Callwaiting - I am not familiar with the phrase "changing ghe culture". Is "ghe" a way around saying/writing "gay"?  

If so, at first pass, it feels to me like a way of saying " I refuse to use the language you use to describe yourself because that might connote the basic decency of human respect but I will acknowledge it in a way that communicates my basic lack of respect for you". 

Is that what it means? If not, I apologize for hearing it that way and would like to know what it means to you.