Wow, that's  a lot to unpack.  Let's take the example of 'pro-lifers' that do not believe in exceptions for anything, including "rape, incest or the life of the mother"  [About 15% pick this option when polling on abortion.  What does this mean in real life?  That a woman would not be able to choose abortion no matter what and would then have to be forced to give birth against her will and without her consent.  And pro-lifers who do believe in exceptions?  They would allow a woman to choose an abortion if she qualified for one of these 'exemptions' otherwise she would be forced to give birth against her will.  Further, one-third of American women will have an abortion by age 45.  In fact, it is the most common medical procedure women have in their lifetime.  And the kicker?  Each year over 250,00 Evangelical women, the very back-bone of the 'pro-life' movement have abortions themselves.  Pro-lifers do not respect the ability of women to make their own decision.  Full stop.