You have to move past the perception that small and limited government is tied to Republicans or those you accuse of being conservative. Let me explain to you. The GOP is not conservative. Conservative is not in anyway affiliated with religion or whatever might motivat one to take up the argument of contraception or abortion. So in that I say you are either a fool or misguided. I will also say this, we are not all fooled by the conception that the GOP is conservative. History tells a different story. 

You my friend are completely misguided. A small and limited government would not infringe on the rights of the people. If you so choose to murder your unborn child, a true conservative would not infringe on your right through the government. 

Let me add this since you so ignorantly brought the concept of abortion and contraceptive into the conversation. 50% of all children aborted are women. What say you about the rights of all of these children and what say you about women's rights.