Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : okay, so this just happened an hour or two ago so bear with me. i’m on my phone and have been drinking a little bit and need to know if what i did was wrong and or offensive and or however redditors may deem my actions.

Now, my roommate has been sick for... about a month or so. she has asthma and contracted bronchitis sometime in the middle of December. She went on a cruise bc her bf’s parents paid for her since cruises are relatively cheap, whatever. she gets back 8-9 days later, sick as a fucking dog. Exhausted her asthma and is taking a shit ton of medication. sometimes her coughing wakes me up in the night/morning. 

Our relationship has been pretty good, we started living together July 2018 and haven’t gotten into a fight or anything aggressive like that. We joke around and roast each other often, if not daily. we’ve gotten close in the short time we’ve lived together and i do consider her a close friend. From what i understand there’s a general understanding of each others humor and up until now she hasn’t said anything about the way i joke around with her/there hasn’t been a problem with my humor. I’m the type of person who doesn’t really get offended by anything and have a thick skin for offensive jokes. i myself can be an offensive joker. 

So she gets home i’m talking to her in her room and she starts coughing, you know, because of the exhausted asthma and bronchitis. i notice she’s not covering her mouth. so i go;

“Damn girl cover your mouth ya nasty”. 

she responds with
“it’s my room” 
and doesn’t say much after that from what i remember 

now i don’t think much of it if anything bc i had been drinking a little tonight so nothing is really phasing me at that moment. 

Her boyfriend comes over, she’s heating up some soup and then takes a napkin and coughs up a goober, folds it AND PUTS IT ON THE FUCKING KITCHEN TABLE. I was kinda -very- disgusted and was astounded that she had done that. i’m kinda a germaphobe when it comes to shit like that. So i say to her loudly , due to sheer shock

“girl, that’s fucking nasty get that off the kitchen table” 

she says 
“it’s in a napkin and i folded it”

me:
“dude, you have ejected something out of your body and is now on the kitchen table, that’s gross”

she looks at me and silently throws the tissue away, grabs her soup and leaves the kitchen, her and her bf walk into the living room, he kinda gave me a look, something like an eeeeeeh sort of deal. i can understand a social que when it’s staring me in the face so i follow her into the living room. 

i asked her if she was mad and she said yes, because i had been coming at her the whole night and or a lot recently, by making comments about her being sick and used her coughing in her room as the example. she started sniffling and her eyes were watery. 

when she said that i kinda got mad because if what i was saying was bothering her all she had to do was tell me. which is what i told her before because i do acknowledge that i can be offensive/intense at times and if anything i said bothered her then i would just stop joking about that thing. it’s just simple as that. but the issue is she doesn’t like confrontation and that was something we talked about last night. 

I mean don’t get me wrong, i have horrible communication skills and it’s hard for me not to come across as aggressive/ angry when i’m trying express the issue i have with someone (childhood trauma yada yada). but i’ll let someone know if what they’re doing it’s hurting/bothering me in some way. 

So after she said what she had to say, i went on the defensive side and said

“i’m sorry my half hearted joke affected you that much, i didn’t think it would. i won’t joke about it again if you feel so strongly about it”. 

which was kinda passive aggressive, but in my defense i look at it as her being unable to communicate to me that she has an issue with something and then blows up on me bc she couldn’t tell me she had a problem with it in the first place. 

I don’t want to be blown up on like that, it makes me feel like a bad person for not knowing how someone felt about something but i only know it’s a problem if you bring it up to me... 

she hasn’t said anything to me and i don’t think she going to but her bf in passing made light conversation with me. and i passive aggressively changed my hulu password while they were using it because i was upset/got no closure/annoyed. but i pay for it so...


sorry for the grammar misspells and whatever the fuck, it’s late and i’m tired. 

Output:
no