Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

The rules literally said, "You may submit no more than 10 posts in a 24 hour period as to prevent spamming".

This subreddit shares the same iconic movies over and over again so I decided to share 8 different movies. Not 10. Not 15. But 8 movies from the 1910's and 1920's in a couple of hours. I didn't share any more movies for a couple of days, but when I checked my messages today, this one person told me to stop spamming the subreddit.

Turns out the movies I shared are still on the first page because people upvoted them, highest upvote being 12. People can downvote them, filter them out, or share movies so mine won't dominate the front page 2 days after I shared them.

So am I the asshole?
submitting 8 movies to one subreddit in less than 24 hours where the rules say "you may submit no more than 10 movies in 24 hours"

Background: 2 years ago, my wife forced me into one of those cheesy cardio boxing classes, because I was weightlifting exclusively. Long story short, I fell in love and my wife and I turned it into something we do together.  I ended up loving it SO MUCH SO, I hired a trainer to truly teach me the sport technically. Not just for cardio, but to actually box amateurs. 

Now, I told my friends who relentlessly made fun of me, called me out for talking about it. I admit, maybe I got too passionate- but I’d never been athletic so when I realized I actually had a knack for something, I couldn’t hold in the word vomit. Eventually the luster wore off, and I continued the sport on my own, even after openly inviting them to join me in sessions to learn etc- they all refused basically mocking me along the way. 

Fast forward: 2 years later, I’m quite good. I’ve trained for team USA(not seriously or competitively but I have trained with them and have a team USA license), and know what I am doing. I’m not even 50% of where  I wanna be, but I’m on the track. I’m not young(for he sport), I’m 30 but it became a personal challenge to be good and I’m achieving it. 

Now suddenly my friend who NEVER showed an interest, went to my trainer and picked up the sport. He didn’t tell me, I found out through my mom of all people, and my trainer of course. Now I confronted him because I felt it was shady and childish that he couldn’t admit that maybe, just maybe I inspired him and it’s a fun thing to do. But, instead I just feel hurt and almost resentful that something I worked hard to be good at and was mocked for- is suddenly cool. He asked me to come work out with him, and I flat out said I’m not interested and now training elsewhere. I have no ill will towards him as a friend but I have absolutely zero interest in training together or ever discussing it again. 

So AITA for basically saying I’m no longer interested in sharing that portion of my life with anyone and refusing to train? 
refusing to train(boxing) with one of my closest friends

Background:
I have a work friend, “Jesse”. We don’t hang out other than work functions and work. I like her as a person and focus on her good side. Her office mate, “Mindy” is an insincere bitch, happy to your face talk behind your back type. We get along OK but I don’t like her that much. Then there’s “Ken”, young and nice, I joke that I want to fix him up with my nephew, but he has “flavors of the week” so no go. Joking around together all of the time with all of us until the last couple of months. 

We used to all laugh together. Lately, our family-like work group has split in two; the clicky “Bermuda Triangle” and the rest of us (5). We all blame Mindy because she has been the same all over no matter what department. She brings down the impressionable Jesse and Ken to her level. 

Oh, and they are trying to get another coworker fired. He is their supervisor, space cadet, but works hard. They are in their smart phones half the day and complain about how busy they are. They leave 7 minutes early (the cutoff time) every single day. They set the space cadet up for mistakes. They ask him to do their work because they are “too busy” and then complain and blame him when they do things they told him to do. 

HERE IS WHERE I FUCKED UP. 
Jesse made a huge mistake. I don’t write people up because it’s not my style. I cannot even remember the last time I did because it has been YEARS. Since Jesse and Mindy are trying to get space cadet fired and setting him up I wanted to even the score. 

Well, Jesse found out it was me and confronted me. I apologized to her and said I was pissed, it was impulsive, I’ve been under a lot of stress lately and have been losing sleep. (All true). This incident happened and it was a major scheduling fuck up, and the family was very angry. Jesse said I should have given her the chance to explain (well HA- the Bermuda Triangle all 3 called out sick that day during the busiest clinic of the week.) I said I know your angry, I know it will be a while before you can forgive me. She said “I’m not angry, I’m disappointed, you don’t have to ask for forgiveness let’s move on and yada yada blah blah blah. 

What pisses me off is that I know she is angry, the Bermuda Triangle practically UNfriended me on FB (but did the next level down (took a break which is almost like blocking). ALL of them. It’s none of the other two’s business this is between Jesse and I. And I’m thinking, don’t ducking tell me you are not mad and then completely ignore me at work (like saying “goodbye Space Cadet have a good weekend” but saying nothing to me when I was next to him. 

I don’t know why I’m hurt. I know I was wrong in some ways. My husband told me “if she is the type that will throw Space Cadet under the bus maybe she is not the type of person you want to be friends with. 

But I always see the good in people and downplay the bad. I don’t care about Mindy, she is a bitch. I’m a little sad about Ken, but really hurt about Jessy. 
I’m not sure what to do. I’ll maybe post in AITA too. 
TL;DR: I wrote up a friend with shady work ethic. She found out and is being a bitch to me even though she said she accepts my apology. 
AITA?

writing up a friend at work

