Q: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Backstory: Good friend of mine (27M) was hanging out with this chick (26F) on and off for over a year. She really liked him, but he didn’t like her enough to want to date her. He was happy to hook up with her and get her to buy him stuff. He brought her around enough that I got to know her some... nice girl, working single mom, has some mental health issues but regardless she was always cheerful. I am not normally the “white knight” type at all, but this chick had no supportive male figures in her life, so when I saw her out around town I’d always ask how she was doing and stuff. Eventually she realizes my friend isn’t ever going to date her, she has a bit of a mental breakdown (last time I saw her she was bawling at a bar), and they stop hanging out for a few months. 

So last time I spoke with her, she seemed like she was in a good place and I wished her well in her future dating. So I hang out with my guy friend last weekend and he mentions they’re back to hanging out again and it’s the same as before (he’s still not wanting to date her but likes her coming over to hook up and buying him stuff). 

It bummed me out and with her mental issues I feel like she’s being taken advantage of a bit. But, they’re both adults and make their own choices and I generally stay the fuck out things like this. In all of my wisdom, I end up texting her later that I was bummed she was doing this again after how bad it ended last time, and with him still openly not wanting to date her at all. She gets upset/embarrassed that I know about it, asks my guy friend why he said anything, and subsequently guy friend gets mad at me for saying something (I wrongly assumed she would not say anything to him). 

I was trying to reach out to her while not being judgmental directly towards my guy friend, but now everyone is mad. This is why I normally stay out of this shit, and if it was about an actual girlfriend/fiancé/wife I would never have gone there. However, I know I would want an acquaintance to reach out to me if I were in the same situation. 

Am I an asshole snitch brocode breaking white knight douche? I genuinely have zero attraction to this girl, I just was bummed she was going to burn herself again. 
A:
yes