Respectfully, I don't think it's the laity who are not listening, but instead those empowered to make decisions -- which means the ordained and NOT the laity -- who are not listening to our solutions nor seeing the masses of people who no longer participate in the Church.  From Francis to the newest crop of recently ordained, the institutional Church rejects half the human race from consideration of ordination, although women share a common baptism as well as humanity.  The response of the hierarchy to the child sexual abuse horror has been miserable on almost all fronts -- even the "commissions" instituted by Francis have failed (unless I've missed all the bishops' prosecutions who have aided and abetted pedophiles).  This lost trust from ordinary Catholics can't be regained in a few years, nor can women be expected to continue to embrace the Church's continued misogyny.  

I always look forward to your homilies, but I think this one missed the mark.  Peace.