Nature,  my friend Timo,  the premise is rooted in nature,  not Adventism or Calvinism,  or some other  'ism.' Men and women are not designed for equal purpose.  You need a powerful 'ism'  to believe otherwise. 

As for the words of Jesus,  "You did not choose me,  I  chose you" - I don't think John Calvin followers have a monopoly on the straightforward interpretation. 

How do you interpret the text?