In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
One example is below.
Q: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
A: RIGHT
Rationale: the author requests is justified.
Q: I'm a foreigner, living in a European country and married a local there. After marriage, I said she should look for a job as the life was very expensive there and almost all of my salary was being used to pay bills and everything. After one year, she said she wanted to study master degree as it would help her to get a job that she wants. I agreed, she enrolled and completed a 2 year degree in almost 4 years.

After that I asked that she should be looking for jobs, and she sometimes sends the applications. But it seems to me that she has given up on everything. Most of the day she is on her computer playing video games, and then sleeping almost all day.

It is literally impossible to talk to her. As soon I try to talk, it always follow the same pattern:

**Step 1:** Crying

**Step 2:** Shouting while giving reasons: "I am applying for jobs, what can I do if no one wants to give me job?"

**Step 3:** Blame me ("I had to move to this city because of you, it ruined my life as I did not want to move")

**Step 4:** throwing things and screaming that I'm the asshole who is not being any help to her.

I don't know what i should do. I want to get out of this situation but i feel guilty and i feel that maybe I am a terrible person.

AITA?
A:
RIGHT