That's a pretty fair assessment. As a gay person who (somewhat regularly) attends mass, I can only articulate my own reasons for adhering, however tangentially, to Catholicism. I don't think the gay community as a whole is the least bit interested in doing the same thing, however. If I were still living in Boston I'd still be attending mass at the Episcopal Church of the Advent. If I were still living in New York I'd still be worshipping at the Episcopal Church of St. Mary the Virgin, both Anglo-Catholic shrines. As it is, where I live currently, the Episcopal Church scene is awful so I go to the local Roman Catholic Cathedral where mass is done beautifully and the sermons are pretty good. But I'm a relic from bygone era and a creature of habit. Most gay people have fled the churches so this discussion is largely academic and is happening without a significant gay presence. In the end, it won't really matter what churches decide to do about gay people because we'll largely be gone.