"Unfortunately, lots of woman can’t do that today because to them it implies responsibility which is unacceptable."

I wish you would have left that out.  Does 'Lots' mean a majority of women?  Does "lots' mean a few dozen?   Whether you intend it or not, the language implies that this stereotype of some specific women(irresponsible) is your first assumption about all women in assault cases.    
OR, 
Being the Outsider, you fight for a minority viewpoint - which should be a part of any civil discussion.