No, it doesn't. Take the sentence apart. If it stopped at "I'm sorry" then fine. Adding the "you" makes the person expressing a position the subject, removing the actual content of the complaint from consideration and placing the onus back on the one doing the expressing. In popular vernacular it's called a fauxpology. It's derogatory and disingenuous.  It's especially so, like in this case, where a black man is being told his experience isn't his experience rather just a way he feels about his experience (and isn't that too bad for him) and therefore totally discounts and disrespects his humanity. Empathy is when you can feel what the other person feels and is often mistaken for sympathy which is having a sense of compassion for the other person's experience.