Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

Q: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I've been a cannabis grower for years in California. When I first started to sell to shops, it was always common to look at the other growers products, and one grower always produced quality that was so much better than the rest of the growers. It turned out the producer had a Ph.D in botany and started growing cannabis with high CO2 saturation levels, well before it was an industry standard.   


As a fellow producer, his product was the only product I was willing to spend money on, as I have more than enough at my own place. As the cannabis industry has matured, his product always has been one step ahead. I've only talked with him a handful of times over the past decade, mostly trouble shooting or trying to get tips here and there, but the last time I talked to him was shortly after all the [cannabis raids](https://www.sacbee.com/news/local/crime/article207911324.html) in California last year. Many growers were getting nervous as the regulations were changing people who lagged behind were being raided left and right. When I brought it up to him, he was extra somber and told me he's had quite a few friends that got arrested in that specific sting. As realization dawned on me, I asked him if he was connected with the syndicate.  He admitted to such, stating they covered his education and other things. He sells enough of his stuff stateside just to cover local bills, but the bulk of his supply goes back to mainland China.   


His product is amazing, and over the years even my business wasn't always completely on the up and up. So whenever he finishes curing the specific strains my wife and I love, I get a call stating my delivery is on its way. I feel bad knowing I am purchasing from a crime syndicate that more than likely uses that income on more nefarious things other than cannabis and psychedelics.  I've also upgraded over the years, moving from purchasing an Oz here and there from him, to now purchasing about a pound a month. His is the only cannabis I'll buy to resell, as it never has any issues selling out and making more than its money back. So I've contributed a substantial amount over the years.   


Currently, I'm still purchasing from him every month. I've actually been purchasing more as the likelihood of him being raided appears to be higher than it was prior. Does this make me an asshole?

A: no
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Q: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Backstory; I've known this girl for a few years now. We dated for a year, broke up, but are still good friends. She has struggled with Borderline Personality Disorder, depression, and anxiety for as long as I've known her. She has been hospitalized previously, and has struggled with self-harm.

So for as long as I've known her, she's had issues around taking her medication properly. Every few months or so, she'll alter her dosages because she thinks she "doesn't need it anymore", or will skip it because she "forgets", or was "being lazy". Every time she does this, her mental health rapidly declines, she gets back on track, and says she'll be more diligent in taking it. She does not frequently go to her doctor to discuss how the medication is going or alternatives, nor does she go to therapy frequently (both due to cost, and skipping appointments).

The other day, she was complaining about feeling sick, tired, and just generally being in a poor mood. I inquired if she was still taking her medication, to which she said she had quit cold turkey a few days ago, because she was "feeling lazy". I told her to take the medication, and she tried to alter the dose, saying that she didn't feel like taking the proper amount.

At this point, I told her that I was upset at her and feeling frustrated, because this happens so frequently. I suggested that she get her family to look after her medication for her, or that she come up with some other way to be consistent with taking it. I told her that I was there to support her, and that I was sympathetic to her mental illness, but that I can't hold her hand and check every single day that she's taking her medication properly.

She responded by saying that I was not being a nice friend, that I was making her feel guilty, and that I was not being supportive and too judgemental.  She said that I was making her feel like she's a burden.

At this point, I don't know what to do. Over the past few years I've been strict with her, more relaxed, pleaded for her to get help, listened to her vent, offered to take her to counselling, talked to her family, and brainstormed ways for her to keep her mental health up. AITA for getting mad at her for not taking her medication? How do I support her while she self-sabotages, without letting myself get burned out?

A: yes
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Q: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I had a psychiatrist appointment in san jose and cyrus/aia wanted to go to a dollar store to shop. I suggested that they should come with me because the 99 had way better produce and we could get some pho or something. Cyrus was adamant about getting in n out. Aia and I agreed on noodles. I had no objections to doing both. Before my appointment I had to mess with my printer to get it to work so we leave a little late and I apologize to aia because we couldn't drop her resume off somewhere she wanted to work. On the way, Aia discovers she can't do her reading on the 17 northbound because of all of the movement. She tells me the reading is due at 7. My psych appointment takes an hour as predicted and ended up being extremely emotionally taxing. (I did tell them 30 minutes to an hour before we left) Cyrus and Aia apparently go to in n out during such. When they come back with my car 15 minutes after my appointment ended, Aia tells me she left room for noodles. So I figure, yeah let's go get noodles. I drive us to a pho place 15 minutes away and when we get there, cyrus says we should leave. Aia complains that it's expensive and that I said pho is $6 to $8.(I'm from LA) It was really $10 to $11 and that turns out to be average for San Jose. Therefore, she is not eating. Cyrus offers to pay for her meal but she refuses. At this point, I'm hungry and have a massive headache so I decide to eat. Cyrus asks me if I can take it to go and I say no because rice noodles go bad pretty fast. Im pretty disappointed that im eating alone here but I eat as fast as possible without throwing up so we can go. It was a pretty big bowl so it took like half an hour. We go to the 99 15 minutes away to do our grocery shopping and we head back home to santa cruz. On the way back, we encounter a ton of traffic and I apologize to Aia again. From here, Cyrus starts exploding at me saying that I asked them to come with me and that we never made plans to get noodles. He says I'm a dick for eating the noodles when no one else was eating and when he said I should take it to go/we should leave that should have been my cue to just not eat and that it essentially translates to we dont have time for this. Eventually I stop listening because I have a huge problem with people yelling in general and they both know this. I tell them that if we didn't have time, they should tell me there isn't time instead of just saying we should leave because I cant read their minds. (Make your needs be known/be direct) They just claim that I'm flipping it on them and that I'm saying they should have done more. Unbeknownst to me, Aia just wasnt doing her homework and absolutely needed to be at home to read something on her phone that was in her pocket. I was going to apologize to Aia about this whole thing, but something about being yelled at and insulted for an hour by her boyfriend made me not want to. At this point, my medication wears off and I just start putting minimal effort into the conversation by just making snarky semantic arguments to push him off more.

A:
yes
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