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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Context


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Me: 20 M
Her: 18 F


Met a girl in a bar and we hit it off. She had to leave because she had work the next day, nothing happened then apart from getting her number. Text a little bit that night and over the next couple days. The text conversation seemed to be going alright. I do not like talking over text and would much prefer to talk to someone in person or in a call. 


I mention I am seeing a movie and ask if she would like to accompany me. She declines saying she is busy but counters with an alternative to see a exhibition at a local planetarium on the weekend. The exhibition is a sciency edutainment short about time and space. Sounded fun and I was able to move some things so I could be free then so I agreed. Exhibition only goes for 40 minutes and I believed the possibility would be there to do something afterwards if it was going alright because it was very early in the night. We continue talking until the day of the exhibition. She refuses my offer of a lift there.


I believe this is a date. I have never been on a date before.


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The Date


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I arrive at the time we agreed which was about ~20 minutes before the exhibition started. I am nervous but believe I am handling the nerves well. We kill the 20 minutes having a chat about some of the stuff in the museum part of the planetarium and ourselves. Pay the entrance fee separately. Go into the exhibition where we can no longer talk. Watch the short. 


As we are leaving we are chatting still, but she has got Uber up on her phone and seems to be in the process of booking a ride. I ask her what her plans for the rest of the night where. She responds with she has to go home because her brother wants her to. I enquire more about this with something along the lines of "can't you do what you want to do?". She says something like "my parents are away and my older brother is looking after me because my parents asked him to". I offer her a lift home and she refuses. We chat for 5 minutes while I wait with her for her Uber to arrive. Her Uber arrives and she gets in and says this something like "this was great, we should do something again".


I walk to my car very confused about what just happened and feel like she wasn't into me and was just saying platitudes. I console in a close friend who has more experience with dating who agrees it is confusing but she probably isn't into me.


Have a sad drive home. Get home and about half an hour later I get a text from her that reads "Hey! Didn't want to text you while you where driving 😜 tonight was fun!!"


I decide to be honest: "Yeah the show was pretty good. The night didn't go how I expected it to though"


Her: "What do you mean? 😁"
Her: "Haha that's life for ya"
Me: "I didn't think after it finished that you would go home immediately but it's cool"
Her: "Well I am tired af from work 😂"
Her: "Also my family just care about me a lot and want me to be safe"


I didn't respond after that.
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I want to start this off saying I've had, and still don't, no problem with people whom I've done this with. Most were known to me for at least few weeks before we've done it, for obvious reasons. Didn't want any regret to turn into ruining of my life. But recently few of my friends have accused me of taking advantage of those girls and raping them when the subject was brought into the conversation. I feel like i should mention I'm a guy.

It was often that both of us were drunk, but there were occasions where I was 100% sober and they weren't and vice versa. As sex while drunk goes, sometimes it was too long with lots of painful jaws, uncomfortable, slow, messy and so on. But newer non consensual. None of them were to the point of passing out, not knowing whats happening or unable to communicate. If they were, nothing would happen. Some were pretty persistent and sometimes forceful, but it was easy to hold them till they would eventually tire themselves out. So nothing would really happen. 

Of course they got more relaxed while being drunk and wouldn't probably have it while sober or try the things they did in the bedroom. There is no denying that, alcohol does that. Want to mention i never pressured or encouraged them to drink more so that i could get laid. See no point in that. 

As mentioned I've been labeled as rapist by those people and that is really disturbing to hear. To me this is not even close to that.

So Reddit, AITA (or worse) for having drunken sex?

P.S messy grammar, sorry.
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : About a couple of years, I started hanging out with a friend that I recently met. I had just started college in a different region of the country where people spoke a different language altogether, so it was slightly hard to adjust. Amidst all the chaos of semesters papers and other activities, we became good friends and would frequently see each other. A couple of months later, we hooked up one night and it got pretty awkward after that. We didn't exactly meet up much after, I felt like she wanted some space. Also it was time for our semester exams again so I started studying again. I never study except on the week before the exam. Our vacations started and we went to our hometowns. We still kept in touch because we liked to watch movies a lot and discussed it. But it wasn't at the same intensity as it once was. During the break, I met someone and we sort of hit it off. We start dating a couple of months later. While this happened, my friend got involved with her college student body council and we almost stopped talking because she was busy most of the time. 

Around later that year, during the winter I was alone and extremely bored. I didn't have anyone to chill with for at least half the month. I was on social media when I saw that my friend was still in town and I dm'ed. We talked and decided to meet up. She stays in a strict dorm, we decided to come over to my place. We watched a couple comedy specials, I got sleepy and I said goodnight and slept off in the next room. 

Some time next year, I meet her best friend/ roommate, who tells me that she was expecting to hook up that night when she came over. But I was in a relationship and we never had any thing like that before for me realize this. 

Also this is my first Reddit post ever. I hope the community could help me out here if I made a mistake
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no


