The challenge as I see it, is that the gay community has only talked of their condition, as 'normal', because it feels normal to them. But to the 92% of hetros, they have always fallen, fall and will always be encompassed into the very same catagory, as a two-heade turtle

Two-headed turtles are like gays, 'naturally occurring in nature'. Does that make either 'normal'?  ....and herein lies the issue.  No, while both are naturally occurring in nature, neither are normal. And this is the crux of the situation

It does not make anyone gay, better, worse, supernatural, superhuman or inhuman. It just means that one is born with a skewed chromosome

IMHO it is precisely for this reason that a large number of people have always had an issue accepting or embracing gays; or rather 'understanding'

Understanding, in the same way they understand a person afflicted with any other naturally occurring in nature, but not normal condition

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