Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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Question: So, boarding to fly from San Francisco to Europe for an 11 hour flight. Pretty happy that I booked a window seat and fully prepared to do my pass-out-until-landing act.

Arriving at my seat, I see an elderly couple occupying my seat and the aisle seat next to it. I point out the older woman is in my seat.
Her husband mumbles something about her ankle being broken and that I can have their seat in the center section. 

Upon seeing that seat I guess the disgust was quite visible upon my face, because they quickly switched back to their own seats.
I felt a bit like an asshole.

I'm usually a pretty easy going guy and pretty pleasing to other people, however the idea of trading my paid window seat for a middle row seat on an 11-hour flight is asking a bit much...

Also, I don't really understand why a window seat would be better with a broken ankle? And if that's so important to you, why don't you just shell out the few extra bucks to book a window seat? A lack of planning on your part does not make an emergency on my part...
Or talk to the stewardesses to arrange something? 

I also don't really appreciate being confronted with a done deal instead of asking first...

So I feel like I'm the right here. Wdyt?


Answer: not giving up my window seat


Question: AITA - Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/goldenknights/comments/ab81ai/opinion_kicked_out_of_vgkcoyotes_game_last_night/?st=JQCV4M3N&amp;sh=ac8d89cd

TL:DR - got kicked out of my section at a hockey game yesterday by a power hungry usher for being “too loud and annoying”, security laughed at him and his manager chewed him out, tried to generate discussion in original thread but feeling some anger directed at me instead

I was directed to this sub by a commenter in the original post.  I guess I can’t provide full context unless you’ve been at a live sporting event AND have a devout passion for one of the teams playing, but this is Reddit, so everyone is allowed to have an opinion. 😂  And this rabbit hole is fun for me, I want to see how far this goes!

My questions:
1) I went to school in Philadelphia, so East Coast sports fans are “more passionate” or “assholes” depending on your view.  Does this play into how you should act at a sporting event?  I’ve never gotten yelled at before, why now?

2) I am naturally a loud person, despite having to act professional and be quieter in most environments, including work.  It is rare that I get to cheer overly loud for my team.  Should I just stay home from now on?

3) My wife tells me to tone it down all the time, but has never done so at a live game.  And I’m lucky she’s still with me, haha.  Is there a range of tolerance levels/“fandom” that I’m not aware of?

So have at it Reddit!!  Am I the asshole here?!? (humor and sarcasm fully endorsed!)

Answer: cheering the road team at my local hockey team's arena


Question: So my girlfriend (26F) and I (27M) dated for three years. Let’s call her Jessie. We met on Xbox and I moved from one state to pretty much across the country to be with her. Jessie’s great, she’s sweet and smart but I never really fell in love with her.

I broke up with her about 9 months ago because of her very controlling and insane mother. I decided to date another girl that I fell madly in love with but eventually turned out to be a very toxic and immature person. So we broke up.

Now I’m considering dating Jessie again. We talked and hung out a lot for the past three months and just a few days ago we decided to be in a relationship again.

My main issue with her is her mother. Jessie pretty much lives and breathes for her mother. Any time her mother tells her to do something, she does it. If her mother tells her to be home at 7 PM, she’s home by 7 PM. Jessie’s mother has hated me since we first met, because since day one she’s tried to tell me what to do and how to act and I just politely tell her to fuck off. She’s super controlling and even goes as far as getting up and walking across the house to Jessie’s bedroom to tell her to let the dogs out, when Jessie’s mom is right next to the door, just because Jessie’s mom doesn’t want to stop playing her video game. She’s put 12,000 hours into Destiny, and is well on her way to that with Destiny 2, and if anything gets into her way with her gaming, she gets highly upset.

For the past few days we were talking about her coming over today and spending the night and leaving at 6 PM (her mom usually makes her be home at noon if she spends the night). I made sure every day to ask her if she’s going to spend the night, and she promised that she would.

Today she shows up and tells me that her mom convinced her that she shouldn’t spend the night. I explain to her that she’s 26 and still worships her mom like she’s Jesus Christ, and she says she knows and gives me some random excuse.

This wouldn’t be that big of a deal if this was the very first time this has happened. It happens on a weekly basis, she’s apparently not allowed to spend the night twice at my house, only once a week, because she makes an excuse if it comes to spending the night twice. I believe her problem is that she tries to make everyone happy and is too scared to take a stand one way or another.

So I was thinking about breaking up with her in a few hours and just go our separate ways. I’m so tired of being let down by her and her controlling mother. AITA?

TL;DR: Considering breaking up with my girlfriend because she follows her control freak mother’s every whim.

Answer:
breaking up with my girlfriend because she won't spend the night


