Some years ago, the GM had a book review/personal profile of a female University of Toronto professor.

We learned that she was divorced 3 times (and was now in a same-sex marriage)...it turns out all three of the men she had been married to, turned out to be abusive alcoholics. I believe there was some indication that she had no pre-marriage fore-warning this was going to happen, they just "all turned out that way".

Somewhere in all of this was a narcissistic abdication of any responsibility for choices, etc. (sounds like a certain US politician, but I digress), or a complete lack of understanding that the men did not change, she sought out their type, and was willfully blind to their faults.

We have an increasing car-wreck here (no pun intended), at least on the personal front (there is no quibble, she is very accomplished professionally), but the "judgement"......

One wonders where it will end....