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Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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Bit of context; I play a VR game similar to VRChat called Rec Room, I play on PSVR (important later). I have over a year created and got into some friend groups. I met one guy on it, for privacy I'll call him A. He's autistic and makes things on Rec Room just like me, we quickly bonded and I joined his clan, I helped him make rooms and vice versa. We added eachother on playstation and we created a group chat with clanmates on playstation. One day I was mucking about changing the group photo and name for the memes with the other people in the chat. A and some others were doing something in a party, occasionally he would tell them something through the group chat. The group eventually got a message saying for someone to stop something. I continued thinking he was talking to others. After a while he tells me to stop and I comply.

Eventually a full blown argument between a clan member (B) and A occurred about something in minecraft they were playing. A left the group in a fury saying we waste his time by destroying stuff that he builds in minecraft (I never have joined them on Minecraft). After I spent an hour of my day comforting B.

A day later I change the group icon and name.

Fast forward one week.
I get a message on discord saying I had been kicked from the clan discord (that I pretty much did most of the setup for), no reason was given.
I message A asking what the kick was for.
This fucker tells me it was for the constant changing of the group name and photo when he was annoyed (I had no idea if he was annoyed or not until the argument) and ends the paragraph tirade with a "Case. Closed.". 

This happened last night and I am still confused about it, so that begs the question, AITAH?

answer:
accidentally pissing off a friend


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So, my dad isn't just ill. He has Parkinsons disease and has had it since aged just 39 (he is now 60) so as you can imagine he has progressively and gradually declined in health and these days he isn't really my dad anymore like we used to go fishing, football and bike rides. We did everything a father and his son would normally do. As time has gone on he has deteriorated and it has been hard to see him loose his capabilities he once had. 

So bringing it to the present day, i have my own place and live with my girlfriend and i am finding it very difficult because she is wanting us to go round and see my mum dad and family etc but i have slowly started holding off as i cannot bear to see him so ill anymore and it is literally killing me and hurting so much.

Like the other night we went round to have a take away meal and just chill but he couldn't eat his meal due to swallowing (parkinsons affects swallowing and muscles in throat) and he kept coughing and choking, and then after that where we used to have a couple of Drambuies or beers we get into the living room and he is passed out straight away just asleep all night. It hurts that much i just go to sleep myself and let my girlfriend sit up with my mum and chat.

I simply am starting to take the stance of not going around nearly as much or avoiding it as much as i can to save my own mental well being but my dad is slowly withering away from a disease that has no cure and who am i to just stop visiting him, it seems so selfish.

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answer:
not wanting to see my ill dad


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Backstory: Currently 23 and recently moved to a new area with my wife and I need to find a job while I’m taking classes. In total I have 3 years of customer service experience from age 16-19. After that I joined the military and just recently got medically separated before I got here. 

After being here for two months I am still unable to find any work that I am physically able to do, including applying at fast food and other entry level positions. Will I be the asshole if I leave the military experience off my resume and sprinkle a few more months of customer service time on there so it looks better on the application?
answer:

lying on my resume to get a job I know I'm qualified for


