You are mistaken, as so many progressives are.  True Catholics, like Pandora and I, realize we are not restricted to the teachings of Jesus and the gospels.  We have 2000 years of tradition, and the teachings and examples of the One True Church to guide us.  When attacked, a true (traditional) Catholic knows that a response must be made, and it must be disproportionate, so the attacker learns to never, never, never, disagree with a Traditional Catholic.  This may not be what Jesus wanted, but He's not here, is he?  We follow the lead of our Bishops now.