Relax EFC1127A, I was being facetious... I have no problem with marital sexuality but if you don't see a disconnect between Catholic teaching on sexual morals and its receptivity among the masses then you most certainly have your blinders on.  There is NO SIN in responsible family planning and yes multiple parish priests have affirmed that to my face--one of them was himself previously married, then widowed... about as manly as a priest can get!