Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

So today I had to take a 4 hour flight. I am a 6 foot tall woman, so airline flights are usually not very comfortable. When I booked my ticket I paid extra for the roomier seats, but unfortunately the seat I really wanted was already taken. So I decided to go with the seat next to it. For reference, [I wanted seat 12F, I went with 12E instead.](https://i.imgur.com/rwS5AUU.png). As you can see from the seating chart, 12F doesn't have a seat in front of it because exit row and a Flight Attendant has a little mini seat on the back of 10F. Unlimited leg room.

So I board the plane and get to my seat, and the guy sitting next to me in 12F is like seriously 5'6" MAXIMUM. He was even wearing boots that gave him an extra 3" or so (not by accident, I'm sure). His head just barely touched the luggage compartments above us when he was standing up straight. Literally the amount of distance to the next seat in front of him was probably longer than his whole body.

So we take off and of course it's uncomfortable. The guy in front of me immediately reclines, my knees are hitting the back of the chair, and I'm in a middle seat. For the first 30 minutes or so of the flight I kind of readjust myself every few minutes and I am in obvious discomfort. But the guy next to me ignores it and pretends like he can't see the pain that I'm in.

So I turned to him and said in a very polite tone, "Excuse me sir, but would you mind switching seats? As you can see my legs make it very difficult to sit in this seat, and I'm sure you'd be just as comfortable here." I had looked and he'd have like at least 5 inches between his knees and the seat in front if he was sitting here.

He snapped back at me in an annoyed tone, "I booked this seat. I'm not switching."

I managed to keep my polite composure and asked again, "Sir you aren't even using all that leg room and I could really use it. I'm in pain here and I will be for the next 3 and a half hours. Will you please consider it?"

Then he practically screams back at me, "Well, some of us get to be tall and others of us get to have comfortable airplane rides! Get what you get!!!" Then he put on headphones and leaned against the window to pretend like he was sleeping.

I was absolutely taken aback and just kind of sat there in awe. Like this was /r/PublicFreakOut material. This guy thinks that just because he's short and I'm tall, he gets to treat me like shit for asking politely to make my life a little more comfortable? I paid extra for this seat, and he's sitting there with literally his own height in leg room and he sees me suffering and he finds joy in it. Why are short men so jealous and vindictive?

Am I the asshole here for trying to make my life a little more comfortable? He wouldn't have lost any comfort at all.
AUTHOR

I (34 F) have two sons born 2 years apart. When my oldest son was born my in-laws insisted on opening a life insurance policy for him. This made me a bit uncomfortable, but my husband wasn't concerned, so we gave them his SS# and signed off on it. They claim it will continue to grow like an investment and he will be able to get cash some day. I don't have the details of the specific plan.

When my youngest son was born they had planned to enroll him in the same life insurance plan. We signed off on the paperwork again and thought everything was all set. Recently, my MIL told my husband that the "deal" my older son received is no longer available, so they are considering other investment opportunities and asked my husband what he would prefer. We discussed it briefly and agreed that a 529 college savings plan would be appreciated. We have 529s for both boys, but other people can also open an additional 529 plan for the same child.

After this conversation it made me uncomfortable that the boys would be receiving different investments from my in-laws. I was always raised to treat people fair and equitable. I asked my husband to ask them to change the life insurance policy they have for my older son to a 529, so that both boys would have 529s from their grandparents. 

I thought it was a reasonable request but my husband thinks that if I had the conversation with them about how they spend their money, that I would be an asshole. AITA?
NOBODY

Firstly, sorry for ant mistakes I didnt catch as I am on mobile. 

So, we live in Massachusetts and its snowing in our area tonight. She doesn't want to drive in the snow and madenit very clear she wants me to pick her up because he dad is bring her and she doesn't want to drive in the snow. 

Im currently borrowing a friends car because my car is in the shop for repairs. It was a lucky conicidence they were leaving for vacation the dst after it broke. 

Regardless, she wants me to drive to get here wich in and of itself is honestly fine. 

She texts me telling me we should get takeout. I respond saying I have food in the house and I dont want to spend more till I pay for my car. She tells me to not be mad when she gets tskeout for just her becauese she cant adford to buy for us both. 

I find it in bad taste my girlfriend wants me to pick her up, drive to get her food, then drive her back to my house so she can eat it in front of me when i could prepare us a perefectly good meal we could both enjoy. I told her this, and she starts with the overdramtics about how she guesses she just wont eat at all. Intold her to not playbthat card when she knows i have food just not tje tskeout she wants. She told me to fuck off and shed see me when i get there to pick here up. 

Am I an asshole for thinking all this is in very poor taste on her part? Am I being unreasonable and selfish? I honestly don't know so some opnions would be nice.



P. S. And i supposed for the record, its not that she wants a favor, but its whenever i tell her no she gets very hostile i think its a rather toxic trait. 

OTHER

