Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
One example is below.
Q: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
A: wanting to wear a shirt
Rationale: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: Am I the asshole for not wanting to move out with a friend?

I’m a male 24 year old, she is 22. Her and I are extremely close with each other, where we would have some boundary issues and really only have one another to chat and hang out with. She really doesn’t have any friends, and mentions that I’m her closest friend she’s ever had. I’ve had friends in the past, but they come and go, as is life. We’ve also bonded over our mental struggles and upbringings, video games, music, food, she was my best friend, and I started to feel more. 

With her, I’ve developed strong feelings for her the first 3 months of hanging out whenever we met. It was unrequited love. She didn’t feel the same way. I was heartbroken, yadayada, but a part of me feels like if we were to live with each other, that boundary I try not to cross would be extremely crossed. 

A part of me still feels that way, still daydreams that way, wishes it could be that way. I hate it, it’s disgusting and selfish and so egotistical of me. We’ve had arguments and countless fights in the past about the topic, and other things, where we’ve stopped being friends for 2 months or so. 

I found out my current roommates aren’t resigning our lease, and I move out end of April. I texted her saying that “none of my roommates are resigning lol”(she knows there’s been drama, BS, etc), and she immediately jumped to her moving out with me and my brother. And expected an answer right then and there through text. I told her we should talk about it in person. We did, I told her about the countless fights, the boundaries, my feelings that are still there somewhere or might resurface. So I said I’d have to think about it. She ALREADY resigned her lease, and called to cancel it. 

She cancelled her lease. 

It took me over 2 weeks to think about it my decision, and I leaned more towards no and found it hard to say yes. So I told her no over the phone, and she blew up, saying I’m selfish, all I care about is myself, I’m playing the victim “so hard”. If I lived with this girl, it would be unhealthy, as much as I love and value our friendships, I can’t do that to myself. Reddit, Am I the asshole???
A:
not wanting to move out with a friend