BTW, I am not being disrespectful.  Gays deserve church weddings and love the pageantry.  If they can perform them they should certainly be able to be married with them.  When I married a woman, we were had to assure the priest that we were sexually functional.  We had to be open to children, but did not have to be fertile (luckily we were, but at our age, it was not for long).  We were also taught in pre-Cana that we performed the sacrament and the priest was the witness for the community.  All three of these tests could be passed by gay couples, save for the fact that some heterosexuals think their sex is icky.  Thinking that is part of being heterosexual - love can overcome such prejudice - indeed, Christ came to help us get beyond such mental mortal sins driven by our instinctual drives.