Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

[EX Q]: *Tl;dr A guy I had a dubious friendship with is in a less than ideal situation and I don't want to reach out to him.*

So I went to a small high school where I didn't have a lot of friends. I met this guy through the school band, as we were both in the same section, and he and I talked once or twice. However, when I would try to hang out (e.g. sit with him at lunch or something) he would constantly be sitting with his other friends and wouldn't even address me when I spoke to him. He was also on his phone basically 24/7 but when I texted him it always took him 5+ days or so to respond. He never was directly impolite to me, but it felt like I was definitely putting more into our friendship than I was getting out of it, so I stopped hanging out with him and he earned my enmity for the rest of high school.

Now we're both in college, and I'm very much over my social life in high school. However, recently I heard from another friend that my old fake friend (who is going to college on a sports scholarship or something) hates the community he's in; he doesn't drink or party, and he's found that nobody else around him shares that trait.

One side of me is like, finally, karma's come around and he's getting what he deserves. But at the same time, I faced similar problems early on in college as well, until I found a community I could fit into, and I feel a little bad for his situation. The other friend who told me this suggested I text him, but I promised myself I would cut toxic people out of my life once I graduated high school.

If I refused to reach out to him, would it be assholish?
[EX A]: refusing to text a fake friend who's not in a good place

[EX Q]: I was on a game that I commonly play then my friend invites me to a game - sure, then he 'realises' that there's a girl and starts being a dick harrasing her and shit even when she told him to stop, I have a go at him because he's harrasing her and I've seen the effects of what that shit can do but he doesn't stop, I leave and unfriend him and get told that apparently I'm the dick?
[EX A]: getting pissed at someone making a joke of harassment

[EX Q]: Last year I was in university, so couldn’t really afford to give her a great Christmas, so after starting a new job this year where I could afford it I decided to treat her a little. I went slightly over budget on what I was planning to spend (my budget was around £250 whereas I spent £350-£400 over the course of around three and a half months).  Her mum asked me to tell her what I got her so she doesn’t get the same as me, so I sent her the list, and she told her. This led to a bit of an argument and her getting annoyed I spent that much (she has spent around £300 on me). I understand that we have other priorities to be saving for, such as saving to move in together, and saving for a car, as well as a couple of holidays we have, and I don’t feel like the amount I spent is unwarranted as she asked for a lot of the things I got and I feel like the others are quite meaningful.

So AITA for spending more than I should have? I know she isn’t in the wrong for this and is entirely justified saying what she did but I just wanted to give her a good Christmas, maybe in the process I lost myself a little and got carried away?
[EX A]:
spending a lot on my girlfriend for Christmas

