Yes, Kevin.  I have been following your responses to Ol Abuelo.  Some of your thoughts are too subtle for me to digest quickly, but they do deserve my further thinking.  I have not read your link, but intend to.  You strike a chord in me when you remind us that the way we must present ourselves to the Lord is with humility and obedience.  And those two qualities are so crucial regarding marriage.  Hardly any modern believes, as Jesus did, in the indissolubility of marriage.  But who are we to argue with God himself?  To argue --- indeed, to go so far as to reject God's law and propose a contrary way --- is neither humble nor obedient.  God will have mercy on those who sin and are repentant.  He may well have a different plan for those who rebel, and urge others to rebel.