"Rules are about drawing lines. Jesus was about something else." 

Wrong.  Jesus was about something in addition to rules, not something instead of rules.  How many times must you hear Jesus own words:  "If you love me, you will keep my commandments."  "My rules," in other words.  You are in a state of irrational denial, my friend.  I gave you two ways out of your dilemma earlier --- you can either say that Jesus did not say what is attributed to him re: divorce, or you can say that you do not believe Jesus was correct.  But you cannot rationally say that Jesus uttered no rule on divorce.  You call it idolatry to take Jesus at his word.  What you're saying is that you disagree with Jesus, with God.  You worship the wrong god, i.e., your own judgment (rather than God's).  Admit that, and you'll at least be honest with yourself.  God might even be more forgiving of your willful attempts to woo people from his will.  Your position has more holes than Putt-Putt.