Julian of Norwich wrote of Mother God and Mother Jesus.  Certainly God is not just male, is not limited by gender or in any way.  God should not be limited by our language.

"Father" has limited our understanding and experience of God, and this usage had led to the angry old bearded God image that has led many to become atheists.  

When language is divisive or dismissive, it needs a change. The church needs more inclusive language.  Why be such a stickler for language that leaves out over half of us?  Also, Your use of "feminism" seems a bit unkind, snide, disrespectful and dismissive.