In this task you are given an anecdote. You must find out whether the anecdote is something the author has done or is considering doing. Label the instances as "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and label them as "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future.

Background:  
I (13M) have a really supportive best friend (14F), and my brother is 17M  


So, I am talking to my friend on the phone, and my brother, who has not left his room the entire day and is in a crappy mood, comes to fetch some clothes.  


Me: "Hey (brother), is this the first time you've left your room today?"

Brother: "What, do you have your girl on the phone? I guess you're trying to impress her"

  
This pissed me off for 3 reasons: 1. She's. Not. My. Girlfriend. and 2. "Your girl" just sounds mildly sexist in this case, and 3. I don't need to impress my incredibly supportive best friend, and again, it sounds mildly sexist.

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So to get him off my back, I lie and say "(brother), I'm watching The Office"  
Brother: "OP don't lie to me"

Me: "(brother), I'm talking to (different Male Friend), what do you want from me"

Brother: "Sure."

ATP, I keep looking at him, wanting him to leave so I can continue my conversation, but he's not going to leave, so I turn around, continue the conversation trying to say as little as possible until he finally leaves.

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I have a reputation for being a huge nerd and my brother knows this, so I sent him this text:

me: I'm legitimately curious as to what makes you think I would ever possibly have a girlfriend

me: I'm the guy nobody likes, remember

brother: Idk if ur trying to make me feel bad for u, or if ur trying to be funny but I don’t think I could care less

me: I don't need your pity, and I definitely don't need your humor approval

brother: Aaron stop texting me omg

me (Directly after, didn't have time to read the above message): And if you couldn't care less, don't be a snotty a-hole

brother: Stop being a fucking drama queen Aaron

brother: Only text people if you have something important to say

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WIBTA if I sent the following text:

"Oh goody, a life lesson. I'm so sorry to interrupt your beauty sleep, I'm sure it's very important. And I don't know if you know this, but "fucking drama queen" 's usually like making a scene, ergo calling someone a "fucking drama queen" after storming into their room and deciding that the exact best thing to do is croakily stereotype and insult. "
HYPOTHETICAL

To start out with, she did have the best friend title and I had it for her, but we are very different and fit better in different cliques so we've both agreed that it's okay to go different ways like that. This decision was made about a year ago when I started dating a guy and found a small friend group I really loved. 

       Fast forward to now, she and I have two classes together so we hang out during them like normal. However, whenever I bring up conversation about things I'm interested in or currently working on at the moment (we're both artistic and love trying new medias) she kinda of gives half-assed responses. I get that talking about certain things with no shared interests can kinda be dull, but maybe I'm wrong in thinking she should at least try to sound anything but bored or annoyed? 

        Anyway, this isn't just some topics. Every morning now when we see each other, whatever convo we have, if it's something I'm talking about she just gives off this annoyed look. 

  I also go to her for advice occasionally, because I have like two friends that are girls while the rest of my friend group are guys. So I go to her for advice on girl stuff, or just life advice because she can be really keen on giving good advice. 
   
  For the past few months though, when I go to her she again responds with an annoyed tone. She says 'I don't know' or 'Dont ask me' for everything. I get not knowing what to say but when it's said like I'm being an annoyance it pushes me away. 

 She comes to me for advice too, which I'm fine with. I try to answer with my honest opinion and what I believe is the best advice from my POV. We're both seniors in highschool, adulthood is around the corner. The two of us have matured, however she acts very childish if the advice is not what she wants to hear. She proceeds to get annoyed and just end our conversation right then and there.  

 When she's talking about her projects and current happenings I try my best to actively listen and engage with her. But lately I'm not feeling it. If she can't return an small interest in my life hapenings then I just feel that I should distant myself from her, especially after we graduate. I feel like I am working for a good friendship with her while she couldn't care less if I was there or not. I feel like this relationship isn't worth pursuing anymore if it's not mutual. 

Am I the asshole for feeling this way and thinking about cutting ties? 

Tdlr: Friend of 5 years doesn't seem to put effort into our friendship anymore and it comes of that she's wants attention from me but not a mutual friendship. AITA for wanting to cut ties? 


Edit: So I brought it up and she kinda just tosses the subject to the side like normal. However, she seems to be treating me differently. While it's not all the time, she is listening more and generally being interested in what I conversate with her. She's not completely done with showing indifference and annoyance but I have noticed a difference, which is what I could ask for for a start. 

 
HYPOTHETICAL

I work at a factory and we had someone transfer somewhere else. They were the backup to the backup supervisor. I asked the supervisor for the position. Basically I would act as supervisor on weekends if the backup didn’t show up. Really all the job entails is showing up early, meeting with the previous shift supervisor, assign jobs, do extra paperwork at the end of the shift and stay late to meet with the next supervisor. All of that responsibility and no raise in pay (it looks good on a resume if I decide to move up). But apparently everyone on my shift now hates me for trying to get the superficial title. The other people that could get it either have too much work already, are brand new, have no interest in the job, or were supposed to retire years ago.  But all of a sudden everyone thinks I’m doing something wrong by trying to move up. 

HISTORICAL

