Detailed Instructions: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
Problem:My boyfriend has a cousin who has always been a bit cold towards me. Don’t know why. I have never done anything to her. She’s a lot more warm with other significant other’s of the family. I’ve talked to my boyfriend about this and he generally agrees with me. I don’t dislike her, but I also can’t really say she’s my favorite person either.

Her daughter’s birthday party is coming up, and initially my boyfriend said (not word for word), “eff her, she’s a bitch. I’m not going.” The party is on a Saturday, and I work on Saturdays so I wasn’t really planning on going anyways. I’m also not really close to the daughter.

Now, today my boyfriend says that he’s going, and I was like, “oh, you’re going?” And he says, “yeah, I’m going for the food.” Then I proceeded to joke around and be all like, “if you hadn’t gone at least I would have *respected* you because  now you’ve gone back on your word” (kinda like that episode in Friends where Phoebe points out how Ross goes back on his beliefs on evolution). I even threw in a Naruto joke about how going back on your word isn’t “my ninja way.” So, I felt that with all these references, it was obviously a joke. He even laughed at the first one. And THEN he made a complete 180 and was like “quit shitting on me” and “why are you mad at me?” I just stopped talking after that.

So, Reddit, am I the asshole?
Solution:
NOBODY