LOL, who my kids marry is in great part a function of how they were raised.

No, we don't know that male same-sex attraction is pre-determined; in fact the evidence points to the contrary and that it is associated with environment, oftentimes involving abuse as a child (which they might not remember).

Fortunately, with Trump in office, a lot of the social liberalism is soon to be reversed, taken from our laws and removed from our schools.  I know several parents who are distressed at how their kids have become sexually confused from what is being taught in school; this trans-bathroom nonsense is the straw that broke the camels back.  Conservatism is back.  Open homosexuality is a proven failure; I believe that open homosexuality (and its destructive force against society) is what led to the teachings in Genesis (Sodom & Gomorrah) and Leviticus.