Shar,
Agreed. I can't claim to have "the answer," nor even an answer to cover it all. What I do have are some  basics:
1: A basic, almost "reptilian brain" kind of sense that what we've seen in wrong, at the level of something that cannot and MUST not be allowed to be "explained away." Abuse of children is wrong, no matter who, where, when.   
2: That sense is amplified, and "burned in" because I've held my three daughters  moments after they were born, and have shepherded them as best I could into their 30s, and all that entails.
3: I was brought up catholic, went through Catholic schools, and had it DRILLED into me about how the hierarchy works, their "charisms," etc. I know what the church teaches, and this ain't it.
4: At my age, I know that human behavior rare changes without an incentive.
5: They aren't even close to solving the real problem, as that will require a change of heart, not just words, promises, or what we've been given so far.

They aren't there yet: not even close.