Q: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.
Kind of a long story, but I’ll try to make it as short as possible.

We met online a few years ago.
Talk everyday for a long time.
We live in opposite sides of the country. He comes to visit this part of the country because he’s never been here and stays at my place. (Until there nothing happened.. we were just friends.) 
A few days later he tells me that because everyone kept asking him if i was his girlfriend, he started to think about it. I said I’ve never felt that way about him and if he thought this was too harsh and wanted to stop talking to me, it was fine. He says he doesn’t want to lose the friendship so let’s talk normally.

He lives with his family, which he doesn’t get along with, says he wants to move to another place, so I get him a job here really near where I live.

Of course I show him around, I introduce him to my RL friends. And on a saturday I just have a break-down on a club because of my BF, and by this point i’m pretty fucked up and don’t know what’s happening, I just remember I’m crying and my friends are taking me out of the club. A while after, someone tells me this friend, at the club just said “I can’t believe she is gonna suffer because of that guy. I don’t feel good so I’m leaving”
Take it into consideration that it’s his first time in this place, he doesn’t know the city... wtf........

So in between dealing with my ex BF, being ashamed of the break-down, and asking what was up with his reaction, I just choose to deal with one thing at a time, the most importante is dealing with the ex-BF. So I have been pretty much ignoring this friend for about 3 days.. but he doesn’t stop messaging me like nothing happened.. AITA??

A:
answerable