Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example is below.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
A: yes
Rationale: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Long time lurker, first time poster. Here’s my obligatory apology for any mistakes I may make, mobile formatting, etc. 

For context, my mother and I have always had a rocky relationship. She was a single mother with a traumatic past of her own, who became a mother by surprise and (in my opinion) has had the best of intentions the entire time, just hasn’t quiteeeeee figured out how to properly be a parent.  There’s a history of emotional abuse in our family, and I’ve definitely abused emotionally by her for a while. 

We are completely opposite in many ways (for those of your Astrology nerds, she is a full fledged Leo &amp; I am a Sun Gem, Moon Taurus—trust me, explains a lot, but I digress). She’s not very compassionate, not very physical, and definitely does her best to never feel any emotion, ever. I am an anxious, quiet, hugger. This has always caused a rift between us and I don’t feel like I’ve got a support system in my own home. Ever since I wanted to start growing up a bit as I entered my teens, I’ve been met with pushback of epic proportions. Which brings me to my problem. 

About a year ago, I decided to take a semester off to fix my mental health and transfer out of a far away college to move back home. Our relationship had been very calm and pleasant while I was away, but we really had to do some reworking when I got home. I started back up in school last August, and have been consecutively enrolled with a 4.0 for the past two semesters. I have worked my butt off, and my only stipulation on coming home (which she was all for) was a bit more independence. We squabbled over a lot, had a few blow out fights, and they were all based on our little household power struggle—and one squabble in particular has escalated, quite a bit. 

One day last semester, after never having done so since high school (some 3+ years ago), she came into my room and woke me up a few minutes before my alarm went off. She had confused her times (she HAS to know exactly when I wake up, have class, have breaks, leave class, etc which is a separate problem) and thought I was gonna be late. I politely said thank you, told her that I always set multiple alarms, and that she didn’t have to worry. I’ve only ever overslept once while being in college, and it was a total fluke. The next day, she does the same thing. Once again, I respond with a polite yet a bit more stern “thank you, but this is unnecessary,” and begrudgingly wake up. This seems small, right? 

For the last 2 months of my previous semester, she decided she “didn’t believe me,” and was going to take it upon herself to wake me. This would be sort of alright if she had ever remembered what time I get up for class. I have this down to a science, have told her the times I need to be up multiple times. and written them down on more than one occasion, but she’d still wake me up about ~10ish minutes before necessary. When I ask her to stop doing so, she throws a fit. She says I’m being rude, she’s just trying to help, I don’t appreciate her, etc. The last time she did it before this morning, she had come in, woke me, and when I asked why, she responded, “I know it annoys you, hehehe” and walked out. So she’s OBVIOUSLY listening to my grievances, and choosing to act otherwise. 

Finally, today it came to a head as she woke me AGAIN, and I blew my top. I am so tired of being woken up annoyed. As a hard working college student, I cherish my sleep quite a bit. This is not an isolated incident, and I don’t feel as though what I’m asking for is unnecessary. It just starts my day off so poorly, and I’ve tried to politely fix the problem for a while now, to no avail. After I yelled at her, she called me some choice names and told me how I “ruined her morning,” but I think she’s ruined mine first, plenty of times. 

AITA for being really bothered by this?
A:
no