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There are policies in place that affect women disparately.  For example the majority of those in poverty are women and children.  Family leave policies in the US are generally awful, and child care support is severely lacking.  
The Church discriminates against women by barring us from all decision-making positions and from ordination.
How you live your personal life is your business, as long as you don't harm others.  How wider society treats women ought to concern all of us.