DD,

Why does anyone need a human title or recognition to minister for God. We don't because it is God who calls and empowers whomever He chooses and there is nothing in the New Testament discussion about spiritual gifts that says God limits what gifts He gives, or how He wants them to minister His love, based on their gender. 

Ordination was invented to create the clergy as a class in society using the cloak of godliness to be viewed as separate from and rule over the common people. So the idea that the church can "ordain" anyone is not Biblical. The meaning of "pastor" is a shepherd, so the common expectations of a pastor are quite limited when compared to how God views the role, so limited that we should call them non-scriptural. Add that Paul never mentions God using gender as a limit on who He empowers for what role and all this discussion about not ordaining women becomes a bunch of nonsense.