What is this rubbish about more gay men being married to women than to a man? Out of a hundred or so gay men I know, not a single one is married to a woman, plenty of others do have a husband, and since marriage equality I know of at least 10 who are engaged. Perhaps many gay men are not rushing to the alter because we've already waited long enough for marriage equality that what's a little while longer a wait to get married so as not to rush things along?