In this task you are given an anecdote. You must find out whether the anecdote is something the author has done or is considering doing. Label the instances as "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and label them as "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future.

My fiance and I share the same first name - exactly the same spelling. She has an unusual, difficult to spell last name which she hates, people misspell it on a daily basis. We have been together for a few years and even I get frustrated when dealing with people getting it wrong (dinner reservations, plane tickets etc) so I understand how annoying and inconvenient it must have been for her for her whole life. She cannot wait to have my 'regular' last name. 

I should also mention that we are both women. The jokes that come when meeting new people get old real quick. 

The more I think of sharing the same last name the more I don't want to. It seems like its going to open up a massive can of worms - things like opening mail, bills, future child custody and even signing off on emails is just going to be confusing for nearly everyone we interact with, having two moms may already be confusing for our future kids let alone dealing with day cares, schools, doctors etc. I'm going to get really sick of *"which Jane Smith are you?"* I'm also not a fan of the prospect of having to put my middle initial on every correspondence and every interaction for the rest of my life. *'Yours sincerely, Jane A. Smith'* I think would make me sound like a right punce. 

To me, it seems that changing her last name won't actually make her life any easier, in fact I think that it will be worse and bring me into the mess at the same time. 

I've subtly mentioned that it won't be a good idea to which her response is that I don't know how hard it has been for her her whole life. When I brought it up again her response was to just stare at me as if how dare I bring it up again, so I've just let it be for now. The wedding is ages away, there is no way this changes my feelings toward marrying her. 

WIBTA if I take a stronger stance on this? 
HYPOTHETICAL