Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

Input: Consider Input: I moved to a new town when I was younger and I made a few friends. One of my friends has a sister and we became friends too. We werent ever really really close friends just acquaintances but we have known eachother for 6 years. I was hanging out with her and one of her friends when we got invited to a small party of just some close friends. We went to the party and I drank waaay too much. I started flirting with her for a bit and she had to leave early. Someone had taken videos of me saying stupid shit after she left about how I wanted to have sex with her and other embarrassing stuff. A few days later I overheard her talking to friends saying I creeped her out when I flirted with her because she didnt want anything more than a friedship with me. I understand she doesnt like me like that but I just want to know of I'm an asshole in this situation.

Output: AUTHOR


Input: Consider Input: Ok this one is hard for me to even sort out. A little backstory: uncle and soon to be ex-aunt are in the middle of a nasty divorce(it’s been almost 2 years now) because she’s insane and manipulative. I’m not just saying that to make me look better, regardless of this situation she’s a nut bag. She hates everyone on our side of the family just for the fun of it- although it seems that she doesn’t hate me all that much because I spend time with their kids (14,12,7) and they like me so she tolerates me.

So around Christmas time my little cousin (14) was talking about how much she loves this specific singer and so I suggested she ask for tickets to one of her concerts since she would be in our area on tour. She said that was a great idea and asked for a ticket for herself and for me so I could take her/chaperone. I enjoy this artist’s music so I didn’t mind, I’m actually very excited to go. Her little sister (12) got wind and wanted to come along as well, same thing with one of my friends (22). SO we plan it out with a family member and end up getting $150 each tickets for the concert as Xmas gifts and oh happy day everyone is exited to go. 

So fast forward a couple months and my little cousin’s (14) friend offered for her to go to Disney world with her family. (Apparently the friend and her bf broke up so they had an extra ticket). But the trip they had already planned was planned over the date of the concert. So I asked my cousin what she wanted to do and she said she would rather go to the concert with us and just go to Disney world another time. 

My cousin has repeatedly told her mother that she would rather go to the concert but her mother insists that she go with her friend to Disney world instead and that I can take her to a concert on a different date. (Which I have not agreed to or been asked about by her mother). 
We then find out that my cousins friend and family will only be at Disney world a few days and will actually be leaving Disney world a day before the concert to go visit with other family, so my cousin COULD fly home after Disney world by herself and make it back in time for the concert (she has flown by herself before). And that’s what she would prefer to do. She asked and her mother apparently refused this idea because “it’s (cousins friends) family vacation!” 

I’m so fucking annoyed with this entire situation. My cousin is the biggest fan of this signer in the group of us that’s going, if she doesn’t go it just won’t be as much fun. But I know she’s wants to go to Disney world and that she will have fun if she goes on that trip. But I will also feel bad because then the person who bought us the concert tickets will be hurt that my cousin isn’t going anymore. This is such a cluster fuck. Am I the asshole for making it a bigger deal than it is? 

TLDR: cousins mom insists she go to Disney world with a friend instead of going to concert we paid $150 pp to go to together because it’s her favorite artist. 





Output: EVERYBODY


Input: Consider Input: I want to know if I'd be an asshole for this and ruin a professional relationship I have.

I'm falling in love with my professor.  I feel like if I pursue these feelings, I could potentially risk their career.  For nearly 2 years, I had have the strongest feelings for them.  I've never been so hung up on a person like this before.  We actively talk and we know each other very well.  I think they know that I have feelings for them, and I think they at least have some feelings for me, but they can't act upon them because they need to remain professional.  I respect that entirely.  

I just don't know what to do.  I want to with them or at least let them know how I feel, but I don't want to jeopardize our friendship and their career they worked so hard for.  Also, my professor is not married and is not in a relationship with anyone at the moment.  

I tried to move on and see other people in the past, but with other people, that emotional connection is not there, and my feelings for professor continue to persist.  

Would I be an asshole if I pursue? 


Output: AUTHOR


