Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : So I have been texting and FaceTiming this woman I met on Match for the past 10 days - we live about 90 minutes from one another.  Earlier this week we made plans to go out tonight (Friday).  Knowing I lived 90 minutes away, she suggested I rent a hotel room so that I could have some drinks and have a place to crash without worrying about having to drive home after our date.  I thought it was a splendid idea so I booked the room.  I also made dinner reservations for us at what she had previously told me was her favorite restaurant. Then, last night, she calls and is crying -  she had a horrific day at work and I listened and sympathized with her for 2 hours on the phone, at the end of which she thanked me and said that after her brutal day at work, she was not up to going out and wanted to just "cry the weekend away" and avoid the human race as much as possible.  I replied that getting out might be just the thing we needed and I was looking forward to seeing her -- she stated that she just could not envision herself having a good time with anyone this weekend - I left it at that as I did not want to be "that guy" pushing or begging her to go out with me.  I called the hotel and canceled my reservation, losing about $300 in the process (the cost of the room) as the cancelation was less than 24 hours before check-in and then canceled the restaurant reservation.  Today, she texted me to say good morning and told me she had a change of heart and really wants to see me tonight.  I then informed her I had already canceled the hotel room and restaurant reservations.  She said I should try to rebook a hotel (right, because booking a hotel the night of in New York City will never be cost prohibitive) and "make it happen".  I told her that as much as I was looking forward to our date, that I think it would be best if we tried next weekend instead.  I understood how she felt about her bad day at work and canceling our date but, having taken the hit on the room already, I became somewhat annoyed and my headspace changed from "I am so excited for this date" to "meh".  So, the date remains canceled. AITA?

Ex Output:
yes


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST :  I live with a girl, let's call her Sarah in a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom apartment. 

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It seemed fine at first, but quickly small issues started becoming a problem. For starters, Sarah's girlfriend (they started dating right before move in) began living in the apartment right off the bat. Now like I said, its a 2bd2ba, but the kitchen and shared space is very small, so it definitely became very cramped. I really like the girlfriend, she's super nice but she doesn't pay anything to be here, despite being in the apartment every week at least 4-5 days at a time. I attempted to bring this up with Sarah but felt like it was dismissed as being no big deal. This was also something she never asked if I was comfortable with, never asked if I minded, just starting having the girlfriend live with us. I didn't really push it, because I didn't want to make my living situation difficult/cause fighting. 

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I am a very clean person and Sarah is not. She almost never does the dishes. When she uses dishes, she leaves caked-on food on pots, pans, and plates, and leaves liquid in cups all the time. There will be empty food wrappers and open things of food left out on the counter, and she constantly leaves spilled food all over the stovetop. She will put dishes in the sink sometimes, but that’s it. I'd often just do the dishes because 1. they were mine, and 2. I needed clean things to eat/use. Some friends convinced me that I should stop doing that and let her deal with the mess that she made, which I was starting to agree with. 

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So then, the dishes would sit in one side of the sink, start to smell, and then her girlfriend would eventually do them for her. Again, some of these things are mine that either I paid for or my parents got for me, and while it's not like they are fancy (IKEA brand, target, etc.) I would prefer that they don't get ruined by sitting in dried grease and left to grow mold. I tried to talk to her about dishes multiple times, sometimes a quick reminder to clean up after herself, or just a comment here and there, and always nicely. 

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So today I made a decision. I move out in May, which is about a month away at this point. I went into the kitchen, cleaned all the dishes that I owned, and then took everything in the kitchen that was mine and packed it up. When Sarah and her gf got home, I claimed that I wanted to get some stuff packed early (not technically a lie) and that I felt like we had enough duplicates of things that it wouldn't be an issue (also not a lie, she has plenty of plastic cups, plates, bowls, and recently bought plastic silver-wear to avoid doing dishes). Her and her girlfriend were absolutely fine with this, and didn't seem to care. I can't help feel a little guilty about it, because I 100% know it was passive aggressive, but after multiple times trying to get her to clean, I didn't feel like I was being listened to. So, AITA?

Ex Output:
no


Ex Input:
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : I had a nasty bug, wasn't sleeping etc. Had hoped it would clear up before the day of the party arrived, but instead had yet to get any sleep yet at 9am the morning of. I was told "Just stay in bed. I'm going to make this happen" (Normally I would be doing all the cooking/food prep) and promptly ignored for the rest of the day/night and never even checked on.

Being sick, I felt awful, looked awful, and likely smelled awful as well. As a result I didn't feel comfortable being anywhere but the bedroom for the 6+ loud hours people were there.

My partner was looking forward to the party, but I just feel more and more furious that no consideration was taken for me or how I was feeling.

Am I the asshole for working myself up so much over this?

Ex Output:

yes


