I do not loathe gays.  I have said on this very page, within the past few days, that to bully or criticize gays simply for being gay is wrong and contrary to the love God demands us have one another, simply because we're created by Him.  What I do loathe is gays insisting that to oppose gay marriage is "homophobic."  It is a false accusation, intended to harm the one it is aimed at.  THAT is un-Christian.  But hey, since when is the left Christian any longer?