Actually it's very hard to define Christian behaviors as significantily different that non-Christian behaviors.    At least that's what my pastor said more than once.   Nothing to be proud of for Christians, but prety sure that was his point, to deflate our arrogance.     

 I've know pastors who humiliated and judged others while declaring their own self-rightousness.  I've known criminal pastors.    People aren't perfect.   We aren't made to fit in an egg carton.     It should make forgiveness easier, but it doesn't seem to work that way every time.