Here is the deal.  I obviously do not want to deny women the rights to have kids regardless of their income level.  Nor do I want the government to dictate the number of kids people have.  But I also am a fan of accountability.  I am not a fan of mainly middle class women who abuse government resources because they have more children than they can afford.  Simcha Fisher is a prime example of this phenomenon; she could have easily supported three kids but she chooses to have ten and demands the rest of us subsidize her religious fetishes.  How do we make sure not to harm actual poor minority women while making sure that middle class religious fanatics aren't being subsidized?