He only used the phrase "our women" once; in the same manner that one will refer to "our citizens or our men" in reference to us as a nation or country. I think you are guilty of distortion here. Don't let hate and anger blind you. The subject of patriarchy is not as simple as you make it out to be i.e. men vs. women. This is about society and the role/parts that the various social groups (dominant and dominated) play - consciously or unconsciously - in perpetrating the unequal social relations. If you don't believe me, just look how the majority of "our men and women" relate with "gays and lesbians" because they believe that these people are not man or woman enough