Demand equity in all things. You need to debrief culture and spirituality themselves of latent paternalistic arrogance and contempt for gender equity. That doesn't just mean ending wrongful discrimination against women, but includes protection for all genders other than cisgender male, which lack protection and still are harassed by cultish psycho men and their collaborators. Much of the problem is that you haven't managed to focus your sights on the groups disparaging you the most-- some faction of men hidden away in Christianity, Islam, and Judaism who subscribe fully to the Abrahamistic notion that women should defer to the primacy of men on all sorts of spiritual and cultural and social values. Well, it's an affront, isn't it, since God is obviously female. Stand up for your spirituality, found a body of faith that openly worships a female God and establish your foothold before we regress into feudalism any further.