In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

Ex Input:
So this story requires a bit of context and background. I live in a house with 4 other roommates (all early 20’s) we all have our own rooms, and for the most part get along well. However, one of our housemates gets very passive aggressive about things. He will get mad at us for being awake at 10:30 PM on the weekends playing music, come angrily address us all if one pan is in the sink for more than 30 minutes, and even took away the speaker we all chipped in on because “we were using it irresponsibly”. 

So the last two weeks he has been meal prepping each week and storing his meals in Tupperware. We each have only a little bit of space in the fridge, and have used the same shelves/drawers since September. He has been putting his food in the one drawer I use, and I have mentioned it to him twice. So yesterday I went to put away my groceries and his food was once again in my drawer. I had enough, so I took his food and left it out on the counter. It spoiled and he was extremely upset with me and got two other of our roommates to call me out on it. 

So Reddit, AITA? Is he? Does everybody suck here?

Ex Output:
WRONG


Ex Input:
I'm gonna try to keep this short but basically I (19) broke up with my boyfriend (22) of 10 months (my first relationship, his 7th?ish but longest) and I did so while referencing a list that I'd wrote; the list including how he'd been taking out his anger at other things on me and would just say "yeah, sure, fine, you're right" when I showed him proof that I wasn't doing the things he said only to bring them up later, it included the 3 times he didn't stop when I said no, and how he kept pushing me to do sexual things when we agreed that we'd stop because I didn't feel able to say no, an incident where he'd left me alone at his parents house (an hour away from mine) after promising he would help me move out of my parents that weekend because he spontaneously decided he wanted to go to their cottage, gave me 3 broken toes, a concussion, and a black eye accidently by doing unnecessarily dangerous things to me, or just straight up ignoring my wellbeing for his own comfort, refused when I kept asking him to get help for his problems, finally culminating in a month where he told me he didn't know if he wanted to be with me wherein I didn't sleep and had dozens of panic attacks a day because I'd become so isolated I thought he was the best, or the only thing, I'd ever get. The last straw for me was finding out that during that month he'd begun relentlessly flirting with other girls on social media, whether they were interested or not, and was taking another girl on dates near identical to our first dates, all while burying any posts of me under his woodworking and not telling any of them I existed.

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Now, as for why I wrote it all out; any other time we'd fought, he would yell and throw things I'd end up so exhausted from the flashbacks and panic it caused, he'd have a panic attack and I'd drop everything to take care of him even though he never stopped yelling or physically intimidating things, and I'd give up. The next day he'd promise he'd try to do better, and make me laugh and smile even though nothing had been solved. I didn't want to give in without having fixed anything this time so I wrote out the points I wanted to make on my phone and read them off my phone. I wanted him to realize everything that he'd done. I wanted him to never do that to anyone else. I wanted him to realize he needed help, and get better. To be completely honest, a part of me wanted him to try to make it all up to me. 

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I'm not proud of how I handled the breakup, I said a few things I regret (told him to rot when he asked me not to end it), but I agreed to be friends with him like he asked me to. Then, he changed his mind, so I said goodbye and he asked why it had to be "this existential". We've fought twice since the breakup and every time he says something like "why don't you send me the essay you wrote about me being a terrible person and I'll go over it with my therapist". (I know I shouldn't have kept talking to him, but I really wanted to help him get better). I recognize that the list was definitely weird, and probably a Bit Much^(TM), but am I an asshole for what I did?

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**TL;DR: wrote out a list of reasons I was breaking up with my ex because I didn't want to give in without getting it all off my chest and without solving anything as usual, AItA?**

Ex Output:
RIGHT


Ex Input:
Today I noticed one of my potted plants hanging off of the shelf where it normally sits. This usually means the baby got to it - she puts her feet on the bottom shelf and hoists herself up. Usually this section of the room is off-limits for this reason. The pot was nowhere to be found. Definitely the baby. As I went to fix it I noticed it was basically on the verge of death so I asked my SO if she knew it was like that.

Her: What plant?

Me: This plant

Her: Oh yeah, it's been that way for a week *shrugs*

*Note: I've been away on business and only recently returned home*

Me: (frustrated) Thanks. You could have said something about it, it's basically dead at this point

Her: How is this MY fault!? I didn't know it shouldn't be like that!

Me: How could you not know a plant shouldn't be hanging from a shelf without a pot? And when you found a random plant pot on the ground, saw a plant hanging off the shelf, and didn't either think that's not normal or to at least say anything to me? Also why was the baby left unattended (again!) long enough that she was able to climb up there, de-pot a plant, and then run around with the glass pot, also unattended? And you saw all of this and never thought anything was strange about it?

Her: Well I didn't know the plant needed a pot. I've only seen it once before this (when it was in a pot, on the shelf, like all the other plants)

It's worth mentioning that she has plenty of her own house plants - it's not just a me-only hobby that she's clueless about.

Who's TA here?

Ex Output:

RIGHT


