Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My gf and I have been together 3 years. My gf has been struggling with anxiety since middle school. She claims that the read receipts being turned on for our messages make her anxious. 

Here’s the thing. I’ve been under a lot of stress at school. Lately I have been falling asleep without texting her goodnight. It’s not a big deal to her, but it is to me. I make a point to text her good morning and good night. So I turned them on and she asked me why. I said it was so she would know if I fell asleep or something.

She told me they make her uncomfortable because she jumps to the conclusion that I am upset if she sees I read the text and didn’t respond. In the beginning of our relationship (I was definitely a dick to her and was borderline abusive. I have changed quite a bit since then) I would turn them on if i was mad at her to let her know I read the messages, but wasn’t going to respond. She claims that gave her a lot of anxiety, and for this reason, feels anxious when they are on. I told her she’ll get used to it.

Lately, she has not been texting me as much (we usually talk throughout the day), like 5 to 6 messages per day, and prefers to talk over the phone or in person. I think she is being childish and immature. AITA here?

Tl; dr: my gf hates read receipts and claims they give her anxiety. I turned mine on so she can know if I fall asleep at night. I think she’s being childish and immature, they’re just read receipts. She won’t text me as often anymore due to them being on.

Ex Output:
no


Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : So a few days ago, I was feeling a bit down. My lovely boyfriend noticed and offered to make dinner and watch a scary movie with me. He *really* doesn’t like horror as a general rule, especially anything gory. But just as I watch things that are more in his wheelhouse than mine (think historical documentaries), he’s happy to suck it up once in a while. 

I saw that Hereditary was on Amazon and asked if he was up for it. We had seen the trailer for it ages ago at another movie in theaters and I had mentioned I was excited about it. Beyond the trailer neither of us knew much about the movie so we hit play. 

About a half hour or so in, something pretty awful happens, I won’t spoil it for anybody who wants to watch it themselves. Suffice to say, my boyfriend did not take it well at all. He couldn’t look at the screen and started yelling things like “What is wrong with you?” and “How could you make me watch something like that?” 

I turned it off as soon as I realized how upset he was and tried to comfort him and apologize. He’s been a little rattled ever since, I think it really got to him. He’s been kind of cold to me and I do feel absolutely horrible, but I also kind of feel like he’s overreacting. AITA for picking the movie even though I was pretty confident he wouldn’t enjoy it?

Ex Output:
yes


Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Where do you draw the line with helping your family? Are my wife and I assholes?

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Throwaway because reasons...

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***The people:***

**My sister:** homeless (technically, but living in a trailer with her boyfriend), in need of mental health, and showing no signs of getting better. She left her children about a year ago, and shows no sign of improving or even taking steps to better herself as a person or a mother. She know she needs help, but refuses to go. There's always an excuse as to why "it isn't the right time". As such, this post is not about finding help for her. She has burned every bridge there is to burn, and she is well and truly on her own right now. With that said, she has a standing offer to be taken to a mental health facility 24-7, 365. She calls, we'll drop everyhing to be there. She's never called (and yes, she has the means to call).

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**The father:** a real piece of work. He's been in prison nearly the kids' entire life (about 8 years), and will serve around 8-10 more before he's up for parole. Granted, he has shown signs of healing and reform, but he is unlikely to ever be a part of the kids' lives due to the nature of his crime (which I will not get into here, but does fall under sexual abuse of a child).

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**My mother:** 71 years old, and although she's a bit of an enabler, bad with money, and doesn't listen to advice, she's a fucking saint. She let my sister and her kids live with her for over 10 years before she finally said "enough is enough" and kicked my sister out for good after years of verbal and physical abuse. The kids stayed with her, because she wasn't willing to make my sister's issues their problem. Mom is on a fixed income, bringing home about $1700/mo, including $500/mo in government benefits. She has power of attorney with the kids, but is not their legal guardian (yet). This impacts the level of assistance she can receive, but she barely makes ends meet (guardianship would change things a bit for the better, financially speaking). She is currently negotiating guardianship with my sister, and talks seem to be going well, but legally she could most likely get custody based on abandonment (this is in the state of Kentucky). My sister makes little to no effort to contact her children. Mom is also horrible with money, and while she doesn't spend frivolously, she has a hard time living within her means because she never learned to budget. We've been helping with that, but there's a long way to go. She currently has about $20k in debt that she's working to pay off, but high interest rates make that a considerable challenge. We've already paid off one card for her, and will likely pay off another for her in the spring (totaling about $1600).

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**The kids:** twins boys, 12 years old, and a little girl, 8 years old. All three are in therapy, and well taken care of by my mother and her boyfriend, despite their economic situation. The home is filled with love and laughter, and they make things work as best they can. They give her as hard a time as any kids that age, but the home life is fairly good considering their situation. It's not ideal, but it's working for now.

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**Paternal grandparents:** The grandmother is decent, the grandfather is an alcoholic and a suspected abuser. There are clues that he may be actively abusing the 8 year old girl, but there is no legal standing yet to remove their visitation rights. The situation is currently being investigated, and we're hopeful that they'll be removed from the picture within the next 30 days. My mother is keeping them from going over there with a variety of excuses while a therapist and social worker dig for more concrete proof of the suspected abuse.

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**My wife and me:** We're 42 (M) and 33 (F), no kids, and make a comfortable living. We travel when we want, have budgeted our retirement, and have worked hard to get here. We've busted ass to pay off all of our debt (which we did last year), and we plan to start trying for our own child within the next year. We help my mother with a monthly reloadable gift card (about $100/mo), and we take the kids for a weekend every couple of months (we live about 2 hours away). We've offered to serve as guardians if my mother were to pass away, as the thought of the paternal grandparents getting custody makes us sick to our stomach. Until my mother gets full guardianship, there's not much we can do except provide the occassional weekend away and some financial assistance. It has been stated that my sister is willing to turn over custody to her, but that has yet to happen.

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Truth be told, it's undeniable that those kids would be better off with us. We know that because we planned it as such for our own family...but where do you draw the line when it comes to helping your extended family? From my perspective, we have our own family to raise, protect, and provide for now. Why should we be responsible for my mother's mistakes, or my sisters? My wife and I have our own plans, and taking custody of any of those kids now would drastically alter them. It *feels* horribly selfish to say that, knowing that my sister's kids deserve the peace, stability, and every opportunity to succeed that we've worked hard to ensure we provide for our children....but are we assholes for not shifting that to my sister's kids? Where do we draw the line with assistance? Are we doing enough? Part of me wants to cut-off and ignore the Jerry Springer-esque horror show that is my family (seriously, it's that bad sometimes), but I know that I can't do that - I don't think I could live with myself if I did...but my wife and I have worked very hard to secure a stable future for our own family, and I don't want to be forced into taking on children that I didn't choose to have. I didn't have those kids. I didn't abandon them. I didn't choose to take care of them...am I an asshole for thinking that? Those kids didn't choose this either. Are we assholes for wanting our own child, but not taking my sisters kids as our own?

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TL;DR: My sister abandoned her kids and my mother is taking care of them. Are we assholes for wanting our own child, but not taking my sisters kids as our own?

Ex Output:

yes


