"Why did you vote for Trump?" Apparently the answer is "abortion and all things abortion related." OK, I get it. You don't like abortion. Are there other things you don't like, things your Catholic conscience simply cannot support? Sure there must be something. 

"The mainstream media, including progressive Catholics, think we are — like President-elect Trump — intolerant, racist, and misogynistic." I'm not that interested in what others think. What do you think? If you vote for a racist are you racist? If you vote for a misogynist are you misogynistic?  If you promote Islamophobia, homophobia, xenophobia, are you culpable for all those things? You should at least consider the possibility that in your zeal for purity on the abortion issue you voted for a candidate who is seriously, morally stained on other issues and by casting your vote for him you take on a part of his moral deficiency. You could have cast a protest vote, or refused  to vote at all, but you didn't. You voted--badly.