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Q: Three things to know:
1) tomorrow is my brothers birthday
2) my other brother is moving halfway around the world in 2 days
3) my boyfriend has a severe anxiety disorder 

My boyfriends anxiety has been acting up really badly lately and I need to be there for him. However he was meant to have a shift at his volunteering tomorrow so I was going to go spend time with my brothers all together  for the last time until Christmas.

Because of my boyfriends anxiety he’s had to cancel his shift. I can’t bring him to the family event.

Would I be an asshole if I left my boyfriend at home alone while he’s in a really bad mental health space to go spend time with my brothers?
A: 
spending time with my family