Sitting during the anthem in protest was not to disrespect the flag or the country.  They said as much.  Arguably the flag represents the Constitution which is what gives them the right, so it's actually honoring the flag (unlike the way the flag is displayed during the anthem and how it's on backs of helmets...which is disrespectful).

The President took an oath entering office that specifically states he's to uphold and protect the Constitution.  His comments were the exact opposite and arguably subversion.

The few bumps in my road of life in the U.S. as a white guy are almost non-existent.  Maybe I need some estrogen pills so I can feel what you guys do.