The "Cardinal Newman Society" gets all the attention and awe that any mindless mechanized puppets in the pews thoughtlessly give them. 

If we start the day by reading briefly from the four Gospels, and saying some quick well-thought prayers, we will be open to a real and charitable embrace of our fellow Christians, however they appear and seem to be  -- old and young, hurting or victorious, gay or straight.
 
Try getting someone to smile who seems to be hurting. If you are standing in a group, and you don't notice anyone preoccupied by some pain, you aren't paying enough attention. See whether you can detect someone who needs a real friendly greeting, and -- without meddling too much -- find out what's bothering them. With that kind of charity for others, you will pay no attention to Cardinal Newman Society types. 

I never say anything charitable about the CNS when the topic arises. And I do know how to put them down. I am now a care giver, and put my energies there. Period