Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

Q: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : It’s honestly a little more complicated than that.

My mom has me as a teenager and because of that, had a rough time making a life for herself. She went to a community college when I was younger, my step-dad continued working and one of my older cousins lived with us for a while to help take care of me and my younger brothers until my mom graduated.

For a while, both my parents worked and I started taking care of my brothers most nights because of my parents work schedule. Well not a perfect system, it worked well enough.

And then my mom wanted to go to school again. Which was fine with me when my stepdad was still working. But then my stepdad got sick. 

I honestly am very upset with my parents about this. I think it’s irresponsible of her to not work more than a day a week when we clearly don’t have enough money to stay a float currently (I know for a fact we don’t given she constantly complains about it to me) and to leave me to take care of my brothers and stepdad. She’s never home even when she doesn’t have school because she thinks our house is too distracting. I do everything around the house. All the chores, grocery shopping, making sure everyone gets to school on time, making sure my stepdad is okay, cooking, etc. I didn’t have much of a life outside of my family and school before this all happened, which was fine. But now it literally doesn’t exist because there’s just not enough hours in the day.

I never told my parents how I felt that they are being irresponsible and being unfair for putting this amount of stress on me when I’m still a teenager because I know for a fact they would consider me the asshole in this situation. So, am I?

A: yes
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Q: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : So I have this friend ive known for about a year in college on my course, she's super cool usually but when she's drunk keeps trying to touch us up and make out with us which is funny (We're all girls) so we tease her about it a lot joking that she's a lesbian (not that there would be anything wrong with that, our friend group is just like that with teasing)  


Anyway even though it winds her up we kept doing it because we thought she was actually cool with it and she gives as she gets so it's fine. Then one day we're watching Supergirl and the lesbian character comes on screen so we joke that she's her role model and ask if she's going to get a haircut like that (Literally not even saying anything too bad) and she way overreacts and leaves, then some of her other friends come for us and say we should stop saying that when she's asked us to stop but we didn't realize she was serious we thought she was just going along with it like when we all make fun of each other.

I'm pretty sure i'm not the asshole here and she's just overreacting but I want to get you guys opinion god even reading this is embarrassing it's such dumb petty shit and it's become a way bigger deal than it should be.

A: no
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Q: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : So my sisters car is in the shop being fixed. She’s 24 I’m 20. I allowed her to drive my car for the morning since I’m off work. She went to the grocery store and I guess found my weed paraphernalia in the trunk. (Mind you I don’t smoke anymore and haven’t in 8 or 9 months.) I have left it in there and forgot. My mom is a religious woman and doesn’t believe in smoking. While I was taking a midterm this afternoon I guess my sister told my mom what she had found. So when I got home my mom was mad at me. Fuming. I feel like it was maybe wrong for my sister not to come to me first. She is no angel and I have never told her secrets. 

AITA for not telling my mom? 

A:
yes
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