If you believe that, then anyone who needs an organ transplant can force you to be a donor so that he/she may live. People own their bodies. If you do not believe that women own theirs, then you do not believe women are people, human beings with rights, who can move and feel pain just like you claim the unborn can. This demonstrates that you do believe unborn female fetuses to have more rights than girls and women. You have a real problem with your religious beliefs blinding you to Biological facts. You kill potential life, zillions of sperm that contain half the DNA of a potential human life, with each one of your ejaculate. How do you justify that? God made you do it and that is his plan. Is he or are you guilty of killing countless numbers of lives? What you call essence is present in each sperm and also ovum even before they meet. You have been the victim of extreme misinformation, EFC1127A. Very sorry for you and for the women in your life..