I don't usually share your view (repeated here regularly) that there's no individual responsibility, it's all the fault of "The (capitalist) System".  But you are right about feminism.  It has liberated women everywhere, that's fantastic, but it's come with a cost:  the home, the domestic world that women historically created and were in charge of, has disappeared.  And the cost especially for children has been catastrophic.  But society's now about adults, we all want to do what we want to do and the kids, if we have any, are moved down the priority list behind both parents' money chasing and other self-actualization activities.