People like you who hate women refuse to look at said situations without their biases.  Why do you feel the need to differentiate rape?
You do not do this with other crime.  Do you have a "statutory assault"....do you have "date robbery"....do you have "two college students drunk robbery"?
The answer to this is no.  But with rape, there is always a way to minimize what happened by putting it in these so called classifications, or as you say "situations."  Or as you have put it so succinctly - rape is "no big deal"   Rape is the only thing in the world in which the victim is automatically thought of as "lying" - in which there is a never ending supply of excuses blaming the victim and excusing the predator (she was flirting, there was alcohol, she went out by herself etc) - that gets classified for different situations etc.  That's my version of reality, that's the reality the rest of us non-women hating, non-predator advocating people live in.