No I didn't.  I used 'black or brown person' in my initial post.  As for the rest, I define my children and grandchildren the same way other people define those they love, such that if my loved ones are unhappy, unwell or unsafe, it's impossible for me to be happy or content.  That's not a matter of choice, nor is it a matter of 'color'.

And--again--the ONLY 'color-based' definitions that matter to me are those influencing behavior directed at my loved ones.  You keep dancing around what I've repeatedly said--and NOT said by my eschewing use of the word 'racism'.

Objective reality is we live in a white supremacist society.  That impacts me and mine differently, and usually more directly and adversely, than it does the 'people of white'.  And it isn't "racist" for me to point out that out.

"When you find injustice, change it with your hand.  If you cannot, denounce it with your tongue.  If you cannot, hate it in your heart; and that is the weakest of faith."

Prophet Muhammad (SWS)