Npt quite sure what you're getting at on this one.  Your first statement asks for proof of a negative.  In fact, we have no "proof" that you or I don't engage in adultry every week-end...  and yes, as I say, men who have "fame and power" often use it for their own sexual gratification with willing women.  As I said, that's pretty tawdry and, in my opinion, immoral.   "I'm tired of pious criticism from those who don't acknowledge their own failings. (and that's not restricted to religious people)."  I guess this could be a reference to me...I'm not religious....but I do criticize adultry.  Failings....sure I've got some, but I try to avoid actions which hurt other people...and, almost without exception, adultry is one of them.