Doctrines are NOT sacred!  And you just can't seem to get it through your mind that Jesus did not 'pitch his tent among us'----because he loved our doctrines!  Jesus did it because God [Father, Son and Holy Spirit] loves us.

All your carping about what is required of Catholics is empty.  What is required of Catholics is to mirror Jesus [spiritually] and continue his mission on this earth.  Your judgment of people----indulging themselves is most un-Christian attitude.  You don't know the sorrows that many have had---and you don't care.  Only doctrines seem to matter. 

When Jesus stated "Father forgive them for they know not what they do"---he wasn't judging---but apparently you are.  "Do not judge, so that you may not be judged.  For the judgment you make, you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get."
[Matt. 7:1-3].