My uncle who died in Vietnam was neither proud to serve or die for the United States. He was drafted and as a medic and helped to save the lives of his fellow soldiers. Before he was killed, he wrote home on a regular basis about how the war was unjust, even criminal.
My uncle doesn't want your blessing and he'd be disgusted at your suggestion that one of your fellow citizens doesn't deserve to live in her country of birth because she rightfully fears a racist President-elect who has the support of white supremacists and neo-Nazis. My uncle hated Nazis like most Americans do.
Joe Pingleton's so patriotic that he supports a president-elect who used his connections to obtain a deferment for the war in which my uncle was killed. Such patriots are a dime a dozen.