Pseudo-fidelists whose response to dissent and/or angst is an "invitation" to leave give abundant evidence of an intolerance that seems unbecoming of a Christ companion. I suspect that the storied "disagreements" of Judas the administrator with Jesus was not unique, e.g., Thomas the "questioner". What was unique is that Judas left in anger, hate and despair...shutting Jesus out.  Cafeteria'ists and most who leave don't shut Jesus out, they shun the "administrators".  Certainly Jesus doesn't shut us out.

Those "selective traditionalists" seem to reflect a Judas the administrator who got his way.  They tell us to go elsewhere but have absolutely no power, no authority over my/our conscience, my/our catholicism. Despite, ironically, their presumption, their pious sanctimonious pretense of fidelity is actually more akin to sycophantic submission, the "legs up" give up of a resentful pack animal.
I bet there's a strong correlation with homophobia, misogyny, racism, bi..try, trump'ism....