No, it's not like saying ... anything about murder. Because it's not murder.

And, it isn't yet a "baby".

You are perfectly free to believe what you typed, but you make my point for me - you don't get to require others to believe what you believe, and you still don't get to make the decision for anyone who isn't you.

Yes, in most instances, other people's input usually is moot. It is also usually unsolicited (as you exemplify), unwanted and unhelpful. Your dislike for women's bodily autonomy will not change any woman's mind. That's the part you both ignore and hate simultaneously. All the screaming "MURDERER!!!" in a woman's face will not change the mind of a woman who does not want to be pregnant. It may well make you feel superior, but you're still not the one with the decision to make.

My point stands.