Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

Input: Consider Input: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : This happened a while ago, like I’m talking about  sophomore or junior of high school and I’m a freshman in college now but I wanted input. but basically a mutual friend of ours at the time wanted to set my best friend up with this guy at our school talent show because she thought they would be good together. Me and the guy talked a little at the talent show and the way we got off it seemed like we were friends for years. He kept making funny comments because he was sitting behind me and I kept turning around at the show and telling him to shut up because I thought it was funny. I didn’t think what was going to happen would happen. 

Well low and behold my best friend at the time stopped  wanting to hang out with him because she didn’t feel like it and he kept asking me what was wrong with her and this that etc. Me and him started FaceTiming more and getting deeper conversations and sooner or later I knew I was in love with this kid, but my best friend was dating him still and as much as I wanted to, I didn’t want to get involved. 

But as time went on they finally broke it off because it just wasn’t working out and he turned to me when shit hit the fan. 

I finally told him how I felt about him right before they broke up and said I had to tell my friend because if I didn’t and she found out not from me that it was going to make matters worse. 

So I told her, and shit just went so bad so quick. 

I got judged and and it got held against me because I was apparently such a shitty friend for liking her ex for not even a month. 

I tried explaining to her that I can’t control how I feel and that it honestly  wasn’t my fault for originally just wanting to be a good friend and be there for him when she wasn’t because she “just didn’t feel like hanging out with him.” But at the same time I understood how she could be hurt in this situation because I would feel the same way. 

Me and the friend aren’t that close anymore and we don’t talk much because of that situation, and this friend was basically like a sister to me and we were super close. It still hurts me that she couldn’t be understanding, because if the relationship lasted longer I could understand but it wasn’t for that long. Me and the guy are still together 4 years later even though we’ve had our ups and downs he’s still my best friend even after the fact and I wouldn’t have it any other way. 

I miss that friend every day and the relationship we used to have but my boyfriend is my rock even 4 years later. 

So because of the situation am I an ass hole for dating her ex for not even a month and being together with him 4 years later?



Output: yes


Input: Consider Input: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My whole life, even as a little kid, I hated kids. If I ever played house, I refused to pretend to be a mom and/or baby. Now that I'm older (19) I still cannot stand children. I honestly think I may have a problem. Being around children makes me incredibly anxious, I get depressed and teary eyed. It fucks me up.
Aside from that, they're just gross. I cannot eat around them. It just makes me gag. I can't help it. I cant touch them (am I the only one who thinks they're all weirdly hot all the time?? Like feverish?) They just make me lose my mind. It's awful. Recently I found out an older cousin who I used to be close to (up until she had kids and everything changed) told her kids I didnt like them. I love them, they're my family, but I cant hang out with them. I'm nice and smile at them and try to chit chat but it's so awkward that they leave first.
So AITA for disliking kids to the point of feeling somewhat nauseous around them and avoiding them at all costs? If I am, how can I be better about it?

Output: yes


Input: Consider Input: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I recently filed for contempt against my ex spouse for withholding of my parental visitation time. Upon consulting with my attorney, she recommended that I pursue full physical custody due to what the other party is doing and the "egregious nature" of the contempt action.

I have had to use law enforcement to obtain some of my children since October (My oldest daughter never is denied contact with me). I know it terrifies them and I really hate that I've been forced into this predicament.

This has been used against me. My children have been told "dad is in trouble with the police" and that I only want to force them to see me. The parental alienation has been turned all the way up and when my ex spouse was served the message delivered was "your dad is just trying to steal you to hurt me". She told them immediately and I'm forced to change the subject when the kids are with me because I refuse to talk about adult matters with them. This leads the children to believe that Mom is right and they have to protect her.

I've attempted to accomadate my ex spouse and I tried really hard to avoid the courts and conflicts. I dont want to negatively affect my children but I also know that I have to fight for this. The constant negativity is so tiring and as a child from a broken home myself, I wanted to avoid this at all costs.

I feel awful about this. I wont stop but knowingly putting the stress on them is causing me to feel like an asshole.

*Some additional information - I have documented every communication between me and their mom due to a history of bizarre allegations along with every instance of parenting time with the kids. 

I have three daughters and they are all under ten. I am divorced and have been upholding all ends of my obligations according to our parenting plan and the actions laid out in the divorce decree.

My children have an excellent relationship with my wife now and there is no heartburn with that relationship.



Output: yes


