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In this task you are given an anecdote. You must find out whether the anecdote is something the author has done or is considering doing. Label the instances as "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and label them as "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future.

So I have a good friend that I enjoy hanging out with, but they aren’t good at turning people down so whenever I invited her somewhere and she doesn’t want to go she says yes and then either constantly reschedules, claims she will get back to me with a time that works for her, or cancels at the last minute with some lame excuse. So would I be an asshole if I confronted her and told her to cut the crap and just be straight with me so that I don’t waste the time and energy trying to make things work if she doesn’t want to go? Also do I have any right to be upset since even though my gut tells me she is just being flaky, she is also a very busy person so there is a chance that I’m just overly sensitive.
Solution: HYPOTHETICAL
Why? the author is talking about something he wants to do.

New input: This summer my family is having a sort of reunion where it will likely be the last time our grandpa would be alive for us too see, unfortunately outside of my direct family I do not remember any of these people and it has caused me to not care about seeing them at the cost of flying across the country and the associated costs with that such as hotel, car rental, and the increased budget for a week of not being able to cook food at home. 

Would I be the asshole for making the excuse that I cant take the time off from work and cant afford the trip?
Solution:
HYPOTHETICAL