Any military is intrinsically "hateful."  Its purpose is to kill its country's enemies if required, not to be politically correct

The real question is:

"Do transgendered troops make our military more or less capable?"

Our enemies such as Russia, China, the DPRK, and Iran do not allow transgendered troops because they believe that it hinders combat effectiveness.

Trump claims that our generals and military experts agree with this position.

Nevertheless critics point out that Trump made his decision during a controversy over the cost of transgender surgeries in the budget process which was dividing Republican senators; the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff quickly pointed out that policy has not changed; reports suggest that Secretary Mattis was "appalled" by Trump's tweets about transgender troops.

A transgender sailor like a decorated Navy Seal, Kristen Beck, clearly improved our military capability.

Careful study, not political expediency must decide this question.