Those thousands and thousands of women nationwide need to convince the US House of Representatives to vote by a two-thirds majority for a Constitutional Amendment (287 members of the House) and also convince the  US Senate to vote by a two-thirds majority for a Constitutional Amendment (66 Senators)  to kill the Electoral College.    

They then need to convince three-fourths of the State Legislatures Nationwide (38 separate States)  to ratify that amendment to get rid of the Electoral College; otherwise, its rules are going to apply in 2020.  

What I think we 'deserve' or you do,  is irrelevant.  That is the system we live under.

That's how thousands and thousands of people got the vote for women in this country in the first place almost 100 years ago.  If you can't do that, following the rules is your only option to get your candidate elected.

Just because Hillary couldn't follow those rules and win does not change the system, nor should it.