TASK DEFINITION: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
PROBLEM: CLAIM : The following post is HYPOTHETICAL. POST : Here's the thing. We're both in our 20s but I'm a few years older and was never into the party/drinking thing to begin with. I don't really get the point of getting blackout drunk. He's not super into it either, but he will on average have a gaming and drinking or bar/club night with friends or roommates maybe once a week (depending, sometimes more sometimes nothing for 2-3 weeks) 

My issue is, he will almost always get REALLY drunk. The 'I'm not sure what happened last night, I woke up in my toilet, with puke in the sink , or in my bed covered in puke' level of drunk, at least half the time . This included a 'fun' night where he then later  told me he thought he kissed one of his female friends. 

He goes out with people who are (some anyway) much heavier drinkers (and he's a skinny guy who sometimes forgets to eat). One of his friends recently had to be picked up by an ambulance after just lying in the street, too drunk to walk home. It's a group of 21-28 year old guys (legal drinking age is 18 btw so he's been legal to drink for years now) and I don't expect him to not drink.. But we don't live near each other (long distance) and I'll get a bunch of 'help me' 'I'm so sick' 'I don't know where I am' texts at 2 or 3am... And, for example today, its now 3:30 pm and still no word from him after texting me that last night...

AITA if I try and talk to him about it or make a big deal out of it? On one hand he's an adult and I'm not his mother... And it's not a 'happens constantly' thing... But I'm tired of worrying whether or not he got home safe during/after he has a night out

SOLUTION: yes

PROBLEM: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Sorry for the format im on mobile.


So today I had class and my roomate (lets call him tom) too, we finished class at the same time ans headed home only to realize we forgot our keys. Since we're in school dorms, there's always a person in charge of the dorms that has a spare key. I proposed we go and see that person, but he refused to do so because be was scared that we'd look stupid. So I told him that I won't be going for him (he's the type of guy that will let people do the work for him if the occasion presents itself) and that I would appreciate it if he came with me instead of sitting sround on his ass, because let's keep in mind this is a spare key and I have to return it immediately after im done using it. Knowing him, he probably would of told me like "im not returning it" or "gove him tomorrow. 

While all that was happening my other roomate (jerry) asked me if i found a way in (i texted him that we got locked out) and i replied "no, but tom is being a fcking kid he doesnt want to go see the person for the dorms, im not going for him im fucking tired of always doing everything)

So he texted our third roomate (jerry) and asked him for his keys, but he was at the gym. So tom texts one of our friends and asks him for a lift to the gym so he can get jerry's keys. The friend accepted and we headed to get jerry's keys.

When we arrived, my roomate jerry was coming out of the gym, we told him that we needed his keys. He asked us if we went and see the person in charge lf the dorms and Tom replied no.

So jerry got pissed and I got out of the car to talk with him, he told me "why is tom such a fucking child, why do you have to take my keys? You could  went and got the other key"

He then gives me the key, i thank him and get back in the car. And tom heard everything and tells me "wtf you told him i disnt want to go see the dorms person, you guys always tell each other secrets and shit"

So that's pretty much it, AITA because i didnt want to go get/and return the spare key for him. 

SOLUTION: yes

PROBLEM: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My colleaugues have a monthly party or meal, it usually is expensive (around £40, plus food and drinks on top) and I never go. Mostly because I love my partner of 5 years and want to spend my free time hanging out with her, but partly because I think my colleaugues are gross. 

There's only about 15 in my office, but 3 of them cheated on their husbands/wives at the Christmas party. They have also bullied me due to my mental illness in the past and are hostile towards my best friend who is one of the greatest guys I know. They're heavy drinkers, they like to get into fights and shag each other. I hardly drink and I like staying home with my other half and watch films or have a long walk.

They are so mad at me for not going to any work parties that they're trying to push me put of the company for 'not being a teamplayer'. I am really starting to doubt myself. What do you guys think? AITA?

SOLUTION:
no

