Are you kidding?  Good Lord, I hope so.....

NO ONE has ever said that a woman who "allowed" herself to be raped wouldn't "likely be good with her family or God."  Where did you come up with that?  That St. Maria was recognized for attempting to preserve her virginity is something she should be castigated for?  That the struggle to remain "pure" is something to be ignored?  There is nothing wrong with attempting to preserve ones virginity, particularly today, with the onslaught of media and permissiveness - is there?  That St. Maria is recognized for it should be lauded, not condemned.  And your remark about her mother raising her to appreciate her purity is really uncalled for.  

By the way - you do know that St. Maria, on her deathbed, also prayed for and forgave her rapist, right?  Apparently, she was also quite pure of heart.....perhaps her mom taught her that, too?