Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Me (29F) and my boyfriend (31M) have been together for just over a year now. I love him very much and feel that our relationship is very good overall. In the time we’ve been together we’ve had about 5 arguments and been able to resolve them each time.
I fully admit that I did not deal with the first few arguments in a healthy manner. I have some issues expressing how I feel and tend to bottle up my emotions rather than saying how I feel as I usually get very upset. My boyfriend really didn’t like this as it appeared passive aggressive to him and he’s had similar issues with his brother his whole life. 
I recognized that my behavior was unhealthy and began to attend counseling to better learn how to express myself. I now feel much better equipped to deal with things. At the time my boyfriend said he just wanted me to tell him what was wrong that he wouldn’t care what I said as long as I didn’t stonewall him.
Last weekend we had a small argument (he went to sleep while I was very worried about something, I said it was a dick move, which I would never usually say). I used what I had learned in counseling and told him how I felt outright. Now he’s saying that he thinks we have too many arguments and that I shouldn’t have so many issues with him. 
I think it’s normal to have a few arguments. He said his parents never argue so that’s what he’s used to which I understand. My parents argue sometimes but are still in a loving relationship. I feel as though he might be holding me to a very high standard that I can’t reach.
So am I the asshole for thinking that it’s ok to argue sometimes? And in doing so am I giving myself an excuse for bad behavior? 
Output:
no