If you want stories of lesbians' lives, start with the nuns.  

And you should explain why you remain in an organization where "We simply do not have the conditions for a useful conversation if churchmen talk with one another and at or about the rest of us."  By doing so, you're complicit in the ongoing degradation of women, whatever their sexual orientation may be.

And, as you know, the percentage of gay men in the priesthood is enormous.  Why pretend that a "conversation" with these men about this FACT is worthwhile?