I certainly sympathize with women who seek back street abortions. There is no perfect solution to this issue, so I won't attempt to claim that no women would suffer if we banned abortion completely. But the number of women who would seek that back street solution is just a small fraction compared to the number of abortions today. 

The issue between us seems to be this; you think that abortion should be legal in some or all circumstances and see no moral issue there. I think the opposite because I do see a moral issue.

We both seem to really care about the issue in a real way; you by your service in a rape clinic. Me by having adopted a baby whose mother might have chosen abortion had we not been part of the solution.

We could continue going back and forth, but what would we gain at this point?

sincerely ... Dave