I remember decades back, when our division had a meeting about things that could be considered unwanted and sexist comments. Turned out that even telling the secretary that you like her new hair style could be construed as such. The next day I told her that she looked pretty frazzled! She just laughed at that. People sure tend to wear their emotions on their sleeve. I find it easier not to have anything to do with society because of this sort of thing. I've been yelled at for opening a door for a woman or offering to help them carry something when they had so much in their arms or it was falling out of the shopping cart. Just not worth doing things like that any more. Society has become pretty fragile.