You think what he is saying isn't reality?  You're completely off base because I have seen it with my own eyes.  I've watched as a white teenager assaulted black teenager and seen the cops who arrived at the scene discourage him from pressing charges.   I've watched as parents pulled children out of the playground when my adopted by racial son came out to play with them commenting how they need to find another park because this one has just gone downhill.  I've talked to the youth of my church about how they have gotten pulled over and searched by the police when they are visiting their white friends.  The truth is that our brothers and sisters are lying beaten and battered on the side of the road and you're saying to them it's not that bad.  Just shake it off and everything will be ok.  Instead we should be helping to mend the wounds and making sure they can't happen again.  Sending love in Christ