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I know this question has been asked before and I know the typical responses, but try to hear my point of view. My(M31) wife(F33) and I have been married for 11 years, together for 14. We have always had our differences, I am very driven, up early and ready to go/ she sleeps until noon. I move quickly to get things done/ she takes a full day to accomplish anything. Shes very religious/ I am not. Shes overprotective of our son and I feel like she and he both need to distance themselves and let him grow into his own personality. She can barely keep the laundry done and I can finish all of her house work in 3 hours. I work 65 hours a week and she hasn't worked since we met. This is not to paint a picture of how "awful" my wife is, it's not that shes a bad person, shes just very VERY different than I am. Her sister(F27) on the other hand, went to college, got a career, up early, healthy eater, still very religious, proactive, excercises, keeps clean, very organized and social. We share similar tastes in movies, music, nostalgia food etc. My wife and I had always been at odds about our differences and just assumed that that's what made us who we are and the sex was great so it kept everything held together, but eventually the sex wained. At first it was only once a week, then once every two weeks, then once a month. Now we go months without sex and shes gone from 139lbs to very close to 250. Shes destroyed her body, doesn't want to touch me and is always scowling at me but swears she loves me. I started having feelings for her sister about 6-7 years ago and I can keep it at bay if I stay away from her but recently shes been going through some hardships and I have been there to help her and its welling up inside me to the point to where I just want to tell her that I have feelings for her (I know she doesn't feel the same, and she would never hurt her sister but the feelings are still there dammit). I know that everyone is going to say it's just a crush and that she would never betray her sister and I'm a POS for catching feelings and I am aware of how messed up it is, but I still feel it.
wanting a relationship with my wifes sister

 First, I’d like to apologize for any mistakes, English is not my first language.

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Background information: I’m a transgender man. I met some LGBT-friendly people I got close with during my first year of university and everything was going pretty well between us. I introduced them to a guy in our course I befriended later on. They all liked him and he was a really cool guy, inviting us to his place to study and play D&amp;D, supporting when some of us came out of the closet… 

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In September, we were all chatting on our group chat about random stuff until the guy started posting memes and making transphobic jokes I did not like at all. I called him out, reminding him that was not okay. He apologized and everyone acted like nothing happened. Two days later, same problem. I called him out again, and he apologized again. I was starting to get annoyed with him as he continued to do that every week.

At some point in mid-October I got really mad and told him to shut up when he was making another “joke” (irl this time), then stopped talking to him at all. I left the group chat but kept talking to the others during class and by messages, but they seemed to grow distant, to the point they stopped talking to me.

Now we’re in February and no one from the group had talked to me since. They act like I have the plague or something, not saying hello or responding when I try to interact for homework and avoiding sitting next to me during class. The only interaction we had since happened yesterday, when a girl from the group throw to my face the signing sheet during class. 

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On one hand, my relatives told me it was my fault for not being tolerant and that I only got what I deserved. On the other, two close friends agreed they acted like children and that it’s good riddance.

I’m now wondering, am I the asshole here? Was I really intolerant by telling him to shut up? Did I really get what I deserved?
not talking to a transphobic friend

A few years ago, I was playing rugby in a physical education lesson, and the teams were mixed, because the girls wanted to play with us

A small (5’3 ish) girl ran at me, and I spear tackled her just as she caught the ball. I winded her quite badly and she sat out for the rest of the lesson.

All of her friends had a massive go at me, but she chose to play rugby with guys and therefore should know that she would get tackled like that. AITA?

destroying a girl in a game of rugby

