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Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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I'm 38 weeks and 4 days (full term) on baby #4. There's just barely 11 months between our last two kids and I'm freaking tired and sore.

My pregnancy has been rough the last 2 months. The baby was breech up to 37 weeks and when he finally flipped the unexpected pressure caused me to end up with several hemorrhoids that I had to have removed and left me nearly incapable of walking. He went breech again and this morning I was in the hospital to have him flipped again. They told me I was full term and good to go into labor at any time but being that I had three more days to 39 weeks they couldn't induce me because of insurance purposes. Given the baby has gone breech twice, which would mean I needed a c-section, I was not eager to have to wait it out and risk him flipping again. 

We came home after the successful flip, I went and layed down for a nap and woke up to contractions. Given I was having some decent contractions I wanted to go for a walk to hope to speed things up. Like I mentioned I'm very tired being pregnant. I also historically have had very long labors with my shortest one being 8 hours from the time of checking into hospital to birth and my longest being 74 hours from check-in to birth, my third being 36+. 

My husband got upset at me because I was trying to walk and speed things up and he wanted to go to his kids swimming class. I got upset because I didn't appreciate his kids swim class being more important than me possibly going into labor. I never asked him to stay home with me, although I do believe he should have and in the end I adamantly told him to go to the swim class because I was so angry he was trying to get me to go sit down and slow things down. AITA for walking to speed things up and not wanting to be pregnant anymore?
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wanting to walk while going into labor


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Sorry for the long post, I just have a lot to unpack and I'm trying to explain both sides to the best of my ability. TLDR at bottom. 

Since kindergarten I've been in Speech Therapy, for about 2/3's of the Alphabet, and a slew of problems such as talking too fast, volume control, etc. It isn't anything mentally wrong, just never really learned correctly so they had to reteach me. Finally, at the end of 8th grade I "graduated" from Speech, after (mostly) learning my R's and working with speed control. 

My odd way of talking has given me a British accent, and I constantly get asked about it. But, I also never fully learned my R's and honestly I kinda backslided a little when I stopped being taught. So, from the time my kid brain could process it to now, I've always dealt with the fear of not being understood, and it never goes way. It's always the back of my mind. That, coupled with my mom constantly making me say words/pointing it out, makes me absolutely hate people pointing anything out near it.

But, I've also grown up with it so I'm pretty used to it. With my friend group we roast each other a lot so it comes up decently often. And while it bugs me, I usually just joke back a little and then change the subject quickly. They are my friends and they are just making lighthearted jokes, I'm not gonna blow up from it. 

But this time, I don't know. My bf(of almost one year) knows how insecure I am about it, and we were just hanging out when he kept (jokingly) making fun of me; using a British accent, telling me to say certain R-heavy words, etc. I tried to keep it lighthearted and keep it to telling him to stop, but when that wasn't working I did turn to guilt tripping him, telling him about how awful and embarrassed it was making me feel.

Normally, he'd apologized or stop. But this time he said something along the lines of "Calm down, I'm just messing around" and I fucking lost it.

Long story short, I shoved him away(we were lounging around together on his bed) and told him he was being a dick and super inconsiderate of my feelings, and that I felt like he didn't even care that I was telling him to stop. I was pretty angry, so this was all yelled. This led to him being pretty shocked and said that I never really minded it before, and he didn't realize that I was getting generally upset over it. 

I told him I didn't want to hear it and that it isn't an excuse since I told him to stop. He apologized, but the night was ruined so I just went home after telling him I'd text him in the morning when I've had time to cool down.

Well now I have and now I can't tell who was really in the wrong. He was the one mocking me and I had told him to stop, but at the same time he didn't know I was actually upset since normally I never really appear to be so my reaction seemed out of line. 

So who was the asshole in the this situation? 

TLDR: I grew up with a speech impediment that made me insecure. Bf was jokingly roasting me about it, and I lost it when he didn't stop upon being asked. Bf didn't realize I was being serious since normally I don't appear to be bothered by it. Who was the asshole?
answer:
getting annoying when my friends/bf joke about my speech impediment


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Here's the backstory. My girlfriend (23) (I'm 25) and I have been dating for 3 years now but due to life events we currently are living 5 hours apart so we don't get to see each other as often as we'd like but are willing to stick it out for another year. We had a pretty healthy sex life up until the point where we had to move apart. After the move, we would only see each other maybe 2-3 weekends a month which sometimes resulted in us not having sex. It's important to note that she isn't a  very sexually driven person, so on weekends where we wouldn't have sex she'd say something to the extent of she wasn't in the mood for that at the time. We would then both agree to stop and usually end up going  to bed or watching Netflix or something. Sometimes we'd go 2, 3, or even more than 4 weeks without being intimate with each other. It's also important to note I'm a pretty sexually driven person myself, so  sometimes she'd feel bad that it had been so long and we'd do it just to do it and both of us would feel soooooo much better and closer to each other.

However these gaps started to become more and more common the longer we are apart and even asking for pictures would turn into a disagreement of some kind. She said from the start that if I ever needed to get it off she was more than okay with it, but asking for help instead of using porn seemed only to be causing more problems.

So to spice things up we decided to buy a vibrator and some other sex toys for the next time we were together, I sent them to her place so she could take a look at them before we used them as she was nervous about it and had never seen or used one before. We agreed that we'd use them together which is why we ended up buying the toys that we did.

Before this past weekend it had been 4 weeks since we've seen each other, nevermind each other naked. We had talked all week about the possibility of getting that Marvin Gaye sexual healing on,  which she admitted turned her on when we talked about it. The day before I arrived she decided that she was in the mood and couldn't resist trying out the vibrator. Without even mentioning it to me so  I could at least share and enjoy the moment with her  and get off myself too she just went ahead and used it. Even though we decided it was for both of us to enjoy.

When I asked her if she was still in the mood this past weekend she admitted she used the vibrator and no longer wanted to have sex. I got quite upset saying it had been over a month for me, and that I held back from doing anything until we saw each other because we had agreed to use the toys together and get each other off once we finally were together again. It escalated into a larger fight and she ended up throwing my phone at me cutting open my forehead. I ended up packing my things right away and left to stay with a friend who lived close by before driving home in the morning.

AITA for that?
answer:

getting upset with my girlfriend for using a sex toy I bought her


