Its BS like this that make me want to not read the denver post.   You can take out transgender daughter and add any thing; race, sex, economic status. And you get a whiny, blame everyone but themselves, letter writer.  My life is so hard waa waa  the judge is part of the white male priveledge class so I can refuse to do it and whine tell I get my way.  Frankly this womans letter did not help her "daughter" in any way.  She thinks her "daughter" has it hard now wait tell she has a crying game moment