I like many others believed in some sort of "Rainbow nation" possibility this is why we voted "Yes" in 1989. But in all honesty I now support only one solution namely: https://secure.avaaz.org/en/petition/Head_of_the_United_Nations_call_for_the_self_determination_of_white_South_Africans/
Maybe we need to chart our own course for a while so we might be better equipped to help the rest of the country at some stage in the future when they have realised Black nationalism is not the answer in a modern 21 century world and actually show they are willing to embrace a true rainbow nation concept for this part of the world!