It may be better to say the church no longer "owns" my body. In some cases physically and in other cases emotionally or spiritually. Just think of the aborted babies in the cesspools near nunneries in Ireland. The orphans were beaten and worked to the bone in the Church schools in Ireland. Nuns were NOT women of virtue--neither were many of the clergy or priests. Yet homoerotic enjoyment was sub rosa, while abortions continued in ecclesiastical settings. This behavior wasn't limited to Ireland. Rome was a bastion of wonderful behavior in its ecclesiastical settings. Sure, sins of all humans, but this was in the "church" and not in secular settings.