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In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
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So a few months ago me and my ex broke up on neutral terms after a year. We were still friends afterwards though. So were talking one night and I say some shit about how ouija boards are bullshit, and then she sends me a link to something that almost made me throw up. I then say jokingly to "never talk to me again" and then she sends 3 more links. I never opened them but they were from the same website. Then I wake up and there's 10 more links. I block her on all social media and don't talk to her the next day. I 'm talking to one of our mutual friends and he says she's upset lately. I would feel bad but like, That shit makes me mad. It's bad enough she sent it to me, but it's disturbing she knows were to find it. 
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RIGHT


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Several years ago around 7pm (dusk), an old man arrives at my house. I am shirtless and in the middle of a TV show. He asks for my wife. He is somewhat familiar looking but I don’t know why. My wife comes to the door and immediately knows the old man, who is evidently a family friend who shes known going back to when she was a baby.  We welcome him in despite it being fairly late and unexpected. For a very brief time we are all friendly with each other until he notices a tattoo on my wife’s foot. He said that he didn’t know she had done that and that it’s a shame. 

I asked, “why is it a shame?”
He said, “because her foot was fine before, and that tattoos can be offensive to some people.”
I asked, “okay who is this harmless tattoo offensive to exactly?” 
He said, “well for starters it’s offensive to me.” 
I said, “okay it’s been a lovely visit but you’ve come after dark, I’m in the middle of a show (and shirtless), and you’ve said your offended by wife. Time to go, I’m sorry I’m asking you to leave.”
   I awkwardly walk him out of the house.

Three years pass. He is older and sick. My wife’s family connects with him at the hospital and come back and he mentioned ME of all people because apparently he has not been in communication with them because of the “falling out” and the episode at my house. I get the feeling that he is making me out to be an A-hole and the reason for him breaking it off with the whole family! AITA?
answer:
RIGHT


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AITA: Soooo, this is going to be long, but worth it.
My uncle came to Italy (where I live with my parents, both are from Morocco) two months ago, and he has been living with us ever since.
He came here with a sketchy employment contract (which states that he is working on a farm in Veneto), while he really has been living in another region with us. Since he moved in, i haven’t talked to my dad and i have been arguing with my mom every.single.day. It has been a nightmare.
The problem is that this big, fat, 34 year old, thinks (just like every other north african migrant, except for people from Lybia and Egypt) that Italy is the place to be, when it is NOT; my parents paid for his tuition in Morocco, and he did not finish studying for his college degree. Then they bought him a scooter to help him get a job, (again, he was still in Morocco) and he didn’t find one and had to sell it; they paid for his marriage (he also had a daughter), while he lived in our house in Marrakech for all of his adult life without paying us a single euro for the rent, or the bills.
He has always been completely dependent on my parents, and this thing always drove me insane, because i cannot forget what my dad went through when he came to Italy as an immigrant 30 years ago... he slept in the woods, on trains, he didn’t eat for days on end, he was robbed, he was discriminated, he had to go through some Tough shit, and here is this shrek-looking giant baby that comes to italy with an easy jet flight (paid by my parents), and thinks he can conquer the world by watching the tv and eating all day long.
And what bugs me the most is that both of my parents dont think there is something wrong with them spending money on his future (and not mine, wtf, we are not rich), or with him not helping with the chores (even though he doesnt work and is at home doing nothing all day long).
Well, do you guys think i am the asshole for not talking to my uncle and my dad (we had a terrible fight about this situation) and for deciding to eat alone in my room until he leaves our home?
(I am an 18 year old girl, next year i will be studying either medicine or biology, university life is expensive, and my parents wont be able to afford sustaining my studies, our family and his family forever)
Fun fact: since he has moved in, i’ve never even saw him. I shower when he is sleeping or outside, and i cook when he is another room or out, lol. I have no idea how i am managing all of this shit, but it is driving me insane, INSANE
Sorry for the text block, i just enjoyed reddit and i don’t know how to edit.
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RIGHT


