Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Example input: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Example output: wanting to wear a shirt
Example explanation: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: We had an argument about my mom having psychosis. He kept saying that she's sick and she needs help. But, he listened to nothing I was saying about her being on medication and being fully capable when she's not having an episode. He wants to send her off to a mental hospital. We kept arguing and he called her crazy so I called him a faggot. He is in fact gay but I kinda already knew it would hurt him because our dad use to say it a lot before he died. I did mean to hurt him because he was hurting our mom but I kinda feel like an asshole.
A:
calling my brother a faggot