I didn't say passive voice; I said they are passive with respect to the one praying; they require no action on the one praying.  They are requests to, not demands of, God.

I'm also no linguist, but you seem to take a big leap from "thy will be done" from our "desire, want, wish, hope" to a requirement of us to actualize God's will for Him.

If what you say is the case, should not the prayer say may We do your will and may WE bring your kingdom, especially to distinguish it from the other requests which are pleas for God to act?

Waiting for the magical appearance of God is what Jesus spoke of:  Recall the panic in the boat when the storm came up; Jesus told the apostles to have faith, not freak out.  Because God takes care of us (Matthew 6:26-34).

God is the creator, the king.  We are his subjects. We love Him and have faith in Him.  We are individual seeds that grow independently; some plants will survive, some will not, but not because the plants form an alliance.