First off, the church people do have a tendency to want to help the people among them.   I think you have explained where your hatred of God comes from.  What you fail to understand is that God still loves YOU.   He still died for YOU.  2nd. there is no woman-hating agenda that evangelicals or Republicans have.  There might be a few in both that hate women and want to promote that.   Do you deny that there are people on the left that hate men and have a anti-male agenda?   What healthcare rights are we denying women?  The right to commit murder?  That is not a healthcare right.   What workplace protection rights are we denying them?  The right to be treated equal?  The right to chose a career field that suits them?  The left seems to think there is no difference between men and women.   That you can change your sex  on a whim.   Neither are true.   So, you want people that promote evil to join you.   Do you not do that well enough your self?