Given the task definition and input, reply with output. Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I’ve known this woman since college. She was a really good friend to me while I was in college, even after she graduated and I was still in school. I moved to the same area she lived in after I graduated. She was dating / married this guy who expected a lot of her and is kind of a misogynist, but we kept the relationship going. She had baby number 1, still friends, though it got harder just because he refuses to help so she had all of the kid responsibilities. But we adapted - when we did get together, we always picked a place she could bring the kiddo. 

Within the last year, she had baby number 2, and I got married a few months later. When we sent out the invitations, I was kind of surprised that she was the first one to RSVP, and she said how excited they were about the wedding (her ex was in my wedding party, which is why it was surprising she was so excited). But okay, great, see ya there. Fast forward to the day of the wedding, had a great time. The next morning it hits me - I don’t think she was there. Confirmed with our planner and people at their table. They just never showed. When I posted our wedding pictures on Facebook, she sent me a 2am text basically saying “oh crap I forgot”. I said we missed her. That it. Never sent a card, gift, or anything to acknowledge that she not only missed it for no good reason (she has access to reliable childcare too, so unlikely that was the reason), or that we shelled out a ton of money for two places that went unused at an expensive wedding. 

She reached out to me this week for the first time since the wedding (almost 4 months ago) to say “do you have any time before Christmas?”  It’s a week before. Seriously? 

At this point my husband is so very done with these friends. He hates the husband because he’s a heavy drinker and treats his wife like a servant, and the wedding was the final straw. I am still really hurt, but I also feel bad walking away from a friend who helped me through some tough times a long time ago. At the same time, the fact that she thinks a text makes up for being a no-show for no good reason has me feeling really put out. 

TL;DR: She RSVP’ed yes for 2 and then skipped out for no reason. No real apology but she has a crappy husband and two little kids. Can I let the friendship fizzle?  

yes