Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

Input: Consider Input: I am 24 F Indian and married to a white Australian 32 M. We have been married for 2 years. 
And I’m 6 months pregnant with our first child, a girl. 

I’ve always had a strained relationship with my husband’s parents. They did not accept me at first but then they just tolerated me for my husband’s sake. They never liked me, although they will always deny this. His mother is very critical of me and finds faults. She is also rude to my mother. 

My husband married me despite his parents objections. We are very much in love. But I told him I don’t want his parents to visit us because they always cause fights and arguments. She picks on my cooking skills and she complains the house is a mess. She picks up the things laying around the house while giving me a dirty look. These are just some of the things she does to me. 
His father wears shoes inside the house. We have a no shoes inside policy. One time, he walked in and put his feet with shoes on the coffee table and then on our white couch. I had to clean this all up. 

I told my husband that I don’t want them to see my daughter when she’s born. This made him very upset and I’ve never seen him this angry. 
He said I’m being selfish and his parents want to see their granddaughter. But how can I? If they treat me like dirt. 

We had a huge fight. I feel really guilty. I ended up crying alone. He said he’s still upset and needs alone time. 
I don’t know what to do. I can’t stop crying. 

Am I the asshole? 


Output: EVERYBODY


Input: Consider Input: So, to be clear the old employer I worked for did not make me sign a Non-disclosure or non compete.

5-6 years ago I started working for a ma and Pa welding supplies shop with only background in automotive/concrete pumps.I was to fix the welding equipment.

The company needed to have a certified tech to maintain their "premium" distributor status which means the get great discounts. I was sent to the first of two certification classes within 2 weeks of starting, I passed the first test after cramming, got back &amp; spent the next 3 months being trained by the guy who was currently in retirement. I go to the second class, pass &amp; get fully certified &amp; begin my career.

The owner retired the year I was hired, in hopes of leaving his company for his son whom was currently the store manager.That left his son, the top employee &amp; the accountant all tied for heirarchy &amp; they all wanted things differently. I steer clear of any political BS because it didn't matter to me. I was there to learn a dying trade &amp; learn it well.

Here is where the biggest pile of shit hit the fan. That poor poor fan..

The owners son, who was 6 months away from inheriting the company was found to have been stealing from the company for YEARS, like tens of thousands of dollars... He was subsequently fired and his dad became even more checked out &amp; left the accountant to be the general manager. Well fast forward a few years, I made a dying repair shop into a bustling repair business,with 40-60 machines in at all times in que, sent out Excel spreadsheet reports on the current status, expanded the repair shop from being a warranty center for 1 brand to all 3 major brands.

I had out grown that shop, and that they wanted to keep me at a certain level of capability that met their needs without taking into consideration that I have 40 years left in the industry.

Quickly management got worse and worse so I left this last October for a bigger company that called me at my place of work in the hopes of hiring me. The straw that broke the camel's back was the GM shutting down certain options we gave customers for repair against my will, after that I went to places I knew I could walk on to and said I was on the market. That was when this bigger company hit me up out of the blue by pure coincidence.

To wrap this up that bigger company is taking great care of me, letting me train on the high end equipment I dreamed of working on and like I said, this tradeskill is a dying trade. I'm now using my abilities and natural prowess with this type of work to give previous customers an alternative outlet for repair on welding equipment, both normal and specialty (CNC, automated sub arc, high end plasmas etc) but with the understanding that if they choose to utilize my skills I want them to bring over gas and hardgoods business, essentially taking customers from my old employer but making it 100% up to the customer.... And it's working...

AITA/did that smaller company Fuck up their best last hope??

Output: OTHER


Input: Consider Input: Before u all crucify me from the title - I found out that my BEST friend was trying to get with my current girlfriend behind my back. There was a lot of drama etc etc etc, we almost fought each other and other stupid shit. Anyways, recently I sorta realized I never said anything to him about the situation after it had died down (our parents took both of our phones lol) 

So, I text him about how happy my gf and I are, how we're in love, the amazing sex, etc. I sent him about 2 paragraphs of text including the things mentioned above, and he blocked me. 

No problem to me. I don't want to talk to him anyways (unless it's belittling him.) But my GF saw my text and literally called me an asshole, verbatim. 

She said he was probably just confused and emotional at the time and made a mistake and that I shouldn't be rubbing it in his face because after all, he already lost - he didn't get the girl. 

This made me start to doubt myself, and I was like woah why am I feeling guilt for telling off this asshole? We had been best friends for 2 years straight and I told him how much I loved her well before he ever made a move. 

TL;DR - Best friend tried to get with my GF. Months later I tell him off. My GF calls me an asshole 


Output: EVERYBODY


