young apparently isn't up to speed on what is currently politically incorrect when it comes to calling women "young ladies"   She should have been flattered that he was referring to her as young and a lady but she deliberately took it as an offense.       FYI,  recently it's come to my attention that some sensitive feminists don't want to be called ladies even when it's another woman greeting them  (hello ladies!) .... they take offense at even that.   Sheesh.  Get a grip ladies,  it's not offensive .  The definition of a lady is a woman with poise and class .......and manners.