First of all, I walk in company with a person who deals with same-sex attraction every day:  myself.  And you simply prove how we're going to go on and on and on talking past one another:  You, for example, surely and evidently believe that a life "lived well and faithfully" can include to some degree same gendered sexual/romantic relations, whereas I am going to continue to say that those desires and the actions toward which they are ordered are inherently an indication of the opposite, of NOT living well, nor faithfully.  You mention "the majority of Catholics in this country," something that to me has no meaning, as I don't see how my belief, or yours, renders something true or your disbelief, or mine, makes something untrue.  And I already think I belong to an inclusive Church, a Church open to "whosoever will."  For you, dialogue has to include the possibility of an openness to committed homosexual couples.  For me, "accompaniment" can't be divorced from a call to chastity.