Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Let me give you an example: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
The answer to this example can be: wanting to wear a shirt
Here is why: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.

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Ok so this happened a few months ago and we have since broken up (for various reasons; butted heads too much) but this still bothers me and I want to know if I’m in the wrong. So her birthday was coming up and I asked her how she wanted to spend the day; it fell on a weekend so we were both off and I’d be able to enjoy the whole day with her. She said she wanted to go to a high end strip mall about two hours away to go shopping, then meet up with some friends at a bar in the evening. She was always into designer clothes and handbags etc. I never understood the hype around that  (and I don’t have the money to be able to shop like that) but I said I was fine with it, it’s her birthday and we should do what she wants. Well a few weeks prior to that she had also hinted that she really wanted a strawberry cheesecake for her birthday. I mean really really hinted, not subtle at all. It seemed really important to her so I thought it would be nice if I made it from scratch for her rather than buying it. I’d never made a cheesecake before so I was a little nervous I would screw it up but I started doing research to prepare for it, learned how to do all the cool stuff like make the wavy details on the top with puréed strawberries and stuff. Online I read that cheesecake tastes the best when it’s prepared within 24 hours of being eaten so I figured I would stay at my place the night before and start it around 9am so I’d be ready to go leave for the strip mall at noon; I got home late the night before and didn’t have time to make it before bed. Well, I completely underestimated the time it would take me to make a cheesecake and ended up WAY behind schedule; it didn’t help that my electric mixer died halfway through and I had to run over to a neighbor’s and borrow theirs. The cake was supposed to be a surprise, but after constant texts of why I’m so late and what I’m doing I decided to tell her. I thought it would make her slightly more understanding (knowing that I was trying to make her happy instead of goofing off with friends or oversleeping) but it just got her more angry with me. She claimed that the strip mall was what she really wanted to do for her birthday and the cake meant nothing to her, I should’ve just bought one instead of delaying everything. I realized I was in the fault by not planning better, and she really hates when I’m late to things, but her reaction surprised me and hurt a bit. I ended up getting to her house around 3pm with the cake. She said we didn’t have any time to go shopping anymore and wouldn’t let me take her somewhere a little closer by. Eventually she calmed down a bit and was happy with the cake (especially when she tasted it, go me) and we were able to have a nice night out with her friends. We went to the strip mall the next weekend and got there super early so she could stay all day. I thought it was over and done with at this point and that she’d forgiven me but she would continuously bring up how I ruined her birthday when we had fights down the line. Was I in the wrong here? 
Answer:
being late to meet up with my gf on her birthday because I was baking her a cake