Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

My friend, whom I've known for many years, has progressively gotten larger over the past few years. I have made a comment previously about his weight gain due to general worry, but I would say that it's been over a year since I've said anything else to him about it. My friend is around 6 foot 5 inches, and he's probably close to 500 pounds at this point. My partner and I live in a smaller town near the large city that he lives in. My friend doesn't know how to drive, doesn't own a car, and would rather take public transportation, which is reasonable as he lives in a great city for that. The issue lies with him riding in either of our vehicles. This wasn't always an issue, but as his weight increases, the more we are both noticing the sounds that the seat makes as he's shoving himself in the car, as well as the general lowering of the passenger side when he's inside either of our cars. It's much easier for him and us if we drive when we want to hangout as public transportation is quite slow and limiting, but we're getting to the point where we are not only worried about his health, but also worried about our vehicles. 

Neither my partner nor I are sure of how to address this with him, and we've even gotten to the point where we've considered renting a large SUV that can handle a person of his size, and although this wouldn't be practical, it may send a message. If we all of the sudden stop giving him rides or picking him up he'll obviously know something is wrong, but again, we would have no idea how to address this without sounding like horrible people and losing our dear friend. After the last time that we hung out my partner has now established that she would rather not have him ride in her vehicle, and I am getting to that point as well. Are we the assholes for feeling this way? 
NOBODY

My girlfriend and I have been in an open relationship for 2 years, basically we have sex with 2-3 other people every week and then we openly share information and giggle and laugh about it.

I feel our bond is way deeper than anything I’ve felt before but that’s why we both agreed to an open relationship in the first place. We both wanted someone reliable and we really loved to see at the end of every day.

Two days ago my had girlfriend told me at dinner that she was no longer going to sleep with anyone but me. I asked if she’s sure of her choice and she said yes. We laughed and joked a bit and continued and I thought nothing else of it.

Last night I slept with this girl and returned home. When I arrived I told my girlfriend about what happened and she burst out crying, and began lightly hitting my chest in like a sad angry way. I was very confused, she  said I was cheating and was fucked up for ruining her trust. 

I told her she was being super unreasonable since I hadn’t said I was going to stop the open relationship. She didn’t ask or tell me I needed to either.

So basically I’m on the couch tonight, not sure what happens next.

Am I the asshole?
OTHER

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My best friend has wanted to go on vacation with me for a long time, and we finally planned to go this summer together. My friend will already be in that country for a few weeks due to other reasons, but I will join later on to travel together and eventually fly home together. At the same time my SO asked me if we could go on a holiday together, but I told them I already promised my best friend to go together but we could plan another holiday to a cheaper and closer destination. My SO got a bit upset and sad, since they would want to go to the same location as my best friend and I had planned. My SO did accept it, but I could tell that going together on my vacation would be something they wanted.

After this I talked to my best friend in just enquiring, not pushing at all, if there is a possibility for my SO to tag along. I emphasized if my best friend is not comfortable with my SO tagging along, i would not even invite my SO but in the talk it became clear it would not be a big problem for my friend. Sure it would be nice to travel together just the two of us, but understanding I have relationship, my friend has been kind enough to say if I invite my SO, my friend would just invite their own SO so it would not be a possible awkward trio holiday. My SO and best friend have known each other since before we became a couple, and get along quite well.

After confirming this again with my best friend, if they honestly would not mind me inviting another person, in which they reassured me its okay I thus invited my SO to tag along, which they gleefully accepted. However my best friend's SO does not want to go together anymore, which leaves the three of us again. I honestly could not think of a better way to spend my holiday than with my best friend and SO travelling together, but now I am getting worried how my best friend will not have the vacation they wanted and I will unintentionally wil make them feel like a third wheel or vice versa with my SO.

I feel my best friend would be the happiest if my SO would not tag along, since we in that case would be only the two of us which they wanted in the first place, but to be honest I do not want to de-invite my SO. I feel like both my best friend and SO will be worried about some arrangements, like seatings and sleeping arrangements. Am I the asshole for not de inviting my SO and wanting to take both of them? 

NOBODY

