Perhaps it is time for the Catholic Church to become less judgmental,, less  controlling of women and more tolerant.  As a former Catholic all my life until 5 yrs. ago,  I cannot agree to their anti- women and LGBT bigotry.  I now attend an Episcopal church with a gay woman pastor . She is marvelous,, intelligent, and lovely to talk to.  Catholic priests are too caught up in their own importance and afraid to get their hands dirty. Protestant churches are smaller, more welcoming and more tolerant.  I have 6 children, was told my health could not take another pregnancy but my Catholic Church teaches  if I got pregnant then I should die? No,  the priests are not  God.  Priests are to serve us not put us on hard wooden benches in the church and collect our money.  Just look at yourselves!  Cardinals get a salary of approx. $300,000 a year and live luxuriously!