The "Gender Theory" Pope Francis sees as being akin to nuclear warfare is basically attempts to advance gender equality in society.  They aren't discussing in third grade about how someone's sexual identity is a "social construct," but they might discuss how it is okay for Jenny to like math or play soccer or Bobby to help mom care for his little brother.  When Pope Francis disparages programs to help with women's equality and even the Girl Scouts for goodness sake, he disparages feminists.  The fluff he says in Amoris Laetitia is meaningless to me because he disparages actual programs to deal with gender inequality.  He wants women in the kitchen making sammiches and cleaning house.  Sorry but none of his actions suggest otherwise.  You cannot be a complementarian and for feminism or gender equality.  Period.