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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Context: I live in some townhomes that are independently owned, but many are owned and rented out. We rent and the people next door rent as well (from different landlords). The HOA rules state that no dogs are allowed. We got an exception because I have a ten pound, very well-behaved dog. He barks when someone knocks on the door but other than that I doubt anyone in our neighborhood knows he exists. It’s important though that we actually have permission to have a dog. We didn’t sneak him past anyone. Most of the neighbors do have dogs. It isn’t a well kept secret, but it doesn’t bother us. 

The neighbors directly next door, though, are starting to be a problem. They have two big breed dogs in a ting apartment. They only let them out on to a tiny patio. It’s the kind of dog we want- but refuse to get yet because they deserve (and need)  a massive yard. When the owners aren’t home the dogs whine / groan all day. It’s a sad sound that makes my dog pace. For hours a day. When they come home they put the dogs upstairs and begin band practice. 

Band practice is another issue. For a townhome with thin walls I don’t know why they’ve decided to practice here every night. It’s gotten louder as time goes on. At first, we were just like “well they pay to live here too”. But then it started going later and later and getting louder and louder. To the point where we can’t watch tv because we can’t hear it. We’ve asked them to turn it down twice and they’ve been very nice and complied. But I don’t think we should *have* to ask. 

During band practice the dogs are even more worked up, too. They know people are home so they bark to hang out. And then get yelled at to shut up. The yelling makes it even worse. 

I can’t really drown it out. White noise isn’t enough unless I’m wearing headphones. I shouldn’t have to wear those 24/7 in my own home though. 

WIBTA if I turned them in for having dogs, even though I have one? I know it’d result in them violating the lease and being made to move immediately (or sadly giving the dogs up, which I don’t want- but they are not being cared for) while complaining about the music would be a slower process.  
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yes


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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I (17M) was apart of a friend group (5 people (also 17M) including myself) for about a year and a half, when recently I started to lose interest. The things we did weren’t as fun and hanging out with them wasn’t what it used to be.

 I started to talk to them less, and eventually stopped communicating entirely. They all got really pissed and called me a traitor and assumed I left because I thought they weren’t popular enough. As I said, that isn’t true; I just wasn’t feeling it anymore.

AITA for leaving my friend group? They’re all mad at me and I don’t know if abandoning them was the right decision.

P.S., leaving them was not my first option- I thought we could all be friends even if we didn’t text very often or talk on PlayStation, but instead, only speak in person. (I was wrong.)
answer:
yes


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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For context, this was my first appointment with him and this happened a few hours ago. Lately my eyesight's been going blurry on-and-off and I've been getting some nasty headaches here and there. He thought my eyesight is fine but instead I just suffer from migraines in general. He started listing off certain things that could cause someone to be more prone to migraines, one of which being drugs. I'm 16 now, and I've never touched drugs or had a sip of alcohol but he kept pushing drugs more than anything else he was talking about.

He was very clearly one of those old-fashioned folk, he kept starting all his lines with "This generation always *this*" and "This generation always *that*." (He's 72 to clear that up) Some of the things that he said were things like bad food choices, genetics (familial history of migraines), screen addiction, drugs, obesity. 

He kept trying to talk to me, something that I somewhat found annoying but not enough for me to lash out. He asked me what I thought about Donald Trump and frowned when I said I didn't mind him (don't bother me about this please). In general he seemed super stubborn about his ideologies and thoughts and whatever he thought was right.

One line he said that really got me was "So maybe you shouldn't do any more drugs if you want to keep the migraines from getting worse."

After that I said  "Do you think I'm doing drugs?"

"I didn't say that, I'm saying your generation is more likely to suffer from migraines because of your higher drug use."

My mom intervened before it could go any further and she apologized for my behavior and then berated me as we drove home. He didn't say much after I said that before saying I should get some glasses that could make migraines easier to deal with. 

I do somewhat feel bad but I don't think I did anything wrong, it was moreso my mom guilting me into thinking I did something wrong. AITA?
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no


