thank you for your call for charity on both sides...its very sad though that since VII we have sides...it used to be just the Catholic side
coming from "trying to be a faithful Catholic side, i.e. believing in the Catechism and not believing I can pick and choose teachings," I have fallen short of charity or courtesy sometime when posting as  I tend to get very emotional about what I see is happening to our church...BUT thank you for reminding us of Christian charity