Detailed Instructions: In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
See one example below:
Problem: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Solution: RIGHT
Explanation: the author requests is justified.

Problem: Bit of context here. My SO has been friends with the girl for 6 years, they went to highschool together, they're close and they could be considered BF's. I met my SO through her, and she is also a close friend of mine.

We've known her boyfriend since they started dating so about 3-4 years. 

Now, they do this thing where we simply HAVE to spend every festive occasion together (NY for example, couple of years in a row), and we've also been taking winter/summer vacations with them.

Now, I don't exactly mind them, and while they can be fun, the two of them together can sometimes be toxic to be around, individually and  paired up, won't go into details but it can and did previously take from the vacationing experience.

Me and my SO both agree that we don't want to take our next summer vacation with them, and we tried toning their will down by saying we plan on moving in together so we can't really afford a vacation, and we thought we could just schedule a last minute one while they are already away. 

We also simply considered telling them nicely how we want to be left alone, since I don't want to deal with anyone else's baggage other than the two of us.

Are we the assholes for trying to weasel out of it, or would we be the assholes for telling them straight up, we wanna go alone? 

My SO fears that this would deeply hurt our friend because she has issues with being neglected, and would most likely take it to heart. 
Solution:
RIGHT