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(A little lengthy backstory, but you can skip down to the fourth paragraph if you're only interested in the here and now aspect.)

So, my wife and I have been together for almost 7 years. When we first met, she was what most guys call "thick". Very small waisted, bigger thighs, big butt, and very big breasts. She was also only 18, so the youth factor helped a lot with that. I was a very lean 200 pounds, and have until recently, been a very physically active person, taking part in rec league flag football, softball, and soccer. I never "let myself go" until the last year and a half, but I also made the conscious decision that I was not going to stay that way. When I stepped on the scale day one, it read 319 pounds. I stand 6'2", and a lot of people would be nice and say things like, "You carry your weight well." But I always knew what they meant. My wife (I will not disclose her height/weight), has always been the bigger of us two until I started gaining weight. 

Almost exactly a year ago, I decided to get back into shape, and in doing so, my wife felt encouraged to join. We have a young son, so we quickly set up a regiment where we both got ample and fair amounts of time to do our work outs. At first, she was very excited to wake up and do a morning walk, and then some light exercise. It seemed like she really enjoyed the changes we made, so I never took it upon myself to push her towards working out. She works full time, and she's an adult, so I let her decide what is best for her body. 

During the last year, my wife has used her gym pass a whopping 22 times. Yes, not even once every other week, and a majority of that was the first couple weeks we started. I took more advantage, and have had great success. All my vitals improved, and I feel so much more confidence. 

This is where I need my question answered: With holidays approaching, family has been coming in from all over the States, and seeing as I have shed roughly 70 pounds since the last holidays, it's easy to notice. My wife on the other hand, received none of that, for she has actually gained weight since we began this. This sparked her to hit the gym everyday for the last five days after work. She has done more working out this week than she may have ever done in the last year. The last two days have been filled with, "Don't I look much thinner?" Or "Look, this love handle is disappearing." Although nothing was changing. I always have a simple short "Yes dear." Or "Oh that's great!" Until I finally just could not hear it anymore, and told her the truth.

"Sweetie, I know you've been working really hard this week, and that's great. You need to really keep it up if you want to see any changes though. So far you're the only one seeing any of the results you're talking about."

That was enough to send her on a spiral of saying I was "Calling her fat" and "not believing in her." Led by long phone calls to her sisters. I have been asked to "Just apologize already." Although I feel I have no need to. I worked my ass off to lose the weight we agreed to lose together, and now that I'm the only one who kept up our agreement, I feel she needs to hear it unfiltered.

So AITA?
not lying to my wife about weight loss