Bad urban planning destroys cities.  Read Luke's Gospel when the disciples asked if there was some sin that condemned the people who died when the tower of Siloam fell.  Jesus said no.  His statement can be applied to those five cities.  Complimentarity is a philosophical concept, not a natural one.  What happens in natural is what is natural, including a certain number of people being gay and a certain number being asexual, with the vast number being hetero.  About half the priesthood is asexual.  If you are a seminarian with that orientation, please quit assuming that everyone else is not wired like you, it will be better for your flock and the Church as a whole. And please examine your sexuality in a mature manner in a supportive community so that you deal with others charitably.  Oh, God cannot be offended. God is perfectly happy.  The natural order cannot be offended. There is no such thing outside human discussion.  There are only people and what you say is hurtful to them.