Again, the operative is you seem to believe the Church actually knows something about saving an individual's soul.  The Church can't even prove the soul exists.  What Jesus taught is that we shall be judged on how we treat others, as in the least of us, not how we condemn others to make us feel good about 'saving our souls' vs them 'losing' their souls.  Absolutely love can exist between two people of the same sex and they can most certainly desire the good of each other...and some of these couples, like many heterosexual couples, don't have sex or have gone beyond the need because of age.