I think you meant "time" instead of "tie"....
I do wonder what you get out of these exchanges...the vitriol...the invective...it seems incongruous for a christian who is always a stalwart defender of the Church...is this what the Church wants???  Is this the way Christ taught his followers to act???  I cannot help but ask, not only to spark discussion of idears and things, but out of a sincere desire to understand how you square these postings with your profession of faith....