instruction:
Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.
question:
So, long story short: Lately I've been cutting contact completely with a lot of people, friends, close friends, etc. I keep questioning myself if I am being a bad person but sadly it's been a long time since I was this happy. It's like I am in the middle of a period of time where I keep on reflecting about my life and I am just now realizing that a lot of my so called friends just kept on taking advantage of me and using me for their own advantage. Am I the Asshole? 
answer:
answerable


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My fiancée and I are in university. She graduates this semester. I still have three left. We are the same age, she was just a little more focused than I was. Being that she is graduating and I still have almost two years left, she could move to my city where my university is. It would save us a fair chunk of money and help us plan our wedding. Instead, she chose to go full time with her current job to further her career. She's a human resources major, so she can get a job anywhere. I stressed to her how much I wanted her to move to me, but she made her decision. Our relationship is the most important thing to me and I would do anything for her. I was quite hurt by her decision as it feels like our relationship takes a backseat to her career. Now she thinks I'm an asshole for voicing my displeasure with her choice. Am I being an asshole?
answer:
not answerable


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My husband and I have one rule: do not kiss our one month old baby. We don’t care how else my parents want to play with him, but with many people having herpes in the family we do not want anyone kissing his face. My father kissed my baby on the cheek this afternoon, and I kind of blew up. Am I the asshole for getting upset with my dad about this?
answer:

answerable


