Your initial post referred to "dreams," not daydreams.  They are not the same, though you put them in the same moral canoe (or pirogue, if you're from South Louisiana).  Tell that to your friends when you invite them to laugh at the thought that you're a new Catholic.

"A willfully entertained fantasy" is not to be averted or discarded; it is to be cherished."  Wow!  What a major premise.  Tell this to your friends when you invite them to laugh at the thought that you're a new Catholic.

"It is wrong to objectify a daydream."  Another astounding premise.  

"You sound new to love and romance."  Tell that to MY friends.  They really WILL guffaw.