Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
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Question: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : For a myriad of reasons, I've been wanting to go offline, delete my social media, messaging apps, and eventually cut my post-paid mobile line for a very long time.

Plan: delete social media (done) &gt; switch to feature phone and delete WhatsApp &gt; switch postpaid mobile line to prepaid mobile line, giving the number only to my immediate family members for emergency purposes.

So far I've deleted Facebook, and what remains is WhatsApp. As there are many memories in the chat messages and photos, and one has to get these out first before deleting the app, it's been overwhelming me and my plan to delete it is progressing slowly at the pace of an iceberg. I've already changed my mobile number in all my accounts except for 3 organisations (I know because I keep track using a password manager).

Recently I've been asked to volunteer for task A for organisation B. I'm not in a very good place, but would like to contribute, and I accepted it. And I'm added to a few chat groups in WhatsApp.

Now this is giving me a lot of anxiety. Hence I want to go ahead with my plan to switch to a feature phone which does not support WhatsApp, and tell them to only contact me via email.

The thing is, as much of the conversation takes place in the app, deleting the app will inconvenience the discussion process. But the thing is I've already conceived of my plan even before I was asked to volunteer, and it feels like a spanner is thrown into my plan.

So AITA? Feel free to ask me questions, and I apologise if I my post isn't clear.

Answer: yes


Question: Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I'm 19, I work at a pizza place as a driver. Also there is a pizza maker and his adult son who makes deliveries, they have been there longer than I have. The adult son is a little bit odd and definitely has something mentally wrong, nothing extreme.

Nov-  boss told me I was getting a raise. night that I was supposed to get it, the pizza maker was cashing me out. I said "I think I'm supposed to get a raise tonight" to which he got instantly angry and said he doesn't want to know about it. When I went to ask my boss he told me it has to wait now and it's just between the two of us. I later found out the pizza maker's son is yet to get a raise in the entirety of him working there. 

 Jan- I'm back  after a month because of a problem between me and the boss where i was the ass.  I was given a hundred dollar bill to pay for food  and it was fake. My boss wanted me to pay out of pocket for it. I told him no way. Eventually he said something like "you think I'm going to pay for your screw up?" to which I told him "fuck you, I quit".

 We made up, but the pizza maker treats me differently and gives me more non-delivery work. 

I've also noticed a pattern of the pizza maker's son getting the really good tip deliveries ALMOST EVERY TIME

My coworker also told me the pizza maker talks behind my back about how I leave early a lot to "avoid cleaning" and how I should be watched around the register because I can't be trusted. 

The incident was this Saturday. I had been waiting my turn for a delivery . Finally, I was up, but it was for a $5 discounted delivery right down the road to the front desk of a motel. We usually have a $10 minimum. In my eyes this delivery was  a favor to the front desk guy because they distribute our menus. As I was leaving the pizza maker's son pulled up, which would make him next in line for a delivery when he gets back. I told the pizza maker as I was leaving there's no way this delivery should count. As I was coming back the pizza maker's son was leaving with a $50 delivery.


chain of events 

Me (angry): "how is that fair that he gets to go next. that shouldn't count"

pizza maker, matching my tone: "What does it say in the machine?"

Me: "it doesn't matter it's done as a favor"

pizza maker: "go talk to the boss if you have a problem"

Me: I will, don't get mad if when I do and I get offered a raise because I actually deserve it"

pizza maker: "at least [my son] makes boxes and cleans cans without being asked" 

me: "who cares if he does it without being asked? I do it twice as fast and am way better at my job"

at this point the boss entered from the kitchen and asked what's going on

today I got a call from my boss saying i need to apologize or be fired basically even though my boss doesn't think I was in the wrong, he just would have no choice because the pizza maker is threatening to quit 

Answer: yes


Question: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : This situation has be resolved, I’m just more or less curious as to what the internet might think.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for over two years, and while we have our troubles, the relationship has been phenomenal. We usually go about fights by talking through them and we try to understand each other. It’s important to note that I have crazy anxiety, and I understand this and try my best to combat it. I know I might get dreadfully anxious due to something that doesn’t deserve it, and I will try my best to control it.

So my girlfriends dream job is to be a piercer. She’s pierced herself multiple times, pierced her friends multiple times, and she’s actually very good at it. I’ve pushed her into it as well, she deserves to follow her dreams. She tried and tried to get an apprenticeship, but people kept turning her down until now. She finally found someone willing to train her. She’s been going and having an amazing time, and I’m happy and proud for her.

Unfortunately my anxiety has gotten the best of me here. I feel like there were too many independent variables, but that was an issue we were able to talk out. I had an issue with her piercing wherever she wanted, and her being the only girl surrounded by guys that she shares a passion with. Now for this part, I knew I was wrong. Whenever these issues pop up, I talk to her about why it upsets me, how I’m upset at myself for being upset, and then she walks me through why I should be more comfortable with it. She nearly never has to compromise because I know I’m in the wrong.

Now here’s where the real AITA comes in. My girlfriend was over he other day and offhandedly mentioned something her teacher said.

He said, “So your boyfriend is okay with this?”

She said, “Yes.”

He said, “Good, I don’t want to have another boyfriend barge in because his girlfriend is piercing a penis.”

And you know what, I took that wonderfully. We never talked about it happening, I never realized she might be piercing dicks, but I just figured hey, it’s a part of the job. I just let it go because it was her passion, and it genuinely did not bother me.

She goes to the salon, trains with her teacher, and has  a fantastic time. She gets off and calls me right away, tells me about her great day and so on. She then asked me, 

“Do you want your dick pierced?”

“Well no not at all.” 

“Okay! Well then I’m going to have to ask someone else!”

And there was the problem. The idea of her piercing dicks wasn’t an issue when it was a stranger. But the idea of her asking our personal guy friends to do it? I immediately had an issue with it. I don’t want her to know what one of our friends dicks look like, work related or not. It just bothered me a lot, and she simply could not understand why. AITA?

Answer:
no


