Yes, you should be the opposite of what you are. You should be honest, open, sympathetic, humble. So why aren't you?

You say I should forget that you have lied about me, and blamed me for your refusal to apologize. What really got to me in our back and forth about my not getting over the bullying I suffered in school was your refusal to offer either sympathy for those being bullied or condemnation of the bullies. The only one you did condemn was me for my inability to forgive. You call being bullied an "extremely small matter", which shows that your empathy is non-existent. I knew someone who committed suicide because he was bullied.

I am not a perfect Christian. But the "Christianity" you show is quite unattractive. It is wholly self-centered., showing no concern for others. You slam "social justice warriors". Do you support injustice? You won't condemn racism. Do you see nothing wrong with it? You have a tiny view, just you and the "Christ" created in your own image and likeness.