Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
Solution is here: yes
Explanation: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

Now, solve this: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A little back story. I am 38f and all my life my mother and I have clashed.  She is narcissistic and toxic. It's always about her. She takes any situation and makes it about her.   I moved out when I was 16 and I've done well for myself ever since.  I have an older sister who is bi-polar and worse than my mother (havent spoken in 5 years)  My little sister tolerates Mom because she is the only parent we have left. Dad passed 1.5 years ago. Little sister and I get along pretty well. I'm close with her kids.

My mom is a leech. Always trying to play on peoples emotions and anything she can get for free, she does. Uses guilt, blackmail, what I call "Fake nice" to get what she wants. In other words, if you dont believe the way she does or act the way she wants you to, you are wrong. She takes and takes and takes...and its exhausting. To the outside world she is a good Christian lady, former nurse and all around nice person. This is the furthest from the truth.

Since Dad passed I dont have a reason to "make nice". The last straw is when she called me and said, "I took care of your Dad for years, I dont want his cat. Come get it or I'm taking it to the pound. Today" I told her I needed time to fined a home. (I cant have her-my cat HATES other cats) Thank goodness my friend from out of state was visiting and was able to take my Dad's Cat.

I have 2 other women in my life I call Ma or my 2nd Mom. I dont need my bio mom. I dont want to see her. I am not fighting, haven't spoken to her in months. I called my sister and asked if I could work around her plans for Turkey Day. Come early or later to visit her and my niece and nephew. Or even another day. Her plans do not need to be disrupted because I dont want to see Mom.

Was told I was stupid, get over it, its the holidays and I can make nice for a few hours. Dinner is at One. Be there or not. 

I have an offer to got to a friends house, which I think I will do. I will probably go there for Christmas too. (This is my 2nd Mom's family-her daughter has been my best friend for 30 years)

AITA for not "Making nice" because its a holiday? I dont want to see my Mom. I dont want to fight. I am simply just...done.

Solution:
yes