Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Let me give you an example: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
The answer to this example can be: yes
Here is why: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

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Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Hey guys, here's the deal: when I was a teenager I was involved in several relationships with several predatory adults. It made me develop pretty rigid standards for my partners in my adult life. Now I'm trying to see if I was too harsh by breaking up with my boyfriend for behavior that I thought was pretty disrespectful.

My boyfriend and I have been official for a couple weeks. We got close pretty fast, spent a lot of time together on the dates we did have, etc.

Since last week, we had plans for Thursday of this week. Backstory: his great-grandfather has been in the hospital for a little while. On Monday, his mother said that she wanted to visit him on Thursday. I was a little irritated, because we had plans and he could have seen his grandfather earlier/communicated with his mother that he would have preferred a different day. However, I ultimately decided it wasn't a big deal because it did involve a sick relative. We rescheduled our plans for Wednesday and I decided to let it go.

We also made plans for this Saturday morning (time unspecified). We texted for most of the day on Friday before he had to go to work. We normally text after his work too. I figured we would chat after his work to finalize what time he was coming over. I texted him, he didn't text me back. I was already kind of upset, but figured I'd call him in the morning and we'd work it out.

He didn't text me until 12:30 this afternoon. He told me he didn't mean to sleep in that late. I asked him if he was still coming, and he told me he couldn't make it because his sister surprised his family with a visit (he still lives with his dad). Sister lives about a 9 hour drive from here. I told him that I was disappointed with his actions and wouldn't be okay with anything like that happening again, and I'd need to think about it before continuing things. It sucks that his sister didn't give them more notice but he had plans. It wasn't cool of him to cancel. I asked him how long his sister would be staying, figuring that I would let it go if she was only staying for the weekend as long as he talked to his sister and asked for more head's up going forward.

Turns out, she was staying for a week. I thought it was ridiculous that since she was staying for a week, he was unwilling to tell her that he had already made plans for today but would see her like, literally any other day. With that being said, I gave him an ultimatum: if he didn't come over, I was breaking up with him. He decided not to come. I broke up with him.

Was my ultimatum too harsh, or was I justified? AITA?
Answer:
no