Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Q: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I just wanna say, I am fine with people using bases. That's what they are for. But this situation was different.

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Right so basically, I was in a discord server with about 4 other people. These people knew each other in real life, so they were very close with each other. Let's call them Chloe, Sam, Jill, and Tim. Anyways, there was a channel in the discord for art. Someone would show off their art and everyone else would compliment the art. But Chloe's art was a bit suspicious.

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Her digital art looked very nice. Very good anatomy. That didn't bother me. But when I went to look at the art on her Instagram, something didn't add up. Her traditional art was very poor compared to her digital art. That's when I figured out she was using bases. But I decided to keep quiet since I might not have all the facts. Perhaps everyone else knew that she used bases and I was just out of the loop.

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A few weeks later she shows another piece of art and Sam compliments the anatomy. That was a red flag. I felt that these people didn't know that she was using bases. I guess it ticked me off that she was basically claiming that all the art was her's. Someone worked hard on making these bases, it didn't feel right. So I went on the internet and found the base. Then I basically exposed her. I didn't want to go all out so I tried to casually bring it up.

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Me: That's a nice base... who made it? (I suppose maybe this could have come off as a bit rude)

Jill: That's a base?!

Tim: Dude...

Sam: I don't think that's a base?

Tim: That doesn't matter.. you don't call someone out like that

Sam: They were just asking an innocent question

Me: Yeah!

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Chloe ended up leaving the server. But she ended up coming back a few days later. We ignored the incident but every once in a while Chloe or Tim would call call me an asshole or something like that. So, am I the asshole?

A: yes
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Q: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So my fiance has joined the national guard and she went off to basic training for a few months when she got back she mentioned that some guys had flirted with her during the process, now I trust her completely and I honestly am not very worried that she would be unfaithful, but I don't trust the guys, and honestly I know if I was there they wouldn't flirt with her, because the ring on her finger but a physical person to support the ring would deflect the flirtation, at least I think, so I feel this anger at being helpless to stop it. She showed them her ring and said shes taken, and really I'm more asking am I an asshole in general? Does wanting to fight a man who flirts with your fiance and tells her that a ring isn't important asshole behavior or is it understandable and alright? One in particular called her "Shawty" which really irks me, I get that shes not gonna tell him to call him something different, and she had flirtatious nicknames since she is a girl surrounded by physically deprived men, but still, does my over the top anger classify as asshole behavior?

Sorry for the mobile formatting
TLDR: My girlfriend is far away and I can't stop men from flirting with her and that makes me feel violent

A: no
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Q: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So, I will preface this with that my friend has never expressed or even hinted at these jokes offended or hurt him, laughed at them when I told them, and even made them about himself.

This friend had yet to retake an exam, which has resulted in him being sent out of the room several times while the teacher explained test problems. He came back in from one of those sessions asking if he had a grade in the grade book.

“Right now,” the teacher said, “You have a big fat zero.” 

I muttered that the big fat zero suited him, but I muttered it a little louder than intended and the friend heard it. He chuckled a bit at it, but it was drowned out by two female students next to me screaming that it was rude.

“OMG SO RUDE!” they bawled. 

Without their input and help from them, the teacher would not have known that anything had been said. The friend stayed silent while the teacher offered me a chance to apologise. The problem here was that apologising would not be saying sorry to the friend; he was clearly fine with the joke. Apologising would be saying sorry for offending the drama queens with a joke not directed at them. Thus, I refused the offer.

AITA for telling the joke? Refusing to apologise?

A:
yes
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