Teacher:In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
Teacher: Now, understand the problem? Solve this instance: I (M) and her (F) have known each other for two years. We have been pretty tame with each other and actually friends up until 3 months ago. I have never been mean to her and have constantly encouraged her. However, she hates me. I'm going to write you all the reasons why.

Reason 1. I constantly flirted with her sister. I complimented and flirted with her every time I saw her. I'm a horrible flirt. Her and her sister thought that I was weird and creepy. The last time I flirted with her was the third time I saw them. After that, her sister didn't want to see me. 

Reason 2. Our mutual friend (and my best friend) had a crush on her and she rejected him. I told her to reconsider. She didn't like that. So after that, she has constantly been rude to me. After she started being rude to me, I told my friend to stay cautious around her and to keep everything platonic.

Reason 3. I am constantly a joker. It's a huge personality flaw of mine. However, I'm not a bully. I'm just a huge goofball and I'm okay with it. She isn't though. She told me my jokes are shitty and that everybody thinks so too.

Reason 4. We have opposing political, ethical, and religious beliefs. I am a Republican, she isn't. I'm a family guy, she isn't. I am a Christian, she isn't. 

Now I'll tell you what happened and you can decide if I'm the asshole. 

Two weeks ago, I was hanging out with our mutual friend the day before I went halfway across the country to take care of my Grandfather who is dying of terminal brain cancer for 3 weeks. She was also with us. I told everybody I was leaving for Texas. She asked why. I told her why. She started laughing. I was in shock. 

I was back early for reasons I don't want to disclose which means I was in town for Halloween. I called my friend to see what he was up to for Halloween and told me he was having a party. So I came. She and her sister was there with 3 other friends. They were gonna go trick or treating and I decided to confront her in front of everybody about why she laughed about my Grandfather's brain tumor. She kept denying it, but I decided to forgive her anyway.

So am I the asshole? 
Student:
WRONG