'"Gay" is a term that conflates same-sex attraction AND the willingness to embrace and/or engage in same-sex sodomy,..'
Hmmm - I always understood that 'GAY' was an acronym for 'Good As You'. 
As we are ALL forgiven sinners, one cannot deny the truth of the acronym, uncomfortable as you may find it. And we all practise our favourite sins we just define them differently :)
Perhaps we should change the acronym to BAY?!!