There is a ratio of women sociopaths in Alaska.  I do not stand in solidarity with them. My standard is truth. BTW sociopathology is incurable.  This does not mean the person is unlovable.  They are unable forever to empathize with you.  They will take economic advantage of you.  They can't help it.  They don't want you to know that neither do their husbands.  It is embarrassing.