Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

Some backstory: I am the oldest of 5 children, and my mom has cerebral palsy. My parents are divorced, so my dad lives about 15 minutes away. My mom is only disabled to the point where she has a severe limp, nothing affects her mental ability or upper body. She is also overweight.

She is always late. Always. 
Examples:

One Sunday (switch day), my mom offered to drive me and my siblings to my dad's house a few hours early. We had gotten a few inches of snow the night before, and all my best friends were going sledding. She said she would give us a ride if we cleaned the house. Me and my 2 sisters cleaned the entire house, top to bottom, for about 3 hours, and we were ready at about 11:00. 

My mom said she would drop us off right after she made lunch for us. We don't normally have a sit-down lunch, so I was not expecting to have one, especially when we had plans. Sundays are usually fend-for yourself days. I was expecting her to just heat up some pizza or something fast like that. 

I texted my friends, after confirming with my mom, that we would be there around 11:30. Keep in mind, she AGREED to 11:30. 

Suddenly, I hear sizzling from the kitchen. I look in, and I see my mom cooking salmon on the stove top. I ask her what, and she replies "I'm making lunch for the boys (my 2 younger brothers, 9 and 6). 

They are pretty used to being home alone, and it would have been only 30 minutes.

She continued making lunch, and at 11:45, she had made 6 plates of salmon, rice, and mixed vegetables. She called us all, and seemed very confused when we didn't want to sit and eat with her. At this point, we were already 15 minutes late, and eating lunch and cleaning up would have taken at least 30 minutes. I was thankful that she made such a nice lunch, but I really wanted to go and hang out with my friends. 

Despite our protests, my mom, my 2 brothers, and 1 sister sat down and ate. It took 45 minutes for them to finish. 

When they were done, my mom went on to go to the bathroom for 15 minutes and we finally left at 12:45, and didn't get there until 1.
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So, I last week, I had a 4 day field trip, and we had to be at the school at 6 AM to catch the bus. Knowing her, I told her we had to be there at 5:30 to get the bus, so we would (hopefully) get there on time. 

Well, she found out, and started asking me why. I responded truthfully, and she started screaming at me. She said she's "trying her best" and "she can't be perfect" and "just accept me". I tried to have a reasoned discussion, with her, but she wouldn't listen.

I got my dad to drive me there **on time**, by the way.

So, AITA for being annoyed at her like this? I know it's hard to manage 5 kids, but I don't get it sometimes.
answerable

Throw away account, mobile, I'm exhausted excuse the mess. On with the issue...

So mid December my boyfriend and I got a puppy, it was his friends, so there's no papers on who's pet, but I paid for her. $200 to be exact. 

We've been fighting alot, and talking about breaking up, he say's he'll take her. Cause his son loves her. 

Well so do I! I feed her, take her outside, buy her toys, clean up her accidents.. he helps occasionally but it's mostly me. And I snuggle her, she loves sleeping with me. She loves them but I feel like she's mine.


SOOO, WIBTA if I chipped my pup without telling my boyfriend claiming rights? (I plan on taking her to the vet next month.) or does that not even how it works. 

Thanks for reading! 
not answerable

So some context. My school has a big field trip where they go to a big city. It is only for band choir or orchestra. Sorry for spelling and formatting. I'm on mobile. 

Up at my family's camper my brother kept using my earbuds and breaking them. He broke three fucking pairs.

My parents bought him two pairs of earbuds and I asked why he needs two pairs. He said that if one broke the othor will be useful. So my mom said to my brother that I was trying to steal a pair of his earbuds. I then stormed off. 

I was slightly angry that my brother got two pairs of earbuds after breaking three of mine. I was more angry that he got the earbuds for a stupid reason.

AITA for being angry at my brother for breaking my earbuds or is it just childish?

not answerable

