A few years ago our group of friends was having dinner and one of our friends said he had something to tell us.  We paused our meal and he said the wanted to let us know he was gay.  We all knew this and told him so and resumed eating.  He then got real mad because he said it was such an effort to try to keep it from us and if we thought he was gay we should have told him so he didn’t have to keep up the effort to hide it.  Today we kind of laugh about it an he is happily married to a nice guy.  Barry Manilow – come on we all knew he was gay.  Didn’t make a difference, you either like his music or not.