Instructions: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
Input: My SO wants to do a program through the military where she could achieve her dream of being a therapist. And normally that would be awesome, but I'm scared that she's not ready for it and that she'll find someone better than me because I have severe separation anxiety and self esteem issues. I know that I should be supportive and I'm trying to be but everytime we talk about it we end up fighting. 

TLDR: Am I the asshole because I don't want her to go do something that could possibly make her life (and maybe mine) better?
Output:
AUTHOR