To this reader it's clear the Dispatch run's certain stories to promote non traditional lifestyles .  The author of this story is trying to push a few buttons as well . First , the subject of the story he wrote about wasn't " a young woman " , but in fact was a 17 year old boy correctly described as " a boy pretending to be a girl " .  I agree with the author and Dispatch about how comments should be kept civil.  Most of them were .    In my past observations on this general subject I find that those , with few exceptions , doing most of the trash talking are those who lack traditional values.  If anyone dares to disagree with the gay movement  they are attacked . To me the word " bigot " shouldn't be allowed , yet dare to speak against the gay movement and your called that and a whole lot more .  I was shocked that the subject of the original story in his own comment was allowed to use the slang word for private part . How civil was that ?