Translation: I think what Jesus said on adultery still matters, receiving Him in a state of grace still matters, and eternal salvation still matters. 

Telling people that heroism isn't for ordinary Christians, that Jesus' teaching is just too hard for you, and you have permission to disregard it is what really constitutes looking down on someone. I would not appreciate being told one of Jesus' commandments didn't apply to me because I just was incapable of doing any better.