Detailed Instructions: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
Q: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : One of my best friends has a new girlfriend of about 6 months. Before I met her, I was told that she had some chronic pain problems. I was unsure about how bad and even asked if walking around a lot (our double date required a lot of walking) was going to be OK. I was told sure, no problem. During the date, I’m being nice, trying to get to know her and all I could really get to know about her is her illness, she doesn’t work or go to school. Now, I also have a chronic illness, it’s in remission but nonetheless, I can relate and am aware that some illnesses are invisible. However, it did put me off a little that as soon as I introduced myself, she went right into talking about her illness. This made me feel a certain way for many reasons, mainly that I was afraid that she might hinder my friend’s goals as well as him taking on a caretaker role. Before he met her, he had plans to start a clothing line and seemed excited about it. Few weeks after the date, just me and my friend are hanging out, and I told him that while she seemed nice, I was concerned about some things, mainly that she didn’t work or go to school and that may interfere with his plans/life. I am admittedly a skeptical person and can be distrusting, and everything I was seeing, and hearing was contradictory, so I did mention that it seemed odd that she was drinking (despite being on many medications) and that she was fine to walk around for a few hours. Another example, I was told their sex life is fine and they have no issues with it, she has no pain during. Then I talked more about how I was concerned that she did not work or go to school and if there were plans for that, even suggesting online school or maybe part time desk work. I also expressed concern about him taking on such a big responsibility of essentially a caretaker and that it may hinder his clothing line goals and other things in his life (for example, he complained he was gaining weight now even though he’s always been big into working out). He was very appreciative and grateful for watching out for him and basically praised me for being a great friend. Flash forward to present, I find out that my friend told his girlfriend what I said, taking it out of context and saying I said she was faking her illness and that I did not believe her – not mentioning anything else I said. He also said he doesn’t need my concern, he’s a grown man. He was also upset that “why would I even question her because sometimes she can’t even walk up the stairs.” Now he’s upset he’s the middle man and thinks me and her need to talk about it. I asked him if he could connect us again so I could explain and apologize. Thinking it over though, I feel like I don’t owe an apology because he shouldn’t have told her those things to cause this rift between us. Also, I didn’t even say the things he says I said, so I wouldn’t even know what I would be apologizing for. AITA? Should I actually apologize? 
A:
no