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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : When I came out to her as trans, she was very weary about it. She told me not to tell the extended family about being LGBT, especially the T. I'm out now to my dad's side of the family and like a third of her side, which is a lot more conservative. Her mother cannot know I'm trans or else she would be completely incapable of holding back her disapproval. My mom also flipped out on me when I got prescribed estrogen from my doctor for my HRT and refuses to use the correct pronouns and tries to imply that I'll end up changing my mind in the future. Am I the asshole?
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Hi Reddit! So I’m 18f and I’m a senior in high school right now. I’ve applied to a bunch of colleges and gotten accepted to a few that I really like (re: a tiny little college I got to visit and fell in love with and is also relatively cheap to go to on scholarship), but I DIDN’T apply for our local public university. It’s a great school, but I’ve been waiting my whole life to leave the state (and telling everyone I meet that I’m gonna move away ASAP), and I really would rather not.

The university is only about 45 min from my house, and my mom wants me to go there so that I can go to school and live at home to save me some money. But things have always been really tense with my mom (she has a tendency to blow up small things and then ignore me until I apologize even if I wasn’t in the wrong), and I’ve been looking forward to the idea of not having to be around her as often anymore. In fact, the best week of my life was probably when I was at a week long stayaway camp where I didn’t have to see her (ironically on the campus of the university I didn’t apply to). 

And even though I have a pretty good scholarship to my tiny little college I’m in love with, she’s still talking about how much I should stay at home, to save money while I get my degree, and how taxing it’ll be for me to travel home for holidays and summers.

The kickers here are that:
1) My parents aren’t paying a single dime
for my college tuition, it’s all gonna be on me
2) My mom constantly belittles me for even wanting to go to college. I want to study Psychology and eventually get a PhD, but she’s always making underhanded (or usually, loudly on the phone with her friends) comments about how I “won’t make it in college” and how I “should look into being a plumber, they make bank annually” (no hate on plumbers, their jobs are important af, but that’s not my path)

So, Reddit, AITA for not wanting to stay with my mom anymore and for running to an out of state college ASAP?
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HYPOTHETICAL. POST : My SIL/BIL are wonderful parents who love their children. They have 3 children with one more on the way. They prescribe to more of the free range parenting style then my husband and I with our kids, but so what, to each their own. However, there is this one area that we feel should be address in a more direct way as their oldest daughter (as well as the next younger sibling) has a massive speech issue. She can not pronounce most words and has anger issues because most people, include my own children, can not understand a word she is saying. We have attempted to speak with them in a loving way and even now, after holding her back to repeat kindergarten a second time, things are not getting any better. They talk about getting her therapy, but “the new house” seems be more important. WIBTA for speaking with the other in-laws (we are the only ones who have kids in this large family) to see if they have more influence to convince them to get my niece the help she needs? 
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yes


