I can appreciate your sense of frustration at the slow pace of change, but I also believe this pope understands that Rome wasn't built in a day. A few years ago I watched a podcast of the openly gay English priest James Alison giving a talk in San Francisco in which he was trying to convince the skeptical crowd that then Pope Benedict, contrary to conventional wisdom, was trying to "loosen the nuts and bolts" deep within the bowels of the ship of state, as it were, in terms of gently moving doctrine forward (where gay people are concerned), far out of sight from most people's line of vision. I wasn't buying it about Benedict, but I think that's probably an apt analogy when it comes to Pope Francis' approach to church governance. So, I think a little patience is in order, as well as no small amount of prayer that Pope Francis' pontificate is very, very long!