His actions are: choosing a church that is misogynistic and homophobic instead of the 100 or so churches in Portland that don't share those values. 

As for me being "actively dishonest"  well that's BS. It's Bailey who isn't honest about his beliefs- pretending he can choose a church characterized by outrageous beliefs (female submission, gays are sinners, unmarried couples are sinners).  Imago Dei principles are closer to the Quiverful Movement than you are honest enough to admit.

Bailey is the Santorum of the progressive-but-misogynistic & homophobic section of Portland.  Good luck with that.