""As a young woman, I am resilient."  

Nah. You'd be more resilient and respected if you actually had a real relationship that required more gravitas and commitment. Rather than wanting to dote on pretend kids, you'd actually be hard at work with your own husband, chipping away at it on a daily basis, having your own kids, going through life's ups and downs, learning as you go and doing the real thing. The real shit requires you actually TALK about REAL  ADULT ISSUES such as money. 

Having your fun is one thing, but don't make it seem like it's the real deal. It ain't, by a LONG shot.

This is kitschy insecurity dressed up as self-empowerment. Give me a break.