You seem to be an authority on what "they" want! I wonder what you are basing your opinions on? You have to "pay your taxes and shut up"? Don't you get to vote, just like every other Canadian? Aren't you free to call your MPs, your MLAs, your Premier, your PM? Aren't you free to write to editors of newspapers, call radio programs, comment on articles like this one? 
What "free stuff"  and who's desires" are you referring to? On what occasion have you EVER been told practicing Christianity is "unsavory"? What, exactly, is being "shoved in our faces'? It is simply not true that we must respect Islam but there is no reciprocation.  Time for you to speak to actual humans that also happen to be Muslim. They want all the same things you want. A roof over their heads, good food, a good nights sleep, fun times with friends and family, a good job, freedom to worship, peace and good government. How do I know? I asked. Try it.