Horrible horrible thing for me to say, but not many 14 year old boys would have an issue with a 26 year old girl jumping on them in bed; even if they got nervous and bolted.   No doubt it would be with a tent somewhere. 

This former kid is gay, maybe Spacey could recognize that in his drunken stupor...   again a horrible thing to say as the main thing is the kid felt intimidated and harassed sexually (that supersedes all).     But few heterosexual boys at that age would take umbrage with an attractive 26 year old female trying to kiss them.   Just an analogy.   It certainly would not be newsworthy and Rose McGowan would not take such umbrage.    

And yes I get that it was wrong.