Instructions: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
Input: CLAIM : The following post is HYPOTHETICAL. POST : I definitely feel like a potential asshole for this, but I'm at a point where I can no longer see satisfying sex as an option with my boyfriend. 

A little background: My boyfriend (26) and I (20) started dating 7 months ago. My BF is only the second guy I've had sex with and in the beginning of our relationship I would get really nervous every time we'd have sex. I wouldn't be able to have sex for longer than ~5 minutes without becoming uncomfortably sore.

My boyfriend was very understanding towards me and eventually I became used to having sex for longer periods of time. I also gained a lot of confidence in myself, and for the first time in my life I've begun to enjoy sex as something more than just a way to please my partner.  

However, within the last couple of months I've noticed that sex with my BF has become a lot less passionate and more one-sided. For example, our usual sex consists of him pressing his dick against my back and making little noises indicating he's in the mood. I have a pretty high sex drive these days so I'm almost always willing to oblige, but once we start it usually only lasts about a minute until he finishes. After that, he continues on with whatever he was doing before he got horny and I'm left lying there feeling 1) mildly used and 2) completely sexually frustrated. 

I've explained to him multiple times that I do not enjoy this type of sex, and that it makes me feel used and frustrated. He's always apologetic and says that he will do better next time, but the same thing happens again and again. 

Now whenever we have sex he asks for a blowjob first so that he can last longer when we have sex after, but that is almost never how things go. He lasts his usual 1-2 minutes, and afterwards I end up feeling twice as used. It honestly feels like he couldn't give 2 shits about my pleasure and only cares about his orgasms.

Recently I've started thinking about mentioning an open relationship to him. I know it seems drastic but in all honesty I just want good, passionate sex. I would prefer to have that with my boyfriend, but even with all my pleading it seems like he just isn't interested in that anymore. 

Am I an asshole for considering this? And WIBTA if I brought it up to him? Any and all advice would really be appreciated here. I love my boyfriend, and I would love to have good sex with him again, but he just doesn't seem that interested in me anymore and I don't know what to do. 


Output:
yes