What a self-serving article. You are making excuses for a toxic and harmful polemicist. Being male and white, Milo had the luxury of turning his anger outward, and many many people suffered, some grievously. If you want your readers to understand sex abuse survivors and the anger they feel about sex and their own sexuality, better to direct them to "Paris Is Burning". It's a powerful testament to the corrosive effects of gay prejudice and the liberation to be achieved through art and performance. Being vulnerable like the men in that film is dangerous, courageous and potentially healing - unless you are savaged mercilessly by creeps like Milo.