Many Asian mothers drive their kids crazy with demanding hard work and duty to the family honour.  It is part of their cultural identity for Asian Kids to have no spare time for lounging around and slacking off. There is always something new to learn, like piano, violin, advanced maths and running a home based business. Like Jewish mothers, they push their kids with threats of shame if they fail. How many of the people tossing the word "White Privilege" had that at home? Not many I bet.