Given the task definition and input, reply with output. Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

I have a friend who is a trangender girl (assigned male at birth) who came out several years ago. She is happy with her decision, and everyone who knows her agrees shes been much happier since. 

However, she has dealt with disphoria throughout the whole thing, and has spoken to me more than once about how she doesnt "feel enough like a girl."

For the longest time this conversation bugged me because of one thing: she insisted on including "trans" in every thing. "Im a trans girl" or other such statements instead of just "im a girl." Maybe as a cis person i dont understand the importance of labels, but it feels to me like that might be a source of her problems. 

Well the last time we spoke i brought this up to her and she went off. "I cant believe you would say that, i thought you were my friend" which i really really didnt understand. I said "well if you're a girl why do you need to specify trans?" And she said "its not that simple a-hole."

Im confused Reddit am I a turd here?

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