I was reared by parents who were equals.
In my university days I considered myself a supporter of feminist equality so I was surprised to see that some women who railed against inequality were supportive of reverse discrimination.
So I developed a 2 part question to weed out those with a false flag me first mentality.
Question one - if you get pregnant, is your boyfriend equally responsible?
Question two - If you decide to abort, can he veto it?
I'm not sure what the knee jerk reflex is currently, but 30 years ago the answer to the first question was, "Of course he is, it takes two to Tango."
And the answer to the second question was, " Don't be ridiculous, it's my body."
In the first case 'the boyfriend' has has an obligation, while in the second case he has no rights.
When these sorts of her vs him discussions arose I would ask this two part question.
Some would look at me and say "I see what you mean."
Others would label me a misogynist.
It helped me sort through the noise.