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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : No, not on the regular. I'll explain the situation.

My BF has a family friend that is practically his Grandfather. "Granpa" describes my SO as an "adopted son/grandson." Granpa has invited me to stay the night on the couch tonight since the heat at our place will be wonky until the 28th and it's supposed to be especially cold tonight. I didn't ask or hint, he offered as we were getting ready to leave. I accepted, it was admittedly a relief. BF normally stays when I stay but he works third shift and had to work tonight.

The only toilet is in Granpa's en suite. His tub/shower is in the other end of the house with access from the kitchen. About an hour after BF left for work,
 I had to pee, so I went to the toilet (like normal) in the en suite bathroom. When I got out of the bathroom, Granpa had followed be back there and was naked, laying on his bed, stroking his dick and asked if I wanted to "lend a hand" as I *very briskly* left the room.

I had to pee again. I'm not peeing outside, there are neighbors here. I am **not** going back in that room, even though I know logically he's probably done by now. *shudder* I know all the "harm" that can be done has already happened...

Yeah, I peed in the tub/shower. Just sat on the edge and peed there. I rinsed and bleachy wiped it after, though. Obviously, I think this is an occasion where an exception to the rule can be made, but I can also understand my way of handling this may be the outrageous choice to an outsider. Especially since I would never ever want to have to tell anyone I know that I did that. I try to live by "if you don't do shit you're ashamed of, you won't have to lie" and this feels like a violation of that, so I'm having a small moral crisis on this.
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yes


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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So me and my gf went to see some band last night in the city and we naturally pared a few blocks away. We didnt right down the address of the parking garage so were slightly lost trying to make it back to the car. We had been walking for about 10 minutes tops when she said "a real man would be able to find the car" (note I didnt park the car and I'm damn good with directions). I got pretty pissed since I could see where we were parked and she had started walking the other direction back towards the venue we had left.


On the ride home I was in my own world making snarky comments and being a bit of a holeass but I felt (and still feel) somewhat justified in my actions. So AITA for being upset with the woman who says "I love you" to me everyday for questioning my manhood?
answer:
yes


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Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : For starts I don’t want this person to be dead and I am sad this person (x) is dead at a young age. 
X and I had a bad relationship. I trained x in work and x was lazy and at times abuisve about being lazy. X wasn’t from here and used that to their advantage plenty of times. I say that because x put down their abusive behaviour as being a hot type personality that only Xs people are. X also disappeared over certain holiday periods for weeks at a time to be home with their family but always have some excuse. Other people (me) had to cover their shifts. X got a warning and that was all. 
X was very very good at cosying up to higher ups in work and anyone who didn’t get along with them x claimed were racists. 
The sad part. X died of a brain tumour last week. My social media has been inundated with comments what an amazing person they were even from folk who frequently bitched about them. 
I am hearing loads about it at work and I can’t help but in a complete rage about it. 
They died young it was sad I would never want that for anyone but they were still to me a complete asshole. And yet I can’t help but hate myself for being angry at someone who had the utter misfortune of dying so young. 
Am I the asshole here? 
P.s I have said nothing to anyone about how I feel I just act sad ( I am just not to their degree) and then let them talk about it till eventually conversations change. 
Also x only found out about the tumour 2 months ago and died due to a haemorrhage caused by it. 
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yes


