Except the other woman was outside the marriage.   Great observation though, especially if you don't see Jennifer Flowers as being abused.     The women in my life had few kind words for Lewinsky which I thought was a bit odd, but I can be pretty naive when it comes to women's intentions.

It would be interesting to see a more holistic approach to sexuality.  Believe it or not great sex is not all technical, and it has  consequences beyond disease or pregnancy.   I can't define consequences outside of my personal frame of reference, so I don't have any specific suggestion.    

Love works to salve a lot of clumsy mistakes.   Its often left out of the equation.    On the other hand being alone has it's limits and friendly sex can feel like a vacation from a stressful world.

At least that's what they tell me..     lol