So your daughter expresses self-hatred because of her skin color and your first thought is that you should tell her something that amounts to, "Well, YOU might feel bad, but you're white. Other races have it SO much worse than you."

And when she DOESN'T grow up to be a racist snob after connecting to her heritage, you're PLEASANTLY SURPRISED? 

You are an absolutely pathetic excuse for a parent. You should NEVER have been allowed to have children. Ever.