I'm profoundly grateful for the new-found legal right to my marriage, and for my 'alternative' family's welcome in our parish and in our kids' Catholic school. 
I'm profoundly angry when same-sex marriages  result in firings from other less-welcoming  Catholic schools. 
I'm really annoyed when folks like Mr. Tennes disrepect and dishonor same-sex couples.
So I'm finding it hard to articulate the reasons why I wanna say 'Come on, just let the guy sell his fruit at the farmers' market".  Something to do with mercy? The right to earn a living? Pity on someone who doesn't know any better? I suppose I could be accused of internalized homophobia...