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Q: Good day, I'm new here so I hope I get this right.
So, I'm a very awkward girl with people I don't know, I don't have a lot of friends mostly because I always make a barrier towards new people. I tend to overthink a lot and I overthink my actions before I do them because I don't want to seem rude with people I don't know.

So I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 7 years, and the more we talk about our every day, the problems kinda begin to bubble up.

It all started almost 1 year ago, I had classes that ended at 9 pm and since I don't drive, I had to wait for my brother to come pick me up, while I was waiting for him, a guy approached me to make some small talk since we were both waiting and I decided to respond because I also thought that that might be the last time I'd see him, I was still carefully answering some of the personal questions he asked until my brother finally came for me. He didn't strike me as a weirdo at first, just some bored guy trying to talk to make the wait less annoying.
So, the next night, he's back and tries to make small talk again, I'm awkwardly trying to answer while listening some music, I was reading a conversation I had with a classmate and this guy started saying things like "Oh, you're talking to your boyfriend?" and "you're probably asking for help" stuff like that, I tried to brush it off like "hahah, okay..?", my brother finally shows up and I thanked the heavens.
The next few days some classes ended way earlier because it was the beginning of the semester and since I was there for only half an hour I didn't want to annoy my mom (she drove me to school and then she went to visit my aunt who lives a few blocks away from the school) so I decided to just wait for an hour more, took out my laptop and tried to make homework but ended up watching videos, BIG MISTAKE, I should have gone somewhere else because there he suddenly appears and had a look that he wanted to stay forever there making crappy small talk about videogames (I have a The legend of Zelda backpack), at this point, I'm starting to get more annoyed but still wanting to be polite, until he begins to make weird "jokes" saying "You have some nice shoes, what would you do if I took them off and start running away with them? would you run after me?" and started to say the same about my backpack. I was really uncomfortable and trying to smile at his "jokes" while saying "I'd run towards the security guard and make you get expelled" but since I'm an awkward dork I couldn't get it as aggressive as I wanted and he took it as nothing, he also tried to tip off my laptop from my legs and insinuated I add him on facebook. I was at the point of getting annoyed and scared when my mom shows up out of nowhere and I ran away as fast as I could.


Of course, I had to tell everything to my mom and my SO, my  SO felt really bad because he couldn't be here to protect me but this experience lately turned into a "you have to start to be assertive and push them off the instant some weird person starts to be disgusting with you and stop trying to 'laugh' or lead on their 'jokes'". I understand what my SO says, I know what to do but not how to execute it since I overthink my actions. This has gotten to the point where my SO says I don't respect him for not being able to put my foot down with the weird guys.


Am I the asshole? How can I change this part of myself?
Thank you guys for your time and attention.


TL;DR: I'm awkward, I got stalked(?) at school and now this is a problem in my relationship because my SO thinks I don't respect him or our relationship because I don't defend myself.

A: 
not putting my foot down with weird guys