Again never was this tradition a Dogma and JPII was told there was no grounds to make it a dogma which is why he did not declare it ex cathedra ever.  Jesus didn't need to make his mother an Apostle because the 12 apostles were not picked to represent priests but son's of Abraham who carry Abraham's blood in order to represent the blood of the 12 tribes and act as judges not Priests for those born before Christ.  They had to be both male and Israelite to represent this function.  This is how the prophesy is fulfilled in the flesh that the church's foundation is the body and blood of Abraham - lineage is passed on thru blood by men.  None of our clergy because they are gentile blooded, or women could have passed down this lineage because gentiles have the wrong blood.  Women, although they can represent a tribe, they cannot represent ongoing lineage so they could not be one of the original apostles either.  You are trying to connect dots that do not connect.  Obedience to hate is sin.