Ellamae, you say, "Now how do you witness to neighbors who seem "perfect?" Why should you witness to them or anyone? There are countless ways to live one's life, Adventism is just one. There is no obvious benefit for changing from one to another church. There is no reason to belong to any church.

It is an egotistical aberration to steer someone to your way of thinking. Adventism isn't special, has no unique attachment to deity, is one of a million belief systems. Enjoying your faith is fine. Thinking it rates above all the rest, not so much.