Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I really never thought I'd have something to post here.
TL;DR at the end since I might as well just explain the entire event.

So, my girlfriend moved in with me almost 2 years ago. About 6 months in she kept looking at cats on her phone and asking if I wanted one. We all know how this goes.

One day, I came home and my girlfriend asked if I "wanted to meet the baby."  I immediately understood she had gotten a cat, and figured it was a kitten based on her language. Now, we are an adoption ONLY household as well as immediate family. So, when I opened the door to our office and saw a fully grown, 13 pound apex hunter male cat staring back at me, I was surprised but not shocked. 

Fast forward about a year later, and I love this cat almost as much as my dog. One night, the cat got out when I let my dog out to pee. Since he was such a healthy, predatory cat, I had no fear for his safety when I find out in the morning. UNTIL, we didn't see the cat for 48 hours including a thunderstorm.

I had mentally accepted that the cat was gone or would be back in a week or two according to what I read online. 

In this time, my girlfriend had posted on our neighborhood page that our cat was missing. We got a message from someone we went to highschool with (we're in our early 20's), and he said it looked a lot like his cat that got away. The name our friend gave us was exactly the adopted name the cat had when we got him. He even has a sister that still lives there. 

I found my cat stuck in my neighbor's perfectly stacked woodpile (square cut) 3 days later. There were pieces missing from it that fit where he was stuck at. I'll leave what I'm saying for your imagination. The police had me grab him (she wouldn't let me on her property), and told me if he gets on her property again, my cat will have to "find its own way out."

What's also crazy is that our friend lives two streets away from us, but my girlfriend purchased the cat 6 miles away during a humane society outreach program that brought him from another 9 miles away. So, it's not like we found him outside.

Anyway, he obviously wanted his cat back and we told him no; it's our cat since we paid for him and have loved him as family for a year. If it had been any early before I gained feelings for the cat, I definitely would have given it to him and even felt good doing so.

TL;DR
Adopted a cat. The cat got out and our friend from highschool recognized the picture as his cat. We didn't give the cat back since we bought him and had a close bond with him for about a year.


A: yes
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Q: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My high school speech and debate teacher from 7 years ago posted on FB pictures of two of her boys in the bathtub. They're both really young (3 and 1 or 2 years old) and they were both naked in clear bathwater. You couldn't see their genitalia, but you could see EVERYTHING else, including their bottom.

Most of the post said (I don't have the last part of the post), "Confession... I don't bath little kids. Well, I do when l have to, but otherwise [husband] bathes them. He's handled bath time with all three boys from infancy until they understand when we say "lean your head back." It's just something that I don't care for and Nick has stepped up and taken over. Tonight will be the second night this week that I tackle this..."

And I saw this, and I had a number of issues with it (explained throughout). So I sent my former teacher a message on FB. We had a pretty good relationship when I was in high school so I didn't feel too weird reaching out, but I also know that telling a parent how to parent is a huge no no.

I said "Hi [teacher]! I hope you're doing well. I'm in my first year of law school at [American law school] right now and staying busy! I know it's not really my place to mention this, but I noticed the pictures of your kids in the bath you posted the other day on FB today. If my parents did that to me (and FB existed when I was your kids age) I would be absolutely mortified and feel like my privacy was violated beyond reason. Nothing on the internet goes away, as I'm sure you know, especially as a teacher, and I wouldn't personally want pictures of me as a child out there with no clothing on. Once again, you're the parent and it's absolutely your prerogative in what you think is best for your children and what you want your 1,100 Facebook friends to know about them. The more I've learned in law school and from my undergrad degree the more I realize just how little privacy rights Americans have in general. I saw a good Forbes article the other day about the impact data has on kid's futures and thought it was relevant.  http://www.forbes.com/sites/jessicabaron/2018/12/16/parents-who-post-about-their-kids-online-could-be-damaging-their-futures/
I hope you and your family is doing well though!"

I reported it to FB after I sent the message. She didn't reply to me, but I didn't really expect her to (she did read it). FB removed the post later as it did violate their Community Standards.

Today I saw that she posted something that said "I’m out of Facebook jail! 🙌🏻 I was blocked because I posted a few pics of my kids in the bath, no nudity shown, doting on my husband for his endless help bathing our kiddos. Dumb. 🙄"

I didn't realize it would give her a temporary ban. I don't think I did the wrong thing by reporting it, but you can do the right thing and still be an asshole in my opinion. So the question is AITA?

tl;rd I reported an old teacher for posting naked pictures of her kids on Facebook.

A: no
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Q: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : To clarify, it's my house and she hasn't signed any form of lease agreement. 
A couple weeks ago I confronted her, saying I had been getting the vibe that she doesn't like me anymore. She admitted she had been feeling that way. I was hurt but didn't press her further, telling myself she must have just felt like that for a while and gotten over it, or she would have moved out. 
Last night she told me over Facebook messenger, while we were both home in our separate bedrooms, that she was moving out. I told her to take as long as she needed. Then I took the opportunity to ask her to clarify what she meant when she said she didn't like me. Her response was that she had felt like that since she moved in which was the beginning of January. 
I thought about that all night and then I told her this morning that I wanted her to leave immediately. I said she could take as long as she needed to get her stuff out but I don't want to share my house with someone who doesn't like me for one second longer. I feel betrayed by this whole experience and it's been really affecting me. 
I just got out of an abusive relationship and I'm grieving cos my brother died in December. I'm upset that she stayed in my space this whole time, making me feel awful and uncomfortable, not being upfront about issues and letting them fester. 
She's now trying to say she only meant she didn't like living with me. But that's not how she put it the three other times we spoke about it. I think she's just trying to back out of it. She is calling me unreasonable for not letting her stay tonight, even as I'm telling her this is testing my mental health. I have been hospitalised 7 times in the last 6 years and am now stable and this is jeopardizing that. To which she responded, this is stressing me too and it's not all about you. She has no mental health issues. 
So am I the asshole for demanding that she leave my space immediately? 

A:
no
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