Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

Q: CLAIM : The following post is HYPOTHETICAL. POST : I (16 year old guy) own a Nintendo Switch and recently bought the new Smash Bros game. My older cousin (24-26 year old guy) lives with me and my sisters in my mother’s house and does not own a Nintendo Switch. When I bought the new Smash Bros game I played it with my cousin a few times because I knew he liked Smash Bros and I used to play Smash Bros Melee with him whenever I went to his house when I was young. 

Recently my cousin has been inviting his friends over to hang out and play Smash Bros on my Switch. I first found out when I went downstairs to the kitchen to get some food when I heard him playing Smash Bros on my Switch with his friends in the living room. He never asked for permission to play with my Switch, but I brushed it off because I was busy doing homework at the time and just went down to the kitchen for a snack. This happened again a few times and now he invites his friends to come over once or twice a week and they play on my Nintendo Switch. I never really minded it, but recently when I was playing on my Nintendo Switch I noticed that one of my controllers was acting weird. I found out that one of the joysticks got a bit messed up and realized it was probably from when my cousin’s friends were using it. I also sometimes want to play on my Nintendo Switch but find my cousin and his friends using it so I play games on my computer instead even though I wanted to play a game on my Nintendo Switch. I tried bringing my Nintendo Switch up to my room instead of leaving it in the living room, but when his friends come over he comes to my room and asks if he can use it. I say yes when he asks because I am not using it whenever he asks and would feel guilty if I didn’t let him use it. I also don’t like being mean and don’t really like confrontation and would rather not hear “Why” if I say no. 

My cousin is a kinda nice guy. He has bought me lunch/dinner a few times after, but we don’t interact much because his room is in the basement while mine is upstairs. Whenever I am out of my room he is usually out of the house working or doing something.  

I feel like I would be a dick if I stopped letting him use it, but I own that system and bought it with my own money. Why should I have to stand aside like a little bitch whenever he wants to play on it with his friends? He hasn’t even offered to let me join while he plays with his friends. Meanwhile I let him join while I was playing Mario Kart online with a friend just yesterday. I had to play split screen so this fuck could get 8th place. 

Would I be the asshole if I told him that he can’t use my Nintendo Switch anymore?



A: yes
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Q: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : So around 2 weeks ago my girlfriend of nearly 3 years broke up with me. When we broke up she told me that she wanted to be alone because were going off to college next year. I accepted the breakup and tried to be friends with her, sitting next to her in class and talking to her in only that class. 
Around a week ago I get a text from a good friend of mine, one that I probably hang out with once a month outside of class and is also friends with my other good friends. He texts me that he is, “talking to my ex and does not know where this would end up”. At first I was totally cool with this as I knew they were friends and I was actually kinda happy that he would tell me this. However, word came out that they were hanging out more and more and then they officially started dating a few days ago (2 weeks after I broke up with her). I just felt so hurt in all of this and couldn’t help but feel so angry at both of them. 
My other friends and I talked about this and they agreed that it was a super shitty thing to do and that we no longer wanted to hang out with the one who is now dating my ex. 
So just recently I texted my ex because I needed something back and I confronted her on what she did (I know this probably wasn’t the right thing to do but I wanted to hear her side). She admitted that the real reason that she broke up with me was that she no longer loved me, not that she liked anyone else or wanted to be alone for college. The only real apology was for not telling the “real” truth about why we broke up. When she talked about dating my friend she said that she no longer had to care about my feelings and that it was her life. 
Am I the asshole for being furious at both my friend and my ex? 

A: no
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Q: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : A couple years ago, when I was 20, my female friend who was 2 years older than me invited me to come drink at her house. 
A little background. I was relatively new to drinking, having only had my first alcoholic beverage 4 months previous, and only having drunk a handful of times since then. I'd never been seriously drunk. She was an experienced drinker who drank several times a week (because college I guess) She asked me to bring a bottle of tequila, limes and salt, which I got from another friend.
I'd also recently had a breakup, like 2 months previous, with a girl that I'd swore up and down was my soulmate, having dated for 2 years up to that point. the ex was the only person I'd had sex with at the time. My friend, we'll call her Sara, had helped me get through it. We'd been friends for (I think) 7 years. It's hard to remember exactly how long because I have terrible memory for a lot of my childhood/adolescence. We'd always had a lot of fun together- we made each other laugh more than anyone else I've spent time with, and she helped me with a lot of personal problems. (We'd never considered a romantic or sexual relationship up to this point, though)


When I first got there, Sara's friend, we'll call her Amanda, was also there, but wasn't going to drink. Sara and I did a couple shots while shooting the shit, talking about dumb stuff that people make small talk about. When Sara invited me, she said said she'd make dinner but when I got there she just wanted to start drinking. Amanda left after about an hour and we started watching New Girl on her couch. She wanted to do shots, so I did more with her. In the course of just 4 episodes+the time that Amanda was there, I personally had done 7 shots. I think she did 5. I'm a 200 pound guy and she's a 160 pound girl, just to give an idea of how drunk we were.
It had been a really long day for me, so I kinda leaned on her while we watched NG, and at some point I fell asleep. We had always been pretty comfortable with consensual touching like hugs and light cuddling etc (but nothing sexual)  so I don't feel this was inappropriate of me. I guess she kept watching New Girl, but I woke with my head on her lap and her hand in my pants. Being very drunk, I took this as a sign that she wanted to get frisky. So I sat up and we sloppily made out. Since her hands were all up in my business, I assumed that reciprocating would be okay, and clumsily tried to start fingering her. She grabbed my hand and pulled it away, but kept making out with me. I thought she was teasing me, as she was still playing with my bits, so I tried to do it again a few minutes later. She pulled my hand away again and kept laughing at me. I'm really confused at this point. Does she want to have sex with me or not? So I kept kissing her, and she kept kissing me. I should mention she was biting and sucking my neck, which left EIGHTTEEN different hickeys (yes, I counted the next day. I was absolutely humiliated at work). After a while, she says "I can't have sex with you Jared", so I stop kissing her, stumble over to another room, and fall asleep on the floor.
The next day, everything seemed fine when I woke up except I had the worst hangover I'd had up to that point or ever since, so I woke her up. she kicked me out as soon as she woke up. 
We didn't talk for a long time. We had one short conversation a year later over text where everything seemed fine. But whenever I've seen her around, she gives me a nasty look then ignores me. I regret this event deeply- it ruined a strong friendship that I'd had for a long time. It's also ruined friendships with mutual friends that we had, one of which thinks I tried to rape Sara and won't even listen to my side of the story.AM I the asshole for trying to have sex with Sara?

A:
yes
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