The entitled people here are the ones who stole the land, and keep stealing and wanting to steal.  That's what "entitled" looks like.  And you now, with your instructions to "move on," and your god-like understanding about how "we all have pain"  and how "life" is.   In fact, your entire post is what entitlement looks like.  You feel qualified to judge everything - universal human suffering, life, Native Americans, history, "functioning in today's world," which means YOUR values, and devaluing it all to "bandwagons of pain."

As far as getting sober goes, white American men drink more, and drink more heavily daily than any other ethnic group.  White people take more illegal drugs, and more kinds of drugs than any other ethnic group.   Maybe you could go help them, since Native people are such a tiny portion of the population - 0.9% - and Caucasian alcoholics outnumber them about 78 to 1.   I'm sure all those white alcoholics have pain and need your skilled help.