You have to pay? You have my sympathy. There is no shortage of female company with enthusiasm and talent not interested in having children.

One of my brothers decided that smoking his life away as a pot head was more important than getting married and raising a family. When our father died, with nothing to show for his life except a family, the pot head suddenly got interested in having a family, at age 60. We kept expecting a film crew to pop out at us telling us we were on an (un)Reality TV show.