Nothing about sex is dogmatic because Dogma is about what we agreed to at Chalcedom, Ephesus and Nicea. No Pope declared it (the Romans at the time were Aryan heretics), it was voted on by elected bishops. The rest depends on reason and the reality of evidence. The days when the Pope saying so or the Bible so outweighing reality are over. What I do rely on are what he said about himself (God) being gentle and humble of heart, his yoke is easy and his burden light. His morality makes us human, not divine. Charity makes us divine, both private and PUBLIC.