the whole story according to spurs cctv footage - and remember, they had lawyers advising them:
a spat on the playground between the two children - a little black girl of 4 and a bigger white girl of 6. the mother of the black child tells her to sit quietly and not go back to the playground. at which point the white man approached the table and insisted the mother punish her child. she refuses. he PICKS UP HER TINY 4 YEAR OLD BIRTHDAY GIRL BY THE ARM and tells his own child to hit her. the mother pulls her child away. then she proceeds to start shouting. NOBODY COMES TO HELP HER. the man leans over her, intimidating her and wont leave her alone and then LUNGES AT HER AND THREATENS TO POES KLAP HER and later grabs the table and jolts it.
watch the footage. look how big his child behind him is and look at the size of her little girl. that mother is a hero and that man belongs in jail.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7d0Tl2jAwM