Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).
One example: Pretty much was hanging out with two friends. I was watching the Lakers game. They won at the very last minute and I immediately hopped up and celebrated. Before I could even finish celebrating one friend started going on about how the Lakers suck. It just pissed me off so much I screamed at her to get out my room until she left. 


She knows I'm a huge fan and she likes them too. She was only saying it to antagonize me. Am I the dick here?
Solution is here: AUTHOR
Explanation: It is very rude to shout at someone and ask her to leave the room even if her comments may have antagonized the author. Hence author is at fault here.

Now, solve this: My work colleagues said I was the asshole for this so I would like more opinions.

I asked out a girl that I’d been flirting with for a while at the gym. She’s a bit younger than I am (28 vs 23) and I could tell during the date that she was a bit insecure about this. 

It was a good date and when it was time to pay, she told me she’d cover both our tabs. I asked if she was sure and she said yes. So I let her pay.

It’s probably pertinent to mention that given our career fields and ages, I definitely make substantially more than she does, which is part of why my coworkers said I’m an asshole, on top of not paying when I asked her out. AITA?
Solution:
NOBODY