I went to UIUC, which is staffed by very conservative priests from the Peoria dioceses.  They have a Latin Mass there now as the main morning Mass on campus.  And Champaign-Urbana is a liberal college town as well.  I actually walked out of a sermon there once.  But I would definitely document these things.  You know what these would be great examples for - the upcoming Synod on Young People.  I'd encourage your friends to write things about this.  I believe there is supposed to be a website up there.  Also, I know that this is Morlino but what you described is misogynistic and beyond the pale.  A priest shouldn't be commenting upon a young woman's looks.  She should definitely report it to the chancery and if nothing happens, then I am sure that newspapers on campus would love to report on a priest commenting on a young women's looks not being feminine enough and how her main purpose should be to catch a man and start breeding.