They get a forward base to battle Japan (WW2) and currently North Korea. And when the descendants of the people who stole the land and hijacked the political apparatus, return both, you can talk about equality.
If Hawaii is such a bad deal for the other 49 states, why don't they let Hawaii become independent? it would be in their best interest right?
Based on your repeated reference to females, I think it is fair to say you subscribe to the O Reilly/Ailes/Trump view of women.