TASK DEFINITION: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
PROBLEM: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I am a talkitive person who loves to hear other peoples ideas/opinions and to share my own. My boyfriend is more reserved in the communication department. 

When we watch YouTube/TV together  I often comment on things that are happening in the show - I despise talking over the TV so sometimes I will pause it to ask for his opinion on what we are watching and to share mine...this infuriates him. He gets agitated with me and feels like I am being disruptive like "why the f××× do you keep pausing the show...I just want to relax...you are ruining my night..just shut up!"...and I am always agitated feeling like he is lacking in depth like "I just want us to connect and share our thoughts..sorry for wanting to be heard and have some kind of human interaction"...

If we are in the middle of a really good show ESPESSIALLY if it is during an intense part (like Game of Thrones) I do not talk or pause it to talk.....it is just when we are watching youtube videos or less interesting/intense stuff......his biggest issue seems to be when I pause it ...there have been times he will start talking during a really good intense show about dinner or something unrelated and I will pause it - this also pisses him off ---he just hates it when I pause shows but I cant stand talking over the TV...his solution is to stop talking which I find very difficult. 

As minor and silly as it sounds this is actually creating a problem in our relationship because we watch TV together everynight and  when we are relaxing together I am in a good mood and trying to have a connection with him and he is getting angry with me which is making me feel like we have no connection and making me want to withdraw ...it is leaving him feeling disrespected and annoyed...it is leaving me feeling unheard and irritated ...

AITA? 

SOLUTION: yes

PROBLEM: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I started my new job the beginning of January.  I was shown a lot rather quickly - how to certify things, receive goods in, write folders, make travelers, print drawings, get information off customer websites, and do shipment paperwork.

Last week on Tuesday I was very overwhelmed.  I almost quit on the spot.  Supplies (ink and printer paper) were running low and person C told me to order supplies since “the torch has been passed to you”.  I didn’t know what to do and I also had a lot of assignments already so I didn’t have time to order anything.  I asked person C for help and she told me to check my email then went into HR to complain about me and the situation.  I overheard what she was saying.  I went into HR afterwards to explain that I’m overwhelmed and got nowhere - HR and person C are friends.  So I went to the people the hired me, the owners daughters.

I told them I was very overwhelmed.  I also told them that person C weeks ago had said to me “that’s a good way to get fired” when I needed to leave and asked if person K could finish up the last 3 or 4 shipments for me.  I was told “you were never meant to do all the shipments.  We told C this and for some reason you’re still doing all of them”.  So... office meeting called.  End result?  Person C is now doing all the shipments and I’m doing the work the daughters give me with a shipment here and there if I have time.

Since then person C and HR and not been nice to me.  If I talk to them they will respond.  And even then they’re not friendly.  With me doing the shipments C was able to help HR with their work so I guess I ruined their plan to swap work assignments.

I haven’t eaten in the company kitchen since Monday of last week because it’s uncomfortable around those 2.  I’m not happy here anymore because I’m trying to be cordial and professional and they’re making things uncomfortable and petty.

Am I The Asshole for talking to the owners daughters when I was overwhelmed which lead to their work assignments going back to them?  My goal wasn’t to get anyone in trouble, only reduce some of my stress.

SOLUTION: yes

PROBLEM: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I blew up yesterday at my friends for bringing a 19 year old out and buying her drinks. We know most of the bartender’s in town so they trust us but I was livid they not only took advantage of that but also didn’t tell me until much later in the night.

SOLUTION:
no

