Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

So I'm going to be using the names Bob for me and Susan for my girlfriend. I apologize if this post seems to be in shambles, it's late and this question has been tearing me up inside lately.

So I, Bob, am a bisexual man. I came out while at college, and during this time I got really involved in my college's Queer Student Union. That's where I met Susan. We instantly clicked. We had all the same interests and loved the same books and bands. I knew she was asexual when I first met her, but despite that I sorta started falling for her.

By the end of my sophomore year, I found out that despite being asexual, she was still romantic and still craved intimacy and romantic relationships. At this point, she was a close friend, and since we had so much in common, I decided to go for it. 

Fast forward to now we're becoming really serious, and I think that's what has caused potential permanent abstinence to set in. I haven't had the guts to attempt to initiate anything because I knew she was asexual before we started, but I don't know whether it's "repulsed by sex" asexuality or "never initiate" asexuality, but I'm afraid of pushing her boundaries and ruining both our relationship and our friendship by being pushy.

I'm a virgin. I'm Catholic and the emotional crisis I went through before realizing I was bisexual meant I never tried anything with anyone because I was too scared over the possibility that I might be gay. When we started our relationship I thought no sex wouldn't be an issue cause I'd never had it before, but I'm realizing that was a naive assumption. Now that I'm comfortable with my identity, I want to experience that part of life, but I don't feel I can if I stay with Susan.

She's the first person I've ever been in love with, and that love was built on the foundation of our friendship beforehand. But, even though we love each other now, I think we'll end up resenting each other if I don't end it now. At that point, not only would the relationship end, but our friendship too. Even if she was willing to have sex for my sake, I'd feel like I was manipulating her because she wouldn't actually want it. Yet, at the same time, I feel like only a complete shitty asshole would break up with their best friend when they feel so strongly for each other over something as minor and selfish as sex.

**TL;DR: Girlfriend is asexual and I knew that going in. We're starting to get really serious, but I don't think I can keep abstinence going, so I'm considering breaking up before it gets to the point of no return.**
NOBODY

I met this girl with a great personality and who is really into me. Though she is so wonderful on the inside, she has a lot of physical abnormalities that I wont go into, but are not turn ons for me. I have to get at least more than tipsy just to get my dick up because or her body. She found out and is really self conscious now because weve never had sober sex and I refuse tell her that I'm only having sex with her because she's my only option. I just chock it up to it makes it more fun for me and I feel more adventerous. 
AUTHOR

Throwaway, on mobile, TL:DR at bottom, etc. 

My boyfriend (20M) and I (19F) have been dating for about a year and a half. This is my first relationship, and his second  We are very happy together, and we try to spend as much time together as possible. 

A few weeks back, the topic of becoming sexually active came up. We tried it a few times, but I was just never interested. I don't have any religious/moral objections to it, I just don't get anything out of it and it makes me slightly uncomfortable. 

He, on the other hand, has a very high sex drive. He always wants it, especially after we had sex for the first time. It's to the point where he says that it affects his everyday life, like his sleep, concentration, etc. 

The other day, he was talking about this situation a lot. He was sending me articles about the benefits of sex, saying how he wishes he could have sex with me so that he could sleep better, stuff like that. It felt to me very manipulative, and I asked him to stop trying to talk me into sex because it made me uncomfortable. He almost immediately apologized and backed off. He said he didn't intend for it to sound that way, but if it did then he would stop talking about it. Our conversation has been sparse since then.

We both have the day off today, and normally I would go straight to his house, but upon asking him if I was okay to head over (he sleeps in so I wait until he's awake) he said maybe I shouldn't today. 

I feel bad because it's affecting his life so much, and I want to help him with it, but it seems the only solution is me having sex with him regularly, and I don't want to do that. So am I the asshole for not having sex with him? What should I do? 

TL:DR I don't really care for sex and it makes me slightly uncomfortable, but my boyfriend has a super high sex drive and the lack of action is affecting his daily life. Am I the asshole for not having sex with him?

NOBODY

