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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I frequent a well maintained municipal par 3 golf course near my work. Yesterday after work, I met a friend there to enjoy a casual round. There was a group of 12 younger dudes playing in foursomes. Totally normal. Then I see them teeing off from different areas than the actual tee box, elongating the holes (longest holes are 110 yards.) Ok, whatever. They kept a decent pace. However if a player didn't hit the green on their first shot, they would hit a second and third ball. When my friend and I got to the greens after them, they were peppered with ball marks. This happened on every green. Some folks like, 'oh its just a municipal course, i dont have to treat it nice.' I hate those people. 

I play at this course all the time and I would describe my game somewhere in between bad and fair. I try to repair as many ball marks as possible so perhaps the golf gods would take pity on a poor soul. Keep in mind that the ground is fairly soggy here and these players were leaving some big craters. 

As my buddy and I approached the 7th tee box, the whole group of players were now amassed on the 8th tee all playing together at this point. After teeing off, we passed each other and I called out to them. "Hey, are you guys on a team or something?" I asked. I was thinking for several holes how to approach these guys. Honestly I thought they were in high school. When one of their players said, "Yeah, we're on a team," I lost my shit and shouted, "then fix your fucking ball marks!" None of them said a word. My buddy says to me, "Geez, old man much?"

We finished putting on the seventh green, and the entire group is was posted up, chipping and putting on 8. The 8th tee box is right by the parking lot so we decided to just call it a day. As we went past all their golf bags they left on the 8th tee box, I noticed... they were from a COLLEGE team. They definitely know better.

I googled the school and emailed their head coach. I did apologize for using profanity. But yes, I did snitch on them. 

Am I the asshole? 


answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : This is from the perspective of my fiancé, as she wishes to know if she’s being unreasonable, and I want all that sweet, sweet karma.

Context: My fiancé, Bestbuds200, has a twin brother with whom he is very close. That brother and his girlfriend recently got a dog that is still a puppy. It used to be easy to arrange visits to our new home, but now their dog has to come with them wherever they go. 

They don’t live near anyone, so they can’t find a dog sitter. Because of this, the last 2 times they visited, they brought their dog. The dog jumps up on people, but is generally very nice. Just very energetic. It scares the hell out of our cats, but does no harm to them. 

The last time it was here it got on my nerves because I don’t like to be jumped on. In addition, it jumped on a coffee table, and, when jumping off, caused the glass top to slide off and shatter. This was an antique. In addition, the dog put tears in our back screen door.

My fiancé and his brother are trying to arrange another visit, but I have forbid the dog to come to our house again. This has made my fiancé’s brother and girlfriend very angry, as they argue their dog is just a puppy and that’s the way puppies are. This has thrown a wrench in things, and I feel as if I am to blame.

Am I the asshole? 
answer:
no


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I (17f) told my sister(18f)  that I had a crush on my guy friend a long time ago. Today while shopping our oldest sister(26f) said “Oh, don’t you have a crush on that kid?” I hadn’t told her about it so I asked how she knew. She said “(Our sister) told me you did.”

So I got mad and I talked to my sister. I told her not to tell people who I have crushes on. At the time I didn’t know if she had told just our older sister or other people as well, but I was pissed because it’s something I told her in secret.

I didn’t tell her until today, but I didn’t want my older sister to know. I didn’t think she’d be dumb enough to tell someone in our family, especially the most immature one. She got defensive and told me that she trusted our sister and told her everything, and “who would she tell anyways?” Even though my sister personally knows him and his friends. She said I was being immature, and just cause she told one person doesn’t mean she’s gonna tell anyone else. She never said she was sorry or that she shouldn’t have said anything.
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yes


