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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Sorry for long post! TLDR at the bottom

So first some backstory. This is during my senior year of high school. I was in a relationship with a guy I really liked. We had been friends for about five years prior so we knew a lot about each other. He didn’t like social media very much and I was very into it only because there were certain family members that only saw me grow up through social media pictures. They were never able to come out and visit me because of where they lived and finances. My dad and I have a very close knit relationship. He’s honestly my rock. He became my rock after my mother passed away. I come to him with relationship problems and he comes to me with overall advice when dealing with new girlfriends. I’m also his “first line of defense” when it comes to new relationships. I’m able to tell if he’s gonna work out with the girl pretty easily usually.

So we’re getting close to the end of the year and Prom is about to roll around. I ask him if I’m gonna be able to post prom pictures online so that my family members can see. He is immediately completely against it. Keep in mind this is something that him and I have been discussing for quite a long time and he originally said that I could. He took back his word because he was suddenly and uncomfortable with it. Which I understand completely but also, you took back your promise. 

When this discussion came around I was slightly scared that it was going to be a make or break situation, which it turned into as a simple discussion transformed into a 2 1/2 month argument that made a relationship very brittle. About two weeks before prom was my birthday. Knowing that he was coming over to my house for my party, I asked if I could have my dad sit us both down and we both explain our side of the story to him and my father gave his honest opinion. He was against it at first but then let me sit him down with my father. 

The conversation went well and my dad suggested only letting me post about us on special occasions which my boyfriend agreed to. After word got out that I let my father help with this decision, I started receiving a lot of flak from family friends that were about my age as well as just friends in high school. I even got a nasty message from his sister. He seemed fine with the whole meet though, he didn’t seem uncomfortable. And it did end up finding a good compromise for us and we went on from there. We did end up breaking up but that was for another reason. 

I wouldn’t have gone to my father if I knew what to do in this situation. I didn’t want to never be able to post about us, which was the ultimatum he gave me. I was just so lost and didn’t know what to do. 

Sorry forgot the TLDR!
I asked my dad for advice in a relationship regarding a heavy discussion. 

So am I the asshole for asking my dad for advice?

no