Pandora17,
It,s not my job to go around correcting everyone who is either unfriendly to others or to correct those whom use attacks and/or bomb dropping as their primary method of discussion on this site. 
If/when you do that it is up to you to either apologize or to correct oneself. IOW, it is your job to see to it that you USUALLY act in accordance with the wishes of the site owners and sponsors. 
IF you make the mistake of using strong declarative language that causes others to not be able 
express their thoughts, or even disagree with you. That IS why the site owners have rules which are meant to discourage that kind of expression.
You may be caught in that mode of aggressive expression for some different reasons. Could it be because you are a rigid trad Catholic. And who made you that way -- probably your father or husband OR did you make yourself that way?
Are you an aggressive person because you are a Republican and learned that behavior from GOP operatives. 

You decide.