What about Ben Carson ? His Mother could not even read. Or even Obama ? Had a single mother, etc etc etc. These stereotypes you guys hold up, offer no help whatsover. White people are born into  just as much hardship at times as anyone else. I am not going to divulge too many details on this blog, but my life as a child was as difficult as many could imagine, I now have a great marriage, own a house, have three boys, a successful 25 year career etc. Let's stop with enabling and start with empowering, this is the land of opportunity, which does not include a handout.