First off, AT, a reasonable dialogue doesn't use "exterminating." Second, there are differences between a fetus and a child, just as there are between a fetus and a fertilized egg. Or between those two and a separate egg and a spermatozoon. When you order breakfast, do you ask for unborn chickens, over-easy? So if you wish to be reasonable, frame the question seriously. 
Again, you would force women to suffer 9 months of "laboring" they do not wish: are you somehow the guardian of the universe? Who appointed you and your fellows the morally superior beings (you said "stigmatize," didn't you?) you appear--- are you not judging others of whom you know nothing, personally? 
Finally, please don't have an abortion if you don't wish to, but have the respect for your fellow citizens to allow them to make personal decisions without your dictatorial wishes.