Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Example input: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Example output: wanting to wear a shirt
Example explanation: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: This happened a year ago, my sister had been seeing this guy for a few months. She had to do this in secrecy because my parents wouldn't approve. When I found out that she was seeing this boy, she pleaded me not to tell my parents, and initially I agreed.

But a few days later, I realized that having a boyfriend was a huge distraction for my sister. She was dwindling a bit on the studies front. She was really smart, and I wanted her to get into an extremely good college. So long story short, I told my parents, that she had been seeing this boy, and soon enough, she stopped seeing him. My sister was extremely devastated and spent a lot of time crying. It was the most painful week of her life.

But fast forward one year, my sister has just gotten into UCLA, a very prestigious school. She got extremely good test scores, and became laser focused in school work, and also involved in a lot of clubs.

So in hindsight was I the asshole? 
A:
telling my parents that my sister had a boyfriend though my sister pleaded me not to