Your list is nothing more than non-sequitur noise . . . You can get an advanced degree and have a rewarding professional life (absolutely a marker of women's success--what else could it be?) and 1. not have an abortion, 2. not treat sex as a commodity, 3. not look at porn, 4. not commit adultery, 5. not get divorced (or not marry at all), and 5. not be complicit in your child having an "unstable childhood". Most of these issues have other thread causes that are not necessarily related to women's emancipation but people do like to smush them together to turn back the clock.