It seems that you, L of L, and certain others are perversely obsessed with what other people might or might not be doing sexually.   All of that clamor tends to drown out the still small voice of the Holy Spirit.    That says more about the professed 'righteous Catholics' jumping the gun on the Particular Judgment than those whom they condemn based on speculation.  Only our Lord knows the heart and he is far better qualified to deal with the spiritual needs of humans.    Guard your own perverse thoughts...  The only repenting you need to concern yourself with is your own!  I won't engage further with those whose only purpose coming here is to argue and condemn others.