Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

[EX Q]: Before anyone calls this bullshit, I wanna say that I am actually confused about this whole situation and I really need an opinion from outside of the story. Emotions are still flowing, so if I let anything out I'll edit the post.

So, for context, I used to have my own PC, but it stopped working recently, and it's on repair. So I either don't use a PC at all or use my dad's notebook, which usually is not an option because my 5yo sister (I'll call her "Sam") is using it ALL THE TIME. Whenever I ask it from her to use for a while she either yells "NO" or cries for my parents' attention, and they never did anything about it. Eventually I gave up and stopped asking.

Ok, so today my mom went out with her, and I had the notebook for myself the whole afternoon. My mom gets back, we talk about college for a while, and then I let Sam use the notebook for a few hours. 

When Sam went to her bed, I was about to get back to the notebook again when my mom asks for it so my sister could use, cause she didn't want to sleep. I got mad and asked my mom why, cause they always let her use it and I never get the chance to do anything. She basically got mad too and started calling me names and answered my question by saying "because I want to".

Things escalated quickly and she started pushing me against the wall while still calling me names (I can't say I stayed calm either, I was trying to defend myself/minimize the pain by pushing back a little bit, I had no intentions in hurting her and I'm pretty sure I didn't).

When she released me I kinda felt bad and decided to give her the notebook and guess what? My mom didn't accept it anymore, got really pissed and tried to tell my father what happened. She said that "I no longer existed to her", and tried to justify that with her version of the truth (that I was the one trying to hurt her, that I "grabbed her arm", while completely ignoring what she did to me.) I called her out and added the details she "forgot" and my dad actually stayed on my side for once and said we would talk about that tomorrow.

So, basically, AITA for not wanting to give Sam the computer or should I give it to her even though she already uses it all the time? Honestly I think my parents are going too soft on Sam and have been going for a while (this time just my mom, dad actually stayed on my side for once), but whenever I say something they ignore me, since "they are the parents, they decide what's best for their children".
[EX A]: EVERYBODY

[EX Q]: this computer was mine before i purchased and built a new one, i5 1050 ti 250 ssd etc. Didn't need money or anything just wanted to teach him a lesson.

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He is my little brother, 14 years old (me 22), i love him to bits but he has gotten to this edgy phase in his life, he has become extremely disrespectful to me and my mom, gets extremely violent or aggressive when he doesn't get his way, and is generally a cunt, if i buy takeout for the family and don't eat it right away say i go for a nap or something, he'll eat my portion without a thought, even if he has ate his he'll eat mine.

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when i confront him about it he'll say he didn't know, like i bought everyone they're separate dish and he already ate his but he'll take mine too, call me randomly names while i'm on the phone or on discord w/ friends.

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so one day i had enough of his disrespect and picked up everything i bought him and sold it to a friend, my mother called me heartless and that was the worst thing i could have ever done, and 2 days after bought him another computer, his behavior has not changed and he still acts the same, calling my mother a bitch and all that.

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only lesson he has learned from me selling the computer is if he crys to momma he'll get whatever he wants(and he knows this because he said it to me)

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am i the asshole for selling my little brothers computer to try and teach him a lesson?

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[EX A]: EVERYBODY

[EX Q]: sorry for the throwaway.


i've been struggling with some less, some more serious mental health issues which are causing me to have severe moodswings, hallucinations, paranoia and more. i've been having these problems for over four years now, been on and off medication, was sent to a mental health clinic four times, been in and oit of therapy and i'm just tired of living at this point.

a year ago, i got back into school after not going for two years. i've handled my anxiety pretty well and actually found some friends.
after a few months, they became more aware about my problems and tried their best to help, but, being honestly, i didn't want help. i still don't want to recover, because i feel like after so much time, it isn't worth it anymore and i don't have the strength to keep fighting.


a few weeks ago, things kind of escalated and i had a breakdown. only two of my friends now. they are very sweet and still try to help, but i can see how miserable and worried they get whenever we talk about it. i even told them that i'd get it if they prefered not to talk to me about that, or to me in general because i didn't want to pull them down with me (i know that both of them have problems like that themselves), but they insist they'll be fine.

i'm not sure what to do.
i noticed how sad they are getting and i feel like it's my fault, because i gave up on myself and they didn't.


am i the asshole here?
[EX A]:
NOBODY

