Harlequincrow.  noted American scientist, George Washington Carver was walking to a university to deliver a speech. . You may remember his work as he found three hundred uses for the common peanut  On his way a women came out of her house and said,  "N*****,  pack this wood into my house."  Carver did then went on his way to the university.  He stepped up to the podium to begin his presentation and sitting in the front row was that same woman.  After Carver concluded his speech the woman came up to him and tried to apologize.  Carver said,  "No need for apologies, Ma'am.  I'm always happy to do things for my friends."  That woman became one of his greatest supporters and continued to support the university for the rest of her life.  I do not know that woman's name or the university.  I only remember the lesson.  You cannot recognize empathy and compassion in Molly unless it is within you too.