"Women who wanted to work were working before the feminist movement."

That's ridiculous. That workplace wasn't open to women much beyond secretarial, nursing, cleaning, or elementary school teaching. A movement doesn't "make" people do anything--it taps into a momentum that is already there. How do you explain the mass influx of women into professional schools in the '70s and '80s? Were these women forced to become lawyers and doctors by feminazis? About 50% of small to medium sized businesses were started by women in my country. Did feminists make them do it? Please. We're all born with brains. We can all walk and chew gum at the same time. As a general rule, adults should be expected to achieve economic independence, and be able to support themselves and their families. There is no theological reason to say otherwise. Both men and women can and do raise children together, especially when assisted by common-sense parental leave and high quality care/preschool.