IMO, there has never been any good Catholic culture for the unmarried. You can still see vestiges of this now, with the Church urging young people to get married and the USCCB devoting a lot more money and air time to the "marriage cause" than to the critical issues they should be dealing with. My church can be somewhat oblivious too but at least they don't go around urging people to date and get married! It's ridiculous. All churches should get out of everyone's pants and focus on economic inequality, undocumented immigrants, and the millions of refugees and migrants currently headed for Europe and North America . . . because these people are not the problem; the problem is our stubborn refusal to see that those folks want and deserve their fair share. We must admit that migration is here to stay. The Catholic Church needs to be a leader here because it's going to get ugly. Most of what they drone on about in terms of male-female relationships is rubbish anyway.