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I really love spicy food, and a lot of my day-to-day meals have some sort of spice to it. It's just what I'm used to and prefer. I'm also aware that my spice tolerance is typically on the relatively high/extreme end.

Anyway, my "meal-prepped" weekday lunches (not necessarily healthy but enough to last a full week) are spicy, as you can guess, but a very decent/moderate level (at least to me). My workplace has a main communal kitchen and a smaller one that's closer to my cube, so I use the microwave in there to heat up my lunch. I often take it back to my cube to eat for a very quick lunch break, which a lot of people at my company do. At least several days a week, a particular coworker will repeatedly cough and comment, "Wow, I can smell the spice from my office." His office is maybe 20-30 feet away from my cube. I don't know if my lunch truly bothers them or if it's just them making a harmless comment, but I wonder if it's the former. That being said... I haven't asked them directly because 1) it's my lunch, not sure what I'm supposed to do about it, and 2) I eat for maybe 10 minutes, immediately wash the bowl in the kitchen, and the smell does not linger.

To give you an idea, my lunch for this week was tofu + vegetable stir fry with maybe 2 tbsp of gochujang (Korean red chili paste), 2 tbsp gochugaru (Korean chili powder), 1 tbsp red pepper flakes... This is for the whole batch, and it's not like I'm putting capsaicin in my lunch!

Anyway, AITA for eating spicy lunches?
bringing spicy lunches to work

I recently had a dispute with a friend that centered on my unwillingness to ask to speak to the manager of a customer service rep for an online retailer. I had expressed that the customer service rep was rude, but that I did not have time to go through the whole shebang of speaking to a manager. I said that I was angry in the moment, but the anger passed in a few minutes, so it was not a big deal.

Now, I can see that some may say it's better for me to speak to the manager for personal preference, whatever.

My friend's point was that I have some moral obligation to speak to the manager, as each time somebody does so they push the quality of customer service in the positive direction. According to her, by my reasoning that I do not have time to go through that process, I am saying bluntly that I do not have time to make the world a better place, and that I value my own time above her time and everyone else's time. She cited a few examples of instances in which she spoke to a manager or complained about some institution's behaviors and was able to affect positive change as evidence of the effectiveness of this approach. I mentioned that I almost never speak to the manager in circumstances where service is poor. I was only able to think of two or three times in which I have spoken to a manager. She seems to think that my reticence in this regard makes me an asshole.

Obviously, I think this line of reasoning is comical at best, but I am curious to hear other's thoughts. Am I The Asshole here?
declining to speak to the manager

Ob= older brother (not related) 

M=mom

Mb=moms boyfriend

(Backstory) ob got out of jail after 1 year for a car crash and just recently got out and works at subway (this is important later on) 

Ob at the time of writing this is 18 years old and started to live with us again in a small room in our house. When he got out he seemed chill and better before he went away, but after a month or so he went back to his old ways of stealing candy, running from the police etc...  (Nothing to bad). But it got worse over the last few months, Our dog Baya gave birth to 15 baby puppies and we plan on keeping one and giving another to my grandma, lately he's been referring to his friends as his dogs (he  contributed nothing towards raising them) and says he plans on selling all of my puppies. Everyone in the house disagrees with him but he won't listen, every so often hell try (and sometimes succeds) at taking a few to his friends house. Lately he's been telling us that he'll "find them homes" But the problem is they're still going and not ready to be given away yet. Our family has gotten fed up with his shit and whe he's gone my siblings (and sometimes parents) will consult with each other about what we should do about him. We've constantly told him that if he doesn't stop well kick him out and hell be homeless and won't be able to support himself (hence why I said he works at subway). We all eventually decided we're going to get rid of him in about 2-4 months. When he heard about this he started rambling saying stuff like "I have other places I could live" And "you guys are assholes".we do feel bad about this but we also know he'll go right back to being his former self. 

So please tell me redditors, are we the assholes? 

(If you have any questions please ask I'll try to respond as truthfully as I can) 

kicking my brother out of our house

