TASK DEFINITION: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
PROBLEM: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Petty, but judging petty issues is what makes this sub great.

I’m at the airport, which has rows of seats for passengers who are waiting at each gate (as airports typically do).Each row is four seats, with lots of available rows scattered about.

When I first sat down at a seat fairly far from and facing away from the gate (so, not hot real estate gate-wise), I was fairly early and so put my backpack on my seat next to me.  Gradually the seats around me begin to fill up, including a woman who places her bag on the seat next to my bag and then sits in the next seat over (so, the row is lady, her bag, my bag, me).  

I’m looking down at my phone, but see a lady approach in my peripheral vision who stands in front of me  and asks in a sort of pissy/huffy voice,

“Can you put your bag on the floor, please?  So I can have a seat?”

I look up and see:

- the lady next to me with her bag on the seat, not being asked to move her bag
- several other people with bags on seats, not being asked to move their bags
-several other empty seats without bags in them (maybe four or five, all perfectly empty).

For whatever reason this made me incredibly annoyed (likely due to a pet peeve I have where I feel like something about being a pleasant-looking woman means I’m often asked to move or accommodate - for example, if I’m in a line of several people and someone wants to cut through, I’m INEVITABLY the one they ask to squeeze past).  So, I picked up my bag and moved both myself and my bag to another nearby and perfectly available seat.  Mainly because I worried if I had to continue to sit next to this woman, I might say something rude/express my annoyance (and no one wants to argue in an airport, they’re annoying enough).

So, now I’m sitting in my new seat, stewing in petty annoyance.  And I ask you, fellow internet readers...AITA?

SOLUTION: yes

PROBLEM: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Recently I’ve been struggling with mental health and opened up to my mother about it. My mother is a difficult person but I still love her and I know she wants what’s best, but when I opened up to her about my anxiety/depression and she pretty much replied with “therapists are bullshit” and it was my lifestyle choices that were causing this, and if I went to the gym or “just make more friends” my issues will go away. This really upset me so i decided to talk to my father (parents are divorced btw) about it and he suggested to see a therapist, I agreed and went yesterday. I decided to hide it from my mother, knowing she would be upset if I went without telling her. I decided to tell her today and she flipped shit, yelling at me and then telling me to leave the house. I don’t know if what I did was wrong or not, my mother never wanted to support me through this hard time so I believed that she wouldn’t care. I dunno. She’s not talking to me anymore I’m at a loss.

SOLUTION: no

PROBLEM: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I recognize my own part in the assholery in some ways for snooping through people my partner followed, but I found a comment along the lines of "those lips" on a pic of a girl, meanwhile he almost never likes my photos on ig and says he doesn't want photos of us up there because of privacy concerns.

I got into it over that comment and he goes "hehehe I knew you were snooping " and it blows up into me saying I feel stupid for telling him i love him and doing all these things when he doesn't feel the same, and how I know it's not his fault but just how he can't control how he doesn't feel, I can't control how I do.

He then asks if I want to stop this, and I thought he meant the conversation so I said yes.

 Turns out he meant the relationship. And I told him I don't want to break up over text of all places, over something stupid, and that I didn't know what "I love you" meant to him but to me it didn't mean escalating our first fight into a breakup. 

I understood him being upset, but I think at least I warranted a phone call. I tried calling him but he didn't pick up.

So am I the bigger asshole, I suppose, or is he?

SOLUTION:
yes

