No.

At Mass, we become witnesses to our own Redemption.

That's what is underway at Mass.    And that is why a Mass isn't a mere "service" or "family event".

We must see much much bigger, with the eyes of God. 

No wonder there is so much self-focus and complaint and lukewarm attendance:  Catholics are truly ignorant about what is going on at  Mass.  There is no love, no gift of self, in the image of Jesus, happy to suffer for us, and willing to share more of his intimate divine life with us...but that means we have to touch the Cross.   We have to cheerfully put up with - what were Pope Francis's words used the other day? - o yes "banal modern church music".

We have to cheerfully listen to even the sugary music of [Haugen, Shutte, Foley, there are really not that many] , and love God - through our suffering, as He did for each of us.