Detailed Instructions: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Q: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : TL;DR If I [24F] don’t want touched a certain way or at all some times, I explicitly tell my boyfriend [29M] of 9 months to stop touching me; this makes him feel unwanted and unattractive. I get angry with him for not adhering to my nonconsent. AITA?

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For context: 

Sometimes touch is very overwhelming for me and I don’t want touched at all. It gets me stressed and cranky. Sometimes I do want touched. I’m always very explicit with this. “I don’t want touched right now I don’t feel well” or “I’d love to cuddle if you’re down.” I told him this when we very first started dating. That sometimes physical touch is too much for me and I need space in those moments.

He definitely feels he deserves to be touched more and to touch me more. I know that my sensory-overload makes him angry. Telling him explicitly to stop touching me or telling him no hurts his feelings but are the only way I can get him to understand. Dropping hints are either not being noticed or they’re being ignored, I can’t tell which. And by hints I mean anywhere from “I don’t feel good” to “I’m going to lay on the other couch during the movie.” He’ll always come touch me or he’ll have his feelings hurt if I move.

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Here is a summary of what happened tonight: 

we are sitting next to each other on the couch eating dinner. I ate waaay too much and my stomach hurts really bad. I really don’t want touched at all honestly, but I really really don’t want to fight so I’m ignoring the discomfort and he just has his hands on my legs. He reaches to rub my stomach. I say “i don’t feel well and I do not want my stomach touched. I don’t want to have sex tonight.” (He always rubs my stomach when he’s feeling horny, and I hate having my stomach touched). He huffs and says “but I think you’re sexy.” He puts his hand under me and grabs my butt. I’m fine. 20 seconds or so pass. His hand goes into my crack. I say stop and I move. He gets mad and says he is “allowed to touch me.” (He says that often.) I ignore his comment. A few minutes later, he grabs my boobs. I tell him “stop, I don’t feel well.” He says something to the effect of “you never let me touch you.” 

And we delve into a huge argument where I’m apologizing for making him feel poorly but telling him that I cannot imagine a healthy relationship where either party has to sacrifice their right to say no. And he’s telling me I make him feel unattractive and gross and unwanted. I explain that having my nonconsent ignored IS gross and isn’t sexy at all. He says I called him gross. I didn’t I said not being able to say no is gross. He says he is allowed to touch me. I say that no he isn’t, not without my consent, and that right isn’t sacrificed whether we’ve been together 9 months or if we’ve been together 40 years. It continues much like that.

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I am really angry and feel like I have absolute right to say no to anyone’s touch, up to and INCLUDING my boyfriend, but I maybe am neglecting him physically by doing so, and that makes me the ass hole? You tell me. Judge away. 
A:
yes