Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
One example is below.
Q: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
A: wanting to wear a shirt
Rationale: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: So a few friends are throwing a surprise party for one of my best friends for her birthday next weekend. We've all been friends for about four years, but I find most of them to be super toxic and they make fun of my mental health issues. I've been keeping my distance from all of them but we're all still pretty civil and nice to each other. 


My relationship with my best friend is separate from the group dynamic and I really care about her. I love spending time with her, but I don't like being around the entire group together so I try as much as possible to avoid such situations. Over the past four years, we've had a lot of parties and it's been terrible for me. At one party, while I was passed out drunk and these friends locked me in the room, and when I woke up a few hours later with no water or food or cell range I had a full on a panic attack. They later opened the door and said it was for my safety. Another time, one of the guys followed me to the bathroom and felt me up even though I asked him not to come with me. After all of this, I made the decision not to go to parties or even for dinners/lunches with them as a group. 

So anyway they've planned a surprise party for my best friend and asked me to go. I said I couldn't saying that I didn't have the money. I don't know if I'm being selfish here because this is my best friend and I do really care about her, but I just can't be around the rest of them. So AITA for not wanting to go?

A:
not wanting to go for my best friend's surprise party