I was not putting her down. I said that she had really nice hair and that the bow was very feminine. I took note of it because it was unusual, not because I did not like it. In fact, I said specifically"Nice bow. Very feminine."

 I did not know at the time that Ms. Lowell had made an entire video about hair ornaments.

Kelly herself has made a Youtube video about hair accessories:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfxrI1Fwxfw


"Published on Nov 4, 2015
One small hair accessory, one powerful message. 
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She says herself in this video that this is her signature look and a point of conversation.

Given the facts, why did you blow up over this?  I was complementing her.