Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
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Question: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So, I know most of the stories on here are way more serious than this but here’s something to lighten it up I guess. 
So me and my friends have all been enjoying Super Smash Bros Ultimate (like any sane human). However, I’ve found myself becoming resentful towards my friend group. I wouldn’t consider myself an amazing player or anything, but I am definitely better than my friends who play. In a 1v1 scenario, I can usually win with most characters.  This doesn’t mean that they never beat me or anything, but I am just slightly above their skill level. The problem is that when I play with them, they always seem to team up on me. They will occasionally fight each other, but usually the battle goes like this.
1) They shoot projectiles at each other for 30 seconds and get one or two hits.
2) I hop in to try to actually fight them and not just fire off a projectile every five seconds.
3) They both spring into action and hit me up close as much as they can until I rack up damage and die. 
This is basically a rinse and repeat for every battle, every character. I don’t find it fun at all to sit on opposite sides of the stage and shoot at each other hoping you get a hit in for 10 minutes. I feel like they aren’t even playing the game, at least not the way it’s meant to. For this reason, I play with my friends less and less, and it doesn’t seem like they care anyways. This both makes me resentful and it hurts me because I don’t have many friends and I feel rejected by my group. So, AITA for feeing this way?

Answer: no


Question: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Firstly, sorry for formatting, am on mobile.

John and I have been friends since freshman year of school, so 10+ years. When we initially met, there was some flirting going on but nothing ever really came of it and we both started dating other people. So, not a big deal.

Once we graduated, we kinda drifted apart as most people do but still kept in touch from time to time. But for the last two years, it's been down to me wishing him a happy birthday. Literally in our chat was me saying happy birthday last year, him thanking me and me asking him how he's been. He left me on read for the year. Yesterday was his birthday so I again wished him a happy birthday. He read it and hasn't said anything. Not a huge deal normally, I get that people are busy and especially on their birthdays, are inundated with messages. But you can't even send a smiley? To someone you've known for 12 years? 

John and I used to be super close and yes we have drifted apart as adults but the lack of communication is just annoying. I've made a rule with myself to only have people on Facebook who I truly talk to and are active in each other's lives. He's made it obvious that Im no longer a part of his life.

So would I be the asshole to just remove him from my friends list? 

Answer: yes


Question: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Coming up in a couple weeks my wife wants to go with her mother to visit her grandparents, which is a few hours drive away, because her grandfather had surgery and is recovering. She wants me to go with her because I work a different schedule than her and we don't get as much time together as we'd like, I just happen to have the weekend off (I get off every other Fri-, Sat-, Sunday).

The only problem is, I don't want to spend the weekend at her grandparents with her mother. While I want to spend time with my wife I know the time will be spent sitting around her grandparents home. They live in a retirement village and for some reason the only thing around there is a Wal-Mart. I don't like the idea of being cooped up with her grandparents and mother (whom I get along with, just don't love extended periods of time with them).

My wife says we'll be spending time together, that's all that matters. But it's not just us spending time together, it's also her mother and grandparents. 

AITA for not wanting to go? 

Answer:
no


