I an see the basis for your reactions, but it certainly lacks any appreciation for the actual situation in which these people find themselves.  We are talking about an impoverished, barely developing African country that is torn apart by civil unrest and outright war.  Each day brings a distinct possibility of death.  It is near impossible for us to actually grasp the intensity of such a life, but if one really does believe in Jesus Christ, each of us can make a leap in understanding granted by Him.  It seems you have not yet grasped that essential part of being Christian, Rompecorazones.  Perhaps a lengthy period of prayer and reflection will awaken the deep Charity that lies beneath the harshness of initial reactions.