If Zosia Bielski was criticizing commentators who advocated women not wear high heels, then her condescending, dismissive tone might be appropriate.  Instead, she lumps  good common-sense advice like don't get passing-out drunk in the company of strangers under the virtue-signaling label of "victim blaming".  That's the problem with her version of feminism, it simply cannot rise above its own orthodoxy, even when not doing so encourages women to do stupid things that can end very badly.