Here is the problem: all of your words are just euphemisms that liberals bring out when they have no logical or rational arguments for their positions.

It is easier to call someone a homophobic then to intelligently defend gay marriage.  It is easier to call someone a misogynist than intelligently argue the issue of women's ordination.  It is easier to bring out the old myth of "pray, pay and obey" than have an intelligent conversation.

If you want to have a meaningful and substantive conversation on issues that divide Catholics from the secular world I would be happy to do so--but please--stop the euphemisms.  

I am surprised you haven't yet tried to redefine abortion as "choice." Liberals love to do that too.  "Choice" sounds so much nicer than "Murder my unborn child."