Your arguments against Obergefell are dependent on your disapproval of homosexuals. Oh, you don't approve of the right of privacy either, but that is not  what Obergefell is based on. Obergefell, just like Loving, is based on the 14th Amendment.

Lawrence v. Texas, the case which struck down sodomy laws, is based on the right of privacy. Should that be the case to be complaining about?

If you did not disapprove if homosexuals, then why would you disapprove of their marrying civilly? How does gay civil marriage affect you in any way?