Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : Throwaway account. TL;DR at the beginning. Will put spoiler tags.

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TL;DR: &gt;!My whole family is mad at me for yelling at my cousin after she tried to take over my wedding. I also said my fiancé, whom she is in love with, would never love her. No one is letting me see her and apologize. AITA?!&lt;

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To make this easier to follow, my fiancé will be Jay, and my cousin will be Lisa.

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My fiancé Jay (M24) and I (F24) have been together for 10 years. We have never doubted the other in our relationship ever. We have a great relationship. Lisa (F21) and I have an okay relationship. We did grow up together, but we just never clicked. 

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Now this happened when she was a senior in high school and Jay and I were 21. I went home for the holidays with Jay to celebrate Christmas with my family. During dinner, I overheard Lisa telling another cousin of ours that she wanted to fuck Jay. I confronted her later, but she said it was a joke. Last year at another Christmas gathering I went to with Jay, she told my aunt she was in love with Jay. I felt bad for her, so I didn't confront her this time. That night, Jay proposed. I saw Lisa crying and running upstairs to the bathroom.

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Flash forward to now. Our parents, Jay and I are planning our wedding. I specifically told my family that it was only going to be us 6 planning the wedding, no one else. My aunt argued with me to let Lisa on the planning committee since Lisa wants to be a wedding planner in the future. I eventually agreed.

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I really regret letting her on the committee. Let me list the things she's done so far:

* Wanted to take control of the catering. All the food choices, cake, table covers, napkins, utensils, etc.
* Wanted to pick out my dress. I said no to her pick, then the started to pout.
* Wanted to pick out the bridesmaid dresses. She said she wanted this specific dress because it looked good on her. She's not even one of my bridesmaids. 
* Wanted to have a big wedding. I said no since both Jay and I wanted an intimate wedding with only family and close friends.

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Last week we were having another family gathering, and Lisa would not stop gushing about how perfect the wedding was going to be. Then she listed everything Jay and I picked out saying it was all HER idea. The more lies that came out of her mouth, I got angrier.

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I snapped and started to yell at her. I said how it wasn't her wedding, it was mine, and I could plan it however I pleased. I also said how he loved me and he would never love her. She burst into tears and ran upstairs to cry. I realized how hurtful the things I said was and went to go apologize, but my family stopped me. They told me I should just let her plan the wedding and let Jay go talk to her. I honestly felt really bad and tried to apologize, but no one would let me. Even Jay thinks I took it too far.

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Reddit, AITA?
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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :   We had a Chemistry test the other day, and it was on a scantron. I believe I got the vast majority of answers correct, yet I received  a 0 on the test because I accidentally bubbled my answers in pen. The teacher didn’t remind us to bubble answers in pencil, nor did the scantron paper have it written anywhere that you’re supposed to use pencil. 
  I ask my teacher if there is anyway that I can make up for that mistake (Copying my answers onto another scantron, retaking the test, etc) and she simply says “No”. Due to this bad grade, my grade for that class has dropped significantly, and I am livid.

Sorry for shitty English 
  
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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A little back story. So I met this girl (just found out she is 15) a month back and we started “dating”. Turns out she just wants to be friends which is fine by me. A little bummed out but no skin off my nose. We talked a lot and she struggles with depression and she claims she has a lot of responsibilities in her life and it’s overall very crappy. I comforted her as best as I can and I advised her to get back on track in life and go back to school. She basically ignored all my advices and said she doesn’t want things to get better.

Alright so on Friday, she went to her friend’s house to smoke marijuana and drink. Keep in mind she’s 15. She told me she nearly passed out and felt like crap. I thought it was really irresponsible of her friend to enable her to do this. We had a argument over text last night which basically was me urging her to do better and do the right thing. All she had to say was she didn’t care and she just wanted to give up because she’s too lazy to do anything. She told me she planned on going to her friend’s house to smoke again today when I asked to meet her so we can talk. She lives with her mom and she told me her mom doesn’t know. So at this point, I found her mom on Facebook and texted her and basically told her what was going on with her daughter. Her mom thanked me for telling her. Now she and her best friend spammed my text calling me a dick and said it was a dick move. I told her best friend that I was worried for her health and what she was doing was very dangerous. She shouldn’t be involved with people like that. But she told me what I did won’t solve anything and will only make things worst.

AITA?

yes

