In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

Example input: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Example output: RIGHT
Example explanation: the author requests is justified.
Q: *This is quite a long story*
Disclaimers :on mobile,throwaway cause I'm
paranoid, English isn't my first language.
This happened few months ago.
backstory : in my country military service is mandatory unless you have some sort of medical condition. If you do,you can choose to volunteer to service the country in any other way. My service was very new : 6-7 LGBT roommates in 1 apparent volunteering in different schools by day and working with LGBT youth organisation in the afternoon.
In my first year I loved working at the school,the teachers were great and the students and I had great connection.I learned a lot about the special education world and wanted to go to uni for it once my service was done.
I did not like working for the organisation at all. I liked working with the youth and help them in any way I can,but the people responsible for it were completely unprofessional and went as far as cancelling a seminar I worked on for months a month before it was due.
We have one person who represents the organisation,she was horrible. and another person(V) who is responsible for the school project- she was a sweetheart.

The story itself :
This was in the beginning of my second year,I was frustrated with the organisation but stayed because I loved working at the school. Some roomates left and V found some new ones,we all got along great for a while,had so many laughs and I genuinely thought it's gonna be a great year.
Until a month later when a girl called Z joined the apartment.
I knew her from before and I heard she did volunteer only at the organisation with roommates who also worked there and none of them got along with her,but I gave her a fair chance and tried my best to make her feel welcome.
It wasn't long until she started getting on people's nerves.stated picking on others because they weren't vegan,kept suggesting they try it and convince them that they're wrong for eating meat - not respecting them telling her to stop.
She also kept intervening in other roomate's business.   I didn't show up for an organisation seminar because of my medical condition and she made a whole fuss about it because " we are one apartment and should represent the same things,and if you don't like the organisation,why aren't you leaving??" I told her I like the education part but she kept asking me this until we had a fight where I told her its none of her business why im here and i was here before her.
It went like this for the whole year,other roomates decided to stop talking with her altogether because she was constantly trying to boss them around,we couldn't tell non PC jokes to each other without her triggering and fighting with us,she tried to force people and tell them their mental problems because "it will bring us closer" and was just an overall bitch to everyone who disagreed with her.I once told my friend a joke with the word " butch" in it and Z heard it-so she went around telling my friends that I'm a misogynist..it cost me in a loss of some friends.
a whole year of being policed at your house wasn't fun,she was always looking for a way for her to "educate"us which came across as very condescending - I don't need her lectures about how horrible I am for eating meat and not caring about the organisation. She never helped us clean and always left dirty dishes around the house- when we brought them to her room and left it there she cried and told us she will complain to V (V knew she was problematic but couldn't kick her out)

So,the big fight :
We were supposed to clean the apartment,I came home early and it was only her there. I wanted to rest because I has a rough day,I asked her id she wanted to help me clean some stuff &amp; wash the floor  and she agreed.
When I put some stuff in the other room,she decided that "because I put them in an angry way, I'm mad at her so she won't help me"
After a whole year of hearing this kind of bs from her I've had enough,I yelled at her that she tries to be a victim and she went to her room.
I started to wash the floor by myself and she came back and just sat in the living room full of water not even trying to help.
I asked her " why are you such a bitch?" 
She started screaming - calling me disgusting but I yelled back " no shut the fuck up alredy,this is why no one in your last apartment liked you,and everyone here hates you and I can't wait until you leave and I won't have to see your ugly face again you fucking bitch!" 
and I stormed off leaving the floor wet.
I did end up apologizing because I was harsh on her,it was just frustrating to always be criticised in your  house and not being able to make it stop despite asking.

So Reddit..AITA for what I said to her


A:
RIGHT