Agree 100% that the current situation is blatantly sexist, and the church needs women to occupy the same roles and positions as men, making equal contributions to the mind and governance of the church.  The Gospel has been distorted because women have not been allowed to preach at Mass or contribute equally to theology.
But I also believe the current priesthood and episcopacy need to be reformed beyond gender composition-I would not see success if we develop Princesses as well as Princes of the Church.  I see it in the business world: women break the glass ceiling, but the corporate culture remains patriarchal, and change is not meaningful.  We need egalitarian servant leaders, brothers and sisters in solidarity with one another and the whole Church.
I complained to a friend recently about the ladies at my parish who fall all over themselves giving the priest compliments and attention. Her wise response was, "He is just a man.  I value him, but not more than I value my own self."