As a woman called to ordained priesthood by God, when I was 15 years old, & crushed when rejected by our church, I can relate to this man's story.  

What hits me most & may serve as part of his answer & has helped me to heal was my choice to be the one who demands change all around me: at church and in the world.  

This line is the problem:  
"There is much about the institution that I flat out reject, and I can say that more freely now that I am no longer a public person representing the institutional church."

Our priests and we laity need to stop making excuses to keep us from telling truth to each other bluntly and with integrity.  Truth heals and someone must be the bringer of it to the surface if anything important will be changed.  We must all decide that we are that someone.  Priests need to fight misogyny and boldly together demand women, not first married men, but women, be ordained equally and priests.  We need to all support LGBT and debate tough morality issues together.