I am not trying to control anyone - My position on this matter has been from the outset- if it bothers her to be noticed in that way she can "make adjustments", are you going to pass laws on what people can look at ? You mention this "Control" issue often, I really have no idea what you are referring to. Logically speaking, control would require a motive, what is the Christian Church's motive for control ? And I don't mean the money making Charlatans, I mean the local neighborhood "independently owned " (Humor) Church ? Like the one I go to that has about 200 people and a few underpaid pastors who barely scrape by. What is their motive for controlling these 200 people ? What do they have to gain ? They make little money, have no retirement etc etc etc. Your judgments on this matter in some contexts are accurate, but most certainly not all.