It seems a lot of her problems are the way she imagines other perceive her, without presenting much actual proof of real racism or particular mistreatment.

I think every other up-and-coming lawyer, white, asian, or otherwise, could tell the EXACT SAME stories about being ignored, 'mis-treated', or thought of as 'an assistant'.

She should be proud of her accomplishments! Welcome to the 1%!  
But not everything is about race, and crying 'racism!' every time you don't get things exactly your way just makes things worse.  Time to grow up.