Omg, you're right.  I was young, and I remember The Diocesan "Catholic Woman of The Year".  Year after year, she was someone from the rich part of town, with a rich hubby, she didn't have to work, and she had two kids.  But the poor Mexican women in the barrio, who followed The RCC's teaching on birth control and had eight kids -- they never were given that 'honor', of course.