Thank you - would suggest that you have provided a good description of a liberal, educated, adult Catholic in the US on abortion.  
But, the American Catholic Church continues to struggle because:
- culture war bishops appointed by JPII/Benny
- knee jerk pro-birth ideology (see Priests for Life or most US diocesan prolife departments)
- poor education in catholic moral theology  (instructed to not be an adult)
- bishops who use *abortion* as a judgment and weapon
- example - *culture of death* mantra (of course, this mantra excludes climate change; drought; starvation; lack of clean water; no healthcare; impact of unfair trade practices; lack of education; etc.).  
- It also typically rails against same sex marriage; religious liberty for catholics/evangelicals only; against birth control; euthanasia; etc.

Best example - read the latest USCCB version of Faithful Citizenship and how LORI explains it.  Then, re-read the list above.