Did He not show that love to the adultress in John 8? Including the parting exhortation to "go and sin no more"?
If your argument, as well as bootie's, is centered around "christians" and their frequent abusive attitudes towards other sinners besides ourselves, then we have no dispute. However, if, like bootie, you're implying that Christ approves of homosexual "marriage", then we indeed have an issue.