Why are you pushing so hard to keep people who need to go "potty" and have every right to do so, out?   Do you think every gay man (or lesbian woman if you're female) wants to have sex with you because you're so unbelievably hot and they're so lust crazed they can't control themselves?  Yeah, I think that - and more importantly, your dirty mind - is what's driving you and all the other haters.  You're projecting loudly, and telling us all way more about you and your feelings than anything else. Get some help.