I'll stick with hijack. It is the same as homosexual men and women going to Mass with their rainbow attire, flaunting it before a priest at Communion, and hoping they are denied reception so they may play the victim.

Did Christ know what He was doing or didn't He?

The third option may be to find a different church. I am not asking you to leave, but if you don't like the teachings of this club why would you want to stay a member? There are other Christian denominations which have what you want.