Outsider77:  "If she's fine with it"......That's a truly amazing comment.  It reminds me of the rapist who say "hey, she was asking for it" or "hey, she really liked it."  You repeatedly "blame the victim" regarading assaultive and inappropriate sexual behavior. 

 The greater the "power differential" the more apt the woman is to be "fine with it"......meaning the more powerless she feels in the situation and the more apt she is to accept it.  "Sees it as a reasonable deal"......you're actually alluding to a "prostitute-client" relationship......if the woman is "getting an adequate reward for providing sexual favor"...that's fine.....it's OK to reduce the relationship between a boss and a female employee to such level.  

The whole purpose of institutions developing policies and regulations regarding sexual relations between supervisors and those they supervise is specifically to avoid the issue of abuse of power...Surely you understand that...Don't you? 

Gary Crum