I personally would prefer not to excuse your cattiness.

Comments like “I cannot help but observe that Cardinal Burke looks like he has been highly feminized and is not a man” don’t advance a conversation. I have met him and you are wide of the mark.

Folks are completely entitled to harbor ill-feelings, deep-seated anger, biases, and the assorted what-not of being human.

Sharing them with others, however, is not how we build a Christian community.