Well, some LGBT people bore children before they came out. Are you against adoption? Adoption has its pitfalls but it's probably better than being in foster care. Maybe you should check out the research on LGBT families by adoption because one of its editors is well-acquainted with the psychological risks of being adopted (Adoption by Lesbians and Gay Men: A New Dimension in Family Diversity, Brodzinsky and Pertman, Oxford University Press--Brodzinsky is the guy I was referring to).