Fannie Lou Hamer's suffering was by no means chosen as part of a calling, especially when she was arrested, sent to a prison and there nearly beaten to a pulp for trying to recruit and register black voters. She forgave those who had beaten her mercilessly, but by no means did she choose to be abused and dishonored that way. I also don't think Dr. King wanted his home bombed or his family terrorized. These were completely unjust and un-redemptive acts of hated. Both, however, accepted other people's cruelty and abuse with love. Both believed their suffering and openness to forgive would eventually win over their oppressors. They were holy people, truly engaged in the discipleship of Jesus.