The (dare I say "vast"?) majority of trans people do not transform to Betty Boop. But many are trying so hard to be accepted that they over-compensate. As acceptance from the public happens, that pressure will probably lessen. Most want to be accepted for who they are. But at the moment the community is still fully aware that "passing" isn't just an aesthetic issue, it is a survival issue -- trans people get killed, assaulted or ostracized at a much higher rate than non-trans folks. If accepted from childhood, I believe you'll see more normalcy. Let's find out.