What is wrong with you?! A woman is dead and her children are without  a mother. A mother is without her daughter. NOBODY CHOOSES TO BE WITH AN ASSHOLE. Believe that...NOBODY deserves to have their life taken at the age of 35, because the heart wants what the heart wants. She loved this idiot and you were not inher shoes.  Until you, sir, are in a domestic violence situation, then, just maybe only then, we want youre opinion...