If the woman was raped, or even if she wasn't, why isn't she entitled to make the decisions every other pregnant and single mother makes? Why are all the solutions and guidelines coming  from the institution representing the priest? Sometimes, women choose to raise their children on their own or with their extended family. Happens all the time. The advice from the pope himself makes it sound as though women and children together are always a fragile unit, yet most decisions about mothering without fathers are made by women. Francis can come to my house to see how it's done if he needs to. It's all pretty straightforward. 

It's another situation entirely if the couple happens to fall in love. Then the priest should cut bait and join the mother-to-be and raise the child with her.