Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example is below.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
A: yes
Rationale: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Obligatory I'm on mobile and this is a throwaway account

Now, I realize the title sounds really bad - but there is a little background

I don't have a good relationship with my mother. She was manipulative and neglectful to me and my brothers, sometimes borderline abusive. She would often disappear for days at a time with her boyfriends and this became a larger issue when I was a teenager.

Its also worth noting that she has several physical and mental health issues, which I never blamed her for and I can understand it made raising children difficult, so I can't completely hate her.

She started seeing her now-husband when I was 14, and he moved in with us shortly after they started dating. We all got evicted from our home when I was 15, which I later found out was due to him gambling our rent money away. After that I lived with family friends and my relationship with my mother has been hanging by a thread ever since. I wasn't invited to their wedding.

Over the years that they have been together, he has kicked her out of their house on several occasions, cheated on her, been in jail multiple times for drug possession and physical abuse (from a previous relationship) charges, gambled their rent money, threatened to leave her, and hit her. Whenever this happens, I have become the good daughter and come to my mother's side regardless of my shaky relationship with her and listened to her cry about the things he's done, tell me about how she needs help finding an apartment and she is going to divorce him, done what I can to support her, and then watched her immediately forgive him when he walked in the door.

So when I got the text from my brother that her husband had hit her, I didn't really care to do anything.

Now I understand that abusive relationships are incredibly hard to get out of. At the same time, it's incredibly frustrating and emotionally draining to me to see this happen over and over again. We don't speak to each other, and when we do it's the same broken record. I have had plans of cutting her out of my life completely when I graduate college because I don't feel comfortable having her in my life, but at the same time I feel guilty for not jumping to help her.

So, AITA?
A:
no