Too bad you didn't have a Sister Catherine around to give you a homily!  She pulls no punches about what she thinks about how the church and the orders treat women.  Too bad someone does not make a film about her and the 19 other independent sisters.  (I am sure there are more on other reserves.)  Now that would be worth watching.  Sigh.  I don't think they have the right soothing tone.  She doesn't believe the church will ever change.  They have a vested interest in the status quo.  Besides, you never ask the people who created the problem to change it.   They would have to admit they made a mistake.   Not going to happen.  At least according to Sister Catherine!