Hi, ann strahl.  I sympathize. Like you, I am "frequently appalled" at the relatively radical posture of 2 of my 30-something daughters around issues of gender and, specifically, the Ghomeshi trial and the Hillary Clinton defeat.  

Mine are university grads, mature, professional women but now in their early 30s and they STILL don't get it.  They'd love to make an exception to "innocent until proven guilty" in the Ghomeshi's case.  They simply dismiss thoughts that witnesses couldn't be trusted and post "I believe" facebook stuff.  The outpouring of anguish at Trump's victory and Clinton's "victimhood" is jaw-dropping. 

I'll say what millions of parents say: Where did I go wrong??