Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

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this is a really long story. to start, i (FTM 17) was in an abusive friendship for around 4 years, we'll call him P (M17). P was awful. he touched me, sexually harassed and at one point grabbed my ass, would stalk me and control me, and lots of other things. i stopped being his friend and had the confidence to get out of the friendship when i started dating my current boyfriend who we'll call S (M17). when i stopped being P's friend he got extremely upset (he also harassed us and tried to manipulate us into sex). 

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onto the next person, i'm sorry i'm not sure how to word this whole situation. there are two parts. my friend A (19M) was my online friend for about 6 years or so. when i started dating S i did start to fall out of contact with him, not just because of my relationship but because i was trying to become more social with people irl. A and i got in a big fight starting when i was drunk and mentioned i was thinking about killing myself. he contacted P asking for my mom's info to let my mom know what was happening, and instead of being mad at A i was mad at P for giving away my information. A knew all the things that P has done, but decided to stop being friends with me and go to P's side. i'm not sure if P manipulated him into becoming his friend, but that doesn't matter. A is known for using hard drugs. my boyfriend threatened to turn him into the police (even after i said not to) due to this because of all the times he has upset me. when i mentioned that i was trying to stop him to do that A got mad at me because i wasn't trying "hard enough" to protect him. long story short, i was told i'm a manipulative snake who cares about no one but myself for deciding to no longer be friends with A (i sent him a message telling him we should break off the friendship, to which he responded saying how i'm manipulative)

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i'm honestly really confused with this situation and how i'm being called the manipulative asshole and a snake. P is saying i was worse than he ever was and that i'm awful and i'm honestly really confused??? i'll update and try and get more info

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tl;dr: stopped being someone's friend and ex friend left me for abusive ex friend. idk how to summarize this 
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I’ve been in a relationship with someone I love. He wasn’t planning to marry me so I broke up with him, after a week he begged me to marry him but after he rejected my request I started to realize that marrying him was not the right decision - I still love him but we will face many difficulties-. He cried a lot - he never cried before -. He said that he was going to die frim pain. He asked me to say the truth if I want to marry him or not. And I said I want be we must consider the difficulties. Actually I’m not really sure. I do love him but I’ll lose some many people including my parents. I’m not sure if it’s worth or not. Please let me know about what should I do? - I never loved anyone else but him, but I’m not sure if I love him enough to lose my family and hurt my mother’s feelings? Am I a horrible person who changed my mind ? 
not answerable

Me (21f) and my boyfriend (21) of 3 years have a relatively active sex life. So when I found out he was watching porn and jerking it to other girls, my heart broke. It makes me feel so inadequate that he looks at other (skinnier) women the way he’s supposed to look at me. I asked him to stop yesterday and he got angry and told me that it doesn’t mean anything, but it means something to me and i told him that. He basically said “whatever” and that was that. This morning i caught him watching it again and when i confronted him about it, he said i was being bitchy. I need to know, AITA for getting upset?

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