Frances,
If you'd like to project your politics so much on to the Church, a politic which goes against hundreds, if not thousands of years of Church teaching, a politic which prizes the concerns of Man over God, a politic which Pope John Paul II and later Holy Father Francis rightfully called the "Culture of Death," then perhaps you should consider apostatizing yourself if this is so important to you. You appear solely concerned with the faith conforming to contemporaneous politics, to become nothing more than another social organization but with a vague idea of faith. 

Even more telling of your accessory-Catholicism is your belief that God is but symbolic figment "ever-changing". Don't lie about your grossly obvious disbelief in a true, objective God, this is precisely what you believe when claim that God is ever-changing-- that you can form God to be a figurehead to whatever damned ideology you pick from, the same mistake made by the Right decades ago.

I'll pray for you.