it's easy for me to grasp that however you want to stereotype, neither James nor the representative probably have knowingly met a trans person, ever in their life. trans people usually have it perfectly figured out who they are. it's cis men who have the hardest time accepting that trans people exist. it boggles my mind that y'all cannot get it through your thick heads; they are not confused, and want to live their lives in peace, like most people. what part of all of that common sense can't you all understand.