I don't see the problem with a stigma being attached to someone having a abortion.  That person killed their future child.  Period.  That was the plan.  Then again, I think the notion that we scold the doctors for doing abortions & not the woman having them is silly.  By not holding a woman responsible for her actions, we imply that women are incapable of making a rational decision about the medical procedures they obtain.  The closet feminist in me finds that most insulting.