Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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Question: This happened in a past relationship.

I had just gotten back in a relationship with a girl just a few weeks prior when she wanted to go to her friends place. I was fine with this (obviously) until I learned it was someone she had hooked up with when we were on a break. I knew that he was still interested in her too, but she promised she was not at all. I told her that she could do what she wanted but that I was very uncomfortable (especially because it was at his place and at night). I also felt a little uncomfortable because she hooked up with him so soon after we went on a break (but she had the right to do what she wanted since we were on a break).

She ended up going and I never found out if anything happened but I did break up with her shortly after. She called me controlling. That wasn’t my intention but I could see how it could come off that way. AITA here?

Answer: telling my gf she couldn't hang out with her friend


Question: Apologies in advance for both making a long post and my first post ever on Reddit.

Anyway, I want to first say that me and my gf have been dating for some years in a LDR (Moving in together was a WIP), and I have complete trust in her, which wasn't easy to get as I'm quite a paranoid and jealous person in general.

Something else that's important to know beforehand is that while I enjoy talking in vc, she claims not to, and we agreed on typing for the most part, with very occasional calls during the week.

Story: Recently, my gf joined a discord group, she asked if I wanted to join as well, so I accepted. People were nice in general, but I noticed that one of the people was always talking with her in a call when she went to sleep.

When I asked her about this, she said it was because she has trouble sleeping due to hypersomnia (Which I knew), and does it because it works better for her than watching youtube videos, so she'd join his call of him playing vidya, fall asleep, and he'd cancel out of the call.

I was a bit skeptical, but because I had no reason to distrust her, since A) We'd been dating for a very long time, and she's very anti-cheating, and B) The person she's talking with isn't attractive whatsoever, I accepted it and moved on.

Now forward a few days from that point and both of them are constantly in 4-6h long calls with eachother each night, talking, which at this point annoyed me because I had to agree to only talking for a few minutes each week, while this random guy could hear her voice whenever he pleased.

Couldn't take it anymore and I just asked if I could do the same, with her watching me play games and falling asleep, to which she replied no, I got a bit annoyed at this response and kept pushing, which made her annoyed at me in response and she ignored me, but the calls between them kept going on of course.

I talked to someone else in the server about this and apparently she thinks I'm controlling her because I'm picking out who she can hang out with and what she does.

I apologised afterwards (Maybe a bit too much to be fair), saying I didn't mean to come over as controlling, but I still wanted to talk about it, because it was a legitimate issue to me, and she just kept ignoring my messages, I asked the next day if she was "Interested in him" and she went mad. Haven't sent her a message since, and our chat has been dry for about three days.

Completely seperate from all this: I see sleeping in calls as something couples do, not friends, which frustrates me even further.

**TL;DR:** Me and gf barely talk in vc because she prefers typing, but met someone that she talks with non-stop, which I got annoyed at and she's mad at me for being annoyed.

AITA for being frustrated at my gf for this?

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Answer: being frustrated at my gf for sleeping in calls with someone else every night


Question: To put this in context, my boyfriend- let's call him A identifies as a boy, my mom isn't quite homophobic or transphobic but she is very strict. At first A and I were good friends, we didn't hang out as much though as I was dating someone at the time and wanted to be respectful of my boyfriend by not hanging out with other guys alone. Long story short my boyfriend cheated on me and we broke up. A was the second closest person I was closest to and we talked more and more as I was completely heartbroken. About a month goes by and we're talking (we've gotten closer now) and A said he had a crush on me while my boyfriend and I were still dating and after thinking it through for a few days I tell him that I like him too. I ask him out a bit later and it's been going good for about a week now.

I'm scared of telling my mom he's trans- especially since I haven't told her we're dating yet. A says it's ok that my mom doesn't know so that we can sleep over and go on dates and my mom will see it as a girl thing and not us dating but I feel like I'm exploiting his gender. 

Answer:
not telling my mom about my trans boyfriend


