Well they are going Mike!  The Traditionalists must have their way church! is not working in the west because those "others" you label have already left & now even the traditionalist's kids are saying "See ya - keep your sexist, racist, gay bashing church for yourself-instead give me a church that loves Jesus and wants to worship as a group of believers who vote to decide what style of mass is most unifying, taking all voices into account.  

We got a new pastor last week at our parish.  I asked him to please let our parish go back to having Lectors stay on the altar, as our church had been doing for decades before our conservative pastor, who left, demanded they leave the sanctuary the moment they finish their reading, as of last year.  The lectors were told this was the guideline so even though half the lectors asked to be allowed to stay, as they enjoyed this special time of prayer in the sanctuary, during Eucharistic prayer-his answer was no!  The new priest told me no-thats final!