Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My Girlfriend (22) and I (24) have known eachother for 3 years, we've dated on and off during that time, but only now has it been pretty serious. When we started going out I knew her family was somewhat dificult. Specifically her mother. (Her Father is deceased)  


My GF likes to boast about her independence, but at the same time, she is heavily influenced by her mother on things such as how she spends her money and what plans she makes. I have a faint suspicion that her mom is rather manipulative towards her.  


It has been a common ocurrance that we make plans several days in advance and she'll cancel a few hours before just because her mom got an idea to do something. I understand that sometimes plans have to be modified, but this happens at least once a week and honestly, Im sick of it.   


I've talked to her about it in gentle terms using careful language. She understands this bothers me (A lot). I do not like being a "slave" to the wimbs of her capricious mother. I'm starting to resent the "participation" her mother has on our relationship. She is very attached to her family, and I feel bad for basically making her choose between her family and myself at times. I support her in her love for her family, but I don't want it to be a crutch in our relationship.  


Am I The Asshole for being bothered by this?
Output:
yes