I value the real, the concrete, what he does and not what someone says he said.  You bring up the Kelly incident.  It is your interpretation of his meaning.  Vaginal reference is yours.  His own explanation was blood from eyes like zombies and such.  But you see it doesn't matter because you can insist on your interpretation and no one can disprove your perspective because that is all it is.  You want him to be a woman hater/disrespecter and therefore he is.  I will measure him by the policies he embraces and supports that can be quantitatively measured based on clear objective grounds.  Face it, you will never like him.  I am hoping that he will make good decisions.  I begin to worry, not because of gossip, but because I am not in favor of more DoD money and because I don't think  the Republican health plan is any better than the ACA.  Not because of gossip.