This discussion on stake-holders is good for me.   I have for so long been arguing from the woman-has-a-right-to-control-her-body position that I have not thought as much as I should about the fetus/child, and almost totally dismissed consideration of the father, other family members, society.  And, truthfully, having worked myself into this corner, I don't know where to begin.  Thanks for disturbing by false sense of equilibrium.  I have some thinking and reading to do.