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Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
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I’m a junior in high school who has some lofty goals for college, and I understand that part of the process for really good schools is getting a good ACT score. I took it last summer and got a 34 composite, and I now have a 35 superscore. I thought that that was good enough, but I didn’t study that much for it (just took a practice test and reviewed some techniques). My worst section was math, mostly because the math on the ACT is from classes I haven’t taken in a few years, so I was a little rusty. However, I’m proud with my score and feel like it is more than adequate.

My parents, however, don’t think the same way. They think I need to take the ACT one more time, and put some serious study time into it. I don’t really want to (but am anyways) and expressed my frustration with them.

My logic: my score is still really good. The ACT is supposed to be an aptitude (predictor of future success) test rather than an achievement (test of learned skills) test, so studying for the ACT is learning to get good at the ACT and not good for what the test actually wants to test. I don’t want to take it again and take the time to study when I could do other things. Also, the other parts of my application are strong, so if my ACT is “weak” to my parents, they’re forgetting that I have other stuff as well. Also, I feel like if I took it again I’d be doing it for them and not for myself which makes me feel icky. I feel like I’d only be getting my score up so they could show off or something, which I know they wouldn’t but still feel like they would.

Their logic: I could improve my score. I know I could do better if I studied more, and one or two more points on the composite could possibly sway my results for college admission. There’s no harm in taking it again, and I’ll be happy if I improve anyways, even if I’m upset about it now.

AITA for being mad at my parents about retaking this test?
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NOBODY


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## Girlfriend tends to hit me during arguments.

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Me (25M) and my girlfriend (22F) were watching a movie. I was holding her ankle with my hand and without knowing I was rubbing it with my finger, I tend to do that sometimes subconsciously and my girlfriend hates it.She has told me several times to stop doing it, but sometimes I just can't help myself and start doing unconsciously. After she told me to stop, I apologized and said that I did not notice that I was doing it. She was angry at me that I did it in the first place and started to rub my neck with her finger to "pay me back". After some time she said "How do you like it?", since at that point I was annoyed that she did it, I said "I like it a lot" then she answered "ok then" and proceeded to rub my neck for the next 5 minutes, knowing fully that I did not like it. After I did not pay attention for some time, she started rubbing my face to get me more annoyed, I told her to not rub my face, then she started to rub near my ear, I told her to stop because the sound is annoying. Then she told me why should she stop when I do it to her. I said you already did more to me than I did to her.

Then she told me to back off from her (we were cuddling up until that point). I backed away and she started to play with her phone and not watch the movie with me. Then I asked her why is she not watching the movie with me, she told me to "fuck off" and leave me alone. I said to her "It is not fair that you are acting like this, since I apologized and let you have your revenge, then she told me to shut up and I repeated to her that it is not fair. She then got very angry and got very annoyed by me and kicked me in the face, it is not the first time she hit me. Usually when I annoy her she hits me and tells me it is my fault since I did not back off and ignored her warnings, so I have accepted that it was my fault. This time instinctively I hit her in her leg (Throughout our 3 year relationship I have hit her 3-4 times including this one and I don't hit with my full force as I do not want and hate to hit her at all) and then she got more angry. I told her it is not fair what she is doing and called her stupid, then she grabbed hear earbuds and told me "call me stupid one more time and I will hit you", so of course I called her stupid and she hit me,then I did it again. She said for every time you call me stupid "I will hit you" so I kept calling her stupid and she kept hitting me until hear earbuds broke. Am I the asshole here?
answer:
EVERYBODY


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Heres some context

My relationship with this friend prior to this was already not that good because he always makes these racist asian jokes when I join the call and would continue making them when I'm in the call. Also he would keep moving me around the calls on the server so all I do is take his roles away for literally a second and give it back, but he always gets angry and just leaves.

One day he decided to go to the afk channel with these 2 other guys and unmutes themselves to talk. I saw this and I tried moving them out but they keep joining the AFK channel so I just server muted them until they moved out. The other two didn't really mind but the "friend" started calling me a cunt, asshole, and bitch on DM. His main argument is that this is a casual server with friends so he should be able to talk in AFK, and my main point is that this isn't a big deal: I've unmutes him and his friends and he can just talk on any channel on the server except for AFK, since that is for AFK people only. After some arguing I said "maybe the autism is getting to you but you should just relax and reflect on this when you've calmed down." 

Remember, this guy has a history for dark and racist/offensive jokes/speech style, so I thought simply saying he's autistic wouldn't be much of a deal. (He would joke about down syndrome, autism, Asperger's, all kinda stuff all the time)

AITA?
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EVERYBODY


