LMAO....you're barking up the wrong tree....try that argument with someone who grew up rich...not me!  The only "rich" relative I can think of having was a cousin, who skippered a PT Boat in WWII, got out, and went to medical school, becoming a surgeon....although, I have no idea how "rich" he was...I know I wore his kids' hand-me downs to school through HS (and I was the Oldest of the 6 in my family...so my brothers got them after me!)  I DO know there is a black family in the Atlanta GA area with the same last name as me.  They are filthy rich with a cosmetics line, and there's a Bishop in some Christian Church down there (I've seen him on TV), and I believe it might be his sons who do gospel music and have albums out.  Using race as an excuse for one's failure to succeed is BS.  You have to start respecting yourself, if you expect others to respect you.  Everything I got, I worked my a$$ off for.  Try it sometime.