I agree with amy. You both are rebounding and moving him in is a huge mistake. raise your son and heal from the trauma of your last relationship. I am 51 and have no kids, I always wanted them but haven't found a woman willing to have them with me. I see this woman getting pregnant quickly by this father/grandfather because they think this is so real despite rebound relationship fail g more than they succeed. I guess if I want kids I should find a woman like this one. Always seems like educated people lack common sense. focus on your son first and bring him no more chaos or drama.