Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
One example: Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
Solution is here: AUTHOR
Explanation: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

Now, solve this: Me and my boyfriend have been together for years and I feel like he doesn’t know me. Tonight we have been out for mine and my sisters birthday meal and she LOVES fuss, I on the other hand do not. I knew something was going on and found out he arranged for a cake and for everyone to sing happy birthday but this stressed me out so much I excused myself with feeing sick and left beforehand. Now he’s upset that I left and I’m upset that he would arrange such a thing knowing how uncomfortable it would make me. AITA for leaving? 
Solution:
EVERYBODY