Trump is being judged by what he says, said, does and did. What does it matter if he says he respects women and minorities when everyone has transcripts of what he has said and done in that regard? 
If Trump were to turn over a new leaf--and I personally think he is not ethically capable of doing that--GREAT! But it's clear from his cabinet choices that he's going to harm women, immigrants and most especially the younger generation of Americans thanks to his positions on the environment. 
Your faith in Trump, in the face of everything he's said and everything he's done in the past not to mention the appointments he has already made public, indicate that you, like a great many people from the older generation who voted for Trump, suffer from some sort of ailment which was why I suggested you have yourself checked.