Maybe you should be worried that your 'old lady' might take the opportunity and miss the perpetrator and get out of a situation where she is considered an 'old lady'. Reread what I responded to. The writer said ex felons, I replied to that. As far as not knowing about incarceration and ex felons I can tell you that I work in the field, the uneducated clients in that area call their wives and girlfriends old ladies,