Well form a better response and I will respond.

Should a priest "sit back" while we're looking at women other than our spouse, going into places on the internet where we shouldn't, cheating our brother out of some item as we close out our parent's estate?

Should our Bishop ping us when we spend too much time seeking consolation on the internet instead of checking on our children's homework?

Should a priest sit back when we're checking our email in the middle of Mass..or thinking about our day when at Mass?

Too many lay have found too much comfort in pointing fingers at priests, bishops or Rome...because it saves them from doing more painful and daily examination about their own constant self focus, selfishness, laziness, sensuality...or our doom and gloom mentality that we carry about us.

or the resentments we still hold onto.

or the cynicism that spills out of our mouth

or the pride that crowds out or distorts our FEW acts of costly charity.