A few views that is totally missed here. My advice to my 12-year-old daughter is: 1) Avoid  2) if they start walk away 3) if they persist run to the nearest teacher. This advice stems from being robbed, bullied, pushed off stairs, pushed into the street, hit and even her spectacles stolen and the “white” teachers and principals are too scared to do anything to the black mob. Yes they always come in groups. In this case it is more about self-preservation and safety than anything else.  What do you say when your 12 year old comes to you and say she wish that she could go to school where there are no black kids? My children fear blacks and for good reason. From school right down to our everyday lives and home, everything “bad” has always had the color black and that is out of experience and it is a fact. I’m having a hell-of-a-time trying to convince my children that you get bad white people as well. My 4 year old asks me:"Papa, het jy jou gun?" if we go out,  that is as plain as it gets.