That's a very large generalization. So if I say "My friend Joe and I went hiking..." I'm accused of telling everyone "I have a friend??" That's laughable. Saying "I went hiking with my GAY friend" is a proper analogy. When a hetero person says "my husband, wife, gf or bf" it is not announcing their sexuality. They're announcing WHO THAT PERSON IS in relation to them. Stop making it bigger than it is.