"You know there is absolutely no positive New Testament evidence for women in church leadership. Minus that you contrive very flimsy postulates that it must be okay to do so now because times have changed. You choose to ignore Paul's direct explanation why we must not do this."

Strong allegations there, Brother William.  The most positive evidence I have for women in church leadership, comes from the history of the Adventist church.  In the early days many (arguably most) Millerites rejected the ministry of Ellen White.  Even such SDA stalwarts as Joseph Bates, struggled mightily over this very question.

Times DO change.  In NT times it became OK to accept uncircumcised Gentiles as God's children.  In the 1800s it became OK to accept the spiritual leadership of a woman prophetess.  Both of those developments were highly divisive in church history.  Many of those believers would rather die than admit that God could do such a thing.  But He did, and they did.