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Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My older brother is in his twenties and dating a girl. My family has some negative opinions here, but I'm not sure quite how I feel about her.

My brother and his girlfirend (let's call them Noah and Emma) got together a few years back. Emma is nice to me, and lets me eat some of the food she buys on the few occasions of the year that she and Noah come down to visit (we live out in the country and they live in the city, three or four hours away). She's into video games and nerdy things and so is my brother, and they get along like two peas in a pod outside of a couple arguments.

However, Emma has her fair share of issues. One of them is being lactose-intolerant, which wouldn't be an issue if one time when we were driving her and Noah back to the city when it turned out she didn't take her lactaide and ate cereal with milk and threw up in Mom's new car (About one or two days old) with me sitting besides her in the backseat. Noah and Emma own one or two cats and a dog that they can barely afford, because Noah only recently got a job and Emma doesn't work. They often go out LARPing, which costs money as well. It's even possible that they've had sex in my house a couple times (showering together, heard them mumbling quietly about it at one point).

Emma is also a bit clingy and seeks validation often, so when I do get to see my brother she's with him and he often goes into another room to comfort her because she gets sad for whatever reason, and then I don't really get to see him for the rest of the night when they usually leave the next day. Another thing with this is that when she was down with my brother at my house, when he was with my other brothers she revealed to me that she self-harmed and that she hadn't even told my brother this.

But Emma is also kind to me and has hung out with me when she's not with Noah, she enjoys my jokes, she listens to me when I ramble and she gives me homemade food sometimes. I find it hard to be mad at her for being so clingy with my brother because she's been pretty much nothing but kind to me, which is why I came here.

TLDR; My brother's girlfriend is extremely clingy and makes it hard for me to see my older brother on the off occasion that he can come down to visit, but is extremely kind to me despite this.

So, time for my judgement. AITA?

yes