Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, judge whether or not a specific person is wrong here. Answer 'not answerable' if more information is required and 'answerable' if all the information is sufficient to answer who is wrong in this situation.
One example is below.
Q: So on one hand I don't think it's the best thing but at the same time it's led her to talking about how she cut(s) herself and a kid who told her to shoot herself which she wouldn't have talked about otherwise.
A: not answerable
Rationale: Here there is no information about how severe the situation was or what was her reaction after telling this to the author. We also do not know whether she told this on purpose or not. More information is needed to determine who is at fault here.
Q: So basically my friend has been seeing this boy for about six months. They've had issues from the very beginning of the relationship but lately it's seems like it's getting worse. She constantly comes to me and our other friends crying about things this boy said to her/did to her/ the way he treats her. Some of these things I would describe as borderline emotional abusive.

I tried being very supportive at first but at this point it's been so long the only advice I can really give her is to walk away from the relationship, and we've offered to help her with that/help her get help. She basically flat out states she isn't willing to do this or even willing to see this boy less. In addition, 90% of the time after we're done listening to her and trying to provide support, she goes straight to this boys house.

I basically told my friend that until she's willing to do something about it, I can't hear about it anymore. It's emotionally tolling on me to see my friend in pain and not be able to do anything about it.  However, she has basically told my other friends that I'm isolating her and making the situation worse.

AITA for telling her not to come to me until she's willing to change? Should I just suck it up and listen?
A:
answerable