Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

[Q]: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Whew, this is a long one. I apologize in advance. So I'm a female college student who is currently in her third year of school. My freshman year of college I met two girls who became my best friends. We were pretty much inseparable -- we were very close, talked in a group chat all the time, hung out constantly, you name it. We decided to live together during our sophomore year. Everything was fine for the first semester. I really enjoyed living with my best friends and we had a lot of fun.

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Here's where things get a little complicated, so I'll try to firstly give some backstory. One of my friends (let's call her B) was in a long-distance abusive relationship when we met her during our freshman year. The guy she was dating checked all the boxes of an emotional abuser -- he was manipulative, controlling, and called her names. I witnessed this stuff firsthand. He cheated on her a few months into college and they had a long, drawn-out breakup that was full of tears and drama. They went through a 4-5 month long period where they cycled through breaking up, getting back together, and cheating on each other. My other friend (let's call her F) and I were there for her through this whole process, though admittedly, it was pretty hard to watch. We were genuinely never anything less than supportive. B was really affected by the abuse she had undergone and I understand that getting out of a toxic relationship/ending the cycle of abuse is hard.

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Back to sophomore year. B had been out of her abusive relationship for over a year but confided in us several times that she wasn't really over it. She acknowledged the fact that she missed her ex and still cried about the situation a lot. Around this time, she got a new boyfriend, and while we were open-minded at first, he turned us off really quickly. He was super quiet around us and gave off sort of an angry vibe. We chalked it up to being shy at first, but we kept inviting him to things and it never really got better. B started spending all of her time with her boyfriend and she practically stopped talking to us. Each of us reached out a few times and she basically said she was in a depressive episode and needed time to herself.

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So that was what we gave her. We still invited her to things (though she always said no) and tried reaching out to her at least a few times a week. While she ignored us she posted constantly about her boyfriend on social media... and I'm literally not even exaggerating. I mean, every single day, I'd see four snapchat stories of his face plastered with heart stickers, Tweets, and Facebook posts. No joke, I had several mutual friends contact me and ask why B was posting about her boyfriend so much. It hurt F and I's feelings that B had gone silent on us but was constantly with her new boyfriend. I also should mention that she would bring her boyfriend into our apartment and completely ignore us when we were there. She wouldn't even say hi. It made our apartment a really awkward and uncomfortable place to live. This boyfriend reminded us a lot of her abusive ex, which was scary. 

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After about a month of this, we staged an intervention and let her do most of the talking. We really didn't want to make it seem like we were ganging up on her. B basically said that she was going through a depressive episode and was having panic attacks every day. She said she posted about her boyfriend so much because she wanted to make it appear that she was feeling okay. She said she was scared to see us or talk to us because she valued our opinion so much. We asked her to work on getting professional help, making more of an effort with us, and cutting down on the posts. She agreed.

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I can confidently say that literally nothing came out of that interaction. In the month that followed, she actually ended up saying some pretty scary stuff, like "everyone would be better off without me." This resulted in us talking to our RA, who was then required to report what she had said, on two separate occasions. She got very angry at us both times we did this and told us we'd abused the resource. We tried not to take what she said to heart because we knew she was sick and we'd rather have an angry friend than a dead friend, but I'd be lying if I said we didn't get angry in response. I'm someone who really hates drama and confrontation (it literally makes me physically ill) and I felt like I'd done something that made me super uncomfortable and miss a day of work in order to help her, and she just lashed out at me. While F and I were trying to help, B just pulled closer to her boyfriend, who was isolating her. At this point, F and I figured that there was no way this guy was good for her. If I was dating someone and they were threatening suicide, I don't think that encouraging their isolation from their friends/family is a positive thing.

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Because the posts just wouldn't stop, F and I unfollowed B's boyfriend on social media. She messaged us about an hour later, and it was clear she was angry. She asked us why we did it and told us she knew we wouldn't understand what she was going through. F and I basically vowed to be done at that point. B reached out once more with the help of our RA to try to reconcile things with us. There wasn't a whole lot of apology on her part, and she maintained her accusatory tone throughout that whole conversation. She felt that we hadn't given her enough time to get her act together, hadn't given her boyfriend enough of a chance, and had abused our resources when she was threatening suicide. We felt that we just couldn't take it anymore and we expressed to her our desire to end the friendship. We moved out and have not spoken again since then.

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I've felt guilt about the situation ever since. Who's the asshole?
[A]: yes


[Q]: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : This should be short and to the point, and I don't want to give away any personal details like our school or major. I use to be cool with this guy at a university i attend. we have the same major so we occasionally get into the same classes and would sit next to each other. He gets good grades and comes across and very successful in our field, but I know for a fact that he cheats on all of his test. He will either tuck a cheat sheet under/on his lap or just copy answers from someone when the professor isn't looking. After the last test I reported him to the professor. Nothing has been done about it yet, but he will (hopefully) be watch much closer during the next test.

I feel bad about it because we used to be close and he has a wife and newborn baby, but I'm sick of seeing people who cheat making to the top while the rest of us work our asses off just to get by. I'm not sure what will happen if he gets caught on the next test, but i assume he will fail the course and reported to academic affairs.
[A]: no


[Q]: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Me and my friend went for a meal in a different town and the day went quite well.

Before we began to go home, he started rolling a joint. I don't like that kind of stuff so I asked him to wait until we get home to do it, he then says he needs a "fucking joint". He lit it and I couldn't bare the smell so I went to my car and drove off.

We were quite far from home and he's not the best with money (his balance is usually £100) so he's mad at me because he had to spend £80 for a taxi home.

I'm a relatively new driver so I didn't want to lose my license plus I can't stand the smell. 

What this mean to leave him there?

TL;DR: I asked my friend to avoid drugs on a day out, he proceeds to do it so I leave him stranded forcing him to pay £80 to get home.
[A]:
yes


