In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

Q: Just a brief backstory. 

My dad is an alcoholic and my grandma is homeless with my dad. I go to college across the nation in an attempt to forge my future so I can take care of myself and my family and later my community. I send them money frequently and don't really have money to spare. (Full time college student with no job). A close friend of mines mother has recently gotten a bacterial infection that might kill her before the night ends or over the course of the next week. Naturally, he bought a ticket to leave tomorrow morning but a bunch of my friends bought him a ticket to go home tonight (it was over 500$). They created a group chat acknowledging what had happened and I instantly sent him my condolences and wished him well. The guy collecting money came to me and told me that I was a selfish prick if I don't give him money to help pay for his ticket. Mind you, the guy who's mother is sick has money to pay for a ticket and has a family that is rather wealthy. They are saying that I an abomination if I don't contribute and that they will never talk to me again. I l feel extremely sorry for his family and him and hope that everything works out for him but I'm feeling attacked and upset. It's not like they came to me and told me about the situation, the first thing they did was tell me that if I didn't, I'm an asshole. Meanwhile, I have my own world of problems. Am I the asshole for not helping pay for his plane ticket? 

A: RIGHT
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Q: We're both 22, been dating for a year and her sister is having a birthday dinner hosted this Friday for her 20th bday. I was told about this about 2 weeks ago and flat out said I'm not going to go to that restaurant because my dad used to be a manager there and they treated him extremely badly and basically forced him to quit. This was in 2014 and I won't forget the shit they put my dad through and it was a terrible thing to do to another person. I told my GF that but she's like how it was so long ago and its a really good place now I doubt they treat their employees like that still. I just told her I don't want to spend money at a place that treated my dad so badly. I told her I'll see her sister the next day and get her a gift. She called me an asshole and said I'm being inconsiderate.

AITA?

A: RIGHT
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Q: I very conflicted on this.
So my ex girlfriend and I left on good terms, still hanging out as friends. 
She graduated early from highschool so never got the chance to go. 
The other night we were chatting and I mentioned that I was going and she immediately asked if she could. 
Not wanting to immediately say no I said 
"I can see that could be fun!" (Mistake on my part)
After a little a while I tried explaining to her that  I had already had plans with a group of friends and that it would be awkward  since she doesn't know anyone there and I would have yo be with her the whole time. 
"As long as I have you." Then she kissed me (OOF)

I dont want to leave my friends and have to be with her all night since, well shes my ex. However I feel awful for getting her hopes up in the first place and dont want her to miss out on this experience.

TL;DR 
Ex wants to get back together and go to prom at my school. I already have plans but got her hopes up. What do I do?

A:
RIGHT
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