In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

So a while ago, july 2018 my male friend (I'll call him Richard) was in love with a girl (Anne) and wanted to get to know her better. This was in the summer break after the end of highschool. He was a very close friend to mine with who I usually went to parties, concerts, played a lot of games and helped each other so when he said he wanted to "try his luck" with this girl, I decided I should not have interfered. Well after a month or so she got slightly bored of his tries (she was also a friend of mine) and started telling me how he couldn't understand her signals, even tho she rejected him on many ocassions. I started to fall in love with her and we went out a couple of times and got closer so the inevitable happened. We got together and weren't afraid of our relationship. Well it seemed like that wasn't Richard's cup of tea, he started to ignore both of us, even though I apologized to him for getting with Anne, considering he told me on may-june that he loves her a lot and that it would mean everything for her to love him back. When I said sorry he responded passive-aggresively saying that I betrayed him and that I didn't care or respected his feelings. I apologized and sent him memes, asked him things on a daily basis and he responded very shortly with "haha","ok", seeming very sick of me. In august there was a party where we all were invited but he refused to come and told the host "I don't wanna see OP, I'm done with him ". Me and Anne broke up one month ago and in all this time I lost touch with common friends that I had with him. AITA for being in a relationship with her after she dumped him, even though he told me 2 months earlier to not interfere? 
WRONG

My gf's roommate (let's call him Tom) is currently going through a rough moment. Unemployed, he smokes a lot of weed and does occasionally hard drugs. Tom's becoming pretty mean to my gf too, asks for money and basically decided to move out in like two months without telling her, putting her in the situation to find a new roommate with a pretty short notice. Even tho he is my friend too I'm kinda of fed up with that and yesterday, at a party, after a few drinks I started to hang out with his best friend. He's the classic dad-friend, always concerned about everything. We were chatting, he asked me how Tom was, and I couldn't contain myself. He's such an asshole to my gf, plus what he's doing to himself is crazy stupid and dangerous. I told his bf everything about the DRUGS and he was pretty shocked. He says he will talk to him, maybe even talk about something like rehab.
The day after, I feel like it wasn't my battle nor it wasn't my place to snitch on a friend with somebody that I know can only offer a very "aggressive" help, yet the idea that somebody will make him face his assholeness makes me crazy happy. AITA? 
RIGHT

For context, my roommate is a 32 year old man I found on craigslist\\ and I'm a 22 year old trans man (not sure if he knows; not super relevant imo). He moved in a few weeks after I did, last June. We started out okay; we'd go out for drinks or game together or just talk and it was fine. 

Not long after he moved in, he started drinking my alcohol without asking. The first few times, I told him I didn't appreciate him drinking my stuff without asking and to knock it off, and mentioned money. After that, I told him to knock it off and that I wanted him to pay me back for taking my stuff. He said he was an alcoholic, I apologized and said I didn't know and said I'd keep my stuff in my room, only to catch him sneaking into my room to take my stuff. I don't drink anymore because of new meds, but he's never paid me back for any of this.

He also has an issue of not being able to aim when he pees. I've tried to bring it up in a polite way, but nearly every night half the bathroom is covered in piss and it's really gross. I get that he's an alcoholic, but that doesn't make his pee everywhere any less gross. 

On top of that, he blasts his TV every day. I figured asking him to use headphones at night would be a good compromise, so I asked him to be quiet after 11 PM. It's too loud for me to knock and ask him to turn it down so I try and text and ask him to turn it down, and if he doesn't I assume he's passed out and unplug the router in my room until it stops. If he's not asleep, this usually pisses him off more and he'll start screaming. This has all gone on since the beginning.

I've made a point to not swear at him or raise my voice until I had it last night. I had a migraine all day, so at 9 I texted him and asked him to turn his TV down since I had a migraine and he said ok. He ended up going out a few minutes later and turning his TV off, and I fell asleep. He woke me up at 11 with his TV blasting, and I asked him to turn it down again. He didn't, so I unplugged the router until he started screaming and then went out for a smoke. I texted him again to keep it down, plugged the router back in, and when he came back he blasted his TV again. I finally knocked on his door until he heard, told him to shut up and called him an asshole. I don't necessarily regret it - I don't think I'm wrong - but it feels childish to have to unplug the router or whatnot so I can sleep. Am I being an asshole here?  If so, is there anything else I can do or a better way to handle this? I feel like I'm ready to tear my hair out living with him.

RIGHT

