Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

Husband can’t drive for shit and almost rearends people constantly. He did this last night but got closer than normal and I reacted by bracing my foot against the dash. {I know this would shatter my leg if we crashed, but it was instinctual} so apparently feet on his dash is husbands pet peeve so he reached over and wrapped his hand around my foot and started jerking it and yelling at me to get my foot off his dash. I told him he made me really uncomfortable and afraid cause trying to use physical force to make me do something can lead down a very scary path so he’s now threatening divorce cause if I believe he would ever be violent I don’t know him st all. Well buddy, you weren’t violent exactly but the only reason you didn’t get my foot off your dash is cause I never skip leg day.
EVERYBODY

So my girlfriend of 2.67 years and I both go to the same college and until recebtly we were both RAs, I graduated last year but due to some unforeseen classes and requirements I was going to have to take another 1-2 years to complete my second major. I also learned that this would cost me $50,000-$60,000. I didn't think I could afford this (it would be more than the first four years combined) so I decided to transfer to a cheaper school to complete my certification, but I'm still taking 3 classes at my first school for prerequisites. 

Also, I was promoted to head RA at the end of last year, but since living on campus would cost me $15,000 I believed it was best to quit that job, move home with my dad, and work full time at my other job.  

The issue comes with my relationship, because I'm now living and working 30 minutes away, I don't get to see my girlfriend a lot. I still go down every day and we will often spend a few hours together most week days, and saturday but all semester she has often brought up how I ditched her or abandoned her or "chose money over our relationship" and I do understand that not seeing each other as much as we used to is hard and frustrating but I also don't feel like I made an unreasonable or ridiculous decision in moving home. 

She also gets upset whenever I have free time that I have to use doing things like cleaning up my room (everything is just strewn everywhere and there are piles of my stuff from when I moved) or spending time with my dad, when I could be spending it with her, although I do kinda understand as there is not much time for her and I to be together and that's all she really wants. But she often attacks me and says that I'm an asshole for the choice that I made.
OTHER

My step mom treats me like shit. She's from Romania but is a citizen allegedly. I don't know what my dad sees in her. She's really mean like when my dad and her are talking about politics and I try to add something she says "adults are speaking". Bitch.  I don't know what she wants. My dad doesn't have money or anything. She told my dad I'm fat and put me on a diet and took my PS4. I'm not allowed in my own house until it's dark out. She has no right to do this she isn't my mom and any time I try to talk to her she disrespects me. She talks to me like I'm brain dead and says shit like "when you pay bills in this house then I will treat you like adult". She talks shit about me in her language all of the time. One day I had enough and started giving her shit right back. I looked up some stuff about her country and they were like a communist dictatorship until the 80's so I start calling her comrade, Elena Chowcescu, I learned some cuss words too and she gets so pissed lmao I tell her I'm going to call ICE on her ass and that she's not even white she's a gypsy and she loses her fucking shit. My dad acts like I'm the bad guy but he didn't do shit when she was bullying me and now she can't take a dose of her own medicine. 

EVERYBODY

