Totally agree.  Years ago I was at a Thai restaurant with a group. One of the women was trying to ensure from the  waitress that none of her food would have any trace of nuts.  When I found out she had anaphalxis reactions I asked her if she had a death wish-being in a Thai restaurant where nuts abound and especially when it was obvious that the waitress didn't really understand her.  Twice after that she had to be rushed to the ER due to getting trace amounts of nuts while out.   I told the group it was too stressful eating out with her, especially since she didn't always remember her epi-pen.   I sometimes wonder if she is still alive.  Yikes.