Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Obligatory mobile formatting, Not doing a TLDR because it's a complicated situation. 

Okay so essentially I live with my SO in a very small apartment and I have begun getting frustrated lately with him. I work about 10 hour days with an hour drive between home and work. He doesn't work, gets financial assistance from his parents to cover his living expenses and is kind of a trust fund baby in that he never had to struggle, but his parents at least taught him the value of a dollar. He's holding out for a higher paying job or something that he thinks is worth the time he spent on his degree and I have supported him despite his parents often threatening not to support him financially anymore. I want him to find somewhere he enjoys working and wants to be there because he's not motivated to go otherwise. 

Despite it having almost been a year since we graduated, he still hasn't found a job. I'm not worried about it because I can cover our living expenses on my paychecks, even if his parents really do cut him of, but that would make paying of my own debt and student loans a lot more stressful and difficult. 

Anyways, I have recently realized that despite being gone about 12 hours a day, I come home to a house that looks exactly like it did when I left. This is only frustrating to me because he points out clutter or that we need to clean via text while I'm at work (What am I supposed to do about it??)

I'll admit, our house is a bit of a mess. It's a very small space and we aren't the neatest people in the world. But honestly, when I get home I usually want to just watch TV or play a game after eating dinner because within 4 hours of getting home I need to go to bed. I'm not saying that I don't make a mess, because I do and  I'm really trying to become better about it, but is it too much to ask that he tidy up for 15 minutes while I'm at work?

I'm not asking him to become our housemaid. I don't argue about it and I try not to let it bother me, but there's a lot of tasks that I feel I take care of because I'm a woman and he expects me to. The laundry only gets done on the weekends because he just wont do it, most of the time I'm the one who cooks, and if neither of us cooks I buy dinner, I tidy up on the weekends if it's starting to get overwhelming, though he has agreed that the bathroom is his responsibility (but cleaning is few and far between and I have a habit of washing the tub and tiles while I shower.)

So, I guess I just need to know, would I be the asshole if I got mad at him for not cleaning since it so clearly bothers him enough to tell me about it? Am I overreacting for being upset that he points out messes to me consistently but never cleans them himself? 


Output:
no