Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Ex Input:
Last year in November about a month into things we had an argument and didn’t speak for a few days and apparently during those two days she sent nudes to and arranged to sleep with a friend she’d known a while and also flirted with another guy as well, as far as I’m aware she didn’t go through with it as we patched things up a few days after the argument as she wanted to see me for my birthday the next week. Fast forward to this week, things aren’t going well between us again as we are constantly arguing and I find out through a friend that she’s planning on seeing the guy this weekend that she planned to sleep with in her words to for a “re-schedule” of what they were going to do in November which was apparently the cinema but has been changed to just hanging out at his...

yesterday a friend sent me screenshots of some of the messages between my girlfriends friend  and her that she got sent at the time which is how I found out about it all. After a huge argument about it all which pretty much ended things entirely I feel like an asshole because she apparently never intended to go through with sleeping with him and we both said some pretty harsh things in the argument that followed.



Ex Output:
breaking up with my girlfriend for sending nudes to someone and flirting with two other people


Ex Input:
As a preface, I’m not sure if this would even qualify, since I’m pretty sure I already am an asshole. I’m looking for an objective set of eyes on the situation. Also, sorry for the formatting, I’m on mobile. 

We’ll refer to this person as Sam to keep genders/identities as hidden as possible. 

So, I’ve had a problem with Sam, but I can’t remove him/her from my life because he/she is my SO’s cousin, and they’ve been close since birth. 

The story begins here: when my SO and I began our relationship, Sam was jealous that SO was in a relationship and he/she wasn’t, so he/she badmouthed me to my SO all of the time. Sam turned out to be so effective at turning my SO against me that we ended up breaking up for about a year. 

Then, during junior year prom (I’m a whiny teen, as it turns out), Sam was again jealous because the person that he/she wanted to go with went with someone else, and was in a general bad mood. My SO and I were talking again, and as I tried to make my way over to SO to dance, Sam got in my way over and over so I couldn’t. Then, another person went and danced with my SO. I was upset the rest of the night. 

However, since then, I’ve reconnected with my SO and we have been dating for a while, and Sam has found him/herself a SO. Thus, I’ve had to spend most of this year of school around Sam+SO. 

This exposure has lead to nothing but constant roast sessions between myself and Sam; Sam will call me scrawny while I will rip on Sam for the stupid things that he/she says. 

This all culminates in the study session in the library today. Sam had been laughing at me for something that he/she wouldn’t even tell me about, and I was quite annoyed about it. So, my asshole move reared its head. I took a book about fitness off of the shelf and told Sam that he/she should read through it. Keep in mind, Sam certainly isn’t a fat or anything like that, Sam is just slightly on the larger side. Major dick move, I get it. 

Then, as I was trying to fall asleep Sam’s SO decides to text me, demonstrating how upset he/she is, lambasting my morals, threatening to kick my ass, and demanding an apology. 

I apologized for what I said, but the entire conversation was tinged by the impression that Sam’s SO believes that he/she did nothing wrong and I was the criminal, which I couldn’t take. I believe that if Sam would insult me about my body (being scrawny), Sam should be able to take an insult about his/hers. 


I get it, Sam is probably self-conscious about his/her body, but I just can’t understand how someone could think that my insult was completely unprompted and “over the line”. Sam has no right at all to assume that it’s okay to make fun of my scrawniness, and shouldn’t be surprised when he/she gets a taste of his/her own medicine. 

So the question is, am I the only asshole in this situation, are we both, or are we just a bunch of whiny teenagers still trying to figure out life?

Ex Output:
making an insulting joke to somebody I resent


Ex Input:
Hello,

Right now I'm working as an English teacher overseas. I'm teaching a class for a group of students in their late-teens / early-twenties who have little-to-no interest in learning English. 

I'm not the *best* teacher, but I don't think I'm the worst. I believe I manage to make the class not miserable for the students by joking around and creating a relaxed atmosphere. 

There's a class in this classroom right before mine, which is led by a nice, talkative, older lady who speaks good English, as well as the native language of my students. 

^(I want to withhold judgment of her so I don't skew this post, but personally, I find her a bit nosy--she always asks what we're doing today in my class and asks to see my material and textbook and stuff (when I'm trying to set up for class in the 10 minutes between our classes). I think she's legitimately curious and interested in learning more English and stuff, but it's kind of annoying)

Anyway, she sometimes asks to sit in on my class. For all intents and purposes, I feel like I should be OK with this. Again, she's very nice, and she helps out the kids who are struggling and stuff like that. It's like a free teacher's aide, which should be helpful. 

However, you know that feeling when someone's behind your back watching you work on something? I have this feeling the entire class whenever she's in there. I feel like it affects my teaching ability to a certain extent--I try to like "follow the textbook" more and joke around less, which is pretty boring for the students. And, yeah, it just kind of makes me feel anxious having another teacher in the class.    

So today, when she asked if she could sit in on the class, I said no. Actually, I said, "How about next week?" because I didn't want to say no outright. Haha. 

AITA for telling her she couldn't stay in my class? Follow-up question: If I'm not, how should I get it across to her that it makes me feel uncomfortable having her in there?

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**TL;DR**: I'm a teacher and another teacher asks to sit in on my class sometimes. She's nice and helps the students. However, it makes me feel nervous having her in there, so today I said no, I didn't want her to stay in my class today. AITA? 

Ex Output:

telling a nice old lady to leave my classroom


