Just saying that your lifestyle doesn't reflect character flaws doesn't make it so - it just makes you feel better.  I truly feel sorry for you, and for the "wife" and children involved here.

"As a young woman, I am resilient. I have a career path, I have enough of my own money to live comfortably and I live alone in a penthouse apartment."  Alone indeed.  That's how you will likely be for the rest of your life, as you contemplate your lack of character flaws.