Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

The title pretty much says it all. I have a very particular taste in jewellery, so much that I don’t even own much because there is very little I like. 

I have found a ring that I love and knowing that the question is right around the corner, I showed a pic to my parter so that he would know what to get me. (He has already said he would prefer the get the ring and ask me with that than us shop together, so I was just being helpful with some ideas)

But when I showed him, he asked me “what about if it was a family heirloom, like my grandmothers ring?” and I didn’t want to offend so I just said yes, that would still be nice because the idea is lovely.

I have a feeling that he already has the ring (if I’m correct he got it last month) and that’s why he was checking with me, but I already know it won’t be of my taste because I’m just not into vintage things. 

I was married 12 years ago and the ring picked for me then was awful but I wore it anyway. I don’t want to have to do that again. I feel like just once I should be allowed to have something I like. 

He’s really not a family oriented guy, so I was very shocked by his question, but it must mean a lot to him to suggest it. (Unless his mum just gave it to him when he told her he was asking me, she’s big on regifting)

AITA for wanting something new that fits my style and tastes? 

Ps: we are quite well off and the ring I want is less than $500, so it’s not like it’s a $10K diamond I’m asking for. It’s about the style, not the price. 
NOBODY

So this March my grandparents on my dad's side of the family will be having an anniversary meal and on the list of those invited are: me, my mum, my dad, my sister, my aunt, my uncle, my cousin and his gf, my other cousin and her bf, my other aunt, my other uncle, and their daughter (my third cousin) and her bf. 

Now normally this would look quite normal were it not for the fact that apparently my gf can't come because

1)my sister would be "left out"
2)we've not been going out that long

Now in response I have the following things to say

1)my sister likes my gf and vice versa, they get along really well
2)by March me and my gf will have been going out for 7 months. 

My mum and my sister both think it's utter bullshit for my cousin's to have their partners but not me. 

Personally I'm appalled and more than a little resentful over this, but am I the asshole?

Now I love my grandparents to bits and I love my uncle and his family (aunt and two cousins) to bits, they're some of my favourite family members but I think it's quite rude and more than a little disrespectful to not invite my partner when everyone else has theirs. 

Even my sister leapt to my defense saying "how will randompasserby feel then?" When hearing about the exclusion of my gf. 

(For the record I'm not fond of my other uncle and aunt mainly because with her *everything* **has** to be a fucking competition from height and age to achievement and education, they look down on everyone who isn't like them and honestly I'm not fond of them, because they can be exceptionally rude)

But again, am I the asshole for being angry at them for excluding my partner even though it's their event and they choose who can come?

Oh, I learned this today btw, and I haven't said anything to anyone but my mum on this issue, I don't want to stir the shit pot any more than necessary. 
AUTHOR

I went into the laundry room, opened the washing machine, put my dirty clothes in and some washing powder, then turned it on and left.

My flat mate yells something a few minutes later so I go to see what's happening. She's in the laundry room and theirs water all over the floor.

"The basin leaked all over the floor. You'll have to mop."

"How did the basin leak?"

"I did some hand washing and took the cable out of basin."

"Wait, you didn't put the cable back in the basin so I have to mop?"

"Well, yeah because you made the mess."

"No, you caused this. I didn't even know that cable existed. You didn't replace it when you finished your hand washing so this is on you."

So, AITA for not mopping?

EVERYBODY

