Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example is below.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
A: yes
Rationale: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.
Q: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : TLDR friend wanted to do a side job, i said said no because I had a long day next. 

Buddy and I clean rest. Equipment at night for our main jobs. I'm a gm and hes my employee. 

Hes got a girlfriend and lives at gone with his parents. Alot of credit card debt, loan, and car loan stuff and pays them some utilities. He works 38/40 hours a week for me. 

I am married with 2 children and have 2 children from a previous relationship. I got invited to one of their baseball games Tuesday and I also had a GM meeting that day and mid day a training class for CPR/AED. 

When we do the cleaning we leave at 9pm Monday night and get back between 5 am and 6 am Tuesday mornings. I worked 9am to 5pm Monday and didnt want to over night clean then sleep a few hours before my meeting that I had with my bosses and then the course for CPR. I had enough time to leave there, eat, then go to the baseball game. 

I told my buddy I didnt want to do it and he immediately said "well that's going to f*** me pretty hard" I told him wed been doing to many to fast recently and if we kept at the pace wed end up screwing ourselves by not having any one of the following months and on top of that I didnt understand why he needed one so badly when hes been selling off some collectible things he has and working another job with his GFs family making some money. He replies with "fine it just f***s me but fine." I left it at that and didnt feel like arguing about it. 

Later Monday be text me saying "so I assumed were just saying f*** me? So I know how to proceed with me evening?" I replied reiterating some of what I said about how he had made extra money this month and how doing 6 straight weeks wasnt gonna fly for my work and home life and that we were stilling going to do one next week he should be fine. He replied stating that all the extra money he has made so far he out toward his loan so he wouldn't have it anymore and that he needed this week and next week plus regular work to make ends meet. Then said "so f*** me I'll just use the f***ing money from selling a huge part of my life long possessions and continue with this month to month cycle of being f***ing broke as shit making all of my efforts for f***ing nothing oh and I have to come up with 374 dollars for the taxes on my truck by the end of the month but it's all good I guess enjoy your night off I'll figure it out..." to which I didnt bother replying.

So the last 3 days of working together hes given me the silent treatment. At this point I find it it sad and pathetic to continue a silent treatment and going to any extreme to avoid speaking to me for having other responsibilities etc. 

So reddit, am I the asshole for wanting the night off?
A:
no