What does Smith's non-sharing of his private life have to do with your claim regarding a relationship with others? Smith was in a competition where relationships like the one you noted is not the goal. If the goal was to get into one, then yes, Smith was wrong. But the whole competition is about survival through physical and mental tests. So how does Smith's non-sharing of his personal life deceptive in this case? The other competitors do not have to share their personal life with others such as their sex life. Why should Smith be the exception just because he is a transgender?