I would disagree.  I'm female,  and find modern day "feminism" little more then advanced identity politics.  Demanding equal treatment is fine, demanding more then equal treatment is Orwellian.    I know very few self-pitying and insecure males.  I know many, many, bitter angry women who think they've been passed over in their careers because they are of the wrong gender.  I worked in the male dominated construction industry for 20 years, and never felt oppressed or the recipient of so called macro-aggressions.  If you conduct yourself in a professional manner, are good at what you do, and work hard you will garner respect.  If not, I would look towards yourself and ask why.  Same holds true for all ethnic groups.  

In our search for equality for all, it must mean equality for all.  There is no room for black, white, male , female.  Those who point out those differences simply have something to gain by doing so.