The problem in Canada is there doesn't seem to be any leadership in the trans movement to perform the necessary functions of building broad-based support, toning down the rhetoric, or reining in the extremists.  There are trans leaders in the US who denounce obnoxious elements of the movement, particularly the misogynists, and try to show themselves as reasonable people deserving of respect, which is a good long-term strategy to build social acceptance.  Some of the more aggressive activists in Canada need to be told they're not helping.  When trans activists disrupt the opening of a women's reading room in Vancouver with demands about what books they can stock and who can be on their board, people recognize that has nothing to do with trans rights, and we feel trepidation.  

Fear cuts both ways.  Government can correctly assert the right of trans to be in the playground, but they can't force anybody else to play with them.  It's also up to trans people to try to make friends.