In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

[Q]: Hey guys

First time posting so might not be the best !

So basically i‘am in a leadership role and lead 6-7 employees.I report to a manager let’s call her Dee.

I started this position and after 3-4 days of training Dee takes 6 weeks off for holidays.I‘am left to run the warehouse by myself and look after about 10-12 employees.

During this time a guy (let’s call him Adam) starts.He is our new Storeman.He lied on his application about his experience to get the job.First day arrived and he is clearly inept.We find out about him having no license and he is basically put on floor duty (picking packing etc)

From day 2 he is argumentative with myself and makes a load of mistakes and blames others.Disappears for an hour with no explanation,arguing with me in front of people etc.

The upper management agree to fire him and so have me keep records of his mistakes.When Dee returns she agrees to fire him.Adam and I get into a heated argument (he had lied to my boss about me) So I leave the work place before it escalates.He is separated and taken out of my team and left in another area sweeping floors.



Management tell me it is a slow process to fire him even though under 3 months you can be fired for anything on the spot.

After all this Dee passes myself and another good worker for overtime and gives it to this guy,who then doesn‘t come to work that day.Next day same thing she passes myself and other co-workers up for overtime and gives it to this guy.

Am I the asshole in this for arguing back ? I have told management I don’t want him in my team but my manager coddles him when he is so clearly inept.

Thanks in advance for reading !


[A]: RIGHT


[Q]: So my SO in our heading towards 5 month relationship has recently kind of bugged me. A week or two ago I was at hers hanging out and she got a call from her friend who asked if she was doing anything today, to which she said no, and if she wanted to come out, which she said she’d ask. Taking in mind no mention of me to her friend and no offer of invitation so I felt like wtf and asked her if she wanted to go see them (when I had travelled over 2 hours to see her and we had a fun thing planned (at her house)). And she said ‘yeah kinda’ so I was like wtf and got my stuff and left with trying to act okay and not mad because I felt so shocked.
Anyway that still kind of bugged me and then just now I messaged her this long sad message which I wanted emotional support on and then sent her a message a few minutes later because on this group chat she got added to with my friends who she’s just met and spoken to once she was @tted I made a joking comment about it. Anyway I check back and no reply to me but there was an instant reply to my friend who she barely knows and she never uses discord, that’s the only chat she has on it so not like she clicked on it for convenience so idk why she chose to reply some person she barely knows over me first, especially when I was wanting support but I’m just hurt and got annoyed at her. Is that wrong of me?
[A]: RIGHT


[Q]: Hi all who decide to read. First time poster here in AITA, but I feel like I'm going crazy and need some insight.

Heres some background:

My boyfriend(M23) and I(F22) have been together for over 4 years. Back in October 2018 we moved states and got an apartment with his childhood/best friend(M20s). Let's call him C. I've only met and sparsely spoke with C so most of my knowledge of him has been through my bf. Theyve been friends forever so I figured he'd be a decent dude.

Jump forward to us all living together. We have a kinda small 2 bed 1 bath apartment. My bf and I in one room and he in the other. The only downside is how small our kitchen is. There's hardly room for 2 people to be in there at once and we have like zero counterspace.

Anyways, I soon realized that C is super fucking messy. Which I wouldn't really have a problem with if he cleaned up after himself like at all. Cause I'm a messy person too but I grew up in a household where if you made a mess, you cleaned it up as soon as you could. Common decency when living with other people right? 

This situation happens almost everyday. Im usually the first up in the morning to drink coffee and read in peace. I also clean the kitchen almost every morning. And by that I mean: load the dishwasher, handwash pots and pans, wipe down the counters and stove top and sweep. It maybe takes 20 minutes. No big deal at all. That is until later that night C comes in and makes the biggest mess. I'm talking pots and pans left on the stove with burned food sitting in them, 10 different bottles of spices on the counters, burned food and stuff all over the stove stop and counters I just cleaned earlier. Plus half the sink is full. You get the picture.

So when the kitchen is like this and I want to make food or basically do anything, I literally have to clean all this shit up because our kitchen is that small.

After the first month of this I was so done. My boyfriend could definitely tell how upset this made me and tried to do whatever he could to help. But what I want is C do be a damn adult and clean up after himself. Is that so much to ask for? Do I really have to ask him to clean his own messes? My bf and I do all the other cleaning in the apartment as well. We vacuum and clean the bathroom and take the garbage out.

This is turning into a rant but I wanted to give as much info as possible. Do you think I'm being unreasonable for wanting to live in a clean place? I'm so tired of cleaning up after him and it's come to the point where my bf literally has to tell him to clean but even then it's half assed and we clean again shortly after.

What are your thoughts reddit? Please tell me if I'm in the wrong and just need to suck it up. I honestly have no idea at this point. Thanks for reading
[A]:
RIGHT


