Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
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Question: Here’s a little background: I (19M) live with my parents whom were fairly strict and worrisome concerning their children. My dad works long hours so a lot of the time it’s me, my siblings and my mom.  As I started to stay out later my mom would always stay up unless we were all home. 

This particular night I went to visit a friend in NJ for his birthday. I live in NYC so the drive isn’t that bad. I told my parents I was taking the family car and they were reluctant but agreed. They made it clear they wanted me home around 11 but I told them that was too early and that I’d be home later. By the end of the party one of my friends that came with me was extremely drunk. I offered her a ride back and naturally it took her over an hour to get out. After a tedious and long drive I finally make it home and of course my mom is waiting for me, furious. She starts yelling at me and arguing about how I’m a terrible son and all that. I really do feel bad because she’s my mom and I don’t want her to be up all night worrying about me, but at the same time I don’t want to be couped up just living my life at home.

Answer: AUTHOR


Question: A girlfriend of mine has been seeing this guy for about 3-4 months. All was well the first 2 months, then he started ghosting her. So she started to become disinterested once she started to deal with the rejection, about a week ago, she said she was happy that it was over and she wouldn’t have to worry about it anymore, it’s like he knew because this week, he came on super strong, she doesn’t like him anymore and wants to communicate it like an adult. I think she should give him a taste of his own medicine. 

Answer: EVERYBODY


Question: Husband and I are both in our early thirties and fortunate enough to be in a financially comfortable place where we can quit our jobs in the next year. My husband works 12 hour shifts, 4 days a week and I work a regular 9-5. I recently sold some intellectual property and made mid-7 figures off of it. This puts in a place where we can pay off the remainder of our mortgage and live comfortably off the rest for quite a while. 

Right now, because of my husbands long hours and stressful job, he plays video games for hours on end as stress relief. I understand this, and it is sometimes mildly annoying when I would prefer we do interactive stuff together, but I understand the comfort he gets from it. My fear though is that when we both quit, he will just sit at home and play video games all day. I don't want to be an asshole and call all the shots because it was "my money" that is helping us retire, but at the same time, I want both of us to lead active lives so that we can live long and be healthy long into our retirement. 

I plan on taking up a bunch of home projects in the first couple years, maybe going back to school, and continuing to work on projects similar to the one I sold. I've asked my husband what he wants to do and he said he just wants to relax after 15+ years in the work force. So, I want to tell him that he has to have a plan for retirement before quitting, is this fair? 

Answer:
NOBODY


