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Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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I’m 24.  When I was 20 my parents divorced because my dad was caught having another relationship.  I have two sisters, 19 and 17, who both live with my mother.  They refuse to have anything to do with him anymore.  I on the other hand was upset when it was first happening, but forgave him and continue to have a relationship with him.  

It really bothers my mother though.  I’m not allowed to bring him up around her at all anymore and I learned pretty quickly not to mention when I was going to see him.  I can tell it hurts her that I’m not 100% on her side like both of my sisters, but it kind of feels like their marriage problems aren’t totally my business.  I feel like an asshole about it sometimes because what he did was completely shitty and my mom didn’t deserve that.  Also it feels a little weird that the girls in the family side completely with her and I as the only son am still close with him. 
answer:
still being close to my dad even though he cheated on my mom


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A bit of background: my girlfriend is a university student who gives private lessons to support herself and make a bit of money. For various reasons, she failed some exams and now she needs to catch up. She really wants to be done by the end of September, but she needs to take a lot of exams, and after that she wants to travel for a bit, so she has been giving more and more lessons per week to save up, and on top of that she has university lectures, so she is busy about 8 hours a day which, as you might imagine, doesn't give her all that much time to study for the exams that are coming up. Also, we live far away from each other so the whole conversation was through text. 

Yesterday I was texting my girlfriend and she was telling me for the 100th time about how tired she was and how she did not study enough, but I also knew that she had just finished a two hour lesson with one of her "students", and that she had already done at least 10-12 hours this week.

I decided to be upfront with her and tell her that she could not go on this way, and that she was turning her side gig into an actual part time job, and that now she needs to focus on her exams because that is the important thing, and because she has already put aside enough money, so she is just burning herself out. 

I knew this was a very touchy subject because she isn't really well off (but she definitely has enough to sustain herself), and she had already told me that she did not want me to tell her that she is working too much, but I hate seeing her this tired, and at the same time not studying enough. I am really worried that she might hurt herself and not pass all the exams that she has to take, and decided to tell her what I though even though it would hurt her.

As I expected, she was hurt by my comment and told me that she needed time alone, and that she would text me later. She still hasn't texted me and I'm getting nervous, so was I the asshole for telling her what I thought? 
answer:
telling my girlfriend she is working herself out


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This is my first post ever here so I don’t know if this is kinda a weak one or not

A little backstory to understand everything: I’m a kid still going to school. My parents got divorced in 2013. Both my mom and my dad have found new lovers. I hate my dads girlfriend and I like my moms boyfriend. I always go home to my mom on friday to be there for the weekend.

Roles:
Mom= mom
Dad= dad 
My dads girlfriend = dg
Me = me


So this happened yesterday. I had been sick for a few days and was feeling dissy and and had a real bad headache. I had just been sleeping all day when I woke up at around 2:00 pm feeling very hungry so I went out to the kitchen and made myself some soup after I had eaten it I just put the bowl of the left over soup in the kitchen (I was feeling super tired at this point I just wanted to sleep) I went back to bed and woke up at around 4:30 pm to my dad coming home. Dg was home all day but was just laying in bed watching anime (yes, anime). My dad went out to go do the dishes when suddenly dg sees it and rushes out there and starts shouting at my dad saying that I should do the dishes and my dad is all confused over what happens I then come out in to the kitchen when I see dg rushing towards me looking like she’s about to hit me in the face. She doesn’t hit me but she was mad. Luckily I had to leave because I had to get home to my mom because I had this event at my school (which went really well and I’m also feeling way better) so I had to get some stuff at my moms. I luckily also had to stay at my moms house until Monday.

Tl-dr 
I’m sick and hungry I then go and make myself some food after I eat I leave the dishes out and fall back asleep. I wake up when my dad comes home. My dad goes and does the dishes when my dads girlfriend goes insane on him and me for me not doing the dishes even though I’m clearly very sick
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being sick and not doing the dishes


