There is no such thing as transgender in the real world.
It is a made up category used to very crudely describe certain kinds of behavior and impulses.
Human reality is made up of individual human beings with their rich diversity.
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People who have been brainwashed by their experience in certain kinds so called higher education come to believe that reality consists of these word structures that they have memorized in their course work and spouted back on their exams.
The accolytes take these made-up abstractions and then attempt to force them onto the world.
Don't expect them to change, they have been intellectually damaged to the extent that they cannot escape their fabricated world of categorical pronouncements.
It is their world and any attempt to enlighten them is an existential threat.