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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : For context, this was my first appointment with him and this happened a few hours ago. Lately my eyesight's been going blurry on-and-off and I've been getting some nasty headaches here and there. He thought my eyesight is fine but instead I just suffer from migraines in general. He started listing off certain things that could cause someone to be more prone to migraines, one of which being drugs. I'm 16 now, and I've never touched drugs or had a sip of alcohol but he kept pushing drugs more than anything else he was talking about.

He was very clearly one of those old-fashioned folk, he kept starting all his lines with "This generation always *this*" and "This generation always *that*." (He's 72 to clear that up) Some of the things that he said were things like bad food choices, genetics (familial history of migraines), screen addiction, drugs, obesity. 

He kept trying to talk to me, something that I somewhat found annoying but not enough for me to lash out. He asked me what I thought about Donald Trump and frowned when I said I didn't mind him (don't bother me about this please). In general he seemed super stubborn about his ideologies and thoughts and whatever he thought was right.

One line he said that really got me was "So maybe you shouldn't do any more drugs if you want to keep the migraines from getting worse."

After that I said  "Do you think I'm doing drugs?"

"I didn't say that, I'm saying your generation is more likely to suffer from migraines because of your higher drug use."

My mom intervened before it could go any further and she apologized for my behavior and then berated me as we drove home. He didn't say much after I said that before saying I should get some glasses that could make migraines easier to deal with. 

I do somewhat feel bad but I don't think I did anything wrong, it was moreso my mom guilting me into thinking I did something wrong. AITA?
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no


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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Ok, my parents are at the very end of their divorce. My dad has always been an ass but he's my dad so I just tried to ignore things.

When my mom left my dad about a year and a half ago, she moved in with me and my husband and actually acted as nanny for my first child who was born about 3 weeks after she moved in.

Things got difficult with my dad because he said I enabled my mom to leave him because I let her move in with me. Once my daughter reached a year old, we put her into a daycare/school so that she could continue to grow socially and get education (my mom is not a teacher or anything). This also allowed my mom to go "back to work" and get a job (she was working full time for us and we did pay her). My dad has made it very clear that he thinks this wasn't a real job and that she should have gotten a job making more money.

At Christmas, I tried to reach out to my dad to see him and exchange gifts, let him see is granddaughter, etc... He lives about 4 hours away and has barely spent any time with my daughter since she was born (he refuses to be anywhere my mom is... We have made trips up to see him without my mom and he came down to see us once). 

Anyways, he refused to return my text messages regarding Christmas so I basically said that I tried and it was on him if he wanted to see his granddaughter. 

We we're actually in town and went to pick up my sister for our Christmas trip (she was carpooling with us to Colorado). She lives with my dad whenever not in school so I figured I could give him his gifts when we went to pick her up. 

He refused to accept my gifts and ended up throwing them at my head as I walked back down the driveway. I have not spoken to him since. He has also made no attempt to reach out to me. I am now pregnant with my second child and don't feel as though I need to include him in any way. I haven't even told him I was pregnant. Either my sister told him or he found out in family court (they are still working on finalizing the divorce). 

Either way, it's been a week since the court date and he has still not reached out. I am ok with this as I feel like he shouldn't get to be a part of my life or more importantly, my kids lives. I had to deal with so much emotional garbage from growing up with him that I don't think it is a loss for my children to not have to put up with it.

AITA for depriving my kids of their grandfather?
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no


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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : My wife is someone who like to think she's very observant. She will leave a hangout with friends and say something like "I think Ellen is going to leave John. She ..." and then give an example of something Ellen did to give her the idea. It's not always based on reason, but sometimes on what she calls her "intuition." So obviously sometimes she's wrong. She never remembers these times, only the ones where she got something right. 

I usually just listen and smile and nod and let her have her theories and superstitions. It's usually harmless. She keeps a little notebook of them and says some day she might write a mystery novel or something, which makes it worth it to humor her. 

We live in a pretty nice building, but it's a little older so there are some quirks. About a week ago, she told me that while she was in the elevator, she got a weird feeling and that the "lights flickered" or something like that. She said she thinks it's a good idea if we avoided using the elevator and let the super know. I said "Ok dear" basically and went about my day.

Well turns out she was right this time. How do I know? On my way up with the groceries from the garage, I got in the elevator... and got stuck. Someone had gotten in between our floor and the garage and we both got stuck in there right after the doors closed. We were stuck in there for about an hour. 

When I told my wife, she asked me why I went in the elevator after she warned me. I told her that I wasn't going to make myself walk up 3 flights of stairs with groceries if I didn't have to, and that after we told the super he didn't see fit to change the elevator to out of order. I told her I wasn't going to put my life on hold because if a "feeling" she had that something "might" happen. 

She got hurt by this and has been laying low for the past few days. I saw that she was talking about it with her friend on twitter and just had to toll my eyes because she paints me as some big villain. 

I don't think I'm some big villain or that it's wrong of me to base my life around facts and things I can prove. But am I?
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no


