I've done hundreds of hours of bible study, almost all with many people at the table.   I can tell you with complete confidence that there is NOT one common reading of what most  biblical passages mean.  

If you can give me the verse you are referring to that would be cool, but it will NOT represent everybody's image of what a church should be.   Reality says the Christian church has great diversity of both ideology and common practices/traditions.

I will not impose my belief on you Always, nor will I insult you because you may not believe as I do.  

You can get explanations of scripture if that meets your needs.  For most people Sunday sermons, by a very human pastor, is enough.  A church can show love and compassion and still disagree on the details of theology.

Do you think churches that don't match your expectation, should not be called Christian?