Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For context, this was my first appointment with him and this happened a few hours ago. Lately my eyesight's been going blurry on-and-off and I've been getting some nasty headaches here and there. He thought my eyesight is fine but instead I just suffer from migraines in general. He started listing off certain things that could cause someone to be more prone to migraines, one of which being drugs. I'm 16 now, and I've never touched drugs or had a sip of alcohol but he kept pushing drugs more than anything else he was talking about.

He was very clearly one of those old-fashioned folk, he kept starting all his lines with "This generation always *this*" and "This generation always *that*." (He's 72 to clear that up) Some of the things that he said were things like bad food choices, genetics (familial history of migraines), screen addiction, drugs, obesity. 

He kept trying to talk to me, something that I somewhat found annoying but not enough for me to lash out. He asked me what I thought about Donald Trump and frowned when I said I didn't mind him (don't bother me about this please). In general he seemed super stubborn about his ideologies and thoughts and whatever he thought was right.

One line he said that really got me was "So maybe you shouldn't do any more drugs if you want to keep the migraines from getting worse."

After that I said  "Do you think I'm doing drugs?"

"I didn't say that, I'm saying your generation is more likely to suffer from migraines because of your higher drug use."

My mom intervened before it could go any further and she apologized for my behavior and then berated me as we drove home. He didn't say much after I said that before saying I should get some glasses that could make migraines easier to deal with. 

I do somewhat feel bad but I don't think I did anything wrong, it was moreso my mom guilting me into thinking I did something wrong. AITA?
no

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : A few years ago I was friends with an autistic kid a year or so older than me, but he was held back so we were in the same grade, and I didn’t really like him, but he was troubled so I felt sympathy for him and hung out with him because no one else would. I even got him a FNAF stuffed animal for his birthday.
Last year or so he got into my gym class and he’s been trying to get closer and closer to me, and I just simply don’t want to. 
Recently this year, i’ve been trying to make friends with a few new kids, but they really dislike this kid, i’ll call him J for short. The guys i’m trying to be friends with seem to like me as a friend as well and I think it could result in a good friendship, but J is stopping me from trying to be friends with them as he won’t stop following me and interrupting me but I don’t have the heart to just tell him I don’t want to be friends with J anymore.
no

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hey everybody.

I’m 24, my spouse is 27, and the friend in question is 20. We’ll call her Abby.

I met Abby in class at college; then further talked to her when I was tutoring her for a class.

Abby is very needy. She constantly sends messages to myself and my spouse about her issues. Which is fine, 20 can be a shit age and we all had to go through it at some point. But it was to the point where my spouse had to mute her on Facebook because of the barrage of messages.

She was diagnosed with anxiety and prescribed medication to alleviate some of these issues. But it’s just not enough.

I wouldn’t mind supporting her when I could, but she doesn’t seem to remember anything that I or my spouse tells her about ourselves- simple things like ages, she forgot my spouse had a hearing problem and can’t drive, forgot that I was disowned from my family for being gay, things like that.

It really boils down to me feeling like she’s not invested in either friendship. And I normally wouldn’t have so much hesitation in cutting out someone, but we are her primary emotional supports and her family sucks.

So WIBTA for telling her that she’s been a one-sided/fair weather friend? Or for moving on?

no

