Catholic parents who want to raise children to value and respect everyone are in a bind. Unless the parents can be assured of the contrary by personally examining the curriculum, philosophy and values of the school or religious education program, they have to assume that a Catholic school or program is hostile to GLBTQ students and families.  If such parents continue to value religious education for their children, they will have to find a way to provide formation for the sacraments that excludes the bigotry of the main program.  Schools and parishes, teachers and pastors, that are trying to be welcoming, inclusive and affirming are walking a precarious tightrope; I don't think it's sustainable.  Home schooling for religious education may be an answer for some families, but this situation does not seem tenable over the long haul.