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Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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I hate buying cars from a dealer. But with the poor timing of having a sheet of black ice sentence my beloved Tacoma to a concrete wall, and an upcoming road trip in the next week, I had to get something reliable soon. I settled on a used 2013 Scion xB from the local Subaru dealership. I noticed the front tires were wearing thin, and brought that up during the deal. They said “Nope! We checked them and they’re 70% tread” which they clearly weren’t. But they’re clearly under a third treadlife left. I also noticed the floor mats were not present, but I thought they’d be in the trunk after their detailing like all the previous cars I’ve purchased. After all, the Carfax said “floor mats installed” when the dealership originally took it in on trade. In hindsight I clearly should’ve checked, but mistakenly took their word for it. When all was said and done, I was handed the “key”. Just one. No second fob, no valet key, just one single key. This is a $260 second key from Toyota that I need to get cut and programmed now, and again, I wouldn’t have felt the need to clarify how many keys come with the vehicle during the negotiation. I assumed all the keys would be present. I only discovered the single key issue after the final handshake.  And lastly, for the cherry on top, I found out while they were attaching the paper temp tag that there’s a screw broken off flush in the license plate hole. 

The car has 65,000 miles and I paid just under $10k for the car. Yes, I knew I paid too much. But after all the issues, now I feel like I REALLY paid too much after discovering that some of the basic parts are missing. I am meeting with the “sales manager” tomorrow to discuss my disappointment, but am I the asshole for insisting on compensation for new tires, a second key, and floor mats?
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pestering my dealership to get the accessories my car was supposed to come with


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I hate riding the bus to schools. It started last year when this kid sat next to me on the bus. He brought a Nintendo DS and I noticed that he was playing Mega man on it. So I asked him about it and we had a small conversation about the game.  Ever since then, he started to sit by me every time on the bus. But he has no sense of personal space.I always try to be the first one on the bus because I hate having to search for a seat. And if he does get on before me, I feel obligated to sit by him because in afraid to hurt his feelings. I sit on the window side, and when he gets on, I'm literally squished between him and the window. I have no leg room because he puts his backpack between his legs and his elbows are always jaggibg into my sides. I should also point out that he has PLENTY of room bacause there's always a good foot of seat left after he sits down. But he seems to insist on squishing me.

Heres the part where I feel like I might be an asshole. Its clear that he doesnt have many friends and is socially awkward. I feel like it may be his parents fault he says that he's not allowed out of the house other than to go to school. I often pretend to take a nap during the ride to school just to avoid conversation with him. He also only talks about video games. Nothing else. I'm a big gamer myself, but its like thats the only thing he knows. (He still tries to talk to me even though I'm "asleep") he doesnt seem to read any social cues.

On the ride home from school, I feel forced to talk to him because its not logical to be tired at the end of the day. But I just cant relate to him at all. He always tries to get my attention by repeating phrases like "oh boy" or "I can't believe this" then keepa turning his phone towards me to show me. (Again. Always something to do with his video games)  and I've always been short with him by only really responding with one word answers.

He's also got no boundaries when it comes to other peiples privacy. Hes always looking over my

I can't tell him now that I don't want to be friends with him any more. Its my fault for not  Its been over a year. I dont know why he hasn't gotten the hint that I'm not interested in the things that he is interested in. But I've been dreading every bus ride that I take. Am I the Asshole for not socializing with him? I might be his only "friend" that he has.
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not wanting to be friends with this kid on the bus


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 Rewind to a few months ago. I meet this amazing girl. After talking for a while I find out she's studying in another country. I've done long distance relationships before and I'm not too keen on it. I express my reservations around LDRs straight away. But I fall for her hard and she convinces me it's not so bad - "it has it's advantages". She returns to her country of study.  We text every day while she's away. Not something I enjoy normally but you gotta do what you gotta do, and she doesn't do phone calls.

Fast forward a few weeks and she comes home for Christmas. We go on our first date. It goes great. She thinks so as well. She tells me she doesn't go on a second date with someone unless she sees it going somewhere.

Thankfully, she agrees to a second date and it goes even better. We express we both want to make the most of our time together over the holidays. Then our next 3 or 4 dates go amazing. We talk about everything, even our future. She tells me she wants me to visit her after she goes back to college. I'm more than happy to. I fly over and we have a wonderful time. 

At some point she warns me that she turns into a "demon" when it comes to texting during her exams. I understand, she's stressed and distracted. Everything is normal until a couple weeks ago when she stops replying to some of my messages of ignoring them altogether. Fair enough, she's stressed and focusing on her studies. But then I find out she's going out during her exams. Including the night before one. So she has time to party but not for me? That's when my sympathy starts to wane. Also, I know she's online but ignoring my messages.

Our texting (only form of communication) becomes less frequent, especially because she never texts first, rarely asks me questions, and I grow tired of carrying a one-sided conversation. So now I start to think she's not distracted but disinterested. I'm gutted and frustrated. These things happen but at least tell me.

Fast forward to a couple days ago. We're surprisingly messaging back and forth and I know she's due home soon so I ask her if she booked flights. She has but she's not staying home for long. I ask if I'm going to see her, and she responds she'll message me when she's "in our city and available". Now I'm confused.

I really want to make this work. Yet, if she doesn't want anything more out of this fair enough. But I think the decent thing to do is at least tell me. So I'm not wasting any more time and energy. Am I being unreasonable? Or WIBTA by calling her out / asking her asap where this is going?
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getting frustrated and asking her where this is going


