Right on, sisters. It's way past time for the church to take seriously the grand pronouncements of Vatican II that we are all church. When has this important precept ever been seriously demonstrated, not just pontificated on? We all need to talk about contraception, and women, and same-sex love.
As a gay man who as a young adult made every effort to live strictly within church teaching as I understood it, know from bitter experience that this was ultimately destructive for my wife, as well as for myself, and led to both of us drifting away from the church. Years later, after I had the courage to come out and start life in a committed same-sex partnership, I was able to return to the church. The attempt to reconcile the apparent conflict led me to years of deep study and intense prayer, leaving me convinced that conventional teaching is just plain wrong. We need to tell our stories. Read mine here -  http://queerchurch.com/?p=46971