Definition: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Input: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I’m not exactly sure how to word this, so forgive me. Basically, my ex (we’ll call her Alyss) and I had been dating for around 6 months and she broke up with me very suddenly recently.

Everything seemed to be going well, but some background might be helpful. Alyss has some ongoing health issues that affect her life, and she also has a very intensive and stressful job. Recently, that stress from work has taken a toll on her mental health and Alyss told me she would be seeking out a therapist. I fully supported this, figured that she knows her own mind better than anyone and that if she felt she needed help, seeking it was a really healthy idea. As far as her ongoing phyisical health issues, I’ve always tried to be available and help her as much as possible. Overall, it never played a massive role in the relationship but we took it one day at a time and were very conscious of any health issues springing up. As far as the relationship goes, we get along well and haven’t had any majors fights. We have had some disagreements but we always made sure to view it as “us vs. the problem” rather than fighting each other.

I don’t want to veer off topic, so to get more to the point; we’ve been away from each other for about 2 weeks due to some conflicts with work that weren’t avoidable. We weren’t overly bothered by it, so it seemed, but we missed each other. We have been discussing moving in together so we were definitely committed to this. Being apart was just a small hurdle that work was throwing at us.

The day we were going to see eachother again/work would be back to normal, Alyss asked if she could call me to talk. Over a 5-ish minute conversation in which she sounded distraught and tearful, she said that this couldn’t work. She informed me that work was too busy, and that her mental health was in a very bad place. So Alyss broke up with me. I told her that I understood and that I only wanted what was best for her; I genuinely do think that someones wellness, physical and mental, should come before most things.

Nevertheless, I’m hurt. Our relationship was good. We were committed and I love her and we planned on moving in together. I respect her decision and want happiness for her but I feel like I’ve been thrown away like something unwanted. She just did this in a short phone call and we’ve not spoken much at all since. Would I be the asshole for confronting this and telling her how I feel? I feel so small and a bit stupid right now. I know her mental health is not good and I feel like I might add to it and be an asshole if I bring this up at all. Maybe I should let this thing go, I don’t want to talk her into getting back together at all, especially right now. I guess I just want closure.

Thanks everyone. Sorry for the long post.
Output:
yes