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Posting from a throwaway because my safety is potentially at risk here. For some background, I am a college student and took a part time administrator job for what could be called a half way house for ex-convicts. It's an easy job, good hours and I really don't have to do much. The owner of the house has a contract with the state government to provide a place to live, life skills and transportation to and from work for the residents. The owner is an absolute piece of shit (if you've ever seen the movie Heat, he is exactly like the diner owner, though I've never seen him extort money, I wouldn't be surprised at all) and he seems to live to bust these dudes, most of whom genuinely are trying to get strait. The owner has a strict rule that we are to report any resident violations or we will be fired on the spot. 

We had a resident that I'll call Carl. Carl absolutely busts his ass trying to stay out of prison. I really like the guy and he's one of the funniest and friendliest guys I've ever met. I usually don't try to get into resident business, especially their convictions because I want to see them as people rather than convicts. 

This is where shit went down earlier this week. The owner claims that his van broke down and couldn't provide transportation to pick Carl up from work. I personally think it's absolute bullshit because I heard him in his residence (a guest house out back) screaming at his girlfriend and I think he just didn't want to back off from the fight. Whatever, I guess the van could have been broken down. I called Carl and told him about the, Carl said it was no problem he'd get a ride or walk home. One of Carl's terms of release was that he can't be within a certain distance of bars and dedicated liquor stores (I think it's 200 yards, but not sure). Carl was super late getting home and was about to bust his curfew so the owner asked me to see if I could find Carl. I drove around and sure enough Carl was standing right next to a bar. I don't know if he'd been drinking or not, I assume no because he's pretty committed to his sobriety. Carl acted like he didn't see me in my car but I know he did and when I went to turn around he must have bolted. I know he sprinted home because he actually beat me home but was crazy out of breath. 

I tossed and turned all night about what to do but in the morning, I told the owner. Owner reported the violation and apparently Carl was taken out of his work for processing on a violation. I don't know exactly but he's at least going back for his original time. He's going to miss the summer he had planned with his young kids, he's back inside and all this when he was working so hard. I feel like fucking shit. Like absolute shit. 

I know how I feel, but am I the asshole here?
getting an ex-con busted for violating one of the rules of his parole? he was in the wrong but I could have easily overlooked what he did

I casually brought up how we should start working out together or have meal plans... and holy fuck did it ever escalate. She started screaming that I’m calling her fat and I stupidly said “well I’m concerned for your health I don’t care how much you weight... but chips for breakfast is not healthy.” Yup.. big fuck up. I tried explaining to her that I don’t give a shit what the scale says but I’m worried about her health and it might be fun for us to workout together. I knew it may not get a great response but I didn’t expect this at all. I thought she’d see that I’m trying to help and that I care. I’m attracted to her still, I’m madly in love with her. But what if, it gets worse than it has been and it’s my fault for not saying anything. 
confronting my gf about her weight

So to make a long story short a friend and I got into a new friend group consisting of about 6 people. Almost instantly i hit it of with 2 of the women in the group and i started to hang out with them alone and not only within the group of friends. Ive even developed a huge crush on one of them that i let my original friend know about.

Almost a couple weeks after telling him my friend started to act differently. He inserted himself into conversations i was having with these two girls, started to speak to them alot more which i was conpletely fine with. Then his behavior changed even more. He became very white-knighty trying to do everything their way and really just trying to get their attention. It was nice in the begining but its developed into a huge annoyance when he goes out of his way to please them or to be liked by them. This personality he puts on in front of them isnt his real self, its completely fake and its really difficult for me to see him act fake in front of our mutual friends, or to try that hard to be likeable and not the person he is in reality (which is the guy ive been friends with and know since we were 4.)

Recently ive thought about confronting him about the situation and explaining what i feel is happening but i dont know if im just jealous because of one of the two girls or if everything is as i make it out to be. AITA?

telling my friend how I really feel about his behavior

