1. Women voting for Trump doesn't dismiss his sexism. 
2. You say he speaks glibly and then in the next statement say we need to judge him based on his statements. Do you see the contradiction?
3. You say you need to look past the person and focus on his actions, then you say you respect the person. I don't follow.
4. I'm sure there are women Trump values, but the ones he doesn't are degraded based on their gender. That's what makes him sexist.
5. You're assuming people are looking for reasons to hate Trump, or that it's a liberal conspiracy to smear him. My differences are based direct statements from him, and since becoming POTUS things he's done. 

He's as misguided about women as he is about many things. I do not see him as "pure evil" or wholly incompetent. I do take him at face value, and I don't like what I see. 

This conversation is about if he's made sexist statements. He has.

Bigotry isn't always intentional. It's usually rooted in ignorance. However, complacency breeds it.