"The problem is people who ask questions but aren't open to the answers."
That should also include you, yourself, sir.  
We are not living in the 19th Century---and Vatican II was to bring the Church to the point where it would FACE many legitimate questions raised in the 19th century.  And in a certain sense, it did.  It didn't deal with questions that were right in front of the Council---that effected Catholics and indeed, people beginning in 1968 on.  

I don't believe that you are open to what the Church says.  The Church must always move [not be stuck with 'catch all answers' from past centuries that don't deal with current questions.  God' name is "I Am Who Am", not,  'I Am Who Was.'  And please remember that the Church is not just the 4% who make up the clergy and hierarchy.