If one's attraction, in-born, leads one to find a love of a lifetime, straight, gay, lesbian, bi-, in that sense, could it not be said to be gift (of God)?  I agree generalization might be inaccurate on debernardo's part, but forgivable.  I agree we must ourselves raise our relationships (love, friendship, work, play, helping, service, group) to a sacramental level if those involved agree.  We don't need official priesthood to do this.  Done by intention and good faith.