Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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Question: CLAIM : The following post is HYPOTHETICAL. POST : Buckle in folks, this is gonna be a long one. Throwaway for personal reasons.

Okay, so I have a massive student debt. About $110k total with about $65k in Parent Plus Loans in my mother’s name. I also have a baby on the way. Currently, I’m paying $600/mo toward the parent plus loan. I’ve asked my mother to reapply for income based repayment as her income has changed significantly (she has none) and I really need the flexibility to prepare for child related expenses. (I’m not planning on paying just the minimum, but if I need to do it one month because I have an emergency, I will.) My husband and I are currently living paycheck to paycheck, making decent money, but paying $1000/mo total toward student debt (income based repayment minimums). 

She is refusing to reapply for the income based repayment despite the fact that she makes no payment towards these loans. She also took out the maximum every year I was in college despite the fact that I specifically asked her not to, as our agreement was that I would pay them back. She claims she used the extra money toward me. There’s no way all the money was used for my expenses. She fixed my car once to the tune of about $700, but never helped with rent or groceries, even leaving me homeless for about six months while I was in school. She probably netted about $15k off these loans. 

WIBTA if I stopped paying these loans if she refuses to reapply for income based repayments? The loan is solely in her name, so there are no legal/financial repercussions for me. I imagine she will harass me to the point of needing a restraining order if I do this. 

Answer: yes


Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Despite the stupid title, there's actually a bit more backstory.

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I'm 13 years old, and my sister is 17. 

Her school is done, so she stays at home for the whole day. One day I come home at like 5pm from the bus (parents work quite late and don't get back until about 6:30) and there's leftover pasta from the night before. She's already eaten her dinner and I'm about to serve myself. I scoop one scoop and then I'm about to do another (i need lots of food), and then my sister chimes in saying stuff like "you don't need another one" and "save it for parents". normally this wouldn't be a problem, but she says it in a shouting  way  and this kinda ticks me off a little bit for some reason so I jokingly keep on serving the second spoonful (i was gonna put it back) but then she runs up to me and starts grabbing my arm and pulling me away. Like idk why but when someone gets really angry at me for little to no reason it annoys me so I push her away but then she gets really angry and starts punching my arm. She takes the pasta away and says 'you don't deserve it and stuff.' The punching doesn't hurt but I'm kinda annoyed now so I push her really hard. She starts crying and going on about how 'im stronger than I think' (which is an excuse she uses 24/7 with parents) which is kinda true. I'm kinda pissed off because when my parents get back they would take her side of the story because she's older and she sucks up. She tries retaliating but I don't quite remember the next few minutes but its basically back and forth physical fighting, but in all, she definitely punched/kicked more than I did. I did use a few choice words and punched/kicked as hard as I could though. I generally kept my calm. Parents come back and surely, after debating and the like I get in trouble. It doesn't end here though. I still feel like I was wronged so I wanted to kinda get revenge so I walk into the kitchen and take the leftover pasta and say really loudly "oh I wanna eat this pasta" and then she gets angry and another fight brews before my parents can stop. I kinda feel like I could've done things to stop it but Imo its generally my sister's fault. Am I the Asshole?

Answer: no


Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I(26m) decided that I was going to go on one more spring break vacation with my boys and that was during the last spring break I went on, which was in 2018. The vacation was set to be a full week which I told her about since the beginning of our relationship. So it has been set in stone for awhile. Me and my SO have been together since November of 2018 which is not that long but long enough for us to be getting pretty serious. We don’t live together but she comes over often. I would say on average 4 times a week. 

Before I left I would tell her to come over to my house every day, instead of the usual of other day or so, but  I  get off a  late from work a lot and most of the time we would get together by 9ish at night and I would be going to sleep pretty soon after that because I wake up at 6am, and the longer day wipes me out. Even then I would stay up with her until about 1030 to 11ish, because I wanted to spend more time with her before I left. 

I left on Saturday and on Friday we were hanging out from the time I got out of work until about 1030 that night. This is when one of my best friends, pretty much my brother, wanted to come over because he wasn’t going to going to go on the  trip with me and my other best friend. All of us are basically family. 

Now this is were it went bad because I hung out with them all night and we got drunk. I ended up drinking something bad or my stomach just wasn’t feeling right and I got sick and felt like throwing up in the middle of us having sex. She didn’t seem to be mad at me about this and was trying to be consulting about it but I felt like a POS after that happened. Then I woke up late the next morning because of the drinking. She wanted me to have sex with her again to make up for what I had done the night before  but I had to leave to get to where me and my fiend were going for spring break which was about an 8hr drive so I told her that all I could really do was have a quickie and she made it seem like by saying that she was just some side chick or something like that. 

I never really thought that it was that big a deal when I said it but I do see her point. In my mind I just wanted to get to where me and my friend had to go and spend one more night with my brother before I left for the week because I rarely get to see him now, maybe once a month, because he is with a girl that is really controlling of him. I feel like I do see her point but also that I really didn’t do a thing wrong because I’ll be coming hack relatively soon. 

Answer:
no


