No one is torturing and burning anyone.  But I don't want public schools teaching my daughters that anal "sex" and oral "sex" are admirable acts of love either.  It's not proper for introducing into public discussion, and when we say, "love homosexuals," that is precisely what we're doing, implying that those sort of acts are appropriate conduct.  Yeah, they might or might not engage in those activities, but you can bet that if the school teaches that it's a-ok, it's more likely that they will.

It's none of my business what kind of perversions people engage in in private, but when they demand to tell my kids and the society in which they live that suck perversions are acceptable behavior for civilized people, I have a problem with it.