Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

I (26) found out two days ago that my now ex girlfriend (21) was HIV positive. We had been together for almost 8 months and I never used protection with her. When she disclosed her status to me she said it was “ undetectable” with the medicine she was taking so that my chances of being infected were zero/none. Right after she told me I went to get tested and thankfully everything came back negative. I feel so bad for leaving her because she was born with the disease so it’s not her fault she has it. When we started seeing each other she started making an effort to take her HIV medication on a regular basis, workout, eat healthy, and even decided to go back to school I...As someone who still loves her, I want her to continue doing all of those things even without me in her life. Am I the asshole for leaving her are causing her to fall back into an unhealthy lifestyle?
breaking up with my girlfriend after she told me she has been HIV positive

My girlfriend and I (male) are taking a trip abroad soon, where we plan to swim. She loves swimming, and loves to wear a bikini. We're both of the same religion, however I'm probably a bit more religious than she is, although this doesn't factor in so much when I consider what she wishes to wear. She asked me how I felt about this, knowing that people in my family are more conservative. Now I honestly have no problem at all, and have been clear on that with her, going so far as to promise here that there will literally never be a time when I ask her to cover herself up. I do have one issue though, and when prodded, I told her that I would get jealous seeing other guys notice her, which is the only thing that gets to me really. I personally also don't like swimming with just a pair of shorts on, I wear a rash top or just a shirt sometimes.  


I told her it's her body, and she can do as she wishes, and I won't shy away from being around her at all. She complained that if she did wear longer, more conservative clothing, it may be uncomfortable to swim in. I told her that it's up to her if she feels that way, and she should choose to be comfortable above all else. She still doubted that I was being fully honest, and didn't know if she should cover up more or not.  


Eventually, after some jokes and a lot of back and forth, I did eventually tell her that I think she could wear a rash top, with a bikini underneath and  some short shorts, if she really wanted me to feel totally comfortable, and she could in my opinion swim comfortably. Although again, she didn't have to make that compromise for me at all. She seemed really happy to bring this to a conclusion though. I even gave her a white rash top I had which fit her almost perfectly.  


This still left me feeling uncertain - did I force her to make this decision? I tried to be as honest as possible with her, without pushing her in any direction. AITA?
giving my girlfriend an ultimatum on what to wear

Okay long story but I’ll keep it short. 

Back when Toys R Us went bankrupt my husband and I went to go look and see what stuff was on sale. We bought a few things but more specifically bought a pretty expensive stroller that was like 75% off even though we had no kids at the moment. We had been talking and making plans to hopefully get pregnant in the next year or two and we both conceded that buying the stroller was a good option. 

Fast forward a few months and I found out I was pregnant. I was super excited and happy but he immediately acted a little off. We talked and he said he wasn’t excited about the timing but happy to have a baby. We told our friends and family and shortly after I had a miscarriage. 

It’s been approximately 7 months since the miscarriage. We still have the stroller and it’s sitting in the closet. Yesterday would have been my due date. We were at a party and some guy who knocked up his gf, who we know but aren’t friends with, was at the party. All of a sudden my husband yells across the room in front of 15-20 people “HEY CAN WE GIVE THEM THE STROLLER? WE HAVE NO USE FOR IT SO WE MIGHT AS WELL” I didn’t want to be seen as a major bitch so I simply said yes. 

Well today we got into a huge fight about it. Not only did he put me in the spot by not consulting with me but I feel like he’s completely disregarding everything we had talked about previously. It’s like he’s completely oblivious to the fact that one, I kept the stroller because I’m hoping to put a baby in it soon, and two he doesn’t care about how I feel during this time. 

I blew up and told him I felt like he didn’t care, he stayed silent the whole car ride, walked inside the door and immediately headed for his PC and didn’t event apologize. Am I being an asshole and over reacting here or is he being a fucking douche? 

being angry over promised stroller after miscarriage

