Tri, those folks mentioned above had their marriages outed by self righteous Catholics or inadvertently by others.  They were not proclaiming anything to the rafters.  It is really tough for gays in today's Church work place.  It is truly a hostile work environment, and unfortunately, it's not usually their coworkers who make it hostile.  It's those folks who just can't seem to mind their own business and call that kind of behavior being a defender of True Catholicism.  Frankly it's junior high behavior and it costs competent people their livelihood.