Reconciliation ;
"the action of making one view or belief compatible with another."
Sounds like the  white people on the trip were trying to do this , but what do they get " White shame, guilt and resentment get in the way of paying attention. But without pangs of collective shame, there will be no shocked and awkward silence, and therefore no listening, no empathy, no recognition and no progress. "

There are two sides to reconciliation but one side seems to want to make it a one way street !