isn't that the truth.  as much as people dig on the web for supplemental info regarding many of these stories - nothing on ms hart. hate to say i put such weight to "outside sources" , but ...  why is it relatively rare for a  women to "disappear" her S.O. compared to men doing it relatively often?  i love guys - i've got plenty in my life.  at a get together, i don't want to talk about child rearing, household stuff...more than a minute. i want to learn new things -  i like to "hang out" with the guys - i'd rather talk about building stuff, sports, outdoor stuff...most anything except when they talk about women.  of course they bait me - but they all now know what a "keeper" guy is  and a "mitch"