Oh! I'd say this woman must have paid enormously for her divorce like I did - and then there are all the mixed-up feelings that result in 'over-paying' for the children and it is incredibly difficult to make changes. So I won't judge, I will just make suggestions:
1) immediately stop supporting the kids education; or allocate something like 1/3. The father pays 1/3; kid pays 1/3, you pay 1/3 for 1st degree only. 
2) get a new accountant right away - my accountant really works with me on managing the balance of personal and corporate financing. Sometimes the best tax strategy isn't the best financial strategy. It didn't take much to understand paying myself dividends and not paying CPP would have long term implications. Especially since I was left with hundreds of thousands of debt and 2 kids to bring up. I knew I wouldn't be able to contribute to an RRSP or TFSA for years, so 'doing double' for CPP and creating a payroll for myself will be good over the long-term
3) budget !!