NO! It is the hierarchy which refuses to hold a dialogue with gays. The LGBT spent decades begging the hierarchy to talk, only to be rebuffed. Many, if not most, jave simply given up on a Church that has made it quite clear sees them as "objectively disordered". Don't do the "It's the 'tendency' that's disordered". Gays know that it's them the Church is speaking of. The institutional Church rejects them; so it's not surprising they reject the Church.