Jay , I am surprised to learn you are aged 16 to 30  .  It sounds as if Miss Jean Brody was your teacher ...  she who in Muriel Sparks ' novel was "in the business of putting old heads on young shoulders "  .    A job at which she was exceedingly inept and deprived her students of a true education  .   
How can you take so much offense at Vatican II  ?  So sad your harsh attitude toward your elders  .  
"God so loved the world "  .  Jesus entered wholeheartedly into life as a human being  .
Read  the  promulgated documents of V II  .  The Spirit and the letter are one and the same  !  
I hope the questionnaire you get is much better than that we dealt with :  we , your " half-hearted elders " .  
What we are is heartbroken .  
PS   No apologetics !!!   Evangelization  .