Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Some background: 
My ex and I split up about 6 months ago and I moved in with my mom. While pregnant we moved in together I gave him 15k to pay off his debt so his credit would improve (since I have none), helped with repairs of the place we were leasing, furnished it and paid for most of day to day needs. We had agreed he would pay me back 500 per month, which would go back into savings to eventually buy a place. 

I had a high risk pregnancy so I stopped working and eventually ran out of savings. Even though I helped manage his business I never received compensation or any repayment of the debt. When I moved out I took most of the furniture, but left the washing machine (which he sold and didn't tell me about until I asked for it since I wanted to sell it to pay for my car registration).  Whatever money my father sent would be spent on clothes for the baby, groceries or help with payments of his car (I own mine, he got a brand new one 3 days after our baby was born). You get the picture... 

Present dilemma:
His credit card is still linked to my paypal and amazon accountd to pay for formula and diapers, which is the only things he pays for. I pay for everything else, except on the random occasion where he spends 40/50 dls on clothes for her, or her $200 convertible carseat that he purchased in november. We had talked about buying a good stroller, and he agreed to pay for half. I really wanted a good stroller since I have purchased two regular ones and have found them to run down fairly quickly. His half of the stroller would be 250 dls, and the stroller just went on sale for 450. I asked him to buy it before the sale was over, instead of giving me the 200 he owed from the washing machine he sold. We had a fight about an unrelated topic regarding his control issues, and now he is refusing to pay for the stroller, says he will give me the 200 later. Knowing him, he is hoping I forget. 

So, will I be the asshole if I just order the stroller using his card? 

TL/DR: Baby's father doesn't pay for much but I have access to his credit card, will I be the asshole if I it to pay for a stroller he had previously agreed on but refuses to get because I reminded him of money he owes me? 
yes

Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway account

My GF(25F) and I(26M) agree that her family has issues with picking favorites. The brother has had 2 cars bought for him. My GF's sister has had one car given to her. My GF was the first in her family to have to take a loan out for a car. Oldest brother had 5 years of college paid for, neither of the sisters did. Took an extra 4 years for my GF to get her license because she's the only child her parents didn't teach - she eventually saved enough money for an instructor. 

GF just finished college and is trying to get a job together so she can scrape up enough money to make payments on school/car loans, and move out of their house and in with me - but as a teacher where we are it's been difficult. 

Recently, my GF's mom had to give up her drinking addiction, but now the parents are taking vacations 1-2 times a month to go gamble. I can tell this has been affecting my GF. Especially because they ask my GF to "babysit" their dog. By the time they ask (maybe a day or two in advance) they've already planned the vacation and have "no other options" at this point. So my GF has to cancel any of her plans and stay at their house so they can go gamble. I've told her to just say no, but her parents are very good at convincing her. 

The final straw came when my GF told me that her family was leaving to go gamble for the three days before Christmas. She'd be stuck at home alone watching a dog for 3 days, while I'm busy with the holiday plans that were already made. 

We both agree that when she moves out she'll be much happier. My real question is about the fact that I didn't go to Christmas at her parents' house. I felt that they chose gambling over family, and would do so again in a heartbeat. I also felt that SOMEONE had to tell them "No". 

I let my GF know ahead of time that I wouldn't go, that I didn't feel comfortable around her family, and that I was sorry that she was caught in the middle of it. I've also expressed a number of times that I think her family is still suffering from different forms of addiction and I think her agreeability is helping enable it. 

She was already upset that she'd be stuck alone, and was feeling down about her family. We planned to celebrate Christmas at both families' houses on Christmas. She still came to my family, and has been very upset that I didn't come to hers. 

Since then she's said that she's not going to tell me anything about her family any more, which I think also means she doesn't have anyone to vent to. Should I have put these feelings aside for one day and spent a few hours with her family? Or am I justified acting on the things she tells me about her family? 
no

Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : To give you some background, I am 17 and I live with my Mum. My older brother is 19 and lives in my Dad's apartment (Dad not currently in town.) Because of unpaid rent, my brother will get evicted and have to find somewhere to live.  He could call our Dad and find another place, but I doubt he will be much help. So my mother feels bad and wants him to live with us. I would honestly not mind it, but I despise how my brother acts.

He used to have a medical condition and I used to sometimes look after him. He treated me with belittlement and entitlement ever since. He always thought I was inferior to him and owed him something. I could've ignored him instead of spending hours every day tending to his needs. But after all I did for him for years, he was never grateful or thankful for anything I did. I only did it because I truly cared for him.

My brother is also a slob and a high school dropout. He acts like a king and expects to be treated as such. He gets me in trouble because he always takes things personally, especially jokes. Because of his condition, he got a free pass for every thing he did. He is spoiled and a Daddy's boy as well. My brother is just a useless prick with no job or direction in life. Last time I saw him months ago, he almost started a physical fight with me. I can tell that he hates me and does not care.

And now I am supposed to welcome him with open arms into my house and once again have to put with his shit. Fuck that. My home is where I am comfortable and in peace, I will not have that taken away. But my Mum probably thinks I am heartless because I don't want anything to do with him. But she has also not seen what I have seen.

So am I the asshole for not helping him out? I know that he is my brother and all, but I just can't do it.

no

