Thanks, John, for reminding me of a source I am sure helped me come to realize that non-Christians, and even cafeteria Catholics, have a home in God's heart.  I looked it up.  One of my favorite lines:  "Those also can attain to salvation who through no fault of their own do not know the Gospel of Christ or His Church, yet sincerely seek God and moved by grace strive by their deeds to do His will as it is known to them through the dictates of conscience."  

I do believe God wants to be known and heard.  He is not hiding.  He comes to all in ways He can be found.