I don't doubt that people are suffering, but i am honestly baffled by the description of being in cis  vs trans with one's physical sex.    My inner me is a spirit and has no sex...and thus it matters not a bit to me what container I am in.  While  I have always taken this for granted, it seems it is not the experience of others, though it strikes me as odd that the neither cis nor trans view is missing.  Is there a third way, especially for kids--celebrate who you are, live as you want, enjoy the fluidity of trying out genders, but wait on the irreversible treatments until adulthood?  As parents, we love you no matter what.