Dear Foreshorten3, Your comment is reminiscent of the more obvious retort that blamed children for the sexual abuse by a priest.  The difference - obvious, a woman, but also there is an element of "grooming" - intentional or otherwise.  There is also, what one might call an "adolescent" infatuation that on one side or the other is presumed to be love. "Sexual" - between two adults, is such a narrow step - is not a chasm when the solitary environment of "intimacy" is factored in. The difference is, the maturity of responsibility for consequence. Blame the women? Okay, but she has to live with it.