William Noel, 

Correct me if I misunderstand you.   What you are saying is if I disagree with you I am disagreeing with the Holy Spirit.   He has been showing you He puts women in any position He wants. 

The dispute is not about the authority of  scripture,  it is about the authority of the Holy Spirit. That is why it is worse than worthless to argue about it.   One could reason it might be blaspheming the Holy Spirit to contradict Holy Spirit. 

The Holy Spirit can't be telling us different things.  So we settle tbe dispute by me listening more intently to the holy spirit,  until I hear him telling me the same thing he is telling you. 

Is that a fair summation of your thinking?