NLRN. You write: "almost every single woman I know has been sexually assaulted or harassed (usually more than once) and you don't believe we live in a rape culture?" So if, on average, women are harassed twice in their lives (it's more, of course), does that makes it a rape culture? That's what you're suggesting. How many sexual assaults per woman per lifetime does it take to constitute a rape culture? How many acts of harassment per woman per lifetime add up to a rape culture?