Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I’m from the UK, my friend is from the west coast of the US, and we’re both university students. I was super excited when I heard a few weeks ago that she’s visiting the UK and staying with her bf who I think is stationed at some kind of army camp, I’m not really sure. She’s staying with him, quite a long way from me, but a much closer distance than UK-west coast USA so I was psyched to visit them and meet this bf who I’ve heard a bit about but never met in person.

She’s only going to be in the UK for just over a week and her bf was concerned about them not getting enough couple time together, so I picked out a flight and then a train down to their city and the same back the next day, which meant I’d see her for less than 24 hours. She said that sounded great and I booked it, but even with student discounts and choosing all the cheapest options it cost me about £110 in all. I don’t know when I’ll next be able to afford going to the US so I figured it was worth it.

About two hours after I’ve paid for all the travel, she messages me saying that her bf still thinks &lt;24 hours is still too much time, and asked if I’d be able to cancel. Because I’m a student, and therefore picked out the cheap options, my train will have a £10 cancellation fee and the airline website says no refunds at all, though I am going to ring in the morning to try my luck. I’m not hopeful though, and I think I might be at least £95 out of pocket for a failed trip. That’s easily a whole month’s worth of utility bills and food expenses for me, I was prepared to pay that much to see a good friend that I rarely get to spend time with, but I can’t go around dropping that on nothing.

I’m going to ring the airline in the morning and check if I could get a refund for the ticket but if I that doesn’t work out, WIBTA for asking for her bf to pay me back?
no

CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : This should be short and to the point, and I don't want to give away any personal details like our school or major. I use to be cool with this guy at a university i attend. we have the same major so we occasionally get into the same classes and would sit next to each other. He gets good grades and comes across and very successful in our field, but I know for a fact that he cheats on all of his test. He will either tuck a cheat sheet under/on his lap or just copy answers from someone when the professor isn't looking. After the last test I reported him to the professor. Nothing has been done about it yet, but he will (hopefully) be watch much closer during the next test.

I feel bad about it because we used to be close and he has a wife and newborn baby, but I'm sick of seeing people who cheat making to the top while the rest of us work our asses off just to get by. I'm not sure what will happen if he gets caught on the next test, but i assume he will fail the course and reported to academic affairs.
no

CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Am I the asshole for this?

Backstory: My best friend, my sister and I decided to all move in together. Shortly after, my best friend and I began dating. (I can feel the judgement waves, cringe, I know). So it went pear shaped, we broke up. Amicable. Spent time apart. I moved on with my life as soon as possible so that I didn't drag my entire existence into living with my ex and being miserable. We had been in the new house 1 week at this point. 

Now, I (was) friends with his ex girlfriend. They were still friends. It was all calm. Then, he starts bringing her over and not telling anyone. I wouldn't normally care but we aren't allowed locks on our doors, he has since also left her in the house on her own. She's a snooper.

My sister starts an argument over text one night as he brings her into the house and tries to sneak her past me, while I'm standing in front of them both. This is probably the 4/5th time she's been here, and the 2nd time I've seen her walk through the door. This argument blows up. He calls me a drunk, says he does everything for us. 

Side note: I paid for all bills, shopping, sofas, TV, furniture, cleaned the whole house several times a week, because I was short on rent. I paid back in full. Also don't drink that often, I just had a fair amount of alcohol gifted all at once.

 It gets to me saying no one will stay at the house other than my sister's long term boyfriend (because she stays at his half the week, he's earned some live time in our place). He drops the bomb that his ex is now his fiance and she should be allowed to stay whenever she likes for however long she likes. I also knew it was her texting us (she excessively uses emojis, he doesn't).

We all agree that everyone will be made aware of visitors staying in the house beforehand. This brings more argument from the girlfriend, but we get agreement. 

Every single weekend at 10:30pm I get a text saying she is coming over. Ok cool. He asks to have other friends over, I say yes, but I would like a weekend at some point without guests. He agrees. It's been 3 months. That weekend never came. 

My sister has been staying at her boyfriends for 3 weeks (he had surgery). Finally, she comes home. Girlfriends car is outside the house. It's midnight, no text. He locked us out of the house, despite knowing we would both be home that night. They got engaged less than 2 months together after 3 years apart. She's a manipulative person, and in turn makes him a messy shit because they know it annoys me.

We had an inspection last Saturday, and they were going at it until 20 minutes before the landlord arrived. His week to clean, nothing done, I'm running around like a headless chicken cleaning because he hasn't done anything.


I'm a uni student with a part time job. Weekend evenings are the one time I would like to be gross in my own home.


If you're still reading, I'm sorry. Am I the asshole for even asking him not to have her over?

TLDR; ex bf gets engaged to his ex gf. Cause major arguements in the house. 

yes

