Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.
One example is below.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST :  Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
A: yes
Rationale: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.
Q: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : sorry this is long, it requires a little bit of back story...my best friend/roommate has never cared for my boyfriend. Before he got into trouble, she didn’t care for his personality but she has literally spent 5 minutes total with him a single time 3 years ago (when him and i were just friends and i was living somewhere else) and has refused to spend any more time with him or get to know him. She was rude about him coming to our house last year, which he knew so he never wanted to come over and that made it really hard for us. We’d literally sit in my car outside for hours. I basically chose to not make my living situation shitty by doing things that made her mad so we tried to stay out of the house. My bf was going through court for a DUI (no one got hurt, I know it’s an awful thing, he’s in recovery and sober and getting better) and was suicidal and depressed the entire 6 months leading up to him going to jail. He and his family have both told me that they don’t think he would be here if I wasn’t there for him and trying to keep him out of the hole. What this translated to was me spending a lot of time with him over the 6 months he was going through this case. My roommate worked 6 days a week 8-7:30, we spent every Sunday together and she usually had plans weeks in advance for weeknights, but she gave me a huge lecture the week before he was going in about how awful of a person I was for only spending time with him(not entirely true, i did spend a majority of my time with him though), what was I doing, why was I doing it, she said I “flew too close to the sun” and should have left him when the court case started. I can see where she’s coming from but if there was one thing I always tried to do it was make sure I spent time with her at least twice a week. We’re both busy and it was like she wanted me to wait 3 hours for her to be off work and not make plans myself so i could see her. That conversation was really hard, it made me feel like the biggest piece of shit ever. But fast forward now, my boyfriend has been serving his 6 month jail sentence and he’s about 2 months in. I see him once a week and he hasn’t been able to call me up until this week, so he’s been calling me every day. The problem is, he’s been calling me during dinner time because that’s when the phones are open, plus I work 8-5:30 Mon-Saturday so there aren’t a lot of windows and he knows that. So a couple times this week (3 times) I’ve been eating dinner with my roommate and I’ve excused myself when he calls for the 20 minutes I’m allowed to talk to him and then I come back and hang, but last night he called when i was out to eat with her so i tried to keep the conversation under 10 minutes (which is was), and i had to give him a couple messages from his family, so I came back to the table and she was SO MAD at me. Like barely spoke to me and typed out huge texts to her other friends and boyfriend across the table and said that it’s really annoying that we talk every day now and why can’t I just tell him I need to go because I’m at dinner, and that I see him once a week and we really don’t need to talk every day. I definitely did tell him i was at dinner but he waits from 2pm for his phone slot at 7 to open up so i wanted to make it worth it for him too. I felt like shit because I’m just happy I can talk to him again. My roommate stays in constant contact with her boyfriend via text and he calls her sometimes, plus she sees him at least 2x a week. I’m just frustrated because I don’t want to ignore his calls, which she said “I know that would LITERALLY kill you so don’t ignore his calls, I’m just annoyed because he calls during dinner always, I have a right to be annoyed. Like when he called on Saturday you should have just told him you would see him tomorrow and talk to him then.” I do get what she’s saying. But am I the asshole here? Because she makes me feel like it. I miss him more than anything and this week has been the first time in months that I’ve been able to talk to him every day and I’m grateful. Ugh. I need outside perspective! Thank you in advance for reading this. 

TLDR; roommate never liked my boyfriend, now gets annoyed that I answer his calls from jail and I feel like shit 
A:
no