Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

Exactly what it says in the title. I have a specific turn-on that involves masturbating to pictures of my cute, young (18+) female friends. Obviously, they do not know about this, nor do I tell them. These pictures are saved from publicly available sites (FB, insta, etc). AITA for this?
NOBODY

Before anyone calls this bullshit, I wanna say that I am actually confused about this whole situation and I really need an opinion from outside of the story. Emotions are still flowing, so if I let anything out I'll edit the post.

So, for context, I used to have my own PC, but it stopped working recently, and it's on repair. So I either don't use a PC at all or use my dad's notebook, which usually is not an option because my 5yo sister (I'll call her "Sam") is using it ALL THE TIME. Whenever I ask it from her to use for a while she either yells "NO" or cries for my parents' attention, and they never did anything about it. Eventually I gave up and stopped asking.

Ok, so today my mom went out with her, and I had the notebook for myself the whole afternoon. My mom gets back, we talk about college for a while, and then I let Sam use the notebook for a few hours. 

When Sam went to her bed, I was about to get back to the notebook again when my mom asks for it so my sister could use, cause she didn't want to sleep. I got mad and asked my mom why, cause they always let her use it and I never get the chance to do anything. She basically got mad too and started calling me names and answered my question by saying "because I want to".

Things escalated quickly and she started pushing me against the wall while still calling me names (I can't say I stayed calm either, I was trying to defend myself/minimize the pain by pushing back a little bit, I had no intentions in hurting her and I'm pretty sure I didn't).

When she released me I kinda felt bad and decided to give her the notebook and guess what? My mom didn't accept it anymore, got really pissed and tried to tell my father what happened. She said that "I no longer existed to her", and tried to justify that with her version of the truth (that I was the one trying to hurt her, that I "grabbed her arm", while completely ignoring what she did to me.) I called her out and added the details she "forgot" and my dad actually stayed on my side for once and said we would talk about that tomorrow.

So, basically, AITA for not wanting to give Sam the computer or should I give it to her even though she already uses it all the time? Honestly I think my parents are going too soft on Sam and have been going for a while (this time just my mom, dad actually stayed on my side for once), but whenever I say something they ignore me, since "they are the parents, they decide what's best for their children".
EVERYBODY

Hear me out. 

My boyfriend has been talking about wanting to study in the Netherlands ever since we met. However, he had to retake his A-Levels exams and therefore missed many deadlines for uni applications, limiting his choices; not to mention he also didn’t score high enough to earn scholarships so many places were out of his price range. He considered just attending uni locally instead where he has a chance of doing a twinning programme in Australia, so he applied and got accepted. It’s important to note that he also gets a pretty big family discount at this uni. 

The problem is this uni is pretty lacklustre in terms of facilities for his course which really worries him. He began applying to unis in the Netherlands and actually got accepted into all 3 that he applied for (I’m so proud of him!). While the facilities there would be far better than the ones here, the major concern is that a huge loan would have to be taken out in order for him to study there. Other concerns would be our relationship, him not being able to fly back during breaks due to air tickets being so pricey, and just generally him being away for 4 years with a 7-8 hour time difference. 

Personally, I’m conflicted. I know I don’t have much of a say in this, but I really want him to stay not only due to our relationship (I realise that I am selfish in this regard) but also because his parents are old and I’m worried what if anything happens? However I also really want him to go to the Netherlands if that’s what’s gonna be best for him because I want him to thrive in life. I’ve told him all of this before, and I also made him promise me that he wouldn’t base his choice around me. 

I’ve tried my best to not let my personal feelings get in the way of any discussions we have regarding his final choice, but one day something in me just snapped and I said some really mean and hurtful things, and basically just tried to guilt trip him into staying. I have since apologised, he accepted my apology and we made up. He subsequently decided to just attend uni locally; I was really worried that this choice was affected by our fight but he reassured me that it wasn’t, and that this is his choice entirely. However I just feel really bad about it because I don’t want him to regret this later on and then resent me for it. 

So Reddit, AITA for maybe affecting his decision? Was it wrong of me to take our relationship into consideration, or tell him about what I thought? I’m still so conflicted, please help. 

NOBODY

