Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
One example: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Background: I have ocd and the only contamination issue I have is around food. Both parents know this. What has lead me to ask this question is this mornings reaction from parent B.

This morning parent b offered to make me breakfast, I responded how I always do: that’s very kind but I’m happy to come make it myself. Parent b said it was no trouble. I accepted. Two slices of toast came and apu I check the toast for signs of mould. First piece had no issues, I ate it. Second piece however had something green growing on the edge. I cut this bit off but I couldn’t shake in my head that the whole piece must be contaminated and so I took the toast back and apologised that I couldn’t eat it cos of the mould and we checked the date on the bread and it said the 30th December. Nearly a week past its best before. Parent b apologised and we threw it away. No drama.

Nearly identical situation occurred about 6 months ago with parent a. Parent a offered to make me a toasted sandwich. I said that would be very kind but I was happy to make it myself. Parent a said it was no problem, I accepted. When the sandwich came I checked the bread for mould and found green and white stuff growing down one side of the bread. I take it back to the kitchen and explain that it has mould and I’m sorry but I can’t eat it. I will make myself something else. Parent a goes ballistic. I’m “ungrateful and don’t trust them and did I really think they’d feed me mould?” I pointed out the mould- clearly visible. “Well someone must’ve not sealed the bread package properly (ie me) and that’s how it got mouldy.” I asked if parent a had checked the date and that just seemed to escalate their reaction. They stormed out screaming and crying. I checked the bread date and it was 2 or 3 days past the best before.

Aita in either situation? Parent a’s reaction made me think I was. But now I’ve had the same situation with parent b and they didn’t get angry or pissed off maybe I wasn’t the asshole? Obviously I think I need to just make my own food. Then I can’t cause trouble.
Solution is here: yes
Explanation: The post clearly mentions an event in the past when the author asked some questions to his/her parents and also describes about their reactions on that day. Hence this should be HISTORICAL.

Now, solve this: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My paternal grandmother died this summer. Two of her kids live hours away. They also have teenaged children. For the last few years, Grandma's health was in decline. She wasn't in much physical pain, but she was certainly limited in what she could and couldn't do. My Dad visited her everyday. This started after I went to college also hours away. When I'd visit, I'd offer to go see Grandma and help out so Dad could take a break. Dad insisted I go there with him and "just visit with Grandma". I did. This continued even after I moved back in with them to recover from an extensive surgery. When I could drive again, I took Grandma to a few errands locally and occasionally to lunch. Dad still attended her doctors appointments. My mother (to whom he's still married and lives with) would also volunteer to help Grandma out. I'm told she would plan to take Grandma to the doctors on days she was off work, but Dad took a day off anyway and insisted only he and Grandma go. This was the pattern for a few years.

One day, I had to be in my Aunt Cheryl's town and she and I spent some together. We talked about Grandma and she confirmed what I had always suspected. She had offered to come and visit a few times, but Dad insisted she stay home with her family. He said he could take on the bulk of it because his only child (me) was out of the house. When Grandma was feeling up to traveling she'd stay with them once a week every so often. Her kids would still need her. I know that all of her kids would call at least once a day and usually would video chat as well.

So this summer. Grandma passed. It was sad for us all. All of her children were with her at her deathbed and she saw them all during her final days in which she was conscious. At her funeral, my half-sister (maternal) left in the middle. Out (maternal) aunt "Heidi" was watching her infant son and she was going back so Heidi could attend the funeral. I went with her to Heidi's house so we could stop on the way and get something from my parents house.

I should preface this by saying that Heidi and I have had problems for a while now. Heidi is white trash and a complete asshole. She bosses my mother around and is an all around unpleasant person. I wish my sister wouldn't use her for childcare, but I'm told the arrangement will end soon. Anyway, as Heidi, her husband and I were on our way back I told her how the funeral was going who was there... Heidi made the gem of a comment "If only her kids cared enough to see her while she was alive" she also called them "vultures" for going through Grandma's jewelry too soon. I wanted to spit in her face, but we were arriving to the funeral so I held it in.

Afterwards I told my mother that I want nothing to do with Heidi until she apologizes. Heidi has done some shitty things in her life, but to insult my grandmothers children at her funeral (or on the way, for a point at me being the asshole, we were in her car in the road and no one else would hear) is my limit. Unless Heidi apologizes, she's out of my life. I told Mom that if I see Heidi when I go to visit I don't care what time it is or what the weather, I'm getting my things, getting in my car and driving home. The holidays are coming and I'm reiterating to my mother, I don't care if it's my nephews first holiday season, I see Heidi, I'm out. My mom has always kowtowed to her siblings and I know this is causing her stress. She's insisting that Heidi was kind to my Grandma in life and spent time with her while she was sick. I've told my sister this as well, my sister made similar disgusting comments. I've told her off. I'm giving my sister leeway due to stress from raising a baby. I intend to keep up on my promise. I haven't told my Dad what Heidi said or my ultimatum.

tl;dr: 

- Aunt insulted my grandmothers children on her way to her funeral
- Aunt and grandmother are on different branches of the family and unrelated
- My mother insists that my aunt spent time with Grandma while she was sick and they were friendly while Grandma was alive
- The insult was uncalled for and blaming them for making choices in a hard time
- If I see Heidi while vising my parents I'm leaving
- My mother won't acknowledge what Heidi said was wrong and is stressed that I'm causing a rift

I feel it necessary to close by saying, I will never be violent with Heidi. She isn't worth jail time. I may insult her loudly but overall I jsut want to never see her again.
Solution:
yes