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AITA for setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children (2Y &amp; NB) from their grandparents. 

We have asked every year that please do not buy our children lots of presents. We limit it to 4 presents where as an outfit (Top, bottom, socks) counts as 1 gift and the rest of the items (toys, books, shoes, etc...) count as 1. We don’t have a lot of room and don’t want our children to expect lots of gifts every year. We believe that Christmas is more about spending time with Family and not about how many gifts to give or receive. Also, we mention no large items. Again, we don’t have the room. 

My parents reluctantly give in to our demands, but my in-law (MIL) has a hard time following these guidelines. She flat out said I do not think I will be able to do this. 

Now, to give a little background. In the past, my parents would give around 10-15 gifts for their grandchildren. That’s a lot to me. They did the same to my siblings and myself growing up. Don’t get me wrong, I thank them for all they have provided but to me it’s too much. As for my MIL, she will give upwards of 40 gifts per grandchild and about 20 gifts to children and significant others. Not even all of the gifts are even wrapped. The gifts would range from little toys to playstations tp TV to MacBook and such. She would easily spend 15k-20k on Christmas alone and who knows what else during the year. 

So last year, my parents gave our daughter the 4 gifts but added a few extra items in her stocking. I was fine with that. My MIL gave 12 wrapped gifts, all with multiple items inside. So, I got up early and hid half the gifts so my daughter wouldn’t seen them. So it looked like she only bought 6. 

I know she has a spending problem. My wife’s siblings all say just accept the gifts and get rid of them when you get home or just give them a list of what you want so you don’t get crap. This goes for both themselves and their children. Last year, I just did not accept any gifts from her to me. My wife receive about 4 or 5 gifts plus a gift card. We both got significantly less than the others. I only ask because this year she mentioned that wasn’t able to do Christmas gifts this thanksgiving, we rotate holidays with my family and my wife’s, and that she will be mailing them to us. 

AITA for limiting gifts and refusing any that over the limit?
setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children from their grandparents

We where on our way out of town and had made it half way.

She got off the wrong exit even though I told her it was not the right one.

When she realized she was getting off on the wrong exit she gunned the car to get back to the on ramp quickly.

She was not paying attention and T-Boned a driver coming from our right hand side.

I have rotator cuff issues now and she fractured her tibia.

I have known her for a long time but her negligent driving could have killed both of us.

Our friends tell me to let it go but I just feel like I am done with her.


stopping a friendship after their driving got us into a preventable accident

We (2 F) just got a new housemate a few days ago and I'm already wishing we hadn't chosen him. 

So, we have a 10 month old baby who crawls everywhere and has her fingers in everything. Our new housemate, G, is a super lovely guy but A. He doesn't wash his hands after going to the toilet (something I've tried hinting at to avoid addressing it directly) and B. He spent 45 minutes in the bathroom trimming goodness knows what hair on his body (I saw him doing his belly &amp; later he closed the door which can only mean pubes, right..?). I left before he finished, and when I got back (He wasn't in) I wanted to do the baby night routine when I found his hair everywhere!! On toothbrushes, contact lens cases, mouth guard etc. When I saw loads floating in baby's bath, I lost it and texted him. I was frank but nice (I asked a friend). While I was at it I mentioned the hand washing. He is also a smoker despite us clearly stating non-smokers only. (He told me he assumed outside is ok. No, it's not, man!) I THINK he now vapes in his room (which I'm not happy about) but he says it's without the nicotine. Either way, his room smells stuffy already. (It drafts into the hall.) Oh, and I also went on a cleaning spree after this and I found parts of the toilet full of pee spray. I'm seriously grossed out. But he is a nice lad! (I haven't talked to him yet because he's still not home but I intend to in the morning. I talked to him about the smoking and he said "I'll stop. Dont worry." But I know from someone who saw him the next day that he had a cigarette.)

Anyway, WIBTA if I give him his notice already? Would that be unfair? Or should I give him a chance and see if he betters himself? 

kicking out my brand-new housemate because he's not clean enough

