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I'm 38 weeks and 4 days (full term) on baby #4. There's just barely 11 months between our last two kids and I'm freaking tired and sore.

My pregnancy has been rough the last 2 months. The baby was breech up to 37 weeks and when he finally flipped the unexpected pressure caused me to end up with several hemorrhoids that I had to have removed and left me nearly incapable of walking. He went breech again and this morning I was in the hospital to have him flipped again. They told me I was full term and good to go into labor at any time but being that I had three more days to 39 weeks they couldn't induce me because of insurance purposes. Given the baby has gone breech twice, which would mean I needed a c-section, I was not eager to have to wait it out and risk him flipping again. 

We came home after the successful flip, I went and layed down for a nap and woke up to contractions. Given I was having some decent contractions I wanted to go for a walk to hope to speed things up. Like I mentioned I'm very tired being pregnant. I also historically have had very long labors with my shortest one being 8 hours from the time of checking into hospital to birth and my longest being 74 hours from check-in to birth, my third being 36+. 

My husband got upset at me because I was trying to walk and speed things up and he wanted to go to his kids swimming class. I got upset because I didn't appreciate his kids swim class being more important than me possibly going into labor. I never asked him to stay home with me, although I do believe he should have and in the end I adamantly told him to go to the swim class because I was so angry he was trying to get me to go sit down and slow things down. AITA for walking to speed things up and not wanting to be pregnant anymore?
wanting to walk while going into labor

Now hear me out. I know that sounds terrible. 

According to my boyfriend, he lived with his mother until he was about 8. He would visit his father on occasion, and one day while his father was dropping him back off to his mother's house, they found no one home. His father then told my boyfriend that he would now be living with him. That was one of the last times my boyfriend had seen his mother in person.

And now, about a year ago, my boyfriend got a hold of his mother's phone number. A few text exchanges, and then a few happy phone calls, and my boyfriend was so happy to have his mother back. My boyfriend is a very very loving guy and loves my own mother like his own, so I could tell he was so happy to have his own mother back. 

A few weeks later, literally the night before his birthday, she said, "I love you and I'll call you and send you a present tomorrow," to him. Then, she ghosted for months. And I could see my boyfriend becoming so sad because of it. He didn't talk about it, and if I brought it up he would get quiet and not say anything. He had already been abandoned by her once before. 

I ended up texting her myself and I did chew her out. I wasn't mean, but I told her she's missing out on the most sweet boy she would ever meet and that I would pay for her phone bill, stamps, whatever she needs to at the very least send him a text. I implied that if she can't at least do that, then my boyfriend and I would not contact her again. No response from her. 

6 months later, a text. She tells him that she loves him and she is sorry, and that she won't leave him again. And she admired me for getting mad at her, actually. And that she will be contacting him again soon with a call. 

He doesn't hear from her for about a month. Christmas rolls around, and I ask my boyfriend if he wants to send her a merry Christmas text. He shyly says yes, but he asks me if I can do it because he's too scared to. 
This isn't the first time he's asked me to text her for him. He wants me to do it so he doesn't have to face the facts of getting nothing in return as directly. I had texted her multiple times at this point.

Can you guess what happens next? Yup, nothing.  And that brings us to the current point. 

Am I the asshole for wanting to cut her out, even if she sends us a text in the future? I hate seeing this pattern of him getting filled with love for her then getting his poor heart ripped out. I want to say so many mean things to her and I want to be nasty, it takes all of me to not be mean. I would be open to her coming back if I see massive change but it would take some effort on her part. 

TLDR; 
My boyfriend's mother who left him at the age of 8 came back into his life. She will get him hopeful that he can have a mother presence in his life again by calling him and making promises and then rip his heart out by not responding to any texts or calls. Am I the asshole for wanting to cut her out? 
not wanting my boyfriend to talk to his mother

I’m 21f in university. Less than a year ago, my parents got a divorce after a 25 year long relationship. It definitely effected my relationship with both of my parents. I still love my dad, but we aren’t as close anymore and probably never will be. However, I enjoy really spending time with my dad. 

My relationship with my mom, however, has been extremely rocky. She has gotten a lot more girly and emotional, and while I don’t blame her for grieving the divorce, I find that I am easily annoyed by her. My mother is a good person, however she is extremely selfish at times (the biggest reason my dad left). Of course this usually isn’t a problem since I’m at university, however I was at home over the summer and I will be going home next week for spring break. 

This is where we have an issue. 

My dad got engaged last weekend. I’ve met his new fíance a few times, she’s nice and I’m happy for them. I am still a little sad because my dad doesn’t seem to want to spend one on one time with me, in fact, I haven’t had one on one time with him since the divorce. Overall I am still effected by this and I miss the way my parents used to be. Now my dad doesn’t have time for me and my mom is a completely different person.

So when I go home tomorrow... I know my mom is going to ask me questions about my dad. I know that she’s going to do her best not to say bad stuff about him, which I respect. I will say I don’t want to talk about it, and she will keep pushing and pushing. This has happened many times. Finally I will get extremely irritated with her and she’ll start crying, which she often tends to do to guilt me into doing things. 

I just do not want to talk about my father and his relationship at all with her, AITA? 

not wanting to talk to my mom about my dad and his new fíance

