Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I'm getting married in May and will be moving out shortly on April 12.

I moved in 3 years ago with my two original roommates J &amp; P.

P is the oldest and handles the bills (all accounts are in his name) and J is his brother. Because they are brothers, I feel I am nothing but a glorified guest having no say in anything that happens in the house.

When I moved in 3 years ago, rent was $600 excluding utilities. I moved in the beginning of the second week of August. When I moved in, I had to pay my portion of the house deposit along with a portion of one month's rent security deposit plus the two weeks of the month I was going to be there. This totaled up to roughly $500 before utilities.

Long story short, my roommates ended up bringing in another friend to room with them (without my say behind my back), with the landlord increasing rent to $800/month to accommodate the extra person and work being done to the house. We will call this roommate N. N moved in the first week of January 2017. J &amp; P decided not to make him have to pay a portion of the deposit, month's rent deposit or even make him pay for the three weeks he stayed before the next billing period.

J moved out 2.5 months before the lease was officially supposed to end because he was getting married in May as he got a new apartment. He asked myself and roommates if it was okay if he skipped rent. He offered to pay his portion, but my roommates decided that as a wedding "gift" they wouldn't make him pay. They agreed it was okay even against what I wanted. Mind you: N makes roughly $18/hour from cooping with a mechanical engineering firm, P making $70k per year as a Mechanical Engineer. At the time I was making $10/hour barely scraping by. I ended up paying the extra money that my roommate skipped out on.

Two roommates replaced J a few months later, getting the same treatment N got not having to pay any portion of rent for the month or any deposit. *Side note: Only one of the two is actually on the lease, something the agreement forbids.* While I have appreciated the rent being cheaper because of having more roommates, I feel even more excluded as they're all very good friends with each other. When I brought up the conversation with P about me moving out on the 12 of April, he said he wanted me to pay a full month's rent for April and said "to be honest, I guess I could float you, but I feel you should really pay for May too." I reminded him of the verbal agreement I made with them about me being able to skip out like J did, although he claims he never remembers that conversation.  
I am silently deciding to not pay rent for April. I don't mind paying utilities for the month of March as that is stuff I used, but I feel like I shouldn't pay rent for April whatsoever after the slack they cut their friends. It's not like they'll be out any more money than I was when J left early. Maybe IATA, but that's up to you, what do you think?

Answer: no


Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Hi everyone. So I want to start out by saying my aunt is like a second mother to me, she took me in when I was in high school and we have been very close for years now. My cousin, her son, is also like a little brother to me and he is in his last year of high school. My aunt and uncle (the baby daddy, but I will refer to him as an uncle since he has been like a second dad to me too— very successful man who has a good heart) met about 19 years ago at work. He was married to his longtime girlfriend and they had a daughter together who was about 5 at the time. According to him, my aunt and the rest of his family she was a very negative, selfish, toxic person who was more of an enemy than a partner to my uncle. They adopted another child who was a baby and I still to this day don’t really know all the details but apparently she gave back the adopted baby without his approval?? Don’t know. Anyways, according to him that was the last straw and he said his marriage was ruined after that. This all happened right before he met my aunt at work, they had an instant connection that began as friendship and blossomed to a full blown relationship. My aunt knew he was married and had a kid and it didn’t bother her because the relationship felt so real and it sounded like he was on the edge of divorce. Well, she ended up getting pregnant and neither of them were mad or upset. I can only imagine the shit storm that was my uncle telling his wife (yes, they are still married) that he got another woman pregnant and they are actually dating. My aunt and uncle were together a year after my cousin was born (so total of 2 years at the time), but then he went back to his wife, fast forward to 2019 and him and his wife are still married and living together, but according to him they are just married because he doesn’t want her to take all of his money/property and they have a younger son who’s going to middle school soon. He has been telling my aunt for years that he’s going to move in with her: first it was right when she got pregnant, then when his daughter graduated high school, then when my cousin would enter high school to now he doesn’t even know. I’ve spoken to my friends about this and it boggles my mind that no on close to my aunt has said how crazy this is!! She is a very defensive person and it’s pretty scary when she gets mad, so no one wants to step on her toes. ALMOST TWENTY FUCKING YEARS. I recently watched this TED talk that defined what true love is— selflessness and compromise. The speaker outlined how (to an extent) true love is when you make sacrifices for the people you love. My aunt has sacrificed the possibility of meeting a new partner, attending events alone, the picture perfect spouse living situation and arguably her sanity while it seems he still has it all. I feel kind of funny that a random TED talk has spurred this urge in me to tell her that my uncle doesn’t love her, but I think it’s time. WIBTA??

Answer: no


Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My mom is always nagging, nitpicking and calling me the ugly child, the unfit one, the one who wastes money and what not. I never let her words get to me because it’s been more than a decade since she has been bringing me down like this. I have even stopped talking to her but sometimes, out of courtesy, I end up calling her and I regret it the very instant. She doesn’t care how my day went or how m I doing, she only has to spoil my mood some way or the other. Not even once have I ended a call with her on a happy note. I always have to hang up because she gets on my last nerve for literally the most random things. I have tried to mend things with her in the past but she is very hurtful and mean. 
I surprised her in January this year and she asked me to leave after 3 days. I stayed in a hotel for rest of my stay, I was really hurt. Now she has the audacity to ask me to come home to meet her. This really bothers me awful lot. I respect and value all that she has done for me as a parent but nothing more. Other than that, I hate her. There are many instances where she has proven to be a downright disgusting human being. Sometimes I wonder how m I even her daughter because I’m nothing like her. I hate that I am her daughter. I also hate that this is going to stick around for life. 
So, AITA for hating her?

Answer:
no


