I know, I get caught up in that when I shouldn't. Time waster. Maybe in this case it's because I've seen the damage homophobia can do. I even know hetero men who have been "gay bashed" because they "looked" gay. One friend was even holding hands w/his wife @ the time, just minding their own business, walking down the street, when these horrid young men started pounding him and yelling that he was a "F-ing f-g-t." Then they ran away. Never caught of course. My friend wasn't seriously hurt but it was very frightening.