So let families use and access contraception and "plan" their families.  They will just have to do this without the aid of the Catholic Church coffers.

And what do you mean about the 50 cent prophylactics not working?  They do work--if people use them properly.  If they aren't working it is because people aren't using them.  That is not the fault of the RCC--and that fact does not entail the RCC must be forced into giving away free contraception.

Abstinence also does not work---for people that choose to be governed by their bodily passions.  For people with a little self control, abstinence works quite well.  Here is a news flash: sex is not necessary for survival--despite what Hollywood leads people to believe.