Where does it say that this person ASKED for any of these services?  Sounds like they may have been foisted on the person.  I wouldn't want my kids come over everyday and rearrange my house, belongings, do half a job cleaning up and then leave the mess for me!  Why is it ok that is a mom doing this?  It's also funny that everyone who has posted a comment assumes this is a female writing in to Ask Amy, it never says that.