Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My daughter is 17 months old. Being that she is a toddler, she would live in just her diaper if she could. When she's at home, we let her run free, and thus, most of our pictures are of her in just her diaper.

My mother posts a lot of my daughter's photos on facebook, which I don't mind, but she is constantly editing little heart or smiley face stickers over my daughter's nipples. To me, this just seems really creepy and sexualizing, since my daughter's nipples are no different than my nephew's, who's uncensored photos are also all over my mother's facebook. Something about it really rubs me the wrong way, but when I addressed it with my mother, she told me the pictures were inappropriate for her friends to see without the stickers covering her up. So I told her not to post any more pictures of my daughter. AITA?
no

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I was engaged to my amazing GF last year and she recently moved to the US via the K1 Fiance Visa.  For context, the K1 Fiance Visa approval timeline can vary greatly and once approved you must get legally get married within 90 days of your Fiance moving to the US. As you can imagine, it is nearly impossible to organize a proper wedding where many friends and family must fly internationally within a short 90 day period, which is the case with us as many friends and family members would not be able to attend (including her parents) as they need time to schedule time off, book tickets, etc.

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Initially, we were hoping to just do an initial 'paper wedding' and the ceremony one year down the road, however our state requires that we not only get a marriage certificate, but that we also have a ceremony at the courthouse in front of a judge and have a couple witnesses.  I discussed this with the Fiance and we both decided that we didn't want to only have my parents attend the courthouse wedding (they are local) without hers present as we want to share our 'wedding moment' at the same time with both families.  So, we instead invited a few close friends to act as witnesses.  

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I explained this to my parents and they were not thrilled, however I made our decision / wishes clear and the reasons why (plus reiterated we are planning a big wedding in a year and that they were front and central in that wedding) .  Several weeks later, prior to our courthouse wedding, when I was visiting the parents with my Fiance my mother decided to tell my fiance while I was in a separate room that the courthouse wedding is the "real" wedding and that the wedding down the road isn't real (it's obvious my mom purposely decided to do this when I wasn't present and when I confronted my parents after hearing this from my fiance they said that 'they thought my fiance didn't understand the courthouse wedding was a legal wedding').  I feel that they are being unreasonable with not accepting our wishes (I'm not asking them to be 'happy' about it) and I feel they crossed a line going behind my back to my fiance and trying to guilt trip her (the fiance said afterwards 'i'm sorry that I'm not American as then both parents could attend and this wouldn't be an issue' - that broke my heart) which makes me less inclined to be open with my parents about our life or have my fiance hang out with them without me being present...

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Am I the asshole here?

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TLDR; Am I the asshole for not inviting my parents to a mandatory courthouse wedding and asking them to wait until we can have a proper wedding when my fiance's overseas parents can attend so that we can share our wedding moment with both parents at the same time?

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Is EVERYBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Preface this with a disclaimer- i do not believe in equality of the sexes. A man has to conduct himself with a certain degree of gentlemanliness, if you will. I always open doors for women, offer a hand if something they're carrying seems too heavy, seat on public transport, etc. And teach my two sons that.

That said, this particular happened about five days ago. I was in the ER with a pretty severe chest infection- my fever was nearly at 40 C, and i was in rotten shape. The waiting area of the hospital has about ten seats- the only one available was next to me.

A couple walked in with a baby- let's call them Dimwit Husband (DH) and Stupid Wife (SW). DH takes the free seat next to me, while SW is standing.

About five minutes later,

SW: Excuse me, could i sit down there?

Me- where?

SW- Could i ask you to give me that seat. I've been holding my daughter since we got here.

Me (now genuinely flabbergasted)- sorry- ask your husband to carry your daughter. He's sitting right next to me.

Sw: he's been at work for the last 20 hours. Is it going to hurt you to give up your place for a child?

Me- excuse me, are you stupid or fucking blind? I'm in the emergency department of a hospital, and you ask ME to give you a seat, instead your fucking husband here?

SW: Excuse me- what did you just say?

DH finally steps in with this gem

DH: Put her in her pram. Evidently courtesy is too much to ask for.

I turned and told him to piss off, when two doctors heard the altercation and stepped in. They offered her a wheelchair to use, and she went off muttering to herself. DW chose to go STAND with her at the other end of the room.

Honestly, i wouldn't have minded if i wasn't as ill as i was. What further annoyed me was that the guy in no way made an effort to give up his seat for his own wife and infant daughter, and chose to be shitty about it. The most aggravating part- hospital staff acting like i was part of the problem. Fuck that.

Am i the asshole here- or is this fucking prick the problem? I have been in an ineffective rage for the last five days over this shit.

yes

