Tommy was 17 when he dyed his hair pink. He thought it was punk and cool. Some of his friends agreed. His parents thought it was stupid.

"I'm not a big fan," said the boy, who asked that we use our last name only to avoid any legal repercussions for using social media in

"I don't know what I'm doing," said the boy, "but my dad's a big fan." The boys were all in high school but