Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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Q: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
A: wanting to wear a shirt
Rationale: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: A little bit of background: I (F19) have a friend (F18) who we'll call W. So W and I have known one another for six months. We went to school together as kids but never really talked, but hit it off when we met again at work.

Our job is hell and the whole place is filled with problems that I won't even begin to unpack here, so we want out of there as soon as possible. 

I've done everything I could to be a supportive friend. The first time that W came to my family's house, she spent 26 hours in my home, only leaving for 2 to go with her boyfriend to the hospital to see a family member. Her boyfriend was probably at the house for a total of 8 hours. This, by the way, was my first time meeting him.

I bent over backwards to be a good hostess. I accomodated W in every way. I made pizza, hot chocolate, tea, a snack tray, gave them candy and Christmas gifts and even gave her clothes. I remade a few of her drinks because she didn't like them. I was overly accommodating because, frankly, I'm a dork and haven't had a friend who actually wanted me around in years. So I really wanted to impress her. Stupid, I know, but all my life I've been the meek, submissive friend who goes along with whatever the other person wants because I don't want to be all sad and alone. 

But she quickly took advantage of me. I started paying for everything, being the host every time, giving up on pre-made plans to run W's errands with her, and even helping her hunt for jobs. She wants to get hired in at the same place as me so that we can "work together and hang out." I don't like this idea and I don't think she has a good work ethic - she isn't someone I would want tied to me when trying to get hired somewhere.

Nevertheless, I caved in and sent her a list of at least 7 jobs I had been considering applying to. Just yesterday I went pounding the pavement and submitting applications. I told her what I was doing because I hadn't replied to her for hours, and didn't want her to think I was just ignoring her, as she gets pissy very easily. If the conversation stops being about her, she ends it. W is also very insecure and jealous, and I see that being a problem if I were to succeed and her fall behind. She can be very spiteful. 

For example, her boyfriend (M19) and I have a lot in common. We have very similar personalities and the same sense of humor. W is very flat and doesn't get a lot of jokes. She hates movies, comedy, etc. and tends to scold her boyfriend a lot when he makes jokes or acts goofy. I, however, get the old stand-up references he makes and very frequently we either think or say the same thing. Her boyfriend is also very well-mannered and appreciative, whereas she is not. He always thanks me and my family, acts respectfully and apologizes for W's attitude and/or behavior. He called her out when she made a dig at my weight and apologized on her behalf. 

Though, I think W takes this all  to be more than it really is. I see it as just being friendly, but she does not. The only issue I could see, or understand, is that her boyfriend is a hugger. He hugs everyone. Hell, he hugged my mom twice as soon as he met her. He'll hug me hello and goodbye every time I see them. If he forgets to, he gets out of the car to do it. According to W, he has autism. I'm not very educated on autism, so I'm not sure if this is common with people who are on the spectrum, or if it's behavior that is unique to him. 

So that, what we have in common, and her insecurity paints a very muddy picture. She acts very territorial, randomly says that he is "her man" and kisses him, straddles him or full on gooses him right next to me. It's uncomfortable as hell. I have a boyfriend as well, but I wouldn't dare make out with him in her bedroom or smack his ass when she's standing close enough to hear the reverberation from his cheeks. 

So, naturally, when I admitted I was out applying to jobs, she immediately wanted to know where I applied so she could apply as well. I said no, and she got pouty and abandoned the conversation. All of this has made me not only want to stop helping her look for work, but also stop being her friend. I feel stuck, though, since I don't have many friends to begin with. I'm naturally the kind of person who puts my friends before myself. So I'm not sure whether or not I need to cut her off or if I'm being selfish and should help her out. 


TL;DR - 

AITA for not wanting to go to a new job with someone who walks all over me, treats me like I'm less than her and belittles my job/experience in front of my own family, calls me fat and compares me to her physically in front of her family/boyfriend, and doesn't work hard? 

IMO I've done a lot for this girl. I've been there for her through tough times, helped her clean up for her boyfriend to impress him, given her loads of gifts and treated her to food in almost every outing. I take a lot of shit from her, including jabs at my body/general appearance, my intelligence, my position at our company, etc. Do I have grounds to be upset/ditch her ass, or am I just being self-centered? 
A:
not helping my friend get a job alongside me