I do agree with many of your points - is your life better, sure. Is it better to not have a child you were not capable of raising well, sure.  Should rape/abuse victims be allowed to have an abortion, absolutely.

I think the bigger issue/question for many - should women be allowed to have an unlimited amount of abortions with no repercussions..

And related issues - like paternity - if the woman doesn't want the baby - she can do whatever she wants, abortion, adoption, etc. If she does want the baby - she can sue for child support - even years after the child's birth and with no prior knowledge to the father. Isn't this a double standard?

And who decides if/when the woman's behavior is reckless, both physically and emotionally - should a real doctor step in and pro-actively fix the real problem - psychological help or sterilization.. After-all, an alcoholic isn't considered "normal/sane" even though they are allowed to drink themselves to death.