Your explanation for Jesus' commandment against divorce is rubbish, no matter how many times you smugly state it.  This is NOT what Jesus said:  "Amen, amen I say to you, that because women are treated like chattel, I, Jesus, perfect liberal that I am, now tell you brothers:  No man or woman shall divorce (except for adultery) because it is the put-away wife who gets screwed.  This will change in time, but until then, what I tell you is the will of God."  That's not what happened.  Jesus told us the reason for his commandment against divorce:  "What God hath joined together  . . ." You may disagree with Jesus' reasoning, but that was his stated reason, the only one he mentioned.

Your logic also overlooks that divorce was allowed for one (and only exception):  adultery.  If Jesus forbade divorce only, or even mainly, to protect married women, he would have allowed women (and only women) to divorce on additional grounds (e.g. severe physical abuse or attempted murder).