Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
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Question: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This was fourth of July, last year (17 months ago) when I was at a party with my girlfriend and her friends. One of which, was a MTF transgender (Pre-Op, 6 Months hormones), and dating her another one of her friends. This was the first or second time I met her friends, and I didn't know the proper protocol for pronouns with Transgender people. That being said, I made sure to use the They/Them/Theirs pronouns for the party. I thought everything went perfect up until about a month later. Apparently I had "Aggressively Misgendered" this individual during the party, which I found odd because I barely spoke to them and was not aware of any hostile actions or ill intentions the whole day. The only time that I can think of it happening was when we were playing a video game, and I used the ambiguous, "Get him" and "great hit dude" that I would use regardless of Gender. 

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I do concede that I should have asked the individual which pronouns they prefer and attempted to follow their preference, however I was also never corrected and was instead ostracized from the rest of her friend group.

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AITA for feeling like I should have been corrected instead of passively being mad towards?

Answer: yes


Question: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  I’ve (20F) been with my boyfriend (20M) for about 3 months now and he’s so amazing! I’ve been on cloud nine ever since we started dating. The only source of conflict so far is that he refuses to let me pay for dinner when we go out, every single time.

The thing is, I come from a wealthy family and am extremely fortunate to have my parents pay for tuition, groceries, et cetera, and he is aware of this. My parents do not mind the idea of me treating him to dinner regularly at all. Comparatively, he doesn’t have as much and works very hard for what he does have. I want him to save his money towards more important things rather than spend it on me.

However, we’ve discussed it several times and he flat-out refuses to let me pay, and is unwilling to compromise on the issue. He doesn’t even want us to take turns. AITA for insisting on paying and hurting his pride (?) when he’s made it clear he doesn’t want me to? Also, AITA for wanting to spend my parent’s money instead of him spending his hard earned cash? I sort of feel like an asshole since I am insisting  that I spend someone else’s money.

Tl;dr I want to pay for dates with my boyfriend using my parents’ money because we’re very well off financially, but my boyfriend refuses every single time.

Answer: no


Question: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My sister and I are identical twins. We've recently been recommended to use Tinder by a friend and we're talking about setting up our profiles. 

I thought of something that to me sounded like it would be funny: We can use each other's pictures for our profiles. Since we're identical, same physical shape included (she has slightly shorter hair and some tattoos, but the tattoos aren't visible), I thought it would be harmless. If someone messaged us seriously, we'd send them our own pictures and be able to let them in on the joke. I also thought it would be a good way to see who enjoys it and has the same sense of humor as us, too.

Another friend didn't think it was that funny, though. He says it's catfishing and we shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff, because even if we're identical twins, we aren't the same person. He says we'll still be lying to people. Any amount of pretending to be someone else is wrong, no matter how 'harmless' we might think it is.

I'll admit, we brushed him off at first, but I've been sitting here thinking about it now for a little and I see his point. I've seen all the stuff about catfishing going around and guys get stung by it a lot. 

I don't want to be that kind of person...but I also don't think this will make me that kind of person. Obviously if conversations go beyond bland hookup requests, we'll come clean.

WIBTA for going through with it?

Answer:
yes


