Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

My fiancée and I are in university. She graduates this semester. I still have three left. We are the same age, she was just a little more focused than I was. Being that she is graduating and I still have almost two years left, she could move to my city where my university is. It would save us a fair chunk of money and help us plan our wedding. Instead, she chose to go full time with her current job to further her career. She's a human resources major, so she can get a job anywhere. I stressed to her how much I wanted her to move to me, but she made her decision. Our relationship is the most important thing to me and I would do anything for her. I was quite hurt by her decision as it feels like our relationship takes a backseat to her career. Now she thinks I'm an asshole for voicing my displeasure with her choice. Am I being an asshole?
not answerable

Throw away account, mobile, I'm exhausted excuse the mess. On with the issue...

So mid December my boyfriend and I got a puppy, it was his friends, so there's no papers on who's pet, but I paid for her. $200 to be exact. 

We've been fighting alot, and talking about breaking up, he say's he'll take her. Cause his son loves her. 

Well so do I! I feed her, take her outside, buy her toys, clean up her accidents.. he helps occasionally but it's mostly me. And I snuggle her, she loves sleeping with me. She loves them but I feel like she's mine.


SOOO, WIBTA if I chipped my pup without telling my boyfriend claiming rights? (I plan on taking her to the vet next month.) or does that not even how it works. 

Thanks for reading! 
not answerable

Hang on, the title does seem bad but I have a very convenient excuse. There are 2 girls in real life that I flirt with constantly, nothing major just some light teasing and the occasional proposal (they are rich so I propose to them so I am called the gold digger). 

Here's one of the problems, I dont like either of them, I hook up with one of them but that's about it, I have no intentions of pushing the boundaries because I don't want to and I dont feel it's appropriate. I have never asked them to pay for anything for me or they have done so.

My next problem is that I seriously close with two different girls I've met online. Again I dont like either one but jesus hell, I listen to their problems and talk to them about and next thing I know they are planning trips to meet me. I might sleep with them but I don't want a relationship. It's gotten to a point where I don't know what to feel and I feel embarrassed to tell them that I dont expect anything from this. AITA for leading them on?


answerable

