In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".
One example: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Solution is here: RIGHT
Explanation: the author requests is justified.

Now, solve this: My dad was pretty much abandoned by his mother, and they had a terrible relationship. He was open and honest with me about this. I have only seen her maybe 5 or 6 times in my life. I received a card from her every now and then, and I called her and said thank you each time, but her and I never had a relationship.

Yesterday my dad came to my apartment and told me she had been admitted to a hospital and had cancer, and he asked me to go to Tennessee (We live in Texas) with him to visit her. I told him I have work (which is true) and that I was not really interested in driving there to see her. He then told me he was going to take my car, since it had better gas mileage and I just laughed at him and said no. Now he is guilt tripping me because I didn’t go. So AITA?
Solution:
RIGHT