Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Throwaway because reasons. 

My partner and I have been together for 4ish years, currently living together. Starting in the fall, I'll be moving about 3 hours away for graduate school (Not the issue, we had anticipated this for awhile). 

The problem is that when I went to meet with my new advisor very recently, I was presented with the opportunity to get a drastic head start on my thesis with a 5 month field season roughly 6 hours away and starting in May. So now instead of five months to plan and be together, we would have 2 and will see each other pretty rarely for awhile. 

This is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I can see this is really hard on him (it's pretty hard on me too tbh). Every time I mention it I can see it hurts them. However, we're both still pretty young, and this is an amazing career/personal opportunity for me to finally be following my passion. 

So reddit, AITA for being selfish and seriously considering this? 
seriously considering an opportunity