When you use the N word, you’re ignoring the pain and the racist history of this country”

How can the article infer that the Black Community is the main target for the N word, when in reality, they use that word within their own community perhaps as much as any others?  And why is that acceptable?

"Radical patience — that’s what most POCs have to tap into when we have to explain why certain racist behaviors, attitudes and practices are, well, racist."

So if Certain racist behaviors are not acceptable, then by the context of the word "Certain", there must be some racial behaviors that are acceptable. Anybody care to list those please?

"there are soldiers who are waging war with stories, rhetoric, peaceful protest and radial patience."

Generally speaking, soldiers are used after politics have failed, and patience has run out, and a peaceful resolve has all but vanished.  After seeing the majority of protests (AKA riots) around the country, is any of this starting to ring a bell?