Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

I said you're a cool dame to mutual female friend and was told that is offensive because damsel (which means young unwedded lady)  implys damsel in distress. E.g. female stereotype and toxic masculinity.

The term dame is the equivalent to knighthood in England. Like "Sir" Smith. Google it if you dont believe me.

I argued that it wasnt offensive adamantly.
 Am I the asshole ?
using the term "dame"