Your point is I believe is off because this "conversation" is not out of the blue. Also it's not a personal affront to you or the everyday Joe. People want it to be but whether you are college educated or not the issue is real. One could argue the everyday Joe is out of touch of what happens between some of the police and some who are black in America....http://www.denverpost.com/2017/09/06/aurora-police-hospital-excessive-force-lawsuit/. I'm a white male and I have listened my friends who are not, I've been with them while being harassed.