In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

Q:  

My girlfriend and i had been together for 5 years. My girlfriend had a music band for last 2 years and they have gone to other cities, schools, concerts together for 2 years... I was so badly to her in this 2 years for her careless and disrespectful moves. At the last event they have gone, i changed my whatsapp profile picture and she pushed me to end this relationship. After that break up; she was so close to guy who is in her music band. I tried to talk with her about that intimacy between of them and she said ''there is nothing, he is just a friend''. 2 months later, we talked and have been together again. We were happier, more respectful and more close. But after 4 months, she just started to being close to that guy in the band and everything was crap again. Then she wanted to breaking up with me and we just break up again. After that second separation; she was closer to that guy and that was so disturbing for me. I felt cheated and that is so humiliating. Her friends and his friends was thinking like me, they seemed lovers to everyone. And then i just found that guy and beated him badly. He was in hospital for 2 days. Then she just started to swear to me and humiliate me. And after 3 months of that event; she started to write to me. She started to say ''There was nothing between of us, just friends.''. But she was saying ''Yes, i have a feelings for him.'' to me all the time she was together with him. My psychology is fucked. I still love her but that was officially cheating for me. Should i return to her? Who is the asshole in this story?

A: WRONG
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Q: .. so I am renting a room from someone who rents her whole house out to cover her living expenses. I pay 500 a month, everything included. Shared bathroom, kitchen, etc. with two other roommates not including the homeowner.

I understand house rules, I understand common sense and courtesy. Especially since they are posted as a list on the refrigerator. One of those rules is there to be no eating in the rooms. 

Okay, so I am designated a shelf in the refrigerator. The first moment I put food in the fridge, I notice someone eating off of my shit. My family brought me home made Oreos dipped in chocolate and they were disappearing way faster than I was eating them. What the fuck?

So I brought all my food back into my room, except for a few "looks good, decoys(bullshit I don't eat) I left in the fridge" so I figure, hey, I have a bag of chips or whatever, I'm not going to walk outside and eat than go back in after I'm done when I have it right here? I make no mess and anything I do is cleaned beyond recognition. 

What gets me busted is the carrying of dishes and cups back and forth to my room. What's fucking crazy is that the homeowner complained about another roommate making noise cooking food in the kitchen at 2am which apperantly woke her up??

Am I the asshole?

A: WRONG
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Q: \[Throwaway\]

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My fiance(29M) and I(28F) are getting married at a music festival that has overnight camping. We invited a few close friends and a married couple that we'll call A(30M) and B(29F). It's a fair amount of money to go so we offered to buy everyone's tickets if they pay for their camping slots. (Camping slots are sold as 4-person tents so each person would pay for one quarter of a tent. Tickets are more expensive than camping slots.) Because it's a big decision and the festival does not do refunds, we gave them about 6 months to decide. After that, we got everyone's money who said yes and purchased everything. 

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A month later (6 months ago now), B separated from A. (It's a situation where she has grown a lot and he has been very stagnant, relying heavily on her for emotional support.) In that time, we've tried to figure out if she is still coming or what we should do. At first, she hadn't decided and then she stopped responding. Our wedding is now 2 months away and we told her we are just going forward as if she's not coming. She called us pretty much immediately to say sorry and that she's not coming. She didn't say anything about money. Weeks later she called and said that she just signed a new lease, lost her job, and needs her camping money back. We told her that it's already been spent, but that we'll re-ask the few people who originally said no and if any change their minds she can get her money back. Well, none of them did, so we told her sorry and left it at that. She responded that she'll just try to sell her ticket instead. 

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The thing is, the ticket is not hers to sell. We bought them, so if anyone should resell it for money it should be us. Both she and us are out money. Why should she then get money back and not us? I feel bad that she lost her job and is most likely getting divorced, but she made a commitment and backed out so she needs to deal. We haven't responded yet, but if I say no, WIBTA?

A:
RIGHT
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