Ah. So sorry.  
I appreciate that trying to establish taxonomies of desire is of psychiatric interest, but I find the simpler, legal questions more to the point, and wish people wouldn't muddle the two spheres. It's especially homely when people do so for the sake of castigating gay people. I'd think the important distinction was between predators and non-predators. There are men of all sorts in either category. 

All the best to you. I'm off to therapy in a few hours, after a decade or so without.