Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Side note before reading: I am pretty good at pretending (I'm in the theatre club at my old school) and have some decent manipulating skills, which I usually don't use for anything bad.

Backstory:

Over a year ago I became really depressed.
However I continued to pretend I was okay and for quite some time no one, except one friend (lets call him Tim) noticed. 
At the time, I wasn't close to him, which soon changed, because he started helping me and we tried talking to my parents about it (My parents are lovely people, who provide really well for me, but they are incredibly busy with work and our bond isn't that strong). 

Eventually, after having a breakdown, I started seeing a therapist. During that time, I learned a lot about showing others how I feel and started telling my best friends about my depression, though I never told them exactly what's going on. I didn't talk to anyone about my feelings except Tim, so everyone else just knew I was depressiv, but they didn't know anything else. 
When I tried to talk to my best friends about it, they usually ignored me or didn't take my problems with family etc serious, probably because they just didn't know any better (they were 16 at the time). 

Nonetheless, I was fairly honest about how I felt.

Now:

I came out as trans a few months ago and it went really well. I told everyone how great I am doing. However for some weeks I've been feeling incredibly depressiv. I kinda told Tim, but I made it seem a lot less serious than it is. 
I am pretending as if I am perfectly fine and usually it's not an issue, since my friends are busy with school and work, so I don't get asked, how I'm doing that much. 
Also I apologized to my best friends for lying and promised I'd change and tell the truth from now on.

Now one of my best friends texted me about her crush and stuff like that and I told her how I was suprised, she'd still trust me after how much I lied to her. She said, she had forgiven me and gives me a chance and how she's proud, that I'm trying so hard to change. 

But I haven't changed a bit. I'm still lying and I can't change. They had to go through so much, because of me. I was a real asshole while I was depressiv and they always Tim always had to care for me, I just really don't want to become this asshole again, I want to protect them from my depression, but now I feel shitty for lying and feel like an asshole anyway and since they don't ask about it, I feel like they don't really want to know.

Do you think I am doing the wrong thing? Or are my friends and family in the wrong for not caring a lot? 
no

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I(m32) have been living and working with my fiancée (f31) in Thailand for the last 5 years, we are renewing our work contracts and committing to another 15 months in the country. We have been engaged for 10 months and together for 7 years and getting married within the next 15 months is a done deal for us. With work and finance restraints it’s very difficult for us to plan and pay for our wedding back home in Europe, as from my side of the family we have no financial support. The problem now arising is that my sister who has a fear of flying flat out refuses to consider or make an attempt to travel to Thailand if we were to get married there. My family are pretty much telling me that I am being selfish and should consider my sisters feelings and that by not doing so I am turning my back on them. They are asking me to wait till our work contract is over and we move back or get married where everyone(my sister) can travel to without complications.
no

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hello all and welcome to my post. I recently been called an asshole and I really don't see how I would be considered an asshole. 

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Firstly let me say, me and my ex were long distance for about 8 months(according to her even though it was maybe a 30 min drive) and she broke up with me because she didn't want the distance and told me that she still wanted to be friends and when she did move down closer, which she planned on doing, we could try to date again. 

But after about 3 days past of us being split i noticed her posting more about a new "friend" and them hanging out all the time. I didn't think much of it at first, until she messaged me saying that she still wants to be close friends(she empathized the close) and we may get back together if her situation doesn't change. I asked her if she planned for a change she said maybe and that she is talking to someone currently and i found out from her friend that she was talking to him while we were dating.

 For the past 2 days she has been posting how depressed she is and how guys are jerks and how no one will ever love her. I decided not to say anything about it because i feel like it is not my place for that anymore and i truly do not care for her problems anymore after everything and basically being the "back up". She has been calling me a lair and a asshole for not being there for her and ignoring her. 

no

