Proud, you obviously live out your faith with service to others. Thank you for that blessing, that witness. The issues you struggle with raise these questions:
1. Are all contraceptive methods abortifacient? Could you support an employees choice to use a non- abortifacient barrier method?
2. Most of the studies I've seen shows no difference in children being raised by heterosexual or homosexual parents. Is denying a child the ability to be parented worth keeping them away from gay households? Why?
3. Have you really had a restroom problem? Was a cross dressing man harassing/ogling abused women in a restroom? I would sincerely hope you had that man arrested, but is this really a hypothetical?
PS I hate my #3 question. If you respond, I will believe your answer is truthful. Too many times these discussions devolve into arguing to win. I apologize for asking for a verification and do not doubt your faith or opinion.