You failed to mention how old you are so I can only speak of my childhood in the 1969 -1982 range.  You espouse the the exact values to me why this country is headed down the drain. You are stating if your 13 yo daughter was indicating to you she was sexually active, your answer would be to put her on the pill so she does not need to get an abortion?   What if your daughter also stated she was involved with shooting heroin with her friends, would your advice be to provide clean needles and a safe place with  naloxone readily available to shoot up so she does not contract AIDS or overdose?  How about being a parent, and not a friend to your child?   I went to Catholic School from 1st to 8th grade.  I went to a public High School, with 1000 students in my class. I did not know one pregnant girl .
 I now see why you have such a distorted view on how sexual morality has greatly changed over the past 40 years.
I'm simply wasting my time with you on this subject.  Good day.