I'm of firm belief that the vast majority are born gay. I have no right to judge, I'll leave that to God. As far as sex, I see it as a great gift from God, not just for procreation, but an act of Love between a man and his wife, besides being great fun. Thank you Jesus. Since my wife is beyond child bearing years, it seems that the Church would rather you quit. No thanks.  It's time that the Hierarchy get their head out of there ignorance.