Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Bit if context, I've known this guy for ages. He's phased in and out of "best friend" territory, but he's sort of one of a small group of guys I consider to be my best friends. 3 of them (4 including me) all met through me, and I always drove us around (first to get a license) and decided what we did back in high school, so I kind of considered myself to be the "leader" of the group.

One dickish thing that happened, just for some more context: my first ever girlfriend was his girlfriend at the time. I didnt do anything but for some reason she wanted to leave him for me, and I was feeling lonely enough that I accepted. She turned out to be an absolute psychopath, and the whole thing was a horrible experience, but even though she tried to turn me against him constantly, it never worked.

One day, I got another girlfriend, and she and I moved in together waaaaay too soon, but that's just how it happened. Meanwhile all my other 3 friends moved in together without me. We all lived this way for about 6 years.

This year, she dumped me, and I decided to finally fill that open room in the house. All gravy, right?

Well for some reason, over the last couple years this guy has kept pulling this "alpha male" garbage. He used to literally brag about his penis size, and he did this for a good while until I told him he had to cut that out for all our sakes. But still, he's constantly trying to be the driving force behind everything. He wants to be in front, he wants to be in charge, even when he clearly doesnt have a clue what's going on.

Again, I've talked to him, this ultra dominant alpha stuff is no fun. It just feels inauthentic and annoying. His (ex)girlfriend told me he never lets her on top in the bedroom, and I think that extends from this same need to always be the one in power.

Everything feels like a competition. He targets me down when we're playing smash bros, he does everything in his power to be the most charming, the kindest, the cutest, the smartest, and to get the most girls. To me, it keeps coming across as cocky and full of himself, but it's bern working.

In fact, girls that had clearly liked me before now seem to like him more, which itself wouldn't be so bad, but they're outright ignoring me at best or being uncharacteristically hostile at worst. I have no idea why, like it's actually a zero sum game.

He hasn't directly done or said anything bad to me this whole time, but the CONSTANT competition and false dominance has worn me thin long ago and I actually cant even escape it. I live with him and he keeps forcing himself into whatever I'm doing.

Recently, he's friended a coworker of mine that I kind of liked, but she and I have a bit of a strange history. She liked me first back when I was taken, and when I became single, we started getting closer until I said it was too much too fast, and too soon after a 6 year breakup.

Anyway, he friended her, and now his non-stop, hyperactive social media presence is starting to get hearts and laughs from her, and she's starting to send him pictures of stuff she thinks is cute. I'm worried this is going to start to go the same way as the other two girls.

Now I know what some of you might be thinking- he's just insecure and needs validation. Definitely possible, but even the slightest thing gets to his head so badly I just cant even bring myself to be supportive of the guy. I dont want to see him succeed, I want to see him get knocked on his ass so he can dust himself off and show a shred of modesty again.

Am I the asshole for feeling this way?
Output:
yes