Protecting one's family is admirable. However, the purpose of providing one's name is to increase the likelihood that comments are not personal attacks.  

I'm going to tell you a little story.

The first home I remember was in Veteran's Village, Ames, Iowa.  And my first playmate was a black child whose name was Woody.  I, of course, didn't realize he was black until years later when I saw photos.

My parents later told me that they caught a lot of grief (I guess now we would call it abuse) for being nice to them.  They didn't have a car, so my mother would take Woody's mother shopping with her, for example.

Later in life, my father merely said about Woody's father:  "He fought in the war too."  

My parents "signed their names."

If you are truly worried about being abused or your family being abused, in Langley, please then consider what it would be like for a Syrian child seeking refuge in our country.  Do we give love or do we give hate that is driven by fear?