Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : And by pestering mods I mean I made 3 posts within 24 hours.

Backstory: So I recently posted a comment on r/lgbt about thanking a post reminding everyone to vote democratic. So I thanked them and assured them that I would be voting republican now due to the post. That part I know I'm being an asshole, don't worry. 

But then like half an hour later I got banned from the subreddit. Shocking I know. But I sent them a reply saying that I couldn't figure out why I was banned because I couldn't find which rule I had broken, nor did the thing banning me tell me which rules I had broken. Very cordial(at least i think it was).

5 hours later havent heard anything so I ask for a confirmation that someone has at least looked at my post as I know they are busy.

24 hours after original post I comment that I will now assume the worst about them because its been a day and they haven't gotten back to me. This promptly gets me a mute for 72 hours so I cannot talk to them for 72 hours. 

Of course this last comment I could see as breaking the rule of not giving the mods sass, but they hadn't gotten back to me in a whole day. I was a bit irritable.

So I would like to know if I'm being an outright asshole to the mods before I continue pestering them once the 72 hour mute is over.

Tldr: sucks, read the whole thing.

Answer: no


Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My mum and dad have a rental property in Florida which they visit regularly to do repairs and upkeep. I've been lucky enough to go to Florida about 14 times in my life. My mum is addicted to Disney world and goes on about how she wants me, my girlfriend and my brother to go constantly. She even saved up the money to pay for us to go without asking if we wanted to. I'm 24 and at the point where I want to do other things with my life. I want to travel to so many places around the world and go to many countries and eventually buy a house. I told my mum that I didn't want to go to Florida as I wanted to travel to other places while I don't have any obligations like kids in my life. She began to cry and cry and basically said I was ungreatful as im getting a free holiday. I tried to explain that I still want to go but maybe at a latter date but she doesn't really get it. Am I the asshole? 

Answer: yes


Question: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Okay this one is complicated and long, since I feel like I need to be as detailed as possible. Throwaway account for obvious reasons, all names changed.

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So I met a girl a year or so ago on Tinder. Let's call her Anne. Anne comes from a conservative christian family, and I am her first boyfriend. She's 18 and graduated but hasn't started college yet, and is living with her parents. I'm 19 and living in an apartment, sophomore year in college.

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We start dating and everything seems great. We really hit it off. First time she comes over to our house, she's never kissed anyone before so I showed her what to do (she asked for me to guide her). We get more involved and I put my hand under her shirt, and she asks me to slow down a bit, so I immediately stop and we go back to only kissing.

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We continue to date and get more intimate with each-other. I always ask if she's willing to do something (kiss, take off her shirt, bra, pants, etc.) Sometimes she says yes, and sometimes she wouldn't respond as the thought about it for a while. To break the silence I would say "please?" and then she would agree, or say no, in which case I wouldn't ask again. Sometime we would progress from there, and she offered to give me a hand job, and I offered to finger her and she said yes without hesitation. 

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The issue was, these lines shifted constantly. We would go from being hand-jobs and naked cuddling with  each other one night, to her not even wanting to kiss me the next. Her boundaries were constantly shifting, and I could never tell what was or wasn't okay. Sometimes Anne would ask to stop in the middle of an activity, and I would immediately comply, and not ask or try to convince her again in any way. The problems came up when she WOULDN'T tell me something wasn't okay in the moment. She would tell me the next day that the last night made her uncomfortable, or anxious, even though she had said yes at the time. Some nights she was totally fine with me touching her breasts, and other times she would tell me (after the fact) that it made her anxious. And then a few nights later it would be fine again, and SHE would be the one to instigate, undressing and giving me a handjob without me asking if she wanted to. I never knew what was and wasn't okay, and she wouldn't ever tell me. Anne and I had MULTIPLE conversations about how I was trying to be as respectful of her boundaries as possible, and that I wanted her to be happy and comfortable, but that she needed to tell me since I couldn't read her mind.

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Well anyways we broke up (never slept together thank god), and now she's been posting a lot of really awful things about me on twitter (not using my name, thankfully). She's claiming I was abusive and constantly did things that she didn't want me to. She specifically mentions how I would pin her down and watch her struggle (this was because she told me that being pinned down was a kink of hers, and liked being restrained). She's saying that I sexually assaulted her. Am I a sexual assault-er? I always felt that I was respectful and responsive to Anne's needs, especially considering her conservative upbringing and unfamiliarity with anything sexual or intimate. I just feel horrible and confused and really hurt by all this. AITA in this situation?

Answer:
no


