You can be thankful for the "civil comments" scheme.   I've never had but one thirty years ago, filed concurrently with the divorce and with no justification by my first wife's attorney.   I was furious about it, killing the attorney crossed my mind, but my attorney settled me down by asking me if I wanted to be around her, so I saved the money and didn't fight it.   I've seen lots of them with LEOs; they're part of the standard scumbag lawyer's divorce package.   We were supposed to take the LEO's gun, which meant taking their job with a suspension or putting them on administrative only duties at great expense, so at least in my day, unless and until it was adjudicated, we looked the other way.   And, yes, they are handed out like candy.   I don't think they do much if any good for women or children who are actually being abused, but they work really well to harass men.