ahhh yes..odd decisions... :D  i have seen some remarkable fixes - you can't tell whats below it. and the equipment has gotten finer and the tattooists  are really artists.  for a fix - i'd ask to speak with 2 or 3 women who the artist has worked on... they are not all equal. get creative and design something that reflects your aging like a fine wine and the wisdom you have gathered.  i personally really like the designs that flow down the side of the torso. they can be 2' + . good luck!