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I am always told by family that I am just being "fussy" when I ask my roommate to pay his share of the rent on time and in full. He always pays it late, and often late by several days, if not several weeks. The lease and the bills are in MY name, so this looks bad on ME when it is late. I am also poor, so I cannot just cover his side of the rent. 

The roommate is my cousin, and my previous roommate was another cousin, both from the same family. They both had issues paying their bills, even when they HAD the money! Both of them have issues with spending, and will often spend hundreds of dollars a month on junkfood and crap instead of paying their actual bills. I feel as if they think that because the bill is in my name, that they don't have to care about paying it on time, and that makes me feel highly disrespected in my own home.

We are helping out the current roommate due to financial issues, which is the only reason we let him stay. Despite this, he never lets us know when he will be able to pay the rent and his one utility. He simply does not pay. When I ask about it, I am always hit with "I'll have it tonight" or "I'll have it tomorrow" or on the weekend, and it never comes. Sometimes I am able to pay his side of the rent 1-5 days after it is due, other times it can be up to 21 days after the grace period. 

I feel bad, as the landlords like me, but I feel like the landlord's good will is going to run low. I am always on the hook when these bills are late, and over the past few years, I have had to shill out over 2000 USD of my own money, which would have otherwise gone towards taxes and food, to pay for bills that that they simply do not pay. I make less than 8000 USD a YEAR, and most of it goes towards rent, food, and medical expenses. I often have to live on a tight budget, and can never buy anything for myself. 

I feel like I am being taken advantage of, but I am unable to say anything. When I try to bring it up, I get shut down. I am told that they "work hard" or that "they're family" and I am just expected to deal with all this nonsense. 

I am on the verge of breaking down and my lack of funds makes me so stressed that I cry about how I am going to make ends meet. But they do not seem to care. 

My cousins are over 20 years old, with full-time jobs, and I constantly have to nag at them to even get the money. If I did not nag them for the money, they probably would not pay at all. And they don't even clean any part of the house either, so it is often a mess. 

So am I the asshole for wanting my roommates to pay their share?
wanting the bills paid on time and in full

I really feel like I was justified in this, but I don't often confront people and often just stay quiet, so I have some uneasiness that I approached this situation wrong.

There's a guy I see sometimes at the gym who is always on his phone, whether he's working out or in the locker room. He usually has his headphones on and is loudly talking into the mic. Whatever, it's the gym. That genuinely doesn't bother me.

However, today I walked into the locker room after my workout and this guy is FaceTiming some girl walking around the locker room aimlessly and talking to her. I didn't think much of it initially, but I had to get up right next to him to use the scale like I always do because he was leaning on the wall right next to it. I definitely got his attention a bit, and I could've sworn (not sure) that he tilted the phone towards me to show the girl how close I was to him. That's when I started to think that regardless of whether he did this, it's absurd for him to be using FaceTime in the locker room. There's a dude but-ass naked showering 15 feet away from him.

I felt like I should say something, and it got much more tense than I expected it to:

"Come on dude, you're in the locker room. Don't use FaceTime in here."

He got really pissed and stared at me for a few seconds.

"You talk to me like this!" (he is foreign, he said this a few times over and over) 

"This is a locker room, people are changing here, put your camera away."

He was kind of rambling but I remember: "Get your ugly ass out of here, no one wants to see that anyway"

"Don't care, put your camera away."

&amp;#x200B;

I just locked my locker and walked into the sauna as I told him the last time. I was pretty stern and honestly I was kind of a dick about it which felt appropriate at the time, but it just doesn't feel right for some reason. I could hear him leaving pretty soon after that. He was extremely angry and I felt like he was going to hit me. 

&amp;#x200B;

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confronting a guy who was using FaceTime in the locker room

**This is long but TLDR a guy tried to scam me and used the company he works at to make himself sound more legit, WIBTA if I let them know.**

I posted a bunch of items on FB marketplace and some guy offered to buy them all from me about a week after the post went up. Initially I was weirded out but I figured they're designer dresses and he may just be into resale. He says:

"I would like to buy the dresses on one condition: I would like to take you to a dinner at a high end restaurant all expenses payed by me"

I say :

"I'm not an escort do you want the dresses or not. I'm assuming not"

He goes on some tangent about how he only has good intentions and just wanted to do this because he's at an elevated income level. Whatever, man.

Just before I block him he replies that he still wants the dresses because they're for a charity auction. I don't believe this but whatever, I don't give a fuck. So we arrange a time and place. I say to meet at a subway station near my boyfriend's apartment, he says cool the station is near his work. He gives me the address of said work and his phone number and says "call me when you're near I will buy the dresses and can give you a tour of the office". No thanks buddy lmao. So in the days leading up to this and the morning of I confirm 3 SEPARATE TIMES. I lug this heavy ass bag with over 10 dresses to the station, boyfriend in tow because I'm not an idiot and I'm not gonna meet this guy who expressed sexual interest in me alone.

I get to the station and call him and it goes straight to voicemail. I-messages send as texts, he leaves the messenger conversation and either blocks me or deletes his facebook. 

IDK if he ever even intended to buy the clothes, but to be honest the whole "give you a tour of the office" thing in combo with the dinner request creeped me out and the backing out (probably) because he saw my boyfriend thing makes me think he had nefarious intentions.

Now comes the decision to be made - I found his Linkedin where he posted what company he works for - address matches to the one he gave me. Would I be an asshole if I sent an email to the HR of his company letting them know he is using facebook marketplace clothing ads to scope out young women and offering to buy their clothes in exchange for dinners and offering to give them office tours to try to make himself seem more safe?

Half of me is doing this because I'm petty and mad that I had to carry around this fucking bag all day but the other half is genuinely concerned that he is a predator trying to take advantage of women and using his company to lull them into a false sense of security.

lemme know pls :)

PS I've pre-emptively blocked him on Linkedin so he can't retaliate but I get that I'm not bulletproof here

letting a company know one of their employees is scamming people and using them as safe-bait

