The primary falsehood in your post is represented by its first two words.  And there is that "mote", "beam" thing again.  Come back and talked to me when you've worked on that a bit.

I don't mistreat women--my wife does boss me around more than I would like, but I see no end to that.  Neither my son (now approaching 40) or my grandson (just turned five) have ever indicated that I've mistreated them.