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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : This is a little more complicated than just selling my home. For starters, my in-law's donated my wife and I some property. We didn't pay anything for it, it's legally ours(went through an attorney). We bought a double wide mobile home for $38,000. We used $12,000 of our money to move the home, set up, electrical, permits, etc. So, the only thing we got a loan for was $38,000.

We have lived there for about six years now and it was a starter home for us and we're ready to move. I got the home/land appraised for $140,000. My wife and I were planning on selling the home for $125,000, give my in-laws $30,000 for the land, pay off our existing loan and wife's car note so we would be debt free, and put the rest down on another home. I did some research on the land value and it was around $17,000.

Now, my father in-law said he would like to buy the home, but for the price we paid for it, which again is $38,000. My mother in-law said she would do $50,000 to include the money we spent to get the house moved, etc, but my father in-law is against that. He wants to buy it to use as a rental investment.

They are complaining that since they gave us the land, that we shouldn't sell it unless it's to them for what we paid for it. 
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I have a good friend with three kids, two of which are the same age as mine. When we had our first babies, we did everything together and were great support for each other.

Her third child is still having naps during the day so sometimes it's best for us to hang out at her house. Which I dread.

Her house is filthy. Not just 'I have three kids and haven't tidied up' kind of mess - way worse than that. Her couch is always sticky with some food stuffs and has crusted milk on the arms from gosh knows when. The floor is a mixture of sticky and crusty with crumbs, sand, food etc. 

They can't eat at the dining table because it's a mountain of washing and so the kids eat on the floor in the lounge room, making even more mess. Instead of cleaning the mess off the floor, she lets the dogs in to lick it all up. Which creates more mess because the dog hair is everywhere. One time I came around, her one year old looked like he had a beard from the amount of hair that was on his face. I cleaned it off and she just laughed, saying he always has a beard.

The kids each have a separate room but their doors can't be fully opened because there is stuff everywhere. They have to stand on top of mountains of toys and clothes to get to their beds. The kitchen bin is always overflowing and the youngest is often found playing with overflowing rubbish that has fallen out the top. 

She has a supportive husband so she doesn't need to go to work, plus has a nanny come in two days a week to help out. Her parents also come around a couple of times a week to fold laundry and clear her dining table. She's in good mental health and is a wonderful mother, but I don't know whether she sees how bad her house is getting.

I really don't want to go around to her house and have started keeping track of her baby's nap times so I can suggest activities outside of the house. I like spending time with her and our kids get along great, but the filth just gets to me. I'm almost at the point of telling her I don't want to go over there any more. AITA? 
answer:
yes


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : TL;DR, my 11 year old niece posted a video of my 3 year old son on Tik Tok, I made her delete it. 

Long version: at Thanksgiving this year, my niece took my son into his room and was playing with him. My husband overheard her say, “K, say hi to the camera!” 

My husband asked her if she was posting videos of our son on Tik Tok. She said no. My husband pulled me aside, explained the situation and I asked her. She said, “Yes, but I’ll delete it.” I told her she needed to be sure to delete it. 

We don’t like posting stuff about our son online. Mostly because he can’t really consent, we feel like children are exploited online, and not everyone needs to know every detail about your kid’s life. I will, occasionally post pictures of him to my private Facebook account. We have aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins that live across the country. Sometimes a picture on Facebook is easier than a group message with 20+ people. 

Anyway, my niece’s dad sent me an incredibly long message saying we hurt my niece’s feelings and we are being a bit anal and overreacting. 

But am I the asshole? 
answer:

no


