In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
One example: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Solution is here: RIGHT
Explanation: the author requests is justified.

Now, solve this: Im on mobile so apologiez for formatting etc.

To start off this was a little while ago and my grandmother asked for help finding something, i helped her look as best i could for a few hours and over the course of that all i was receiving was yelling and insults. 

After awhile i eventually got mad and yelled at her to stop acting like such a bitch that i was doing the best i could. Obviously this did not help but were on a non talking stalemate

Other family members have said i was in the wrong and i feel i am in some regards.

AITA?

Solution:
RIGHT