I believe it was P.E.T. that said the government has no place in the bedrooms of the nation. He was right. If a couple does not want each other in marriage, then they do not want each other in bed. If you feel this way, you  shouldn't be married in the first place. Then sweetie you can say no anytime you want. I understand it is a two way street.  Read Ephesians 5:21-32.
I wonder how many women actually feel this way or if it is a mouthy minority causing trouble as usual?  This is an ethical, religious issue, not something for the courts to decide. If you need to get a judge involved in your bedroom activities, you do not have a marriage....you have a live in arrangement with a high priced call girl.