Well no one said the CC was fair or considerate or compassionate. We all know that it is extremely rigid!!! But the CC authorities must stick to their beliefs or so we are told. 
I actually have no trouble with that and also do not wish to be a part of that kind of mindset, an almost loveless and unchristian heartlessness.
I firmly believe that someday the CC will change for the more human and the better. The Holy Spirit just might do that. 

AS regards this very kindly gentleman I also believe deeply in marriage and the wonderful influence women bring to life and family. They burnish off our sharp edges. We of the Testosterone group really benefit by the more Christlike and angelic group. 
So does anyone REALLY want to tell God the Father that HE made some kind of mistake when He made women as they are. NOT ME!!!
Also does anyone really want to tell God that women aren't the far more Christ-like of HIS creation. Again, NOT ME.