Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Example input: My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Example output: wanting to wear a shirt
Example explanation: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.
Q: Im sorry if this is really long and incomprehensible, I'm rage typing right now.

First, just a little backstory: My parents are currently going through a divorce and let's just say they arent acting the most amicable towards each other. I'm already an "adult" (I'm 19) so this isnt a matter of who gets custody or that type of thing, so in my opinion I dont think I even need to be involved with the whole situation. However, they are involving me and it's starting to annoy the shit out of me. Sometimes it feels as if they treat me like a therapist because all they do when I'm with one of them is listen to their ranting and say shit like "yeah" "uh huh" "wow" "sure". They like to talk shit about each other to me and idk it kinda feels a little manipulative like they're trying to get me on their "side". I live and go to school in a different city so most of the time I can get away from all the bullshit, except now I'm back for the holidays and it hasn't even been 36 hours and I'm already losing my shit. I honestly dont know if I will be able to last the 3 weeks. 

Back to today: I was lucky enough that my parents set aside some money for me to use when I go to college, and right now my father has control of all of it (he has always been the one to take care of financial matters so this is normal). Today, my mother told me to tell my dad that "I want access to my money". This is in quotations because she basically gave me the script on what to tell my father, so essentially she didnt even ask me what I wanted to do and now I have to lie. The reason she wants me to do this is because within the next few days my dad is flying back to his home country for a couple of months to chill until things here settle down and she is worried that once he leaves we wont be able to access the papers, go to the bank and get control of the money. My mother is under the impression (even though she denies it) that my father will take the money and spend it on some other woman and start a new family and forget all about me and I wont have anything left. I feel bad because yeah I love my mom but she is so incredibly hard to live with. She does things impulsively and doesnt always react logically to situations. She has had a history of "gambling debt" (that's what my dad told me but idk if I can trust him because he could just be saying that to manipulate me) which is why I for sure would not trust her with my money. And if I'm being honest idk if I could trust my dad with my money either because what if he really does just use it all and forget about me. The only person I believe right now is myself. I went out to dinner with my dad tonight to see him before he leaves and that was when I was supposed to perform my given script. When I got home and my mom asked if I told him what I was supposed to, i obviously told her no. She starts going on a rant telling me that "you shouldn't trust your father he is a bad person", "he is manipulating you", "you dont understand, I'm doing this for you" that kind of thing. Ever since I've been little, whenever my mom starts going off at me I shut down and dont respond to anything because even attempting to say how I feel will result in the waterworks. After about 10 minutes of this I lose my shit and basically tell my mom that "i dont care what you tell me to do, i will do whatever i want. Stop getting me involved in all of this, I dont care what happens to the money, etc etc." 

The truth is that I do want to be able to access my college money but really from just a "help me learn about all this financial stuff point of view". But I dont want my dad to think I dont trust him. I also get that what I said to my mom may come off a bit entitled, I kind of lost my shit and just wanted her to leave me alone. Am I the asshole for 1.) Being mad at my parents for not wanting to get involved with any divorce stuff, 2.) Not reciting the script that my mom gave me, 3.) Basically telling my mom to fuck off when I wouldn't tell my dad what she told me to tell him, 4.) Not caring enough about what happens to money that will be important if I want to continue school after my bachelors, and lastly 5.) Am I the asshole for not wanting to be around any of them, like seriously, I have a history of depression and ever since I moved away to college I have never been happier, it's only when I have to go back home that my mental health gets worse.
A:
blatantly ignoring my mother because I dont want to be her "puppet"