Here we go again:  "Gay" is a term that conflates same-sex attraction AND the willingness to embrace and/or engage in same-sex sodomy, the former of which demands compassion and sympathy, the latter of which is strictly against Catholic teaching.   Ergo, any "gay"-friendly parish is Catholic-unfriendly.

I would accept and even support any parish that welcomes those who have same-sex attraction and who struggle with the sin of engaging in same-sex sodomy.  Indeed, the only way to help them is to embrace them with open arms and a willingness to help them.

It is impossible to have a clear and fair discussion about those who self-identify as "gay," without bifurcating the meaning of the label.  But, of course, homosexual activists don't want to have a fair discussion, just forced acceptance through subterfuge.