Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.

Let me give you an example: So on one hand I don't think it's the best thing but at the same time it's led her to talking about how she cut(s) herself and a kid who told her to shoot herself which she wouldn't have talked about otherwise.
The answer to this example can be: not answerable
Here is why: Here there is no information about how severe the situation was or what was her reaction after telling this to the author. We also do not know whether she told this on purpose or not. More information is needed to determine who is at fault here.

OK. solve this:
Its just a short one, some of my friends are true pushovers, I think they live in the fetal position at all times. Am I an asshole for getting wound up at that? I vent at my girlfriend alot and she tells me to just get over it, but I cant. Don't know what it is but I feel the need to shake them and wake them up when they do it. I don't want to go into specifics, just in general is my question I guess.

This post is quite rambly because I'm wound up at the moment haha, my girlfriend thinks it's a problem. Would this annoy you?
Answer:
not answerable