Is it being judgmental though (lets ignore the snarky comments), or are people completely boggled by this couple's behaviour and just want to understand?  I mean it just does not make any sense; its one thing to put oneself at risk, that is bad enough but this woman was pregnant and they chose to go into a place like Afghanistan, and intended to go deep in the worst parts of it???  I keep saying there is more to this story because the height of seeming carelessness, irrationality, lack of basic commonsense, critical thinking about consequences, seeming utter lack of concern for their unborn child is just alien.  Now we know that this first born was murdered as punishment and they proceeded to have three more.  Imagine the additional trauma if these animals had decided to kill each child who was born?  Maybe someday they will help us understand what their thinking was, until then I remain as miffed/confused as others.