"but we don't spend a lot of time concerned about gay weddings"
That's why you and other conservative Christians are busy defending bakers and others who use their Christian beliefs to deny goods and services to gay couples in defiance of the law.
As far as I'm concerned, the Dark Ages were followed by the Renaissance and the Enlightenment. Secular movements.
You overlook that Mr. Bonora said "the rest of us". That is, the people who are not conservative Christians.
Conservative Christians want to reimpose their moral code on the rest of us. They want abortion banned despite the fact no woman has to undergo one involuntarily, they want to be able to show their moral superiority over gay couples by refusing them goods and services, they denounce the teaching of evolution because it's not biblical, and they want store clerks to be able to refuse to sell women contraception in order to condemn such women.
Your side can't stand the fact that the USA is a diverse secular country.