I have to admit the truth of what you say. I would feel bad. Everyone is affected by the way they are treated, and I would not like it one bit to be the target of discrimination or beatings. If you are a gay person, then obviously you do not consider that you are "disordered" as the Church expresses it. However, the view of the Church in this regard is hardly an innovation. This has been the view of the Catholic Church and most other Christian churches for centuries, as well as every other major faith.