I'll have to look that comment up ........fresher 



I volunteered at a local food bank.  I was there a month and during that whole time, many of those whom volunteered had nothing but nasty comments about those there for food boxes.  Gossip flowed about so and so and they don't need that food or THEY JUST GOT A BOX.  Yeah....   No matter what class a human being is positioned in they always seem to be able to prop themselves up over those w/less.  

I finally told the worst offender that the woman she was berating was hit by a train and had brain damage.  She wasn't drunk.  'dI worked very hard to be kind and helpful when that woman was signing up for a food box.  It was difficult too.......but I kept myself in serious check and the end results?  She stood there crying.  She grabbed my hand and thanked me for the kindness.  I couldn't of asked for a better feeling than that.  

So.  Have you ever bothered to ask any of them to lunch and actually sit and talk w/them?