Sorry, Kevin, but the vast majority of people are given the gift of sexuality in order to use it in relationship. For an entire group of Christian gay adults--and we don't really know how large this group is--lifelong celibacy is an unrealistic and cruel option. Unfortunately, the Church's myopia about the meaning of sexuality (and I use the word *meaning* on purpose because the Church doesn't control meaning; only two people in a relationship do) results in regulations that have nothing to do with love or intimacy.