I disagree, you have to look no further than many of the leaders of African American communities. People like Jesse Jackson, and Al Sharpton they hate white people. Period! How many of their leaders have talked reparations? Are you suggesting these black parents are teaching their children that the white people are holding them back or not treating them right. In my opinion the black communities are destroying themselves and they blame white people for it. 
You can call me a racist all you want but I know better, my best friend while serving in "68" was black and I trusted that man with my life and he trusted me. That is what set the tone for my opinion and actions for the rest of my life.