Not your call whether or not I am a "good Catholic", but what I am is a decent father and husband that happens to be a recent convert.....and I also have seen the long term effects and consequences of birth control and a contraceptive mentality. Funny how a woman can in the present scream "You're a man so you can't understand so don't tell me what to do with -my- body..." and years down the road, expect the man to deal with and remedy and pay for the real consequences of that mindset. You can mock the idea that I am a "Boy" all you wish. Your body is not yours. It is the temple of the Holy Spirit. Why not try listening to Him?