I would venture to bet if people wanted to make it illegal for *you* to marry the person you love, wanted to make it legal for *you* to be fired from your job based on your sexuality, and wanted to make *you* use a bathroom of the opposite sex, *you'd* be pretty confrontational too. Or would you just sit back and do nothing about it? Likely you're just a straight white male, so have never experienced any of those things, and obviously don't have the mental capacity to put yourself in someone else's shoes and see how the situation I just described could make someone pretty ticked off.