinas failed to refute that women are defective males (Summa 92).  So much for patriarchal  theologies.

I believe, with certainty of faith, that the Church is "one, holy, catholic, and apostolic."  I do not believe, with certainty of faith, that "apostolic" means  "patriarchal."  Like the Trinity, the Church is a communion, not a patriarchy.  I have offered many references to the CCC and the TOB that you have not considered.  Please do.

The CCC is a good book that filters out ancient/modern theological garbage.  Find me something there about the ontological masculinity of the Eucharist.