What is a homosexual ("gay") person but someone who embraces and is willing to act upon a predisposition to engage in acts which are sinful according to the Church?  Do we not expect people to avoid the temptation to engage in other sins, even with the best of intentions?  So why do we make an exception for those who willingly take-on the label of "gay?"    Is it because they present themselves as such nice people who have been saddled with the challenge of same-sex attraction?  Is "nice" the new standard for sinfulness?

All the Church asks of us is to resist temptation and to confess our sins when we falter.  Yet for those with same-sex attraction this is not enough.  Contrary to popular explanation, chastity is not the only other option for those with same-sex attraction.  There is love, which knows no sex: accept the blessing of a loving opposite-sex partner.  Even learn to enjoy sex with that person and have children.  It's been done for 1000s of years.