I agree with Franny, it is extremely offensive to suggest that the parents decision to provide for their family is somehow  a mitigating factor in all this. The women lost her son and she is trying to hold the individuals and government agencies accountable. Any responsible parent would do the same. Any parent who went through this should be commended for speaking out and trying to protect other keiki who could be at risk. I feel HuliOpu's comments are disrespectful and inappropriate.