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So this has been a story that's been bugging me for a while. I had a friend in elementary school, let's call her A, that was basically my best friend for a good two years. I'd transferred into the elementary in 2nd grade because my family had moved (we changed houses a fair bit cause my parents were good at gauging the housing market). I ended up staying there all through the rest of elementary.

Anyway, early days of 2nd grade she introduced herself and we became pretty good friends. (We'd always go over to her house to play because at the time her family was a little better off than mine and could afford things like a new Wii and a big dollhouse and lots of toys.) So up until about early fourth grade, A was my best friend in the world. We'd play together after school (eventually at either of our houses cause my mom got a better job and we could afford nicer toys), have dinner at each other's houses, all the usual best friend kit stuff. 

But for some reason, as we got a little older I become more stereotypically "nerdy" and not to mention I was a probably bit of a mess of a kid with unruly hair and the same 10 t-shirts all the time (I liked em, don't judge). A, however, started dressing nicer and even I think started wearing a little makeup to school (I wasn't allowed to touch makeup till I was 16, so I was pretty bad a recognizing it on people till like 7th-8th grade). 

One day at recess, I went to find A to play something together cause that'd what we did, and she just starts asking me all these weird questions. I don't remember most of them, but one that always stands out in my mind is "What's your favorite animal?" I'm not good at picking favorites and thought she might like if we had the same favorite as her's was a tiger (plus I've always been a cat person) so I said tiger like her.

A FLIPS OUT yelling at me that I can't have the same favorite animal as her because that means I'm copying her etc. etc. I remember crying as she was yelling at me and then never being able to talk to her again after that (I was lucky to find another couple of friends that were really sweet and one I still catch up with from time to time to this day) because she and her new friend group (all the classically popular girls) would always leave when I came around.

So yeah, you'd think that's it, dumb grudge from elementary school. But no, it gets kinda worse.

I was fortunate enough to be placed in the 'accelerated learning' program or whatever (puzzles for smart kids) classes in 3rd grade, of which there were two sections each for 4th and 5th graders. A was in the other section in my grade, and I learn on the day we "graduated" that we both got into the same local magnet school (only one in the county, so there was no avoiding her). I remember actually getting to talk to her once after the ceremony, saying how it was great she got in. I also gave her one to the two Webkinz animals I'd managed to win from the lottery prizes that day as an olive branch of sorts I think.

SIDENOTE: I loved Webkinz as a kid, cause I'm allergic to dogs and the one cat we had was super mean to everyone and we thought would probably kill any other pet we got (which proved true when she tried to kill our rescue kitten a few years later). I asked for one for every holiday/special event for a while. Birthday? Webkinz. Christmas? Webkinz. Special family vacation souvenir? Webkinz (and luckily that time a few postcards from Las Vegas cause my parents were smart enough to know I wasn't always going to have an expensive stuffed lizard). I ended up collecting a fair few of them from family gifts and such over the years, and it was A who introduced me to them so I thought she'd like it and we'd settle our differences.

Well my, in hindsight, buying of her friendship lasted a good month and a half maybe. She glared at me in the halls less and wouldn't catch my gaze only to shoot me a nasty look and then ignore me as often. I found some new friends I'm fortunate enough to still know in college but A never changed. Our middle school and high school were in the same building and we both got back into the school for our last four years (high school classes were more varied so I saw her less).

The thing that irritates me is so many people tell me to forget about it. My parents don't think our breakup (and subsequent encounters) could've been that bad, and my friends who had projects/classes with her in high school said she was pretty cool and that I should've tried to hang out with her on occasion. And if they didn't suggest that they'd just kinda nod at my explanation and change the subject. But A has never stopped looking at me like she wants to rip my soul out and feed it to her dogs. She never stopped ignoring my polite nods in public or excuse me's when I squeeze past her in the hallway (there was one occasion where I think she might've mocked me for it at her locker before school with others, but I might just be overreacting there idk).

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tl;dr A girl burned our friendship in elementary, ignored all my attempts at making peace, and proceeded to ignore me/glare at me just to make a point all through middle and high school.

Am I the asshole for never wanting to forgive her even though everyone said she's probably fine and I should maybe try to hang out with her?
never wanting to forgive her

First things first. I firmly believe that everyone has a right to do anything they wish. I'm just mad for other reasons.

I and my gf have been together for 7 years and we're getting married in a week. Once in a while she experiments with her appearance and I really enjoy it as much as she does. 

My family are conservative catholic christians. Just before our wedding she got a mohawk and some tattoos. I'm pretty sure my family will freak out and I'm afraid of the impending drama. She thinks its going to be fine and she only cares about my opinion. She looks hot I agree but I'm mad because of the wedding. AITA?
being mad at my gf for drastically changing her appearance just before our wedding

Me(17F) and my boyfriend(18) have been together on/off for 2 and a half years. Both times we've "broken-up" it's been because of a female friend of his convincing him to leave me. I know we weren't perfect but he never tried talking to me but whatever, we were both 16 so who cares right? He text me on my birthday asking to hang out and we got back together and that was about 10 months ago and we've been great since.

But now all of a sudden he's been sneaking off to see the friend that broke us up, and trying to play it off to me by just saying he's meeting "someone" but I know it's her. I'm not jealous, and I don't think he's cheating but when we got back together I stopped contact with one of my ex's (who was one of my closest friends for our whole relationship and was telling me the same things his friend told him) because I knew it bothered him and we had an agreement that we weren't going to let other people interfere with our relationship again. 

WIBTA if I went to see my ex again since he's sneaking off to see his friend without telling me? I'm not going to cheat or anything I just miss one of my closest friends. 

breaking a promise to my boyfriend that he's already broke

