Dear RR; Many women have made that very difficult choice, how many single parent families are there out there? The answer is many and thank goodness for women whom know they are not in a position to bring a child into the world and be capable of the 20 year commitment($250,000) when they are held back by lack of education, low wages and no help from the other party involved. 
I am sure I will take heat for this opinion, my brothers family adopted 6 children, evenly split between black and white at about 6 th grade level. They went to church multiply times a week and the church carried their family name, they were supporters of abortion since they saw what happened to unwanted children.
OK RR does your church or your family make an effort to adopt unwanted children?  If not you, and they  are only giving lip service to this problem.
Thanks to the women of the world whom do by my reckoning 85 % of the work in the world, In Russia the women do construction.