In this task you are given an anecdote. You must find out whether the anecdote is something the author has done or is considering doing. Label the instances as "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and label them as "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future.
One example: So I have a good friend that I enjoy hanging out with, but they aren’t good at turning people down so whenever I invited her somewhere and she doesn’t want to go she says yes and then either constantly reschedules, claims she will get back to me with a time that works for her, or cancels at the last minute with some lame excuse. So would I be an asshole if I confronted her and told her to cut the crap and just be straight with me so that I don’t waste the time and energy trying to make things work if she doesn’t want to go? Also do I have any right to be upset since even though my gut tells me she is just being flaky, she is also a very busy person so there is a chance that I’m just overly sensitive.
Solution is here: HYPOTHETICAL
Explanation: the author is talking about something he wants to do.

Now, solve this: Ok so this one is more of a Whos the Ahole and I got this idea by a guy who posted a very similar situation but not quite the same

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Me and my partner differ on this and I want to know what reddit thinks in general to make life easy we'll say that I am the one who says this is not allowed

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The person im speaking of is my younger brother He recently missed my Bday. Now this isn't the first thing he missed and he told me that I should come to his place and he would throw me a mini party. I told him no thanks because IMO he could have made it to this its just a long drive and he had work the next day.

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It wasn't a huge party and he would have been able to get back home by 10-11 and he starts at 9 (up at 745ish) as we were done by 9 (was a dinner)

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I've told him no, you sholdn't get do overs when IMO you COULD have made it you just didn't have the energy to make the drive. In general I don't believe in do overs.

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AITA or should I let my brother throw me a mini party after he missed mine?

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Solution:
HISTORICAL