Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : AITA?

Prior to my purchasing this lot, my neighbor had laid down a bunch of bricks (no grout or base layer, just on the ground) and used it to park his 8 or so trash bins for his apartment building. I approached him letting him know I was going to put in a driveway and I wanted to build a little retaining wall (there's a 2-3' slope) and then fill the remaining space between our lots with some nice plants to spruce up the place a bit (currently it's an empty lot with construction chain link around the lot) 

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He says, "So you're going to fight me for 2 feet?" And wanted me to get my landscapers to move his bricks for him.

So, basically saying he wouldn't move them and I said, "Let me talk to my guys and see what we can do."

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in the link is two images. one that shows the property line and another that shows my basic plans for the space.

[https://imgur.com/gallery/pn7P7ec](https://imgur.com/gallery/pn7P7ec)

His argument: "It's two feet and it's a big hassle for me to move these bricks and find another place to put my trashcans."

my Argument: "It's two feet and you should have thought of that before you decided to put your bricks and your trash bins on property that didn't belong to you. And how would you like it if I said 'How about we put all MY trash bins two feet over on YOUR side of the property line?'"

so, AITA?

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TL;DR My neighbor doesn't want to move his bricks or his trash bins off the property I bought.

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A: no
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Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Tonight my husband and I had an argument where we weren’t really understanding each other. We did manage to come to an understanding on some things, but not all. Afterwards I asked him if he would consider going to couples therapy and he got pissed off real quick. 


I tried to explain that i thought it would be helpful to help us communicate, and I didn’t suggest it because I thought there was something really wrong with us. 


He took it to mean that there’s something wrong with us, or I think in the future something will be really wrong with us, and he said if it comes to that then we should just spit up. I said eventually every couple gets to a hard place, and I wanted to try and prevent that by working on issues that COULD become bigger issues in the future. Lots of couples go to pre-marriage counseling to build a solid foundation in their relationship, and his response was they only go bc the church they want to marry in requires it. And what, I don’t think we have a good foundation? I don’t think we work well together?

Our relationship is really good but there are definitely areas where it could be improved, on both sides. Since it’s a lot of misunderstanding I really think an unbiased 3rd party would be helpful. He refuses to even consider it because he doesn’t want to, there’s nothing wrong with him and he didn’t have a fucked up childhood (like me, I am in my own therapy). He said I’ve been going to therapy 2 weeks (actually 3 months) and now I just know everything and think I’m always right. He also thinks he’s always right. 


Even though we’ve been okay now, that doesn’t mean these things won’t build into something way bigger later on. I think we could try and be a better couple with a high chance of success but he thinks we’re fine and now this means something’s wrong but still won’t consider counciling because it makes him uncomfortable. He got mad at me for “pushing” it and I’m the asshole for trying to make him do something I want that makes him uncomfortable. 

AITA? 

A: no
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Q: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I (28M) have known both women, we'll call them Amy(25) and Betty (25) for about six years. I used to have a thing for Amy when we first met, but nothing ever really came of it and we became really good friends. 

Betty and I dated for about half a year about four years ago, and separated due to her moving away to another state. We got back together about two years ago, and have since gotten married and had a beautiful son together.

Ever since Betty and I had gotten back together I don't really talk to Amy anymore. We maybe text each other a few times a month just to kinda keep in touch. Amy also lives in a different state than us.

My wife has always had a grudge against Amy even before we started dating though. They know each other, and Amy wasn't always the nicest person to my wife. Me and Amy remained close over the years. I even went to visit her a few times over the years when Betty and I weren't together. Amy and I also got matching tattoos together one of the times that I went to visit her.

My wife has said that she was okay with me talking to her now, but in the past she didn't want me to talk to her at all. I've always respected her opinion and always wanted to put our relationship first. I still feel she is uneasy about any communication I have with Amy, due to the fact that I had strong feelings for Amy in the past, and that we remained close all these years even when me and Betty weren't together.

So Reddit, am I the asshole?



A:
no
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