In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

A bit of background on me: I’m a competitive powerlifter. I total 1300+ @ 163 lbs (only mentioned for credibility; if you know much about powerlifting, it’s a pretty solid total, 420+ wilks. I’m not just some fat dude who calls himself a “powerlifter” to justify my eating habits). 

I have to eat. A lot. Right now I’m bulking and with my daily activity, I need a total of 3800+ calories a day. That’s a fuck ton of food. 

As such, I admittedly eat unhealthy. Desserts many times a day, soda (easy 200 palatable calories), a bunch of snacks. Unhealthy foods are much more easy to eat a lot of versus healthier foods. I do get in 200+ grams of protein, but to gain muscle and to gain strength, the only thing that matters is your protein and calories. 

My girlfriend comes from a good place, but she consistently nags me about my diet. Don’t get me wrong; I’m not afraid of a vegetable and fruit are delicious; she’s just concerned with the amount of sugar/fat I’m eating. But as mentioned earlier, 3800 is a LOT of food. I can barely tolerate eating that much with my current diet; I physically can not scarf down 3800 of “healthy” calories. I can eat much better when I’m cutting/losing weight, but that’s probably 1/3-1/4 of the time. She wants me to me to limit my sugar intake to 1 sweet a day, max. Which, again, sounds reasonable. But it is completely counterintuitive to my current fitness goals. 

And it’s not about weight. My body is great; when I tell people I compete, people assume i compete in bodybuilding. It’s genuinely about the fact that she doesn’t like me eating unhealthy. Keep in mind; I’ve been dating her for a year and I’ve competed for around 1.5. So this isn’t anything new. When we first started dating, she thought my “cheat days” were always just planned on dates because I look fit, so she assumed I had a much healthier diet than I did. 

AITA for telling her I refuse to compromise?
RIGHT

This is so dumb, but you wouldn't believe the impact it has had on my family. 

I'm 19, I have twin girls who are now three years old. I'm a university student living with my boyfriend of four years in a small apartment, with two small rescue dogs. We don't have a whole lot of money, but we can live comfortably as long as we don't waste our money. Because of this, when me and my partner decided to get a dog last year, we chose adoption over buying a puppy (there were a few reasons along with money, such as wanting to rehome an unfortunate dog and also, we wanted to have a slightly older dog that was more adjusted to kids). We went to the shelter and found two beautiful boston terrier girls. They are both two years old and sisters, like my daughters were at the time, they had been around kids in their first home and really seemed perfect, so we got both of them. They are amazing and we love them so much, the kids love them and the dogs are really well behaved. 

Because we have a two bedroom apartment and not a whole lot of space/money, my boyfriend and I donated and sold the baby clothes as the girls grew out of them, keeping only the sentimental pieces. However, we fell a little bit behind somewhere and ended up sorting through quite a lot of 0-6 month clothes that we left at the back of a closet. Now, my sister in law has recently found out she's pregnant. Her and her husband are really well off and had a son a few years ago who was dressed head to toe in designer clothes from birth. I didn't think they'd struggle for clothes. My boyfriend suggested we could give the clothes to his sister when she found out she's pregnant at a family meal, where my SIL was in attendance, but everyone sort of laughed it off so I thought nothing more about it. 

Fast forward a month or so, we finally get round to sorting the baby clothes. My husband and I had bought the dogs some matching sweaters setting us back £20, so I had the grand idea to start cutting and sewing the clothes into dog sweaters and onesies for them to sleep in through the winter. My boyfriend thought this was a great idea, the girls loved seeing the dogs in their old clothes and it was super cute. I posted pics of them on instagram, and basically got a snarky text from my sister in law about how she'd have to be buying a new wardrobe then. I took it as a joke, and sent her a few more pictures of the dogs thinking she was being silly, and she kicked off. MIL started kicking off too. Next thing I know, my SIL is posting on Facebook marketplace asking for cheap/free baby clothes. 

So, AITA for assuming my SIL would buy her own baby clothes when she didn't seem too pleased to have mine/dressed her first baby fully designer? As far as I know they haven't had a change in income, but am I wrong for assuming?
RIGHT

I play rugby with the guy in question (let's say, "Mark") but I don't usually hang out with him outside of matches and practice. He broke up with a woman (Jia) that I'm rather attracted to last week. For the sake of propriety, I had not real intention to make moves or anything. 

But last night I'm at a bar, and both Mark and Jia are there. I was at a table with some friends, and he was a couple tables over. Jia's with her friends as well but after a time comes over to my table and sits next to me, starts chatting me up. We flirt, and eventually she leans in and kisses me, and I reciprocate. I tend to think that PDA of that kind is a bit trashy so after a few seconds I get up with her and we go outside, but I can see that Mark has been watching the entire time. He makes a rude comment to both of us as we pass. 

Today at practice he picked a fight with me that would have come to blows if the other guys on the team hadn't held him back. He's steaming mad. I feel a little sorry for him, but at the moment I can't actually bring myself to feel bad about hooking up with Jia, or the fact that he was there for it. AITA here?

WRONG

