"Perplexed Husband": how "great" could this new job be if it doesn't even pay enough to handle your bills? Let us be the judge of your job's greatness - give us details so we have context. Who is the employer, what is the position, what is your salary? Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So when you say you are married to a "beautiful" woman, how do we know it's actually true? It's totally subjective. Please post a link to photos so we can judge for ourselves.