Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : A bit of context before I get in to the real story.

I am 33 years old. I've been married for 7 years and have lived away from home since 2005 or so.
I grew up in a family that is not affectionate. I have two brothers and my parents stayed married. They both loved me, but there was never I love yous, hugs, kisses, etc. I'm totally ok with that as I know nothing else. Hugs and affection is foreign to me and I've been working on it.

With that out or the way...
At the beginning of November, I lost my mother. She had been admitted for suicide watch to a local psych hospital on a Monday. On the Friday, she was determined safe to leave. She had struggled with depression all of my life, but never this bad.

My dad picked her up, and decided to go to work at 6pm, mere hours after coming home with her. He said she seemed normal and just wanted to sleep.

At 7am, my husband and I were woken up by the police banging on my door, with my oldest brother. It was then I found out that my mom killed herself sometime overnight and my dad found her in the bathtub at 6am when he got home from work.

My husband and I left our house to go to my brothers (my other brother lives 2000km away and would fly in that night).
The first few days were terrible. My dad spent every waking moment verbalizing everything. Every detail, every second, every moment. It was agonizing to hear him go on and on. He couldn't get out of this loop.

It got better. It's now been about six weeks. The new issue I am having is hanging out with my father. 
My mom was a stay at home mom. I was their only daughter. My mom was my best friend. We lived only minutes away from each other and we hung out often.
My dad on the other hand worked full time growing up. He was always tired so never hung out. Even in my adult years when we went over he often wasn't there, or was outside smoking pot. Therefore I really never bonded with him.

Lately, my dad will just... Pop over. I feel like he's trying to make up for lost time but he is laying on the love way, way too much. I understand where he is coming from as he feels that mentality is what ended my mother. I get it. I cant however flip a switch. It honestly feels foreign and fake.

Besides being way too overbearingly loving, every time he comes over he talks about her, and the events. He's gotten better about going over the story, but he spends a lot of time here just talking about her and how his life is different.

I've gotten to the point where I've requested he ask before he comes over. I'm not used to people just coming over, and frankly I'm starting to find his presence uncomfortable. I do understand. My brothers have someone to talk to. my dad just has us. My oldest brother has gotten angry at him because he does the same at their house. I have never shown anger, but I will often make up an excuse if he wants to come over. It's not that I WANT to forget my mom or what happened, but I am healing a different way and every time he comes over it sets me back literally to day one.

I feel like im being an asshole, but I don't really know any other way.
yes

Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : I’m in college and I moved in a house with my girlfriend and 2 of her friends this this past year. The house is very close to campus and it’s cheap. It’s a great setup.

Anyways, my girlfriend and I broke up around December. There’s no fucking way I want to live with her let alone her friends again next year.

I’m assuming they’re all gonna say “why don’t you just move out?”

My reason for the authority to kick them out goes like this. I actually already signed the pre-lease that begins in June and only included my name and my fathers name (needed a parent on the lease)

My plan is to kick them all out and move my friends in. They have until August to find another place to live. 
yes

Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST :  I like to stream on twitch and so does another one of my friends. The other friend, we'll call him Matt, has a bit of social anxiety so everyone is always nice to him and trying to boost his confidence and what not. I'm all for that and cheer him on with his streaming. We're pretty close in followers and its something for us to talk about.

The trouble begins with my other friends. I constantly get reminded of things such as, "your stream sucks", "Matt is way better than you", etc. They've started to turn streaming into a competition and are rooting for Matt. while trying to push me down. When I try to bring it up that it's kind of annoying that they always push me down and kiss Matt's ass. I'm told that I should stop complaining and just accept he's better.

It's really starting to get on my nerves and I'm thinking about quitting streaming, all the fun has been sucked out of it. I can't talk to them seriously about anything either, since every time I try that they say I'm being a bitch, cuck, etc. I feel like it isn't right for them to rip on me to boost up Matt even with his issues.

Am I the asshole?

yes

