I would think Ruhr would agree with you; this is precisely what his ministry is doing - and he is far from drawing a wall around himself. The very heart of Christ meets people where they are and, in dialogue, draws them beyond where they are to a new relationship with the God who IS Love - this is what happens to each one who turns to God on a daily basis. The heart of Christ reaches out to diverse people and meets them in diverse ways, yourself included. It is a great mistake to think that what draws you to God will automatically draw everyone else. People are diverse, thanks be to God (literally).