I get what you are saying.  But this is really not what women are talking about.  Most of us have been on dates where the other person was feeling more than we were.  Some dates ask and others try a move.  I'm good at shutting "moves" down. I am not upset when I do.

I have also been grabbed by random guys.  My boob has been grabbed. My butt has been grabbed.  I have also been raped.

There is a difference and most women know that.