Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Long wall of text; TL;DR at the bottom

So I (19 F) met my ex in high school, first grade, we didn't talk that much, we were more like classmates till the 4th grade (last year in high school), when he started to like me once we took same class together. I used to meet him once a week maybe twice, and we talk a lot on the internet, mostly about studies, exchanging memes and used to tell me some cool bedtime stories. I liked him, and he also did, and after exams, he told me that he thinks he likes me and I said that I do too, he asked me out. He was too shy to do it, so his ex bestfriend was the one who asked me if I want his bff or not and I said yes so he told him to go for it. 

My mom, very strict, doesn't want me to date anyone, because dating for her means sexual relationship. So during summer holidays I used to ask my uncle to take me to my best friend's house where I act like I'm getting in then I go out and meet my ex. I've kept doing that for an entire month once to twice a week. And we haven't kissed or touched inappropriately. Meanwhile, I've been talking to his bestfriend, everyday for hours, and I told both of them about my family problems and they showed me empathy and care. Especially his bestfriend because we used to talk more and we are both introverts so we don't go out much. I liked his bestfriend a lot till he became my bestfriend too. And one day just two weeks after we started dating me and my ex, I spent more than 24 hours talking to his bestfriend and I found him so interesting and I never got annoyed of talking to him, his advice, his helpful plans, his movies and music suggestions,and then the way he treated me and what he did to talk to me once my mom found out that I've been seeing my ex and lying to her. (She got onto my Facebook because she has my password and looked through my messages), and I fell in love, I denied that because I was in a relationship,besides that's normal for friends to treat you that way.

So, my mom used to come and sit next to me everytime I use my phone to make sure I'm not talking to my ex, nor to my female bestfriend. And once she sleeps (around 3am) , I find my male bestfriend online and we talk for 30 minutes, or less, gives me virtual hugs, and I talk to my ex during the morning once she leaves my side. Days later, she started to give me back some freedom, and I restarted to talk to my ex using a pillow to hide the screen, and of course to my male bestfriend. We got even closer, and I started to love him even more, he kept giving me advice on how to manage the family problems. My male bestfriend unlike my ex who is a bit childish and with non-existent intellectual talk, is a good listener, so I used to "ignore" my ex and talk to him about everything even politics lol. So my ex felt a bit leftout, and in groupchats like he is a thirdwheel, and we argued a lot about that... and he hated it when I say that his bestfriend is so cute and so sweet...

Summer holidays came to an end, and I entered my architecture university. For art class, the very first week, we went to a part of the city where my male bestfriend's university is. And knowing that, I've never seen him before, except three time in high school where we had a 5 second conversation, I wanted to see him after class, because at this point we talked online a thousands time more than we did IRL. But he couldn't come. I was hurt. But I said maybe he just doesn't want to see me because he is just antisocial. (I've tried to meet him two times before but he couldn't manage to showed up). And my ex knows about everything. Few days before breaking up with my ex,I sent him more than 10 wholesome memes of couples, and he answered me saying oh it is an overwhelming love. And one week before breaking up, i came to where he lives, asked him to meet me, he didn't answer and didn't come to see me. You can tell from the way he talks to me that he doesn't want to be with me anymore.So we broke up. Now leading up to this part you already think that I'm an asshole, now comes this part.for weeks before our breakup, My male bff stopped talking to my ex for seemingly unknown reasons, until one day after we were together, he told me that my ex was insulting him with his other friends, was insulting me with him, and was always an unpleasant friend overall because he was an avid drinker and a failure at life and my male bff just didn't have the courage to cut him off. Among other horrible stuff like talking bad about people, then acting like they're his friends. And one week before his birthday since i have his password, I checked his facebook messages to find out that he wants me back but just so i don't get in a relationship with his ex bestfriend and that he used to talk bad about me and told everyone about my family, joked about my problems and made fun of my insecurities, to top this off, I found out that he was going to breakup with me if he found another girl, aswell as him hitting on a classmate.

I forgot to mention that we kept being in touch. And his birthday came, and I was the first one to wish him happy birthday and instead of thanking me he said that I'm cheap, I got angry, he didn't notice, kept talking about his life, and about the girl he found attractive and ignored him, so I made fun of him, hurt, he told my female best friend about that. 13 days after, I told him that I'm asking his ex-bestfriend out, so he said that I'm an asshole, and called me a bitch. I apologized, he called me a dead thing, I kept apologizing, and ever since he has never talked to me again.He keeps telling people that he loved me(even though there's actual proof that he didn't, but it involves me sneaking into his messages) and that I broke his heart, aswell as his ex-best friend being a traitor, and outed us as the assholes with his friends.
 
TL;DR: I have been emotionally cheating on my ex, which was uninterested in our relationship anyway, but keeps on telling people I'm an asshole.
Output:
no