"Stop race baiting" is the White person's way of saying "stop, that hurts my feelings and shatters my paradigm", usually someone with white guilt buried deep within them, because confronting that feeling is perceived to them (for God knows what reason) as weakness. It's not weakness. The inability to allow oneself to feel empathy in an act of self-preservation in a fantasy world where racism never, ever existed... that's weakness. Compassion is never weakness. Nor is knowledge. And sometimes education is hard. Mentally, but also emotionally. 
If you do possess compassion, and all lives matter to you (as they should) then that means black lives matter too, and if you think that's offensive, then maybe you think black people's suffering is irrelevant. And you should ask yourself why you ended up this way.