Q: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I know he isn't a planner or someone who would normally organize something like this, but we've been together for 2+ years, it's my 30th, and when we had been together less than a year, I threw a surprise cookout for his 30th with friends and planned and cooked for a week. I just thought he would want to help make my birthday special too, especially when I explained how much it meant to me. He says it isn't how he was raised and they never did much for birthdays. He did just plan Valentine's which was a wonderful handmade dinner at home with candles, so I know he is capable of the effort and I would really appreciate anything that he planned or any effort put in. Last year, he told me he'd make a new VDAY tradition of planning little surprises and date nights and I think we went on 5-6 dates all year (most planned and paid by me) :( 

I just want to feel like I'm special to him, even if it is something that he wouldn't care about so much! Am I expecting too much? 
A:
yes