"My experience as a white guy is just fine. I don't understand why anyone else would have a different experience."

That's your position. And you think it's legitimate.

I'm pretty sure you don't have any friends who are black. Especially not life long, close friends, the kind you go to each other's house for holiday dinners and such. Am I right? If you did you wouldn't make such uninformed comments. But just on the outside chance you do have a black friend, I'd encourage you to tell them your story and ask them what their experiences are like.

Every single black friend of mine has had at least one DWB experience, or worse, including being imprisoned because cops planted evidence when they raided the wrong house at 3:30am.

People like you are either oblivious to what other people experience, or you just don't care.