Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Example input: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Example output: wanting to wear a shirt
Example explanation: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: She doesn't know about this but I want to know if I'm the asshole or not for my own conscious. I have been best friends with Kelly since I was 11, we are both 27 now. We grew up in the same small town and hung out literally every day all through middle and high school. We got into dumb trouble drinking underage but stayed good students and very active volunteering, in sports, and school clubs. We went to the same college and even though we didn't see each other every day we still hung out at least 3 times a week.

After college, I wanted to move to a big city and at first she agreed but backed out down the line. Which I expected, I mean I've known her most of my life. I go back to our hometown every couple of months and I would love to see her but she does a lot of coke. Every time I've been back and hung out with her, we always snort coke. I have never done it here in the city I live in and am really trying to make a name for myself in this profession. I just have the issue of knowing if she's doing it, I'll probably participate. Am I the asshole for just avoiding her, my closest friend, because I know I'll do it if I'm around her?
A:
never telling my best friend for 11 years when I'm in town