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Q: I couldn't think of a better way to word the title but well here it is - would I be an asshole if I left the girl I'm dating because she refuses to see a therapist? 

Our story starts in 2014 when we started a relationship. We agreed to an exclusive serious relationship. It didn't take long for me to realize that she wasn't being faithful but it did take long for me to finally confront her about it. Essentially, she told me I was being paranoid and adviced me to see a therapist. I broke up with her but we stayed friends which led into about 4 years of on and off relationship madness. 

At the end of last year, we ended up deciding we should try things differently and just date without exclusion. Honestly things got a lot less stressful and she had become more open about telling me about anyone else she was interested in. I liked this mood. 

Recently, she's been getting depressed every time the topic of sex and partners comes up and she expressed a few concerning things to me. 1) She doesn't feel like she's in control in the moments that she makes these decisions. 2) She feels as though she has no clue who she is. 3) She doesn't know how to stop herself from being someone she doesn't want to be. 4) Sometimes she finds herself crying without knowing why.

I've been suggesting in passing that she see a therapist or psychologist for awhile now, but after she said those things I told her that she seriously needs to do this. She brushes it off. No matter how much I try to explain to her that this is important and to take her mental health seriously, she belittles the issue. It pissed me off because not too long before that she made a big deal about how I need to see a doctor more often and start taking my physical health more seriously. I agreed to do so even though I really don't want to. Now it just feels like she's being a hypocrite and I told her as much. She said "It's not the same and I'm not about to admit that I need help. So I'll tell you that I'll consider it and we'll both accept that that means no."

That happened about 2 days ago and I've been thinking about it the whole time. I've spent almost 5 years pursuing this girl, and I am sure I'm in love with her but I'm not sure I'm willing to live with these problems. I want to help, but I know its pointless trying to help someone that doesn't want it. I hate seeing her like this but I'm starting to feel as though there's nothing I can do. Would I be the asshole if I broke up with her and distanced myself over this? 
A:
leaving someone for not seeking help