Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
Solution is here: yes
Explanation: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

Now, solve this: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So, I don't really approve of the speed at which this relationship has gone, but I've kept my mouth shut about it because it's his life and he can live it how he wants. Basically, my brother (let's call him Brian) started a long distance relationship with this girl (let's call her Sandy) less than 2 years ago. Brian is early 30s and Sandy is late 30s and has already been married once before (in case that matters at all). Anyway, they would see each other probably twice a month for a few months (because the drive is something like 16 hours).

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About 6 months in and Brian decided to move in with her. Brian was living with our parents still, so I'm sure getting out of their house played a factor. Supposedly, their plan was to live out there for a while and then move back here together because they both like this area. My guess is they were doing it that way because she has a house and they would need to get it ready to sell first before moving over here. Well, then all of a sudden, Sandy's mom got really sick. Cancer. So, they decided that they needed to both stay there, which is understandable. But, they decided they needed a bigger house for some reason. So, they sold her house and bought a new house (which seems crazy to me if their plan is to move back here anyway).

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They buy the new house, get all moved in, and suddenly Sandy's mom's cancer is in remission. I don't know anything about cancer and treatment, so I don't know, but it seems a little weird to me. And this has all been in the span of one year of him living out there.

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So, now here we are, a few months shy of a 2-year relationship and he proposed to her. And I'm kinda just feeling weird by it. It seems rushed. Also, she supposedly wants kids, so I get that her clock is ticking on that and that may be why this whole relationship is on the fast track, but I dunno. So, Brian texted me and our other brother about the engagement in a group text and I just ignored it for a week before finally summoning up a "congrats on your engagement" text in response with an excuse about being busy with life. But, I found out that he was actually really upset by the radio silence and talked to our dad about not being able to get in touch with me, despite having only texted me that one time.

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So, AITA for not congratulating my brother on his engagement right away, despite feeling weird about it?
Solution:
no