We must be in the world not of the world.  The problem is not just the ties with planned parenthood it is the indoctrination into teaching that conflict with those of the Catholic Church.  I had reservations about the GS and my girl went through a few years of GS over 6 years ago .  The Bishop, if you read his comments stated that it was not a severing of ties with the girl scouts but one of switching to a group that better prepares the girl in a more Christ like organization.  You seem to have a lot of underling issues that are coming out in your writing maybe you should reflect a bit on that. 

If I do not go with a  friend to strip club and instead go to Church and pray for them, am I being a poor friend for not engaging in the world?  Or am I being a bad friend if I choose to not have them around my young daughter?  remember no one dies in a strip club I can't say the same for planned parenthood.