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So my friend has been acting weird for a while now. She's been really flirty, sending underwear pics and wanting to spend time with me alone and shit. Basic flirting I guess, but I'm not sure I return the affection or whatever. I find her really attractive, but I've gotten to know her as a friend first and foremost, and this sort of just came out of nowhere. We weren't even that close friends tbh.

Anyway, she kind of caught me on the spot every time she would up and send bra pics, or kissy faces or ask to be alone with me or whatever, so I didn't really flirt back, despite the fact I did enjoy the attention. Anyway, things weren't awkward, but she sort of hung out less around me and my friends.

I had a little party of sorts a few days back, and a mutual friend invited her to go. She was skeptical, saying I had "trust issues around her" and that I seemed to dislike her and shit. Completely false btw. She also made small, fairly subtle comments about that I'm unattractive, a week or so after she told me she thought I was hot. 

AITA for being confused/annoyed that she's going around talking about trust issues, saying I seem to dislike her, and calling me unattractive, presumably because I didn't respond properly when she started flirting heavily with me?
being confused/annoyed with my friend

I don't really know how to write this so I'll just say what's on my mind. My parents are Christians and I don't really know if I believe in God right now. My mother has noticed and has tried to convince me in the last few days. Shouldn't really be a problem but she just won't leave me in peace. She will follow me and talk to me anywhere I go in the house. She tried to force me to promise that I'll try to return to Christianity again. I don't like promising to things that I don't want to do. Maybe this has stressed her out. 

So today I was doing my own thing on my phone. She tried to ask me what I was doing cause she saw some pictures (Manga). I don't want to tell her what I'm doing because firstly I'm kinda annoyed by her constant tries to convince me to be a Christian and secondly if she finds out I'm reading manga my everyday life and privacy would be in danger. I want to keep secrets too. So I don't answer her question. She tells me that I am her son and should answer if she asks and that I'm disrespecting her. I tell her that I have secrets too and don't want to tell her everything in my life. She starts crying histerically and saying that she would've never dared to disrespect her parents like that and that Satan is making me do this. Guys I'm shaking because I don't want my mother to cry but I also value my privacy. Also I want my words to have weight. I want my no to be a no. If i give in this time I feel like she would know that I will  give in again. AITA? Should I really share absolutely everything with her? I feel really manipulated but maybe I just expressed myself wrong? Am I the asshole?
making my mother cry

So there’s a bit of long context here which I feel is important, so bear with me.
My husband is in the military and while we were stationed in Japan we became great friends with a woman we’ll call R. R is also enlisted and dated a mutual friend for a while, and while they had a bit of an ugly breakup we stayed friends with both parties because we feel that whatever happens between them, baring any kind of abuse, shouldn’t affect our friendships with either. A little over a two years pass and we get a wedding invitation from R and we’re happy for her, but there’s some lingering concerns because she marrying a guy she’s only been dating for 2 months...
Fast forward a year later, my husband gets stationed near R and we meet to catch up since we haven’t seen her in 2 years. Since we just moved to the area, we don’t have our own place yet and staying at a hotel while we try to find an apartment is draining our finances quick, so R happily agrees to let me and our 3 pets (2 cats and our 5lb dog) stay with her and her husband while my husband stays with another friend until we find a place. I didn’t find out until the night I came to stay she didn’t at least ask her husband, just sprung it on him, but despite the awkward introduction her husband, T, turns out to be a really cool guy and we bond over video games and other mutual pop culture stuff.
While I’m staying with them, I cook and clean up after myself, buy my own groceries, and basically do my best to not disrupt their daily lives; we only have one car that my husband obviously needs to get to and from work, so I’m pretty much housebound in a new town where the only people I know are R and T and spend my free time filling out apartment applications and playing video games.
Finally, after nearly 2 months, we get approved for a place perfectly in our budget and have a move-in date. Two weeks before I left, suddenly R’s skeletons come tumbling out of the closet.
During my stay, R and T got into a lot of petty fights over seemingly nothing, with R always instigating due to her having a short temper and it always made me super uncomfortable that they would do this in front of me almost every time. It had gotten to the point I was looking into staying with a friend nearly 5 hours away, worried that maybe my staying there was putting any stress on them, but when R found out she wanted to sit down and talk about it, asking what she could do to help me feel more comfortable. I was honest with her about my concerns, how I felt that she and T needed to work in their communication together and she needed to reign in her temper. Since they were already seeing a marriage counselor who had told her the same thing, she agreed with me and apologized and things were okay for a while after that, even T insisting they enjoyed my company and help around the house. R occasionally came to me for advice and I was always honest with her but did my best to word things gently so she wouldn’t feel like I was shouldering all the blame on her; at this point in our friendship I already knew she had some issues from childhood trauma that affected her behaviors and how she dealt with situations, and encouraged her to continue seeing their marriage counselor and to consider a personal one for herself.
I had also noticed during my stay that she drank a lot of wine, even on nights she worked early the next day. Now I enjoy a glass or two myself, but it was concerning to me that she would drink nearly a whole bottle every other night and apparently had a few stashed upstairs that she laughingly said T didn’t know about, which was another red flag. One night when I tried to tell her I was worried, especially because she was taking medication at the time, she snapped at me and didn’t speak to me the rest of the night. T served her with divorce papers the next morning.
R left two days later on a sort of deployment for a month, and I discovered through T’s sister (who had visited for Thanksgiving that I had cooked for everyone) that R had complained to her that I was “an overweight, lazy couch potato with no motivation” and it hurt me pretty deeply. I have clinical depression and have struggled with an eating disorder since I was 12, things R has known since we became friends, so for her to have allegedly said those things cut to my core. Rather than confront her, I chose to temporarily block her on social media, my reasoning being she was going through a divorce and clearly had a lot of her own issues to work on and I didn’t want her to feel attacked, deciding I’d rather talk about it in person so there wouldn’t be any misunderstanding over text, but that turned out to be the wrong decision as she almost immediately lashed out at my husband, telling him I was being petty and had no right to be angry with her. My husband gently diffused the situation, emphasizing that I was simply hurt by the accusation and for her to simply focus on herself and that we would get together when she got back.
But soon I had evidence via screenshots she’d said these things more than once to multiple people; mutual friends, one of T’s other family members, coworkers, even going so far as to tell them I was “a bisexual in a poly marriage” and to “not be surprised if she flirts with you.” Admittedly that may not seem like a big deal to some, but in the military atmosphere people can get in trouble for what would be considered adultery, and I never disclose my sexuality or open marriage to people I don’t feel comfortable with, so having complete strangers know these things made me extremely uncomfortable and worried about how it could potentially affect my husband’s career if someone took it to his command; most don’t care, but it’s not something I’m comfortable gambling with.
At that point I had decided I was done, that I didn’t want to talk to her about it because she’d repeatedly tried to blame everyone else around her rather than just owning up and apologizing, but yesterday my husband received a message from R that said, “Is Catsocks done being mad at me for something I didn’t even do?”
Something about that wording just feels so dismissive of my feelings, but am I really the asshole for stepping away from this friendship?

choosing to step out of a toxic friendship

