I thanked you for your comments on this subject yesterday.  You still haven't got what I was saying, I think.  However, at this point, I would like you to stop 'telling' me what Jesus 'tells' us to do.  Perhaps I am not up to it at the moment, but please, please allow me to discern  this for myself.   I find it hard to deal with absolute convictions about people, the manner of dealing with them, and, in particular,  with any one person's personal view of the Gospels and that person's objective conviction about situations in the Church and Country.  There is no black and white solution to any human problem -- the shades of grey are multitudinous.  Consider this my final comment to you, Nora.  Thank you again for feeling it necessary to point out to me where I might have erred.  This is not stated as such but implied nevertheless.