A fetus becomes a child upon birth. You may wish to consult the meaning of both in a dictionary if you doubt me. It's hard to discuss a subject with someone who doesn't know basic terminology. You don't get to invent meanings, not even if you're the president.
You appear to know exactly why most elective abortions are conducted: I suppose you heard a voice from on high telling you that. Accidental abortions show that nature itself, very often, has reasons for aborting fetuses; women are natural beings who also may have their own reasons and yes, mental health is a very good one. What isn't natural is for a person like you to be able to force another woman to carry a fetus to full term against her will. What an amazing grasp of power, what an astonishing ego to think you have a right to force another being to do so. That's hardly democratic but more like dictatorial. This isn't unnatural in many churches, but the USA isn't a church, is it? Separation of church and... what's that again?