In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

i just want to preface by saying i’ve never had a reddit before. i decided to make this account in heat of the moment. none of this is with ill intentions, and i just want to know whether or not i have the right to feel this way. i want to learn and grow.
for some background information, i’m a 17 year old latina/white mixed girl, and i own a fanaccount on instagram. i typically get my content from stan twt- videos and pictures, the usual. my account is a place for positivity and i’m often encouraging messages like self acceptance and growth. 

however today on my tl while searching for content, i stumbled across a tweet that made me unsettled. it was short and simple, reading as follows:
“white isn’t a race, it’s a disease”
i figured it was just another ongoing joke, people on stan twt are bold as hell with some of the things they say. i didn’t find it racist, i just figured it was a joke, a distasteful one at that. 
i looked into their replies, and everyone was agreeing. however, a few people seemed a little iffy about the remarks. op responded in a hostile way, saying things like this:
“what are these kkk bitches so damn loud for... omg just be quiet and go fuck y’alls cousin or sumn”
the more i read, the more upset i felt. i thought it was hateful, it made me feel a bit sad. i didn’t reply to it or anything, just logged off. i didn’t know if i was being overdramatic for feeling this way. i see things like this all the time, people saying whites are disgusting. it got me thinking. am i being too sensitive when i see stuff like this? if someone were to say something like that aimed at another group of people, it would be war.
now i don’t believe in reverse racism, rather i think that racism is racism no matter what way you look at it. if you’re discriminated against because of your skin color— then well that’s racism. 
as someone who puts their time into spreading love every day, i believe that all of this hate is only setting us further from a peaceful world without so much hate. why can’t people just love each other, despite the color of their skin? 

am i the asshole for thinking it is uncalled for to say things like this? 

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Am i the asshole here..so my husband is from Cuba..and I am from America. Obviously a lot of cultural differences between us. But sometimes when it comes to his mom, I get a little upset.  My question is pertaining to something that happened yesterday ( and many more stories like this) while leaving our 2 year old son with her, I had him pick a flower and take it to her. She saw this all happen, and when my son handed her the flower her response was to yell at my husband saying how he should learn from our son and give her flowers all the time. (Of course, special days deserve flowers even though they don't celebrate mother's day) but to just automatically go straight to telling her son it's his job to get her flowers frustrated me.. (isn't his job to get his wife flowers randomly?)  We've had similar situations to this. I.e. when I made a post about him being my king (mi Rey in Spanish) and she commented on it, saying he was HER king. One night my husband and I were talking and she came and interrupted completely and my husband told her to wait until we were done talking, and she flat out said that he needs to stop his conversation with me and talk with her, and that he SHOULD LOVE HER MORE. no, he shouldn't love either of us more, it's simply a different kind of love. Sometimes I simply don't know if I am being immature or just don't understand the culture, but I feel she doesn't respect me or my role at all, and expects her son to be more like a husband..than a son to her. :(
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I caught someone  stuffing multiple packs of center cut hickory smoked  bacon down his pants while I was picking up breakfast sausage. (He wasn't trying to be very inconspicuous, just stepped behind a cardboard box of paper towels and appeared with no bacon. 

So as I checked out I told the cashier about it nonchalantly and told her what the guy looked like. They called security and I left the store. 
I got home and told a couple friends about it. And they said "you didn't snitch did you?"

 And apparently now I'm a "cunt", "snitch" and "should mind my own business" 

Here I thought I was being civilized and I'm being chastised. 

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