Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

[Q]: So, I’m a frequenter of subreddits like r/insanepeoplefacebook and r/vaxxhappened because I find them both entertaining and aggravating. I’ll even listen to reddit readings on YouTube while I’m doing other things. My mom happens to be a NICU nurse (for those who don’t know that means she takes care of sick and/or premature babies), so I’ve had plenty of discussions on this subject. However, I’ve only ever discussed it myself with people who hold the same opinion.

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Anyways, I was browsing my Facebook feed this morning and happened to see that my childhood friend’s mom shared an article titled “What You Didn’t Know About the Aborted Baby Parts in Your Vaccines.” I was shocked because I hadn’t expected to see something that looked like it came straight out of an anti-vax subreddit video on my own Facebook, much less from someone I’ve known for 18 years, but there it was. I skimmed the article and, of course, found it filled with claims like aborted fetal matter being in the chicken pox vaccine, that you can’t be pro-life and pro-vax at the same time, and lots of religious overtones (I am religious myself btw).

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I commented on the post, asking her to please not share “fake news” and concluded with “don’t fall into the anti-vax trap.” I was a little harsh in my overall reply, but not rude. After commenting, I decided to message the friend whose mom it was that posted the article. I opened with “your mom is sharing anti-vax articles on Facebook,” expecting a funny convo or at least an interesting conversation. I wanted to know how she felt about it, but her response surprised me.

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Apparently, her mom has always been anti-vax and my friend hasn’t been vaccinated either. I wasn’t expecting this, and it threw me for a loop because I had assumed she was pro-vax and had started off the conversation with an already negative undertone concerning anti-vaxxers. She asked what I expected her to do about her mom posting stuff like that I told her that I didn’t expect her to do anything, I just don’t like that false and dangerous information is being spread so casually. I told her I just wanted her take on it and she said that it’s her mom’s business and even if she didn’t agree that she would appreciate it if I didn’t come after her about it. I apologized and told her that I just have very strong views on the subject. She tells me off by saying that even if I don’t agree with something, I shouldn’t come off so aggressively, especially since it has nothing to do with her. I apologized again, saying that I didn’t mean anything rude by it and the conversation was left at that.

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This exchange totally ruined my morning and I feel really shitty about the whole thing. I don’t regret commenting on the Facebook post and I still feel very strongly about vaccines, but I feel really bad about unintentionally involving my friend because I didn’t know she wasn’t pro-vax like me.

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Am I the asshole in this situation??
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[Q]: Today I was at a party and my friend was eating a donut really aggressively, I'm talking about half the donut was gone in one bite. So I jokingly tell her slow down it's not going anywhere cause I've seen people choke like that. I didn't think anything of it and continued on with my day. About 2 hours later after I'm leaving the gym my other friend text me stating that I hurt her feelings by saying this and I should watch how I say stuff next time. At this point I'm a little annoyed because the friend I told to slow down has said stuff way worse than "slow down" to us guys in the group. I'm talking about saying Little dick, Twink and bunch of other stuff. We have thick skin and just brush it off but as soon as we retaliate she always says she's a sensitive person so we shouldn't be mean. What I'm mad about is how tf does me saying slow down when scoffing down a donut offend you?I have screenshots if you guys would like to see this absurdity.I wanna know what you guys think and want to know if I'm missing something here?

Tldr; told my friend to slow down when eating,e friend text me saying I hurt her feelings even though she's say way more hurtful shit
[A]: answerable


[Q]: I try to teach my 5yo to knuckle himself he quits after just a couple seconds and says "I can't". So today when I told him to try and wouldn't I took the car seat out and brought it inside with him in it. I told him he will stay in it till he gets out himself. (Even though I will probably let him out after too long) He got the chest buckle without issue. He has been sitting for 10 mins whining and saying he can't undo the base buckle. I feel like I might be an asshole for how I am choosing to do this but shouldn't he know by now? I have watched late 3yos and 4yos get in and out of their seats without issue. At least I took him out of the car. I know my father would have left me in the car to figure it out. He opens the car door from the outside and inside without issue. He has basically destroyed a controller button mashing. He can control the backhoe attachments better than most adults I have seen. Am I the asshole for expecting this of him? Or for how I am going about it?
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answerable


