instruction:
In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
question:
So, I need to give some background. 
I have a 4 year old son. 
His dad and I were married until he was 3. His dad left me suddenly for another woman. They now live together and have a baby of their own. While we were together, his dad worked nights and I worked days as neither of us wanted to put our son in daycare and wanted to be around him as much as possible. It worked out well for us. 
Now we split custody 50/50. For one, because I still think he’s a good dad and want him involved with our son, obviously. 
And for two, because I have to work a lot more now to be able to afford living on my own and supporting myself and my son while paying rent/car/bills. My ex and I have similar incomes so neither of us pay child support, though he recently got a new job and makes significantly more than I do, I believe. 

Anyway, him and his girlfriend are pushing for our son to be in preschool, which I agree would be good for him. 
However, I’m doing this by myself while working full time and going to school full time. Not only do I not have the time to work with preschool schedules (middle of the day Tues&amp;Thurs) which are the same days I have class, but I also don’t want to sacrifice the time I have with my son right now. (Not to say preschool isn’t important I just already miss him due to the 50/50 schedule, work, and college)
I completely acknowledge those might be selfish reasons, but I seriously don’t know how I would bring/pick him up to preschool while I’m working... I work an hour away. My family helps watch him while I work but I bring him to them, as my parents don’t drive. So they couldn’t help me with this. 

My thoughts are he will be in kindergarten this fall already. I will be done with school then. My schedule will be a lot more open, I should be able to work less as I’ll be making more, and can better work with the school schedule. 
I’ve spoken to his dad about my concerns/issues, and he says I’m being a bad parent and how could I not want our son in preschool? I just don’t know how I would do it...

So AITA?
answer:
RIGHT


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So if you don’t know, there’s a MJ documentary that paints him as a ped*phile and child r*pist. Idk if its true, but I don’t CARE. 

Apparently this didn’t sit right with my coworkers, as they were discussing it and asked for my opinion on it, and when I said “Who cares? The mans dead. Has been for more than a decade” wasn’t the right opinion... 

I really don’t care if he was or wasn’t. Is that bad? My coworkers think its insensitive and ignorant for me to refuse to stay informed as to whether or not one of the biggest stars in history was a child r*pist. 
answer:
RIGHT


question:
Basically, she cheated on me for over a month, probably more towards two months before I found out.  She has a tendency to lose everything,  is highly unreliable and used to make me pay for absolutely everything. 

However. 

Out of all of the things of hers that I have cleared the house of,  I found a gold necklace worth (give or take) $250. It was a gift from our mutual friend who managed to tear apart the relationship in the first place.

I don't want to see my ex's face again, but if I do trade it for cash to make up for at least some of the hundreds I wasted on this memory,  I do have a backup story and that's simply "you probably lost it in your room, at work or on a walk"


I get the feeling IATA here,  but I want the Internets opinion. 

WIBTA? 
answer:

WRONG


