Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Sorry for formatting, grammar, etc. I’m on mobile, yada yada yada. 

So last night my sister got into a car wreck, (her fault, no one was hurt seriously besides bruises and being sore.) She was freaking out because the both of us work CNA jobs which don’t make very much, while also in school for medical professions. She would start her program a year ahead of me, but it’s very hard to work during either programs so both of us would have to be PRN or not work at all. Some people work while doing it but it’s insanely hard and stressful, especially since you have to have a certain grade point average throughout otherwise you get dropped from the program. 

Last night, she was talking about having to push back starting the program so she could work and pay her car note, car insurance, etc. She had already pushed it back a year before that, and I didn’t want that. I told her to not worry about it, I’ll pay her note and insurance. I’ll work, and I was going to push back my school and my plans for life. 

She immediately began looking at cars online, cars well over 10k. My grandfather is coming to pay for the down payment for a car Thursday, which he doesn’t have the money to really do. He had said before that he would help me pay for my transmission to be fixed, not the entire thing since I didn’t want him paying that much money, but now I can’t ask him for any money. The guilt is weighing on me even having him pay my sisters down payment. 

I was planning on buying my own car because the transmission on my old car is about to go out, and wanted to move in with my boyfriend later on this year. My mom is controlling, beyond so, and doesn’t help pay for very much. She’s never truly had much money, and what money she gets she blows easily. We now live with my cousins while my sister and I share a tiny bedroom, and she pays less here than when we were in an apartment. I’ve been unemployed and just now starting to work again, the entire time I was unemployed my sister payed for everything I needed. Bills, paying for clothes, groceries etc. 

I had a talk with my boyfriend, and I don’t want to pay her car note. I want to move out, I want to go to school, I want to get a car that doesn’t shake and the engine doesn’t scare me that it’s going to fall apart every time I drive it. I came home and told my mom this, and she told me “It doesn’t work that way. You said you would pay it last night, you don’t have a choice.” 

So I’m sitting in the bathroom, trying to cry as quietly as possible while texting my boyfriend. AITA or would I be if I didn’t pay the car note for her new car?

Ex Output:
no


Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Now, hear me out. Context is important. 

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One of my closest friends, lets call him "W", dated a girl for around 6 months. In high school, this is a fairly lengthy relationship. He broke up with her due to loss of feelings. For a while after the breakup, she mad multiple attempts at turning our friend group against each other, and even trying to convince a different friend's girlfriend to dump him for no reason. Also, every single day, she makes every attempt she can to piss us off, even basic things like leaving class early to steal our lunch table. Basically, she's one of the most obnoxious, narcissistic, self-centered people I've ever met. 

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Fast forward to  present day. Another close friend, let's say his name is "R", now likes her. He remained friends with her through and after the breakup, despite what she was doing to our group. He asked her to prom, something we all said was an awful idea, but W said he was ok with it, as long as they didn't start dating. R agreed to this and asked her, she said yes. However, now R asks her out at least 4x a week, even though this girl has made it very clear she has no romantic interest. Whenever we mention something about her that isn't positive, he loses his shit and starts defending her vehemently. We recently also found out he tells her everything we say about her. Basically putting her over us. 

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We are all graduating within 2 months, and she is permanently leaving for college anyway (her parents are moving with her). So not only does he turn a blind eye to how awful she is, even if they did date, she's leaving soon anyway, so what's the point?

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I bring it up almost every day, openly saying how I feel about her and how he's acting. He freaks out every time and defends her, completely ignoring what we say. IDK how else to approach it, because it's tearing our friend group apart.

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TLDR: My friend is going after another close friends ex, who is a complete bitch. I insult her and tell him how much of an awful decision it is every day, and he ignores it. IDK what else to do.

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P.S. I don't know if this is quite the right forum for this, but I thought I'd try it. 

Ex Output:
no


Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I got engaged about a month ago to a guy I’m insanely in love with. I’m excited to spend the rest of my life with him and would never, in a million years, consider cheating on him.

But I’m not a huge fan of wearing my engagement ring. It’s beautiful, don’t get me wrong. Stunning and expensive and something out of a bridal magazine. But I’ve never worn rings before because they eventually annoy
me, and I’m nervous about this one because, again, it’s a stupidly expensive piece of jewelry. What if it fell off? What if I lost it?! It’s such an important item that I’m anxious and nervous any time I wear it.

I’m in my mid twenties. My friends and I often spend our weekends in bars and drinking. Not passed out, throwing up, irresponsibly drunk. We usually hang out at more relaxed bars, not clubs. But sometimes we have a drink too many, and I am *infamous* for losing things once I’ve started drinking. Even if I’m only a beer or two deep. So I never wear my ring out because I’m so terrified of it joining the massive ranks of things I’ve lost while out. 

I never thought twice about it until my fiancé confronted me last weekend. He said it was extremely suspicious that I took my ring off to go out drinking. He can’t imagine why I won’t wear it unless I want attention from other men. He’s never been the jealous or possessive type, so this is very out of character for him. I told him I was just worried about losing it and suggesting getting a silicon band, like tradesman and other people wear when they don’t want to ruin their wedding rings, but he said it wasn’t the same and most men wouldn’t see the silicon band and think I was engaged. He said he’s upset he bought me an engagement ring I rarely wear and thinks it has something to do with me not sure if I want to be with him, which IS NOT the case at all.

So, am I the asshole for not wearing the ring when I go out? Is he overreacting? Or do we both suck?

TLDR: I don’t like wearing rings and always lose things once I’ve had a beer or two. After recently getting engaged, I’m so scared of losing the expensive ring that I don’t always wear it in public, especially when I go out to bars with my friends, and my fiancé is upset about it. 

Ex Output:

no


