Most of the "spirit of VII" protest/tendency springs from a disposition that "I/we deserve more".

My thinking is: I don't deserve to be brought into deeper unity with God, and I am constantly overwhelmed with a deep sense of gratitude and gift that God through His words and Church have brought us so many ways of increasing this divine unity, this reconciliation, this communion:  The Mass, the Sacrament of Reconciliation, the ability to pray, the grace of charity when I try to serve God for the right reason,  and a uniting fertile family life.

All is an inestimable gift.  

Mass in this or that language?  

Ok, but I deserve none of it and can't bring myself to demand it.