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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : This is a little more complicated than just selling my home. For starters, my in-law's donated my wife and I some property. We didn't pay anything for it, it's legally ours(went through an attorney). We bought a double wide mobile home for $38,000. We used $12,000 of our money to move the home, set up, electrical, permits, etc. So, the only thing we got a loan for was $38,000.

We have lived there for about six years now and it was a starter home for us and we're ready to move. I got the home/land appraised for $140,000. My wife and I were planning on selling the home for $125,000, give my in-laws $30,000 for the land, pay off our existing loan and wife's car note so we would be debt free, and put the rest down on another home. I did some research on the land value and it was around $17,000.

Now, my father in-law said he would like to buy the home, but for the price we paid for it, which again is $38,000. My mother in-law said she would do $50,000 to include the money we spent to get the house moved, etc, but my father in-law is against that. He wants to buy it to use as a rental investment.

They are complaining that since they gave us the land, that we shouldn't sell it unless it's to them for what we paid for it. 
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Let me start by saying I used to be a pizza delivery guy, so I worked for tips and completely understand how it can be. So when I get pizza delivered, or I'm at a restaurant sitting at the table with a waitress/waiter I tip really well. Usuaully at LEAST 25%. 

Having said that, when I get a carry-out order, or the one that annoys me the most, when I go into a regular deli or something and order at the register, I never tip. In fact I actually get annoyed at the second one. I just ordered a sandwich at a deli and there was a tip jar sitting there and the receipt asked for a tip. 

WHY?? 

I worked in retail for countless years and never even remotely asked for a tip. Why the fuck is it somehow OK for it to be different because food? 

TL;DR: Am I the asshole for not tipping when I order food at a damn register, or get carry-out?
answer:
yes


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I'm sure many of you know the struggle, even if you're not super tech savvy. There are still lots of people out there who, despite using modern technology each and every day, have yet to learn how to solve simple issues by taking a look at their settings or via a quick google search.

One of those people is my mother. Now, I do love my mother very very much (of course!) but sometimes she just drives me insane with her questions on "how do I do this on my phone?", "where do I change this setting?", "why is this not working?" and her immediately trying to hand me her device so that I can fix it.

I do not take her phone/tablet when she holds it out to me. If it's not a simple "turn it off and on again" issue, I usually tell her to just show me where the problem is and we'll look at it together. She should be the one making the changes in her settings or whatever else needs to be done. That never fails to make her instantly annoyed, though. Apparently I "don't want to help her" if I don't just do whatever she needs done. No amount of me explaining to her that I want to teach her to do things herself can ever appease her. She doesn't have to be afraid of breaking anything, most devices are actually quite foolproof. But no, it's just that I "have no patience" and "can't even do a simple little thing for her".

This doesn't usually create a huge conflict but it happens so often that it's really bugging me, and it makes me question if I'm inadvertently being a dick, even though I have good intentions.

AITA for not just sucking it up and fixing things? Or is it okay to be a little more passive while helping so that my mother can (hopefully) learn to resolve issues herself?
answer:

yes


