No wonder people join the Episcopal Church.  It is so much more tolerant than the Roman brand.  It is open to high Mass facing the altar with ornate vestments, incense and chant.  It is also open to modern innovations with a "cosmic" liturgy.  It is gay friendly, women clergy and yet kneels for Communion and sings glorious traditional hymns on the organ with boy or girl vested choirs.  Some parishes have Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament, private confession and Marian devotions.  Other prefer Morning Prayer and simple vestments.  Why do Romans fight each other over preferences in liturgy, etc?  Why not look at the tolerant, gentle acceptance of different views in the Episcopal Church.  The Episcopal Church welcomes you!