No doubt.  No one argues that more than half the time a white man is among black men, the white man is harmed.  Who says that?  But again, the question is whether it is racist to say that black men are more violent than white men.  You keep avoiding the most relevant stat, namely, that although black men are only 20% of the population, they commit at least 40% of the total number of murders, which is far out of proportion to their numbers.  We will never solve this problem by denying it exists.  And to say it exists does not make one a racist.  Quite the contrary, the desire to fix that problem marks a person as one who does care about black lives.