Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
Solution is here: yes
Explanation: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

Now, solve this: Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So, this happened 4 years ago. But I didn’t tell many people about this story, and looking back at it I kind wonder if I was truly an asshole, or if I was justified, since it felt like the person in question deserved what they got. So this is the story:

My first boyfriend and I were together for 4 years. Towards the end (the last year, maybe a little longer), he became *very* abusive. Not physically, but emotionally and mentally, and even academically. I became really depressed and had to go on medication for anxiety. I cried all the time. He threatened me if I didn’t have sex with him, try and “punish” me by taking things away, like planned trips, etc. His narcissism grew stronger. He didn’t care about my needs, my feelings, my opinions... However, prior to all of this, I spoiled the ever loving shit out of him. I wanted him to be happy. I got him so many concert tickets, VIP’s, merchandise... swamped him gifts for special occasions. Etc. Towards the end I feel like he was partially using me for my money. 

ANYWAY. Eventually we break up for good. I felt so relieved. But 3 months later he messages me with huge apologies and how he made a mistake. Begged for another chance. I kept saying no. But this time... I kinda thought of an idea to get back at him for all the pain he caused me. 

He asked to meet up for dinner just to talk. We’d pay for our own things. I agree to it. I purposely leave my wallet at home, make it sound like a mistake. I pretend to realize this after the check comes. He’s annoyed, but he pays. Then, we’re in his car. We start making out and after a while he’s all hot and bothered. After it’s obvious that he thinks he’s going to score, I pull away and tell him that I want to go home. I made it sound like I thought it was a bad idea, but I actually planned to do this. He was angry. Drove me home. 

I thought this would finally make him leave me alone. But he didn’t. still got messaged two times a month. Eventually he stopped though and got the hint. 

AITA for getting back at an awful person who deserved it? 
Solution:
yes