Women are going to keep getting abortions whether you approve or not. I have seen the aftermath of a botched self-induced abortion (the girl did live, but had to get a hysterectomy) and my reaction was, "If she had to do this, why couldn't it be done by someone who knew what he was doing?" I have also met and talked to women and girls who have been impregnated through rape and incest and  they felt that denying them abortions was punishing them for having been raped.

Your sympathies are on the side of the fetus. Mine are on the side of the woman.