Not meant to sound cavalier, 2Be4Peace. I have friends and acquaintances of Tutsi victims, intimately connected with those victims, who remind me of the current spirit of reconciliation taking place in Rwanda now. Laura Waters Hinson's film, "As We Forgive," also attempts to convey that spirit of  mediation among Rwandans. It is a very moving film, reminding us (and seconding what African associates have told me) that we pardon in the degree that we love. The film portrays, for example, how hard it is for family members of victims to forgive perpetrators (Catholic or other Christian) who live just a town over. But Rwandans are doing that today. They are forgiving their neighbors who hacked their loved ones to pieces. They are very brave and strong and burdened by horrible memories, but they want to move on, beyond tribalism, revenge. The pope's apology for Catholic Rwandans who participated in the genocide is important, but not as significant as the reconciliation taking place now.