When I met my wife years ago, I knew she was a keeper when she had more fishing poles than I did, And a better boat. that I found out later needed an engine because of a lack of oil. Yes, good relationships are based on compromise and communication. she has hobbies that I want nothing to do with. that doesn't mean that I will not join her in the activities every now and then. I enjoy spending time with her regardless of the activity. I think the woman needs to evaluate  the relationship and consider compromise and communicate it to her partner.