Teacher: In this task you are given an anecdote. You must find out whether the anecdote is something the author has done or is considering doing. Label the instances as "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and label them as "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future.
Teacher: Now, understand the problem? If you are still confused, see the following example:
So I have a good friend that I enjoy hanging out with, but they aren’t good at turning people down so whenever I invited her somewhere and she doesn’t want to go she says yes and then either constantly reschedules, claims she will get back to me with a time that works for her, or cancels at the last minute with some lame excuse. So would I be an asshole if I confronted her and told her to cut the crap and just be straight with me so that I don’t waste the time and energy trying to make things work if she doesn’t want to go? Also do I have any right to be upset since even though my gut tells me she is just being flaky, she is also a very busy person so there is a chance that I’m just overly sensitive.
Solution: HYPOTHETICAL
Reason: the author is talking about something he wants to do.

Now, solve this instance: I struggle with my mental health since I am ~10. About 2 weeks ago I was in a very bad place and had a fight with my mother. She told me to finaly go and kill myself. If it hadn't been for my best friend who picked me up last second it would have ended bad. Now I move to a new apartment and want to stop all communication with her.

More info: I struggle with depression for a very long time, I am 25 now an have spend ~2,5 years in institutsions and ~2 years in state financed rehab to help me find work (I am from Germany and glad we have so advanced help here). I had some really bad episodes and 2 (thank god) failed suicide attempts. But i try my best to not dwell in my sickness and become a usefull member of society and repay all the help. I was beaten by my mother and dad I  have forgiven them what had happened, knowing they didn't knew better and I don't want live in anger the rest of my life. In recent years I was not an easy son. I began occasionally smoking weed, and taking some other drugs (I stopped everything except sometimes weed). Sometimes I am moody and get annoyed quick. 
I have gotten in fights with my mother before and she told me multiple times I should finaly go and end it, and that I was her biggest mistake and I am an disappointment. She had a horrible father and really bad childhood (she is also struggling mentally and I think she is on her way to becoming an alcoholic) 

I would have no problem seizing all communication with her if it wasn't for my dad. We had our problems too but in the last few years he tried hard to turn things around, he accepted his guild for beating me and apologized (my mom never did this). He supports when ever necessary and sets things in motion with his excellent connections in our community. He is a family man and family is the most important thing to him. I know it will break his heart seeing his core family break apart.

So will I be the ashole? 
Student:
HYPOTHETICAL