Hi William, 
The issue is that we don't judge truth by our experience. To say that you have been blessed by the preaching ministries of a woman preachers when the bible says that isn't the correct order of things. Its like I know of men that are really blessed by how their wives go to work to support the family and they think that it is so wonderful that the Lord would give here the work and the strength to do it and do a good job but the bible gave that duty to man not woman. And to his shame he forfeits his God given roll and the bible says that he is worse than a non believer if HE doesn't support his family.
And so it is with ministry. God gave man the duty of ministry"the elder is to be the husband of one wife". 1Cor.14:34-38 is not a suggestion it is a command and it ends with "if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant.
The the point is don't judge your ideas by your feelings but by the word of God…The Holy Spirit inspired them.  

God bless you buddy 

Dave


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