Hi! Gerard,
Thank you for your comment
I try to see trials as an opportunity to bear witness to the Truth and grow spiritually, rather than see them as personal conflict with individuals within the church.
It can be difficult to do this when we see, so much hypocrisy, but we have all been contaminated by the negativity of evil in some way or another. I have found that if you use positive thoughts, in that many will not have been through the difficulties of life that we have had to contend with, and in this knowledge practice feelings of compassion towards others either in regards to their blindness or in regards to their own often unseen suffering, some of which could be far worse than our own. 
Just a suggestion Gerard if you go to the link below and see my posts from the 5 June with other posts, you are welcome to join with us, if you so wish.
https://www.ncronline.org/blogs/spiritual-reflections/forgiven-forgivers#civil-comments
Sincerely 
kevin your brother
In Christ