Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Q: She’s been through a lot and I want her to always feel she can talk to me so that she never feels completely alone, but today I lost it when she told me that she’s back (AGAIN) with her *occasionally* abusive, way older than her, not-yet-divorced boyfriend. Did I break the friend code, or is it cool to tell her I think he’s a POS and WIBTA if I told her I don’t want to hear another word/complaint/anecdote about him?
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finally speaking up and telling my friend that I don't approve of her on again off again boyfriend