In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
One example is below.
Q: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
A: RIGHT
Rationale: the author requests is justified.
Q: So last night I went out with my SO to go and see a show. It finished at 10.30 and I was working the next day. I did say we would go for a drink after the show but when it came to the end and I saw the time I figured we would head home.

My SO then got very angry with me and said I would go for a drink. I then realised I was in the wrong and suggested many different places but she said no, having already got mad that I originally said no.

I recommended several different places we could go for a drink and she refuted all of them.

I was baffled that she would not accept that I realised I was wrong and she said that she doesn't want to do something I obviously don't want to do. She said I was only doing this in order to make her happy, to which I replied of course, I want to make her happy and realise the error of my ways.

This resulted in a huge argument and she hasn't spoken to me since, stating that she needs some time alone to think.

What went wrong here. AITA? 
A:
RIGHT