Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

Ex Input:
So for background on my cat: I’m in college but still live at home with my mom which means this is also where my cat lives. We have had him for about 16 years since he was a kitten, my parents are divorced but he has always stayed with my mom. He’s got this stomach thing so he’s prone to throwing up if you feed him wrong but he rarely does now (every now and then he’ll have a really bad week and it’s an issue) but he’s had this for 90% of the time we’ve had him at the least. He also does normal cat things like being in birds and other small animals occasionally. Also he’s terrified of other people/animals. 

My mom hates him, and much prefers her dog (that attacks me for trying to walk him. Every night. For the past 6 years... and she’s done nothing about... but that’s another thing) and while I’m gone visiting my dad in another state for 5 days she wants to board my. He is terrified of other people/animals and I feel that this is going to be unnecessarily stressful for him and it’s a waists of money that they (my mom and grandma) want me to pay for (that’s another post). She doesn’t want to deal with him and has said as much. But he’s really simple. If he’s being annoying just feed him and if he doesn’t want food check that the pet door is open and if it is just pet him for a few minutes and he’ll be fine. She doesn’t interact with him because she hates that he vomits and brings in dead things which is normal for cats. And she’s lived with him for 16 years. AITA for not wanting her to board him?

Ex Output:
answerable


Ex Input:
So I befriended someone online last year (we'll call him A) and learned that he was in a really shit situation financially and emotionally. He used to live in the south and his family and the people in his small town weren't very respectful or accepting of his gender identity/sexuality/general existence. I wasn't in a much better place financially, but after much begging and pleading on my part (he didn't want to move across the US to live in the Pacific Northwest initially because he'd never lived so far from home, which is understandable) he finally let me buy him a plane ticket to get to me. 

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He moved in with me in July of 2018, and I already had a job waiting for him when he got up here. Through no fault of his own, he was laid off a week later (the job had been for a temp agency in a volatile position that depended entirely upon the work load the company had, and the temp agency had hired too many people for what the job required). A couple of weeks later, he found another job. 

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At this point, we were living in a shitty little 1 bedroom apartment with a third roommate (J), who had approved of and helped with the decision to move A in with us, but J had made it clear he was moving out at the end of the lease. Come October, I'd been laid off from my job for the same reason as A (we'd been working in different departments at the same company), but found another job within a day of being laid off. He was working too, but was getting less and less hours. He eventually decided to quit...a week or so after we moved into our new apartment (this is important, as it sets a precedent).

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I barely managed to convince him to wait until he had another job lined up, because I would have had to pay all of our bills (which doesn't amount to as much as some people's I know) on not enough income. But it didn't matter anyway, because he ended up getting laid off from there too. Fast forward two and a half months, and he's finally gotten another job (after I've had to pull some shady shit to get our bills paid for which I already know I'm the asshole). I had to beg and plead with him to actually put in applications in the first place and I dragged him to the Subway he got a job at to put in his application. 

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For those of you who don't know, Subway doesn't do 'full time' (40 hours a week minimum) for anyone who isn't management. Their 'full time' is no more than 30 hours a week, as it is dependent upon the company's policy what their definition of full time is. Minimum wage here isn't enough to survive on, as in most places, especially not if you're only making part time. I was ecstatic for him when he got a job, because the stress of having to pay all the bills and buy our groceries was killing me. 

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I got an email from the recruiter of the temp agency I work for now that my site is hiring for 3 more positions in my department. I don't make amazing money here, but it's more than minimum wage and is guaranteed 40 hours a week. Not to mention that the only skill you need to have is the basic understanding of how to use a computer and talk on a headset, and it's temp to hire (hired on permanently after 90 days). I'd talked to A about this in the past about possibly getting a position here and he agreed that he would be interested. I told him about the position and he immediately said that he wouldn't do it because he'd just gotten hired on with Subway. 

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I have had three separate conversations (read: arguments) with him about this, trying to get him to understand why I'm so anxious and upset about him taking this part time food service job over a full time temp to hire position that is so much more secure and has consistent hours. And he comes back at me saying that I need to stop bothering him about it and that it's starting to piss him off that I'm not respecting his decision. I'm frustrated beyond belief, and I'm scared that I'm not going to be able to make rent if he's not getting consistent hours. It's putting strain on our friendship, and I'm too much of a pushover (not a humblebrag, i'm the fucking worst about this) that I'll never be able to kick him out, especially since he literally has nowhere to go. He couldn't even get back home to the south if he wanted to because we have $0 in savings. 

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Logically, I think I know I'm not the asshole in this situation, but I am constantly doubting myself about everything I say and do because I'm not a terribly confident person, and I'm anxious about everything and anything I do. Especially when it comes to roommates, as I've had pretty much this exact situation happen in the past. You'd think I'd learn, but that's where that pushover bit comes to bite me in the ass. Anyway, this is my first post on Reddit and I'm sorry for writing a novel for you all. Let me know what you guys think...?

Ex Output:
answerable


Ex Input:
My ex and I got together when we were at mutual low points in life. We helped rebuild each other and discovered we were not a good match, to keep thing simple. Now he is making me feel bad by borderline gaslighting me into thinking he "fixed" me and I abandoned him. In reality, we helped each other become better people, learned we were not good for each other, and decided to separate. 

Ex Output:

not answerable


