CHICAGO ---Call it a reward, or just "bribery ". 

Whichever it is, many parents today readily admit to buying off their children, who getgoodies for anything from behaving in a restaurant to sleeping all night in their own beds. 

That's what worries parenting experts. 

"I think that reward systems have a time and a place and work really well in certain situations," says Marcy Safyer, director of the Adelphi University Institute for Parenting. 

"But what often gets lost for people is being able to figure out how to communicate to their kids that doing the thing is rewarding enough," Safyer says. 

Parents and experts alike agree that thedynamic is partly a reflection of the world we live in. It's unrealistic to think a parent wouldn't reward their children with material things sometimes, says Robin Lanzi, a clinical psychologist and mother of four who's the research director at the Center on Health and Education at Georgetown University. 

"But you want to make sure that they match the behavior, so it's not something huge for something small," Lanzi says. 

She recalls hearing about a father who offered his child a Nintendo Wii game system for scoring a couple goals in a soccer game. 

Elizabeth Powell, a mother of two young daughters in Austin, Texas, knows what she means. 

"You want to raise them in a way that they're respectful and appreciate things," Powell says of her children. "But sometimes, you wonder now if kids appreciate even a new pair of shoes. "

Based on the article and the following list of answers, write a list of questions.

1. Nintendo Wii game system
2. soccor
3. Two
4. no
5. young
6. unknown
7. Austin, Texas
8. clinical psychologist
9. Four
10. Georgetown University.
11. research director
12. Marcy Safyer
13. yes
14. Adelphi University Institute for Parenting.
15. director
16. unknown
17. yes
18. a new pair of shoes. "
19. yes
20. yes
1. What did a dad offer his kid for scoring some goals?
2. What game was the kid playing?
3. How many kids does Elizabeth Powell have?
4. Are they both boys?
5. Are they young or old?
6. Will they die in some traumatic event?
7. Where does Elizabeth live?
8. What's Robin Lanzi do for a living?
9. How many kids does she have?
10. Where does she work?
11. What's her official title there?
12. Who thinks that a reward system has a time and a place?
13. Does she think it works really well in some circumstances?
14. Where does she work?
15. What's her title?
16. Does Powell think kids should be respectful?
17. Does Powell also want to raise kids to appreciate things, in addition to being respectful?
18. What's an example of something she thinks kids should appreciate getting?
19. Do experts think it's worrisome to reward kids for sleeping all night in their own beds?
20. What about for behaving in a restaurant?