Sorry, but the truth sometimes hurts.  If correct, you have stated you attend a very progressive Church in Chicago, so I find it hard to believe you have many conservative Catholics tattling on others there.  What do you personally know of the actual reasons why others in that Parish  have left?  Did they tell you they left because of the reasons you listed?  You must be really involved in the personal lives of those fellow Catholics sitting in the pews next to you.  
  Your end your comment with a final insult against the last two Popes.  That is a personal attack on those two Popes. How did that comment get through the sensors?   You got in "pious Catholic mommy" , but forgot to  attack Cardinal Burke, hopefully my previous comment is sinking in just a little.