Ah Purgy, I've missed your efforts at logic.  Let's start with para 2:  do any "ecclesial" discussions (you seem to mean RCC, since you end with priests) make it possible for gay voices to be heard without severe punishment for the priest or theologian?  Have you read anything about the Fr Martin and his very mild efforts to start dialogue and the resulting criticism of him?
And then, are you really asserting that (all?) young people think it's fine to be gay, ignoring all the evidence of prejudice, including bullying, etc.? People who commit suicide do not usually feel perfectly fine.
Do note that one response from me is all you get, since your main purpose is to entice people who are more willing than I to waste their time responding too you to no avail.