Detailed Instructions: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
Q: Okay I have this friend I'm going to call Jess.

Jess and a friend who is basically like a sister to me started dating. 

I was kind of scared because last year she had talked crap about us to a friend, but that friend later told us what she done. We talked crap about her aswell and started to ignore her because we didn't want it deal with her.

We started to forgive her, until I started to hate her. My sister like friend began to tell me how her girlfriend Jess started to ignore her, I kept telling her to confront her about it.

"She started the relationship, so she gets to end it" I then talked about it to the friend who told me that Jess talked crap about us.

Apparently she still does talk crap about us, and had started to ignore her girlfriend on purpose because "she doesn't like the way she treats me and another friend". I began stating how childish that is.

Then I was told that her dad hates us, this is because we made her sad. We made her sad because of a conversation we had in a hallway.

"Yeah, I don't really like childish people, and I think the music teacher hates you for what you did last year". Me and her girlfriend being childish people felt extremely hurt.

And the "music teacher hates us" part was because we stopped helping making play decorations. We started to find it boring and I felt like I was holding the group down, so I made up excuses not to go.

Jess also states in the hallway "(Friend who told us she talks crap about us) is fine, he has a reason, but you guys just kind of ditched us".

We then told her how we felt about that situation in the hallway. Her father hates us now. The friend who told us she talked crap about us had apperently been told not to trust us by her because we would ditch him in the end.

I want to confront her, but I can't help but feel guilty in someway.

Am I the Asshole?
A:
EVERYBODY