Cheryl I'm an older white man and I agree with your letter and the need to have these points aired. What civilized humanity is dealing with here, in my opinion, is an imbalance of power. Behavior that reinforces that imbalance is intuitively wrong. It's bullying. Many of my generation of men grew up not realizing how widespread this was back then, decades ago. Men who do this don't share it with all other men, just others they think are like minded. I, for example, happily married young (and still happily married) was spared the leering, bragging, ***hole behavior of the sexual bullies. But no man has any excuse, now, for continuing to deny how bad it is. We owe it to the truth of #metoo to be horrified at every new revelation. And to do whatever we can to prevent any of it ever happening again.