Provide your one or two verses and we can discuss them..

If you accept that Jesus' was silent on the subject of war, you will note that He is completely silent also about the civil authorities. He never defies them and counsels his Apostles to never defy them.

There is nothing contrary to love about defending yourself, your spouse, your children, or your society against an attack.

Yes, He accepted his death because that death was the sole purpose for his being on earth.

Jesus came to fulfil only what was good in the existing law: love of God, love of self, love of life, a just society, and the story of the woman caught in adultery tells no different tale. He even upped the ante, making clear marriage was indissoluble.

So, what in particular renders an action or inaction on your part moral or immoral?

If I provide an example, would you hazard a guess?