Really?  Where haven't we been honest about wanting priests with our priorities?  I don't want our inclusiveness toward gay people, women, etc. to go away and I definitely prefer the contemporary worship style that they have.  I don't want some Latin Mass type telling people they are going to Hell for voting Democratic, refusing people Communion, etc.

And I am sure that your pastor totes seeks out the advice of women.  After all, he and the "superior" menfolk shouldn't have to do the menial free slave labor.  As long as the Church is hierarchical, laypeople are always going to be second class and that includes ALL women.  It doesn't matter how "nice" father is and how he tries to "include" women; the issue is that by virtue of his rank he can play little monster dictator if he chooses.