In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

[Q]: Throwaway account because he knows my account name. 

Anyway, we weren’t doing anything big for Valentine’s Day. I bought him a box of chocolates and handmade him a paper lantern with scenes from one of his favorite movies.  He bought me a personal size cake made to look like a rose. 

When he opened his chocolates, he offered me some and I ate one piece. When I walked past him an hour later, all of the chocolates were gone. Like 30 chocolates. He has a serious sweet tooth and will literally eat an entire package of sweets in an hour or so if he doesn’t stop himself. Anyway, I ate a little bit of the cake and put the rest away to be eaten later. I like to savor things. 

The next day, I went to make some breakfast and the rest of my cake was gone completely. He even licked the frickin frosting off the container. I wouldn’t have minded if he’d just had a piece but he ate ALL of it. And, this kind of thing happens a lot and he gives me a hard time for “hiding” junk food from him. I don’t hide it, I just try to keep him from eating all of it or I will get none. He thinks I should eat all of my portion right away to make sure I get it. I’m sorry, but a huge package of cookies should last a few days - not be gone in an hour and only eaten by one person. 

It’s unhealthy, rude, and disgusting imo. He shows no remorse for doing it and laughs about it like a little kid. He doesn’t think he’s wrong or that there’s nothing wrong with what he’s doing. 

And, no, he’s not a stoner. He just eats constantly and he’s gained quite a bit in the 3 years we’ve been together. I know this is stupid and trivial but he’s seriously ruining his health. 
[A]: RIGHT


[Q]: So, I was in a 5 year long relationship with my ex. We were in college together and then we got jobs in different places. We decided we could meet once every 2-3 months and be in a long distance and after one year would try to get jobs in a common city. Everything was going well for the first 3-4 months. We met whenever we can. Then she tells me that she wants a break so she could focus on her job. Out of nowhere, this came. She told me that it'd take just a few weeks because she was working on something important. She told me the details, so I was convinced and decided to give her some space. After that, i went to meet her, we had a happy time and I thought everything would be good again, but when i reached back she told me that she kissed some colleague of hers who is like 9-10 years older than her and she was guilty, so she didn't tell me. I had a hard time digesting it and I broke up with her. There were many other factors as when she was at home after work she wanted full attention from me but when she went out with her friends for days, she didn't even call me once. I felt it was a shitty relationship. I told her that I don't want this relationship, and she told me can we be friends atleast and I said no to that too. I have decided to cut off all ties with her but a part of me wants to go back to her. Help me out guys!

So, AITA for breaking up with her.
[A]: RIGHT


[Q]: Note: I am genuinely not seeking validation here, and I understand my perspective is inherently biased. I just want to see what some people think of my situation and views

I come from a family of what I believe to be toxic and abusive parents. There are too many details to wrap up in this one post, but basically they are very religious people, and do not approve of most of my choices. At home when I am around them, I have to become a different person and essentially lead a double life, which I find to be very taxing.

After I graduate college and find a stable job I plan to cut them off, disconnecting any and every means of contact, essentially ghosting myself from them.

I’ve talked to both my brother and a few of my close friends about this and they all tell me that I’m wrong for wanting to do so. They say that I’m selfish for leaving because my parents have provided for me my entire life (financially, food, housing, etc.) and are now financing my entire college degree so that I don’t have to take out loans. On top of that, my brother told me I would be tearing the family apart by leaving.

It’s just that I hate my parents so much for being so abusive all throughout my life. Being around them just fills me with rage and makes my skin crawl. I don’t know if maybe I’m right, or maybe I’m just fucked up.

Do you guys think I’m the asshole for wanting to leave? If there is not enough information, I will gladly answer any questions to the best of my ability.
[A]:
RIGHT


