EPBenedict had no problem getting rid of polygamous bishops and those with wives on the side....quietly.  That leads me to believe the real issue is to protect the celibate priesthood and make the sexual incontinence problem a gay thing.  The John Jay report bent over backwards to try and nip that thinking in the bud, but was obviously ineffective.  Richard Sipe tried the same thing, also to no avail.  In the end it's all about the sacramental magic of the ontologically changed priest.  The sad part about that is it's magical thinking.  There is nothing ontologically spiritually special about the ordained priesthood.  There are certainly some spiritually evolved priests, but they came into it that way.  Ordination didn't create them.  I seriously doubt the official church will ever face that fact.  How would they ever generate the hundreds of millions of donations if rank and file laity didn't believe in the magic of ordination?  We see it's operation here all the time.