Q: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Some context: We were playing a card game and having some laughs but we were being really loud. Despite that, nobody told us to be quiet. Then, we have a door to a balcony that has been locked for winter next to our lounge. Another kid walks in and opens it, runs outside for a couple seconds, leaves the room to go get a shovel to continue playing outside. While he’s gone, an off duty RA goes in the room and tells us “don’t do that again” basically telling us to not go out in the balcony despite the obvious fact he just walked by the person that did walk outside. While he’s leaving I yell to him “why don’t you have the keys to lock it then motherfucker” and we go back and forth for a couple seconds before telling me “if you have a problem talk to me in person later”. I’m now meeting with the head of Res. Life cause of “my interactions with Res Life Staff earlier this week”

I feel bad cause I usually never make such a rude commemt to people, and I’m planning on apologizing to the kid too. So am I the asshole in this situation?
A:
calling an RA a "motherfucker"cause he accused me and my friends of something we obviously didn't do