Agirl:  Yes, you really want a weapon that you can conceal.  Your weapon does you no good when it is in the car or in your nightstand except at night when you are sleeping.   If  I were you and you can afford to keep the  canon, aka, "The Judge", and buy another gun for  true conceal,  keep the canon in  your nightstand for Home Defense.  Best Home Defensive weapon is a  ShotGun Blast, Nobody Misses.    If you can not afford to have 2 guns,  You can go to a Cabela's store and go to their Gun Library.  They will offer you 70%  cash of current retail price for your gun.  Or, you can sell it on sites like GunBroker which is a auction site, kind of a hassle tho  as you have to pay FFL charges &  shipping etc.   Problem is there are Lotsa Judges for sale.  May I recommend for a true conceal weapon  a 9mm or a .380 cal. gun.  Both of these calibers have minimal recoil  and most woman can manage the minimal recoil.  You can get them in a semi-auto, or a wheel gun, (cylinder).   (cont.)