I hear you & agree with much of what you say.  But don't underestimate Trump, as I have done.  It's a steep learning curve & he may get it yet, despite 24/7 hammering by a biased media.  I too have believed to an extent that it would either work or be a disaster - with little in between.  And he indeed has been his own worst enemy.  But under-the-radar much is going on & I disagree about his performance on regulatory reform - a half dozen or so significant changes are happening each week - a painfully slow, but steady dismantling of the regulatory state.
And about one of these half-dozen issues makes the front page (and is significant even if overshadowed by his latest tweet or other news) - this week DACA & the DOE revisiting the college kangaroo courts on rape (alleged rape) where the defendant seems automatically guilty & is denied due process,   Last week it was reinstating the welfare work requirement.  The week before, transgenders in the military.  Need I mention SCOTUS?