Really?  In your post below, you write "Read Scripture."  To save you the trouble, here's some: 

"Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.” (Matt 5:23 -24). 

Seems that Jesus is saying that the primary and most intense apology should be to the one harmed.