TASK DEFINITION: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.
PROBLEM: So me and this girl dated briefly, about a month, before she decided that we should break up and she only cited that “we went to fast” as a reason. Obviously I wasn’t okay with this, but said that’s fine anyway. Two days later we’re back in my dorm kissing so obviously I think “well she obviously didn’t mean it, I guess things are fine now”. However she’s mentioned recently that we aren’t dating, we’re more than friends, and she wants to get back together eventually, which when put together are all very confusing to me. The thing is she tried to deescalate our relationship again by saying we should stop kissing too, because for now we’re just friends. Five minutes later we were hooking up again, and we did it again today. 

When I ask her about it she says she does want to get back together, but she keeps trying to deescalate our relationship. She’s said that there’s other things going on in her life that led to her breaking up with me but she hasn’t told me them. Even when we were dating she slowed us down once, then did it twice after we broke up. I just feel so strange about this scenario and I almost feel like I’m being strung along or something. Would I be an asshole if I just totally called things off right now? I feel bad because I really like her, and she does seem to like me but there’s just something that she’s not telling me that really makes this situation feel strange. 

SOLUTION: answerable

PROBLEM: My boyfriend gets colds often. Every single time I'm by his side making him food, getting him medicine, and making sure he's comfortable. 

We have been together for two years, and have lived together for most of it. In those two years I have not once gotten sick, until now. 

In the middle of my bartending shift this morning I felt terrible. Fever, sore throat, coughing fits, everything. On top of that, it was an overall shit shift with mean customers and terrible tips. 

I got home and told him how I felt and joked that I was finally sick for the first time in our relationship, and that it was his turn to look after me. He then makes a joke about me taking NyQuil, and passing out so he can go out. 

I take medicine, fall asleep for about two hours, then he wakes me up to tell me he's going to the casino with a friend. I'm upset, obviously, but I can't stop him. 

Again, he woke me up. And because I'm extremely uncomfortable I can't fall back asleep. It's been 6 hours and I'm still awake (3am here) and he's still at the casino. I call him, he doesn't answer, and texts me "take more medicine. Please don't bother me". 

I'm furious. AITA for thinking he should be at least NICE to me right now? 

TLDR: boyfriend has been at the casino for 6 hours after waking me up while I have a fever

SOLUTION: answerable

PROBLEM: Hi, bit of context.

Next weekend, a few of my friends are coming down from a country town about 5 hours from me. I'm pretty close with both of them, and we all came up with the idea that I'd catch a train up (no room in their car, they're driving), and hang out up there with them for a few days.

Initially, we did have a few minor issues with accommodation and transport, but I have booked everything in now, and I am excited to go up, hang out with them and enjoy my first week of holidays. However, my parents don't want me to go, because 'your friends are coming down, whats the point of you going up?' I haven't seen one of them for an entire year and only saw the other one about 15 weeks ago (we keep in touch over Snapchat/text) but I don't want to have to see them go, and want to hang out with them. They are pretty enthusiastic about me coming up as well, but my parents are mad, and I want to know, AITA for going against their wishes and going up to visit my friends?

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SOLUTION:
not answerable

