That's not correct.  It's correct to say there was no DIRECT human male involvement in the conception of Jesus. 

But what about Joachim's (not to take away from St Anne) upbringing of Mary, which clearly helped Mary stay disposed to saying Yes to the will of God, which was required. 

What about St Joseph's loving (and protective) care and cooperation with the pregnancy, not turning her away, protecting her, fleeing when there was danger, helping her stay on the good side of the law (Census, shielding her from shame of divorce, etc.).

Parenting is much more than conception and the physical act of giving birth.  Gracious. 

The secular world has such a shrunken understanding of so much, parenthood, faith, God, love, Scripture, sin, grace, the communion of saints, our cooperation with God's will and plan for the world...etc. 

As the pope has pointed out there's also a much bigger understanding about feminism which the secular world and fundi-cats don't understand.