Yes, Paul, I do relish the role of an outsider to question what others quote as scripture.   Regarding the women can't do that comment.  I was pissed at spoon1 telling me I had a bad ex-wife rather than engage in thoughtful discussion.  Many here just call me a woman hater when I question the status quo and stereotypes.  It saddens me actually that these people who judge based not on facts but their own stereotypes ultimately control the criminal justice system.  Thank you for you post and the prior one.