Sounds reasonable. The problem is, once somebody acknowledges publicly that their lifestyle and/or beliefs run contrary to what the Church teaches, the powers-that-be decide to make it their business. The rationale is that what people do behind closed doors is one thing, but when they go public they give scandal.

This sort of thing has led to ridiculous line-in-the-sand stances like firing dedicated gay employees, not to mention refusing Communion to pro-choice public officials and so forth. It ultimately alienates good people and makes the Church seem heartless, but that's what we've come to.

The lesson is, keep your yap shut. The truth gets you a pink slip.