Ms. Williams, you have really hit the nail on the head with this issue!  At first, with the introduction being on that "The Handmaid's Tale" show had me going for a bit, but as I kept reading, and comparing my 70 years of life as a woman, I can certainly relate totally to this picture you have painted of some of the real psychological differences between the sexes!  You have taken us down to a deeper, raw level than many in our society would want to admit that we are.  And for that I applaud you.  Until we, as a society get honest about this issue, it will continue to be glossed over and dismissed as not true and irrelevant just as it has been for centuries and centuries.  Women owe, if nothing else, to the Women's Lib movement, that fact at least...women now have found their voice!  And that voice is getting stronger!!  Thanks!!  :)