Toughen up! Just admit it if you're not the perfect contemporary mate and treat the feminist harpies' complaints about you as background noise. It's usually a great thing to be a dad to someone and, if you can remember the old adage of 'happy wife, happy life', you too can find fulfillment in a marriage at the same time. If you're not terribly imperfect, there's always someone out there that will, for a decent period of time, give you a chance to learn how to be a tolerable if, not good, husband.