In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
One example: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Solution is here: RIGHT
Explanation: the author requests is justified.

Now, solve this: So I started working at Subway over the summer and began working with a teen in my grade and she’s cool. We have a lot of fun together at work and she’s my favorite person to work with. However I always thought of her as more of a friend. 

Then one night she said she was mad at me because I didn’t come to a party she had. (Mind you I already had made plans and there was drinking and vaping and I’m not about all that) anyways I asked if that was why she was mad and she said it was also because of something else. I kept asking what it was but she wouldn’t say. All she said was that a clue was her snapchat story from 2 days ago. The story was about telling your crush you like them. I put 2 and 2 together and realized that she was mainly mad at me because I didn’t realize she had a crush on me. I felt bad because I didn’t like her in the way she liked me and I figured I should let her know. I told her and I feel like she was kinda upset. 

AITA for telling her this and not realizing that she liked me sooner?
Solution:
RIGHT