Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
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Question: For reasons unbeknownst to either of us, my girlfriend's dog is absolutely terrified of me.  This is the usual routine when we enter her apartment together:

- The dog hears the door open and excitedly runs around the corner to see my girlfriend.  As soon as it lays eyes on me, it turns around as fast as possible (you can hear its nails scratching the carpet) and sprints into the furthest away room to hide in the corner.

- As it runs away, it pisses and shits all over the floor in terror.

- At this point my girlfriend is embarrassed and asks me to stay near the door while she cleans up the piss and shit.

- The dog then stays in the corner of that one room and will not move under any circumstances (unless I come near it, in which case it sprints away as fast as it possibly can).  Despite having dated this girl since last summer, I have never once seen her dog voluntarily come out of that corner, including instances when I stayed over for three or four days at a time.  I'm not exaggerating.  It will stay in that corner, motionless, for days on end.  If she picks it up and walks over to me, then it starts violently thrashing like a fish out of water until she puts it down so it can run away.  If I stand right outside the room it hides in, then it just stares at me and visibly trembles in fear.  My girlfriend has the put the food bowl right in front of it so it can eat without leaving the corner because otherwise it just won't eat, sometimes for days.  And even when the food bowl is right in front of it, my girlfriend says it doesn't eat as much when I'm around as it usually does.

- Whenever I leave, my girlfriend says it's playful, affectionate, and "a totally different dog."

I should also note that there was an incident in December when I pet it and it aggressively bit me multiple times, so bad that people were asking me what happened to my hands.  I now have scars on both of my hands and haven't tried to interact with it since then.

My girlfriend has dropped some hints that she'd like to move in together, but frankly I don't want to live with that dog.  And I don't think I'm being unreasonable.  Why would I want an animal around when it: A) pisses and shits all over the place whenever I come over, B) refuses to interact with me in any capacity whatsoever, and C) has a history of attacking me.  And frankly, if the dog is this deathly afraid of me, then us living together honestly wouldn't be good for it either.

My girlfriend sees my perspective and has said that she may be willing to consider giving the dog to her ex-husband (they got the dog when they were together, but she took it when they split up), but I'm curious if I'm being an asshole by expecting her to do this.

Answer: NOBODY


Question: I've answered the door in my underwear a few times before, when I don't have a pair of pants ready, because I would feel rude to keep them waiting. I've never really noticed much of a reaction before, but tonight the pizza guy was clearly very uncomfortable, even physically taking a couple steps back when I opened the door. I tried to just sign the receipt and take the pizza quickly so he could leave, but I started feeling guilty. When I told my wife, she basically said it was shitty of me answer the door like that. 

I've never really thought twice about it, and have seen enough stories from pizza delivery people that I just figured they've all seen much worse, so they wouldn't mind, but should I start taking the time to dress more?

Answer: AUTHOR


Question: I'm 23 (Female), he's 22. We have been dating for about two years. We are both in grad school (law school/MBA, respectively) now, and met in undergrad. He had a girlfriend in high school and during early years of college. I don't know a ton about her or their relationship.  it's just he once told me that he lost contact with her and they don't talk at all.  Anyway, I have recently (I'd say past few months or so) noticed that he has been not only liking and commenting on her IG and Facebook posts (which everyone does and I don't think is that big of a deal in theory) — but the part that is more of a big deal to me is that he's also been sharing some of her Facebook posts on HIS profile. context: Many of her Facebook posts are of her singing and performing because she is in musical theatre/performing arts at the school she's at. Recently he shared one and said "So talented, miss you!" --which is nice but kind of weird.. why does he have to share that?  She does  auditions and stuff and is talented! But it is kind of bothersome to me when my BF posts and likes/comments on her posts but sometimes will "not see " my posts. I'm admitting it makes me kind of jealous-- but mostly just bothered and weirded out a little bit. I get she's talented. I see/hear her perform, act, sing in these videos, but it's just weird to me-- why does he have to SHARE them? Should I talk to him about it? Am I just overreacting?? 

Answer:
NOBODY


