Why is it always us that have to change for the separated brethren and not the other way around?

We need live our our Catholic faith unapologetically, Mass stipends, indulgences and Benediction and all. You think our separated brethren worry about what practices of theirs we find offensive? 

If they don’t wish to become Catholic, at minimum, respect us for who we are and our distinctive practice of the traditions handed down to us.