Neither of these specimens is a healthy gay man and both have a major interest in tearing down the LGBT community. Your facts are bogus. That you derive from these two accounts that gay men comprise a culture "that sexualises and victimises boys as young as 13 years old" simply means you're ignorant on the subject and apparently happy to stay that way. 

Do yourself a favour and get out and meet some gay families headed by men, meet their children, talk to couples who have been together for 20 years, talk to single gay men who have been out for that long and ask them the question you so offensively asked here, and you will get a much better picture of what is really going on.