My 2nd attempt - why  my comments being rejected I have no idea.
Lets see, you just accused me of a complicated sexuality, ie. possibly latent homosexuality. "He said you had a complicated sexuality, didn't he? It would seem the case." Was this comment made so as to obtain a visceral response from me out of concern and compassion, or just to "get even"? No different than Fr Martin's desired effect. Get my point now? I see you mentioning "bullying" in your other responses. There seems to be a whiff of hypocrisy here, don't you think?
By the way, what does your comment " but the weakness in personal boundaries is an issue that complicates sexuality." pertain to or supposed to mean to our discussion?