Once upon a time, middle class American women could stay at home, Starting in the 1960s or so, inflation, not feminism,  meant that households needed two incomes to maintain the same standard of living. 

Blathering about "lesbian feminists" shows only your ignorance of feminism. Feminism arose when women realized they wete getting a raw deal. Part of that raw deal is that eomen eete expected to stay home, tend the house and raise the kids. You and people like you want to lock women into roles YOU define for them, which are not necessarily the ones they would choose for themselves.