Please give one citation - one official teaching - that supports your accusation.  
I must admit, I have never seen an Church teaching "supporting misogyny and homophobia."  I have not seen one teaching that says "Catholics must hate homosexuals" or "Women must be despised."   I have seen your interpretation claiming it - but that doesn't support your claim.  
In fact, as a Catholic woman, I feel appreciated and loved for the gifts and whatever little talent I am able to share.  There is so much I can do - and I don't need to be a priest to do it.  I don't need to be the one with all eyes on me...for it isn't about me.