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How to comfort a grieving friend 
Let your friend know that you're there for them without conditions or expectations. 
This is a difficult time for your friend and they need a lot of understanding. Avoid pressuring your friend to talk or discuss their feelings.
It is far better to let your friend know that you are available if needed than to force them to talk to you about what has happened. Don't pressure your friend or keep on asking how they feel.