Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Hello people of reddit, first time poster, recent reader and a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you all!

So I'll try (and most likely fail) to keep this short and sweet. Every year, my family travel out to my Uncle's house a couple of days before Christmas to get together and celebrate in our own way, so we can spend time with our partners, wives, husbands, children etc

Now for most of us its about a 2 hour, 130km (85 miles for those in the U.S) drive. This year I was tasked with being my Aunt to the party. Now unfortunately she is the WORST backseat driver because if you go over walking speed, she freaks out and starts screaming and yelling at you to slow down.

For the record, shes perfectly able to drive herself, but doesnt like to drive anywhere she doesnt know

Needless to say, I wasn't looking forward to this as it would turn a 2 hour drive into a 3 hour drive.

So I pick her up, and drive slowly, and save one or two complaints about the weather, its actually a very nice trip, until we get to the motorway/highway.........now in my country, there is a minimum speed limit on the motorway of about 50kph/30mph, this is a legal requirement and you can get stopped by the Police for going under it.

So we get on the motorway and she immediately starts freaking out. Shaking, asking me to slow down, blessing herself, screaming when a car goes past etc.

So to try and keep her happy, I slow down to about 50kph and talk to her, explain that this is as slow as I can go but that shes safe and that we're going to get there safe and sound.

Unfortunately this does nothing and she keeps ordering me to slow down, slow down, SLOW DOWN!! Even slapping me on my arm. At this point, I warned her to keep her hands to herself and just kept driving.

We continue on for a few more minutes and she keeps telling me to pull over, which you can't do on a motorway outside of an emergency, I ask why and she wont give a reason, so I keep on driving, at which point she grabs the steering wheel and pulls it causing me to cut across a lane of traffic and grind against a guard rail, which also tears off my wing mirror.

By some minor miracle I dont crash and get back in control before coming to a stop, but not before having to physically restrain her to keep her hands off the steering wheel.


 At this stage, I dont feel safe with her in the car so I pull off the motorway into a service station and kick her out of the car along with her suitcase, after taking photos of some of the damage to the car itself. And off to the party I go, despite her very vocal objections.

Now most of the family are angry at me for leaving her all on her own at the service station, and she has been trying to get me to cover the taxi and hotel fare she had to pay to stay at a local hotel.

So Reddit, I ask for your Judgment, am I the asshole?

A: no
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Q: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Some context: I've had a medical problem for over a month, which I'm not dealing with properly and is very noticeable, but is not harmful or painful to me.
And  usually once a month, me and a few family members meet for lunch at random restaurants during our work breaks.

To the story: Today was one of the days where we'd meet up for lunch. One of the family members messaged me an hour before the break to notify me they'll be coming to a restaurant just next to my work place. 
Knowing they'll berate me over the course of the entire meal, and having little temper because of previous arguments over the my medical condition. I told them that I'd come on one condition - Anything related to my condition and how I'm handling it stays outside the door. They took it as a joke, and the conversation abruptly ended.

Two hours later, and during lunch break, my phone goes nuts, and so do the family members. They're mad I didn't go with them, as they traveled 40 minutes to have lunch with me.

AITA for refusing to go to lunch with my family, and not making it extra clear I wouldn't be going?

For anybody concerned about my condition, ive already decided to go to a professional.

A: yes
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Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So this happened a while back.. me and 4 other friends have a group chat. Two of the people in the group chat used to be friends but stopped being friends after he got roasted in the group chat. Let’s call them friend 1 and friend 2. 

So some background friend 1 has a tendency to joke around with us not taking too much seriously and friend 2 takes things very seriously to a point that we can’t joke around with him that much without him getting triggered. The 2 other friends and I decided that we were not gonna make any jokes at his expense but friend 1 decided not to do that. 

He knows that friend 2 gets triggered very easily so he goes in on a tirade of making jokes at his expense. Tbh the jokes were pretty dumb but as we predicted friend 2 got really triggered to the point of leaving the group chat and blocking friend 1 on every social media. 

So a couple of weeks go by and me and friend 1 are sitting at a fast food place eating. I get up to go to the bathroom and leave my phone on the table. Friend 1 decides to grab my phone and call friend 2 to try to mess with him some more. (Me and friend 2 are still friends at this point.) I come back from the bathroom and friend 1 tells me what he did. I start to get a parade of texts from friend 2 insulting me and calling me irresponsible and that I have not respect for myself by letting friend 1 use my phone. I tell him that It wasn’t my fault I was in the bathroom but at this point friend 2 was really triggered. He told me that he had enough and that I needed to do something about friend 1. At this point I was also pretty angry with both friend 1 and friend 2 for trying to involve me in their dumb beef. So I told the I’m not picking any sides and both of them needed to deal with their own problems. Friend 1 was fine with that but friend 2 was not. He continued insulting me on text so I decided to just block him for the day.

So AITA here? There’s a lot of history and detail with both of the friend’s beef that would make this post really long... it honestly gets pretty awkward sometimes so I never take either of their sides.



A:
no
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