There are federal laws to protect LGBT and the states that have come up with hateful laws in order to oppress LGBT will financially feel the pressure to re-think their opposition and oppressive laws.  Unless you're a member of one of those 'militias' you and I obey the laws and if we think those laws are wrong we use the system and the process available to change the laws.  If you randomly decide which laws you'll obey and which ones you won't obey we will live in chaos and those that don't obey will be put in jail and thats a good thing.