Evangelization of women, millennials, Hispanics, nones, etc. (No old European white males?)

Will that include the good news, the sheer wonder of God becoming human, becoming a helpless child, growing through puberty into adulthood?  Knowing what it means to be a refugee, to be hungry, to leave family, to have friends, to have a friend betray you?  How we are to treat one another?  What it means to see death coming and to know fear and despair, but at death's door, to forgive the ones killing you -- even though they haven't asked for it and don't know they need it?  The awe of the resurrection, the certainty that God remains with us, always and everywhere?  That the Holy Spirit came to give comfort, strength, and courage?

There are times it seems to me that some translate evangelization as finger-shaking in people's faces declaiming along the lines of "God hates condoms and you're going to h*ll if you don't hate them too."