As I said, we come from different planets.  If Trump actually did call a defenseless child stupid, I would have a problem.  It has not been represented that he has said such a thing.  The recent video apparently shows a conversation between to guys which never would have been revealed to anyone else if not for the media's lust for sensation and hate for Trump.  So your example is a false one.  I did not say words are not important, I said  words that create no significant causal damage to anyone are not important.  If you were talking about an incident where significant causal damage was intended to an innocent victim, I would have a problem with Trump.  But that is not what we are discussing.

By the way, I walked on Sunday's debate after 15 minutes during which the media would not let the recent video go.  Trump is absolutely right that ISIS and so many other problems are so more compelling.  The focus on the trivial says it all.  Ask a woman dying of cancer what's important.