Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

[EX Q]: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My family and I were really close growing up but when I moved out of the house when I was 18 to go to college, my parents dropped me off and my stuff and then just left they didn't help me find my dorm they didn't even really say goodbye they just said goodbye and then left.        

Later on when I got married at age 24 my parents hated my girlfriend now wife with a passion. When she came over for family gatherings theyd talk about how she looked in a negative way, and when I came alone they'd try to talk me into breaking up with her, yeah she wasn't perfect but in no way did she deserve this kind of disrespect.

Ever since then me and my wife trying to avoid my family at all cost we don't go to gatherings and we ignore their calls.
[EX A]: no

[EX Q]: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My brother and I have always been really at odds. For years we would butt heads over everything. He would insult me or tell me to kill myself (and once held a knife at me from across the room), and I would get outraged and scream at him. Our mother eventually got fed up with it and made a rule that we were not allowed to speak to each other. This really hurt me as all I've ever wanted is to have a relationship with him, but he just screams and insults me whenever I speak to him now. A few minutes ago I went downstairs and tried to strike up a conversation about his new Apple Watch, which he responded to by screaming at me to stop talking to him. I told him all I wanted was for him to be nice for once, but he started telling me nobody likes me and the best night of his year was the night I spent at our grandmother's house because he didn't have to see me. Eventually I called him a rotten egg and went up to ask my mother for advice. She said that the whole confrontation was my fault for breaking her no talking rule. I argued back and forth with her about how insane an idea that was, and eventually told her it was lazy parenting to just cover the issue up and hope it all works out when we grow up. She immediately shut down and walked out of the room, which I responded to by (admittedly unkindly) telling her to go to hell. Confrontations like this are really common in my house, and I feel really lost as to how to confront it. I really want to have a relationship with my brother, but it really hurts when all he does is try to get under my skin and hurt me, then hide behind some nonsense rule our mother came up with.
[EX A]: yes

[EX Q]: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So a little context to start with me (24M) and my GF (23F) have been together for just under a year. We met on tinder but really hit it off in our first date so started to see each other pretty regularly for a couple of months before deciding to commit to a relationship. At the time we lived pretty close to each other (about a 20 minute drive) so we would meet up 2-3 times a week for dates and then hangout over each others houses on the weekends. 

I’ve had a full time job since I left uni at 21 and when we first met my GF was working part time and thinking about going back to uni for her masters, as of September last year she decided to take the plunge and moved to a city 2 and a half hours away for the year to finally get her masters. So for the past 7 months I’ve been travelling down to see her pretty much every other weekend, we’ve had a couple of bumps along the way like any relationship would doing the whole long distance thing. 

So now down to what happened, last Friday I was driving down to see her after a full day In work, I hit a bunch of traffic (2 and a half hours in to what ended up being a four hour drive) and was tired so I stopped to grab an energy drink. I gave her a call just to let her know I would be a bit later than expected and the conversation was pretty normal until she mentions she wants to go out clubbing and is thinking of trying MDMA. So we’re pretty much the same level when it comes to drug use we’ve only ever smoked weed once or twice, so it struck me as a bit of a surprise and I panicked a bit and probably overreacted saying if she did it I didn’t want to be there because I’m not comfortable being there while she takes pills that we have no idea what’s in them or where they came from. 

She said it was fine she wouldn’t take them and I continued driving and eventually got there but things were really off when I got there and preceded to be for all of Friday night and Saturday morning. I was a bit annoyed because she was barely speaking to me and I could tell something was wrong so I confronted her about how awkward things felt and she flipped out about how she doesn’t think she can go out and have a good time with her friends when I’m there. I was hurt because I only get to see her for 2 days every two weeks and she has all the time in between to spend with her friends. So AITA for not wanting to go out clubbing so she can take MDMA with her friends?

TLDR: I only see my girlfriend every other weekend and she wants to go out clubbing and take MDMA on the weekend I come to spend time with her. 
[EX A]:
yes

