The Little Sisters of the Poor had a "church policy" that wasn't subject to ACA penalties. They were simply pawns in the theocratic Becket Fund's culture war battle against the liberal state.

No religious organization can be be "pressed into service" by the state to perform gay marriage. That is sheer histrionic propaganda floated by the religious right to obscure the fact the constitution forbids such coercion.

Likewise your rhetorical question is bunk.