Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : This was fourth of July, last year (17 months ago) when I was at a party with my girlfriend and her friends. One of which, was a MTF transgender (Pre-Op, 6 Months hormones), and dating her another one of her friends. This was the first or second time I met her friends, and I didn't know the proper protocol for pronouns with Transgender people. That being said, I made sure to use the They/Them/Theirs pronouns for the party. I thought everything went perfect up until about a month later. Apparently I had "Aggressively Misgendered" this individual during the party, which I found odd because I barely spoke to them and was not aware of any hostile actions or ill intentions the whole day. The only time that I can think of it happening was when we were playing a video game, and I used the ambiguous, "Get him" and "great hit dude" that I would use regardless of Gender. 

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I do concede that I should have asked the individual which pronouns they prefer and attempted to follow their preference, however I was also never corrected and was instead ostracized from the rest of her friend group.

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AITA for feeling like I should have been corrected instead of passively being mad towards?

Ex Output:
yes


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Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway account

My GF(25F) and I(26M) agree that her family has issues with picking favorites. The brother has had 2 cars bought for him. My GF's sister has had one car given to her. My GF was the first in her family to have to take a loan out for a car. Oldest brother had 5 years of college paid for, neither of the sisters did. Took an extra 4 years for my GF to get her license because she's the only child her parents didn't teach - she eventually saved enough money for an instructor. 

GF just finished college and is trying to get a job together so she can scrape up enough money to make payments on school/car loans, and move out of their house and in with me - but as a teacher where we are it's been difficult. 

Recently, my GF's mom had to give up her drinking addiction, but now the parents are taking vacations 1-2 times a month to go gamble. I can tell this has been affecting my GF. Especially because they ask my GF to "babysit" their dog. By the time they ask (maybe a day or two in advance) they've already planned the vacation and have "no other options" at this point. So my GF has to cancel any of her plans and stay at their house so they can go gamble. I've told her to just say no, but her parents are very good at convincing her. 

The final straw came when my GF told me that her family was leaving to go gamble for the three days before Christmas. She'd be stuck at home alone watching a dog for 3 days, while I'm busy with the holiday plans that were already made. 

We both agree that when she moves out she'll be much happier. My real question is about the fact that I didn't go to Christmas at her parents' house. I felt that they chose gambling over family, and would do so again in a heartbeat. I also felt that SOMEONE had to tell them "No". 

I let my GF know ahead of time that I wouldn't go, that I didn't feel comfortable around her family, and that I was sorry that she was caught in the middle of it. I've also expressed a number of times that I think her family is still suffering from different forms of addiction and I think her agreeability is helping enable it. 

She was already upset that she'd be stuck alone, and was feeling down about her family. We planned to celebrate Christmas at both families' houses on Christmas. She still came to my family, and has been very upset that I didn't come to hers. 

Since then she's said that she's not going to tell me anything about her family any more, which I think also means she doesn't have anyone to vent to. Should I have put these feelings aside for one day and spent a few hours with her family? Or am I justified acting on the things she tells me about her family? 

Ex Output:
no


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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For the reddit secret Santa exchange, there are very simple rules. Spend around 20 USD (more if you want), actually send your gift to your person, confirm the receipt of your gift. You can elect to match with people from a different country if you want, but there’s a big warning that international shipping can be quite expensive that you must acknowledge. 

I signed up be to an international reddit secret Santa this year, primarily because I thought it would be really fun and interesting to give / receive a little unfamiliar culture with some international neighbors. 

I did a ton of research into my match’s country, figured out what they do and do not have access to there, and sent a little of what their particular interest was along with a little culture from my country. 

I had a blast being a Santa! I had a ton of fun doing the research and learning about their culture, the things they are into, etc. It was quite expensive to ship from my country to theirs (around 80 USD), but I kind of expected that, and reddit did have a *very explicit* warning about this, so no worries there. 

As much fun as I had gifting (believe me, It was a ton of fun), I was just as excited to have an encounter with someone outside of my country. When my gift was marked as shipped, I was super excited. I spent a ton of time tracking what times they accessed my information, when stuff was marked as shipped, etc to try to figure out where they were from. 

It took roughly a week for me to see the tracking number. Seeing where it entered my country, I was trying even more to try to figure out where it came from based on geography and international flights, etc. I was so excited. 

Then I received my gift. It was from a local vendor, nothing that I wouldn’t have been able to pick up from any local shop. Didn’t seem to be very thoughtful, even for a domestic gift. Where I thought the package entered my country is actually where it originated. 

Don’t get me wrong, I am very appreciative that someone spent the time and money to get something for me. The cost is irrelevant to me, i know that there is a ~20 USD recommendation and all of that. What I was excited about was receiving something, ya know, foreign. What’s the point of signing up to participate internationally if you’re not going to share something special with another part of the world? 

Am I the asshole for being disappointed / was I expecting too much? 

Ex Output:

no


