(Part two of three)  Or are you simply displeased that certain theologians who have taught cintrary [sic] to this teaching have been "censored"?—mjmchale  Whatever “this teaching” may mean.  The concern is that academic freedom required to get past received biases and prejudices.

The Church may have responsibility for the fifty-percent divorce rate and for young people leaving the Church.  Bernie S. Siegel, M.D., Love, Medicine & Miracles:  Lessons Learned About self-Healing from a Surgeon’s Experience with Exceptional Patients (William Morrow:  An Imprint of HarperCollins Publishers, 1990) makes the point that people have unconscious desires and emotions.  With that as an assumption, at the Eighth Station of the Cross, Jesus upbraids the weeping women of Jerusalem.