Hi Colkoch.  Yes indeed, the black & white, hardcore cookbook Catholicism promoted by some who visit here is stifling, both for we humans and the Holy Spirit.  I'm a live and let live sort of person...  if R&R, et al., want to live like that,  have at it.   But leave the rest of us alone...  don't try to force-fit us into their version of being a Catholic Christian.  You and I have agreed in the past that we have more than two colors in our Catholic box of crayons...  and we can still color inside the lines :)