Is asking people to vote for you because you're a woman msewxism??  I wouldn't call it "sexist",  here's a definition for you:  Sexism or gender discrimination is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is particularly documented as affecting women and girls.[1] It has been linked to stereotypes and gender roles,[2][3] and may include the belief that one sex or gender is intrinsically superior to another.[4] Extreme sexism may foster sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence.[5]  from Wikipedia 

I think most Blacks would be happy to settle for "equal" treatment.  That "special" treatment you reference is likely "affirmative action."  That's a whole different issue.  I'd enjoy discussing it with you some day.  Give me a call if you're interested.