Actually, i have been in a position of getting a court order from the operating room to give blood to a dying child whose parents are Whitneses.  These parents actually thanked me afterwards and told me that they would been shunned had they given permutation.  I asked them if religion is ever worth emotional shaming.  Same is true of the dogmatic catholics on this board and many dogmatic American "infallible" Bishops.  Time to shame them back!!