I've never been to a gay nightclub either, but I know people who have and have seen the ads for them.  And I've read about a popular app called Grindr.   Of course not ALL men with SSA are sexually obsessed, so please don't try to defend on that basis.

The Church's teaching about gay sodomy is the reason it is attacked by homosexual activists.  But the activists never mention that; they mention or imply adversity towards  "gay" and "lgbt" people.  So, yes, I'm going to bring up this uncomfortable subject, because it is THE issue, and even the Church is afraid to defend itself because it is afraid to talk about it.

The priest I mentioned DOES identify as homosexual; I will not reveal my source of knowledge.  It is relevant because those promoting homosexuality are not unbiased sources, and those who cite them hold them out to be independent reporters.