Interesting that you claim to never experience micro-aggressions.  How about commercials for cold medicine that show the man, almost always a white man, completely incapacitated by the smallest cold, having to be rescued by his wife?  How the man bamboozled by how to use a washing machine or praised for his ability to operate one?

We all face micro-aggressions, which used to be known as stereotypes, based on our outward appearance.  I am a slight, well-groomed man with good manners.  I have been considered gay simply because of my appearance.  So what?  Throughout my life, larger boys, and then men, felt that they were safe in picking on me because of my size.  We all have our crosses to bear, some more than others.  You suck it up and get on with life.