Detailed Instructions: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.
Q: He telling me stories about his hard times, I tried to help him but he's not willing to change, he's just constantly walked away from the conversation and I was thinking why do I even bother, am I the asshole?
A:
not answerable