instruction:
Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
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Been working as a security guard in the lobby of a social service office for awhile (too long) while studying (CompTIA and programming) and searching for other work. Now I like to help people. Plenty of folks that come through and I’ll talk to them, listen to their woes and interests, give advice and encouragement where I can. I even have a paper I print out for new adults to help them get ahead if they put in the work. Even talk about when I was homeless and the lengths I went to, to pull myself up by the bootstraps. Including how I made sure that I didn’t stink. But there are some things that I am terse about. Yes you need a ticket, no you cannot just ask a quick question ( too many people took advantage of that phrase), drop box or ticket to drop off paper work etc. My strictness has gotten me in trouble ( and sometimes my own “rudeness” that comes from being raised old school between Marine dad and admiring grandparents generation). However a recent stern talking to was about how I’ve taken up wearing a facemask. One of the washable doctors kind. When asked I’d honestly answer “because sick people have walked up and breathed in my face ( but apologise to everyone else for their cold) and some people just stink.” so the boss has gotten complaints that the mask makes me seem unapproachable and I should take it off. Her response about the sick people is that “they” (social workers) have to go in an office with the customers and just have to take their vitamins and put up with it. So me , minimum wage, three sick days, no vacation days, and underpaid for this bs.

TLDR AITA for wearing a facemask to not get sick or smell stinky people.
answer:
AUTHOR


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So this happened exactly a week ago. I brought my new girlfriend to my parents house to meet my family. I introduced her to everyone and everyone was pretty nice except my sister. She’s not the most pleasant person to begin with and my girlfriend sensed it. When she left my sister blurted out loud “wow she’s ugly, you can do better!” I wasn’t entirely shocked because she says dumb and rude shit all the time. But it pissed me off, she laughed a little and said she was complimenting me and that I could do better. I got angry and lost it I told her she was a mentally challenged loser and whore and that’s why her husband left her stupid ass to be a single mother, and that kid would be better off with his dad than with her, because at least then he might have a chance at being a normal human being. 

She lost it and started screaming at me, calling me names and throwing shit at. I left soon after and a few days later I got a call from my dad telling me not to come over because my sister is still angry and will call the cops on me and say I hit her if I come by. Was I in the wrong here? 
answer:
EVERYBODY


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I noticed I had not seen a male friend of mine and my husband’s on any social media since the start of the week. No post, no comment, no likes since Sunday. He wouldn’t respond to texts either. My hubby is the one who primarily talks to him since I don’t talk to male friends without my hubby around. It’s my rule and my hubby hub hub respects that. Anyways, yesterday we finally got a hold of him and asked him if he was ok. Yes. Why did he leave social media. 

“Because of Valentine’s Day” he said. He does not like being on social media during Valentine’s Day because he thinks couples bully singles and shove their relationships down everyone’s throats. He also claims its just a “Hallmark holiday” that exists for the sole reason of making corporations money. Shit like that. It’s why he takes a social media break. 

Well, come to find out he muted mine and my hubby hub hub’s joint account (I don’t have one without him), and the accounts of other couples because we do nothing but brag about our relationship. I told him that our account is ours and we can do whatever we want with it. If he can’t be a supportive friend and be happy for us sharing our love, then he doesn’t need to be a friend of ours. 

He got real mad at that because he claimed he doesn’t complain about Valentine’s Day, only get off social media. Me and my hubby hub hub told him that him not supporting us is the problem. It’s a silent way of complaining. Him muting us on social media is complaining. Him leaving social media for a week because of Valentine’s Day is complaining. It’s him throwing a temper tantrum because he thinks he’s a victim of something he’s not. 

Honestly, I’m glad he’s not in our lives anymore. 
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AUTHOR


