I can appreciate the sincerity of your comment. As a person who has dealt with the contradictions of being both gay and Catholic for nearly half a century, I can tell you that it is a heavy cross to bear. But we all have our own witness to make, and mine is to counter what I consider to be the psychologically, mentally, and spiritually abusive nature of Courage's approach to what you call "ministry."  

It is not ministering to people to tell them that because they are attracted to members of the same gender (as occurs in every species of the animal kingdom) they are therefore to deny themselves the one thing that all human beings crave in our inmost being: profound intimacy with another human being that is at once spiritual, mental, and yes, physical, because we are all enfleshed beings - we apprehend the world around us according to our five senses. To force some people to give up even the prospect of a healthy, mutual, life-giving love in all its wonderful forms is just plain cruel.