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AITA for contacting a guy’s friends after he ghosted me 

Ok so this is what happened. I’ve been casually seeing this guy from a dating app. Everything was going well, we hung out a few times and texted/called almost every day. 

He called me on Friday to hang out and I wasn’t able to because I was cleaning my place and doing stuff for school. He persisted, going as far as inviting me over to his dad’s place and that he really wanted to see me. I sort of felt like it was too early in our courtship to meet family members, so I decline and he understood. But I told him I wanted to see him and so we made plans for breakfast on Saturday. 

Saturday comes around, I text him, he replies and says where we should meet and I said agree and ask what time. No response. I text again. Nothing. I wait about 30 minutes and call. No answer. This is unlike him seeing as how he’s called and texted me more during our time talking to each other.  I assume he got caught up in something and go about my day, figuring he’ll get back to me eventually. He doesn’t. 


 
I thought that ghosting someone in the middle of making plans just seems unlikely, especially considering he contacted ME to hang out and even invited me to meet his dad. By now I’m worried because we had plans, he was responding and had told me the night before how excited he was to see me. So I just didn’t think he would be ghosting me, and if he didn’t want to hang out, I figured he would at least tell me. I call/text a few more times saying that I’m worried and that it’s hes not interested in seeing me, it’s fine just let me know so I can stop worrying about him. Still nothing. So I reached out to his friends on Instagram, asking if they heard from him bc he’s not answering his phone. Then I get a response from him, over 24 hours later, that he ‘needed space and contacting my friends was creepy’.  Okkkkkkk.... and then his friend responded that he’s ‘fine and I need to take the L And move on.’ 

I sort of feel like, wtf? Am I the asshole for reaching out to his friends? Did I overreact? 
EVERYBODY