Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

[Q]: Couldn't find a better way to phrase it.

I'm actually having this issue with two of my friends, but the one that bothers me more is the one with my best friend, so I'll go with that.

I'll start by acknowledging my blame: I find it hard to say "No" when people ask for my help and I get upset when they don't show me the gratitude I think I deserve for helping them.

My best friend and I have a great friendship, we used to hang out a lot, either just the two of us, or in a group of friends, or just me, him and his girlfriend. We used to see each other at least every two weeks, but we have the kind of friendship where we could not see each other for months and still be best friends when we meet. 

A month and a half ago, he was in the middle of his exams, while I had finished mine (we go to the same university), so, naturally, I wanted to relax for a few days, use my days off from work to get some rest and visit my family. However, he asked me to help him study for his remaining exams and, reluctantly, I said I'd help him. I know I should have refused if I really didn't want to, but I couldn't bring myself to tell him no, so I spent my free time studying together with him for his exams. This went on for three days, admittedly not a long period of time, and he knew I had put aside my plans in order to help him.

Aaand that's the last time I've seen my friend. Ever since, I've initiated conversations with him, hoping that we'd hang out, but he was always dismissive or not answering my texts. In this time, he went out only with his girlfriend and her friends, never with our group of friends. Now, don't get me wrong, he has always spent more time with his girlfriend than us and that never bothered me, I would never intrude on his relationship. Plus, me and his girlfriend get on really well, so I'm not being petty.

Recently, he has been trying to reconnect and this time I didn't feel like hanging out with him anymore because I still feel that I was discarded when no longer needed, so I was dismissive when texting him. He just sent me a message asking me if I'm upset with him and I thought I should ask your opinions before answering.

P.S. I know I said I'd only talk about the situation with my best friend, but now I think I should mention my other friend for a better understanding of my almost pathological inability to say no. The other friend is my roommate, he is one year younger than me and goes to the same university as I, and he always asks me for help on exams and homework. He always showed gratitude for that, so that's not the issue. My problem is that, during the summer vacation, three months long, he always came up with an excuse to not hang out. I brought it up to him last night and he seemed to realize I was right, but was dismissive of the conversation and just kept saying I wasn't right, thinking I was joking even though I insisted I was serious. This just made me more upset.

Sorry for the long text, thanks for reading!
[A]: answerable


[Q]: So I'm sitting at an airport bar with my partner, waiting for a flight, and there's a long line of like 6 two seater tables alone the window. My partner and I were at the end one, and this couple comes in sits at the table right next to us. Our backs are facing each other and hers is rubbing on mine. I can feel it's heat and its shaking etc when she laughs. I'm not digging it.  

My partner reckons I'm the asshole for not scooting my chair in further to allow her more space (I was taking up about 60% of the space between the two chairs)  I'm stubborn I guess, because I just wanted her to sit somewhere else and I was trying to make a point by slightly passively aggressively accepting her back to back contact and not moving.  

So, am I an asshole?
[A]: answerable


[Q]: I have a friend in school who is pretty rude and downright insults me throughout the day (I’ll call her Kristine), but I kinda just deal with it so as to not make things awkward between our entire friend group.


Today, one of my teachers presented me with the option of creating my classes seating chart rather than her doing it like normal. Of course, I took her up on the offer.


I purposely put all of my friends who are also friends with Kristine on one side of the room and Kristine on the other side.


My intention was not to isolate Kristine, but may be perceived as such which could make me TA. I wanted to just be with my friends while also keeping her away from me so that she could not belittle and bully during that part of the day like she always does when I’m with her.


When she found out that I put her in that spot, she reacted pretty negatively and got pretty mad.


So AITA?
[A]:
not answerable


