I feel sorry for this woman, who though "plain" has excellent facial symmetry, lovely hair and eyes. She doesn't look like "a mess" ( although she probably was crying her eyes out), she has a good job that requires an education. I think she must have fallen in with charming people with bad habits, and couldn't quite run with the crowd. This is a person who should be given a second chance in my opinion. This should not, in a rational society, mean an end to her teaching career. I wish her well, but most of all, I hope she finds the strength to resist the charmers who seduce you into a libertine lifestyle.