Obviously, rape is not overtly condoned by society or men but men, like you JimJohnson, minimize it by talking about nonsense like "rape culture memes"--seriously, I don't even know what that is, ignore it, blame the victim and engage in other forms of obfuscatory behavior. There's nothing to "buy into" either. The facts are clear and supported by hard evidence.
"Sex offenders are overwhelmingly white males.  Nearly 99% of sex offenders in single-victim incidents were male and 6 in 10 were white (Greenfeld, 1997)."
Surveys have consistently reported that college men acknowledged forced intercourse at a rate of 5-15% and college sexual aggression at a rate of 15-25% (Koss, Gidycz, and Wisniewski, 1987; Malamuth, Sockloskie, Koss, and Tanaka, 1991).
The national survey of rape conducted by Koss et al. (1987) revealed that 1 in 12 college men committed acts that met the legal definition of rape, and of those men, 84% did not consider their actions to be illegal. 
You seem to be full of it