...." the male-only priesthood has nothing to do with Christ's orders. It is all about power."....

We need to realize that it is more than 'male-only priesthood' – the problem is our custom of  'male-only CLERICS' and restricting priestly ordination to 'clerics only'. 

In the beginning, Christians were not divided into 'classes' of Cleric and Lay. Everyone was 'laity', no matter what office they held.

Start off with eliminating the 'clerical cast' and declare everyone - From Pope on down – to all be 'laity'.

That might allow us to start thinking differently.