This panel is sweet. The world will be better for these angelic parents--really. They should be on TV. Our house is different. We all believe deeply in accepting, respecting, and even loving everyone, including people who are transgender and gender queer--even if they are Trump supporters. We will all go to the mat for people's rights and dignity here. We are also--apparently--a little different from the other families on the panel. We hotly debate transgender science. We debate the ways in which being gender queer is a matter of choice, performance, biology, and so on. We argue at length over which parts of social change on these issues should come through distributed democratic processes and which should be forced by the federal government--and what the criteria and values are for making these decisions. We tend to cringe when teachers and governments start messing with the sexual self-understanding of children, and we also tend to cringe when we see ignorant prejudice anywhere.