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Q: We have some kids that moved into the country to live with their dad. So to help him out, we offered to do their laundry for a short time until he got the hang of things. It's been a few years now and they are still bringing their laundry for us to do. Sometimes they even bring weeks worth of it. 
A few months ago we told their dad that we could not do it anymore. Now the kids just ask and my mum cannot say no to them so they bring it over anyway. She does not want to tell their dad over and over again. Their dad has been cheating on their mum ever since they got together and introduced his gf to the kids (their mum lives in a different country) and he only takes advantage of us, isn't thankful and once told me that we were not doing him any favors. My mum does not want to cause any issues but this simple thing is causing a rift between us because she just let's it happen even at her own expense (it's a lot of work, expensive etc...) I told the kids once that it is their dad job and they said "ok" but the next time they just brought it over again. I have a feeling their dad is coercing them to do it and I do not think that it is fair since we had told him to stop. 

Tl;dr: WIBTA if I told them to stop again and let their dad do his job? Their dad won't answer our calls or respond but we know he gets our messages. We know he has the time because he uses it with his gf's but chooses to pile his responsibilities on us while being ungrateful. 

A: telling them to stop making us do their dad's job
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Q: Ok so we are at a frat interview event. Were obviously busting each others balls and were asking stupid shit to potential members all night long. Literally just stupid frat questions. This one dude who is Indian American says his favorite past time is giving and helping people out and sticking up for things and charity and i said “would you liken yourself to Ghandi”

My one friend whose been asking stupid questions all night told me to get out of his fucking room for that question when i was just fucking asking.

AITA?

A: asking a indian guy if he compares himself to Ghandi
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Q: Just some context to maybe make this a little easier to judge. We're both 21 and I'm 6'3" and an entire foot taller than my girlfriend. We've been together 2 1/2 years. 

My girlfriend "Julia" can sometimes be unaware of the social clues people around her are giving off, especially when she has been drinking. 

This was the case last night when we went to go hang out and have dinner at a friend's place. Over the night Julia had a lot of wine and we ended up staying until almost midnight when this happened. 

I could tell that our friends really wanted us to leave so they could go to bed but are too nice to actually tell us to leave. It was getting super uncomfortable and Julia just was not picking up on any of this. At one point when we ended up alone in the living room for a minute I whispered to her that "I think they want to go to bed. We should head out now." 

She told me to stop being "ridiculous", that they were all having fun and I was trying to ruin her "good time". I decided to give it a little longer to see if she would pick up on the hints before I would remind her again that we should leave. 

By the time I reminded her for the second time, it was 12:30 and everybody but Julia was irritated. I asked my friends straight up when Julia was in the bathroom  if they wanted us to leave and they finally said yes. When she came back I told her that they said we should leave but she accused me of lying because I "just want to go home." 

I stood up, thanked our friends for having us, and grabbed Julia from behind by her waist, grabbed her stuff and put her in the car. Like I said she's a whole foot shorter so there wasn't much she could do to get out it.

When I put her in the car I told her she was being embarrassing and we were going home. She told me to fuck off but didn't say anything else about it until today when I was at work and she texted me that I was being an asshole last night and I shouldn't have picked her up like that, she's not a child, and she doesn't want to talk to me until I apologize. 

That's the thing, I don't know if I should be the one to apologize. She was the one disrespecting everybody's time and not listening to my attempts to get her to pay attention to our friend's hints that we should leave. I didn't know what else to do at that point. 

AITA for picking her up like that despite all my other attempts to get her to leave?

A:
picking up my girlfriend from behind and putting her in the car after she wouldn't leave the party
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