Ah, yes, the good old traditionalist cry of "if you don't agree 100% with the magisterium, you should leave" -- which generally means "if you don't agree with ME, you should leave". Why should we? It's just as much our Church as it is your or it is the hierarchs' Church.

There are certain things one must accept if one is to be a Catholic: The true presence of Christ in the Eucharist, the Trinity, that the Church is a mystery and not a man-made thing. Things like that. One certainly can question "Should women be ordained" and be a proper Catholic.

You remind me of the the attitude of the sages of the Talmud, who built "a fence around the Torah", and made it almost absurdly wide ("You shall not boil a kid in its mother's milk." -- Exodus 23:19 means that one cannot serve chicken and butter in the same meal). 

My questioning certain teachings does not mean "I am unhappy with the faith", it means I have questions.