Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

For the last 9 years DH and I buy and prepare all the food for Thanksgiving and xmas (usually costs about $250 per meal). We also try to buy all of the family members that come over a gift and also have the kids make gifts, from them, to everyone. A few years ago DH and I were saving money to buy a house so we told everyone that the meal would have to be the gift for the adults. I still worked with the kids to make a gift for everyone (we made photo collages of the kids that were framed). We gave the "kid gift" to MIL and her husband as a joint present. We had also gotten MIL a bath thing that cost $5. MIL got really bent out of shape and shamed DH and I for "not getting her husband a gift". Are we the asshole for not getting him a separate him only gift?
OTHER