William:  I do not think there are many people that want to reduce any women to  nothing but  an incubator.  What you forget is this is involving another person other than the woman.   Who is going to speak up for the child growing inside her?  It does not sound like it is going to be you.   If it was not for this other person, I would not care about any of her health decisions.  For instance, you will not here me trying to get people to drink less soda or trying to force them to lose weight.