Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
Solution is here: yes
Explanation: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

Now, solve this: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A while ago, their semester ended, and there was a talk about an overseas vacation, coincidentally to where my girlfriend is from (the country in general, not the exact place. Gf has not been there either). From the first time I heard of this, I told her that while I obviously couldn't stop her from going, I wasn't really comfortable with that notion. It didn't matter though, I said, that based on my experiences in the past, these kind of trips are mostly just talk. We're from a place and at an age where most students (17-19yo) either won't have the money, didn't have the permission, or ultimately no one would take the initiative to plan it and thus trips such as these almost always didn't happen. (The culture where I'm from is like that.)

Well, with what seemed to be an act to prove me wrong, my girlfriend took it upon herself to plan, buys the tickets, etc. This, coupled with the fact that she is from the place, effectively made her the one in charge of the trip in everyone's eyes. This obviously also made me feel terrible, because she spends no where near the amount of effort planning time between us.

Now, few days before the trip, she starts to become overwhelmed by everyone else's lack of involvement in said planning. She starts to complain to me about how everyone is treating her as the tour guide and how she has to do everything and how she regrets agreeing to go with them. I force a smile and try my damnedest not to tell her I told her so. Couldn't do it. I mean, from my point of view, she forced a trip that in my opinion wouldn't have happened otherwise, in an effort to prove me wrong, to somewhere they have never been before, to a relatively more dangerous country in terms of crime rate as a small group of teenagers unsupervised. This is my biased opinion. I'm a pretty anxious person, so if she was going to go regardless, the least I felt she could do was to not constantly reminding me of it when we are spending time together.

Tldr: Should I have been more supportive of the situation she's in? Am I the asshole who is just jealous that she's spending more time with her friends?
Solution:
yes