Have a problem with your sloppy 400 hundred years. Van R and co arrived in 1652 and Whites only got control, direct or indirect, of the whole of S. Africa somewhere around the end 1800's. Thus if your 400 rears of Apartheid is true who was doing the Apartheid in the huge part of S.Africa not inhabited by whites, up to about 1880? A few weeks ago saw a short bit on Viet Nam, a Pom I think was touring and doing a mini documentary. He asked a few people about their view on colonialism (about 400 years of Chinese, 150 years of French and a bloody destructive 10 year+ war with the USA) and all  shrugged it off as past and looked the future. Perhaps whites should openly recognise the 100 -400 years of destructive Apartheid and ask Blacks to clearly articulate how we should go forward. Seems most whites want to forget/forgive and most Blacks want to be trapped in the past. Time we talked TO each other not AT, heard each other especially whites and agreed a way forward directed by Blacks.