Thank you for this piece. I remember when I turned 37 (I am 20 years past that) and wondered about the future and whether my best years had already been. Turns out, the years from 37 and well beyond are the best of a woman's life. I hope other women can consider that and recognize it in the present rather than only in hindsight. As for weight gain, it doesn't happen until past 55 and by then one hopefully realizes it's more important to eat the ice cream (and enjoy the naps). Best wishes in your continued growth.